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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 01:25 PM Apr 2012

"Women don't get into trouble the way men do"

Secret Service scandal raises question of macho culture, women agents

The scandal over allegations that Secret Service agents brought prostitutes to their hotel rooms in Colombia ahead of a visit by U.S. President Barack Obama keeps growing. And with it come awkward questions about whether a strong macho element in the culture of the U.S. Secret Service could pose a threat to security, and how women agents fit into the picture.

Journalist and commentator Kiri Blakeley asked in a blog post Tuesday why there are not more female Secret Service agents to counter this kind of bad behavior.

"The reason there should be more is simple: Women don't get into trouble the way men do," she wrote.

"Seriously, can you imagine a bunch of Secret Service gals going on a trip to Colombia, where they are scheduled to secure the environment for their boss, who happens to be, oh, the most powerful man in the world, and then hiring a bunch of call guys?" she asks.

The identities of the 11 Secret Service agents implicated in the investigation have not been disclosed, nor have those of as many as 10 U.S. military personnel also suspected of involvement. But it is widely assumed they are all men.

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Women are also better suited than their male counterparts to do some things, Robinson said, such as accompanying the first lady if she makes a restroom stop.

http://www.cnn.com/2012/04/18/us/secret-service-women/index.html

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"Women don't get into trouble the way men do" (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Apr 2012 OP
all about privilege. nt seabeyond Apr 2012 #1
Hmm, I'm thinking..... snooper2 Apr 2012 #2
So women never make poor decisions due to biological urges? 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #3
No, never... Ian David Apr 2012 #6
Sure they do, which is why so many of us are beaten in our homes Warpy Apr 2012 #8
That's true, women never join in on such group shenanigans. 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #10
Nope, not at all. Zalatix Apr 2012 #11
I guess you don't know what the word "seldom" means Warpy Apr 2012 #18
The misbehaving men in that photo being the prisoners, then? Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #20
I think it's more likely that it was a pack of males following a misbehaving woman 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #42
You found one example, oh boy... undeterred Apr 2012 #50
Never? SATIRical Apr 2012 #12
Why do you think there are so many female hookers and so few male hookers? XemaSab Apr 2012 #24
So, Women Are Immune To Impulsive Sexual Urges? Yavin4 Apr 2012 #4
It's the rock star's fault, not hers. Zalatix Apr 2012 #5
Answer this: SATIRical Apr 2012 #13
Never Said That Women Are As "Sexually Driven" As Men Yavin4 Apr 2012 #23
It does imply, however, SATIRical Apr 2012 #28
No. It Does Not Imply That At All. That's Your Interpretation. Yavin4 Apr 2012 #29
show me ONE (sex) scandal involving a group of women, with comparable Scout Apr 2012 #31
Maybe the problem is the thought that sex between consenting adults is "scandalous" Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #32
How 'bout a Governor? jeff47 Apr 2012 #35
Indubitably, a man made her do it. Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #37
Not always, but often it does SATIRical Apr 2012 #33
Once Again, You're Trying to Divert the Discussion into a Debate Over Sex Drive Yavin4 Apr 2012 #36
Wait! I thought gender was an artificial construct. Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #39
Try making the biological argument for why more men get in to positions of leadership 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #48
Pretty dumb statement... trumad Apr 2012 #7
Yes but it's almost always male students in those incidents 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #9
There's no such thing as "macho culture". shcrane71 Apr 2012 #14
It is in a secret service agent's job description to take a bullet for the president. nt lumberjack_jeff Apr 2012 #15
Well, obviously. Everyone knows men are better than women, men are more moral than women Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #16
i love all the comprehension fail in the replies... Scout Apr 2012 #17
No, she said "women don't get into trouble the way men do", which is a generalization Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #19
people can set up a situation where they get a hooker to find out info on president and other things JI7 Apr 2012 #25
Yes, and a very alarming potential hypothetical situation that is, indeed. Warren DeMontague Apr 2012 #26
hahha , this is naive, sex is one of the easiest ways to get at guys , and nobody is saying they JI7 Apr 2012 #27
Post #4 and #7 already covered this point. No comprehension fail there. Zalatix Apr 2012 #22
Men don't get pregnant 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #43
No, women get in trouble in different ways than men, MadHound Apr 2012 #21
Is a shit statement. Rex Apr 2012 #30
Do I NEED to post links to the female teachers screwing underage students? Zax2me Apr 2012 #34
Women don't get into trouble the way men do, all right meow2u3 Apr 2012 #38
Female Genital Mutilation Quantess Apr 2012 #40
This is true. There are some things that are gender based that are true. nt Honeycombe8 Apr 2012 #41
Thank you for simplifying loyalsister Apr 2012 #45
Wrong. ananda Apr 2012 #44
Goodness varelse Apr 2012 #46
Is this news? Beacool Apr 2012 #47
I can't think of any female presidents we've had that were taken down by a sex-scandal 4th law of robotics Apr 2012 #49
The day when we finally have a female president, Beacool Apr 2012 #52
Sexism. Complimentary sexism, but sexism treestar Apr 2012 #51
 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
3. So women never make poor decisions due to biological urges?
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 01:44 PM
Apr 2012

That's news to me.

/flip the genders around and this would simply be flame bait.

Warpy

(114,615 posts)
8. Sure they do, which is why so many of us are beaten in our homes
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 02:25 PM
Apr 2012

However, women make those decisions individually and privately and seldom travel in packs, trash hotels, hire a whole group of fancy boys and then refuse to pay the bill because they're so entitled.

"Girls night out" can get boozy and raunchy. It rarely achieves the sheer ugliness of the Tailhook Convention or the mess in Colombia.

Warpy

(114,615 posts)
18. I guess you don't know what the word "seldom" means
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 04:57 PM
Apr 2012

Do look it up. It's an interesting addition to anyone's vocabulary.

Besides, your own illustration shows a woman following along with a pack of misbehaving men.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
20. The misbehaving men in that photo being the prisoners, then?
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 05:19 PM
Apr 2012

Nice to know how, when a man does something "bad", it's the man's fault. When a woman does something "bad", well, it must be the fault of some man, somewhere.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
42. I think it's more likely that it was a pack of males following a misbehaving woman
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 11:47 AM
Apr 2012

since we're making up stuff and assigning blame based on gender.

 

SATIRical

(261 posts)
12. Never?
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 03:48 PM
Apr 2012

Who said never?

If you think women are equally as sexually driven as men, you need to do some research (or be a guy).

 

Yavin4

(37,182 posts)
4. So, Women Are Immune To Impulsive Sexual Urges?
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 01:47 PM
Apr 2012

That's news to me and every major rock star in known history.

 

SATIRical

(261 posts)
13. Answer this:
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 03:50 PM
Apr 2012

If women are as sexually driven as men, why are there so many more female prostitutes?

Didn't the male prostitutes at the Bunny Ranch quit due to a lack of business?

 

Yavin4

(37,182 posts)
23. Never Said That Women Are As "Sexually Driven" As Men
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 09:46 PM
Apr 2012

I made an ironic post about women being immune to acting on sexual impulses.

No, most women are not as sexually driven as most men. However, that does not mean that they aren't impulsive sexually.

 

SATIRical

(261 posts)
28. It does imply, however,
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 09:47 AM
Apr 2012

that the frequency and intensity of the stupid choices based on sexual drive are less.

 

Yavin4

(37,182 posts)
29. No. It Does Not Imply That At All. That's Your Interpretation.
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 03:42 PM
Apr 2012

And you want to argue with me over your mis-interpretation.

The original article in the post made a generalization that women SS agents would not engage in this kind of sexually risky behavior, and I made the point that it's simply not true. Women do engage in sexually, impulsive risky behaviors as well.

One's gender does not dictate one's action.

Scout

(8,625 posts)
31. show me ONE (sex) scandal involving a group of women, with comparable
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 04:11 PM
Apr 2012

jobs to Secret Service agents.

not an individual woman, and not a group of women with low (or no) profile jobs that require security clearance, etc. the same as a secret service agent.

show me more if you can.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
32. Maybe the problem is the thought that sex between consenting adults is "scandalous"
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 04:19 PM
Apr 2012

Sorry, I'm just not feeling the outrage, here.

 

SATIRical

(261 posts)
33. Not always, but often it does
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 04:34 PM
Apr 2012

Most guys I know have never worn a bra or inserted a tampon inside themselves. Whereas most women I know have.

Far more men view porn than women.
Far more men rape others than women.
Men are more likely to have an affair than women.

If biology is not a major factor in those choices, please explain what is.

 

Yavin4

(37,182 posts)
36. Once Again, You're Trying to Divert the Discussion into a Debate Over Sex Drive
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 07:13 PM
Apr 2012

And, I conceded the point that most men have a stronger sex drive than most women. Not arguing that point.

What I am arguing is the presumption that women DO NOT engage in impulsive, risky sexual encounters. That's simply not true. Do I need to post the recent case of the Bengals Cheerleader/Teacher that had an inappropriate relationship with a student?

There are also stories of women who vacation to the Caribbean to pick up local men.

Sorry, but just saying that only men engage in these kinds of things is a gross generalization, and inaccurate.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
39. Wait! I thought gender was an artificial construct.
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 09:35 PM
Apr 2012

And porn? Really, very few guys watch porn, and the ones that do only do it because they've been programmed by the space patriarchy to be turned on by images of naked women. It's certainly not biological.

Or so I've heard.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
48. Try making the biological argument for why more men get in to positions of leadership
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 03:39 PM
Apr 2012

or why they are more likely to start a company or give up time with their families for career advancement leading to greater earning potential or . . .

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
7. Pretty dumb statement...
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 02:09 PM
Apr 2012

Have you seen the list of school teachers having affairs with students....???

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
9. Yes but it's almost always male students in those incidents
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 02:39 PM
Apr 2012

So that's men making poor decisions and tricking those poor women in to affairs they wanted no part in (women don't even think about sex except in disgust or perhaps pity for men).

shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
14. There's no such thing as "macho culture".
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 04:02 PM
Apr 2012

I mean doesn't everyone listen to Limbaugh??? Boys will be boys!

Poor men. They're being persecuted. I mean, we don't even know if the secret service agents were men. They all could be women.

One thing is sure, they put the president's life at risk. Everyone involved should be fired and barred from any sort of law enforcement position.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
16. Well, obviously. Everyone knows men are better than women, men are more moral than women
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 04:30 PM
Apr 2012

Really, women are simply unsuitable for lots of jobs that men are suited for.



If this post bothers you, reverse the genders.

Scout

(8,625 posts)
17. i love all the comprehension fail in the replies...
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 04:36 PM
Apr 2012

read again, here is what she said:

"The reason there should be more is simple: Women don't get into trouble the way men do," she wrote.

"Seriously, can you imagine a bunch of Secret Service gals going on a trip to Colombia, where they are scheduled to secure the environment for their boss, who happens to be, oh, the most powerful man in the world, and then hiring a bunch of call guys?" she asks.


did she say women NEVER get into trouble or make mistakes? NO.

did she say women are perfect? NO.

did she say there should only be women SS agents? NO.

so untwist your knickers. prove her wrong, if you can.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
19. No, she said "women don't get into trouble the way men do", which is a generalization
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 05:17 PM
Apr 2012

but lest anyone think that there is an excessive amount of hysterical pearl-clutching going on, I'd like to ask what EXACTLY sort of "trouble" there was. Did the hooker situation directly interfere with anyone's ability to do their jobs?

Oh, I know we're mad mad MADDDD! about it, but aside from causing scandalous heavens-to-betsy outrage, what was the PRECISE real-world impact of the behavior on the job performance, if any?

JI7

(93,615 posts)
25. people can set up a situation where they get a hooker to find out info on president and other things
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 10:00 PM
Apr 2012

which can put the president and whoever the secret service is protecting at risk.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
26. Yes, and a very alarming potential hypothetical situation that is, indeed.
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 02:19 AM
Apr 2012

Still, there's no evidence that anything like that happened. A lot of things COULD happen.

For instance, agents could also become involved with non "hooker" spies or otherwise people pretending to be something other than what they are. If an agent is going to compromise information to a sex partner, what evidence is there that they're more likely to compromise information to a sex partner they're paying for a one night stand, as opposed to one they met "legitimately" and are involved in a "genuine" relationship with?

Maybe the answer is to have the president guarded by Priests? Eunuchs?

I mean, since we're already off in hypothetical land.

JI7

(93,615 posts)
27. hahha , this is naive, sex is one of the easiest ways to get at guys , and nobody is saying they
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 03:00 AM
Apr 2012

can't ever have sex. they were on the job at the time.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
43. Men don't get pregnant
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 11:58 AM
Apr 2012

nor do they have suffer monthly variations in brain altering hormone levels.

Now I'm not saying all women are baby-crazy or suffering from raging PMS. Obviously, there are few who can suck it up and ignore their many biological faults enough to do the job.

But in general the failings of women as a gender makes them less suited to be SS agents than men.

Also what if there's jar opening or parallel parking in the job description?

/apparently it's ok to use blatant gender stereotypes so long as you say it doesn't apply to *every* member of that gender.

 

MadHound

(34,179 posts)
21. No, women get in trouble in different ways than men,
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 05:21 PM
Apr 2012

But they get in trouble nevertheless.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
30. Is a shit statement.
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 03:43 PM
Apr 2012

Anyone can get into 'trouble' if we are talking about sex and not treating it like this is Health class in H.S. and an actual topic of debate.

I can already see it will never be.

 

Zax2me

(2,515 posts)
34. Do I NEED to post links to the female teachers screwing underage students?
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 05:02 PM
Apr 2012

Google returns more results than you can keep up with.

meow2u3

(25,250 posts)
38. Women don't get into trouble the way men do, all right
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 07:58 PM
Apr 2012

Women get in trouble for a hell of a lot less.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
40. Female Genital Mutilation
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 09:38 PM
Apr 2012

There ya go... to keep those women from straying their husbands. They won't feel a thing!

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
45. Thank you for simplifying
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 12:51 PM
Apr 2012

Women are more likely to follow rules and generally less inclined to take such risks. It has biological and social roots.
more likely clearly does not presume all or never.

You have to consider that the rules are different for men and women in the first place.

Things that were considered rebellious for women for most of the 20th century:
Getting an education
Participating in sports. Particularly those involving physical risk.
Working
Not marrying
Divorce
Not having children
Trying to own property, have credit under her name, etc.
And of course, sex before marriage
Many people are still not ready to accept women in male dominated professions.

All of the above, have been pretty much always accepted for men either under male entitlement or "boys will be boys" permission. The assumptions that drove those mores are still present in American culture and some of those behaviors are still considered rebellious for women by some.

Men and women both do it, but they do it differently. Mostly because what qualifies as rebellion is different for men and women. When men rebel it is often much more extreme because they have to go farther to break rules.


ananda

(35,142 posts)
44. Wrong.
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 12:03 PM
Apr 2012

My middle name is Trouble with a capital T!

That's why I'm changing jobs and just got an iPad.

Beacool

(30,517 posts)
47. Is this news?
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 02:40 PM
Apr 2012

When was the last time that a powerful woman was brought down by a sexual scandal? I can't even think of one at the moment. While the list of men is interminable and goes beyond party affiliation. Can anyone imagine Angela Merkel, Hillary or Nancy Pelosi behaving like Bill C., Spitzer, Vitter, Gingrich, etc.?

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
49. I can't think of any female presidents we've had that were taken down by a sex-scandal
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 03:41 PM
Apr 2012

but there could be another reason for that . . .

Beacool

(30,517 posts)
52. The day when we finally have a female president,
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 01:18 PM
Apr 2012

she wouldn't be taken down by a sex scandal for the simple reason that women who have reached the pinnacle of power wouldn't be stupid enough to risk it all over a fling.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
51. Sexism. Complimentary sexism, but sexism
Sat Apr 21, 2012, 06:45 PM
Apr 2012

Women are said to be more virtuous than men. That's a sop thrown at us to hope we'll keep our place.

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