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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSports Illustrated cover - practically porn?
Wow!! Hannah Davis, Derek Jeter's girlfriend, is wearing practically no bottom on the cover of SI swimsuit edition. Why don't they just stop the pretense and call this porn?? She has her suit pulled so far down, you can see everything but her actual genitalia.
This is a magazine that they have delivered to mailboxes, on the newsstands, and in doctors' offices. I'm amazed and wonder - how far will they go?? I could go on about objectifying women ad nauseum, but obviously, there are many women desperate to be objectified, and do it willingly, but for a mainstream magazine, this is a bridge too far, in my view. I would have hidden this from my teenage sons when I used to get them SI.
(And I wonder what Jeter's very conservative parents make of this - I have a feeling this is the death knell to this relationship since he seems to care so much what they think._
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2940598/Hannah-Davis-named-Sports-Illustrated-swimsuit-edition-s-cover-girl-year-one-magazine-s-revealing-shots-yet.html?offset=0&max=100&reply=76079723&jumpTo=comment-76079723#comment-76079723
snooper2
(30,151 posts)If someone posts the cover will it be alerted on?
Odds?
adigal
(7,581 posts)MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Sorry, but it's just not. Her naughty bits are covered. No visible vulva; no hide.
adigal
(7,581 posts)Almost everything is showing - and the point is that this is a magazine that is on grocery store newsstands.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)A naked adult smiling into a camera is porn?
adigal
(7,581 posts)It's to sell magazines
zappaman
(20,627 posts)Is that correct?
adigal
(7,581 posts)It has to do with intent. Thanks!!!
zappaman
(20,627 posts)How her being naked in that pose would be considered porn.
adigal
(7,581 posts)This is a picture from SI in the 70s maybe? Cheryl Tiegs is in a beach with a sheer on top foshnet bathing suit. (Any linkis about 9 lines long, but it's easy to find.) She isn't taunting, pulling her bottoms off, her expression is quite different, the mood of the photo is not come hither, sexual. It's healthy and beautiful.
This seems different. Is it porn? No, I didn't say the, but it is coming pretty close. And she is absolutely objectified. Who looks at her face?
zappaman
(20,627 posts)So, now it's "close to porn" if the model has the wrong expression on her face?
adigal
(7,581 posts)when I'm buying milk at the grocery store, then it's inappropriate.
Nothing I say will change your mind. You think seeing everything but her lips is fine at the grocery store, delis, etc. I think it's gross. And almost porn.
uppityperson
(116,013 posts)outside and the uterus. Vaginas are hairless, at least in humans. Labia have hair, unless that hair is removed. Unless you have a speculum you can not see the vagina. Even spreading your labia, you can only see the entrance to it.
Sorry, pet peeve of mine.
Now, about the magazine? I agree. This one goes over the line of being out in the open in the grocery store lines and those with partially covered covers.
adigal
(7,581 posts)But I think my meaning was clear, no?
And technically, her entire mons pubis is showing:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mons_pubis
(Maybe I'll get alerted now!!!)
uppityperson
(116,013 posts)As I said, just my pet peeve. But thanks for the thread.
3catwoman3
(29,276 posts)Thank you.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)The Europeans are laughing right now...
TransitJohn
(6,937 posts)n/t
Orrex
(67,020 posts)I find that to be judgmental and sad.
alp227
(33,260 posts)What the post actually said:
Nothing I say will change your mind. You think seeing everything but her lips is fine at the grocery store, delis, etc. I think it's gross. And almost porn.
Does it really mean "consider(ing) a woman's body gross"? Look at the nuance. One can think it's OK to look at the human body lustily while understanding that most people at Safeway or wherever don't want images of said bodies shoved in their face on others' terms.
Orrex
(67,020 posts)This is true even if the person protested that these images were being "shoved" in their face.
But if the magazine features someone whom society-at-large has shockingly judged to conform with a certain standard of youth and beauty, then depictions of that body are declared to be "gross," and DU-at-large finds it perfectly acceptable to do so.
Predictable, judgmental and sad.
alp227
(33,260 posts)It's normal to not want things like the SI cover shown publicly in an all-ages setting like a supermarket. I'm assuming "pictures of old women" you mean like, let's say this photo of Sec. of State Albright.
You can't equate the SI cover with any "pictures of old women", really?
Orrex
(67,020 posts)At least two things are at issue here: content and venue.
Some people object to the appearance of the woman on the cover. Those pepple are free to look away.
Some people object to the magazine being visible at the grocery checkout. Those people are free to look away.
If someone objected to similar placement of a magazine featuring a tasteful nude of a 75-year-old woman on the magazine's cover, that person would be attacked.
alp227
(33,260 posts)Keep it in either a museum or obscure corner of bookstore, not highly visible areas.
Orrex
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Selling a magazine at a grocery store checkout is hardly "shoving it in people's faces."
alp227
(33,260 posts)similar to chewing gum and candy bars?
Orrex
(67,020 posts)Do you somehow find within you the power to look away from those offensive commodities?
If so, then I suggest that you employ the same mental discipline to enable you to survive the magazine gantlet.
If not, then I suggest that you enlist the aid of someone able to navigate the checkout lane without over-reacting.
alp227
(33,260 posts)SO YOU WILL BUY THEM! THAT was what I meant by "shoving things in your face".
Orrex
(67,020 posts)In stark and undeniable contract, "making products visible for sale" is what every store does. If you have trouble with this, then you should go with my suggestion above and have someone else do your shopping for you.
Also, if you're trying to offer a measured and reasonable argument, you should drop the hair-on-fire hyperbole, since it's exactly the same language that Rush Limbaugh uses when he's crying about marriage equality.
alp227
(33,260 posts)I think when a grocery store shows raunchy magazine covers in the checkout aisle, it shows that the company doesn't respect its customers' sensibilities or community standards, by forcing raunch in customers' direct sight.
Orrex
(67,020 posts)But if that's how you feel about it, then by all means tell the management of your local store. If your community has enough high-minded citizens to voice support for a puritanical policy, then I'm sure that you can have your preferences of censorship enforced. Other customers who object to displays of birth control and feminine hygiene products are likewise free goad the store into removing products that offend their sensibilities.
Alternatively, you can elect not to patronize that store that harms you so grievously. You have many options.
alp227
(33,260 posts)You can't compare objecting to sexual imagery to objecting to displays of feminine products. Shouldn't we acknowledge that an objective, universal definition of sleaze/raunch/obscenity exists? Most people would agree that a song like Ted Nugent's "Cat Scratch Fever" or Nicki Minaj's "Anaconda" is raunch. Or the Seven Dirty Words (and some more) shouldn't be blurted out in a polite setting. While objecting to the display of birth control is taking it beyond what's necessary.
Orrex
(67,020 posts)Either because you don't understand it or because you are dishonest. Which is it?
Elsewhere in this thread it has been expressed that someone's teenaged daughter shouldn't be made to feel embarrassed by a checkout display. Fair enough. What if a teenaged son is made to feel embarrassed by the display of feminine hygiene products? You are free to argue about the source of the embarrassment, but you have no authority to declare that one is more valid than the other. Perhaps we should eliminate all products that might cause shoppers to feel embarrassment. We should get rid of bananas, bagels, hot dogs and donuts immediately.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)why you get to decide for everyone what is "raunchy."
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NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)opiate69
(10,129 posts)Portland, that is.... cool town... but getting out of downtown sucks ass
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opiate69
(10,129 posts)
NoJusticeNoPeace
(5,018 posts)lynchings
dead Iraqi's due to "Shock and Awe"
etc
dead children from drones, as well
one_voice
(20,043 posts)Agree. The cover is far from gross...imo.
Warpy
(114,564 posts)since much is left to the imagination. It's still porn, using a woman's body as an object of commerce, of gratification, of whatever. She's still just a thing to be used.
Might as well call it what it is. SI won't be hurting over it and neither will you.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)That's like just your opinion, man.
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)him screaming "get off my lawn"?
ND-Dem
(4,571 posts)is mostly men, I believe.
Heed the Dude.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)Artists paint to sell paintings.
CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)
titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)I buy and sell art. It is a business transaction. Just like buying a magazine.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)do you think will use this issue for "reading material."
I don't actually consider this porn, but I do consider it objectification.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)A National Geographic or my imagination.
What's your point?
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)The purpose of this cover it titillation. It's meant to be sexually provocative.
It perpetuates the idea that young women are valued for their sexual desirability.
Hell, this young woman even said, " "I am both shocked and excited to be this year's cover model. This has been a lifelong dream of mine and I feel so blessed to have this opportunity!"
Note that. Her lifelong dream was to be a sexual object. That says something about our culture.
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Adrahil
(13,340 posts)... It's about selling sexual desire ability of women as PRODUCT.
As women struggle to take their place alongside men ion LEADING out species, out culture still values women first and foremost for their sexual desirability.
Remember that Rush Limbaugh says that feminism exists so that unattractive women can get access to the main stream. That's the kind of thinking that fuels the objectification of women.
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Adrahil
(13,340 posts)I don't want this kind of stuff outlawed. That'd would be insane. I want our culture to develop to the point that women are not marketed and sold as sexual objects first and foremost.
You watch.... As Hillary runs for President, watch how many attacks from the right are about her age sexual undesirability. Nancy Pelosi endured the same kind of thing. So did Elaine Kagan. When is the last time a male politician was derided for being sexually undesirable.
This is the culture we are creating and reinforcing. The vast majority of us do it... Even many of us who consider ourselves feminists.
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Adrahil
(13,340 posts)I dread my daughter growing up in a world where people think it's fine that young woman are valued primarily in this way.
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polly7
(20,582 posts)Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Seriously. Take a deep breath, and look around yourself. Look at commercials, television, film, music.
Then tell me that women are not sexually commodified in our culture.
As for men.... men have their own cultural issues. Men are judged on their perceived masculinity.... prowess in football is just one way men are measured in this way. It isn't quite the same as the sexual objectification of women, however. Women are sexually packaged for consumption by men. Men's masculinity is mainly displayed for comparison to other men, though women are encouraged, of course, to desire dominantly masculine men. That's not news. It's why Derek Jeter (perceived as very masculine, as a sports hero) is dating Hannah Davis (a swimsuit model). They are both "winners" in our dominantly constructed culture. She has a masculine man who is admired by other men, he has a woman who desired by other men.
Again, this isn't news. This is the way our culture has been constructed for 1000 years. The roots are traced back to at least the "courtly love" Chivalric culture which was all about desiring a woman possessed by a superior man.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)On cosmetics, skimpy swimwear, spike heels, hair extensions, nail artists, or even lingerie. ...women do that. Humans (apparently with some exceptions) are sexual beings, always have been, always will be....
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)pipoman
(16,038 posts)Patriarchal societies have always been very conservative on feminine beauty. ..hair coverings, no makup, no skin, female ownership, etc. Prior to the feminist movement men wouldn't have approved of this. No, this has to do with women's freedom to express themselves how they wish....
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)P as in "patriarchy" that is. That's usually the buzzword that means it's time for me to tune out of the conversation because it's not going anywhere useful.
Threedifferentones
(1,070 posts)They are both "winners" in our dominantly constructed culture. She has a masculine man who is admired by other men, he has a woman who desired by other men.
This is true, but it leaves something out, and that omission carries a serious implication: you neglect to mention that just as sports stars are "admired" by other men they are "desired" by many women, and that just as swimsuit models are "desired" by many men they are "admired" by many women.
Courtly love and the writings about it represent sexism perhaps in a more fundamental way: because only men were encouraged/allowed to write, only their longings are remembered. You really believe some plain looking servant woman never had the hots for the prince she would never be with or w/e? The plain looking poor girl's longing for a "superior man" is simply forgotten because she never got to write or publish it, but I still assume it existed even during medieval centuries.
The ownership of women that resulted in girls being passed from father to husband like property has been dead for decades now. At some point we must accept that our culture is also reflecting what the average woman wants, not just the average man.
Your post reads as if women have no part in maintaining this charade we call patriarchy, as if men are responsible for who we find desirable and women are not, and that is not how I see modern culture. Yea, it's called patriarchy, and the obvious implication is that it was created by the "daddys" of society for just their benefit. Fair enough, that's how it began, but it continues in a society in which feminism has claimed serious ground, and IMO that is because many women admire swimsuit models and dream about landing rich athletes as husbands.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Yes, women DO help maintain the patriarchy. They are, after living in the culture, and most people are not self-reflexive or critical of it.
We have centuries of tradition and cultural bias. The fact that women actively and enthusiastically participate in a culture of patriarchy doesn't mean that there isn't a a very real oppressive culture on them. In the same way, the working class Republican fighting for coporatism may feel they are fighting for what they "want," but it doesn't change the fact that they are victims of the very system they enthusiastically support and participate in.
But I think I've burned all the virtual ink I care to on this subject for now. Have a great day.
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hifiguy
(33,688 posts)It is a bullshit ideological concept with no roots in anything remotely scientific, even within the loosey-goosey social sciences. Its meaning depends, as you cogently observed, solely on the individual using it, which means that it has no intrinsic meaning of its own. Jargonjabber of the worst and most sophomoric kind.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)you're out of your depth on this topic.
You can think it's a "made up nonsense term," but in my view, that means you're just willfully ignorant.
If you can't even see the reality of sexual objectification, then frankly, there's no point in discussing this with you. It's like trying to argue about how to fix global warming with someone who denies it's happening.
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NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)in a world of censorship and sexual suppression. In countries where that is the norm, women often end up being forced to wear burqas.
adigal
(7,581 posts)think this is ok as family viewing material.
alp227
(33,260 posts)Being opposed to things like SI Swimsuit magazines does not mean believing that nudity is evil. It's not an either/or proposal.
adigal
(7,581 posts)Leads to more LGBT rights. You are really making this up as you go now.
What is happening is that the more covers like this are hailed by people as "sexual freedom," the more worried parents will see the left as "out of touch." Because thinking this cover belongs in a supermarket aisle really is out of touch. And then they go to the "values" party, even though they don't support 99% of what the right thinks. But as I feel now, if liberal men are fine with this, then I'm probably not a liberal, because for a young woman to have this cover as her lifelong goal, the showing of her mons pubis and almost her entire labia, is damn sad.
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NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)is probably unable to find the polling place anyway.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)"it says that..."
I imagine many half-wits pretend it says merely one thing rather than possessing the subtext of many different perspectives. Further, I imagine many idiots pretend that the one thing validates their bias.
Praise rationalizing easily-branded consumerism as progressive thought-- the simpleton loves it as such.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Ah, echo-man wants to insult my intelligence.
If I'm a half wit but all my wit is said twice, wouldn't the two halfs of wit add up to a whole wit?
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Warren DeMontague
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Still, there are folks whose shtick works on DU - The Magistrate springs to mind - and then there are people whose shtick falls flat.
Lame and tired.
But when someone also pretty much instantly falls back on cheap insults and exceedingly weak attempts at character assassination elsewhere on DU
---otherwise known as "damn the facts, lets throw shit at the walls and see if it sticks ad hominem ad nauseum"
... That ought to tell you all you need to know about the water level in the "wit" tank, there.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Uh, yeah. Are you saying that's a bad thing?
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)They are negating all other aspects of my humanity, in fact they are rendered incapable of appreciating any of my other fine qualities, like my impeccable wit, my meticulous attention to grammar, or my boxcars full of humility?
Vattel
(9,289 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Actually I have a funny story about that, but.... nah, not here.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Get your undies unbunched. I'm talking about packaging womens' bodies as products to be consumed, with no regard for any other aspect of them. That's what he SI tits and ass... Oops, I mean "swim suit" issue does.
There is nothing wrong with finding someone physically attractive.
Don't put words in my mouth.
titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)I take my two boys to the beach often (16 and 10). Most of the younger woman here wear bathing suits something like that. Guess what? After you see a few nice bodies walk buy I get back into my book. My kids splash around in the ocean for a few hours, build sand castles, wrestle on the beach, etc. No one makes a fuss, no one is harmed, and frankly no one really cares. I don't take my meat and play with myself. I don't go home and wank off from memories of some packaged goods I saw at the beach today. No one forced these girls to wear those bathing suits. But no one should really care either.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)I'll just keep up the good fight wherever I can.
TransitJohn
(6,937 posts)Prudery is not something to be proud of.
titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Most people I know don't consider the suppression of human sexuality to be a good fight.
polly7
(20,582 posts)dreamed about being a sexual object. Many people are just proud of their bodies, think the human form is a beautiful thing and have no problem showing theirs. We all have bodies and they're nothing to be ashamed of, no matter what shape, size or anything else. Why can't people just appreciate beauty without always thinking the worst? There was a thread about a 'plus-size' model here recently and no-one had a problem with her showing her body .... there were comments on her possible health issues and other things, but not that she was posing for a photo. What's the difference?
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)This reminds me of the bullshit MRA argument that people, like myself, who are concerned with the sexual objectification of women are somehow prudes and that we want women walking around in burkas. That is not the case. This is about objectification. These women's' bodies are packaged and presented as products to be consumed. In that magazine, these value of these women is reduced to how sexually desirable they are.
That's just the facts of what is happening. I don't like it.
I hate it that my daughter has to deal with world that tells her nonstop that women are valued on the basis of being desired by men. It fucking sucks.
polly7
(20,582 posts)I called baloney.
That is what my post was about and I elaborated on why she had other reasons for posing.
Many people are proud of their bodies, are not ashamed to show them off, and are not forced or co-erced into it. They make good money for it - a bonus. I'm a woman and find pictures of women and men alike nicely done - in any size, beautiful. I'm a people watcher and just appreciate the human form, the differences, the uniqueness of each indifidual. I love animals too - every kind and shape and when they're photographed beautifully - I appreciate that, too. Sometimes it's NOT about sex or exploitation. We'll have to agree to disagree. I think the human form is art, when nicely done. It doesn't bother me a bit. I hope you teach your daughter the difference between real exploitation and the horrible problems many women DO face as compared to a woman willingly baring her body using her own free will.
Our female ancestors fought for the right for women to wear, or not wear whatever they like.
Maybe we could still be going to the beach like this!:
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Adrahil
(13,340 posts)It's still nonsense. "Swimsuit models" are sexual objects. She wanted to be one. She wanted to be a sexual object. Our culture tells her that sexual objects are valued.
This ain't rocket surgery.
polly7
(20,582 posts)something I just tell myself?? No.
'Swimsuit models' are not sexual objects! They sell swimsuits, and occasionally pose for other reasons. Have you never bought a swimsuit? They're always modeled - how do you know what would look good on you unless you see them on a human form? Strange.
How do you know she wanted to be a sexual object??? My gosh, you think you know a lot about this woman you've never met. You sound worse than any man on this thread, so far I haven't seen anyone saying they're lusting over her. It 'ain't' rocket surgery to know we're all different and allowed to express ourselves any way we like - if that includes going nearly naked, so what?? Don't buy it, don't look at it. I doubt she'll care. I'm glad to have seen the picture. I appreciated her beauty - am I a pervert?
Did you know women in Africa and all of the ME now are being kidnapped, tortured, raped and murdered? I think I heard that somewhere....
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)... and packaging and selling a woman as a sexual object.
I also appreciate her beauty. That's not the point, though, is it?
And yes, in the scheme of things, this may not seem like a big deal to you, but our young women grow up in this culture. My DAUGHTER grows up in this culture. It matters to me that she will be appreciated as a whole person, and not just a set of tits and ass.
I mean, other than her amazing body and the fact that she always wanted to show off her amazing body to millions of people, what is presented about this woman?
polly7
(20,582 posts)Freedom of expression ......... exactly what those before us fought for and were ridiculed and judged, just as you're doing here.
Many of us have young female relatives growing up in this culture ....... all of mine I've talked to about it are much, much more informed on all of it than I was. They know what real exploitation is and some do what they can to fight it by whatever means is available. Sex-slavery, child exploitation, bullying in real life or online that leads to suicide, and then all of the other horrors in poorer countries where women are treated as possessions and have absolutely no rights. They're strong girls who don't see themselves as victims and have no problem answering back to bad treatment from anyone, male or female.
That woman wasn't packaged and sold as a sexual object - you just see her that way. Strange that you feel you have the right to lecture and insult those of us who don't.
tridim
(45,358 posts)And yes, I'm a hetero male.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)tridim
(45,358 posts)I simply stated the model on the cover is not a sexual object in my view, but she apparently is to you.
adigal
(7,581 posts)objectification?? I'm really curious. Is it to teach us about exercise that gets us healthy? Is it to sell a swimsuit? Is it to show the benefits of waxing? Is it to discuss the effects of global warming on farms like the one she is at?
If not sexual objectification, then WTF is the point????
I think what bothers me most about this thread is the complete denial of the purpose of this magazine, closely followed by the denial of any effects a picture like this being openly displayed in supermarkets, etc. would have on young girls and boys, all of whom are in the process of discovering who they are and how they fit in this society.
And with that, I am done. I think some of the people here are trying to flame bait the few women who see this as I do. And if acceptance of this in the supermarket line is liberal, then I am certainly not.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)If you look over the responses though, it's only a handful of liberals who refuse to accept that, one, objectification is real, two, it has harmful effects and, three, these types of publications promote harmful objectification. I think most liberal men and women accept those three realities.
I also think nobody wants to feel like they're being called a weirdo, pervert, promoter of harm if they enjoy the picture, which is fair enough, too. Although, i don't think anybody has done this.
I think liking the picture is normal and natural. I think recognizing the harm of the over saturation and normalization of commoditized sexual images of young women is normal, natural, and responsible.
adigal
(7,581 posts)I'm a teacher and an artist, my daughter is a photography student who shoots nudes, I'm not against the body. Bodies are beautiful. It the body as commodity and especially, women's bodies as commodities that I object to, and it appears, even here, that most don't see it.
So thanks for sharing your POV on this thread. I appreciated it.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)I always find that it's easier to be called an overly educated, delusional, jealous, hysterical, ugly, puritan, member of the taliban, who hates sex if there's more than one person being called the same things. Haha
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smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Sorry you are having such a hard time with the usual MRA crowd. Unfortunately, they will never see anything outside of their own selfish perspective.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)If her dream was to be on the SISI cover, who are you to judge? I'm happy for her, and I think Jeter is adult enough whereas his parents aren't going to disown him because of his beautiful girlfriend earning her own paycheck. What century do you/we live in?
It's far from porn and common among other magazines like Cosmo, Maxim, Men's Health, Esquire, FHM, Rolling Stone, Inked (go look at their 'Girl of the Day'; I dare you) and the latest issue of Women's Health with Britney Spears on the cover.
The model in the Carl's JR SB commercial was bullied by girls in HS, and her father is proud of her.
He loved it, McKinney said of her father. "Hes super proud of me and my parents have been behind me all the way.
McKinney says she struggled with dyslexia and was bullied in high school.
Just girls being girls and getting in a clique, McKinney said of the bullying. I didnt have too many girlfriends and so they saw me as a target and they went for it.
McKinney says she overcame being self-conscious of her curves and learned to embrace them, getting her big modeling break last year with an ad campaign for Guess.
http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/carls-jr-model-charlotte-mckinney-opens-bullied/story?id=28716270
Same old situation; girls will be girls.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Have you READ DU? Judging is what we do! that's not a bad thing.
And yes, she DID say that. She wanted to packaged and sold as a sexual product. I think that's sad. I am sure she has more to offer the world that how sexually desirable she is. Something greater to aspire to.
And yes, it's all over out culture. That was POINT of my post in case it sailed over your head.
And don't worry. I don't find boobies upsetting. Nekkid girls are not a shock to me. I don't object to nudity, I object to objectification.
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RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)(her eyes looked 'vacuous'), shame them with their SO's relatives and lie about what they said regarding the fact she is grateful for this career opportunity.
I didn't read that she screamed from the rooftops 'I want to be a sexual object!' but if she did, please quote her as from all the "facts" I've read about her I'm surprised she can form complete sentences.
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RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)I'm taking cover...and busy.
Looking back, when I posted the issue last year on V-day my husband made it back very late that day from an international trip during a snowstorm.
He's the best!
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)AKA TOTAL GD THERMONUCLEAR SHIT-LOSING CATASTROPHE
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Storms have been brewing between the East and West Coasts. Peace!

hifiguy
(33,688 posts)that drives the process of reproduction and Darwinian evolution and has for eons, in far more species than humans. Good luck ridding the world of that.
good housekeeping, redbook, all were good sources as a teenboy
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pintobean
(18,101 posts)These days, teenage boys have the internet, where anyone can claim to be of age and see whatever they want.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)As good parents, we do not allow any conversation about sex or any pictures or movies that show anybody less than fully clothed. Our teenage son, therefor, doesn't think about sex or unclothed people.
We don't let people wear those "I Love Boobies" bracelets in our house either because if they're not mentioned, teenage boys won't think about boobies.
That's why these Sports Illustrated "Swimsuit" Issue magazines are so evil. They corrupt young minds that otherwise would think only pure, chaste thoughts.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Frankly I don't see objectification as a bad thing. Men and women both do it, and the human race hasn't died out yet.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)That tells me everything I need to know.
Jesus Malverde
(10,274 posts)If they stray.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Response to Jesus Malverde (Reply #293)
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titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)Thank you!
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)A little levity is good for the soul.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(25,518 posts)MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Look...I've seen photos of naked women before and in real life, too. We're all naked under our clothing, and we all look more or less the same, with variations. It's not a matter of significant interest for me, frankly.
A HERETIC I AM
(24,875 posts)That I look NOTHING like that woman under my clothes.
But I do have a bikini just like that. I wear it when I mow the lawn.
My neighbors never talk to me. I can't figure out why.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)I'm sure almost nobody looks like that young woman. Perhaps not even her.
A HERETIC I AM
(24,875 posts)There seems to be an endless supply of very attractive women willing to have their photos taken wearing little or nothing.
I however, look as if I swallowed a basketball, so there ya go!
zappaman
(20,627 posts)I was once in Palau when both male and female models showed up for a commercial shoot.
Trust me, even in the AM after a long night of partying, these people look extraordinary.
PCIntern
(28,279 posts)That's why they are on the cover of magazines and in ads and the rest of us aren't and never could be. I know people who are on TV who in real life are extraordinarily beautiful/handsome and when they are in commercials or shows, they look average or below average.
I once met Miss Liberia who was I believe Miss World or Miss Universe that year and she had the glow from her persona that the old paintings of Jesus have...she came to my office with Matthew Saad Muhammed who was the boxing champ at the time and he just disappeared into the background.
PassingFair
(22,448 posts)No objection to people having it mailed to them or buying it from behind
a counter at a bookstore....
I don't want crotches in my face or my children's faces while I'm loading groceries
at Kroger's.
Common courtesy!
zappaman
(20,627 posts)
alp227
(33,260 posts)Showing this SI cover in a general-audience setting like checkout stand at a grocery store is as bad as walking around naked. One can be sex positive while acknowledging not everyone else is so.
Basically, I don't care about people's sexual/drug habits, as long as they don't shove them in everyone else's faces.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)Right?
alp227
(33,260 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Stop! You're killing me!
alp227
(33,260 posts)What's up with DUers misrepresenting arguments they don't want to hear?
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)A hearty belly laugh is good for the soul!
Okay - so let me get this straight. Displaying the SI Swimsuit issue in a highly visible place is as bad as walking around naked. Tell you what, let's try an experiment. One person will pick up the SI Swimsuit issue, maybe even look through it in the checkout line. Another will walk around the grocery store naked. Let's see who gets arrested.
This entire thread has given me more laugh material than any stand-up comedian who ever lived! First, Warren photoshops the SI cover model with a beard, and now SI Swimsuit issue = walking around naked!
Oh my goodness! You're killing me here!
adigal
(7,581 posts)Or buy porn. I don't want to have to,protect my kids from it at the grocery store.
And those of you mocking our concern for children...I don't care what you think. You probably don't have kids who will be influenced by this.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)You can look into anything with them.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=9SIA0U00925206
Adsos Letter
(19,459 posts)Haven't heard that term since my artillery days.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)"Now, with 90% more vagina"
OverBurn
(1,290 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Okay, now what?

NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I have cramps from laughing so hard!
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Jesus Malverde
(10,274 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)Sure glad I wasn't drinking anything when I saw it!
titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)I just scrolled and saw this...I laughed so hard the people in my office that I was having a coronary. Fucking FUNNY stuff my friend. Oh man my eyes hurt from laughing so hard.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Winner of the contest, Mr. DeMontague.
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)You, my friend, are a great A'merkin...
TYY
TransitJohn
(6,937 posts)This is a dynamite way to get this thread remembered.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)This is not porn. Not even close.
This should be interesting.
FLyellowdog
(4,276 posts)Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)Orsino
(37,428 posts)I do appreciate the context, and would agree that it's kinda porny...but so is pretty much any SI swimsuit cover.
No idea why anyone is acting suprised now, decades after the practice started. This is among the tamest sort of porn available today.
BubbaFett
(361 posts)samsingh
(18,399 posts)MineralMan
(151,142 posts)And then a jury will leave it. No vulva; no hide.
It will still be objectifying women, but won't be hidden on DU.
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)MineralMan
(151,142 posts)As I said, I stand corrected. The next posting of it may not be hidden, though. That happens, too. And there will be another posting, I'm certain.
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)she wasn't held down for those pics... she looks good (a little skinny for my taste). oh well...
sP
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)I'm also opposed to puritanical censorship. The two things are often in conflict.
Given the instant access to real porn today on the internet, it's difficult to tell what will stay and what will be hidden. One thing is certain: SI will sell millions of copies of that cover photo. That is certain. Photos of nearly naked, slender 20-something women are readily salable, it seems.
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)but the only reason it happens is that men will buy it... and it happens the other way, too... but certainly not to the extent we see expressed in these sorts of magazines. i guess i wish they would just drop the pretense and let them go naked and stop calling is a swimsuit issue, cause it ain't selling swimsuits.
you know, if we weren't such an uptight society hell-bent on hiding the human body, eventually this sort of crap would die out... maybe.
sP
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Actually, they wouldn't sell as many copies of that issue, I'm sure. As Paul Simon wrote: "They'd never match my sweet imagination. Everything looks worse in black and white."
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)and great song...
sP
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)"Kodachrome" notwithstanding.
Throd
(7,208 posts)Thanks, that'll get out of my ear never.
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)enjoy that and feel free to spread it around... we'll have it on everyone before it's all said and done.
sP
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)No Vulva, No Hide.

zappaman
(20,627 posts)Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)That vax crack showing, I mean.
Ykcutnek
(1,305 posts)
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)the eternally offended will likely hide again...
sP
zappaman
(20,627 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)a quasi-Einsteinian law of the universe.
Ykcutnek
(1,305 posts)It was less than two weeks.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Risky business.
GreatCaesarsGhost
(8,621 posts)south to Blackberry farm in Tennessee
adigal
(7,581 posts)She looks so vacuous, poor thing.
I have no idea how intelligent she is, but I guess you do!
Do you think all pretty women are stupid or just her?
adigal
(7,581 posts)Haha! Maybe ther is, but this picture doesn't show it. She looks totally vacuous.
And I get it - you like naked mons pubis and shaved labias in magazines at the supermarket so you can look at them while you wait in line to buy your milk. You've made yourself clear.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)Then again, if I could see "90% of her vagina" like you apparently and magically can, I would have a problem with it.
Please go easy on us lesser mortals who weren't blessed with x-ray vision.
adigal
(7,581 posts)And I corrected my anatomical terms in another post. I used the generic for ease of understanding.
woolldog
(8,791 posts)You know nothing about her and should not be judging a book by its cover.
"Despite being a ranked athlete and top student who could have gotten scholarships for higher education, Davis made the decision to put off college and move to New York to pursue her modeling career immediately following graduation."
http://www.virginislandsdailynews.com/news/st-thomian-featured-in-pages-of-sports-illustrated-1.1449709
Beauty AND brains!

zappaman
(20,627 posts)Cuz everyone knows models is stoopid.
adigal
(7,581 posts)What do you expect her bio to say?
"Despite being disinterested in anything but fame and stripping, Ms.Davis didnt go to college."
Since if note that there doesn't seem to be much behind her eyes in a picture, Im jealous? Maybe it's her open mouth, models seem to think that makes them look sexy. She is lovely, but really, she still looks vacuous.
woolldog
(8,791 posts)And I have no reason to doubt that...Certainly not because of how you think her eyes photograph.
Green isn't your color, madam.
adigal
(7,581 posts)titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)adigal
(7,581 posts)was already a star?? And the one who is/did go to Columbia after being famous. And probably some of the others???
Snort!
woolldog
(8,791 posts)and ranked athlete? Peculiar things to fabricate with little motive for doing so.
I find it ironic that you complain about "objectification" and yet you don't hesitate on drawing conclusions on a woman intelligence based on her looks--to objectify her in other words.
adigal
(7,581 posts)and we are talking high school here, not university, can say she was a top student. That is not evidence - that is anecdote that she isn't as vacuous as she appears. And I am not objectifying her based on her looks - damn, I think Lauren Hutton was the most gorgeous woman ever, but she didn't have that empty look in her eyes that this woman does. I was going by her expressions.
woolldog
(8,791 posts)You're claiming to be able to judge her intelligence based on her physical appearance (in this case her eyes). That's objectification.
Evidently She was a ranked tennis player and a good student which means she would've had her choice of attending some pretty good schools, and free at that.
But, by all means, continue to demean her because of her looks all the while calling yourself a "feminist" *snort*
For somebody trying to make a case against this, you sure are using a whole lot of judgemental snark.
In order to lift up women, you are tearing this one down. You just sound jealous and judgy.
Je suis Charlie!
ProfessorGAC
(76,567 posts)Your point now requires demeaning someone you never met about the level of he intellect, despite the fact you couldn't possibly know one way or the other.
That is some horribly weak sauce.
mythology
(9,527 posts)He was just as incorrect as you are right now. This post should embarrass you in how poorly you are coming across.
adigal
(7,581 posts)How dare I call another woman out for being an object for corporations to use to satiate men's lust????? the horrors of it!!
I think the men in this thread, for the most part, have come across as VERY different than one would expect liberal men to act. Really shameful and disheartening. And the more they go after me, the more I wonder how they really view women.
And hey, the point of my thread is lost now. It's that this magazine is at supermarkets, in the aisles, and it's pretending to be mainstream, but it's not. I'm surprised some group hasn't started a campaign to get this out of supermarkets, etc.
If SI wants to use pics like this, they have every right, let's not pretend it's mainstream and not risqué.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)
zappaman
(20,627 posts)
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)to get paid to let people take her picture. I would imagine this will be great for her career too.
titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)(Not really)
ND-Dem
(4,571 posts)Jesus Malverde
(10,274 posts)MoonRiver
(36,975 posts)by a 4-3 vote.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)But it will take posting the photo in the OP. Watch for the mega thread.
EX500rider
(12,518 posts)Man you called that one right...it's so long i am having trouble getting it to load down to the bottom.....the Victorian attitudes on display here by some are quite funny.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)But yes, the objectification of women is pretty disgusting.
adigal
(7,581 posts)I have to go for a run and contemplate exactly what was the point of this cover.
Should take me about 30 seconds.
Ykcutnek
(1,305 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)To sell magazines.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)disappeared
EX500rider
(12,518 posts)
?fbf2daa044e08a86b24c9c38cd7501865a0e2373... it's only objectification if it is a woman
Meanwhile, the actual objectification of a man pic would show a man demonstrating his outsized earning capability or wealth.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)How many grocery stores and dr offices is that sitting in?
EX500rider
(12,518 posts)That picture appeared in a calender. How many were sold i do not know....does it matter?
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)See it you can't compare it to the SI magazine cover.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Unless "objectification" is just a meaningless catch all term for "stuff that turns other people on, that bothers me"
But I'm sure that isnt the case.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Have that image shoved in her face everywhere. There are very scantily clothed women all over teevee & magazines. Even at the grocery store. It's not appropriate for all ages.
I don't see men in sexy underwear ads every 15 minutes when trying to watch television.
Objectification goes both ways. It just happen to men FAR less.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Although, really, anyone complaining about any kinds of ads on tv should buckle down and get a DVR, or insist that the cable folks give you one for free. It's 2015, man!
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)At the grocery store. You are entitled to your opinion as am I.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Other people are already demanding that I take classes to fix my doubleplusungood wrongthink, and the damn issue isn't even out yet!
sibelian
(7,804 posts)F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)logic = fail
sibelian
(7,804 posts)If there WERE any meaningful metric of the extent of anyone's objectification of anything. But there isn't. The amount of imagery can only be taken serious as evidence if there was some understanding of the scale of it's effect on society as a whole, which doesn't exist, for either gender.
"Google search of specific term = all television, print, news"
Wheeee! Goalposts OVER THERE today, hm? We both know that any arena within which the objectification of men could be asserted will become illegitimate in your eyes the moment it's asserted on the grounds that it's been asserted. Also that the kind of objctification of men and the extent to which it can be considered objectification will be deemed inadmissible by you on the grounds that it's men under discussion.
You do not proceed from evidence to conclusions, but from conclusions to conclusions. It's like a mixing desk in your mind. The significance of anything brought to your attention is filtered through your own pre-established perceptions and assigned whatever value is necessary to prevent it affecting your stance.
Your idea that "logic=fail" is sort of a mess, given that your position is essentially a feedback loop.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)As in, well, the very existence of the SI swimsuit issue means the ONLY thing girls are expected to do or are told to aspire to, is being on the cover of the SI swimsuit issue.
MADem
(135,425 posts)Now, with nearly nekkid Strahan!!!!!
And you know that film, with plenty of production stills, will be covered ad nauseum in the US/SELF/People milieu as well as the entertainment sections of newspapers.
I think we're approaching the era where no one sex has the "lock" on slightly gratuitous/not-quite-sleazy characterizations.
There's a market for nearly nekkid people. Young people like these depictions, because they are attracted to these people, because they want to LOOK like these people and they model themselves after them, and because they think having those images around makes them cool. Old people like these images because many of them have active imaginations and remember their salad days.
Sexual attraction--and the marketing of it--ain't going away. It's why anonymous servers are so popular in repressive societies like Saudi Arabia.
It may be stupid, and I'm not buying, but I'd rather see magazines featuring nearly nekkid people than ones with people brandishing guns.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)That's like claiming calling a black person "N-----" is the same as calling a white person a "cracker". There's thousands of years of oppression to contend with on one side, and thousands of years of oppressing on the other. Context makes a big difference.
Even your example is not a particularly good one. There's a huge difference between showing some stereotypically hot guys with their shirts off standing strong, and an all but nude picture of woman in a manner that is clearly designed to be seductive. Even with something closer, say a female firefighter who is also muscular, they are almost always presented in a very sexual manner, compared to the "strength" of the men. Yes, it is sexual, but in a totally different world from the way women are presented. And women are presented that way everywhere.
Yes, neither is great from an objectification standpoint, but comparing some handsome dudes half naked to the vast destructive misogyny of our world is rather disingenuous.
zazen
(2,978 posts)prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Double standards always work out great.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Oh wait...you were serious?
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)Why is it that every argument about any perceived insult devolves to this? It's like a Godwin substitute, because that other "N" word is too overused on Ye Olde Internet, I guess.
That's "disingenuous," too, if you want to get right down to it.
This discussion has nothing to do with racist insults. It's a difference of opinion about how much clothing is not enough, and how a person is allowed to "look" at the camera depending on how much they are wearing.
No one is getting paid when the N word comes out in anger. This young woman made a very nice payday for that photo shoot and she will never want for a thing if she plays her boosted career right and doesn't squander her money. Those Magic Mike guys got themselves a nice payday, too; if they are wise they'll have a secure old age too--and no one called any one of them a racist name either.
Now, you can say it's "wrong" for this woman, or those men, for that matter, to not wear "enough" clothes in exchange for money, you can say they set a poor example, that their behavior is offensive, or whatever-- but comparing this view to racism is just ... off the mark. Gratuitous, really.
JMO, YMMV, but I will not be moved on this score.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)I think I'll burn my house down tonight to see if those men come for me
mmmmm
mythology
(9,527 posts)My bar is would I be embarrassed to see that picture with my mom in the room.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)Last edited Fri Feb 6, 2015, 05:57 AM - Edit history (1)
"Would I be embarrassed to be seen enjoying looking at that picture with my mom in the room."
There's nothing wrong with nudity or sex in itself; it's the objectification and degradation of healthy sexuality that should embarass you. I wouldn't mind watching a movie with a sex scene in it with my mom in the room (though she probably would, lol), but I would mind watching the vast majority of porn out there with her in the room (actually, with her there or not, but you get the point).
If you mean just whether something is porn or not, I think my bar is whether its purpose is to display sexual attributes or activity and involves nudity. For instance, in my definition, some art would be considered pornography and vice versa. Most nude art, however, would not, as sexuality is not often the main focus of those types of pieces.
Edit: I'd also say there's two broad categories of porn that blend to some extent. Artistic or commercial. One is made to express something, the other is to sell something. You can have commercial artistic porn--it is a business after all. Unfortunately the vast majority of it is dehumanizing people (and many, many more women than men) for the express purpose of profit.
mythology
(9,527 posts)If you mean appreciating the general form of a human body that is in shape, I'm fine with that if my mom is in the room. If you mean seen with obvious arousal, sure, that would be embarrassing, but that can happen without the picture (thankfully I'm no longer a teenager so that's less of a problem).
I generally speaking avoid porn, but that's mostly because I've found what I've seen to be boring. I haven't thought about it long enough to know if that's because I find it dehumanizing to the people in it (I agree with you that it's worse for the women) or because the act of putting a camera in there means lots of uncomfortable looking positions, and since it's geared towards men it involves very little reciprocity in terms of the woman's pleasure. I have very limited experience with non-heterosexual porn or porn that would be considered artistic as I pretty much gave up on porn so I don't have an opinion of any meaningful sense on those.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)You haven't seen porn I take it.
If that bottom was not there, would it be porn in your eyes?
Spider Jerusalem
(21,786 posts)That said: I'm not really sure that women are "desperate to be objectified"; we live in a society that (still) very much tells women that they're supposed to be pretty, to be ornamental, that they have to wear makeup and high-heeled shoes and remove all their body hair and generally focuses on female appearance to a degree and extent that's honestly rather absurd--read pretty much any magazine article about any prominent woman in any field; odds are the interviewer will tell you what she's wearing in the first paragraph. You'll also notice they generally don't do that with men. And then there's stuff like this. If women are happy to be objectified, it's because we live in a culture that tells them they're supposed to be objectified (and also the women modelling for Sports Illustrated are getting paid for it).
adigal
(7,581 posts)F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)51% of whom, are women.
This idea that everyone is being helplessly programmed by spooky forces (except, of course, for the enlightened few who think they are tasked with warning the rest of us off the brainwashing) is fucking goofy.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)I'm sure you'd also love to tell a PoC that PoC are at least 13% of the problem with racism?That the Native Americans were 17% of the culture of genocide of the 1850s?
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Or form, with "Racism and oppression", for one.
Yes, the trail of tears and a risque bikini pic. TOTALLY the same.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)who will probably be one of the most recognizable people in the country for a while after this, feels terribly "oppressed."
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)That particular idea-fart got a lot of air time, last year.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)but it was interesting reading. I don't think it was any more bizarre than the "opening doors for women is (benevolent) sexism" flamefest, though.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)given to threads depending on opposition/support of the issue, because it just had to become a contest.


Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I expect to see a lot of names I've never seen post before, with signup dates like "August 2012" ... mysteriously appearing out of the woodwork.
polly7
(20,582 posts)I wasn't here for that thread, but sure enjoyed it when I got back. Love your pics. I did see the rec counting, naming and shaming
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)So glad to see you back. I've been quite busy caring for an elderly neighbor a few hours a day.
Horrible person that I am.
polly7
(20,582 posts)I hope your neighbour is doing better, you're an angel for helping.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)it's going on your permanent record!
betsuni
(29,017 posts)Luckily bait is pretty cheap.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Like, knitting socks level boring.
betsuni
(29,017 posts)The great white whale is, like, obsessing you.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)that I'm not available.

RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)I saw Orca at the drive through with my sisters when it came out.
I think they have memories like elephants.
polly7
(20,582 posts)and I think my record's so bad already with some it's been locked up in the 'worst of the worst' drawer.
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But, whatever .... go bad or go home, right?
If you don't want to end up in the same, you'd better shape up, Mister. Shame ... putting all that hair on that nice lady.
I swear you're going to choke someone to death some day!
pipoman
(16,038 posts)At least, and possibly killed or mutilated for exposing herself like this....this is progress....careful what you wish for....
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)unspeakable violence and simply accept middle aged men's increasing fetishization and objectification of "barely legal" women in our society, without comment. Boys will be boys. Ugh.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)She has the right to choose what she does. She decided to do this photo shoot.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)No body here is "barely legal"....no, some want it both ways....freedom. ..but not too much....
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)the picture, or that its sale should be banned.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)Who proclaim their complete progressiveness, feminism and liberalism chastising her and those who appreciate the photos, accusing those who are supportive of being conservative.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)TALIBAN because I've expressed concern over what I consider to be the over objectification of women in our society. I was told on another thread that i OBVIOUSLY didn't care about young girls being burned to death for going to school, because i was supporting the idea that some women wear burqas by choice.
I have no desire to chastise her, or anyone who enjoys looking at her photo. It is the prevalence of these types of photos and the DEGREE to which the message that women are for sex is promoted in our society. No one individual or instance concerns me, it's the culmination and saturation of it that makes it harmful.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Really? What have all your posts in this thread been about, then?
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)it will take you to the studies that have been conducted. http://www.losetheladsmags.org.uk/about/faqs/
I don't know how many different ways I can explain the point of my posts in this thread.
Moving forward, if you would please ignore my existence on DU, I will pay you the same favor. Thanks!
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)It's very ironic that you say you don't mean to chastise anyone who enjoys looking at that picture, but then hawk a link titled "Lose The Lads Mags" in the same thread.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)bhikkhu
(10,789 posts)
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)The double standard simply sickens me.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Will someone post another? Better Believe It! Counting down...1...2...3...
adigal
(7,581 posts)MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Pretty much the same thing, I think. A link's just a click away, isn't it, then?
snooper2
(30,151 posts)MineralMan
(151,142 posts)I remember a few mostly naked young women from my more youthful days. They haven't changed much.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Perpetual outrage sometimes bubbles over at different times of day.
hunter
(40,640 posts)I think I'll be avoiding these threads.
In a better world the SI swimsuit issue would have men and women of all shapes and sizes and all ages modeling swim wear.
Myself, I like to swim naked.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)They'd be hidden right away. Oh, wait...I'm thinking of photos of my own, decrepit, wrinkled body. Never mind.
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)MineralMan
(151,142 posts)I assure you.
tridim
(45,358 posts)It's a work of art.
adigal
(7,581 posts)My daughter is a photographer and shoots nudes in college. They are tasteful and don't smack of gratuitous flashing of body parts for profit.Huge difference between this and art and anyone who wasn't being disingenuous would admit that.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)The human body is being used to express something in one, and commodified in another.
onenote
(46,125 posts)If her photographs appeared in a magazine would they suddenly no longer be art?
zappaman
(20,627 posts)FSogol
(47,600 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)what you said.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)Willy hears you, Willy don't care.
LeftinOH
(5,642 posts)..where's the [insert euphemism here]?
Auggie
(33,111 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)Ah DU and the regulars that keep me entertained with their replies.
Autumn
(48,941 posts)Where is the outrage???? I want the outrage spread all over DU!!! I want this to be locked by Skinner. Now!! Not one alert has been sent on this.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Outrage Skinner! Outrage! I am so outraged that I am shaking with inrage...er...enrage!
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Unlike him, you'd be missed.
Rex
(65,616 posts)NOBODY IS GOING TO HOLD ME BACK! HERE WE GO! ANY MINUTE NOW! A ONE AND A TWO! BABY STEPS!
zappaman
(20,627 posts)You'd have time to alert.
Rex
(65,616 posts)THAT'S IT! WHERE IS MY GUN, I'M WALKING AROUND WAL-MART! OUTRAGE!!!!
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I hear Obama is against polio, impeach! Impeach!
zappaman
(20,627 posts)You might want to move to Denmark.
Rex
(65,616 posts)TSA said he ran through the isles on a plane, nekked, once...and then there was that other time he dressed up as Batman and chased around the 'bad guys'.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)I second and endorse your
Religulous psychotics are crucifying people and turning human beings into tiki torches in the Middle East and goofballs in our very own USA are trying to deny same sex couples the right to marry despite court decisions to the contrary and people get worked up about THIS.
Priorities, people, priorities.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Jesus and the Crusades - is insane IMO. Pure fucking insanity! Obama if he can, will kill every last evil motherfucker in ISIS with our military!
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)compared to many of the other massive problems women face here and around the globe. But it is very symptomatic of the wider issues, which is why many object to it.
People have a right to get "worked up" (read: legitimately angry at a massive corporation commodifying women's bodies for profit) about any damn thing they want to.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)you might have an argument. She wasn't forced to do i and was, I am sure, compensated very handsomely for her time. Her body, her decision, her life, her choice. Unless you think she shouldn't have that choice.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)I never once said she shouldn't be allowed to do it. I said that people can (and imo, should) get angry about it. It's not up to you to determine what's a priority for others.
We're allowed to disagree with things we don't like. I wish there was less objectification in the media and in our culture; doesn't mean I want to shut down SI. Same reason porn is still legal, yet I find it disgusting (the vast majority, anyways). I also think hate speech is wrong, but I support the right of the KKK to publish whatever racist piece of tripe they come up with next. Pretty simple concept, really. You can support the right to do something without supporting the act itself.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Thanks for being logical and logically consistent.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)Thanks for the discussion.
Edit: oops, awkward. Wrong smiley from my stupid phone
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)physically attractive people is ridiculous, who think that there is nothing wrong with people finding other people phyiscally attractive on the basis of appearance or superficial characteristics, that magazines showing beautiful women (or men) aren't inherently "objectifying" (whatever that, actually, means) or negative and in fact are a positive good, an expression of some of the things that are great about our humanity, and also an indicator that our society (most of it, at least) is getting thankfully less uptight about sex and sexuality--- not coincidentally dovetailing with greater social acceptance of LGBT folks, etc.
and guess what? our opinions are "legitimate", too.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)of women is a positive thing for society.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)to some people's hard-wired western religious sex-guilt when they filter lame-ass concepts like "lust is bad" through an overpriced sociology degree.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)although, i did enjoy the sociology classes i took.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I enjoyed those classes, too, and the Eastern Philosophy ones.
But now I'm a practical chappie. I wish I had been, more so, back in the day, but I was too busy smoking fat joints at Itchycoo park.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)but idealism will always be my first love. I can't turn my back on my first love.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)idealism becomes fundamentalism. It's interesting that the far right and the far left have such similar views about sexual topics.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)Agreed, +10000.
Luckily, most liberal men that I know are sensitive to the level of objectification women in our society face. They've actually taken the time to educate themselves on the issue and are able to distinguish it from simple sexual attraction.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I mean there must be some sort of camp or something, right? All this thinking for ourselves and making up our own minds stuff will lead to anarchy!
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)And you're not supposed to question it. Even if it can't be verified by science. Even if it can be cast into doubt by real science. Especially if it can be disproved by the methods of real science. In fact, it's wrong to apply something as human-made as science to dare to question truth handed down from on high. You can see where this line of thought leads, and in one big goddamn hurry - the same mental processes, and I use the term loosely, as the fundys. Bad mojo and it amazes me to see self-professed lefties fall into this obvious trap, but time and again they do. This kind of thinking is so bad it doesn't even deserve the label "wrong."
Anything worth seriously thinking about which isn't purely aesthetic - art, music, poetry - should be subject to analysis via the scientific method. We know it works. The scientific method underlies modern medicine, transportation, and life itself as we know it. Science flies you to the moon and back. Belief flies you into buildings, real or metaphorical.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)method to study the objectification of women and found harmful effects.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)much less behavioral causation in the controlled, peer-reviewed sense physical scientists must answer to get back to me. What you propose is disturbingly close to thoughtcrime. Anyone with an ounce of brains can manipulate the loosey-goosey standards of social science with carefully phrased questions.
I have refuted MacKinnon's bullshit to Harvard professors and won.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)BubbaFett
(361 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Cool! Thanks! Objectification is great for men and women both. It's commonly referred to as sexual attraction.
alp227
(33,260 posts)Objectification reduces the person to sexuality. Sexual attraction maintains humanity. I'm tired of people conflating the two to justify the commercial corruption of healthy human sexuality.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)what is healthy. Thanks kindly.
alp227
(33,260 posts)Y'know, people's minds are way more complex than you frame 'em to be. There's a difference between healthy sexual attraction and the type of commercialized sexuality peddled by SI.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)
alp227
(33,260 posts)Guess what? The real world doesn't meet everyone's fantasy standards. The real world contains people who determine what real science is, which is why creationism and GMOphobia are laughed at by thinking people, for instance.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts) PhD in Clinical Psychology at Pacifica Graduate Institute, 2006, Carpinteria, CA.
MA Transpersonal Psychology, Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, 1999, Palo Alto, CA.
Bachelor of Arts in Biology, 1996, UCSC, Santa Cruz, CA.
Certified Massage Therapist/Holistic Health Care Practitioner, UCSC, 1997.
Anyway, no, not just religious: People who have taken their hard-wired religious lust-guilt and filtered it through expensive liberal arts educations, too.
You're honestly comparing people who find women in bathing suits attractive to creationists? I seriously hope you limbered up before attempting THAT fucking stretch.
alp227
(33,260 posts)Seriously. I've read through all your "arguments". They're garbage, misrepresenting the intents of the critics of the SI cover. Why can't you address the tough, nuanced realities you've been evading all this time?
I thought being progressive was about seeing the nuance in issues instead of reducing everything to simpleton, misleading one-liners.
And no, i did not compare "people who find women in bathing suits attractive to creationists". My point was that an objective meaning of healthy sexuality exists, just like any type of scientific, evidence-based theory.
My goodness. I can't believe the poor reading comprehension of many on this board.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)If she's on the cover of a magazine that is being sold for 5 bucks, it's not.
I can't figure out any other way to parse this incessant axe-grinding around "commodification". There isn't any nuance- There are people who are pissed because a magazine with attractive young ladies in bikinis hits the newsstands every year around Valentine's Day. That's the only "tough reality" here.
an objective meaning of healthy sexuality exists - yes. As long as everything involves consenting adults. That's the objective definition of healthy sexuality. Period, full fucking god-damn stop.
And my definition of "healthy" doesn't include obsessively finger-wagging at people that finding Sports Illustrated models attractive is "unhealthy".
adigal
(7,581 posts)He misrepresents what we say, and then throws a straw man into the argument. Then some hero- worshippers show up to tell him how smart/clever he is.
These responses aren't like any liberal men I know IRL and make me wonder what the guys so vociferously defending this cover as standard fare and perfectly OK are threatened by? Women demanding equal treatment? Women not posing for their enjoyment anymore?
When someone can only mock you for an argument without adding any facts or evidence or perspective or history, they have nothing. That's what I've seen here in many of these type of responses, sadly mostly by males, in this thread.
alp227
(33,260 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)There's a fucking litmus test for true liberalism that one has to hate the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition?
On what planet?
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)hosting rotation immediately- after TODAY.
Trust me, on this one, you can't lose!

Orrex
(67,020 posts)melman
(7,681 posts)Just checking.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)subjective opinion.
My subjective opinion is that healthy sexuality is that which involves consenting adults, and if everyone is a consenting adult it's their own damn business.
adigal
(7,581 posts)And not just mockery and snark.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)kentauros
(29,414 posts)if Heavy Metal was as popular as Sports Illustrated, considering that it comes out bi-monthly

TampaAnimusVortex
(785 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Swimsuit models commonly pull their bottoms down near dangerous levels.
Jeter is a lucky guy. Her body is a work of art.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)truebrit71
(20,805 posts)....a well-known British fish wrap that specializes in grainy photos of celebrity nip-slips whilst sanctimoniously pontificating about the lowering of cultural standards in the country coupled with a healthy dose of right-wing immigrant/euro bashing....
But by all means, let's focus our outrage on a photo of a really hot chick (mostly) in a bikini on the frontcover of a magazine...
Well played...
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)I know porn when I see it
Trust me.
AgingAmerican
(12,958 posts)Where's the 'sarcasm' tag?
THAT is NOT 'porn' or anything remotely near porn.
gcomeau
(5,764 posts)Sigh...
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Not porn.
Anything in SI Swimsuit can be seen every summer at the beach. I don't understand what the big deal is.
AgingAmerican
(12,958 posts)Kinda pathetic....in a religious right sort of way.
adigal
(7,581 posts)Someone would call the police.
False equivalence, comparing a regular bikini like most young women wear to this.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)At CT beaches, I often see both men and women pull up/down their bathing suit bottoms so they can get some sun on that area of the body.
Orrex
(67,020 posts)That is, maybe she's actually covering up...
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)HappyMe
(20,277 posts)at the Jersey Shore.
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)mythology
(9,527 posts)LORELAI: Rory, I love you. I would take a bullet for you, but I would rather stick something sharp in my ear than go to the Jersey Shore with you.
RORY: Fine.
LORELAI: Id rather slide down a banister of razors and land in a pool of alcohol than go to the Jersey Shore with you.
RORY: I got it.
LORELAI: Dont stop me Im on a roll. Id rather eat my own hand than go to the Jersey Shore with you. Ooh, Id rather get my face surgically altered to look like that lunatic witch lady with the lion head than go to the Jersey Shore with you.
RORY: Would you like me to drive so you can continue your diatribe
LORELAI: Would you? Thanks. Id rather cut off my head and use it as a punch bowl than go to the Jersey Shore with you.
fasttense
(17,301 posts)Something I could have lived my entire life without knowing.
Oh well, the poor girl only has her looks to exploit. You know if some uber rich capitalist didn't make money off of these half naked girls, then we wouldn't have to be exposed to them.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)One was a pretty decent human being and the other was one of the smartest people I've known. Those are real people with a whole lot more to them than their looks.
fasttense
(17,301 posts)You would only chose to exploit your looks if you can NOT find a job using your brains. OR, as in our dysfunctional capitalist society, looks are worth more than brains. A very sad fact.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Looks and brains are both assets. Looks are a very short-term asset, though, while brains are pretty much good for most of a lifetime. For the tiny minority of people who have extraordinarily attractive looks, exploitation of that asset isn't such a bad idea. Same is true with athletic abilities. You can only use what you have while you have it.
I was not blessed with both assets, so I had to rely on just one of them. It worked out OK, but I sure could have used the money in my youthful days. It took longer to exploit the other asset, somehow.
robbob
(3,748 posts)...to help sell crap, you are being exploited. It just so happens that one form of exploitation pays a hell of a lot better then the other.
As yes, I am aware that those aren't the only 2 choices, but how many people toil away at dead end jobs simply because they need the paycheck? If you can gin the system by getting paid ridiculous amounts of money to model clothing then more power to ya.
fasttense
(17,301 posts)adigal
(7,581 posts)But it's such a messed up life and field, filled with heroin and other drugs to keep your weight off, alcohol, ODs, that he wisely stayed away. It helps that he went to an Ivy League school, so can find a decent job in NYC.
But that's a whole different conversation.
fasttense
(17,301 posts)while using his brain to manipulate the system to his benefit. Good for him.
Unfortunately Capitalism is NOT so easily reigned in for other people. And some even think it's a great opportunity to display and exploit their momentary youthful beauty.
EX500rider
(12,518 posts)Why indeed...
http://www.forbes.com/sites/natalierobehmed/2014/08/18/the-worlds-highest-paid-models-of-2014-gisele-doutzen-and-adriana-steal-the-show/
The 21 beauties on this years highest-paid models list made a combined $142 million in the last 12 months, proving that flawless genes and stellar business acumen are a killer combination.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)
closeupready
(29,503 posts)bpj62
(1,067 posts)SI is pushing the boundaries but as Mineral Man said there is not any genitalia showing. Many young women now shave their pubic hair to almost zero and this is just an example of that. As the father of a teenage girl I am very conscious of how my daughter dresses as well as how her friends dress and I am also aware of the changes in personal grooming when it comes to our pubic area. Funny thing is the SI swim suit issue does nothing for me. Never has and never will.
Rex
(65,616 posts)A place to post that was free!
On the second day of DU, the admins gave to me
Two Olive Gardens and a place to post that was free!
On the third day of DU, the admins gave to me
Three women breastfeeding, two Olive Gardens and a place to post that was free!
On the fourth day of DU, the admins gave to me
Four pit bulls, three women breastfeeding, two Olive Gardens and a place to post that was free!
On the fifth day of DU, the admins gave to me
Five Sports Illustrated covers, four pit bulls, three women breastfeeding, two Olive Gardens and a place to post that was free!
OneGrassRoot
(23,950 posts)Well done!
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I hardly ever see you posting here any more.
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)A lot going on elsewhere in life as well.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)In fact I don't think I've even looked in over a month. It looks like a place where a fellow could get shot in the crossfire.
alp227
(33,260 posts)kwassa
(23,340 posts)hilarious.
Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)davidn3600
(6,342 posts)Maybe it's because I live in Florida and see women in bikinis all the time. It's no big deal to anyone living here in the land of swimming pools and beaches. You go to the beach and you see women in bikinis everywhere. No one thinks it's oppressive except maybe some radical sex-negative feminists from the north and the religious right.
adigal
(7,581 posts)It's pulling it down so most of your vagina is showing and putting it on a magazine that sells in places where kids are that is inappropriate.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)Now you've got me wondering if you know what a vagina is cuz I don't see it in the picture of this lady.
Not even a little, let alone "most".
adigal
(7,581 posts)zappaman
(20,627 posts)That you know what a vagina is.
So you're upset by what's NOT showing, but could have been showing if it were a different picture.
Got it.
Logical
(22,457 posts)prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)a photographer happened to take a picture? What do you think the purpose of the photo is? What's the purpose of the act of her pulling her bottoms off? Yes, people can be at a nudist colony and it not be porn. People can snap a photo at said nudist colony and it cannot be porn. People can make a sex ed video and it not be porn. People can spend 5 hours in hair and makeup and then pose while pulling down their swimsuit bottoms for the purpose of causing sexual excitement and it can be porn.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)To sell magazines, and it will serve its purpose well, much to the chagrin of Puritans everywhere.
adigal
(7,581 posts)When the purpose is to titillate with a lack of clothing, it's porn.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Is that porn? I know it's only men, but it's kind of like titillating with a lack of clothing and objectifying, right?
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)hunter
(40,640 posts)
A time when our grandmas (okay, maybe just my grandmas, not yours) could freely enjoy the great outdoors wearing nothing at all, and it wasn't about sexual excitement; it was Educational, Scientific, and Cultural!
In case you are wondering, I grew up in a family culture where casual nudity, and "artistic" nudity was unremarkable. My parents are both artists, if that explains anything.
But I suspect most of the men who paid a quarter for "Sunshine and Health" were not reading it for Educational, Scientific, and Cultural reasons. Similar to how most men are not reading the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue for the sports.
betsuni
(29,017 posts)By adulthood I had seen enough. I like clothing. For me, porn is nice looking men in cashmere cardigans fondling cats. I have not yet found a publication catering to my preferences, though. I guess I'm too much of a perv.
EX500rider
(12,518 posts)lol

betsuni
(29,017 posts)Thanks, man.
onenote
(46,125 posts)Not crazy enough to actually state a position. Just chewing on my popcorn.
MicaelS
(8,747 posts)They have always done covers that push the edge, and inflame puritans on both the right and left.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)The DU Semi-Annual Somewhere, Someone Got Turned On By This Outrage Thread!
Woohoo!
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)PassingFair
(22,448 posts)(because there IS none)
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)are conspicuous by their absence from this thread. That is why things have remained civil and rational.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)The SI Swimsuit Issue doesn't actually hit the stands until next week, I think. This thread kind of caught me by surprise too.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)The only surprise is that the thread isn't full of hidden posts already.
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Honestly I'd much prefer an endless discussion of dialectical materialist class consciousness as represented by the relationship between Spongebob and Mr. Krabs.
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)Thongs and topless are pretty standard in Europe, Australia, New Zealand etc etc...
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)applegrove
(131,885 posts)Blue_Tires
(57,596 posts)But then again she's dating Jeter which by default makes her the ugliest woman in the world
Reter
(2,188 posts)None of the young girls today have pubic hair anymore. The last time I seen some in person was 2001.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)Pretty sure he meant young women, not young girls (as in children).
Brazillians are very popular these days.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)seen all that many of the young girls, really. I doubt that all that many are showing you their pubic areas. Certainly none of them are doing that to me. Maybe you're different, though. I have no idea. So, where are you seeing all of these young girls? That's the question.
Reter
(2,188 posts)I'll assume she's in her early to mid 20's. I am 40 but have seen pubic areas of females that age and above recently. The last time I saw pubic hair was 2001. Also, at work we are very open. We all talk about sex and all, and all the young women say say they are shaved, except this one hippy girl.
It may also depend on location. Living in Staten Island certainly helps. Guidos are all extremely maintained, and SI is one of the guido capitals of the world. Even us guys shave here.
3catwoman3
(29,276 posts)...off, because that would be a lot of shaving or even waxing - there would be bound to be some nicks, bumps or scrapes. Or maybe they were airbrushed.
taught_me_patience
(5,477 posts)they made her look like a robot... it's really bad.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)For the record I do not read SI or even look at it either.
If I want to get off on pics of women I look at porn
giftedgirl77
(4,713 posts)There are many many different types of porn out their that have absolutely nothing to do with sex let alone penatration.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)Kiddies Porn would be a example of what you are attempting to point out.
If folks want to think SI is porn go ahead, the other choice is don't buy, read or look at SI and mind their own business about what others choose to read or look at.
The alternative would be to implement Islamic dress codes in this country to make some people happy.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Makes sense to me, but it really upsets some people that someone else might read, buy, or look at it. After all...objectification! The children!
"Mind their own business about what others choose to read or look at." Come on now, you know that's not going to happen. We won't be safe until temperance, chastity, and purity of thought are imposed on all.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)regressive.
We need more threads like this.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)"We need more threads like this."
LOL - don't worry. The magazine hits the stands next week. Before it's over, you'll lose track of who's flaming who. I saw it a year ago.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)A better and more interesting discussion would be "Is Hustler Magazine porn" as long as people include pictures and examples in their posts!
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Since practically everybody has the Internet, I don't see how any of those magazines could survive. Why would anyone pay for what they could get for free a hundred times over?
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)subscription to it.
Nice touch Larry!
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)When the Gov started coming after him he sent them all monthly issues.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)This is tame compared to some of the wars that used to take place in the thankfully-discontinued meta-discussion group. Hidden posts by the dozens, tombstonings (though only one of the worst actual offenders/instigators was ever tombstoned and then only when she told Skinner to go fuck himself IIRC) and a dogmatism that would make John Calvin or Mao feel hopelessly inadequate. inquisitional popes showed more intellectual flexibility. Ah, those hazy days of yore...
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Imagine, if you will a football-field-sized cage full of chimps that is twenty feet high. Every one of these chimps has been ram-fed a gallon of Red Bull and given an elephant-sized shot of pure crystal meth. Uzis and unlimited ammo have been provided to said chimps. Your mission, Mister Phelps, if you choose to accept it, is to carry a "sanity ball" from one end of the cage to the other. Good luck, Jim. You will need it.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)So how can we bring it back?
giftedgirl77
(4,713 posts)si cover as I see nothing wrong with it in the least. I was correcting you on your silly ass porn requires penatration statement.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)Luckily we don't live in your puritanical society
What's next burkas for women so they won't show their sinful bodies to those who object to it?!
giftedgirl77
(4,713 posts)something... I watch porn & rather enjoy porn. However, you are missing a huge swath of porn such as foot fettishes, bukkake, s&m, & 1000s of other things that some get their rocks of on & others find utterly disgusting. Yet none have shit to do with penatration.
So get the fuck of your high horse for once again not knowing what in the fuck you're talking about.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)as one could for any fetish that does not involve penetration.
Just because you call it porn does not make it so
Some uptight folks think the work of Georgia O'Keeffe is porn, I call it art.
Luckily for society my interpretation wins.
giftedgirl77
(4,713 posts)Several men cumming over a woman's face is considered art???
I don't know what bridge you climbed out from under but you need to find your way back under it asap.
Enjoy your stay.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)you do not have to like it nor participate in it either.
If you want to become an art critic you should but it seems like your critiques would be very biased.
I am enjoying my stay thanks!
How about you, having fun yet?
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)Art, eh? I don't know, but I doubt that many would agree with your interpretation of your second example in the title. Maybe I'm wrong, though. I doubt it. I've not seen any examples of that hanging in galleries or museums. Odd, huh?
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)You should get out more
Go see some performance art sometime it is very interesting.
MineralMan
(151,142 posts)I get out a lot, and have many years of getting out behind me. I may have seen you a few times when I got. At, you know, art galleries and stuff. Yeah, that's the ticket.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)That is when things get interesting, and one meets a better class of people.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)Last edited Fri Feb 6, 2015, 07:12 AM - Edit history (1)
Look at what you just said:
You see somen as things there for your sexual pleasure. And that's pretty fucked up. Also, you ever wonder how it might make the women on this board feel?
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)The poster to whom you replied didn't say what you have in your shaded quote box.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I have a new phone, and I've barely figured out how to get the weather.
ChosenUnWisely
(588 posts)being morally superior to me!
Better now?
Monk06
(7,675 posts)olddots
(10,237 posts)I have to shave if I look at the cover of a " sports " magazine ?
99Forever
(14,524 posts)Eeeeeeeeek.
Good grief, the crap some people think they need to whine about.
adigal
(7,581 posts)99Forever
(14,524 posts)Or have you a member of the Posting Hall Monitor Squad?
adigal
(7,581 posts)But didn't tell me what to comment on. Thanks for that!
99Forever
(14,524 posts)... for censors and prudes. Deal with it.
adigal
(7,581 posts)Deal with it.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)... other people what's inappropriate for them to view because you don't happen to like it.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Anything else is I-know-best puritanism. It existentially amazes me that this attitude has so many defenders on a lefty site.
It really comes down to something Marlene Dietrich said in the '30s or '40s "In other nations sex is a fact, in America it is an obsession." Chalk that up to our asshole Puritan forbears. The country has never outgrown it though some of us have at least made an effort to do so.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)They get all indignant when you call them on their crap. I'd rather be rude than a prude. My sweet departed Irish Mother always said, "Watch out for people with no sex lives, they spend all of their energy trying to ruin everyone else's."
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Apparently people are just supposed to chime in to agree with you then?
"Oh my goodness, adigal, you're right! It's filthy! Objectification! Disgusting! Think of the children!"
Excuse me while I swoon.
Nevernose
(13,081 posts)So advertising like this doesn't shock me; much worse is on half the billboards and taxis in town. Furthermore, I raised a fiercely feminist, well-adjusted, intelligent daughter in this same shithole of a town. I never denied to my little girl (who's now in college) that I found women like this SI model or the way-trashier billboard ads physically attractive, but I also let her know that it objectified women and that anybody of either/any gender needs to get beyond looks to appreciate beauty.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)And it's even more than getting beyond looks--it's accepting people for who they are.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)"And I wonder what Jeter's very conservative parents make of this - I have a feeling this is the death knell to this relationship since he seems to care so much what they think."
I imagine they're thinking "Wow, our son really got lucky - super rich and a hot girlfriend!"
adigal
(7,581 posts)He has very stable, level-headed, no nonsense parents who stay out of the limelight and taught him to do the same. His girlfriend's naked public area splayed for all to see at every grocery store won't go over well.
zappaman
(20,627 posts)You are hilarious!
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)and I know absolutely nothing about his family or personal life. If this is something that bothers Derek Jeter or his parents, then that's their business. If it were my son's girlfriend and he was cool with it, it wouldn't bother me (or my wife) a bit.
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)It's not that there aren't valid ideas to be discussed and debated here - commodification of the human body etc. - I just wish people would devote the same mental energy to other stuff as well.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Besides, it's February. That means it's time for the SI Swimsuit Wars.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Android3.14
(5,402 posts)But porn it is not.
Logical
(22,457 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)We should convene a panel of experts to ********* to it, and get back to you on that.
Kurska
(5,739 posts)Rumor has it he can do it just by SIGHT.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)....so to speak
Kurska
(5,739 posts)
indie9197
(509 posts)kind of like you would see in a video game. I like real women better.
Orrex
(67,020 posts)Say it ain't so! What if this catches on?!?
MrScorpio
(73,772 posts)
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)
There, now everyone can be happy.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I hope you don't mind if I stay with the 1.0 version though.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)but I couldn't score the right nun on short notice.
opiate69
(10,129 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)CentralMass
(16,963 posts)betsuni
(29,017 posts)SI will certainly get a lot of "pubicity" for this. When I saw this un-covered cover I thought it was a joke, they couldn't possibly have chosen that photo for the cover. It's funny looking, confusing. Is she going to pee? Ask us if she should get this rash checked out? Show us how good her waxer is? Why does she want us to look at her crotch? What kind of farm is it -- a petting zoo? And why are some men so threatened that some women get tired of the constant parade of such images? You can't understand how boring it is to see the same thing over and over for decades? Well, at least it's not Kim Kardashian's ass again.
adigal
(7,581 posts)I wouldn't be surprised to see an attempt to censor this from grocery stores, etc.
And I'm tired of men mocking me and other women who find this type of image presented as desirable behavior in women disturbing. To be beautiful, girls must all,shave everything and show almost everything. Seems like Gloria Steinem wasted her time.
(And just for those who say all young girls now look like this, there is a backlash against this type of grooming.)
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Seriously?
Nobody is mocking you. I've never even read one of your posts until tonight. A lot of people are mocking this outraged hand wringing that displays itself whenever a scantily-clad woman is seen.
If this had been a man wearing only a fig leaf, nobody would have blinked.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)Yet again. As it has been for thousands of years of systematic male oppression. Just one more in a long line of images. That's the real problem here. (Completely disagree with the OP it's the nudity that is.)
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)The only problem I see here is that people who think the cover is bad won't just ignore it, not buy it, not look at, etc. They feel the need to convince everyone else how bad it is too. That makes no sense to me. It's like people who hate portabella mushrooms trying to convince everyone else that portabella mushrooms are bad.
I hate those cooking shows with that crazy English guy, but my wife loves them. My wife hates wrestling, but I love it. She doesn't try to convince me that wrestling is bad, and I don't try to convince her that crazy cooking shows are bad. She doesn't watch wrestling, and I don't watch crazy cooking shows. It works out for both of us.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)In mainstream media and the culture of oppression of women in the US isn't okay? I think this cover is all of that--am I not allowed to discuss that idea? Can I not attempt to present evidence supporting an opinion on a discussion board in a progressive forum? We are here to discuss and often convince one anotherabout various issues, after all.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)As you said it's a discussion board. Just don't be surprised when, in the course of said discussion, people disagree with you. Don't be surprised when someone tells you that he or she thinks you're wrong on practically everything you've written in this thread.
Snow Leopard
(348 posts)love your opinions too, just don't agree with them is all. *saying* there is oppression doesn't make it so.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Why would you assume she would prevail where so many more powerful institutions, like the Catholic church, failed?
The truth is, no one can control sexuality. Advertising firms can push certain trends, but those trends are based on the conditions already present psychologically in the human mind. The trend of shaving body hair makes women look younger, and exposed more of the flesh. And from a practical standpoint, since cunnilingus has become more of a standard sex act, it makes little practical sense to have a pubic area covered in hair. Body hair is becoming seen as a masculine trait, though even men are "manscaping" for convenience.
Steinem wasted her time because, like everyone before her, she tried to fight an irresistible force. The only people who can still hold out against this force are totalitarian states, where sexuality is criminalized by a theocratic regime. And they, in the end, will also lose.
onenote
(46,125 posts)
?1334815844NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)That woman's knickers are pulled up so that they show her ankles. That's practically porn!
zappaman
(20,627 posts)bluedigger
(17,431 posts)And I checked very closely, just to be sure.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)DebJ
(7,699 posts)No one is buying magazine because the picture is such classy art.
They are buying it for the same reason people buy 'porn'.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Wow...that's just...well I don't know what that is.
DebJ
(7,699 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)DebJ
(7,699 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)Agschmid
(28,749 posts)killbotfactory
(13,566 posts)Anytime a someone wears clothes that other people might find sexually enticing, they are being pornographic?
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)por·nog·ra·phy
\-fē\noun
: movies, pictures, magazines, etc., that show or describe naked people or sex in a very open and direct way in order to cause sexual excitement
Full Definition
1
:the depiction of erotic behavior (as in pictures or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement
2
:material (as books or a photograph) that depicts erotic behavior and is intended to cause sexual excitement
killbotfactory
(13,566 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)How about The Godfather? By your definition, porn is everywhere and omnipresent.
prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I don't think you and I are going to agree on much, so further conversation is probably pointless.
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)prayin4rain
(2,065 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)Literotica.com has a category for everyone.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)When I was younger I read some of "those" books.
killbotfactory
(13,566 posts)and I doubt their readership will be horrified about it
edbermac
(16,436 posts)
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)That's practically porn! Objectification! Think of the children!
Violet_Crumble
(36,385 posts)I need to do some pre-reading and be prepared before the big outrage thread erupts with the release of this issue. Thanks in advance!
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)It's a big train wreck.
This year's version includes some judgy snark about Jeter's parents putting the kabosh on his relationship with the woman on the cover.
Violet_Crumble
(36,385 posts)I might try and kick off the outrageathon with this:
Forget about that pilot being burnt alive! This Sports Illustrated cover is the TRUE crime against humanity!
btw, good to see you again
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)Making people into human tiki torches is nothing compared to the horror of beautiful young women in bathing suits. Not that long ago people were 'Je suis Charlie' all over the place. I guess that's over. Or maybe there's an approved Je suis Charlie list somewhere.
adigal
(7,581 posts)It's not either-or. But I think you know that.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)absent from last year's discussion. Hmmmm....showing up fashionably late by a year:

HappyMe
(20,277 posts)...and socks with them too....
I didn't bother to look too much at last year's thread. I was a bit amazed that the outrage didn't start until 3pm, when I heard on the morning news about the cover. "50 Shades" is coming out on the 14th, so I suppose this will have to tide people over until then.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I'm going to re-read that in my spare time.
johnson_z
(45 posts)Yavin4
(37,182 posts)that Spring is near and the nice weather will return.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)Frank Cannon
(7,570 posts)Now, it's just... meh.
The Internet has killed my soul.
tridim
(45,358 posts)Yavin4
(37,182 posts)pipoman
(16,038 posts)It took up actual space, not virtual space....
Yavin4
(37,182 posts)and getting that look of shame from the clerk. These kids today have no idea how good they have it.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)Also remember going to get a movie for my son when he was like 6, getting to the cashier and having her say, 'there is a charge on your account for not rewinding Shaving Ryans Privates, or some such.....
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Any video store clerk worth his or her damn salt knew that the "smut hut" was responsible for a big chunk of their paycheck.
Frank Cannon
(7,570 posts)I have never understood why we have such a hangup about nudity in this country. I'd much rather my kids see a movie with naked people in it than a movie that glorifies a sniper blowing people's heads off. Now, THAT's disgusting.
alp227
(33,260 posts)There's a difference between choosing on your own to look at raunchy images vs. having raunchy images shoved in your face on someone else's terms.
Bettie
(19,614 posts)a less-airbrushed version of a female body. Or perhaps one that looks like, say the average female body.
Oh, there would be so much more horror over someone who isn't a size zero (and airbrushed) showing her body. Someone whose body doesn't look "perfect" as our society constructs perfection.
Is it porn? Nope. But it does add to the idea that women are only valuable for how well they are packaged for male viewing.
adigal
(7,581 posts)and the comments men were making were horrendous.
Fat, keep your clothes on, pig.
For a liberal site, the men here mostly don't get it, which is surprising.
Bettie
(19,614 posts)that a woman dared to be photographed at a size and with a look that is not the current dominant aesthetic.
Then, there would be the protestations that they only care about her health, as if they know from a photograph what her health status is.
And the many fat pig comments.
I also suspect that many people don't realize that the models in these photos don't look at all like they do in the pictures.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)That's funny. Last year some downright awful things were said about the women on the cover of the swimsuit issue- here, on DU- but they ALL came from people mad about the cover and the existence of the magazine.
Hmmm, I guess a few people have also insulted the intelligence and education level of Hannah Davis, here, too. Interesting.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026184623#post262
Glad to know we all agree that bad-mouthing the SI models is not really fair, or terribly nice.
adigal
(7,581 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)And at least implying that it was done here on DU, when
a) it wasn't done on DU, vis a vis the plus size model
And
b) the only person actually bad-mouthing a SI model this year, so far, was you.
adigal
(7,581 posts)bothered by it, not just me.
Raising daughters with healthy self-esteem is hard enough in a society soaked in consumerism and casual sex. Raising girls who hear from guys that they are "too fat" because they are a size 10 is real, and these boys/guys get that from crap like this magazine. Raising girls who don't think that they need to shave themselves bald and pull their pants down to show everyone how bald they are is made harder when this POS magazine puts this picture in the supermarket aisles.
And now I've just given you a much more thoughtful response than you deserve.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I guess it's okay, though, if it is done insulting the intelligence of the skinny ones, by someone with a whole bunch of "think of the children" psychobabble to rationalize it.
and this year they put a plus size model in, but I guess there's just no pleasing some people.
adigal
(7,581 posts)Hannah Davis looks vacuous in her photos. Now, she may be a member of Mensa or a Rhodes Scholar, but she posed or was posed to look provocative, inviting, and unintelligent. Not intense or fierce or smart. That may be a SI decision or a characteristic of the model but it is a societal force that tells men that they want their women skinny but having breasts, pretty, bald and mostly naked.
And people were bashing the plus sized model in the advertisement, not the size 8 model that SI calls "plus-sized" and pats themselves on the back for including.
And since you may not know, size 8 isn't "plus-sized" in any sane sense of the word. So I'm throwing shade at SI for that BS.
Now, since you and I have very divergent opinions on this, I will leave you with your's. Have a good night.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)But contrary to what they may be teaching in those culture analysis classes, peoples' sexual programming is not so easily whammified by ads or brainwashing or "the patriarchy" or whatever the boogeyman of the week is.
This is why "curing" gay people doesnt work. We rightly condemn that crap, as liberals, don't we? So why is it okay to try to tell hetero men they "shouldn't" find certain women in bathing suits attractive, if that is what they like?
EX500rider
(12,518 posts)Yes, it currently ranks at 3,476,278 on the list of serious issues.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)According to whom?
polly7
(20,582 posts)As I expect most others would be. Many women not 'typical' model-size' have been shown on this board before in various threads, and for the most part, admired.
Women are the ones who seem to preemptively shaming other women. I don't get that, but whatever makes one feel like a victim - I guess, go for it.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)ladies depicted on the cover.
Not "most people don't look like that"- no one does. It is physically impossible, apparently, for anyone to look at all like the 3 bikini-clad women who were on the 2014 cover.
Some people seemed, like, oddly emotionally invested in that proposition. It was downright weird, how threatened they were by the whole thing.
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)They are worried about how others might look at said pics and think something they don't want them to think.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Thoughtcrime!
Orrex
(67,020 posts)I would hope that such a magazine would publish its articles without editing, because professional editing creates an unrealistic expectation of writing ability. And their writing had damn well better not be witty, because that would foster an unreasonable expectation of wit.
Art magazines should stop publishing pictures of great works of art, because these are bound to make ordinary people feel inferior about their artistic ability, too.
It will be a better world when we start celebrating the drab and the mundane.
BubbaFett
(361 posts)remind me of the Taliban?
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)yellowcanine
(36,773 posts)sheesh.
As for the exploitation issue, I am sure she was not forced to do the photo and she was well compensated.
adigal
(7,581 posts)Maybe if we were talking about Playboy, which often has less risque covers than this, but they are covered and not at the family grocery store in the checkout aisle. So your dismissive BS "Yawn. Grow up. Don't look at it," is really cool and, boy, I wish I were as cool as you, but it is not a thoughtful or even slightly logical response as this magazine is in everyone's faces.
And on another site with mostly women, many of the mothers were very upset that they would have to now worry about their adolescent daughters seeing this and thinking you have to be bald and pulling your bottoms down to be sexy. Feel free to dismiss their concerns, too, but they are real and worrisome when raising daughters with healthy self-images.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)That's one of the things that helps kids develop healthy self images. Sports Illustrated isn't responsible for child rearing.
adigal
(7,581 posts)doesn't talk to her? That's not a logical conclusion. Very disappointing to see the type of logic used by Fox News and Freepers here on DU.
A mother can talk and talk, as I did, and these other mothers did and still do, but the images out there are pervasive and powerful. This makes it much harder, even when a mother and daughter have a great relationship, as I do with my daughter, for a girl to understand that she doesn't have to look like this and present herself like this model to be attractive.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)grew up in the same society, exposed to the same images, and has a great self image. Sports Illustrated didn't seem to have much of an effect.
davidn3600
(6,342 posts)They are the ones putting it in the checkout aisle.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)and claiming to offer a Feminist perspective? Hannah Davis is a wildly successful woman at the very top of her field earning millions of dollars but this article identifies her as 'Derek Jeter's girlfriend'. That's typical of the conservative tabloid The Daily Fail but it is odd to see their sexism touted here as if it is not sexism.
Who is she? Some guy's girlfriend. What's important? His parents will be upset....
In 1993 they ran this headline: ""Abortion hope after 'gay genes' finding".
In the pre WW2 years, they were in fact, pro fascist in a big, big way.
Their current front page offers two photos of 'Hefner's Playboy Ex' falling down, ass to camera.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/ushome/index.html
Stellar
(5,644 posts)nt
Rex
(65,616 posts)nt
titaniumsalute
(4,742 posts)Oddly enough these pictures never really arouse me at all. I actually thing she has a gorgeous face but the rest of her looks rather fake, airbrushed, and so far out of my league you'd need a worm hole in space to get me close.
I tend to like the more natural look. But if you put a lady at about 135 pounds with a muffun top and some thick legs/ass, it would turn me on. But then would it be porn?
By the way...food turns me on. Is that pornographic?
Major Nikon
(36,925 posts)
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Nice yin yang there, too.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)If you click "view all", the thread loads one post at a time lol
At this rate, it will take me 5 minutes to load the thread.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)TeamPooka
(25,577 posts)BootinUp
(51,234 posts)I am 51 f'in years old. To me the picture is soft porn. But to the younger generation is probably is less "porn" worthy than that. One other thing that I think have learned. I doubt that it is beneficial to enforce an earlier generations standards on porn on the next generation. Just a thought.
betsuni
(29,017 posts)because it was "too risque." Then they did one on a new reality show called "The Sex Factor" about young people competing to be best porn actor.
randr
(12,642 posts)My question is whether she is pulling bottoms on or taking them off.
Entreating, enticing, provocative, intimate, but not pornographic.
TransitJohn
(6,937 posts)yay!
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)
Man, the shit I learn on DU.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)DU paranoia and ignorance on a similar subject: http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025431864#post353
I yam flabbergasked, to quote Popeye the Sailor.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)It's-a gonna be a long-a week!
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Last edited Sat Feb 7, 2015, 02:16 AM - Edit history (1)
Full speed ahead!

We always loved the boating school episodes of SB....remember when Flats was the new student? So many good ones with Mrs. Puff:

Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Fishin'...

Hey! Spongebob movie comes out tomorrow, doesn't it? Uh oh, gonna probably have to see that.
http://www.npr.org/2015/02/06/384314116/second-spongebob-movie-is-a-nonsensical-loud-choppy-triumph
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I would think Tyra Banks "nearly flashing her labia" in '97 alone would have caused a Higgs Boson general field collapse.
antiquie
(4,299 posts)may have shifted the timeline.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)The question is whether or not a man held the door open for those young ladies. If not, we move on to Spider Woman.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Popcorn time!
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Calista241
(5,633 posts)steve2470
(37,481 posts)by enlightened secular (and liberal religious) standards of 2015, not porn.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)I'm glad that all the world's problems have been addressed to the point where we can focus on a bikini for 500 posts.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)This is DU. 500 post Shiny Object threads is what we do!
Just be glad Olive Garden isn't sponsoring another moon bombing mission.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)Fence break at the ranch in Belize. Hogs are loose. I'll check back in at post 750.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)They're murder on the old ankles.
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)trueblue2007
(19,228 posts)if i were her ...... i would never pose for that picture. my God woman, don't you have respect for yourself???
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)One of them anyway.
I see the arguments haven't changed much. Objectification. Misogyny. Patriarchy. That sort of stuff - all for one magazine cover a year that some men (and some women) enjoy looking at.
aikoaiko
(34,214 posts)McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)Now, there is one online where you can see like half a centimeter of nipple. That is porn.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Oh my god, the GD pubic hair wars? That was .... well, for lack of a better word, hairy.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Probably a good thing for me.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)People who claim they believe in "not telling women what they should or shouldn't do with their bodies", telling women what they should or shouldn't do with their bodies.
Fairly typical.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)and then move on to tell them what they CAN or CANNOT do with their own bodies.
NoJusticeNoPeace
(5,018 posts)are simply immature and as we evolve as human beings we will be better able to recognize what is gross
(insert photo here of dead Iraqi's on the night of "Shock & Awe"
and what isnt
(insert photo of nude man and woman)
samsingh
(18,399 posts)WhaTHellsgoingonhere
(5,252 posts)some people just keep watching the same thread over and over and over
Stuart G
(38,726 posts)need to keep up with it..
now and forever....
FSogol
(47,600 posts)it, not knowing what it was, and they'll continue replying to it forever just because...This is the thread that never ends, yes it goes on and on my friend. Some people started replying to it, not knowing what it was, and they'll continue replying to it forever just because...This is the thread that never ends, yes it goes on and on my friend. Some people started replying to it, not knowing what it was, and they'll continue replying to it forever just because...This is the thread that never ends, yes it goes on and on my friend. Some people started replying to it, not knowing what it was, and they'll continue replying to it forever just because...This is the thread that never ends, yes it goes on and on my friend. Some people started replying to it, not knowing what it was, and they'll continue replying to it forever just because...This is the thread that never ends, yes it goes on and on my friend. 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