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big_dog

(4,144 posts)
Fri Feb 27, 2015, 04:12 PM Feb 2015

The Clooney Effect: Men Increasingly Seeking Out More Independent, Self-Reliant, Educated Women

For millennia, a woman's value in a marriage was largely limited to birthing children and caring for a household. That's changed now, and men's desires have changed accordingly. Men want their wives—partners, really—to be much more independent, with lives and careers outside of the home.

As the Clooney Effect's name suggests, it's George who gained from marrying the beautiful, smart, independent Amal. One commenter at Time summed it up nicely after the couple made their first post-marriage appearance at this year's Golden Globes, "We always thought that she was the woman who finally snared George Clooney, but it’s the other way around. And we’re all better off for it." But, according to Fisher's findings, many men aren't just looking for their equals but perhaps their superiors. The vast majority—87 percent—said they would date a woman who makes more money, is more intellectual, and is better educated than they are.

Women, for their part, seem to be looking for their equals: 86 percent want a partner who is as intelligent as they are. Additionally, 55 percent aren't willing to support their partner financially, and 61 percent claim not being as intelligent as them is an automatic deal-killer, according to the Match.com findings. http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/02/the-clooney-effect/386018/?utm_source=SFTwitter

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SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
2. I'm sorry but this is actually the SomethingFishy effect.
Fri Feb 27, 2015, 04:21 PM
Feb 2015

I was doing this when George was still starring in Attack Of The Killer Tomatoes 2.

Only you can knock "beauty" down the list. Smart, independent, happy, funny, and if she happens to be cute all the better.

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Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
5. Yeah, only I thought it was the
Fri Feb 27, 2015, 04:24 PM
Feb 2015

Jackpine Effect. I'm just glad I got a 50-year head start on figuring that one out.

msongs

(67,433 posts)
3. evidently clooney did not see the pic of mom brandishing a gun while her independent daughter
Fri Feb 27, 2015, 04:22 PM
Feb 2015

was fighting with another self-reliant woman over a ... man lol

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
7. Uhh... That's pretty much the way a lot of shy introverted guys get married..
Fri Feb 27, 2015, 04:42 PM
Feb 2015

About a third to a half of humans tend to introversion, roughly half of them are men.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
9. My father to my brother who used to date only mindless women...
Fri Feb 27, 2015, 05:34 PM
Feb 2015

"do you really want to make babies with her son"? He ended up marrying a very well educated, cultured independent woman. Love her to death and so has he for over 30 years.

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