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MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 01:45 PM Mar 2015

In light of multiple threads about AverageJoe90's demise, a question; why don't people use ignore?

I'm reading the threads where so many people say they were "harassed for years" by this user. Isn't that what ignore is for? I understand if this idiot was following you around with a different username every day, but people seem to be saying that they knowingly and willingly continued, for years, to see and respond to this loser's racist, misogynistic rants.

I don't understand the need to even engage with a poster like that. I'm assuming people didn't have this troll on ignore because they have an irrepressible urge to respond and try to prove it's wrong/call it out? The old, "Cancel all my meetings, someone on the internet is wrong"?

If so, you're wasting your time: 1) It is a troll, and has no intentions except to disrupt, and 2) the vast majority of us already know it's a troll, so its posts really aren't convincing/influencing anyone.

I saw a thread response from a poster talking about how disheartened he/she was to not be able to keep up with trying to respond to/alert on AverageJoe90's threads. Why? What's the point? Calling people out as trolls (subtly or unsubtly) just seems to drive away new members, and using the alert system for "troll control" just doesn't seem like an effective measure when there are likely dozens of daily signups simply to disrupt.

Bottom line, if you feed a troll, it stays around. We would all be better served to remember that there's probably nothing more disheartening to a troll than to return to its "My Posts" tab just to see that no one has taken the bait.

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In light of multiple threads about AverageJoe90's demise, a question; why don't people use ignore? (Original Post) MadDAsHell Mar 2015 OP
Because it makes DU a fucked place, an embarrassment. bettyellen Mar 2015 #1
+1 Little Star Mar 2015 #7
Sometimes it's the only thing that makes DU readable Blue_Tires Mar 2015 #51
On-line mobs are more fun. n/t Comrade Grumpy Mar 2015 #2
I've wondered the same. cwydro Mar 2015 #3
That's not the question. The question is why did a racist/sexist poster last this long. DanTex Mar 2015 #4
A noble but impossible goal. It's a website, and registering requires nothing more than an... MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #39
He wasn't exactly subtle about it BainsBane Mar 2015 #50
I think this meme shows why LittleBlue Mar 2015 #5
Classic Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #8
Love this! cwydro Mar 2015 #11
I have never used Ignore and never will. For several reasons. Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #27
Those reasons are exactly mine as well. cwydro Mar 2015 #32
"I am perfectly capable of ignoring someone if I choose without the aid of the DU software. " MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #41
DUers much more eminent than I actually beat me to it on this point. Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #45
That is pretty much my MO as well. hifiguy Mar 2015 #94
I won't use Ignore either for those reasons. LiberalLovinLug Mar 2015 #106
The only person I ever put on ignore Blue_In_AK Mar 2015 #113
Ah yes, I have actually used the block PM feature. Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #114
I can say the same thing yuiyoshida Mar 2015 #146
You and me both! cwydro Mar 2015 #147
I am not worried about Zombies... yuiyoshida Mar 2015 #148
Skittles will kick their asses! cwydro Mar 2015 #149
YES INDEED! yuiyoshida Mar 2015 #150
Yeah and the ultimate irony is that by banning these people LittleBlue Mar 2015 #22
Wow, never thought about it that way; makes a lot of sense. Tombstoning makes "Ignore" useless. nt MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #44
Are you saying AverageJoe90 was on your ignore list? BainsBane Mar 2015 #69
When I started reading the AA threads and saw him more and more LittleBlue Mar 2015 #73
Well, you have told me more than once that you don't read my responses BainsBane Mar 2015 #74
Trolls often do believe what they are saying. boston bean Mar 2015 #76
When they're long and confuse me LittleBlue Mar 2015 #92
Yes, exactly. sibelian Mar 2015 #118
"Oh and BTW he's back" AverageJoe90? A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2015 #119
I'm pretty sure it was "letters4words", he was here and gone again in short... Spazito Mar 2015 #161
Thank you. A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2015 #163
Becasue then the trolls win. JoePhilly Mar 2015 #6
Everyone ignoring them, and nobody responding to them, or seeing their posts, is "winning"? (nt) Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #10
Their posts get to stand, which suggests that they are acceptable here. JoePhilly Mar 2015 #13
+1! zappaman Mar 2015 #25
If a post stands and nobody gets to see it, did it really stand? (nt) Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #33
most people don't put anyone on ignore. also, telling people "avert your eyes" geek tragedy Mar 2015 #36
Exactly. I was always told to never turn your back on a snake. R B Garr Mar 2015 #57
You incorrectly assume no one would see it. JoePhilly Mar 2015 #154
Exactly what I was trying to say. I'd rather we don't tolerate the bigotry and sexism.... bettyellen Mar 2015 #129
Bingo. nt laundry_queen Mar 2015 #151
LOL! How do you purpose making sure everyone is ignoring and not responding. Rex Mar 2015 #35
ignoring racism, sexism and homophobia makes you part of the problem, imo. nt seabeyond Mar 2015 #9
reading about it doesn't make it go away. that can really only be done in valerief Mar 2015 #81
i believe in challenging stupid and hate. that simple. whether on a board or in rl. nt seabeyond Mar 2015 #82
You just reminded me. I have some editing on my novel to do. nt valerief Mar 2015 #83
Why should its presence be tolerated on DU? Scootaloo Mar 2015 #107
Disgustingus Kali Mar 2015 #111
I don't know, maybe the same reason people don't hide threads they don't like. n/t gollygee Mar 2015 #12
boom Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2015 #17
*snerk* cyberswede Mar 2015 #19
... cwydro Mar 2015 #26
You did there, I see what. Rex Mar 2015 #29
Hahaha! spooky3 Mar 2015 #87
Drop that mic! nt msanthrope Mar 2015 #40
That was going to be my post A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2015 #109
Because hostility toward equality needs to be addressed cyberswede Mar 2015 #14
You mean don't let someone run around calling other posters radfem? Rex Mar 2015 #21
I disagree, I really think they'd go away. Trolling is prob only entertaining if it gets a response. MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #53
you certainly would know. geek tragedy Mar 2015 #65
Very confusing. bravenak Mar 2015 #86
Huh? zappaman Mar 2015 #89
Hopefully this one doesn't last 3 fucking years. MerryBlooms Mar 2015 #136
!! Number23 Mar 2015 #156
Why do you care? Rex Mar 2015 #15
We keep having posts near each other...with our matching avatars. cyberswede Mar 2015 #18
That is logical. Spock is with us. Rex Mar 2015 #23
DU desperately needs that Spock smiley. hifiguy Mar 2015 #95
I think Admins are going to add it! cyberswede Mar 2015 #96
Woohoo! hifiguy Mar 2015 #97
I think this OP should really be called, Thread for those having a sad AJ90 has left the building. boston bean Mar 2015 #20
Yes maybe a grieving thread for all his buddies that liked to call women radfems. Rex Mar 2015 #24
He was MY boyfriend!! bravenak Mar 2015 #128
I'm absolutely concerned when DUers say they're being harassed. You're not? MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #58
yet you want the harassment to be ignored, instead of a community addressing it? seabeyond Mar 2015 #77
Sure you are. Kewl story bro! Rex Mar 2015 #79
Because if you care about this place as a community, boston bean Mar 2015 #16
If you ignore them, they still post on your threads -- you just don't see them. pnwmom Mar 2015 #28
Good point Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Mar 2015 #110
Because then the message is that bigotry and harassment are okay and that the geek tragedy Mar 2015 #30
I removed AverageJoe90 from my ignore list Capt. Obvious Mar 2015 #31
Also, this is interesting: geek tragedy Mar 2015 #34
Ohhhh...'race-sensitive'...learned a new term TY for the link. Rex Mar 2015 #38
see also this link: geek tragedy Mar 2015 #42
Holy cow, "apparently" the OP "is black"? Who the hell are you? MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #61
you frequently talk about how liberals expect black people to feel sorry for themselves. geek tragedy Mar 2015 #68
'honest opinion on race' Rex Mar 2015 #85
aj90's signature phrase was "to be honest"--such that "TBH" became a joke nt geek tragedy Mar 2015 #102
YEP. Rex Mar 2015 #121
"Apparently" you self-identified. Then wanted to change the terminology.... Hekate Mar 2015 #131
and this gem: geek tragedy Mar 2015 #47
Interesting. Rex Mar 2015 #49
follow the discussion to the end, quite revealing about the participants nt geek tragedy Mar 2015 #52
The pack of bigots that have swarmed on this issue see AJ90's shitcanning as their own future alcibiades_mystery Mar 2015 #84
Sounds like him azmom Mar 2015 #99
sounds like Ben Carson and Herman Cain nt geek tragedy Mar 2015 #101
i would think he would keep in mind, that discussing discrimination does not make "feeling sorry for seabeyond Mar 2015 #104
And it was posted in the African-American forum. azmom Mar 2015 #105
Very interesting... Spazito Mar 2015 #48
called it AND, we are all just over sensitive. thanks geek. not surprised. nt seabeyond Mar 2015 #55
Looks like this PPR makes some people nervous BainsBane Mar 2015 #60
I noticed that as eell. hrmjustin Mar 2015 #63
If someone shits on my living room floor, it's not fixed by relocating to the dining room arcane1 Mar 2015 #37
That's like saying 'ignore the bully and he'll leave you alone'. bravenak Mar 2015 #43
+1 bravenak is a perfect example of how you cannot just ignore trolls on DU. nt Rex Mar 2015 #54
+2 Hekate Mar 2015 #122
isnt it? interesting, the people that all of a sudden want us to ignore racism and sexism. seabeyond Mar 2015 #123
Did not know he had such great supporters. bravenak Mar 2015 #125
I have to say that most DUers do not believe that ignoring the bully makes them go away Number23 Mar 2015 #157
This poster is a special type of poster. bravenak Mar 2015 #158
Post removed Post removed Mar 2015 #46
As opposed to every other thread on every other subject? BainsBane Mar 2015 #56
Creative allegation. LanternWaste Mar 2015 #59
I use ignore from time to time but you tend to miss some epic meltdowns. hrmjustin Mar 2015 #62
I think Ignore is very necessary for some users. MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #67
Yes if there is someone that is too difficult to deal with ignore is the best option. hrmjustin Mar 2015 #71
I'm inclined to agree with this post by you but if I do, in true DU fashion, I will be accused of ChisolmTrailDem Mar 2015 #64
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. how many OPs of yours have i seen you OUTRAGED, outraged, i tell you. seabeyond Mar 2015 #72
Every single letter of your post... ChisolmTrailDem Mar 2015 #108
So, the mob rules. pintobean Mar 2015 #115
Probably the same reason someone wouldn't use the TRASH THREAD feature... Kalidurga Mar 2015 #66
I don't believe in it. KamaAina Mar 2015 #70
Trolls accumulate and end up packing juries when not called out. daredtowork Mar 2015 #75
You make a great point. spooky3 Mar 2015 #88
I hadn't thought of that either. nt MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #93
Because ignoring stupid does not make it go away. jeff47 Mar 2015 #78
I do, I do, I do. I've put at least one person on Ignore today. Every year or two valerief Mar 2015 #80
I checked. He was on my own iggy list Warpy Mar 2015 #90
I don't know. Because I'm too chickenshit to admit that I'm drawn to the spectacle of Guy Whitey Corngood Mar 2015 #91
he was on my ignore list, but for that reason I'm glad people are discussing his demise carolinayellowdog Mar 2015 #98
I use ignore BainsBane Mar 2015 #100
It hides the whole subthread. Starry Messenger Mar 2015 #103
This message was self-deleted by its author Corruption Inc Mar 2015 #112
cant really have that "reasonable" debate, either, having someone on ignore, right? seabeyond Mar 2015 #116
Trolls don't have reasonable debates... MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #153
it seems you do not either. many people have pointed out the reason to not ignore them, and have seabeyond Mar 2015 #159
You are correct. sibelian Mar 2015 #120
My ignore list is truly huge. sibelian Mar 2015 #117
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2015 #124
And yet you have nothing else better to do yourself? Pot, meet kettle! arcane1 Mar 2015 #126
sorry you bullied that DUer into silence carolinayellowdog Mar 2015 #132
Did you see the post? A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2015 #135
a whole post of insults to duers, a lot of sexist language. you feel it quite accurate? nt seabeyond Mar 2015 #138
Did you even read the post? Accusing all of DU of doing what they themselves did with every post? arcane1 Mar 2015 #140
They would rather whine! nt Logical Mar 2015 #127
now wait a minute. you called out the other OP, yet participate with this OP. seabeyond Mar 2015 #139
i do PowerToThePeople Mar 2015 #130
Cuz you didn't make me. tabasco Mar 2015 #133
You win A-Schwarzenegger Mar 2015 #134
That's hot. MadDAsHell Mar 2015 #152
I perused the grave dancing threads, and it seems like those who found him most Doctor_J Mar 2015 #137
You don't get it. AverageJoe90 invaded legitimate threads, relentlessly. kwassa Mar 2015 #144
I have two people on ignore ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #141
I use my own considerable ability LWolf Mar 2015 #142
The current version of 'ignore' has a feature that I don't like... Princess Turandot Mar 2015 #143
No, that's not true. Nye Bevan Mar 2015 #145
By that logic, AverageJoe90 might never have been banned. Heidi Mar 2015 #155
People here are really vested in their screen names/personas. closeupready Mar 2015 #160
here is a simple fact. and we watched it here, over the last 3 yrs and more, on DU3 seabeyond Mar 2015 #162
 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
1. Because it makes DU a fucked place, an embarrassment.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 01:47 PM
Mar 2015

It matters, putting your head in the sand is not the preferred solution.

 

Blue_Tires

(57,596 posts)
51. Sometimes it's the only thing that makes DU readable
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:29 PM
Mar 2015

And it's sometimes the only thing that prevents me from going on a shooting spree...Especially as the number of your "enemies" grow...

But it's just a temporary solution...Every couple of months I have an amnesty and clear out the list -- Even those I truly despise...

DanTex

(20,709 posts)
4. That's not the question. The question is why did a racist/sexist poster last this long.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 01:52 PM
Mar 2015

We don't want a board crawling with racists who everyone else has on ignore. We want a board of Democrats.

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
39. A noble but impossible goal. It's a website, and registering requires nothing more than an...
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:21 PM
Mar 2015

email address.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
50. He wasn't exactly subtle about it
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:28 PM
Mar 2015

The fact is this is supposed to be a liberal/Democratic website, not a while male supremacist one. There is a TOS, and Joe didn't fit it.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
5. I think this meme shows why
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 01:54 PM
Mar 2015



Oh and BTW he's back, showing once again the futility of banning people on this site
 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
11. Love this!
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 01:57 PM
Mar 2015

I don't think I had any interaction with the guy.

If I did, it wasn't memorable. But I never put anyone on ignore. Never have. Ever.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
27. I have never used Ignore and never will. For several reasons.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:09 PM
Mar 2015

1. I like to see everyone's point of view, even those I tend to disagree with.
2. I am perfectly capable of ignoring someone if I choose without the aid of the DU software.
3. That warm fuzzy feeling when I find myself agreeing wholeheartedly with someone that I normally disagree with.
4. When I have a great idea for a pithy, original response to a thread I look dumb if someone I am ignoring beat me to it.
5. Nobody on the internet can upset me enough that it actually raises my blood pressure or endangers my physical health.
6. I am even-tempered enough that I don't reflexively respond to something I find offensive and get a post of my own hidden, eventually earning myself a suspension.

Of course these points do not apply to everyone. Many folks would clearly improve their lives greatly by taking advantage of Ignore.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
32. Those reasons are exactly mine as well.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:11 PM
Mar 2015

There are posters I avoid; I may read their threads - I just don't comment.

Number 5 is perfect and something many here should learn.

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
41. "I am perfectly capable of ignoring someone if I choose without the aid of the DU software. "
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:23 PM
Mar 2015

Good point.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
45. DUers much more eminent than I actually beat me to it on this point.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:25 PM
Mar 2015
Response to hrmjustin (Original post)Mon Mar 16, 2015, 11:34 AM
Star Member Skinner (60,162 posts)
1. Unforced ignore works just fine.

You all are adults and you are all capable of managing your own interactions with each other.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1259&pid=7711
 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
94. That is pretty much my MO as well.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:40 PM
Mar 2015

I might miss something clever or enlightening, in particular a snappy comeback to someone I find noxious.

And it's just the freaking internet.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,689 posts)
106. I won't use Ignore either for those reasons.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 04:34 PM
Mar 2015

Also

7. I actually enjoy a good spar. I am unfamiliar with this poster in question, but if everyone has trolls like this on ignore, then who will battle them (with words) in order to help reveal their true natures or antiquated ideas? Because some posters seem to have an agenda to cleverly sway opinion away from progressive ideals (the anti-whistleblower brigade comes to mind). If no one is there to challenge them and reveal their disguised fear/ignorance, others might assume they have no opposition on this site and take their reactionary positions as reasonable.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
113. The only person I ever put on ignore
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:06 PM
Mar 2015

sent me menacing PM's. He was TSed within 12 hours.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
114. Ah yes, I have actually used the block PM feature.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:18 PM
Mar 2015

Haven't received a nasty one in a while, so I'd forgotten about that.

yuiyoshida

(45,415 posts)
146. I can say the same thing
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 10:21 PM
Mar 2015

I remember his name but never had an encounter with him. Guess I am lucky.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
147. You and me both!
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 10:23 PM
Mar 2015

But I have no doubt that he'll be back.

Seems to be a lot of socks and zombies here lately.

yuiyoshida

(45,415 posts)
148. I am not worried about Zombies...
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 10:39 PM
Mar 2015

We have Sid, the Zombie fighter!!! If he doesn't beat them, Skittles will!

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
22. Yeah and the ultimate irony is that by banning these people
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:03 PM
Mar 2015

I'm forced to read them again. I use my Ignore list so that I don't have to read it. But that doesn't transfer to their second, third, fourth, etc. accounts. So while these banned members take a moment of inconvenience to make a new account, those of us who can properly use our ignore lists spend weeks/months reading their BS until they can be re-identified and re-added to our ignore lists.

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
44. Wow, never thought about it that way; makes a lot of sense. Tombstoning makes "Ignore" useless. nt
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:25 PM
Mar 2015
 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
73. When I started reading the AA threads and saw him more and more
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:52 PM
Mar 2015

At first I thought he had genuine disagreements, but it became obvious he was there to provoke black forum members with disingenuous arguments.

I am willing to read anyone who is genuine , no matter how wrong their opinion seems to me. They go on the ignore list once I think they're making arguments even they don't believe.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
74. Well, you have told me more than once that you don't read my responses
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:58 PM
Mar 2015

and I don't think a convincing argument can be made that I don't believe what I write.

Anyway, I know I'm in the minority, but I think he actually believed that nonsense. I don't know how it would be possible to so consistently fake that level of cluelessness.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
92. When they're long and confuse me
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:36 PM
Mar 2015

I don't.

As for Joe, I think his views were stronger, but he moderated them so that they would pass juries and cause dissension. He knew how to make his arguments just offensive enough to provoke, but not so offensive that people stopped arguing with him.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
118. Yes, exactly.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:29 PM
Mar 2015

When it becomes blatantly apparent that your opponent is playing "hmmm, how can I contradict you today" it's just my attention being spent for their sake. I'm incredibly strict with ignore. I like reading DU, I'm not wasting my time on people that have nothing to bring. They don't even have to be irritating anymore.

Spazito

(55,503 posts)
161. I'm pretty sure it was "letters4words", he was here and gone again in short...
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 12:07 PM
Mar 2015

order. A genius he is not, I guess laughing at him re TBH, IMO, SJW was too much for the poor troll so he came back under this laughable user name and the few posts he managed to make before the ban hammer nailed him again were single capital letters replacing words, ie IDKWYM.

Not obvious at all!

Just for AverageJoe90 aka letters4words....YAAFIWSFB, figure that one out asshole.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
10. Everyone ignoring them, and nobody responding to them, or seeing their posts, is "winning"? (nt)
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 01:57 PM
Mar 2015

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
13. Their posts get to stand, which suggests that they are acceptable here.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 01:58 PM
Mar 2015

Not a fan of ignore. Hiding from hate does nothing to stop it.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
36. most people don't put anyone on ignore. also, telling people "avert your eyes"
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:14 PM
Mar 2015

is not the way to handle things, the correct response is "no bigotry and harassment allowed"

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
129. Exactly what I was trying to say. I'd rather we don't tolerate the bigotry and sexism....
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 07:22 PM
Mar 2015

Because it's been fucking DU up in terms of diversity. Posters are less interesting, and more self involved and libertarian leaning. They agreed to the TOS but it pisses them off they can't spew any old bullshit like they can on Reddit.
A lot of good people are gone because it's an ugly environment for women and people of color.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
35. LOL! How do you purpose making sure everyone is ignoring and not responding.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:13 PM
Mar 2015

You cannot and you know this. Winning is getting rid of a longtime sexist/racist troll. Funny how some are blind to that obvious truth.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
81. reading about it doesn't make it go away. that can really only be done in
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:08 PM
Mar 2015

face-to-face interactions.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
82. i believe in challenging stupid and hate. that simple. whether on a board or in rl. nt
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:09 PM
Mar 2015
 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
107. Why should its presence be tolerated on DU?
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 04:41 PM
Mar 2015

You want to sww Bigots backslapping each other, Skinner runs Disgustingus for exactly that sort of conversation.

A-Schwarzenegger

(15,813 posts)
109. That was going to be my post
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 04:58 PM
Mar 2015

if I had read through this thread
and hadn't seen your post,
which I did, so, yeah.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
14. Because hostility toward equality needs to be addressed
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:00 PM
Mar 2015

...especially on a Democratic message board.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
21. You mean don't let someone run around calling other posters radfem?
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:03 PM
Mar 2015

On a progressive website? Hmmm...you know that makes a lot of sense. If we ignore the troll, they just find new members to pick on. Not like they will go away unless confronted.

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
53. I disagree, I really think they'd go away. Trolling is prob only entertaining if it gets a response.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:29 PM
Mar 2015
 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
65. you certainly would know.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:41 PM
Mar 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5878041

MadDAsHell (155 posts)

37. I'll bite. As a black male I appreciate someone contributing to...


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5908182

MadDAsHell (156 posts)

41. African-American, not "black," please. Thank you. nt


 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
23. That is logical. Spock is with us.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:04 PM
Mar 2015

I see you have great admiration for the man as well.



boston bean

(36,931 posts)
20. I think this OP should really be called, Thread for those having a sad AJ90 has left the building.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:03 PM
Mar 2015

brought out a lot of his friends already.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
24. Yes maybe a grieving thread for all his buddies that liked to call women radfems.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:07 PM
Mar 2015

Or joked about SJW. As if being concerned about others is something to laugh about.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
128. He was MY boyfriend!!
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 07:04 PM
Mar 2015

Why are they sadder than me? I think he was cheating on me.

boston bean

(36,931 posts)
16. Because if you care about this place as a community,
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:01 PM
Mar 2015

you take the effort to make it a better place.

The way the system is set, is if you ignore a poster, you don't serve on their jury. If you Trash a thread, you won't serve on a jury for it either.

So, best not to ignore.

pnwmom

(110,261 posts)
28. If you ignore them, they still post on your threads -- you just don't see them.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:10 PM
Mar 2015

Maybe people prefer to know when jerks are spreading around vile comments, instead of just letting them stand, unanswered.

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(135,727 posts)
110. Good point
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 05:13 PM
Mar 2015

I've experienced that myself. Can't help but logoff to see WTF and who da phuq posted.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
30. Because then the message is that bigotry and harassment are okay and that the
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:10 PM
Mar 2015

onus is on the non-malignant personalities to accommodate the bigots and stalkers.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
38. Ohhhh...'race-sensitive'...learned a new term TY for the link.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:17 PM
Mar 2015

My, my, my...one of those posters is not like the other...one of those posters is not the same.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
42. see also this link:
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:24 PM
Mar 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5907772

apparently the OP is both black and someone with similar views as aj90, except when they're scolding people for referring to "black" people because something something
 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
61. Holy cow, "apparently" the OP "is black"? Who the hell are you?
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:35 PM
Mar 2015

I guess I should remember my own advice on ignore.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
68. you frequently talk about how liberals expect black people to feel sorry for themselves.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:45 PM
Mar 2015

See, e.g.,

MadDAsHell (156 posts)

37. I'll bite. As a black male I appreciate someone contributing to...

,with virtually no filter, this mythic "open and honest discussion about race" that everyone claims they want to have.

Do I feel this individual is overgeneralizing? Yes.

Do I feel this individual is probably not a minority and thus is making assumptions about African Americans without any firsthand experience to back it up? Yes.

But do I also feel that we as liberals are pretty disingenuous about our desire to have an open and honest discussion about race, as most of us clearly have no plans to let anyone speak their honest opinion on race if it offends us, we suspect it may offend others, or we don't like what the statistics are hinting at? ABSOLUTELY.

As evidenced by the OP's rhetoric, there sometimes seems to be a blind assumption on DU that every African-American is anti-police, that every African-American feels the world is against them, and that every African-American wants white people to feel sorry for them. That's the real offense.


Funny thing is that no one at DU has ever expressed the opinion that black people sit around expecting pity.

So, where do you get this talking point?

Also, you deny race was an issue in the Michael Brown shooting. Please explain on what planet this is plausible, given the grotesque racism of the Ferguson PD.
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
85. 'honest opinion on race'
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:17 PM
Mar 2015

Odd thing to say, I always figured everyone here was honest about their opinion on race. Even if it offends some, we all seem to be very passionate about how we feel. I guess some are scared to say their 'honest opinion on race'.

Us bad bad liberals are always scared to say our honest opinion on race...yep...

I'll buy that one for a dollar!

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
131. "Apparently" you self-identified. Then wanted to change the terminology....
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 07:32 PM
Mar 2015

Is that to keep us liberals off-balance while we're trying to deny that we ever said things we never said in the first place?

Be honest, now.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
49. Interesting.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:28 PM
Mar 2015

AJ90 could not STAND it if you did not include the white race in everything! It was so obvious to some of us, it became painful to watch.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
84. The pack of bigots that have swarmed on this issue see AJ90's shitcanning as their own future
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:12 PM
Mar 2015

The grumbling from that camp is oddly both pitiful and hilarious.

azmom

(5,208 posts)
99. Sounds like him
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 04:21 PM
Mar 2015

MadDAsHell (158 posts)
12. Just a personal opinion, but I'm a little uncomfortable with the phrase "black voices" ...

in this context. I've seen this assumption a lot on DU that, somehow, all of us think and act the same, that being born with similar skin tone bonds us into one big unthinking reactionary force. Even from white posters, who will say how sorry they feel for us as African-Americans, how hard our lives must be, or how all of us must really hate this thing, or that person, as if every African-American comes from the exact same background, same experience, etc.

I have felt discrimination at times, but I can tell you that I swear some of my family members don't even know they're "black," and some of you probably would say they're not, because they would deny they've ever been discriminated against for their skin color. There seems to be this assumption that every black person feels sorry for themselves, and if they don't, they're not black; it's a little insulting.

I think it's become far too easy for people to pidgeonhole everyone in a racial group as being one thing or another.

Not every African-American feels oppressed, unheard, or discriminated against, just like not every Caucasian is deaf/blind to the benefits of being born with lighter skin.
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seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
104. i would think he would keep in mind, that discussing discrimination does not make "feeling sorry for
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 04:25 PM
Mar 2015

oneself". that post comes off that, not all black voice is the same, please remember, but if racism is called out, or discrimination is discussed, then a person is "feeling sorry for themselves"

talk about a "little" insulting.

Spazito

(55,503 posts)
48. Very interesting...
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:26 PM
Mar 2015

I can see why the OP prefers people ignore rather than respond to ugly posts. The responses to the post in the link were not to the liking of the poster I'm sure.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
60. Looks like this PPR makes some people nervous
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:34 PM
Mar 2015

and I'm not referring specifically or exclusively to the OP.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
37. If someone shits on my living room floor, it's not fixed by relocating to the dining room
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:17 PM
Mar 2015

Besides, wouldn't you be better served to hide threads you don't wish to see?

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
43. That's like saying 'ignore the bully and he'll leave you alone'.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:25 PM
Mar 2015

It is not true. I ignore Joe. He still followed me around whether I responded or not. Then he began bothering other people to tell them I and others were targeting him. Nope. Gotta nip them in the bud.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
54. +1 bravenak is a perfect example of how you cannot just ignore trolls on DU. nt
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:29 PM
Mar 2015

nt

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
123. isnt it? interesting, the people that all of a sudden want us to ignore racism and sexism.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:52 PM
Mar 2015

if we do not ignore, we are all that in emotional, and incapable of reasoned discussion.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
125. Did not know he had such great supporters.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:59 PM
Mar 2015

I did wonder if this was him at first but not enough TBH, SJW, or RadFem's being used.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
157. I have to say that most DUers do not believe that ignoring the bully makes them go away
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 02:54 AM
Mar 2015

Judging by the number of times I've been alerted on by telling certain individuals to stop shadowing my every move and find somebody -- ANYBODY -- else to respond to but me, it does seem that most DUers agree that the onus is on the person being the asshole stalker and not the person being stalked to do the right thing and stop engaging as requested.

So this OP is just all kinds of interesting. Especially the posts that Geek posted upthread.

Response to MadDAsHell (Original post)

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
62. I use ignore from time to time but you tend to miss some epic meltdowns.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:37 PM
Mar 2015

If I get pissed at someone I might place them on ignore but I get over it and usually unblock after a few days.

It also becpmes pointless because I end up signing out to see if the responded to me. Also a friend will pm me and tell me that someone I have on ignore is having a meldown and I want to watch.

One thing that is effective is to leave a person off ignore but to not respond to them. It pisses a few off and gets them mad.

I advocate the ignore function to people who will end up getting hidden posts if they engage with certain individuals.

I tend to be good at avoiding hides because I try never to cross that line. Of course I have failed once or twice but have gotten lucky with juries.

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
67. I think Ignore is very necessary for some users.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:44 PM
Mar 2015

"One thing that is effective is to leave a person off ignore but to not respond to them. It pisses a few off and gets them mad."

I agree but there are clearly DU'ers for which it is more difficult to ignore a post if you actually see it. In those cases the troll is getting a double whammy, they're hurting feelings with their misogyny/sexism, and they're getting their kicks out of people's response to it.

That's why I'm advocating using the official Ignore option as it eliminates the temptation; again, don't feed the trolls.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
71. Yes if there is someone that is too difficult to deal with ignore is the best option.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:50 PM
Mar 2015

I also use trash thread as well.

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
64. I'm inclined to agree with this post by you but if I do, in true DU fashion, I will be accused of
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:41 PM
Mar 2015

agreeing with ALL of your opinions and of either being a supporter of yours or "supportive" of your views.

So, I won't.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
72. ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. how many OPs of yours have i seen you OUTRAGED, outraged, i tell you.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:52 PM
Mar 2015

you made me laugh.

ah ha

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
66. Probably the same reason someone wouldn't use the TRASH THREAD feature...
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:41 PM
Mar 2015

and would rather make a thread about people not using the ignore button.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
70. I don't believe in it.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 02:49 PM
Mar 2015

There are many times when I vigorously disagree with non-troll DUers. If I had them on Iggy, I'd never see them.

daredtowork

(3,732 posts)
75. Trolls accumulate and end up packing juries when not called out.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:00 PM
Mar 2015

It's already obvious there's an MRA contingent.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
78. Because ignoring stupid does not make it go away.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:04 PM
Mar 2015

And if you don't like the threads, there's this nifty ignore thread function you seem to be hypocritically not using.

You can even auto-ignore threads by keyword. Say "AverageJoe90". Then you don't have to sully your pretty mind while we deal with the trash.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
80. I do, I do, I do. I've put at least one person on Ignore today. Every year or two
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:06 PM
Mar 2015

I clean out my dozens upon dozens of Ignores. Many are tombstoned by then anyway. It doesn't take long before I'm rolling my eyes at some asshole's post and putting that one on Ignore and the process repeats itself.

I wish I knew how many non-tombstoned posters have me on Ignore now. That would be a fun stat.

I also hide threads, when I think of it. I should do more of that.

Warpy

(114,615 posts)
90. I checked. He was on my own iggy list
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:26 PM
Mar 2015

He always had the needle out, trying to provoke people into saying something that would get a hide.

I'm glad he's gone. Thanks, Skinner.

 

Guy Whitey Corngood

(26,848 posts)
91. I don't know. Because I'm too chickenshit to admit that I'm drawn to the spectacle of
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 03:30 PM
Mar 2015

it all?? Maybe....

carolinayellowdog

(3,247 posts)
98. he was on my ignore list, but for that reason I'm glad people are discussing his demise
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 04:19 PM
Mar 2015

Several times I've received or observed very abusive insults from individuals, put them on ignore immediately, and much later saw that they had been tombstoned. Sometimes it was YEARS later but always at least months. Even though I'd not been reading their posts, it was still a relief to know they were gone.

The message one takes from this experience re the alert/jury system can be either:

1. Glad I put that one on ignore months or years ago, because the jury system is so corrupted or inefficient that they kept getting away with abuse for a very long time, and I spared myself the stress of seeing their stupid, hateful crap
OR
2. Maybe if I'd alerted instead of putting them on ignore, their trolling history would have been shorter

All the outpouring of angst re AverageJoe90 and fruitless efforts to curtail his trolling via the jury system tends to confirm my leaning to #1 above. Getting rid of some of the most obvious trolls is extraordinary long and hard, it seems.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
100. I use ignore
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 04:23 PM
Mar 2015

I didn't have Joe on ignore though. I didn't really take him very seriously. That doesn't mean I'm not glad to see a racist and sexist shown the door.

Response to MadDAsHell (Original post)

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
116. cant really have that "reasonable" debate, either, having someone on ignore, right?
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:21 PM
Mar 2015

so, they do not use ignore, cause they are all emotionally outraged.

you resort to a lot of name calling in this supposed "reasonable" debate, lacking all that said "emotion". too fuggin' funny. or laughing makes me too emotionally involved?

 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
153. Trolls don't have reasonable debates...
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 10:58 PM
Mar 2015

They're there to piss you off. And you're letting them.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
159. it seems you do not either. many people have pointed out the reason to not ignore them, and have
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 10:57 AM
Mar 2015

Last edited Sat Mar 21, 2015, 12:16 PM - Edit history (1)

done so succintly, and with a point. you seem to ignore all the obvious, ....

we state why someone should not be allow racism and misogyny without challenge. you insist on, continuing to allow racism and misogyny to stand with a simple... turn your head, ignore.

the bully is beating up a kid.... turn the head away. dont worry this beautiful brain over it. do not look.

walking to the trains.... turn your head

hang from a tree.... turn your head

no thanks.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
120. You are correct.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:31 PM
Mar 2015

On both counts.

Symbolic thinking is swamping rational discourse at an absolutely epic level.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
117. My ignore list is truly huge.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:24 PM
Mar 2015


Really, utterly huge. And some more people are going to end up on it soon.

But I suppose I don't really need it to be. I don't really interact with this site to anywhere near the extent I used to.

Response to MadDAsHell (Original post)

carolinayellowdog

(3,247 posts)
132. sorry you bullied that DUer into silence
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 07:35 PM
Mar 2015

as someone who has admired your contributions for more than a dozen years, I must say his/her observations seemed quite accurate, and your response-- six minutes later!-- was downright mean. Maybe s/he was a troll returned under a new pseudonym-- or maybe s/he was a newbie who will never return thanks to a very cold shoulder.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
138. a whole post of insults to duers, a lot of sexist language. you feel it quite accurate? nt
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 09:09 PM
Mar 2015
 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
140. Did you even read the post? Accusing all of DU of doing what they themselves did with every post?
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 09:13 PM
Mar 2015

I know exactly who it was, and they were a returning troll.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
139. now wait a minute. you called out the other OP, yet participate with this OP.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 09:12 PM
Mar 2015

be consistent.

otherwise it looks like your angst is simply because averagejoe90 got kicked off.

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
130. i do
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 07:28 PM
Mar 2015

I have most third way dems on ignore.

But, I do not put on ignore obvious republicans, right wingers, or trolls. (I do think third wayers are right wingers too, but this place seems to think they are ok because they are registered Democratic) I tend to try and call out obvious trolls and right wingers for what they are. I would say that I am very close to 100% at predicting pizza.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
137. I perused the grave dancing threads, and it seems like those who found him most
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 09:06 PM
Mar 2015

offensive also hung on his every word. Kind of like self identified dems who listen to hate radio and watch Fox while complaining about it. I don't get it, but to each...

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
144. You don't get it. AverageJoe90 invaded legitimate threads, relentlessly.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 10:01 PM
Mar 2015

Those of us trying to have a meaningful discussion saw it get continuously derailed by his pompous, pedantic pronouncements. He would not debate his view, either, but place those who disagreed with him on ignore.

We didn't go looking for him. He came looking for us.

ismnotwasm

(42,674 posts)
141. I have two people on ignore
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 09:21 PM
Mar 2015

This was after years of not using it. One is harmless, just irritating, the other I firmly believe has an Troll-like agenda. Both like to post OP's here and there. I take them off ignore periodically. When they bother me I put them back on.

Mostly I ignore any other people without using the ignore function. Easy.

I also make liberal use of the hide thread feature. I love that one.

The person in question was more than irritating, and was and should have been challenged for his bigoted views.
I hear the (much over-used) term 'echo chamber' a lot. If I ignored every person I disagreed with, that's exactly what I would end up with. There is nothing wrong with disagreements. There is something gravely wrong with biogtry.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
142. I use my own considerable ability
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 09:29 PM
Mar 2015

to ignore posters or posts, usually without resorting to software features.

I have been known to "hide" threads with certain phrases, when I get sick of the topic and want to see the front page of a forum filled with other choices.

For example, I might "hide" threads whose titles refer to Hillary Clinton, since I've already said anything I have to say about her and heard anything that interested me.

Princess Turandot

(4,917 posts)
143. The current version of 'ignore' has a feature that I don't like...
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 10:01 PM
Mar 2015

It hides any sub-thread in a post in which the Ignored person replied, not just the Ignored's own post.
i.e. In a sub-thread with 25 posts, a single reply at the end of the thread by Honest AverageJoe90 aka TBH™, results in that entire sub-thread being hidden. (That was not the case in the prior version of the software.)

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
145. No, that's not true.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 10:13 PM
Mar 2015

Ignore only hides subthreads started by the person you are ignoring. In the scenario you describe, you would still be able to see every post in the subthread except the one by the person you are ignoring (and any replies to this post, and replies to those replies, etc.) (I have never used Ignore so I just did an experiment to verify this).

Heidi

(58,846 posts)
155. By that logic, AverageJoe90 might never have been banned.
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 01:57 AM
Mar 2015

I do not believe that ignoring bigotry is the answer.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
160. People here are really vested in their screen names/personas.
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 11:21 AM
Mar 2015

For whatever reason. Not judging, but this is just one of thousands of discussion boards. Employing the ignore feature here is characterized by most of them as some earth-shattering failure of quantum proportions, when in fact, it's part of the board architecture, nothing more, lol (with that Voltaire quote thrown in to show how international they are).

I live in a place where every single day from end to end I encounter thousands of people. While I do sometimes encounter co-workers on my commute, or at lunch out in the street - I even more rarely encounter acquaintances from B&M hangouts - most everyone I pass is a complete stranger. I tune almost all of them out - I find that I have to, or else I would be overwhelmed, and also I could not achieve my personal goals as effectively.

The same principle applies here on DU - plenty of damaged psyches and freaks come here to harass and troll - nothing I can do about that, but at the very first indication that someone is either here in bad faith, or simply doesn't have social skills, click they get on my ignore list. Don't have time for it - THEN, when I see the My Posts tab light up yellow, I'm confident that it's likely someone who has something substantive to offer in response.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
162. here is a simple fact. and we watched it here, over the last 3 yrs and more, on DU3
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 12:29 PM
Mar 2015

i have been here for over a decade enjoying this site for so many different reasons. initially.... and in the past, living in the panhandle of texas. a sea of conservative and fundamentalist, du was my oasis with different people and different thinking.

i have met a lot of wonderful people. in real life. with a decade of interacting. i have women across the nation, that if i came into their space, i would look them up and buy them a glass of wine.

you come here and state that if one speaks out against racism, they are weak victims or some such garbage. painting a whole.

now you have a thread, insisting the only way.... your way, is to ignore racism, misogyny, homophobia.

i could no more stay quiet in a church, a grocery store, a PTA meeting or the family table when facing racism, misogyny, homophobia, than i could on du.

personally, if i let it slide, i would feel shame

sure, i could put someone on ignore, or it could be right in front of my face at the family table and i could pretend i did not hear it. and my sons would look at me, and say mom..... they are wrong. the are hateful. surely.... you will point that out. cause, it is not good that us as children are conditioned to hate.

how long did administration ignore 90? how did that work for this board? positive? really? the answer?






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