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uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:37 PM Mar 2015

I do not understand mass murderers

I do not understand their motivations, their mental health, their actions. It doesn't matter what form the murders take or whether individually or at one time.

I just do not understand how someone would, how someone could, think that it be a good idea to kill a bunch of others.

Explain it to me like I am dumb because I just do not understand.

My heart is heavy.

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I do not understand mass murderers (Original Post) uppityperson Mar 2015 OP
I'm with you on this. raging moderate Mar 2015 #1
I assume they want to show the world how hurt they are. ZombieHorde Mar 2015 #2
I think you're right about the showing the world how hurt they are, KMOD Mar 2015 #6
but then you would think they would have sympathy for others that would hurt because of their JI7 Mar 2015 #13
Extreme emotional/psychological states can sometimes override a person's natural empathy. nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #19
I dont understand why we let them run our governments. WDIM Mar 2015 #3
I found these for you with a quick google Electric Monk Mar 2015 #4
Rational thought is deterministic. Insanity is a stochastic process. Xipe Totec Mar 2015 #5
That is a good sign! Just think if you COULD rationalize and negotiate a mass murder!? Rex Mar 2015 #7
Wow! Marie Marie Mar 2015 #15
I fear that the problem is that people learn to internalize their emotions. Baitball Blogger Mar 2015 #8
I don't even understand single-victim murderers cyberswede Mar 2015 #9
Well, of course you don't. JayhawkSD Mar 2015 #10
I don't really understand it either. For example I can at least understand the motive for robbing a Douglas Carpenter Mar 2015 #11
The only thing I see over and over LittleGirl Mar 2015 #12
I kind of understand it. Basically it's just being so full of hate because you feel like you've craigmatic Mar 2015 #14
No cause justifies the deaths of innocent people. Albert Camus Tierra_y_Libertad Mar 2015 #16
If you don't feel connected to the world or to the people in it, you're not going to feel guilty winter is coming Mar 2015 #17
Many mass murderers are said to be suffering from a severe break from reality at the time of murders deafskeptic Mar 2015 #18
Ted Bundy supposedly arranged knives around his aunt's bed when he was 3 years old. nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #22
I heard that too. your speculation is a good as mine. n/t deafskeptic Mar 2015 #23
Pathological obsession, lack (or loss) of empathy, uncontrollable rage/hatred, a general break nomorenomore08 Mar 2015 #20
Do you distinguish between mass murderers and soldiers killing en masse or countries ND-Dem Mar 2015 #21
Are you just sick, or are you trying deliberately to be provocative? raven mad Mar 2015 #25
... raven mad Mar 2015 #24
Trying to understand the actions of others is like trying to imagine a color that does not exist. TBA Mar 2015 #26
If it was rational, it wouldn't be mental illness. (nt) jeff47 Mar 2015 #27
I'd be really concerned if you did. nt RedCappedBandit Mar 2015 #28
If we understood what they were thinking that easily it would not be called mental illness. My jwirr Mar 2015 #29

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
2. I assume they want to show the world how hurt they are.
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:48 PM
Mar 2015

Obviously I don't know what they're thinking, but when people "suddenly" act out it's usually to communicate pain. Many of the mass shooters weren't known for violence before the shooting, so it seems to be something more than just violence.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
6. I think you're right about the showing the world how hurt they are,
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 11:11 PM
Mar 2015

but they must be completely void of empathy, and completely self-absorbed as well.

I can't understand why no one ever sees the signs. Maybe they don't want to see them, or maybe they don't take them seriously, but it's so very hard to imagine someone just snapping in a moments notice.

This pilot obvious waited for the opportunity to present itself. It was clearly premeditated.

Just evil, and sick.

JI7

(89,248 posts)
13. but then you would think they would have sympathy for others that would hurt because of their
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 01:31 AM
Mar 2015

actions

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
19. Extreme emotional/psychological states can sometimes override a person's natural empathy.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 04:24 AM
Mar 2015

It's not as if only sociopaths do terrible things to others.

WDIM

(1,662 posts)
3. I dont understand why we let them run our governments.
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:53 PM
Mar 2015

The world leaders that create wars are sociopaths.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
4. I found these for you with a quick google
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:58 PM
Mar 2015
https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/publications/abstract.aspx?ID=136809

Abstract: Mass murder is the killing of a number of persons at one time and in one place. There are significant differences between mass and serial killers. Mass murderers often die at the scene of the multiple slayings, either through suicide or police action. Only occasionally do they turn themselves into the police after the killings. Serial killers, on the other hand, go to great lengths to avoid detection and apprehension. The exact etiology of the mass murderer is unclear. The unique combination of the biology, sociology, and personal psychology of an individual accounts for the personality and thus the behavior of an individual. Victim traits are not a crucial element in mass murder. The types of mass murderers are "the disciple" who kills in response to the dictates and wishes of a charismatic leader; the "family annihilator" who kills all or most of the members of his family; the "pseudocommando" who is obsessed with weaponry and is driven by something inside himself to use the weaponry to massacre random victims; the disgruntled employee who commits mass murder of a particular group of persons with whom he has been associated at work; and the "set-and-run" mass murderer who differs from the other types in his use of techniques to allow escape before the act itself occurs, usually with a timer on a bomb or anonymous tampering with food or medicine in a store. The first step in dealing with mass murder is to gain a clear understanding of the nature of the act itself. This article aims to help achieve this first step.

https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/Digitization/136809NCJRS.pdf


and

Extreme Killing: Understanding Serial and Mass Murder

In Extreme Killing: Understanding Serial and Mass Murder, renowned experts James Alan Fox and Jack Levin examine the theories of criminal behavior and apply them to a multitude of well-known and lesser-known cases from around the world. The authors draw upon research from two large data sets - one comprised of serial killers and the other of those who have committed massacres. Extreme Killing is a fascinating introduction to an extreme set of homicidal behaviors for any interested reader.

http://www.amazon.com/Extreme-Killing-Understanding-Serial-Murder/dp/0761988572

Xipe Totec

(43,890 posts)
5. Rational thought is deterministic. Insanity is a stochastic process.
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 11:11 PM
Mar 2015

You can no more understand a mass murderer than you can understand the toss of a coin.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
7. That is a good sign! Just think if you COULD rationalize and negotiate a mass murder!?
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 11:16 PM
Mar 2015

Be thankful some things are unfathomable. Don't try and rationalize it, it is an irrational act like all murder and torture. What he did was torture those folks for 8 minutes of hell and then killed them all. You don't want to understand, I don't want to understand.

Be thankful for your humanity. Some people will despise the fact that you have it. He probably was one of those people.

Marie Marie

(9,999 posts)
15. Wow!
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 01:41 AM
Mar 2015

Rex, for some reason your post just blew me away. Thank you for that perspective - you are a wise man.

Baitball Blogger

(46,703 posts)
8. I fear that the problem is that people learn to internalize their emotions.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 12:02 AM
Mar 2015

They don't cry when they should cry and they don't have enough laughter in their lives to push away the blues. After years of carrying this burden, they begin to disconnect from society--which they may view as the source of the problem.

That's my best guess.

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
10. Well, of course you don't.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 01:02 AM
Mar 2015

They are aberrant. They are not normal. Their wiring is errant.

We can't explain it to you because it is not explainable. If we could explain it we could cure it, and watch for it to prevent it.

We can't, but don't let that ruin your life.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
11. I don't really understand it either. For example I can at least understand the motive for robbing a
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 01:09 AM
Mar 2015

bank. I can - even though I would never in a million years consider doing it - can grasp the motivation of killing in revenge some protagonist who tormented them. I can even understand an explosive fit of rage that resulted in multiple deaths - of course I am not approving - but I can at least understand the line of thought.

When it comes to mass murder of innocents who have nothing to do with the protagonist - I don't really understand - but I am guessing that they had become obsessed with a certain script in their mind that became so powerful their normal restraint mechanism of conscience, guilt and fear of consequences was unable to disrupt their script.

LittleGirl

(8,287 posts)
12. The only thing I see over and over
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 01:28 AM
Mar 2015

with these mass murderers is that they are MEN and some of them in their 20s. What makes these men snap?

 

craigmatic

(4,510 posts)
14. I kind of understand it. Basically it's just being so full of hate because you feel like you've
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 01:34 AM
Mar 2015

been the one targeted to get unfairly dumped on so you figure it's best to make the rest of society feel what you're feeling. I could never pull that trigger because I don't have the heart to hurt other but I know that level of anger and hostility.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
17. If you don't feel connected to the world or to the people in it, you're not going to feel guilty
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 02:27 AM
Mar 2015

about hurting them. If you blame the world for your pain, for the "unfairness" of your life, I suppose it's easy to justify taking others with you when you kill yourself. My guess is that they see it as a sort of revenge killing.

deafskeptic

(463 posts)
18. Many mass murderers are said to be suffering from a severe break from reality at the time of murders
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 04:12 AM
Mar 2015

Mass murderers are not to be confused with serial killers though. Mass murderers typically kill 3 or more people at once.

Serial killers kill one person at a time over weeks, months or even years. Ted Bundy could be argued to be both a serial and a mass murderer(murders in FL) though. I do not think he ever suffered from a break from reality.

That said, I find it very difficult to fathom actually doing the deed.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
22. Ted Bundy supposedly arranged knives around his aunt's bed when he was 3 years old.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 04:54 AM
Mar 2015

I'm normally dubious of the idea that anyone is "born evil," but if that story is true...

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
20. Pathological obsession, lack (or loss) of empathy, uncontrollable rage/hatred, a general break
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 04:45 AM
Mar 2015

from reality... Put two or more of these together and you've got the makings of a Columbine or an Aurora. That's the simplest way I can explain it, and I'm not even sure how often my theory would hold.

Some mass killings are (relatively) easier to explain than others, usually when the killer has a clear motive or obsession. In the case of Elliott Rodger or Marc Lepine, it was hatred of women.

 

ND-Dem

(4,571 posts)
21. Do you distinguish between mass murderers and soldiers killing en masse or countries
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 04:53 AM
Mar 2015

killing en masse?

do you understand those kinds of mass murders?

TBA

(825 posts)
26. Trying to understand the actions of others is like trying to imagine a color that does not exist.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 07:59 AM
Mar 2015

That is what I tell my children when they wonder why their father did some of the things he did.


jwirr

(39,215 posts)
29. If we understood what they were thinking that easily it would not be called mental illness. My
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 12:04 PM
Mar 2015

brother is bi-polar and has two phases: the biker and the preacher. I do not to this day understand what he is thinking or where it comes from. I can only recognize the phase. I honestly don't think that the psychiatrist understands either - he is just more willing to listen.

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