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uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:16 PM Apr 2015

What food is acceptable after a wedding?

Replies in the bigoted Indiana pizza joint threads made me ask this question.

Please note I am not asking what YOU would have if you were to get married (feel free to share if you desire), but what is acceptable in your opinion for ANYONE to have after their wedding.

Thank you.


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What food is acceptable after a wedding? (Original Post) uppityperson Apr 2015 OP
Whatever they want. tammywammy Apr 2015 #1
Thank you. uppityperson Apr 2015 #4
Pizza matt819 Apr 2015 #2
Well, after my wife and I got married in 1991, MineralMan Apr 2015 #3
There is a second option... brooklynite Apr 2015 #5
Hahahahaha tammywammy Apr 2015 #6
Well, there is that. I guess them giving in to parents makes them happy. uppityperson Apr 2015 #8
Third choice - after brooklynites 2 JustAnotherGen Apr 2015 #7
Pink Slime jberryhill Apr 2015 #9
My ex and I took the wedding party out to a fish fry. Scuba Apr 2015 #10
depends on type of wedding JI7 Apr 2015 #11
A 12-inch pizza with extra sausage, delivered HOT! KamaAina Apr 2015 #12
cake and champagne. Any place, any time of day or night. CTyankee Apr 2015 #13
Whatever they want that is within their budget. HappyMe Apr 2015 #14
We had burgers, brats and a keg with volleyball at a local park. whatthehey Apr 2015 #15
Over-cooked salmon or dried out chicken is the norm. FSogol Apr 2015 #16
+1 JustAnotherGen Apr 2015 #20
I did shenmue Apr 2015 #29
I once went to a Chinese wedding dinner.. yuiyoshida Apr 2015 #17
I've been to a Chinese wedding dinner as well. Maedhros Apr 2015 #18
Chinese and Vietnamese JustAnotherGen Apr 2015 #21
i heard that about some Korean weddings JI7 Apr 2015 #24
Gotta have something to soak up the kegs of PBR NightWatcher Apr 2015 #19
Fishkin frazzled Apr 2015 #22
Honey Mooncakes? pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #23
Frank Pentangeli recommends drinking from a garden hose. AtomicKitten Apr 2015 #25
When and where I got married? Cake, nuts, mints and non-alcoholic punch Maeve Apr 2015 #26
groat cakes & thirty weight . olddots Apr 2015 #27
I am in the midst of planning my daughter's wedding Gothmog Apr 2015 #28
We had DIY wedding Runningdawg Apr 2015 #30
Many of my blood relatives, quite a few friends, some in-laws, were mostly interested in the beer... hunter Apr 2015 #31
Back in 2008 one of my friends and her fiance revolted Sen. Walter Sobchak Apr 2015 #32
A one answer poll? ... hmmm Trajan Apr 2015 #33
One wedding I went to had the reception dinner at a MineralMan Apr 2015 #34
an acquaintance of mine had hot dogs marym625 Apr 2015 #35

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
4. Thank you.
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:21 PM
Apr 2015

That is my feeling also. There are all sorts of ways to do things and so long as no one gets hurt and they are happy? whatever.

matt819

(10,749 posts)
2. Pizza
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:18 PM
Apr 2015

Or pizza cake.

Or an entire pizza themed wedding. Listen up, Chuck E. Cheese, Pizza Hut, and others. There'a business opportunity you have been missing for decades.

This clown in Indiana had to have been a shill for the pizza lobby. BTW, was this guy even real?

MineralMan

(146,286 posts)
3. Well, after my wife and I got married in 1991,
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:21 PM
Apr 2015

our guests consumed 12 dozen homemade tamales, along with the requisite rice and beans. For those with sensitive palates, though, we ordered a couple of extra-large pepperoni pizzas from Roundtable Pizza. The wedding and reception were held in our front and backyard, respectively. A good time was had by all.

The only problem was that so many people hung around after eating, just drinking up the beer, that the party lasted until the wee hours. A few never left, causing an awkward situation for my bride and I. Oh, well...

brooklynite

(94,502 posts)
5. There is a second option...
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:22 PM
Apr 2015

Whatever the meddling parents insist be served regardless of what the bride and groom want....

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
7. Third choice - after brooklynites 2
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:25 PM
Apr 2015

What ever the groom decides because that and the music are the only things he's picking out.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
13. cake and champagne. Any place, any time of day or night.
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:56 PM
Apr 2015

With any kind of music and dancing. Rock, Klezmer, string quartet, violin solo. No soprano singing "Oh, promise me" unless you're into retro schmalz.

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
15. We had burgers, brats and a keg with volleyball at a local park.
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:58 PM
Apr 2015

That was 17 years ago and people there still frequently mention how much they preferred it to catered chicken or fish typical fare in a rented meeting room.

FSogol

(45,476 posts)
16. Over-cooked salmon or dried out chicken is the norm.
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 03:59 PM
Apr 2015


PS everyone is laughing because the thought of having pizza at a wedding is strange, not because they don't think people couldn't have pizza if they wanted. I attended a wedding at a ball park once where they had chili dogs next to prime rib and racks of lamb. AAR, I've never had pizza at a wedding.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
20. +1
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 06:31 PM
Apr 2015

But I had oysters, duck tarts, lobster cakes etc etc - that was cocktails.

If I'd gotten married in my 20's I would have done the rubbery chicken French and carving station buffet.

And pizza at a wedding when I had people coming from Italy - no way.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
22. Fishkin
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 06:44 PM
Apr 2015

That's the entree served at catered events that you can't tell whether it's fish or chicken. Therefore, it's safe to call it fishkin.

Oh, and don't forget the vegetarian option. Half your guests will be vegetarians.

Anything is fine for a wedding, from pizza to filet mignon (plus vegetarian option). It's all up to you. (Though pizza is kind of messy.)

Disclosure: I have no recollection whatsoever of what was served at my wedding. Probably fishkin.

Maeve

(42,279 posts)
26. When and where I got married? Cake, nuts, mints and non-alcoholic punch
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 06:52 PM
Apr 2015

Usually made by pouring 7-Up over a block of sherbet that matched the color scheme.

Folks can have what they want, of course...but FWIW catering a celebration is NOT participating in the ceremony,, no matter how important the caterers think they are.

Runningdawg

(4,516 posts)
30. We had DIY wedding
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 07:06 PM
Apr 2015

We had a "come as you are", 15 min ceremony in a song bird sanctuary and then ate potluck food and drinks provided by our guests instead of gifts. We didn't have A wedding cake, we had an entire table full. Our wedding pictures came from disposable cameras we handed each guest and that they put in a basket at the end of the afternoon.
People should have whatever they like.

hunter

(38,310 posts)
31. Many of my blood relatives, quite a few friends, some in-laws, were mostly interested in the beer...
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 07:06 PM
Apr 2015

,,,and campaign.

I collected many fine stories, some tales still too ticklish to tell.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
32. Back in 2008 one of my friends and her fiance revolted
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 07:37 PM
Apr 2015

Both sets of parents were out of control, what they were proposing was gaudy and ridiculous. The last straw was the parents fighting over the date because the celebrity chef his parents wanted to book was unavailable.

They sent an email saying they were getting married that Saturday afternoon in the auditorium at her fiance's office, a party at a fancy bowling alley followed where pizza was served among other things like chicken wings.

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
33. A one answer poll? ... hmmm
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 07:43 PM
Apr 2015

I knew one girl from high school who was really a bit snobbish ... what cuisine did she highlight at her wedding reception?

HOT DOG CASSEROLE!

Err ... really? ...

Yep ... saturated in BarBQ sauce ...

MineralMan

(146,286 posts)
34. One wedding I went to had the reception dinner at a
Wed Apr 1, 2015, 08:05 PM
Apr 2015

Chinese restaurant. We took up the whole place, which was closed for the occasion. The menu was simple. Every dish on the restaurant's menu was prepared and on a long buffet table and on huge lazy Susans at every table. It was amazing. When a serving dish was empty, more came from the kitchen. Wonderful idea.

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