General Discussion
Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsStrong is the new pretty: Photos show the secret side of girls
Sugar and spice and everything nice
A powerful photo series smashes through those age-old expectations by depicting little girls as they truly are: Brave, joyful, defiant, curious. And even a little bit messy.
Kate T. Parker is an acclaimed Atlanta-based photographer, but shes also the mother of two young girls. Its that last role that inspired her beautiful and aptly titled collection, Strong is the New Pretty.
I wanted to celebrate these girls as they are, not how females are expected to be. I wanted to celebrate them, just as they are, and show them that is enough. Being pretty or perfect is not important. Being who they are is, Kate says, adding, Theres a lot of pressure for girls (and women) to look a certain way, act in certain manner, and I wanted to let my daughters know that who they naturally are is enough.
Take a look
The intent of the collection isnt to pigeon-hole all girls as tomboys and athletes, just as its not meant to dismiss outright pink and princesses. Kate says she just set out to show that little girls cant be forced to fit the confines of a single cookie cutter mold. They are mermaids and skateboarders and everything in between. They are whoever and whatever they want to be.
If your daughter is obsessed with pink, princesses, and ballet, amazing! Or if she is a soccer playing, tough-as-nails bookworm, great! Kate tells PopSugar. Allow your girls to be who they are, whatever that is. Create an environment for them to feel secure and confident in their own selves. Let them know that whatever it is, whoever they are, thats OK. And not only [is it] OK, its great.
Read and See More http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/strong-is-the-new-03262015pretty-photos-show-secret-side-of-girls/
Girls after my own heart. I was such a tomboy. I played with trucks, one of my favorite vehicles was a tractor that had sparks that flew out of the stack. My greatest joy was when my dad tossed me dress and all into the cab of his truck, way up high in the sky.
There were few trees I didn't climb, and Lol~ some I fell out of. My mom and aunt had to soak my knee one time in the tub for an hour to get all the grit out of the cut. As kids we would go into the pine forest for hours, playing cowboys and Indians. Built forts and made bows and arrows out of branches. On Sundays my mom would pull my dress out of the closet for church. It took me years before I stopped bursting into tears when I saw it and hid under the bed, 'cause I didn't want to wear the stupid dress and I sure didn't want to go to church.
See, we can be anything we want to be. These are awesome photographs of girls, being who they want to be. The beauty and spirit in these photos is awesome.
spanone
(135,795 posts)thanks!!!!!
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Strength.
sheshe2
(83,669 posts)We all start out as wee ones, little girls. The photo essay is awesome!
bravenak
bravenak
(34,648 posts)My girls are outside right now jumping and yelling. They are very strong, girl. The big one especially. I love it.
sheshe2
(83,669 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I'll remember her name: Kate T. Parker.
Here's her web site:
http://katetparkerphotography.com/welcome
sheshe2
(83,669 posts)Moving photos, images in black and white, my opinion, have the greatest impact.
Thank you lmd!
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Yes, amazing what strength can be conveyed in the hands of a good black & white photographer. Thanks for turning us on to her work.
Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)sheshe2
(83,669 posts)Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)No spitting contests, though. Did knock the spit outta a few bullies. Does that count?
That counts freshwest, indeed it does.
Lochloosa
(16,061 posts)Damn did she ever kick my ass.
I just took a sip of water, that was a close one.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)Strength and confidence are beauty. Always felt that way, always will. Thanks for these pictures.
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)...a few IQ points from them. That's true for men also but women are more fun.
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)sheshe2
(83,669 posts)Thanks for that.
Skittles
(153,122 posts)I was such a tomboy as a child; yes INDEED
sheshe2
(83,669 posts)I had an electric baseball game too! Big metal board and the players ran the bases. To cool....not the silly ipad/ ipod stuff.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)I once showed a video of my daughter's 12 year old sleep over birthday party to a bunch of adults...the girls were creative and inventive and funny and just flat out amazing. And my friends were having a great time watching that video
then one guy said, "Maybe guys shouldn't know this about girls," and some of the other guys grumbled in agreement. And I said, "Bullshit, this is exactly what guys should know about girls."
sheshe2
(83,669 posts)Brava LA!!!!
woot~
sheshe2
(83,669 posts)and this
:kick:
sheshe2
(83,669 posts)Heidi
(58,237 posts)gwheezie
(3,580 posts)I was called a tomboy. I'm still tough as nails.
Lugnut
(9,791 posts)That would be me. I fell out of a few but it was still cool. I fell off my horse more times than I'd like to admit only because I was trying to learn a new trick for the horse show.
My dad never told me there was anything I couldn't do because I was a girl. He taught me how to do an oil change and change a flat tire. He was a great dad.
B Calm
(28,762 posts)The way they worship me and love me could never make me more complete.
Proud Grandpa!
closeupready
(29,503 posts)K&R
artemis starwolf
(31 posts)I rode horses and climbed trees, and I liked pretty dresses and pink was my favorite color. I would pretend to be Mowgli of the jungle one week and " I Dream of Jeannie " the next. I love how she celebrates all aspectsof being a girl. Feminism iisn't about turning ourselves into men, but being free to choose what roles we want to embrace. Kids of both genders should be able to play with whatever toys they want, wear the clothes they feel comfortable in and pretend to be whatever they want. That's how we become well- rounded, empathetic adults.