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sheshe2

(83,669 posts)
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 08:01 PM Apr 2015

Strong is the new pretty: Photos show the secret side of girls


Sugar and spice and everything nice…

A powerful photo series smashes through those age-old expectations by depicting little girls as they truly are: Brave, joyful, defiant, curious. And even a little bit messy.

Kate T. Parker is an acclaimed Atlanta-based photographer, but she’s also the mother of two young girls. It’s that last role that inspired her beautiful and aptly titled collection, “Strong is the New Pretty.”

“I wanted to celebrate these girls as they are, not how females are expected to be. I wanted to celebrate them, just as they are, and show them that is enough. Being pretty or perfect is not important. Being who they are is,” Kate says, adding, “There’s a lot of pressure for girls (and women) to look a certain way, act in certain manner, and I wanted to let my daughters know that who they naturally are is enough.”

Take a look



The intent of the collection isn’t to pigeon-hole all girls as tomboys and athletes, just as it’s not meant to dismiss outright pink and princesses. Kate says she just set out to show that little girls can’t be forced to fit the confines of a single cookie cutter mold. They are mermaids and skateboarders and everything in between. They are whoever and whatever they want to be.

“If your daughter is obsessed with pink, princesses, and ballet, amazing! Or if she is a soccer playing, tough-as-nails bookworm, great!” Kate tells PopSugar. “Allow your girls to be who they are, whatever that is. Create an environment for them to feel secure and confident in their own selves. Let them know that whatever it is, whoever they are, that’s OK. And not only [is it] OK, it’s great.”









Read and See More http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/strong-is-the-new-03262015pretty-photos-show-secret-side-of-girls/

Girls after my own heart. I was such a tomboy. I played with trucks, one of my favorite vehicles was a tractor that had sparks that flew out of the stack. My greatest joy was when my dad tossed me dress and all into the cab of his truck, way up high in the sky.

There were few trees I didn't climb, and Lol~ some I fell out of. My mom and aunt had to soak my knee one time in the tub for an hour to get all the grit out of the cut. As kids we would go into the pine forest for hours, playing cowboys and Indians. Built forts and made bows and arrows out of branches. On Sundays my mom would pull my dress out of the closet for church. It took me years before I stopped bursting into tears when I saw it and hid under the bed, 'cause I didn't want to wear the stupid dress and I sure didn't want to go to church.

See, we can be anything we want to be. These are awesome photographs of girls, being who they want to be. The beauty and spirit in these photos is awesome.
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Strong is the new pretty: Photos show the secret side of girls (Original Post) sheshe2 Apr 2015 OP
k&R... spanone Apr 2015 #1
This is what I love. bravenak Apr 2015 #2
Strength, woman. sheshe2 Apr 2015 #5
It was beautiful. bravenak Apr 2015 #8
They take after their mom. sheshe2 Apr 2015 #11
Ah yes!! Truth!! bravenak Apr 2015 #13
Very nice photos. lovemydog Apr 2015 #3
Thank you for Kate Parker's link. sheshe2 Apr 2015 #14
You're welcome sheshe2. lovemydog Apr 2015 #15
Tree-climbing, mud-shaping, swing-swinging, nature-loving tomboys, gotta love us Dont call me Shirley Apr 2015 #4
Let us not forget the spitting contests! sheshe2 Apr 2015 #21
Ah yes, the watermelon seeds! Dont call me Shirley Apr 2015 #30
Fist fights with boys! Protecting animals and the young! Girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do! freshwest Apr 2015 #31
Yes! sheshe2 Apr 2015 #34
The first fight I ever had at school was in the 4th grade. Lochloosa Apr 2015 #6
Dayum, sheshe2 Apr 2015 #9
Kick and rec F4lconF16 Apr 2015 #7
It's nice to have strong intelligent women friends, they're open to listening to you and you gain... BlueJazz Apr 2015 #10
Women are our future. Thanks for another great OP sheshe. nm rhett o rick Apr 2015 #12
yes, I do believe they are, Rhett. sheshe2 Apr 2015 #16
DAMN STRAIGHT Skittles Apr 2015 #17
Skittles! sheshe2 Apr 2015 #19
Yay for this post! Luminous Animal Apr 2015 #18
"And I said, "Bullshit, this is exactly what guys should know about girls."" sheshe2 Apr 2015 #20
I love this quote sheshe2 Apr 2015 #22
Kick! Heidi Apr 2015 #23
Thank you Heidi! sheshe2 Apr 2015 #24
hey you fizzgig Apr 2015 #28
Hello, lovely DU Nighthawk! Heidi Apr 2015 #29
Kick sheshe2 Apr 2015 #25
great thread gwheezie Apr 2015 #26
Tree climber.... Lugnut Apr 2015 #27
I wanted a grandson, but instead I got TWO lovely granddaughters. B Calm Apr 2015 #32
This is feminism - Madonna is NOT. closeupready Apr 2015 #33
" they are whoever and whatever they want to be" artemis starwolf Apr 2015 #35
How many looked at that last one and thought, "Stella!!!!!" Spitfire of ATJ Apr 2015 #36
the last photo is great Liberal_in_LA Apr 2015 #37
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
8. It was beautiful.
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 08:21 PM
Apr 2015

My girls are outside right now jumping and yelling. They are very strong, girl. The big one especially. I love it.

sheshe2

(83,669 posts)
14. Thank you for Kate Parker's link.
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 09:25 PM
Apr 2015

Moving photos, images in black and white, my opinion, have the greatest impact.

Thank you lmd!

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
15. You're welcome sheshe2.
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 10:10 PM
Apr 2015

Yes, amazing what strength can be conveyed in the hands of a good black & white photographer. Thanks for turning us on to her work.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
31. Fist fights with boys! Protecting animals and the young! Girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do!
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 10:36 AM
Apr 2015

No spitting contests, though. Did knock the spit outta a few bullies. Does that count?

F4lconF16

(3,747 posts)
7. Kick and rec
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 08:17 PM
Apr 2015

Strength and confidence are beauty. Always felt that way, always will. Thanks for these pictures.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
10. It's nice to have strong intelligent women friends, they're open to listening to you and you gain...
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 08:55 PM
Apr 2015

...a few IQ points from them. That's true for men also but women are more fun.

sheshe2

(83,669 posts)
19. Skittles!
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 10:45 PM
Apr 2015


I had an electric baseball game too! Big metal board and the players ran the bases. To cool....not the silly ipad/ ipod stuff.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
18. Yay for this post!
Mon Apr 6, 2015, 10:37 PM
Apr 2015

I once showed a video of my daughter's 12 year old sleep over birthday party to a bunch of adults...the girls were creative and inventive and funny and just flat out amazing. And my friends were having a great time watching that video… then one guy said, "Maybe guys shouldn't know this about girls," and some of the other guys grumbled in agreement. And I said, "Bullshit, this is exactly what guys should know about girls."





sheshe2

(83,669 posts)
22. I love this quote
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 12:22 AM
Apr 2015
A powerful photo series smashes through those age-old expectations by depicting little girls as they truly are: Brave, joyful, defiant, curious. And even a little bit messy.


and this

They are mermaids and skateboarders and everything in between. They are whoever and whatever they want to be.



Lugnut

(9,791 posts)
27. Tree climber....
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 01:30 AM
Apr 2015

That would be me. I fell out of a few but it was still cool. I fell off my horse more times than I'd like to admit only because I was trying to learn a new trick for the horse show.

My dad never told me there was anything I couldn't do because I was a girl. He taught me how to do an oil change and change a flat tire. He was a great dad.

 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
32. I wanted a grandson, but instead I got TWO lovely granddaughters.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 10:44 AM
Apr 2015

The way they worship me and love me could never make me more complete.

Proud Grandpa!

artemis starwolf

(31 posts)
35. " they are whoever and whatever they want to be"
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 07:17 PM
Apr 2015

I rode horses and climbed trees, and I liked pretty dresses and pink was my favorite color. I would pretend to be Mowgli of the jungle one week and " I Dream of Jeannie " the next. I love how she celebrates all aspectsof being a girl. Feminism iisn't about turning ourselves into men, but being free to choose what roles we want to embrace. Kids of both genders should be able to play with whatever toys they want, wear the clothes they feel comfortable in and pretend to be whatever they want. That's how we become well- rounded, empathetic adults.

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