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RandySF

(58,776 posts)
Thu May 10, 2012, 11:32 AM May 2012

Rachel Ehmke, 13-Year-Old Minnesota Student, Commits Suicide After Months Of Bullying

Rachel Ehmke, a 13-year-old seventh grader in Mantorville, Minn., died April 29 after hanging herself at her home. The months leading up to the tragedy were a whirlwind of peer abuse instances, her parents say.

Now following Rachel's Friday funeral that was met with widespread community condolences, Rick and Mary Ehmke are speaking out against the bullying they say their daughter endured at Kasson/Mantorville Middle School and online.

Rachel's family and friends say the teen fell victim to school bullying last fall when her chewing gum was stuck to her textbooks and the word "slut" was scrawled across her gym locker, the Austin Daily Herald reports. And while she was outgoing, athletic and friendly, the same group of girls reportedly threatened Rachel and kept calling her a "prostitute," though she had never kissed a boy, according to KMSP.



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TBF

(32,051 posts)
3. When will this stop?
Thu May 10, 2012, 11:49 AM
May 2012

We are failing as a society - losing so many teens to suicide. We have got to take this seriously and do something about it.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
4. Someone not even at the school sent the text message
Thu May 10, 2012, 11:52 AM
May 2012

There was a horrible text message being sent, but it was traced to someone who was not a student at the school.
Weird.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
5. Too many parents and administrators think it is part of growing up.
Thu May 10, 2012, 11:56 AM
May 2012

I can't think of any other form of abuse and harassment which is thought of that way.

Children need much stronger advocates.

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
6. Bullies need to be expelled or put in special schools for problem kids.
Thu May 10, 2012, 12:11 PM
May 2012

Obviously there is a culture of tolerance for this and other types of misbehavior.

We need more options to get the disruptors away from kids who want to learn. This is a problem for our educational system, no discipline and no remedys.

Javaman

(62,521 posts)
7. rockin' in the free world...
Thu May 10, 2012, 12:22 PM
May 2012

Neil Young

There's one more kid
that will never go to school
Never get to fall in love,
never get to be cool.


One Time One Night...

Los Lobos

A young girl tosses a coin in the wishing well
She hopes for a heaven while for her there's just this hell
She gave away her life to become somebody's wife
Another wish unanswered in America
People having so much faith
Die too soon while all the rest come late
We write a song that no one sings
On a cold black stone where a lasting peace will finally bring

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
8. The schools willfully look away. The graffiti on her locker stayed there for weeks.
Thu May 10, 2012, 12:37 PM
May 2012

Even after the family tried to get the school to take action to stop the bullying, the school really failed. They couldn't care enough to even eradicate the "slut" graffiti for many weeks after the incident. That really epitomizes the school's attitude to me.

This stuff really has to stop.

ProfessionalLeftist

(4,982 posts)
9. Maybe it's time to criminally charge bullying brats
Thu May 10, 2012, 01:17 PM
May 2012

whose behavior results in someone else's death. IMO, this is murder. Plain and simple.

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
10. And people wonder why some kids go postal and shoot up a school.
Thu May 10, 2012, 01:23 PM
May 2012

Guns aren't the problem. Not really. Bullying is the problem and always has been.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
12. My daughter has this girls fair coloring as well and my first glance at the pic made me stop too
Sat May 12, 2012, 11:15 AM
May 2012

Its just so sad, she's beautiful! Really beautiful....

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