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ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
Fri May 22, 2015, 10:52 AM May 2015

A loving, heartbreaking, brave obituary for a young man by his family

I don't know the family, but my heart goes out to them.



"Our charismatic and beautiful son and brother died Sunday morning from a drug overdose. Clay was the youngest of four children, raised in a loving home in Apex with two brothers and one sister. Outwardly Clay looked like he had it all: Intelligence, confidence, athletic ability, height, beautiful blue eyes, broad smile, fantastic wit, and the ability to engage and forge a relationship with anyone. Inwardly Clay was sensitive and had struggles that he hid well from his close and clannish family.

We loved Clay with all of our hearts, but we now know that was not enough to shield him from the world. This note isn't an attempt to assign blame for Clay's death. It's not to vent our anger and frustration at a world where drugs can be ordered and delivered through the internet. We write this obituary in hope that it may provide an insight to those that need to change their behavior one night at a time.

Clay was a solid student, decent athlete, and a very likeable kid. With his seemingly endless positive traits, he had the potential to be anything from a captivating politician to a brilliant engineer, but drugs began to creep into Clay's life while he was in high school. As trouble hit, his father stepped in and forged an incredible bond with Clay. Although Clay could never be completely honest about the trouble he was in, his love and respect for his father became a lifeline over the last few years. He successfully completed drug rehab several times, but the craving that comes from true addiction was more than he could overcome. "


More:

http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=Clay-Shephard&lc=1015&pid=174893183&mid=6450335

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A loving, heartbreaking, brave obituary for a young man by his family (Original Post) ehrnst May 2015 OP
The last paragraph at the website was where I started crying. (nt) ehrnst May 2015 #1
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