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Aren't Juvenile records suppose to be sealed?
I mean if it wasn't the fact he went after his sister --incest---my brother and his girlfriend fondled one another at that age.
One also has to wondered who abused him...Generally isn't this learned behavior?
I am sorry I didn't have all the information. My knowledge was what I heard/read yesterday. he was 14 and the girls around his age. I had no clue of the 4/5 year old victim OR the repeat abuse of that victim. I admit I am dumb.
aikoaiko
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Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)at the time he was 12 or so, and at least one of the girls was around 5.
If that's true, that's a darn site different than your brother and his girlfriend 'fondling one another'.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)That is a whole different matter. 5 years old....
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)he was actively sexually assaulting them.
As for how this came out, I've heard (but don't have a source for this), that a book was loaned out to someone outside the family that had incriminating notes in it.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)diabeticman
(3,121 posts)arcane1
(38,613 posts)ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)19 kids is a lot of kids. Not all of them are going to want to tow that "morally superior" line. A letter was left in a book at the church about it and was found by another churchgoer. Those accusations were later forwarded to Harpo Productions who in turn, contacted authorities...
An investigation began and was ended because the statute of limitations had expired.
My (purely) imagination has me thinking it wouldn't be too much of a stretch to think about a very young girl being extremely angry over what happened to her and the fact that no steps were taken to punish the offender.
Again, that's just my thoughts/guess.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)(Where the letter was found) was faxed to Oprah before a scheduled appearance by the Duggars and they sent it to the authorities and there was an investigation. It seems this took place in 2007 so the TLC knew about this for years and kept this disgusting, abusive family of Christian cult members on the air.
From what I've read (take it for what it's worth..) the file wasn't identified as "sealed" so the information was released to the paper that made the request.
The valued police officer who gave Josh a " stern talking to" was later convicted for child porn and is serving a long sentence in prison. I wonder if that guy abused Josh? Who knows but this is typical of religious fanatics who's world view is so f'd up.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)sisters. He should be a protector rather than an abuser.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)or 5 year old.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)"well she wanted it", and I was abused so therefore I abused. The statue of limitations may have run out legally, I am not sure the incidents is forgotten by the victims.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)My understanding is that juvenile records are meant to be sealed, and I would expect this to be true, especially, when there is no conviction.
One caveat is that laws will vary from state to state, so one can't be sure without a little research.
Children are arrested and jailed regularly for all sorts of things, their names are not published but they are recorded, naturally.
How this case fits into all this, I'm not sure.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)I am guessing that is why the record wasn't sealed. I will also note here that a victim went before the court yesterday as a "Jane Doe" (because she's still a minor) to ask that the records be destroyed.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)I don't follow them, overpopulation makes me ill.
None of this surprises me and how fucked up that they're celebrated on TV.
Damn.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)We are a sick society.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)diabeticman
(3,121 posts)MineralMan
(146,308 posts)Multiple incidents are a pattern. It's an ugly pattern, too. I wouldn't trust him as an adult, either, around young girls. Not for 30 seconds alone.
When a pattern of abuse is clear, there were no doubt other incidents. Does the pattern continue? I have no idea, but there is no defense possible. 14 year olds know they're not supposed to sexually molest their sisters.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)libdem4life
(13,877 posts)victims, because she surely could not go to the police or even DHS. No one would have believed any of them. Talk about leading double and triple lives...home in denial, church in denial, family income and in Public...All is Just Fine.
I wonder what will happen to The Family internally now it's all in the open? In a way, that's the sister's worst nightmare. He'll carry on like any patriarch. Maybe getting a job with a family values Resume a bit tough, but there are always some...
polly7
(20,582 posts)wasn't a Duggar, but that may or may not be correct.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)believed without someone outside the family to corroborate it...usually a psychologist/psychiatrist, social worker or someone in an official capacity.
DHS and the Police triy to stay out of family abuse as much as possible. The psychological community are usually loathe to report it, even if they believe the victim, as it requires getting on the stand, can take lots of time, time is their income and the likelihood of conviction ranks on the scale lower than a police officer's conviction for killing a black male. (Edit...without a video or camera footage). Society does not want to hear about and because there is nothing to do...it's almost always multi-generational. As someone said up thread, it's learned behavior...both the molesting and the denial.
It was a very smart thing to do, whoever did it.