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Responding to criticism of the Christian Quiverfull movement, the wife of a Texas pastor who promotes the be fruitful, and multiply philosophy, took to Facebook to explain that admitted child-molester Josh Duggar was playing doctor as a teen and should be left alone to live a good life.
The conservative fundamentalist Quiverfull movement sees children as a blessing from God and promotes constant procreation, eschewing all forms of birth control.
In her rant on Facebook, Carrie Hurd, wife of Heritage Covenant Church Pastor Patrick Hurd, blasted Quiverfull critic Vyckie Garrison for being critical of Duggar, and Christians in general.
Despite having her own Facebook account, Hurd used her husbands account to address Garrison and defend Duggar who stepped down from his position with the Family Research Council after it was revealed that he molested five young girls including his sisters when he was in his teens.
Vyckie, this is actually Pats wife, Carrie. You women want parity in the board room and you want equal wages all the way up the ladder, but when it comes to taking responsibility and being equal in other areas, it is always the mans fault or responsibility. How many women bait, hit first, but are seldom arrested for abuse
.? she wrote.
She then compared the then-14-year-old Duggars actions to children playing doctor.
When I was a kid, it was often called playing doctor, there were just as many girls initiating this kind of behavior as boys. Most of those never went on to perp horrible things, she explained. The Duggers, who I have never watchedam not a fan, did it properly and the 14 year old boy should probably be left alone to live a good life, just like girls who do the same thing.
http://www.rawstory.com/2015/05/mom-of-gun-toting-quiverfull-family-14-year-old-josh-duggar-was-playing-doctor-so-leave-him-alone/
Novara
(5,842 posts)Yeah, I don't think so.
Solly Mack
(90,766 posts)jwirr
(39,215 posts)DURHAM D
(32,609 posts)hollysmom
(5,946 posts)Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)The people who hide behind religion should explain Josh's actions is out of bounds, no ifs ands or buts. It should be about the victims and hoping they will find a way to cope with these violations and hope their lives will be okay.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)That's what I'm getting from this sick woman's words.
CanonRay
(14,101 posts)These folks are really twisted.
malaise
(268,994 posts)Scurrilous
(38,687 posts)City Lights
(25,171 posts)Last edited Sun May 24, 2015, 03:39 PM - Edit history (1)
Oh, and a raging hypocrite.
Dems to Win
(2,161 posts)I have no sympathy for Josh, at all. I would if he was a shoe salesman or something, living a quiet life -- I would think it was totally unfair for his juvie record to be publicized.
But, Josh and FRC and Quiverfull actively try to ruin the lives of LGBT people and their families, wanting it to be legal everywhere for LGBT to be fired from their jobs and denied employment benefits. It is totally fair game to look at the real personal history of those who seek to deny rights to others.
The Duggars sought fame and fortune AFTER Josh had molested five girls. Pretty damn stupid to seek the limelight, knowing this skeleton was in the closet. Josh should put ALL of the blame on his parents and himself.
StarlightGold
(365 posts)need to be more than just scorned on the internet and in person. A concerted effort need to happen to have CPS look into their homes and families. If they are so clueless as to think a 4 year old can bait a 14 year old into genital violation, they are too motherfucking dangerous to allow kids to be around them.
Can anyone simply call CPS an d direct them to their houses?
AngryOldDem
(14,061 posts)...and then turn around and say "leave us alone" when they are being called into account for what they do.
Yep...I agree with those who say perhaps visits by CPS are in order. And damn, do they seem to have a problem with girls and women. Pathological Christianity.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)F###ing knew. They were responsible. They failed, as did all the other adults. They legally, spiritually and parenting mega fail. Who do kids go to when there is no one sane to go to? I'll tell you...it gets stuffed way down deep inside and there is little or no sane recall. That's how the generational incestuous family pattern works. Secrets, denial, smile big, don't let anyone know.
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)But an older male sibling doesn't play doctor with his little sisters
or their friends.
tavernier
(12,388 posts)I work in a middle school. The 14 year old boys have reached or nearly reached their mature height and weight. Most have started the growth of facial hair and their voices have dropped. It doesn't take a genius to guess what is going on in their heads and hormones regarding the opposite sex. Their playing doctor days ended at age five or six when they were curious as to whether girl parts were the same as boy parts. At age 14, they KNOW those answers. And at that age many teens are indeed experimenting with fondling and "petting" (as we used to call it), or even intercourse. But the acceptable way of doing that, as all boys who have been properly educated know, is with a fully consenting partner and with proper protection. And just to make the game more interesting, that fully consenting partner should ideally be of legal age and not come from a family of four brothers with firearms.
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)I was abused for several years by older male sibling. I know
what kind of doctors they are.
tavernier
(12,388 posts)I'm an only child, but sometimes I fantasized about having a big brother who would be my hero and protector. So sad to read about your experience, so different from the brother every girl deserves.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Unbelievable.
treestar
(82,383 posts)No words of a woman excuse assaulting her in any way.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Iggo
(47,552 posts)"...in this society."
Gotta cut her some slack. That's kind of a mouthful o' words to be wasting on heathens.
workinclasszero
(28,270 posts)for child molesters, the more sane Americans see them for what they really are.
A whacked out republican child sex cult.
Sick bastards. I fear for all the poor little girls trapped in that quiverfull pervert cult.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,130 posts)the child molester are no better than he. Keep it up...you clueless hypocrites.
erpowers
(9,350 posts)When I was reading this story I wondered if this movement was really about fear of the white race being outpaced by minorities.
frogmarch
(12,153 posts)Regardless of whether Josh himself was sexually mature at 14, he was too old to use the "playing doctor" excuse.
demtenjeep
(31,997 posts)Molestation is a crime and Mr smug Duggar and his mom and dad should be punished.
So they are actually blaming the little girls for getting molested in their sleep?
UNBELIEVABLE
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)bluestateguy
(44,173 posts)because he jaywalked and stole some cigarettes.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)Not 14 and 5.
TheCowsCameHome
(40,168 posts)"Quiverfull".
That's funny.
Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)when I was about 6 and he would have been 9 or so -- not 14 and certainly not while I was asleep. The multiple victims here and Josh's age make this situation much different, IMO.
Warpy
(111,256 posts)not sexually maturing 14 year old boys assaulting sleeping sisters.
These have to be the most delusional people on the planet.
liberaltrucker
(9,129 posts)14? That's called sexual assault.
valerief
(53,235 posts)TimeToEvolve
(303 posts)yet what they want to cause is planetary death.
LAGC
(5,330 posts)Can't you see it's all the woman's fault here, just like in the Garden of Eden?