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RandySF

(58,807 posts)
Sun May 24, 2015, 02:38 PM May 2015

Mom of gun-toting Quiverfull family: Josh Duggar was ‘playing doctor,’ so leave him alone

Responding to criticism of the Christian “Quiverfull” movement, the wife of a Texas pastor who promotes the “be fruitful, and multiply” philosophy, took to Facebook to explain that admitted child-molester Josh Duggar was “playing doctor” as a teen and should be “left alone to live a good life.”

The conservative fundamentalist Quiverfull movement sees children as a blessing from God and promotes constant procreation, eschewing all forms of birth control.

In her rant on Facebook, Carrie Hurd, wife of Heritage Covenant Church Pastor Patrick Hurd, blasted Quiverfull critic Vyckie Garrison for being critical of Duggar, and Christians in general.

Despite having her own Facebook account, Hurd used her husband’s account to address Garrison and defend Duggar who stepped down from his position with the Family Research Council after it was revealed that he molested five young girls — including his sisters — when he was in his teens.

“Vyckie, this is actually Pat’s wife, Carrie. You women want parity in the board room and you want equal wages all the way up the ladder, but when it comes to taking responsibility and being equal in other areas, it is always the man’s fault or responsibility. How many women bait, hit first, but are seldom arrested for abuse………….?” she wrote.

She then compared the then-14-year-old Duggar’s actions to children “playing doctor.”

“When I was a kid, it was often called ‘playing doctor’, there were just as many girls initiating this kind of behavior as boys. Most of those never went on to perp horrible things, ” she explained. “The Duggers, who I have never watched–am not a fan, did it properly and the 14 year old boy should probably be left alone to live a good life, just like girls who do the same thing.”


http://www.rawstory.com/2015/05/mom-of-gun-toting-quiverfull-family-14-year-old-josh-duggar-was-playing-doctor-so-leave-him-alone/

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Mom of gun-toting Quiverfull family: Josh Duggar was ‘playing doctor,’ so leave him alone (Original Post) RandySF May 2015 OP
When they're sleeping?? Novara May 2015 #1
He must have been playing surgeon since his "patients" were asleep. Solly Mack May 2015 #2
In my experience 14 is a little old to be playing doctor. jwirr May 2015 #3
Ditto. Faux pas May 2015 #12
Doctors are rapist? Don't think so. nt DURHAM D May 2015 #4
a 14 year old should be beyond playing doctor - it is called past puberty hollysmom May 2015 #5
So, he was giving a vaginal exam, sick sick sick. The old boys will be boys. Nope not acceptable. Thinkingabout May 2015 #6
So, a 4-year-old baited and hit first??? ScreamingMeemie May 2015 #7
"Sick" being the operative word in her case. CanonRay May 2015 #8
Yep - a sleeping four year old n/t malaise May 2015 #19
More like playing Ted Bundy. n/t Scurrilous May 2015 #9
She is a sick, twisted person. City Lights May 2015 #10
Millions of LGBT folks would love it if Josh and the FRC would leave them alone Dems to Win May 2015 #11
Ok, these people StarlightGold May 2015 #13
Gee, it's funny how they're all up in other people's business... AngryOldDem May 2015 #14
More correctly, playing Gynecologist and performing mammograms. Still, I blame those parents. They libdem4life May 2015 #15
there's 'playing doctor' when you're little, with a peer. Voice for Peace May 2015 #16
Yup. tavernier May 2015 #20
excellent points. Voice for Peace May 2015 #39
So sorry to hear that. tavernier May 2015 #40
OMG this moron shenmue May 2015 #17
Lady teach your son not to take "bait." treestar May 2015 #18
"you women"? weird for a woman to use that term Liberal_in_LA May 2015 #21
Not really. She's referring to all of us with a Jezebel spirit. PeaceNikki May 2015 #23
She means "you women who want the full set of rights and privileges as any other adult human..." Iggo May 2015 #31
The more these right wing cultists make up excuses workinclasszero May 2015 #22
Yes and I want the excuses to continue. Those defending SammyWinstonJack May 2015 #25
Fear Of Minorities erpowers May 2015 #32
Many boys at 14 can become fathers. frogmarch May 2015 #24
OMG these people are sick demtenjeep May 2015 #26
k&r for wider exposure. uppityperson May 2015 #27
She probably also thinks that Michael Brown deserves to be killed bluestateguy May 2015 #28
Sure- when they're 5 or 6 and with kids close in age, it's normal LadyHawkAZ May 2015 #29
Just ask yourself WWJD? - Who Was Josh Diddling? TheCowsCameHome May 2015 #30
I can recall my cousin and me "playing doctor" Blue_In_AK May 2015 #33
"Playing doctor" happens with preschoolers Warpy May 2015 #34
If a kid is 5, it's "playing doctor" liberaltrucker May 2015 #35
Ick. These people are sooooo pervy. nt valerief May 2015 #36
they call themselves "pro-life" TimeToEvolve May 2015 #37
Those fucking 4-year-olds, always seducing horny teenage "boys who will just be boys"... LAGC May 2015 #38

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
6. So, he was giving a vaginal exam, sick sick sick. The old boys will be boys. Nope not acceptable.
Sun May 24, 2015, 02:44 PM
May 2015

The people who hide behind religion should explain Josh's actions is out of bounds, no ifs ands or buts. It should be about the victims and hoping they will find a way to cope with these violations and hope their lives will be okay.

 

Dems to Win

(2,161 posts)
11. Millions of LGBT folks would love it if Josh and the FRC would leave them alone
Sun May 24, 2015, 03:04 PM
May 2015

I have no sympathy for Josh, at all. I would if he was a shoe salesman or something, living a quiet life -- I would think it was totally unfair for his juvie record to be publicized.

But, Josh and FRC and Quiverfull actively try to ruin the lives of LGBT people and their families, wanting it to be legal everywhere for LGBT to be fired from their jobs and denied employment benefits. It is totally fair game to look at the real personal history of those who seek to deny rights to others.

The Duggars sought fame and fortune AFTER Josh had molested five girls. Pretty damn stupid to seek the limelight, knowing this skeleton was in the closet. Josh should put ALL of the blame on his parents and himself.

StarlightGold

(365 posts)
13. Ok, these people
Sun May 24, 2015, 03:16 PM
May 2015

need to be more than just scorned on the internet and in person. A concerted effort need to happen to have CPS look into their homes and families. If they are so clueless as to think a 4 year old can bait a 14 year old into genital violation, they are too motherfucking dangerous to allow kids to be around them.

Can anyone simply call CPS an d direct them to their houses?

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
14. Gee, it's funny how they're all up in other people's business...
Sun May 24, 2015, 03:25 PM
May 2015

...and then turn around and say "leave us alone" when they are being called into account for what they do.

Yep...I agree with those who say perhaps visits by CPS are in order. And damn, do they seem to have a problem with girls and women. Pathological Christianity.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
15. More correctly, playing Gynecologist and performing mammograms. Still, I blame those parents. They
Sun May 24, 2015, 03:27 PM
May 2015

F###ing knew. They were responsible. They failed, as did all the other adults. They legally, spiritually and parenting mega fail. Who do kids go to when there is no one sane to go to? I'll tell you...it gets stuffed way down deep inside and there is little or no sane recall. That's how the generational incestuous family pattern works. Secrets, denial, smile big, don't let anyone know.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
16. there's 'playing doctor' when you're little, with a peer.
Sun May 24, 2015, 03:55 PM
May 2015

But an older male sibling doesn't play doctor with his little sisters
or their friends.

tavernier

(12,388 posts)
20. Yup.
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:25 PM
May 2015

I work in a middle school. The 14 year old boys have reached or nearly reached their mature height and weight. Most have started the growth of facial hair and their voices have dropped. It doesn't take a genius to guess what is going on in their heads and hormones regarding the opposite sex. Their playing doctor days ended at age five or six when they were curious as to whether girl parts were the same as boy parts. At age 14, they KNOW those answers. And at that age many teens are indeed experimenting with fondling and "petting" (as we used to call it), or even intercourse. But the acceptable way of doing that, as all boys who have been properly educated know, is with a fully consenting partner and with proper protection. And just to make the game more interesting, that fully consenting partner should ideally be of legal age and not come from a family of four brothers with firearms.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
39. excellent points.
Mon May 25, 2015, 06:00 PM
May 2015

I was abused for several years by older male sibling. I know
what kind of doctors they are.

tavernier

(12,388 posts)
40. So sorry to hear that.
Mon May 25, 2015, 06:35 PM
May 2015

I'm an only child, but sometimes I fantasized about having a big brother who would be my hero and protector. So sad to read about your experience, so different from the brother every girl deserves.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
31. She means "you women who want the full set of rights and privileges as any other adult human..."
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:57 PM
May 2015

"...in this society."

Gotta cut her some slack. That's kind of a mouthful o' words to be wasting on heathens.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
22. The more these right wing cultists make up excuses
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:42 PM
May 2015

for child molesters, the more sane Americans see them for what they really are.

A whacked out republican child sex cult.

Sick bastards. I fear for all the poor little girls trapped in that quiverfull pervert cult.

SammyWinstonJack

(44,130 posts)
25. Yes and I want the excuses to continue. Those defending
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:57 PM
May 2015

the child molester are no better than he. Keep it up...you clueless hypocrites.

erpowers

(9,350 posts)
32. Fear Of Minorities
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:58 PM
May 2015

When I was reading this story I wondered if this movement was really about fear of the white race being outpaced by minorities.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
24. Many boys at 14 can become fathers.
Sun May 24, 2015, 04:48 PM
May 2015

Regardless of whether Josh himself was sexually mature at 14, he was too old to use the "playing doctor" excuse.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
26. OMG these people are sick
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:02 PM
May 2015

Molestation is a crime and Mr smug Duggar and his mom and dad should be punished.

So they are actually blaming the little girls for getting molested in their sleep?

UNBELIEVABLE

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
28. She probably also thinks that Michael Brown deserves to be killed
Sun May 24, 2015, 05:17 PM
May 2015

because he jaywalked and stole some cigarettes.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
33. I can recall my cousin and me "playing doctor"
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:04 PM
May 2015

when I was about 6 and he would have been 9 or so -- not 14 and certainly not while I was asleep. The multiple victims here and Josh's age make this situation much different, IMO.

Warpy

(111,256 posts)
34. "Playing doctor" happens with preschoolers
Sun May 24, 2015, 06:06 PM
May 2015

not sexually maturing 14 year old boys assaulting sleeping sisters.

These have to be the most delusional people on the planet.

LAGC

(5,330 posts)
38. Those fucking 4-year-olds, always seducing horny teenage "boys who will just be boys"...
Sun May 24, 2015, 09:46 PM
May 2015

Can't you see it's all the woman's fault here, just like in the Garden of Eden?

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