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Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
Tue May 26, 2015, 08:28 PM May 2015

The 'Dancing Man' Who Was Body Shamed Finally Got His Epic Dance Party

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/05/26/dancing-man-got-his-dance-party_n_7442118.html

Props to the great women who arranged this.

This past February a man named Sean O'Brien was body shamed and bullied for dancing in public. A tribe of body-positive women tracked down O'Brien, a.k.a. "The Dancing Man," to remind him that he can dance whenever and however he wants by inviting him to his very own dance party.

After a few months of planning and preparation, The Dancing Man finally got his dance party this past weekend -- and no bullies were invited.

The festivities were organized by Dance Free Movement, and almost 1,000 people turned out to dance with the Dancing Man himself this past Saturday night, May 23 at The Avalon nightclub in Los Angeles. The star-studded event included appearances from Monica Lewinsky, comedian Damienne Merlina and a video message from Pharrell Williams.

Events were held throughout the weekend to celebrate 46-year-old O'Brien and body positivity. On Friday, he appeared on The Today Show with the woman who launched the Twitter campaign to #FindDancingMan, Cassandra Fairbanks, to talk about the amazing experience. Right before his interview, Meghan Trainor surprised O'Brien on stage and they had an impromptu dance party with the entire crowd.


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The 'Dancing Man' Who Was Body Shamed Finally Got His Epic Dance Party (Original Post) Bonobo May 2015 OP
I follow Cassandra on twitter enigmatic May 2015 #1
This is a great story. DawgHouse May 2015 #2
I remember his hurt expression KT2000 May 2015 #3
I remember his expression as well. Marie Marie May 2015 #6
.... 840high May 2015 #7
That's awesome and raised money for a good cause! tammywammy May 2015 #4
Monica Lewinsky is a star? Skittles May 2015 #5
Ooops FrodosPet May 2015 #10
OK so she's a victim Skittles May 2015 #12
Celebrity is a better word FrodosPet May 2015 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words May 2015 #11
OK that's a better context Skittles May 2015 #13
I'm very happy for him...from upprox.com irisblue May 2015 #8
Damn, I love this story! nt ChisolmTrailDem May 2015 #9
A reminder Behind the Aegis May 2015 #14
Awesome ending. romanic May 2015 #15
Happy ending. Good examples. KittyWampus May 2015 #17
K&R awoke_in_2003 May 2015 #18

enigmatic

(15,021 posts)
1. I follow Cassandra on twitter
Tue May 26, 2015, 08:39 PM
May 2015

She's a great human being and one of the main reporters out there in the field covering Ferguson, Baltimore etc.

DawgHouse

(4,019 posts)
2. This is a great story.
Tue May 26, 2015, 08:50 PM
May 2015

I am glad to see people coming together in support of Sean to promote an anti-bullying message.

KT2000

(20,567 posts)
3. I remember his hurt expression
Tue May 26, 2015, 09:08 PM
May 2015

when he realized people were laughing at him. Good for the organizers!

Marie Marie

(9,999 posts)
6. I remember his expression as well.
Tue May 26, 2015, 10:32 PM
May 2015

Broke my heart to see this man, minding his own business, enjoying and dancing to the music when he suddenly realized that he was being ridiculed. Hope this event, sponsored by good people, make up for the actions of a few a-holes.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
10. Ooops
Wed May 27, 2015, 01:20 AM
May 2015

Damn, didn't Monica get the memo? She is supposed to stay hidden in her house with the shades drawn. How dare she show her face in public!



The poor woman was a victim in the RW mugging of President Clinton, not a perp.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
16. Celebrity is a better word
Wed May 27, 2015, 07:58 AM
May 2015

Lots of people know who she is.

In any case, I hope people grow up and quit hating on her.

Response to Skittles (Reply #5)

romanic

(2,841 posts)
15. Awesome ending.
Wed May 27, 2015, 06:59 AM
May 2015

I remember how ashamed he looked when those assholes made fun of him for dancing. I'm glad there are people out there who gave this man dignity. Dance on O'Brien, dance on!

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