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DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:24 AM May 2015

Please stop discussing Dennis Hastert in the context of homosexuality

It feeds into right wing tropes that molesters are more likely to be homosexual than heterosexual. That is an assertion that is belied by the evidence.

Denny the Molester diddled his underage students. Their gender is of no moment. His behavior is doubly odious as he molested minors who were incapable of informed consent and he violated the sacred trust we give teachers and other school administrators when we put our children in their care.

Thank you and have a nice day.

DemocratSinceBirth

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Please stop discussing Dennis Hastert in the context of homosexuality (Original Post) DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 OP
I have been wondering about this.... VanillaRhapsody May 2015 #1
As of now we don't know the age. DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #4
I understand that....BUT a Republican like Hastert with that reputation of having a "clean" record VanillaRhapsody May 2015 #6
Maybe we need to look at this from a money angle... DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #9
Oh I get that..... VanillaRhapsody May 2015 #11
Only capital crimes don't have statutes of limitations, I believe. DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #12
Apparently it is on a state by state basis... VanillaRhapsody May 2015 #14
The old statute law had a fixed term AngryAmish May 2015 #41
Unless he wanted a child. MoonRiver May 2015 #16
That would be illegal... DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #19
Of course. But he apparently didn't. MoonRiver May 2015 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #9
The issue regarding "gay sex" should not be on the kind of sex but that he was actively working jwirr May 2015 #44
Your mistake is letting right wing scumbags determine the grounds of debate Tom Ripley May 2015 #46
A minor technical point. Chan790 May 2015 #24
Learn something every day. Thank you. jwirr May 2015 #45
Age of consent in Illinois is 17, however people over 17 who are in authority over others can not Bluenorthwest May 2015 #59
that's been the focus here- that he abused those he was cali May 2015 #2
Honored to be the rec that sends this to The Greatest Page. cherokeeprogressive May 2015 #3
Can I still refer to him as a perv? tularetom May 2015 #5
Same here. MoonRiver May 2015 #17
I prefer sex predator or sexual predator as a label Bradical79 May 2015 #21
They are pedophiles, and laced throughout all of our institutions.... TheNutcracker May 2015 #7
I agree, it is one big exclusive club notadmblnd May 2015 #23
^^this mopinko May 2015 #25
exactly TheNutcracker May 2015 #27
I don't believe for a second that Snobblevitch May 2015 #60
That's quite cynical ---- but I think it has a bit of truth to it. erronis May 2015 #26
I know, it's why I said other politicians. notadmblnd May 2015 #36
that was the whole purpose of franklin cover up! google it. TheNutcracker May 2015 #28
YEs. Thank you. n/t catrose May 2015 #8
Just stop discussing Hastert, period Demeter May 2015 #13
It's a cudgel to use in our battle with the Republicants. DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #18
He was a high school coach in a position of trust.. mountain grammy May 2015 #15
Many of us knew the same thing about Larry Craig for years before his airport bathroom brewens May 2015 #54
It's Relevant, Unfortunately jeremyfive May 2015 #22
I agree - why hide an aspect of his abusive behavior, especially since.... George II May 2015 #38
^^^THIS^^^ Tom Ripley May 2015 #47
I agree. If these "scandals" bring any good, it is that they shine a light on hypocrisy. Arugula Latte May 2015 #61
I agree but would add that I wish people would not use the word "diddle" DawgHouse May 2015 #29
all politicians so surprised yet ordinary citizens not at all. All pols are lying! TheNutcracker May 2015 #30
K&R! n/t RKP5637 May 2015 #31
Agreed. It's that he was molesting CHILDREN. It's not about sex. It's about perversion. OregonBlue May 2015 #32
Double agree - the perversion and the hypocrisy packman May 2015 #33
you said it beautifully gwheezie May 2015 #34
Hastert Thespian2 May 2015 #35
That is the answer I was wanting to give... erlewyne May 2015 #49
Thanks Thespian2 May 2015 #66
Maybe it matters HassleCat May 2015 #37
It should rightly be discussed in the context of homophobia MNBrewer May 2015 #39
What about the victim - does the fact he was molested erase the extortion? nt Laura PourMeADrink May 2015 #40
That's a good question DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #43
Hear, Hear. EEO May 2015 #42
I have to disagree with the OP Boomer May 2015 #48
THIS^^^^ LovingA2andMI May 2015 #53
+10 Joe the Revelator May 2015 #58
I crack up hearing about the freeway interchange.... Spitfire of ATJ May 2015 #50
Gotta give the fella credit for planning ahead. He knew he would need hush money./NT DemocratSinceBirth May 2015 #51
I've heard of such Duggary on his part years ago.. You'd think a guy like that brewens May 2015 #52
That's ludicrous. Boomer May 2015 #55
+1000 Tom Ripley May 2015 #62
I suspect the reason they bring up the gay nature of his assault is because Hastert is an extreme still_one May 2015 #56
Hastert's homosexuality was the focus of Barney Frank's comments this past week aint_no_life_nowhere May 2015 #57
He is a pedophile, not a homosexual. totodeinhere May 2015 #68
Please read your own definition! Boomer Jun 2015 #70
Best line on the thread.."Clinton is a choir boy"! She was over 18 and it was consensual, apparently libdem4life May 2015 #63
"Choir Boy" is not all that high a standard JustABozoOnThisBus May 2015 #64
.... Behind the Aegis May 2015 #65
Is anyone asking where the former teacher was able to amass a fortune? Kyblue1 May 2015 #67
Right you are, and thank you for stating it. nt SusanCalvin May 2015 #69
 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
1. I have been wondering about this....
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:27 AM
May 2015

Do we know that this student was younger than 16? Do we know for sure it was pedophilia? I haven't seen anything about the age of the individual. Can you point me to an article? I have just been curious about the details of this

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
4. As of now we don't know the age.
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:33 AM
May 2015

I am going to make an educated guess the person was below the age of consent.

And the person was his high school student. High school teachers are prohibited from having sex with students in their charge.


I was looking at right wing boards and many of the reactions were 'Denny is the victim". "this happened a long time ago" and "aren't liberals defenders of gays"...


The last remark chafes. I would defend Denny The Molester's right to have sex with every Republican in the world, male or female, as long as that person is capable of giving meaningful consent and is above the age of majority.


 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
6. I understand that....BUT a Republican like Hastert with that reputation of having a "clean" record
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:38 AM
May 2015

even had consensual sex with a male....

I totally get that his position made it punishable offense at his former school in Yorkville. But a republican with a teenage paramour relationship would be just damning in their minds. not to mention hiding it from his wife and kids.....I think if the person was below the age of consent there wouldn't be a statute of limitations on the offense either would there?

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
9. Maybe we need to look at this from a money angle...
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:42 AM
May 2015

Republicans are cheap... If Denny wasn't so cheap he could have just hired an escort to sate his desires. But he thought why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free and preyed on his students.

The irony is his cheapness cost him millions, his reputation, and possibly his freedom.

 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
11. Oh I get that.....
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:44 AM
May 2015

I am just trying to suss out more about this story.....like why is he not arrested for pedophilia? I wouldn't think that had a statute of limitations...

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
41. The old statute law had a fixed term
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:20 AM
May 2015

I want to say 2 years. They changed the law about 20 years back.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
20. Of course. But he apparently didn't.
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:01 AM
May 2015

And again, this has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It's a crime against children.

Response to VanillaRhapsody (Reply #6)

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
44. The issue regarding "gay sex" should not be on the kind of sex but that he was actively working
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:32 AM
May 2015

against the rights of others to do what he was doing. Hypocrisy. As to pedophilia - that is never okay either.

 

Tom Ripley

(4,945 posts)
46. Your mistake is letting right wing scumbags determine the grounds of debate
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:38 AM
May 2015

"aren't liberals defenders of gays'...
The last remark chafes. I would defend Denny The Molester's right to have sex with every Republican in the world, male or female, as long as that person is capable of giving meaningful consent and is above the age of majority"

Really? Really?

Presumably the homosexual aspect of his chickenhawkery was of concern to Hastert, as it is with many conservatives.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
24. A minor technical point.
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:19 AM
May 2015

If the victim was a HS student, they were presumably 13 or older, a teenager.

As IL law says that it is illegal to commit acts of a sexual nature on persons who are under the age of 18 if they are in a position of authority or trust over the victim. Otherwise, the age of consent in IL is 17.

So that would make the victim 13-18 most likely.

Sexual assault of a 13-18 year old is ephebophilia (post-pubescent minors) or hebephilia (pubescent minors)...but not pedophilia which is the sexual assault of prepubescent minors. It may seem like splitting hairs but they are often treated very differently legally.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
59. Age of consent in Illinois is 17, however people over 17 who are in authority over others can not
Sun May 31, 2015, 01:26 PM
May 2015

have sexual relations with any of those others who are under 18.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
2. that's been the focus here- that he abused those he was
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:31 AM
May 2015

entrusted to teach and coach- though before the clarification of that fact, some thought this was about Hastert paying hush money to cover up his sexual orientation.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
3. Honored to be the rec that sends this to The Greatest Page.
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:31 AM
May 2015

This crap needs to stop. It's NOT OKAY to equate sexual identity and/or orientation with sick behavior... EVER.

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
21. I prefer sex predator or sexual predator as a label
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:02 AM
May 2015

I think that covers the sort of person he is regardless of sexual preference. Don't really care whether he is technically a pedophile or not. Plenty of pervs out there who don't break the law, or target real people from a position of power.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
23. I agree, it is one big exclusive club
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:07 AM
May 2015

I also think republicans use sex to entrap and manipulate other politicians. Sex with minors, sex with prostitutes, etc. I believe it's how they maintain that unity thing they have when legislating issues.

erronis

(15,241 posts)
26. That's quite cynical ---- but I think it has a bit of truth to it.
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:32 AM
May 2015

Blackmail is one of the easiest ways to control someone else. These legislators (and not solely 'uglicans) are likely to get themselves in compromising positions. Too bad they don't know how to compromise on the floor.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
36. I know, it's why I said other politicians.
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:03 AM
May 2015

I think that "The Family" aka "The Fellowship" is a key player regarding the manipulation and blackmail of pols in DC.

 

TheNutcracker

(2,104 posts)
28. that was the whole purpose of franklin cover up! google it.
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:38 AM
May 2015

Better yet google the movie Conspiracy of Silence. Its all there and wha t this is about.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
18. It's a cudgel to use in our battle with the Republicants.
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:58 AM
May 2015

I still can't believe him and his ilk sat in judgement of Bill Clinton. He might not have been a choirboy but I don't believe he ever diddled kids, especially kids placed in his charge.

mountain grammy

(26,620 posts)
15. He was a high school coach in a position of trust..
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:56 AM
May 2015

Innocent till proven guilty unless there's hush money. If it had been a consenting adult, that fact would be known by now. He's a child molester in my eyes.

brewens

(13,582 posts)
54. Many of us knew the same thing about Larry Craig for years before his airport bathroom
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:43 PM
May 2015

incident. His first scandal was molesting a Republican page boy that was under age. I think in that case the family was bought off and it went away.

jeremyfive

(491 posts)
22. It's Relevant, Unfortunately
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:07 AM
May 2015

Hastert did all he could during his years of leadership to block gay rights and thwart the gay agenda, using his powerful position.
Apart from the pedophilia, the same-sex aspect of his predatory past is significant in that light. It reveals hypocrisy at a level that we have seldom seen before! We are just shining a flashlight on the monster.

The rape of any children at all is, of course, the most disturbing aspect.

George II

(67,782 posts)
38. I agree - why hide an aspect of his abusive behavior, especially since....
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:11 AM
May 2015

....he was outspoken in opposition to what HE did himself?

He had a same-sex abusive relationship with a child over whom he had authority.

Don't sugar coat it or run from any details of his crime.

DawgHouse

(4,019 posts)
29. I agree but would add that I wish people would not use the word "diddle"
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:41 AM
May 2015

when talking about molestation That word seems to indicate something minor or playful. I don't know maybe it's just me that feels that way, though.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
33. Double agree - the perversion and the hypocrisy
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:51 AM
May 2015

Could care less if he is or isn't a homosexual, it's the character of the person.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
34. you said it beautifully
Sun May 31, 2015, 10:56 AM
May 2015

I have not been as eloquent as the op but I've been trying to say the same thing. The only relevance to the sex of the young victims is Hastert went out of his way to add to not support gay issues.

Thespian2

(2,741 posts)
35. Hastert
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:00 AM
May 2015

is not, by all accounts, part of the LGBT community...he is a heterosexual molester of a high school student...until more facts are revealed...

erlewyne

(1,115 posts)
49. That is the answer I was wanting to give...
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:46 AM
May 2015
he is a heterosexual molester of a high school student...

My wife is/was Catholic. When we first met back in the sixties she
was outraged about this homosexual suing because he could not
land a teaching job. (apparently he admitted to being homosexual
in applying for teaching jobs)

I asked my lady if she ever heard of a homo sexual being charged
for rape or child molestation? We had had several recent events
involving male teachers and their male/female students. My point was
that none of the instigators were admitted homosexuals. As a fact
they were married.

My lady/wife is still is/was Catholic but has not been back to church since
that day. She now defends the LGBT community.

It's a great life today with our children and grandchildren.
 

HassleCat

(6,409 posts)
37. Maybe it matters
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:07 AM
May 2015

If the victim is a boy, rather than a girl, is the psychological damage greater? Less? Different? I didn't know Hastert was in trouble.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
39. It should rightly be discussed in the context of homophobia
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:12 AM
May 2015

Illustrative of how the most vile homophobes are usually reacting against something within themselves.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
43. That's a good question
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:30 AM
May 2015

A person could say somebody who shakes another person down to the tune of nearly four million dollars for something he or she did to him or her instead of going to the authorities does not have clean hands.

I don't know. I need more information before making that judgement and believe we will get it.


You do know there is a second victim who didn't get paid.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
48. I have to disagree with the OP
Sun May 31, 2015, 11:45 AM
May 2015

Hastert has committed multiple betrayals, and his homosexuality is part of that equation. No matter how much I, as a gay person, may hate the right-wing tropes about molesting I'm not going to ignore this aspect of Hastert's history. It may be uncomfortable, but it's very pertinent.

As a teacher, Hastert betrayed any professional ethics and he took advantage of his position of authority if he had sexual relations with at least one student, and possibly more.

If those students were minors (which we can assume is most likely) then he also committed a crime.

And because those were homosexual relations (one relationship presumably lasted for years), Hastert has betrayed the gay community by actively attempting to curtail our civil rights to cover his own activities.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
50. I crack up hearing about the freeway interchange....
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:14 PM
May 2015

He was investigating the Clintons for Whitewater which was a land deal where they accused the Clintons of using insider knowledge to make a buck (when they actually LOST money on that deal). Meanwhile, Denny was doing the exact same thing making millions off of a land deal using inside information from his time in office.

It just proves Republicans have no shame.

brewens

(13,582 posts)
52. I've heard of such Duggary on his part years ago.. You'd think a guy like that
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:26 PM
May 2015

would keep his mouth shut about any moral issues. Fair game but we shouldn't refer to him as homosexual or gay.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
55. That's ludicrous.
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:46 PM
May 2015

If a man has sexual relations with another man, that's homosexual behavior.

If that behavior happens in a context of prison, then you can persuasively argue that the man may be fundamentally heterosexual and simply used homosexual sex as a substitute because there were no other options.

But Hastert had options and still chose to have sex with another male. If that doesn't make him a homosexual, then I'm really scratching my head to understand what exactly would meet your criteria. It's bullshit to try and distance ourselves from him, no matter how toxic he may be. No matter how much I may loathe him, Hastert is a homosexual

I agree that I wouldn't call him "gay" because that is a term I connect with homosexuals who accept. to at least some degree, their true nature. Being gay is more than just engaging in homosexual sex. I'm gay because I participate in the LGBT community as an out lesbian.

still_one

(92,187 posts)
56. I suspect the reason they bring up the gay nature of his assault is because Hastert is an extreme
Sun May 31, 2015, 12:55 PM
May 2015

homophobe, and it is to point out the hypocrisy


aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
57. Hastert's homosexuality was the focus of Barney Frank's comments this past week
Sun May 31, 2015, 01:04 PM
May 2015

Wouldn't it be appropriate to discuss Hastert's gay sex in terms of his hypocrisy? That was the sum and substance of Barney Frank's comments on MSNBC this past week.

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2015/05/30/1389022/-Barney-Frank-calls-out-Dennis-Hastert-GOP-hypocrisy-with-a-perfect-statement#

..."There is a hypocrisy issue," Barney Frank said. "Dennis Hastert was a member of the House who voted for the Defense of Marriage act. He subsequently as Speaker twice put before the House of Representatives the constitutional amendment that would have cancelled retroactively all the same sex marriages that had taken place legally. ... The rank hypocrisy of this man using his power to persecute other people for doing what he was doing. Secondly, and it is relevant to note that in terms of the hypocrisy area, you mentioned Gingrich had to quit. It turns out Gingrich was at the time having an affair with the woman he is now married who was an employee of the House Agriculture Committee. And then Livingston who was supposed to replace him had to quit because he was having an affair not just with a woman but with a lobbyist who was lobbying him. So then in an effort to get somebody [who was clean], they get Hastert. The point is that all this was happening while they were impeaching Bill Clinton for having oral sex. So I think that it now looks like if you take Bill Clinton, Newt Gingrich, Dennis Hastert, and Robert Livingston the the Republican Speakers or would be speakers, Clinton is a choir boy." ...

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
68. He is a pedophile, not a homosexual.
Sun May 31, 2015, 09:17 PM
May 2015
Pedophilia is a distinct sexual orientation marked by persistent, sometimes exclusive, attraction to prepubescent children.

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2010/09/19/903178/-Gays-are-pedophiles-No-Here-s-the-proof

Men who molest boys are more likely to be pedophiles than homosexuals. Homosexuals have adult relationships, not with children.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
70. Please read your own definition!
Mon Jun 1, 2015, 11:42 AM
Jun 2015

There is NO evidence so far that Hastert is a pedophile. He was a high-school teacher, and last time I checked there aren't any prepubescent students going to high school.

Hastert may have had sexual relations with a minor, but "minor" covers a range of kids up to the age of 17-years-old. That's illegal because teens are still under the age of consent, but it's not the same as being a pedophile.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
63. Best line on the thread.."Clinton is a choir boy"! She was over 18 and it was consensual, apparently
Sun May 31, 2015, 02:44 PM
May 2015

Still, that sure sets a low bar.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,339 posts)
64. "Choir Boy" is not all that high a standard
Sun May 31, 2015, 03:18 PM
May 2015

It means you can maybe sing a little.

There is no automatic moral high ground there. The bar is low.

From the bozo in the second row, pretending to sing.

Behind the Aegis

(53,955 posts)
65. ....
Sun May 31, 2015, 04:45 PM
May 2015


That is what you are primarily doing. Hopefully your message will get through to some, but I don't hold out much hope. When it comes to sexuality, especially homosexuality, people really don't have a clue. If a gay guy has sex with a woman, no one calls him "straight", but a straight guy has sex with a male, and they are automatically gay. It simply doesn't work that way. But it is a complex topic and most can't be bothered to learn about it, much less try and understand the complexities involved.

Fingers crossed. Maybe a few will learn something.
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