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cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:10 AM Jun 2015

NYC_SKP has been banned

I thought DUers would like to know. Is there any chance we can keep this thread from getting nasty? Pretty please?

Reason:
Called Hillary Clinton the c-word. Thought he was being clever about it. He was not.

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NYC_SKP has been banned (Original Post) cyberswede Jun 2015 OP
Thank you Earl G. nt. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #1
Guess I can take him off my ignore list. misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #437
Me too. old guy Jun 2015 #734
Of course. And then that one will be Ignored & Trashed too. misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #748
That was nasty, rude over the top inappropriate, imo. . 2banon Jun 2015 #868
Like SKP's misogynistic slur? Cha Jun 2015 #1017
It wasn't his slur. HERE'S WHAT WAS REALLY SAID IN HIS EXCHANGE WITH A TROLL leveymg Jun 2015 #1057
SKP owns it.. Proudly put it in his journal too. Cha Jun 2015 #1071
Which clearly shows that the term wasn't applied to ANY person, including Hillary. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #1076
Which clearly show it was Directed right at Hillary Clinton. You're not helping SKP by denying it Cha Jun 2015 #1077
It does nothing of the sort. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #1078
Yes it does..and, there's another set of spinners whining because he got banned bc it was directed Cha Jun 2015 #1079
Nice, detailed, rigorous defense of your point. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #1080
Sorry, your defense won't work with the Admins. Doubt very much if SKP uses it. He wouldn't want to Cha Jun 2015 #1081
It wasn't intended as a defense of Skip's ill-considered post. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #1082
DU is really weird these days, too much nastiness and rudeness. It isn't good or necessary. uppityperson Jun 2015 #2
Agreed Sherman A1 Jun 2015 #4
As much as I enjoyed my couple of stints on MIRT TBF Jun 2015 #259
We all had a common enemy. calimary Jun 2015 #540
Thoughtful post - TBF Jun 2015 #640
I'm an Eisenhower baby. I remember vague stuff about the Kennedys, mainly calimary Jun 2015 #821
A very good post. stage left Jun 2015 #763
We still have a common enemy, the Oligarchy. That includes Goldman-Sachs and the Wall Street rhett o rick Jun 2015 #880
And the name of their game is Divide and Conquer and that is what the oligarchs are doing here Dont call me Shirley Jun 2015 #1024
true heaven05 Jun 2015 #889
It was. Hissyspit Jun 2015 #731
You are absolutely right. 7962 Jun 2015 #284
they didn't ban members who outed roguevalley Jun 2015 #846
Holy crap THAT happened?? Wow. 7962 Jun 2015 #906
... TorchTheWitch Jun 2015 #1049
thank you, TorchTheWitch. I am STILL reeling over it and the roguevalley Jun 2015 #1066
Don't know why Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Jun 2015 #511
This is a pillow fight VS 2008 krawhitham Jun 2015 #592
THAT is the analogy i was looking for! Joe the Revelator Jun 2015 #793
Not just weird, but downright creepy. KMOD Jun 2015 #625
That's a shame, but ultimately necessery Cali_Democrat Jun 2015 #3
Shame n2doc Jun 2015 #5
decent guy until he went completely off the rails. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #6
He's been teetering on the edge of my ignore list for months Warpy Jun 2015 #636
I just called him out a few weeks ago on the increasing weirdness of his posts that were, of course, Number23 Jun 2015 #799
Then why doesn't he have more hidden posts? The guy had no hidden posts for the past 90 days. Hiraeth Jun 2015 #1029
Jury system sucks. People who are popular enough geek tragedy Jun 2015 #1033
I agree with you that the jury system sucks however, I have seen people post jury results on alerted Hiraeth Jun 2015 #1034
This is one if the many problems with rule by jury geek tragedy Jun 2015 #1042
No one dropped the C-Bomb however, clear was the implication and given the context, after reviewing Hiraeth Jun 2015 #1043
decent guy my foot. trueblue2007 Jun 2015 #1067
This is a shame. He was a hero and leader to many here. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #7
yeah, the post totally should have been hidden 7-0, but geek tragedy Jun 2015 #10
We are all human... DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #22
Obviously. I'd never call Sarah Palin or Phyllis Schlafly that. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #33
Idiots, cretins, miscreants. yahoos, reprobates, goobers, but not the C word. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #52
Assholes is good. Not hard at all to stay away from sexist or racist slurs if you respect others.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #74
What host are you referring to? marym625 Jun 2015 #685
It's all bullshit, he didn't call her the c-word, not even close Dragonfli Jun 2015 #801
looks to me like he was mocking the tombstone poster marym625 Jun 2015 #876
I googled the words as exactly as he posted it... DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #899
This is a bit shocking to me... yuiyoshida Jun 2015 #973
While I Cannot Disagree. . . ProfessorGAC Jun 2015 #186
He's been insulting DUers for a long time now. MADem Jun 2015 #250
Lesson is even when your posts survive a jury, the admins can still see the alerts wyldwolf Jun 2015 #847
True...the alerts, and DUer's reactions as jurors to the MADem Jun 2015 #905
I doubt it was just that one post BainsBane Jun 2015 #771
Part of it is that there's practically no one who's saying "he couldn't have meant geek tragedy Jun 2015 #776
He hated Clinton, no question BainsBane Jun 2015 #782
he had also tried to blame the Charlie Hebdo victims by insisting that those geek tragedy Jun 2015 #787
Great post DSB MissDeeds Jun 2015 #193
I feel bad for SKP DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #218
I wondered too about impulse control MissDeeds Jun 2015 #244
I posted a thread in reference to that blm Jun 2015 #401
Curious lark Jun 2015 #265
I'm not God but I would have given him a thirty day timeout, long enough to miss the place. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #302
I think the bans already been lifted lark Jun 2015 #330
What makes you think the ban has been lifted? I would be happy if it has been. madfloridian Jun 2015 #527
No it hasn't. Posting privileges still revoked. nt City Lights Jun 2015 #613
For a person on for 7 year, can't a 30 day suspension work? yeoman6987 Jun 2015 #440
He never used that word, never called her that, it's all made up nasty shit to ban a critic. /nt Dragonfli Jun 2015 #804
Come on BainsBane Jun 2015 #832
I honestly don't see it, I see word twisting to achieve a goal Dragonfli Jun 2015 #840
I am against the ongoing movement here to label individual words as "inappropriate".... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2015 #927
EarlG is the one who translated it BainsBane Jun 2015 #971
Bull fucking shit. And nobody ever called Mrs. Clinton a name when they passed this Photo shop around in 2008 Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2015 #980
Here's how I see it... context is everything and I could be a thousand miles off base here. cherokeeprogressive Jun 2015 #855
I think when some saw "cunning stunt" awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #862
I'm late to the issue, but my reading of it was the same. ladyVet Jun 2015 #1069
I didn't know it when I posted awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #1072
He got banned for THAT? hifiguy Jun 2015 #890
I think the usage of the pronoun is key Horse with no Name Jun 2015 #1039
BINGO !!! Hoppy Jun 2015 #298
I agree so much. I've been a fan since I first joined DU. I think it's unfortunate RKP5637 Jun 2015 #242
agreed samsingh Jun 2015 #328
Well said! n/t marym625 Jun 2015 #717
This is true. He was one of my favorite DUers. hifiguy Jun 2015 #886
Oh wow. Way the hell over the top. Autumn Jun 2015 #8
Both his post and the banning... awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #863
Primary time is always the worst times of DU. Coventina Jun 2015 #9
It sure is. I'm utterly stunned by the nastiness here... n/t Adrahil Jun 2015 #56
NYC_SKP used to be a mod on DU2. He will be missed. I hope the admins give him another chance. L0oniX Jun 2015 #11
He's had a rough couple of years. Three complicated surgeries... KoKo Jun 2015 #45
He joked that it was a tongue twister. He was definitely referencing that word. n/t Adrahil Jun 2015 #61
Now even referencing a word will get you banned? zeemike Jun 2015 #581
Please don't. I enjoy your posts. merrily Jun 2015 #644
And I enjoy yours, as well as many in this forum zeemike Jun 2015 #666
If you leave, you can still read our posts, but we cannot read yours. merrily Jun 2015 #684
Well it is unlikely that I will stop replying to people who I highly respect. zeemike Jun 2015 #1058
Good to know. merrily Jun 2015 #1059
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cunning%20stunt Adrahil Jun 2015 #1054
Well I am weird I know, but no word is intolerable for me zeemike Jun 2015 #1056
Welp, that's an opinion. Adrahil Jun 2015 #1062
Well of course it is, that is what the rights of ownership is all about. zeemike Jun 2015 #1064
I get what you're saying.... Adrahil Jun 2015 #1065
What did he actually say? I know people have been trying to have him banned but I can't believe Dragonfli Jun 2015 #785
I'm a newbie by NYC_SKP standards. Paka Jun 2015 #860
I like you am just a lurker, as a matter in fact I haven't posted for years. billymayshere Jun 2015 #934
It is the "it can be a tongue twister" awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #866
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cunning%20stunt Adrahil Jun 2015 #1055
Sorry to hear that, I didn't know he'd been dealing with all of that. polly7 Jun 2015 #67
and had brain surgery recently marym625 Jun 2015 #72
I do not think there was justification for this. So now cunning stunt is a code word for cunt? Not jwirr Jun 2015 #78
* L0oniX Jun 2015 #88
Absolutely. He is banned because he supports someone else and was doing a good job of it. EarlG jwirr Jun 2015 #103
That is simply bullshit. zappaman Jun 2015 #108
C*nt is not "legit" and he should be embarrassing true supporters of any and all Dem candidates with bettyellen Jun 2015 #127
I surrender. You all know so much more than any of us anyhow. jwirr Jun 2015 #138
"You all", lol. Women are the Dem base- try respecting them instead of trying to dismiss and bettyellen Jun 2015 #155
She is part of them marym625 Jun 2015 #168
Post removed Post removed Jun 2015 #243
So you are referring to another woman as an object? blackspade Jun 2015 #340
Not a fair comment. Raine1967 Jun 2015 #411
That comment is probably itself alertable, Jackpine Radical Jun 2015 #467
Yes, we women have been part of the Dem base for most of our lives. Mary and I are part of the Dem sabrina 1 Jun 2015 #983
We're criticizing you for the thing you said that was wrong CreekDog Jun 2015 #646
This message was self-deleted by its author tblue37 Jun 2015 #770
C*nt is not "legit".... bvar22 Jun 2015 #653
Thank you.. whathehell Jun 2015 #733
He called no one any such thing and you damn well know it Dragonfli Jun 2015 #807
Talk about dishonesty... Adrahil Jun 2015 #1051
You know he didn't write the word "cunt" demwing Jun 2015 #838
Oh really? Adrahil Jun 2015 #1053
I'm sad you think this. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #153
Oh my fucking god, I can't keep up with all the "insert letter here"-words. Ed Suspicious Jun 2015 #206
I'm going to throw a guess out there that it rhymes with ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #213
I hope not. If it is alerted on, the jury should surely vote to leave 7 to 0. Context matters. nt merrily Jun 2015 #657
Bernie's Jewish. bluedigger Jun 2015 #223
Chill dude. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #235
nope...he wasn't doing a good job recently Sheepshank Jun 2015 #634
who else was banned for supporting Sanders today? CreekDog Jun 2015 #641
EarlG turned me into a newt... awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #867
he called it a "tongue twister", come on CreekDog Jun 2015 #115
Which is weird, because people come right out and say horrendous stuff. It might ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #217
actually I have seen a few longtime members banned for using the "C" word CreekDog Jun 2015 #234
Who? morningfog Jun 2015 #308
You don't think they should be? nt boston bean Jun 2015 #344
Where did you get that? morningfog Jun 2015 #504
This thread here is an example of one, no? boston bean Jun 2015 #510
You are deflecting now. morningfog Jun 2015 #517
So, in your view it would be ok to use and not deserve a banning because others didn't get banned. boston bean Jun 2015 #525
You don't understand my view at all. Slow down. morningfog Jun 2015 #552
I don't know. I'm happy to see it getting the treatment it deserves. boston bean Jun 2015 #555
I suspect the last one is a big part of the reason passiveporcupine Jun 2015 #754
... Kali Jun 2015 #887
NYC_SKIP. Rex Jun 2015 #435
^^^This times 1,000^^^ Quackers Jun 2015 #495
+1001 MissDeeds Jun 2015 #702
It is loud and clear marym625 Jun 2015 #704
Indeed, it's written right there in the reason n/t arcane1 Jun 2015 #966
yep. marym625 Jun 2015 #988
Glad I'm not the only who saw that. L0oniX Jun 2015 #803
The "offending" phrase is a bit of (primarily) British wordplay hifiguy Jun 2015 #894
I agree BuelahWitch Jun 2015 #237
Was it it okay to call candidate Obama the N-word? deurbano Jun 2015 #338
Of course, not even if the person was clever about it./NT DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #908
who said said it?? Quayblue Jun 2015 #993
Nobody said it. I was responding to a poster who wrote: deurbano Jun 2015 #997
Seriously? CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #252
This message was self-deleted by its author 840high Jun 2015 #420
That is indisputable MissDeeds Jun 2015 #695
Google that phrase jberryhill Jun 2015 #96
yes it is zappaman Jun 2015 #98
Thanks for the context. bluedigger Jun 2015 #233
If someone called my mom or girlfriend the c word he, me or we are going to the hospital. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #118
I agree with you on this just not the ban. Politics. jwirr Jun 2015 #131
I said up thread I don't agree with the banning. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #158
I agree bravenak Jun 2015 #515
Really??? You still believe in "fighting words" ha ha Cosmic Kitten Jun 2015 #322
I live in the real world. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #368
Slow down Cassius Clay. No need for it to come to fisticuffs. Ed Suspicious Jun 2015 #448
You don't think if I drop the wrong epithet on the wrong person I am going to get a whuppin ? DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #488
Yes, it is. Switch the first letters, the consonants and see what it says. uppityperson Jun 2015 #132
Here ya go. Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #136
It's a sad state of affairs when we start using urban dictionary as a reference. Exilednight Jun 2015 #1020
Only if we're writing a scholarly article and don't attribute the source properly. n/t Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #1023
If that's your logic, then Fux news is a credible reference. Exilednight Jun 2015 #1027
Fox is a credible source when one is pointing out RW bias in media. Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #1028
Google it tammywammy Jun 2015 #141
Nucking futs. NuclearDem Jun 2015 #241
Whut..... I dunt git it. nt. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #580
Not quite the same. Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #740
I would never make that connection. Says more about the alerter than the poster. GoneFishin Jun 2015 #251
The poster is the one who POSTED it tkmorris Jun 2015 #275
Thank you! Paka Jun 2015 #869
Exactly. I find the word vulgar. I can cuss with the best of them, but I wince when I hear the word. GoneFishin Jun 2015 #910
and even if I did make the connection, it is still only an implication, much in the same way Hiraeth Jun 2015 #1035
Because you've never dreamt it, so, it couldn't be?? boston bean Jun 2015 #255
Seriously, it's not even code. It's a spoonerism. NuclearDem Jun 2015 #280
This ^ PeaceNikki Jun 2015 #622
Even with that being true, the meaning is clear. Rex Jun 2015 #663
Not making excuses, just observing: merrily Jun 2015 #711
I see that a lot of posters don't know what it means, guess I am wrong. Rex Jun 2015 #739
I read some posts about it and got nauseous--and I've been through a lot of surgery. merrily Jun 2015 #750
and we all know what the poster implied with the pictures in the "Not Good Enough" OP . Hiraeth Jun 2015 #1036
Are you completely obtuse? MADem Jun 2015 #281
I'm an old fart, Paka Jun 2015 #873
I'm an old fart too, but that piece of ... snark predates the internet. nt MADem Jun 2015 #881
Seen it MANY times over the years. Its not a "new" thing. 7962 Jun 2015 #297
You must not be a Metallica fan. octoberlib Jun 2015 #378
Agree. 840high Jun 2015 #416
Is that what he posted? Cunning stunt? peacebird Jun 2015 #458
Yep- in hopes a jury would not get it and he'd evade a reprimand. bettyellen Jun 2015 #533
Yes. Hissyspit Jun 2015 #809
It was a blatant and obvious bullshit excuse, he called no one the c word, no one at all. Dragonfli Jun 2015 #811
Nice try. zappaman Jun 2015 #813
Post removed Post removed Jun 2015 #816
Like I said zappaman Jun 2015 #817
Learn to read Dragonfli Jun 2015 #819
I can read fine. zappaman Jun 2015 #823
Yes, thats a long known way to use the word. 7962 Jun 2015 #293
Good grief. I would never have twisted "cunning stunt" into the c word.... peacebird Jun 2015 #471
Yep. Even has its own entry in the "urban dictionary": 7962 Jun 2015 #628
And dog forbid anyone use cockney rhyming slang! Divernan Jun 2015 #751
That is true, but, prior to this thread, I was unfamiliar with the term. merrily Jun 2015 #788
Me too peacebird Jun 2015 #798
Witch hunters are very clever at finding "witch marks" where a pimple exists Dragonfli Jun 2015 #818
I agree with all you have said and feel we have lost a strong voice. DUers snappyturtle Jun 2015 #397
I hope so, he has been through the mill with his health issues and brain surgery. Autumn Jun 2015 #68
Hide yea ...ban? L0oniX Jun 2015 #76
I can't remember for sure who called Hillary the c word in 2007 but they didn't get banned. Autumn Jun 2015 #86
Of course the D word has gotten a lot of use too without bans. L0oniX Jun 2015 #97
It is what it is. Autumn Jun 2015 #102
IMO, avoiding all genitalia words as slurs is preferable. merrily Jun 2015 #680
We haven't gotten the word in the Gungeon. Eleanors38 Jun 2015 #725
But no gets outraged over "prick" Mnpaul Jun 2015 #929
Why would you say that to someone who posted she does not use that kind of term? merrily Jun 2015 #957
I was just curious on how you felt about that term Mnpaul Jun 2015 #981
Probably because most guys dont really care about it. or "prick" either. 7962 Jun 2015 #932
Should have been banned then lark Jun 2015 #285
Just go to 'site search' and look and see how many have used the actual word and survived. Rex Jun 2015 #426
I thought I had that thread bookmarked but some of those old threads no longer exist. Autumn Jun 2015 #463
If this will make some think before posting nasty shit about the other guy/gals pony Rex Jun 2015 #478
If this means Skinner has less tolerance for misogyny (as Earl G has for years) then I'll take it... bettyellen Jun 2015 #573
No I don't think so. Rex Jun 2015 #604
I am with you on that. If Skinner finally sees how fucked up it is- he is now way ahead of many here bettyellen Jun 2015 #617
Very true, plus being a bigot is not very progressive imo. Rex Jun 2015 #633
Agree. Because when women were complaining about misogyny and stalking nothing was done. cui bono Jun 2015 #544
Pages and pages. Rex Jun 2015 #560
agree that the search on this site is near useless. merrily Jun 2015 #688
Or not anti- women. Wow! Imagine that. bettyellen Jun 2015 #91
I have to stand up for EarlG on this one - TBF Jun 2015 #133
For now the only safe place from the haters is the Bernie Sanders group. L0oniX Jun 2015 #144
It's been like that for the leftynyc Jun 2015 #457
Not even. merrily Jun 2015 #942
There is a forum for Bernie here.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #185
I do tend to look at greatest threads every day - TBF Jun 2015 #212
There seems to be a heightened level of hostility to women here and bettyellen Jun 2015 #240
Which host of the Bernie forum laughed along at the c*nt tongue twister ? Autumn Jun 2015 #215
You can refer back to the original thread - am not linking to it as requested because bettyellen Jun 2015 #228
Would you PM the link to me please? No host in the Bernie group is laughing at that post Autumn Jun 2015 #230
Wait- was Skip the host referred to in that thread? bettyellen Jun 2015 #268
Really? hootinholler Jun 2015 #497
Witness their discussions on how they cannot trust anyone in GD because they are not really bettyellen Jun 2015 #514
Well since you're saying you're pointing hootinholler Jun 2015 #557
There are two threads there discussing Sander's need to broaden his outreach.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #586
Hm, I haven't seen that. Can you provide an example? cui bono Jun 2015 #589
I think you nailed it with the "war room" mentality and how it does no one any good.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #639
It is interesting that EarlG and not Skinner banned him as they typically ban for very different uppityperson Jun 2015 #362
Agree - TBF Jun 2015 #489
well, not always... CreekDog Jun 2015 #676
You can always hang in the Bernie Group here. Then, there is the Bernie campaign's page merrily Jun 2015 #735
I agree with the hide and even a time out without 5 hides Ichingcarpenter Jun 2015 #256
Me too. n/t cherokeeprogressive Jun 2015 #77
+1 BainsBane Jun 2015 #520
Me, too, L0oniX... MrMickeysMom Jun 2015 #956
About.Fucking.Time. truebrit71 Jun 2015 #12
Hey, what's up buddy? pintobean Jun 2015 #588
Sorry, which one was just banned and which one were you piling on about...buddy... truebrit71 Jun 2015 #626
You jumped my ass for gravedancing pintobean Jun 2015 #638
You are correct. You weren't grave-dancing... truebrit71 Jun 2015 #661
Ignore must be working pintobean Jun 2015 #710
LOL!!!! truebrit71 Jun 2015 #713
#FreeNYC_SKP Man from Pickens Jun 2015 #13
He already been free'd. Iggo Jun 2015 #24
+1 n/t JTFrog Jun 2015 #28
Nope. Keefer Jun 2015 #476
Free'd from his DU shackles, I meant. Iggo Jun 2015 #563
If only it could trend here on DU. jwirr Jun 2015 #87
Well, we all know this can happen to any of us, potentially. closeupready Jun 2015 #14
Uhhh, no this can't happen to just anyone. tammywammy Jun 2015 #214
Not going to spar with you, out of respect for the threadstarter. closeupready Jun 2015 #247
"I will never be banned...for using that word...because I don't use it" demwing Jun 2015 #1060
I'll buy this when... TreasonousBastard Jun 2015 #15
No, this has been a standard of behavior for the entire existence of DU. Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #20
I am well aware of that... TreasonousBastard Jun 2015 #58
It's part of being perceived as privileged. Calling me a dick is both appropriate and acceptable. Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #93
Considering that some inmates here have taken over the asylum, closeupready Jun 2015 #32
There are pejoratives and there are pejoratives DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #42
I find your post to be funny in an ironic sort of way. Snobblevitch Jun 2015 #261
I went back and changed c--t to the c word in all my posts on this topic.... DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #299
They 'can' but I'm sure you will agree that Snobblevitch Jun 2015 #377
I have been having some trouble with all these letter words hfojvt Jun 2015 #1008
'Dickhead' is by no measure equivalent. Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #46
Sorry, those 2 words are not at all the same. lark Jun 2015 #310
Dick and prick are in fact used constantly and intentionally in a "mean and hateful" way. Smarmie Doofus Jun 2015 #935
No need to fret BainsBane Jun 2015 #496
+1 cui bono Jun 2015 #605
I remember well BainsBane Jun 2015 #683
Agree with you there. MindPilot Jun 2015 #694
Why? Very few men are particularly ruffled by being called a dickhead. Codeine Jun 2015 #1019
Post removed Post removed Jun 2015 #16
Angry Supporters of Sanders. Iggo Jun 2015 #26
It was accidental, but oh so apropos. Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #64
"It was accidental" TBF Jun 2015 #84
as if... Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #94
Are you suggesting all Sanders supporters should be banned? nt TBF Jun 2015 #30
Stop. Agschmid Jun 2015 #40
Nope. Try again maybe? bettyellen Jun 2015 #53
If you can quote any part of anything I EVER SAID that would suggest banning all Sanders supports... Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #70
!!! Tarheel_Dem Jun 2015 #317
Well Capt. Obvious Jun 2015 #65
That post is a bit muddled. Your feeling is that Skippy was the only Sanders bad boy at DU? Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #101
I haven't met any of these angry supporters AgingAmerican Jun 2015 #257
Well, then all of "Angry Supporters of Sanders" better toe the line. madfloridian Jun 2015 #290
This message was self-deleted by its author Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #321
That's ugly. madfloridian Jun 2015 #379
Yes, and not even that clever. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #385
Long past due leftynyc Jun 2015 #17
He's been grumpy lately jberryhill Jun 2015 #18
Please, no grave dancing. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #19
Unf unf unf AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #39
... trotsky Jun 2015 #499
Saw that coming a long time ago. demmiblue Jun 2015 #21
Dumb move on his part. nt City Lights Jun 2015 #23
He deserved it. DCBob Jun 2015 #25
+ 10000 This ^ misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #462
I'm gonna miss him. In_The_Wind Jun 2015 #27
So will I... haikugal Jun 2015 #405
Same here. eom. Raine1967 Jun 2015 #521
I will too. CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2015 #539
Me too. immoderate Jun 2015 #698
That is unfortunate. I will miss him but he shouldn't have gone that far. n/t Avalux Jun 2015 #29
Me thinks jamzrockz Jun 2015 #31
Why would you think he was doing nothing constructive with his life? polly7 Jun 2015 #49
I said jamzrockz Jun 2015 #239
That's right, everything you said was speculation. polly7 Jun 2015 #248
I wouldn't even call the dumbest GOP female candidate that Ugly word. misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #491
Yeah, me either. polly7 Jun 2015 #506
Mysogony misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #538
Or just a stupid play on words that he wouldn't normally have done but in a moment polly7 Jun 2015 #553
Yup. Not his fault, it was the "troll". misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #650
Selective reading for an agenda much? Bye, bye. Sorry it didn't work out for you. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #662
Yes, I didn't know much about him jamzrockz Jun 2015 #709
I didn't know about all his health scares either, that's very sad for him. polly7 Jun 2015 #714
I hear ya. misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #474
No, it's not true. That poster has absolutely no knowledge of NYC Skip's life. polly7 Jun 2015 #606
Embarrassing is defending someone who got banned for using the c-word misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #665
No, I spelled out what was embarrassing about that post. polly7 Jun 2015 #679
"This battle is O V E R. " Very telling use of words you have there. cui bono Jun 2015 #691
Good point! nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #699
+1 JustABozoOnThisBus Jun 2015 #343
Thank you EarlG. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #34
Agreed. n/t JTFrog Jun 2015 #63
Agree - EarlG has been very good TBF Jun 2015 #100
I myself do not think Skip was any representative Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #167
I remember when DU3 came online... he went absolutely ballistic towards a teacher or two. demmiblue Jun 2015 #219
He did. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #232
He was also very nasty to Atheists and Agnostics Heddi Jun 2015 #824
Wow, I missed all of that, outrageous. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #835
If I didn't want to relive the trauma of his hateful words, i'd dig up old posts for proof Heddi Jun 2015 #857
I remember when that happened. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #871
People want to blame his nastiness on his brain surgery Heddi Jun 2015 #874
I think DU3 destroyed him. pintobean Jun 2015 #895
There were many moderators who were called (by themselves and others) PermaMods Heddi Jun 2015 #903
What's amazing to me is how illiberal some liberals are DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #920
Well said Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Jun 2015 #1073
I didn't know about any of this. joshcryer Jun 2015 #1002
I'm no perfect angel either. Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #1006
Yes, Mahalo Starry Messenger.. there are "Bernie Supporters" who aren't excusing this and really Cha Jun 2015 #1011
VINDICATION! AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #35
LOL! merrily Jun 2015 #992
That is way too severe marym625 Jun 2015 #36
I agree. femmocrat Jun 2015 #51
I agree also. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #60
I agree it is too severe. glinda Jun 2015 #165
Its not even about WHO he supported. This is about his nasty insulting personal attacks misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #508
I have had no issue with him. glinda Jun 2015 #678
I agree MissDeeds Jun 2015 #225
Yep. *smh* nt bunnies Jun 2015 #305
i'm a strong Hillary supporter, but i don't like banning people who don't think like me samsingh Jun 2015 #332
He wasn't banned for not supporting Hillary, nor was he banned misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #518
true enough - but still banning someone for a word in a world of free speech is excessive samsingh Jun 2015 #631
DU has its limits. Take up your "free speech" issue with Earl G. misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #670
He did NOT use that word. The two words he used meant nothing to clueless folks like me. madfloridian Jun 2015 #637
I liked him... Agschmid Jun 2015 #664
Just because you didn't recognize it doesn't mean he and everyone else didn't geek tragedy Jun 2015 #732
Certainly not "everyone else" Jim Lane Jun 2015 #996
I leave the decision about severity of punishment geek tragedy Jun 2015 #1018
Yes, the site owners can ban. And we can denounce the ban. Jim Lane Jun 2015 #1031
Then let the rules apply evenly across the board MissDeeds Jun 2015 #728
He wasn't banned for "not thinking like you".. he was banned for trying to be "clever" with his Cha Jun 2015 #1015
I agree. madfloridian Jun 2015 #399
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2015 #591
And you know this how? hrmjustin Jun 2015 #599
years of lurking before they signed up, don't ya know. uppityperson Jun 2015 #615
That last post gave him away. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #660
Totally agree with you, Marym . . . markpkessinger Jun 2015 #706
"Posting Priveleges Revoked" Snobblevitch Jun 2015 #37
nope he's gone otherwise it would say under review Romeo.lima333 Jun 2015 #73
The only way this could become temporary is if he sends an email to Skinner asking to be reinstated. In_The_Wind Jun 2015 #104
Except he didn't actually use that word. Did he? Comrade Grumpy Jun 2015 #135
No, not really. So maybe Skinner will let NYC_SKP return. In_The_Wind Jun 2015 #271
Yes, he did. Arguing format over content and cowering behind implication is simply puerile. LanternWaste Jun 2015 #339
Like when Barbara Bush called Geraldine Ferraro the $4million thing that rhymes with rich./NT DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #442
Long time coming. Well deserved. Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #38
I wish him the best and good health. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #41
Your the best Justin and thanks for the context elsewhere in the thread. Jesus Malverde Jun 2015 #451
My pleasure. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #454
Hard to imagine it takes 69K posts before someone decides he doesn't belong. Jesus Malverde Jun 2015 #464
peace my friend. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #469
+1 Quackers Jun 2015 #577
You are always welcome here. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #594
Why would you support phil89 Jun 2015 #1061
What should i do? Wish him bad? hrmjustin Jun 2015 #1063
Harsh n/t prayin4rain Jun 2015 #43
How ironic that his last post pintobean Jun 2015 #44
Good riddance- hope it will give those who chuckled along pause.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #47
Bummer BeyondGeography Jun 2015 #48
Good RetroLounge Jun 2015 #50
Unrec. Smarmie Doofus Jun 2015 #54
To what end? You think he can justify that? Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #62
Of course, he can email admin. They have occasionally reversed a ban. uppityperson Jun 2015 #82
that's not something one can explain/justify nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #107
whether I like him or not, this just makes me sad Marrah_G Jun 2015 #55
Indeed, totally agree. nt uppityperson Jun 2015 #370
We lost a very bright member. Keenly intelligent. Lost perspective due to intensity, I imagine. Gregorian Jun 2015 #57
+1000. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #85
+ a thousand thousand thousand. Octafish Jun 2015 #278
It will be much better.His hate begat hate. Clear as day. misterhighwasted Jun 2015 #569
Don't underestimate the effect of serious health issues and longterm medication use. blm Jun 2015 #333
He had become tremendously unpleasant of late. Codeine Jun 2015 #59
I agree he usually was one of the most level headed around here imo. Rex Jun 2015 #376
Of late? After the Newtown shooting - 2012 - he famously Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #470
And then when the Charlie Hebdo offices got shot up, he blamed the victims up one geek tragedy Jun 2015 #779
And then the numerous times he referred to the Atheists/Agnostic on DU Heddi Jun 2015 #825
He had brain surgery not long ago MissDeeds Jun 2015 #746
Ok... I'm Confused... WillyT Jun 2015 #66
The admins can probably see the name removed post Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #90
he was replying to an oft-returning troll. MIRT got them quickly. NRaleighLiberal Jun 2015 #112
Was he using those words mocking back in kind? nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #117
not sure of his intent, but yes, throwing the trolls' words back at them. NRaleighLiberal Jun 2015 #134
I don't agree with him doing it, but that should have been taken into polly7 Jun 2015 #154
Agree...Time Out not a banning. He has 80% Jury Approval and Star Membership KoKo Jun 2015 #191
Yes, especially giving consideration to his surgeries. polly7 Jun 2015 #202
yes. marym625 Jun 2015 #723
Making excuses because you had to "untwist " the words - as he suggested- to read c*nt? bettyellen Jun 2015 #116
Were You Here For The 2008 Primaries Between HRC And Barack Obama ??? WillyT Jun 2015 #163
A 5-2 hide reveals one of two things Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #181
So yeah- making loads of excuses for tossing out slurs.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #428
First, I HATE Zero-Tolerance Bullshit... I Prefer To Use Judgement... WillyT Jun 2015 #597
Folks are confusing the punishment with the crime. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #481
Banned for perceived use of foul pig Latin? PowerToThePeople Jun 2015 #122
He knew. He'd seen the phrase before. Dr. Strange Jun 2015 #477
See post #98. JTFrog Jun 2015 #151
In the last few days, I'd finally hit my limit with his crap... MANative Jun 2015 #69
Agree. freshwest Jun 2015 #350
I also had enough of the disruptive behavior (and it was not because of supporting a candidate). Sancho Jun 2015 #738
seems harsh for the post edhopper Jun 2015 #71
that's the point, he thought he was being clever by pushing the boundaries. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #80
I still think edhopper Jun 2015 #111
he may get reinstated. probably after the primaries would be the soonest geek tragedy Jun 2015 #119
mine either edhopper Jun 2015 #485
The anti Hillary crap here is so over the top that I guess I'm sufrommich Jun 2015 #75
Self delete- with thanks to Autumn bettyellen Jun 2015 #83
I hope you remove this post now that you know you were mistaken and no host cheered him on. Autumn Jun 2015 #689
There was an over the top post a few months back on President Obama by a long termer, where the still_one Jun 2015 #288
+1 Jamaal510 Jun 2015 #523
Well said. And I agree completely with your post. Number23 Jun 2015 #814
this is one reason why mrs. unblock will never be a du member unblock Jun 2015 #79
Let TRP use the same word to describe a hated conservative female and it's cheered. cherokeeprogressive Jun 2015 #114
Calling a woman, even a hated one, the c word here wouldn't survive. /NT DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #139
You're right about that but post a link to TRP saying it and it's all good. n/t cherokeeprogressive Jun 2015 #147
Pardon my ignorance but who is TRP? DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #172
The Rude Pundit. cherokeeprogressive Jun 2015 #189
That's the truth... one_voice Jun 2015 #672
The British historically also had no problem using racial epithets for African Americans and Asians, still_one Jun 2015 #313
i think you mean epithets, not epitaphs. unblock Jun 2015 #327
Yes, thank you, I will correct it. You make a good point about my terminology also still_one Jun 2015 #630
Brits also call cigarettes f**s. NuclearDem Jun 2015 #354
um, i don't really have one.... unblock Jun 2015 #384
Wow. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2015 #81
Not commenting on the poster one way or the other, but I've seen more offensive posts hughee99 Jun 2015 #89
You've seen posts that are more offensive that calling Hillary a **** survive a jury? Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #109
Grind your axe elsewhere. n/t hughee99 Jun 2015 #140
This message was self-deleted by its author Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #143
"My opinion is the jury system is totally broken, and that affirms it. " hughee99 Jun 2015 #150
This message was self-deleted by its author Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #162
I'm glad to be keeping you from being productive or perhaps annoying someone else hughee99 Jun 2015 #166
He did NOT use that word. To the naive like me I can see no connection to what he said. madfloridian Jun 2015 #549
That's not good. H2O Man Jun 2015 #92
+1 /nt RiverLover Jun 2015 #207
I agree. n/t ms liberty Jun 2015 #341
+ 1000 I truly like NYC SKP, he had a lot of thoughtful & wonderful OPs over the years. peacebird Jun 2015 #445
Me too. lonestarnot Jun 2015 #566
Agree... nenagh Jun 2015 #621
Remember what he posted after the Newtown shootings in 2012? CreekDog Jun 2015 #95
He called Charlie Hebdo racists and suggested they were responsible for the shooting. AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #106
Indeed he did, in most starling terms. The poster was a conservative on many issues and on that Bluenorthwest Jun 2015 #543
Sadly, he got away with it too. AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #659
His posts on Charlie Hebdo were absolutely disgusting melman Jun 2015 #896
missed that one. must have been stellar nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #113
he self-deleted the OP but copied it to the last post in the thread for posterity CreekDog Jun 2015 #178
Wow, how compassionate of the poster given the murder of twenty CHILDREN... Spazito Jun 2015 #794
That's what got me. In the past I have seen him Kingofalldems Jun 2015 #125
I think I may have to agree PowerToThePeople Jun 2015 #174
So my memory didn't fail me. Kingofalldems Jun 2015 #224
He loved trolling feminists here and making it a hostile atmosphere bettyellen Jun 2015 #208
I think you are misremembering something. Kali Jun 2015 #837
I often wondered if he was more anti-Clinton than pro-Sanders. MADem Jun 2015 #342
I was thinking he was actually a conservative. Kingofalldems Jun 2015 #348
I think he was a conservative, too. His attitude towards guns MADem Jun 2015 #482
Being pro-gun does not make one a conservative. NutmegYankee Jun 2015 #852
There's pro gun, and there's pro gun NRA-style. nt MADem Jun 2015 #883
Some people have such hard feelings I doubt they see a difference. NutmegYankee Jun 2015 #891
I am not a gun banner or grabber. MADem Jun 2015 #925
I do. Sometimes it takes a while for a gun apologist to burn out here. onehandle Jun 2015 #137
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Jun 2015 #301
Are people that are saying he didn't actually use the c-word for real? LexVegas Jun 2015 #99
I won't miss him. boston bean Jun 2015 #105
I have a rather low opinion of her but I would never use that word to describe her or any woman CBGLuthier Jun 2015 #110
I enjoyed reading his posts rock Jun 2015 #120
5-2 hide on the post that did him in. The 2 should be banned as well. nt onehandle Jun 2015 #121
+1 AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #126
You want to ban jurors whose opinions you don't like? Not surprised. Comrade Grumpy Jun 2015 #159
Be careful not to get caught in the "feeding frenzy". Just sayin'. nm rhett o rick Jun 2015 #171
So we *shouldn't* ban everyone who recommended one of his threads? Nye Bevan Jun 2015 #571
There seem to be a powerful feeling in self-righteousness. nm rhett o rick Jun 2015 #879
Absolutely! That explains some of what goes on at DU. Jim Lane Jun 2015 #1032
I don't know that it's the main value, but it's sure ok here, if you are on the side of rhett o rick Jun 2015 #1038
There are always some in these threads pintobean Jun 2015 #177
+1 Tarheel_Dem Jun 2015 #391
Nobody is going to get banned for voting on a jury. Nye Bevan Jun 2015 #535
Yup. Agschmid Jun 2015 #558
Cruised for a bruisin' Prism Jun 2015 #123
. NRaleighLiberal Jun 2015 #124
From this experience I've learned quite a lot more about the member & group which appalachiablue Jun 2015 #784
. NRaleighLiberal Jun 2015 #789
How bizarre to be banned over that bit of silliness. valerief Jun 2015 #128
C*nt is a "bit of silliness"? Nope- it's hateful and bigoted. bettyellen Jun 2015 #142
The word doesn't bother me in the least. But I didn't see the post. I thought the post valerief Jun 2015 #173
makenthe same argument for n****r and k**e- please proceed to educate us, Val! bettyellen Jun 2015 #192
Well, I don't know about the word knee, but as for the other word, black rappers valerief Jun 2015 #203
Lol, so you're okay with n*****r and will be when Bernie gets k*k* thrown at him.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #221
white males using the N-word and the C-word aren't taking the power out of the words CreekDog Jun 2015 #264
And his context was both clear and obvious to even the dullest halfwit. LanternWaste Jun 2015 #357
Every poster I have ever seen here defending racism or sexism ignores history and denies context.... bettyellen Jun 2015 #460
That poster got banned from a group here for using that word. JTFrog Jun 2015 #176
Got a link? pintobean Jun 2015 #187
You sure do seem to have a link fetish. JTFrog Jun 2015 #199
Thank you. It's only fair pintobean Jun 2015 #216
Wait. So that user got a hide but NYC_SKP got banned? bunnies Jun 2015 #402
NYC SKP was banned for his recent posting history. The use of that offensive word was just a pretext morningfog Jun 2015 #559
He has only one hide. bunnies Jun 2015 #575
Recent posting history = highly critical of Hillary. morningfog Jun 2015 #752
Thats certainly the way it seems to me. bunnies Jun 2015 #764
Why don't you take that up with Skinner in ATA? Here's a Bernie Supporter who thinks that's rubbish Cha Jun 2015 #1013
That's what it looks like. leveymg Jun 2015 #627
Interesting. There is not a zero tolerance ban on the word. morningfog Jun 2015 #519
Wow.. Cha Jun 2015 #1010
Good heavens, I'd forgotten all about that. I used it as a joke response to a valerief Jun 2015 #195
Still not funny dude. JTFrog Jun 2015 #204
Yeah, still not laughing Texasgal Jun 2015 #209
He's been off the reservation sharp_stick Jun 2015 #129
That's a little bigoted. polly7 Jun 2015 #148
A little careless putting it in print for people to read too. lonestarnot Jun 2015 #169
Very. I hope he/she will edit it. It's not pleasant to read. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #182
I am going to hope that be the case. Will check back. lonestarnot Jun 2015 #198
+1. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2015 #472
It's apparently DU approved. lonestarnot Jun 2015 #572
Not for long. (I hope ... we'll see). nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #578
Well, apparently it's been alerted on and is fine to stay. polly7 Jun 2015 #584
Yeah jury said it was DU approved. lonestarnot Jun 2015 #596
My irony meter is broken nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #715
Thanks for letting us know. Your "pretty please" couldn't stop the grave-dancing. rhett o rick Jun 2015 #130
Thank you EarlG! nt William769 Jun 2015 #145
Good! Oh, and you sexist enablers are pathetic. MoonRiver Jun 2015 #146
Are you addressing me? cyberswede Jun 2015 #422
Not unless you're a sexist! MoonRiver Jun 2015 #468
I wasn't sure, since you used the word "you" cyberswede Jun 2015 #480
Sorry about that! MoonRiver Jun 2015 #532
I won't defend him. he's been skating the edge for a while Scootaloo Jun 2015 #718
Maybe it will be. MoonRiver Jun 2015 #737
If SKP is reading this thread LittleBlue Jun 2015 #149
To be fair... DU has set up a Sanders group where Sanders fans are totally protected. Buzz Clik Jun 2015 #156
I hate the protected group system too LittleBlue Jun 2015 #170
probably a troll. mopinko Jun 2015 #643
Not true. Had I seen the term and recognized it for what it is--I would have alerted a DU jury. merrily Jun 2015 #721
sadly true glinda Jun 2015 #179
I don't see how it's going to work. DU is essentially anti-Hillary LittleBlue Jun 2015 #200
Actually many Hillary supporting DUers may come back OKNancy Jun 2015 #324
Perhaps the admin has decided to drop the Underground part. zeemike Jun 2015 #651
That is how I see it LittleBlue Jun 2015 #690
DU won't see a mass migration when Bernie loses the primary Godhumor Jun 2015 #210
DU was heavily in favor of Obama by the middle of 2008 LittleBlue Jun 2015 #226
Maybe, but attitudes toward Republicans won't change, either. merrily Jun 2015 #729
I think that statements like this is what is glinda Jun 2015 #307
Maybe that is DU's fait. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #926
Locking. TOS does not specify whether calling out DUers applies to current or former members. randome Jun 2015 #152
You really do want me to post that gif, don't you? freshwest Jun 2015 #312
Too bad. I hope he/she is allowed to return. Tierra_y_Libertad Jun 2015 #157
A real loss. Octafish Jun 2015 #160
If a female candidate for the nomination can't be called a C-word on DU, what??? CreekDog Jun 2015 #260
The banned member is the one that didn't hold up to scrutiny. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #316
over 68,000 posts and service as a moderator. merrily Jun 2015 #161
I so much agree. madfloridian Jun 2015 #611
That is too bad...I really liked him. SoapBox Jun 2015 #164
The first of many to come nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #175
Even though I tend to disagree with him more than I agree with him... MohRokTah Jun 2015 #180
He's been on my ignore list for years. El Supremo Jun 2015 #183
I'm going to miss him and had him on ignore for over a year olddots Jun 2015 #184
Calling Clinton the C word is despicable. herding cats Jun 2015 #188
good ann--- Jun 2015 #190
I have nothing to lose, so I'm going to say it. The banning was biased. ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #194
I won't try to convince you... DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #263
There is nothing to convince me of. We are agreed on the main points. ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #277
I would have given him a thirty day ban and not a permanent one. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #289
Agreed m' Dear. Puglover Jun 2015 #270
or hey, the one talking about a black man getting shot in the back, polly7 Jun 2015 #283
Yep. Absurd. cliffordu Jun 2015 #707
That is too bad. I like SKP. Hope to see him back. raouldukelives Jun 2015 #196
You all know what George Carlin would say about censorship. randys1 Jun 2015 #197
OFFS. NuclearDem Jun 2015 #254
I wonder what can be done about trolls who follow posters around and make smart ass randys1 Jun 2015 #262
I demand the right to call Hillary a c*! George Carlin! PC police! NuclearDem Jun 2015 #303
Nothing, it would seem. Been going on for a long time. randys1 Jun 2015 #309
The George Carlin who said this about women with eating disorders: geek tragedy Jun 2015 #319
The man was a genius, and he was not politically correct. His standards were quite high randys1 Jun 2015 #421
"incorrect word" is not an accurate way of describing geek tragedy Jun 2015 #432
Complete and total nonsense. randys1 Jun 2015 #441
apologies for using an "incorrect word" nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #443
There are consequences to the words we use, for me, you, and the late George Carlin... DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #351
No, there are not consequences for everybody. madfloridian Jun 2015 #500
He's not silenced, and he may continue to use that word indiscriminately should he so choose. LanternWaste Jun 2015 #394
I agree about censorship, and second your appeal to Admin to grant clemency leveymg Jun 2015 #601
This message was self-deleted by its author brentspeak Jun 2015 #201
What about the Rude Pundit? jalan48 Jun 2015 #205
The Rude Pundit is not a member and does not post here. bluedigger Jun 2015 #295
Thanks for the clarification. jalan48 Jun 2015 #306
The word does not belong here. Anyone copying and pasting can blank out letters, just as they would merrily Jun 2015 #792
I assumed meegbear = The Rude Pundit. merrily Jun 2015 #822
I consider that a very sad thing. madfloridian Jun 2015 #211
I can see why that post was too much... Sancho Jun 2015 #220
Ugh. KamaAina Jun 2015 #222
I am sorry to see that question everything Jun 2015 #227
Didn't always agree with him (who does?) but I'll miss him. Throd Jun 2015 #229
Permanent ban too harsh IMO. n/t moondust Jun 2015 #231
What in the bloody HELL was he thinking? Puglover Jun 2015 #236
Agreed, I hope he will be allowed back. He was a long time member and it's sad to see this Autumn Jun 2015 #696
He disrupted constantly...and poorly. MADem Jun 2015 #238
I "don't have a dog in this hunt" and don't think I've run across this guy before, but.... George II Jun 2015 #245
That is NOT what the post said. Be honest. madfloridian Jun 2015 #246
He was a stealth troll. But to each his own I suppose. nt boston bean Jun 2015 #249
It was crystal clear what he was doing, and yes he was calling her that name geek tragedy Jun 2015 #273
had him pegged as a shitbag after he posted the gun porn thread in GD after the Newtown shooting KG Jun 2015 #253
I will miss NYC_SKP. We did not always agree, but I think that banning him for making a joke JDPriestly Jun 2015 #258
So, he tried to slip in a cheap shot Wash. state Desk Jet Jun 2015 #266
BS ban! Cosmic Kitten Jun 2015 #267
It can be tough when the realization hits a person for the first time LanternWaste Jun 2015 #406
Wow a hide would have been enough dreamnightwind Jun 2015 #269
I agree. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #274
Interesting double standard nichomachus Jun 2015 #272
No, false equivalency on your part. "Dick" is in no way in the same category geek tragedy Jun 2015 #276
Nonsense nichomachus Jun 2015 #286
It's not fully equivalent for anyone who actually speaks American English geek tragedy Jun 2015 #294
Exactly. deurbano Jun 2015 #353
^^This^^ Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #392
YES, it is. polly7 Jun 2015 #296
Different rules for different people. bunnies Jun 2015 #413
A little surprised at the support this member recieves here. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #279
Sanders has attracted a lot of people who just plain hate Hillary Clinton. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #287
I agree with you one hundred percent that it reflects on Sanders in no way. NCTraveler Jun 2015 #346
It's a way of separating the true Bernie supporters vs the hatewagon crowd nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #358
His posts were becoming so vitriolic and rabid that I'm not surprised by this outcome. Metric System Jun 2015 #780
very appropriate - absolutely no need for that here DrDan Jun 2015 #282
I don't know if an outright banning is warranted. Xyzse Jun 2015 #291
several people.... quickesst Jun 2015 #292
Wow, he should have been more creative in his cursing. backscatter712 Jun 2015 #300
That was a dumb and offensive thing to write. I wonder, though, if his banning was morningfog Jun 2015 #304
SKP's demeanor changed. It wasn't just that we supported different candidates, it was personal. Tarheel_Dem Jun 2015 #311
According to posters upthread, he was having serious health issues and polly7 Jun 2015 #318
That may be a plausible explanation. However, if that's the case, perhaps this isn't the place for Tarheel_Dem Jun 2015 #323
He screwed up. polly7 Jun 2015 #337
That's too bad, but I don't feel too sorry for him Jack Rabbit Jun 2015 #314
Honestly... Bobbie Jo Jun 2015 #315
Please be clearer. I'd appreciate it. ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #329
My post was clear Bobbie Jo Jun 2015 #361
I have my opinion. Your post was a threat. ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #364
Ok Bobbie Jo Jun 2015 #483
I think she is saying that as the primary season heats up BainsBane Jun 2015 #765
I was part of the jury yesterday Takket Jun 2015 #320
Were you able to see the post he was replying to? dreamnightwind Jun 2015 #363
no. i tried to read it, but it was deleted. Takket Jun 2015 #371
So the jury could not see the post he was replying to dreamnightwind Jun 2015 #388
here you go. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #390
Thanks dreamnightwind Jun 2015 #418
It would not surprise me if many of us "Block Members" on this list to be banned Purveyor Jun 2015 #325
Are you suggesting that people on that list are likely to call Clinton the c-word? geek tragedy Jun 2015 #331
I never knew until now, given his posts, that he was part of the HRC group nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #335
He wasn't part of the HRC group, he was BANNED from it. nt MADem Jun 2015 #545
Thanks for the clarification nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #556
The Bernie Sanders Group is a little over a month old William769 Jun 2015 #360
He asked me to ban him. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #374
I know he did. William769 Jun 2015 #381
My pleasure. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #386
You literally asked me to ban you so don't act like your a martyr. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #369
AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service Purveyor Jun 2015 #389
Now if we could just get you to respond to your innuendo's. William769 Jun 2015 #395
LOL. Ironic. polly7 Jun 2015 #398
How so? hrmjustin Jun 2015 #400
Oh, the poster I responded to, who isn't you ...... knows very well. polly7 Jun 2015 #410
Well the poster he was responded to literally asked me to ban him so i did. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #412
Well that's good. polly7 Jun 2015 #419
i mention it because he posted this; hrmjustin Jun 2015 #425
Yeah ok whatever. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #427
Yeah well that is why Bill and i were responding to him. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #430
Great! polly7 Jun 2015 #434
but i asked you how so. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #438
And I told you it had nothing to do with you. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #439
oh i see you can't back it up. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #444
Oh do you now?? polly7 Jun 2015 #450
Of course. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #452
Of course. Thanks. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #456
We won Justin. Just move on. William769 Jun 2015 #487
LOL. polly7 Jun 2015 #512
Oh my lord. Puglover Jun 2015 #609
I see cirickets is all we are going to get. Typical William769 Jun 2015 #403
VERY! polly7 Jun 2015 #407
OMG! It took him all of 3 minutes to make a reply so lets haul out the {{{crickets}}} Purveyor Jun 2015 #417
True, and now that you have seen it, still crickets. William769 Jun 2015 #423
................. polly7 Jun 2015 #431
Nothing worthy of responding to. I merily speculated the future here at DU. eom Purveyor Jun 2015 #404
Right... William769 Jun 2015 #409
Wow, I had no idea this was happening! haikugal Jun 2015 #686
A good banning MuseRider Jun 2015 #326
I support this banning tammywammy Jun 2015 #334
That's too bad. I like(d) SKP, and he added a lot to DU over the years petronius Jun 2015 #336
Thank you, EarlG. SunSeeker Jun 2015 #345
Not to forget- digonswine Jun 2015 #795
Just for the record this is what the poster he was responding to said. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #347
thanks for that, Justin Kali Jun 2015 #647
transparency is good. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #654
Is it possible that he didnt even know what "cunning stunt" meant? bunnies Jun 2015 #703
I can't speak to that but i can tell you i knew what it meant. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #708
Guess Im just behind the lingo times as usual. bunnies Jun 2015 #712
People make mistakes. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #719
Thank you for posting this information. In_The_Wind Jun 2015 #800
Well that makes the ban look even more ridiculous Egnever Jun 2015 #919
Okay, I think I caught up to what happened… stupid decision to provoke privileges, IYAM MrMickeysMom Jun 2015 #953
The crazy season (primaries) always claims a member or two it seems. mmonk Jun 2015 #349
More like egg shells nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #356
Most likely. mmonk Jun 2015 #749
That's kind of shocking. Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #352
Agree. madfloridian Jun 2015 #373
he became a target of at least two, largely non-overlapping, gangs of harassers carolinayellowdog Jun 2015 #355
Harsh punishment for one occurrence. AtomicKitten Jun 2015 #359
I am very upset about it. So angry I may have to take a break or risk banning. madfloridian Jun 2015 #367
Me too, mad. AtomicKitten Jun 2015 #380
Same here MissDeeds Jun 2015 #790
+1000. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #383
+1 darkangel218 Jun 2015 #449
+100000000 peacebird Jun 2015 #455
...^ that 840high Jun 2015 #461
I agree: hide the post, give a 'time-out' when enough hides accrue, but I petronius Jun 2015 #507
I kind of remember from the old days.... Renew Deal Jun 2015 #564
I agree. Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #673
I agree. I could live with a hide, even suspension. But a ban is over the top... Eleanors38 Jun 2015 #773
Hiding the post would have been enough. ozone_man Jun 2015 #365
Sid is in timeout and NYC_SKIP is banned...DU is in upside down world. Rex Jun 2015 #366
I wouldn't give either one of the two that title... so I'm not sure which is which. ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #372
I like both for different reasons. We all stir at times. Rex Jun 2015 #382
I don't think it's about disrespecting the candidates tammywammy Jun 2015 #393
I've seen that word used here and not get a hide or the person banned Rex Jun 2015 #414
message sent...... Don't call Hillary a c*nt... seems simple enough, wouldn't you say? boston bean Jun 2015 #446
Yes I would. Rex Jun 2015 #465
And yet POS used car salesman is just fine Egnever Jun 2015 #922
I alerterd when I saw it used on Plain or Bachman because it's not okay against any woman. bettyellen Jun 2015 #484
Good! I alert if I see it and a few other choice words. Rex Jun 2015 #492
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Jun 2015 #551
seabeyond is on summer vacation too Renew Deal Jun 2015 #574
Primary season is seeing a lot of casualties from all over the DU spectrum. Rex Jun 2015 #783
That's going to be a long one pintobean Jun 2015 #853
I know. Renew Deal Jun 2015 #856
Sad to see a long timer go mvd Jun 2015 #375
Whew shenmue Jun 2015 #387
Sanders & Clinton threads quickly come and go. But a thread about a banned DUer garners 400 replies. randome Jun 2015 #396
Think that is bad, try wasting time by posting actual news articles and see how lonely that is. eom Purveyor Jun 2015 #424
And look at the speed! Over 500 replies already! randome Jun 2015 #509
We like to talk about ourselves. neverforget Jun 2015 #743
I'm sorry to hear that. 840high Jun 2015 #408
Banning a long time Du'er who has contributed a lot here doesn't seem liberal to me The Straight Story Jun 2015 #415
I'm happy to exclude misogynistic speech from the big tent. boston bean Jun 2015 #475
Du is a witch hunt anymore The Straight Story Jun 2015 #493
I don't see someone calling a woman a c*nt as a progressive attribute. boston bean Jun 2015 #505
Ah I see, one post out of thousands and you latch onto that one The Straight Story Jun 2015 #590
I see you disagree. You can educate yourself if you want. boston bean Jun 2015 #635
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2015 #619
I see you disagree. You can educate yourself if you want. boston bean Jun 2015 #623
Well, you'll always have Discussionist nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #537
Witch hunting is a lesser issue that people alerting on posters who hurt their feelings Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #652
The Big Tent can do without misogyny and NRA viewpoints. nt MADem Jun 2015 #498
Nice try. The Straight Story Jun 2015 #595
It wasn't a 'try' -- if you think c- word name-calling is cool, MADem Jun 2015 #610
Another nice try - you know I didn't say that. If you think I did - back it up :) The Straight Story Jun 2015 #629
Stop endorsing or excusing misogyny then...because that is what you are doing MADem Jun 2015 #675
And there you are, doing it again - same technique The Straight Story Jun 2015 #778
You have the power. If you don't want to be mistaken MADem Jun 2015 #892
A lot of cheering going on at someone's demise Exilednight Jun 2015 #429
Did he pass away? LordGlenconner Jun 2015 #503
You should be less sure. He recently had brain surgery. (nt) jeff47 Jun 2015 #567
I suspect you ghost through here chknltl Jun 2015 #433
NYC - My best to you JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #436
That's a real shame G_j Jun 2015 #447
Grave-dancing does not become us, either. Orsino Jun 2015 #453
permanent ban or a time out for a day or two? Sunlei Jun 2015 #459
Perm. nt LittleBlue Jun 2015 #466
guess he is allowed to start fresh with a new name. really was a very disrespectful remark. Sunlei Jun 2015 #516
By the way, that's not easy Algernon Moncrieff Jun 2015 #529
strip the post count would be suitable punishment. Sunlei Jun 2015 #570
"You know, this would be a good time for Kucinich and other progressives to rally around Obama". Zorra Jun 2015 #473
I often disagree with NYC_SKP; I agree with the ban hammer here; but I'd also support a 2nd chance Algernon Moncrieff Jun 2015 #479
I feel sad about this BainsBane Jun 2015 #486
I am very sad. Way too many are gloating over it. That's even worse. madfloridian Jun 2015 #494
That's irrational. Agschmid Jun 2015 #534
perhaps post on admin page and suggest a week or two ban for that type of comment Sunlei Jun 2015 #536
Yup, I keep most of my substantive stuff nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #829
the really unfortunate thing is that the post he was replying to was removed. mopinko Jun 2015 #490
One of the good guys for sure. ileus Jun 2015 #501
I have gone and read the link. I think NYC SKP got a bum deal. If I wre to refer to a cunning stunt peacebird Jun 2015 #502
did you miss the part where he talked about it being a tongue-twister geek tragedy Jun 2015 #531
Until this thread I had never heard that cunning stunt was code for anything. I still say its peacebird Jun 2015 #550
he had been getting increasingly unhinged and deranged towards Clinton. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #554
I didn't know about "See you next Tuesday" until I relayed a bizarre story to a coworker bettyellen Jun 2015 #565
Nevermind... The googles told me.......Ok, now I have to ask. What does 'see you next Tuesday' mean? peacebird Jun 2015 #576
Oops. Iggo Jun 2015 #603
The See you = CU! Wasn't obvious to me, and puzzling because I said I'd never be back! bettyellen Jun 2015 #607
See you next Tuesday = C U Next Tuesday geek tragedy Jun 2015 #618
The things I learn here. haikugal Jun 2015 #761
It's sad, but justified. SKP morphed into rabidness as soon as HRC entered the race. Hekate Jun 2015 #513
Definitely wouldn't have been my choice BainsBane Jun 2015 #528
I didn't know about the surgery. It's possible.... Hekate Jun 2015 #716
It was surgery on his brain, I believe BainsBane Jun 2015 #753
wow Kali Jun 2015 #522
Wow d_b Jun 2015 #524
I'm sorry to hear that. Voice for Peace Jun 2015 #526
Lewis and Clark vs Bill and Ted snooper2 Jun 2015 #530
So who the hell is going to continually admonish me for having a loud motorcycle now? Glassunion Jun 2015 #541
It's about time. murielm99 Jun 2015 #542
He seemed like a genuinely good guy. peecoolyour Jun 2015 #546
Let this be a lesson to us all. Nye Bevan Jun 2015 #547
The idea that NYC_SKP could get banned is absurd Renew Deal Jun 2015 #548
I'm not going to second guess the ban, but only say... hlthe2b Jun 2015 #561
It's a part of primary season that I had forgotten about. Renew Deal Jun 2015 #583
This thread seems like a celebration. I think that is horrible. madfloridian Jun 2015 #562
Why would you be banned? Agschmid Jun 2015 #593
Why not? madfloridian Jun 2015 #600
Nope I don't think so. Agschmid Jun 2015 #602
SKP got banned for half-cleverly calling Hillary Clinton the c-word in exactly the same geek tragedy Jun 2015 #612
Yup. Agschmid Jun 2015 #616
And when you're ripping of Drudge, you've hit some kind of low in trolling nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #620
Be civil when you post, don't post insults or nasty language. It isn't that difficult. uppityperson Jun 2015 #645
You seem unaware I have done that. madfloridian Jun 2015 #781
I was speaking in general terms, not aimed at what you do or don't do. uppityperson Jun 2015 #978
Not all of Bernie's supporters are angry Andy823 Jun 2015 #777
To quote my favorite president "this is a teachable moment." DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 #568
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2015 #579
One thing I Jamaal510 Jun 2015 #582
ambivalence and complexity are human, whereas lockstep ideological solidarity seems... carolinayellowdog Jun 2015 #632
I think he hated the racism that the Clintons directed toward Obama in 2008 tularetom Jun 2015 #648
"It's" is NOT the same as "She's" cherokeeprogressive Jun 2015 #585
This is exactly like Drudge calling Cindy Sheehan's arrest a "cunning stunt" geek tragedy Jun 2015 #598
If I disagree, is that hate speech, and/or misogyny as well? cherokeeprogressive Jun 2015 #649
No, it just means you condone that hate speech geek tragedy Jun 2015 #656
I've seen others with one foot on a banana peel ... lpbk2713 Jun 2015 #587
I'm sorry to hear this LadyHawkAZ Jun 2015 #608
:o PeaceNikki Jun 2015 #614
Lotta crocodile tears being shed for ol' NYC_SKP by supporters of She Who Must Be Obeyed tularetom Jun 2015 #624
Wait, you admit that word provoked you to violence but think it's perfectly geek tragedy Jun 2015 #642
Oh get off your high horse! polly7 Jun 2015 #658
And if I claim honkey isn't as bad as the n word BainsBane Jun 2015 #834
Claim whatever you like. I wasn't responding to you. polly7 Jun 2015 #849
YOU know and I know- digonswine Jun 2015 #909
Exactly right. polly7 Jun 2015 #918
Then what you know is just wrong- digonswine Jun 2015 #928
Nah ..... maybe what you know is 'wrong'. polly7 Jun 2015 #951
Your experiences are yours- digonswine Jun 2015 #961
My experiences are mine. Right on. Equality for 'all', or don't pretend. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #964
Right- digonswine Jun 2015 #969
Your experiences seem to be the unhappy ones. polly7 Jun 2015 #972
#1 It was my daughter, dude, what would you do? tularetom Jun 2015 #671
#1 I think it's unacceptable to call any woman that. geek tragedy Jun 2015 #681
Yup. Agschmid Jun 2015 #693
There's so much wrong in that post tularetom Jun 2015 #742
I think he lost the plot due to his intense hatred of Clinton, to the point geek tragedy Jun 2015 #768
Actually prick dick and c are in the same zip code nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #722
no, as a man I can tell you that virtually no man views "prick" and "dick" geek tragedy Jun 2015 #726
You speak for yourself. polly7 Jun 2015 #730
Your brothers have seriously violent anger issues and need help n/t kcr Jun 2015 #1052
And as a woman I don't care nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #736
there's nothing substantive about that word and is various euphemisms geek tragedy Jun 2015 #741
Here is the thing nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #745
Bottom line, calling Hillary Clinton a c*unt will get one the banhammer. boston bean Jun 2015 #755
Bottom line we will not enforce the rules nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #759
I don't know. I look at what is in question here, and I am not laughing. nt boston bean Jun 2015 #762
So am I. nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #772
the anti-semitism should be dealt with much more harshly than it has geek tragedy Jun 2015 #760
The only reason I came back nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #767
You are correct- digonswine Jun 2015 #911
None of those words is shorthand for prostitute. n/t Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #921
Actually yes, according to the dictionary nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #937
Nowhere in your link does it get defined as prostitute. Gormy Cuss Jun 2015 #944
As I said, they danced around it nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #974
Yes, but it doesn't mean "prostitute" zappaman Jun 2015 #977
Well slut and prostitue are synonyms. nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #982
What? zappaman Jun 2015 #985
Old college joke nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #986
Well this certainly doesn't sound like him. cliffordu Jun 2015 #655
Well then, shame on Grantcart. In_The_Wind Jun 2015 #674
Fuck YEAH! In any event, cliffordu Jun 2015 #701
What does Grantcart have to do with Earl G banning NYC-SKP? Algernon Moncrieff Jun 2015 #687
One has absolutely nothing to do with the other. cliffordu Jun 2015 #700
How the hell do you make a double entendre out of monkey brains? rug Jun 2015 #884
Well, first you get this monkey, see..... cliffordu Jun 2015 #998
Good. riversedge Jun 2015 #667
wow. forever? Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #668
The Devil made me do it. kentuck Jun 2015 #669
I was starting to wonder Flying Squirrel Jun 2015 #677
This message was self-deleted by its author Capt. Obvious Jun 2015 #682
I am guessing there is no way we can keep the thread from getting nasty. el_bryanto Jun 2015 #692
night shift hasn't even signed on yet. nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #697
...silence... MineralMan Jun 2015 #705
The Pain of Loving You kentuck Jun 2015 #720
no censorship is good censorship captainarizona Jun 2015 #724
Then maybe DU isn't for you. Cause pinned right at the top of boston bean Jun 2015 #744
Did you not read the Terms of Service when you signed up? "By registering a Democratic Underground uppityperson Jun 2015 #756
NYC_SKP in his own words: Bluenorthwest Jun 2015 #727
Yeah, that was pretty amazing, but I guess it's a lot easier to blame the people geek tragedy Jun 2015 #774
Sad. I liked his passion Android3.14 Jun 2015 #747
Oh I'm so sad. Stupid mistake. applegrove Jun 2015 #757
Unrecommended to the max. Enthusiast Jun 2015 #758
Interesting Lithos Jun 2015 #766
Too bad...he was making me nuts lately joeybee12 Jun 2015 #769
There's no place for that word used that way here. As much as I enjoy 90% of NYC, he had to know.... marble falls Jun 2015 #775
It is sad to think that some people think that the "C" word is acceptable as honest critique Agnosticsherbet Jun 2015 #786
agree - I thought DU was better than that DrDan Jun 2015 #805
This thread is a huge eye opener. KMOD Jun 2015 #791
I fail to see how calling any particular woman ANY name ... is derogatory to all women ... baffled brett_jv Jun 2015 #796
I think there should be boundaries and racist and sexist and homophobic name calling should be one uponit7771 Jun 2015 #806
He is just the latest in a long line of posters here that get sucked into GD and start taking Number23 Jun 2015 #797
Don't agree with the banning. HornBuckler Jun 2015 #802
Great idea. I'll do similar. MannyGoldstein Jun 2015 #808
Done and done. HornBuckler Jun 2015 #820
If it makes you feel any better, Omaha Steve set that up. merrily Jun 2015 #843
Omaha Steve is A-OK in my book. Glad to help! nt. HornBuckler Jun 2015 #859
I expect you'll be short that $50 soon. nt MannyGoldstein Jun 2015 #850
I'm in for another $20. Good idea, indeed. eom Purveyor Jun 2015 #861
If you paid attention to this poster's imput after Sandy Hook, you'd be wondering who the "real" KittyWampus Jun 2015 #810
So, you're saying he had a sock puppet to respond to his own post? progressoid Jun 2015 #976
Well buh bye we can do it Jun 2015 #812
You are mistaken, he called no one any such thing, very dishonest of you, unbelievably so in fact. Dragonfli Jun 2015 #815
... Cleita Jun 2015 #841
this thread has 800+ replies.... mike_c Jun 2015 #826
A 7 year member given the death penalty over one post. 99Forever Jun 2015 #827
I agree with you. HornBuckler Jun 2015 #833
I agree darkangel218 Jun 2015 #836
That's a shame he said that steve2470 Jun 2015 #828
Agreed! helpful and freindly to me as well . The hostility toward orpupilofnature57 Jun 2015 #831
One can say the same thing about how HRC supporters are treated here. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #870
I see you attacked numerous times. zappaman Jun 2015 #904
If it was against warren there woukd be a huge outcry here. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #916
NYC_SKP Has been an informative ,valuable, source, this is orpupilofnature57 Jun 2015 #830
Gunner down! alcibiades_mystery Jun 2015 #839
LOL. Downtown Hound Jun 2015 #854
I wonder if all his defenders would be defending him if it was about Warren? zappaman Jun 2015 #842
I don't know about all of them Kali Jun 2015 #941
I volunteered for Warren's campaign in 2012, so here's my answer. Jim Lane Jun 2015 #1047
I alerted on this OP as being Meta. The hosts are locking all the other threads about NYC_SKP darkangel218 Jun 2015 #844
Which goes to the issue at heart nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #858
except that you often claim ANY criticism or disagreement as a personal attack Kali Jun 2015 #915
Not any nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #930
my pals? see who does the snide remarks? Kali Jun 2015 #939
Yes your pals nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #947
such a fine example of what I was talking about Kali Jun 2015 #949
LMAO, but expected nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #950
Oh and one more thing Kali nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #933
about the only thing you are a victim of Kali Jun 2015 #955
For the rest of the class nadinbrzezinski Jun 2015 #959
It seems those other posts were locked for complaining, per Skinner's pinned thread, top of forum uppityperson Jun 2015 #864
some meta is allowed Kali Jun 2015 #913
:-) pintobean Jun 2015 #943
Bad decision IMO. DanTex Jun 2015 #845
That sux. I know he stepped over the line... HooptieWagon Jun 2015 #848
He was trying to be funny, not clever fadedrose Jun 2015 #851
Everyone who wants NYC_SKP back, please message the Administrators darkangel218 Jun 2015 #865
Its a civil community, first and foremost!!!! nt William769 Jun 2015 #872
A poster messes up in ONE post, and you think he should be permanently banned???? darkangel218 Jun 2015 #875
I want him back. 840high Jun 2015 #885
I find this news as disturbing as I find it disheartening. 2banon Jun 2015 #877
....x10 840high Jun 2015 #888
+1 hifiguy Jun 2015 #897
I hate seeing longtime decent folks driven off by a simple disagreement... Blue_Tires Jun 2015 #878
Sad to see an old timer go. Owl Jun 2015 #882
me too Liberal_in_LA Jun 2015 #946
Well all other posts now about this are locked. This one just keeps on going. madfloridian Jun 2015 #893
Only the celebratory post still going. madfloridian Jun 2015 #898
More celebratory threads were started. merrily Jun 2015 #990
That sucks. Captain Stern Jun 2015 #900
This has been a very revealing thread. merrily Jun 2015 #901
revealing of the costs and risks of investing great time and energy in an online forum carolinayellowdog Jun 2015 #948
902 ileus Jun 2015 #902
Well deserved. HERVEPA Jun 2015 #907
A bullshit, biased decision. This sort of shit is the reason I stopped donating. /nt Marr Jun 2015 #912
I won't be donating again either. polly7 Jun 2015 #924
Likewise. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #1037
This sort of response might encourage me to donate again. MADem Jun 2015 #936
Huh? polly7 Jun 2015 #954
Way to misinterpret my intention... MADem Jun 2015 #960
K. nt. polly7 Jun 2015 #965
I don't care what you do. /nt Marr Jun 2015 #1041
The hide was well-deserved. The ban was not. Terra Alta Jun 2015 #914
Unfortunate ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2015 #917
This banning stuff seems way over the top Depaysement Jun 2015 #923
Some history on DU with the C word Renew Deal Jun 2015 #931
Ed Schultz was only off the air for a few days for a bad word Omaha Steve Jun 2015 #938
This is going to be a long hot primary season. nt BumRushDaShow Jun 2015 #940
I'm sorry to see him banned because I like him, Beacool Jun 2015 #945
48 to go Renew Deal Jun 2015 #952
here is where the credibilty wears DonCoquixote Jun 2015 #958
C'mon, git to 1000 in a day, git dere boy, git it. AngryAmish Jun 2015 #962
Wow GP6971 Jun 2015 #963
Has to be close Renew Deal Jun 2015 #968
C'mon! We can hit 1000 posts today! We love to talk about ourselves neverforget Jun 2015 #967
1000 replies within 12 hours -- almost. aikoaiko Jun 2015 #970
Post removed Post removed Jun 2015 #975
Joe polly7 Jun 2015 #979
Going for 1,000. The topics really hit a nerve here, but it was not "just one post".... Hekate Jun 2015 #984
So EarlG was fibbing in his ban message? ScreamingMeemie Jun 2015 #994
Well said. n/t JTFrog Jun 2015 #995
This is going to be an awesome place to post Aerows Jun 2015 #1007
K & R GP6971 Jun 2015 #987
Bad form, DU. MelungeonWoman Jun 2015 #989
Oh no, not NYC, he is a good person! akbacchus_BC Jun 2015 #991
For post 999, here's a brief exchange between NYC_SKP and EarlG from Sept '13 Electric Monk Jun 2015 #999
and, Skinner.. still being "clever" Cha Jun 2015 #1009
While we're reminiscing about 2013 pintobean Jun 2015 #1025
Oh, you want to go there? Ok. Oh, and you cropped out the best part. Electric Monk Jun 2015 #1045
The exchange was hilarious. pintobean Jun 2015 #1046
1000! Prism Jun 2015 #1000
Congratulations Prism! lovemydog Jun 2015 #1003
This sounds suspiciously like the office version! Prism Jun 2015 #1004
It's almost exactly the same! lovemydog Jun 2015 #1005
10001 post! lovemydog Jun 2015 #1001
Not 10001 yet, got 9000 to go first. JustABozoOnThisBus Jun 2015 #1012
Oops! lovemydog Jun 2015 #1083
No. Just. No. raven mad Jun 2015 #1014
We love and we miss you buddy....one of the true good guys. ileus Jun 2015 #1016
I'm sure I've disagreed with him a time or two davidpdx Jun 2015 #1021
He snarked me recently. Want me to throw him some red meat? WhaTHellsgoingonhere Jun 2015 #1022
I have nothing to contribute to this thread Sanity Claws Jun 2015 #1026
What's to stop a banned member from cleaning their cookies and B Calm Jun 2015 #1030
nothing, but if he's banned by IP address, he has to get a lot more inventive than that nt steve2470 Jun 2015 #1070
To be honest ... lpbk2713 Jun 2015 #1040
I am sorry but He should have been banned after these posts: LostOne4Ever Jun 2015 #1044
Not to mention his nasty OP after Sandy Hook. Jamastiene Jun 2015 #1048
Exactly! Only reason I didn't mention SH is because I was not a part of DU then (nt) LostOne4Ever Jun 2015 #1050
None of his defenders will even attempt to address the facts of those Hebdo or Sandy Hook posts Bluenorthwest Jun 2015 #1068
What a pantload Egnever Jun 2015 #1074
I read your whole post and -none Jun 2015 #1075
It is victim blaming. Victim blaming people who were brutally murdered. n/t LostOne4Ever Jun 2015 #1084

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
748. Of course. And then that one will be Ignored & Trashed too.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:26 PM
Jun 2015

Today is sure a fine day, isn't it.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
1057. It wasn't his slur. HERE'S WHAT WAS REALLY SAID IN HIS EXCHANGE WITH A TROLL
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 09:21 AM
Jun 2015


98. Here's the exchange.

Troll's post:

Feel the Bern.

If she's not ready to handle spontaneous exchanges,

she is not fit for the Presidency. This is all smoke and mirrors, IMO. Yes, I am voting for Bernie but just thinking of her even pulling such a cunning stunt is pretty shockingly appalling.

I'm not sayin'--I'm just sayin'...


Skip's reply:


Welcome to DU, Feel the Bern! And yes, it's a Cunning Stunt!

I say that to myself every day, over an over.

It can be a tongue twister!

IMO skip is being blatantly ironical, letting the troll know that he is on to her and it seems very clear to me that skip's comment is a reference to what the troll is doing.


(as originally posted by snagglepuss at: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6784393)



Cha

(316,455 posts)
1071. SKP owns it.. Proudly put it in his journal too.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 07:10 PM
Jun 2015

"Troll"

Feel the Bern.

If she's not ready to handle spontaneous exchanges,

she is not fit for the Presidency. This is all smoke and mirrors, IMO. Yes, I am voting for Bernie but just thinking of her even pulling such a cunning stunt is pretty shockingly appalling.

I'm not sayin'--I'm just sayin'...

"There will be NO opportunities to interview Hillary Clinton; her speech will be her interview."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6775879
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6783979

How SKP responded..
"Welcome to DU, Feel the Bern! And yes, it's a Cunning Stunt!

I say that to myself every day, over an over.

It can be a tongue twister!

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6775973

Posted it in his journal too..

http://www.democraticunderground.com/~NYC_SKP

EarlG (Administrator)

"Called Hillary Clinton the c-word. Thought he was being clever about it. He was not."

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=profile&uid=221412&sub=trans

SKP needs to apologize to the Admins and ask to be re-instated.. not try to wiggle out of it like others are trying to do for him.



 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
1076. Which clearly shows that the term wasn't applied to ANY person, including Hillary.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 10:54 PM
Jun 2015

It was applied to an action, not a person...obviously. Now one might argue that there was some sort of implied attribution of the term to Hillary...and in the case of the original troll post, I'd agree. But the actual construction of the sentences does no such thing. Perhaps this is splitting linguistic hairs, but those stating that Skip "called Hillary a c*nt" are simply wrong.

Should the spoonerism be used at all here? I say no. It's vulgar and misogynist. Was Skip's post tone-deaf and entirely hide-worthy. Abso-fuckin'-lutely. Did he deserve a 90-day time out for it? Perhaps so. But tombstoning a long-time, valuable liberal poster is a bullshit, knee-jerk overreaction.

Cha

(316,455 posts)
1077. Which clearly show it was Directed right at Hillary Clinton. You're not helping SKP by denying it
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 11:03 PM
Jun 2015

either.

SKP needs to own it and apologize if he ever hopes to get re-instated. He can't be acting like those on here who are spinning their tops off trying to cover for him.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
1078. It does nothing of the sort.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 11:15 PM
Jun 2015

Did you even bother to read what I wrote? The actual construction of Skip's text (and, for that matter, what the troll wrote) clearly ascribes the spoonerism to an action, not a person. Any ascription to a person would have to be a matter of implication (a subjective - if often valid - evaluation). Perhaps that's what he meant (only Skip can answer that), but it's not what he wrote.

Basic. Fucking. Linguistics.

I sincerely doubt Skip gives a shit about being reinstated at this point. I may be wrong - Skip put a lot of time and effort into this site for years. But I bet I'm not...

Cha

(316,455 posts)
1079. Yes it does..and, there's another set of spinners whining because he got banned bc it was directed
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 11:19 PM
Jun 2015

"at Hillary".. showing the bias of the Admin. Or some such shite like that.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
1080. Nice, detailed, rigorous defense of your point.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:12 AM
Jun 2015

Oh, wait...

Believe what you want. It's illiterate and wrong...but at this point I give not a single fuck.

Cha

(316,455 posts)
1081. Sorry, your defense won't work with the Admins. Doubt very much if SKP uses it. He wouldn't want to
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:16 AM
Jun 2015

insult their intelligence.. if he really wants back in. He'll own up to it. Not like the ones who are trying to weasel out of it with all kinds bullshit excuses.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
1082. It wasn't intended as a defense of Skip's ill-considered post.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:28 AM
Jun 2015

I'm simply pointing out that it doesn't actually say what some folk are claiming it does. I don't know how I can make that any clearer (without resorting to crayons and pantomime...).

uppityperson

(115,993 posts)
2. DU is really weird these days, too much nastiness and rudeness. It isn't good or necessary.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:12 AM
Jun 2015

It is really a shame that it has become so and I hope it changes back soon.

TBF

(35,458 posts)
259. As much as I enjoyed my couple of stints on MIRT
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:37 AM
Jun 2015

I really do think DU was better overall as a modded site. I know the admins wanted to try new things, but it was more of an "underground" where you really could connect with other like-minded folks. And I only joined in '08, it was probably even better in the very early years. If it's going to be a place for dems then it makes sense to moderate & keep it that way. Otherwise it might as well be any other site out there ...

calimary

(88,863 posts)
540. We all had a common enemy.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:10 PM
Jun 2015

The early days spawned from the early days of bush/cheney. Those of us who knew the American people just got rolled, BIG-TIME, were online somewhere, maybe emailing a friend about how we felt, and had no idea there might be a support system out there, just waiting for us. OVER AND OVER I've heard "I thought I was the only one who felt this way" - in all its forms, and sometimes it's been said by ME, too. And we all could unite around our loathing of bush/cheney. Well, now we're squabbling and quibbling, with one from our side comfortably presiding in the White House. Now we're fighting amongst ourselves.

Hey guys - WE NEED TO UNITE (OR AT LEAST START AIMING THAT WAY) AND HERE'S WHY:

Another post here recently recalled the Democratic debacle in 1968, which I'm old enough to remember. We were in the middle of Vietnam, which was Topic A all over the Evening/Nightly News every evening. And the country was a roiling mess - what with the marches and protests, those were all over TV too, and violence at the Dem Convention in Chicago that year. Kent State was two years away. That was the year of two body-blow assassinations that were body-blows to the American heart - of Martin Luther King Jr., and Bobby Kennedy. The - if you will - "progressive alternative" of the day became Senator Eugene McCarthy, who opposed the Vietnam War. With RFK taken away from us, there arose an enthusiastic swell for McCarthy especially among younger voters. I'd be voting in the next Presidential election, but by 1968 I was becoming aware of stuff, however vaguely. The mainstream Dem candidate was Vice President Hubert Humphrey. He was saddled with LBJ's Vietnam and kinda felt like he couldn't actively denounce it, since he WAS LBJ's Vice President. Sticky situation for him, caught between loyalty for the guy whose second-in-command he still was and what approach to take to the war. He showed himself to be a loyal man. But the country was too torn up by the war to go for a guy still so tied to the war it had come to hate. It was as though he had - well, let's call it "LBJ-stench" all over him.

Not overtly making direct comparisons to leading players of today, although you can certainly interpret it that way. And I've already declared myself a Hillary supporter, although extremely impressed with, and loving, everything Bernie Sanders is saying. I've already declared I will be an enthusiastic Bernie Sanders supporter if he's the one who carries the day! I won't pout and go home and refuse to keep playing just because I want very badly to see command turned over to a woman for a change. There's a BOATLOAD of stuff Bernie Sanders is doing that I like. I know how ardently his supporters stand by him and I admire that tremendously. THAT fire in the belly is what propels campaigns to serious success - maybe even to going all the way. I still think Hillary's gonna be the one, though.

I am fearful for what I see of history maybe setting up to repeat itself. And I desperately do NOT WANT THAT!!!! We got set up for such hideous awfulness from this that we are STILL suffocating under it TODAY. In the NEXT CENTURY.

Cuz you know who we got when the Democratic Party was that divided over Presidential candidates, that year, and we divided our vote? NIXON.

We were so damaged as a political side that it took til 1976 to get the White House back, and then we only held it for one term. And who we got after THAT? reagan.

PLEASE NOTE: It's NOT that I'm insisting overtly on all Bernie Sanders people giving it up and coming over to the Hillary camp. I am absolutely not doing that. What I WOULD like to suggest is that both of our camps here address each other about the different candidate support/defense with less acrimony. PLEASE let's try to go a little easier on each other. To keep the White House, WE ALL EVENTUALLY HAVE TO TEAM UP TOGETHER IN A UNITED FRONT!!!!

We still have to be able to get along and team up toward the end. We can't afford to let history repeat itself. We can't afford another 1968.

TBF

(35,458 posts)
640. Thoughtful post -
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:53 PM
Jun 2015

I was born in the mid-60s so pretty much only know what I was told at home and have studied since. I know about Vietnam from my dad & uncles serving - but we didn't study it in school because it was too recent. Instead we read Hiroshima and Diary of Anne Frank. It is interesting to hear the historical perspective from folks who remember that time. I knew vaguely that Nixon had resigned but the first president I remember with any clarity is Jimmy Carter (and the gas lines).

Agree that we don't need that kind of hostility and I do think some of the people that drum that up are really not democrats but rather here stirring the pot instead. I trust the admins here and their judgment calls. I have a good memory but there are plenty of posts I don't see, while they can easily pull up a poster's entire history and look through it for guidance. I think sometimes people forget that.

calimary

(88,863 posts)
821. I'm an Eisenhower baby. I remember vague stuff about the Kennedys, mainly
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:12 PM
Jun 2015

the intangibles. We went from a Grandpa and Grandpa situation in the White House to a younger family that I could relate to MUCH more closely because the Kennedy kids were just a little younger than I was. First time I was aware of someone in the Presidency who was so much more relatable to me personally. Their mom looked like the moms I saw picking their kids up at school. Their dads looked like many of the dads who went to Father-Daughter night. And I liked how Mrs. Kennedy dressed. How pretty she was. Elegant, stylish, classy. I still remember when the nun disappeared from the classroom for awhile, not saying anything, and then coming back with an ashen look on her face, telling us not to scream, but that "President Kennedy is dead."

Then, the little kids moved out of the White House and an older couple took over, with two daughters who were older than I was (LBJ, Lady Bird, and Lynda Bird and Lucy. I do remember one distinct thing about that family just on a personal, visceral level. I noticed that they ALL had LBJ as their initials. Dad - Lyndon Baines Johnson. Mom - Lady Bird Johnson (she actually had a name in her own right, Claudia Alta Taylor "Lady Bird" Johnson, but she went along with the family theme). Big sis - Lynda Bird Johnson. Little sis - Lucy Baines Johnson. Liked Lady Bird because of her whimsical name, and because her pet cause as First Lady was "The Beautification of America." She was concerned by everything from gardens to the great out doors. Wanted to make every city, every highway, every public area prettier, lovelier, cleaner, more wisely managed. Even back then, I seem to have been drawn to that issue and that idea of wise and responsible custodianship of our planet. I liked that they had daughters - I could relate to them somewhat, like older sisters. Didn't start waking up about him for awhile. He unleashed all kinds of uproar, not only via Vietnam but also civil rights. I love the following historical nugget. I bet it's true. Hell, I've heard taped talk from him, emitting from his seat on the toilet!

&quot According to historian Robert) Caro, it was ultimately Johnson's ability to convince Republican leader Everett Dirksen to support the bill that amassed the necessary Republican votes to overcome the filibuster in March 1964; after 75 hours of debate, the bill passed the senate by a vote of 71–29.[89][90] Johnson signed the fortified Civil Rights Act of 1964 into law on July 2.[90] Legend has it that as he put down his pen Johnson told an aide, "We have lost the South for a generation", anticipating a coming backlash from Southern whites against Johnson's Democratic Party.[91]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lyndon_B._Johnson

I find it really interesting, TBF, that so much of this recent American history is being brought back. The whole movement surrounding the Civil Rights Act, the anti-war movement (which dominated the 60s and early 70s). It's all being revisited, or at least glanced off like a stone skipping across the surface of the pond. And it grates on me when I hear (mainly) CONS and GOPers and their many apologists insist that revisiting the past is terrible, waste of time, makes no sense, wrong and wrongheaded, distracting, fill-in-the-blank-here. We HAVE TO know what led up to this. We HAVE TO know what caused or provoked or led to this. Whatever the "this" is. We HAVE to retrace our steps to try to get a handle on where it all started, how it all started, when it all started and what the timbre of the times was then. WE NEED TO KNOW THAT STUFF - if we're EVER to avoid making the same mistakes again. Man, I'm just really grokking what "those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it" thing is all about. You've GOT to look back, forage through the past, peel back the layers on the onion, do some digging (something lazy, shallow, and vain-as-hell journalism just doesn't want to bother its collective pretty head about doing anymore) to figure out HOW WE GOT HERE. And WHERE and WHY. Seems to me that's the only way to figure out how to address whatever problem it is.

stage left

(3,187 posts)
763. A very good post.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:40 PM
Jun 2015

You reflect my thoughts as well. We still have a common enemy; Or, rather enemies. What is it now? Ten of them filling up the clown car?

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
880. We still have a common enemy, the Oligarchy. That includes Goldman-Sachs and the Wall Street
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:57 PM
Jun 2015

gang. And the Oligarchy isn't limited to just Republicons. They are way smarter than that.

Dont call me Shirley

(10,998 posts)
1024. And the name of their game is Divide and Conquer and that is what the oligarchs are doing here
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:15 AM
Jun 2015

Last edited Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:14 PM - Edit history (1)

at DU. They are vile people, hateful, spiteful and divisive. There is not one cell in their body which is not bursting with the uber-competitive-win-at-any-cost game. Their ways in the world are truly a spreading deadly virus with the end-game of death for all but them. They know not ways of real community, they have almost killed off the worlds indigenous tribes. They know not ways of compassion, for they worship the death of care. They have no shame of their hateful thieving ways, for they must hate in order to steal from their brothers.

This is what we must join together to overcome. We must rise above the low vibration of the oligarchs, in order to win. We must work together and care for each other, for the oligarchs have already lost at that game.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
889. true
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:15 PM
Jun 2015

just hope that the collateral damage doesn't take us out, here. I just hope the best candidate is fielded, by us, for the GE. Otherwise goodbye seniors, goodbye wounded vets, good bye to all who have to depend on our government to survive because of dire circumstance not always their fault. When Nixon got thrown out, this country's repugthugs got mean, culminating in that disaster called reagan and further destroying our tenuous cultural relationships among our diverse racial segments in the shrub, darth years. This country is a mean vicious place to live now, especially for POC and the poor. Although I must say a lot of those poor continue to vote against their own self interests so they get what they vote for.

Sometimes I believe we're our own worst enemy.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
284. You are absolutely right.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:48 AM
Jun 2015

I get told time and again why its perfectly fine to use awful terms and language as long as the "right" people are being insulted.
I.E., calling Ben carson an Oreo, Clarence Thomas Uncle Tom, Sarah Palin a slut, etc etc. Alan Grayson is a hero because he "tells it like it is", but when a republican does the exact same thing he's the most vile person alive.
I dont understand the hypocrisy

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
846. they didn't ban members who outed
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:58 PM
Jun 2015

Themselves as rapists so I get no pleasure at this news.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
1066. thank you, TorchTheWitch. I am STILL reeling over it and the
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 02:14 PM
Jun 2015

fact that I got ZERO response to my message.

 

Joe the Revelator

(14,915 posts)
793. THAT is the analogy i was looking for!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:16 PM
Jun 2015

Yeah, this is NOTHING...nothing compared to 07/08. That was a complete shit show, I take a lot of blame for that, but yeah....pillow fight is a great description.

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
3. That's a shame, but ultimately necessery
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:13 AM
Jun 2015

A word like that has no place on DU.

Also, many of his anti-Hillary screeds were way over the top.

He seemed like a good DUer, but he definitely took a turn for the worst over the last few months.

n2doc

(47,953 posts)
5. Shame
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:14 AM
Jun 2015

I wish they had been able to keep things constructive, but if they did that, then they deserved the ban. I did enjoy many of NYC SKP's posts in the past.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
6. decent guy until he went completely off the rails.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:15 AM
Jun 2015

Hopefully that'll serve as a wake-up call.

Hate to see a long-timer go-but I more than understand admins taking a zero tolerance policy towards that toxic garbage.

Warpy

(114,363 posts)
636. He's been teetering on the edge of my ignore list for months
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:50 PM
Jun 2015

and I'd already put him on the "warning! do not engage!" list. I don't know what happened to him, he used to be a favorite. I hope it's temporary and that he's back as himself some day.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
799. I just called him out a few weeks ago on the increasing weirdness of his posts that were, of course,
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:30 PM
Jun 2015

cheered by certain non surprising quarters here.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026706999#post79

The GD:Effect claims another victim. Fragile people that take the non-stop foolishness of this forum as gospel. It's really sad and happens way too often around here.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
1029. Then why doesn't he have more hidden posts? The guy had no hidden posts for the past 90 days.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:38 AM
Jun 2015

Or am I wrong about that? If so, please clarify. Were people not alerting on his "off the rails" posts or, what exactly?

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
1033. Jury system sucks. People who are popular enough
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:07 AM
Jun 2015

are virtually immune to getting posts hidden.

Also, shrill, deranged nonsense is never enough to get a post hidden. Typically it's for bigotry, personal attacks, or rightwing talking points.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
1034. I agree with you that the jury system sucks however, I have seen people post jury results on alerted
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:18 AM
Jun 2015

posts when the post was not hidden but, I don't recall ever seeing these posts to this NYC_SKP. So, my question is this:

were his other offensive posts being alerted and if so, why weren't the results posted to him, in an effort to give him feedback that he was perilously close to violating community standards.

Maybe, I am wrong but, looks to me like a person can get banned without fair warning just for an implication.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
1042. This is one if the many problems with rule by jury
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 02:44 PM
Jun 2015

If juries don't hide, people wind up wandering into bannable subject matter

But the TOS are pretty clear. Doesn't take much insight to realize dropping the c-bomb on Clinton is a big-time no no here.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
1043. No one dropped the C-Bomb however, clear was the implication and given the context, after reviewing
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 02:58 PM
Jun 2015

the post being replied, I truly think NYC_SKP's post was misunderstood.

However, after reading through most of today's threads regarding this subject rest assured, I will never use the word cunning when describing a stunt pulled on DU.

Don't want to push my luck.

And, while the TOS are relatively clear, it would appear that community standards are the luck of the draw.

I understand that this poster has some questionable history although no one has supplied a link for evidence.

Main thing made very clear to me today is that the Admin own this site and can do as they see fit and one takes their chances with every post made.

trueblue2007

(19,059 posts)
1067. decent guy my foot.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 04:09 PM
Jun 2015

i feel that no one who uses that type of language is DECENT.

thank you for removing that person.

Long live Democrats, folks, listen to President Obama's eulogy of Beau Biden and stop all the bickering. We are better that a bunch of killing hyenas going after a deer ..... Treat each other as we would like to be treated. Please.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
7. This is a shame. He was a hero and leader to many here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:17 AM
Jun 2015

I am sorry he was banned. We shouldn't be judged by our worst moments.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
10. yeah, the post totally should have been hidden 7-0, but
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:18 AM
Jun 2015

a long-timer getting the axe over one post can arguably seem severe. On the other hand, there really, really, really is zero place for that--it's way, way, way beyond what's acceptable, to the point where anyone who's willing to go there has probably lost the plot and needs a break from this place.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
22. We are all human...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:23 AM
Jun 2015

And I am sure all kinds of nasty pejoratives come into our heads when thinking about individuals we don't like but usually our better angels or just plain old horse sense prevent us from saying them or writing them down.

The larger point is you can criticize or dislike a person without hanging on them an epithet that demeans an entire group.


 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
74. Assholes is good. Not hard at all to stay away from sexist or racist slurs if you respect others....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:40 AM
Jun 2015

But some can't help dog whistling to others who share their anger and resentment toward women or POC here.

That a host would actually respond approvingly to that slur is deeply disturbing. If they actually care about that candidate, he should be removed from hosting that group before doing any more damage.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
801. It's all bullshit, he didn't call her the c-word, not even close
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:35 PM
Jun 2015

He mentioned she may be devious, using the appropriate word for it, but it appears one must replace the one word with "cleverly devious" as the shorter form, not even a swear word, is now verboten and a bannable offense.

It was and remains a witch hunt run by petty nasty people.

he was banned for using this word

marym625

(17,997 posts)
876. looks to me like he was mocking the tombstone poster
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:49 PM
Jun 2015

But calling a woman a tool is okay, evidently.

yuiyoshida

(44,914 posts)
973. This is a bit shocking to me...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:12 PM
Jun 2015

He was always nice to me.. but using that phrase is unbelievable.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
250. He's been insulting DUers for a long time now.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:34 AM
Jun 2015

He has engaged in some pretty nasty put downs of members here, simply because they favor a different candidate than he preferred. Rather intolerant for a Dem.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
905. True...the alerts, and DUer's reactions as jurors to the
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:43 PM
Jun 2015

posts. If 3 people are appalled and explain why, while 4 people either high five or don't explain their vote, over time, those who explain why a post bothers them will, eventually, resonate.

I don't care for any kind of code word or dog whistle snark that has as its goal the denigration of any Democrat. Race, religion, gender or orientation 'jokes' directed at our primary field should set off alarm bells.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
771. I doubt it was just that one post
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:55 PM
Jun 2015

He must have been on their radar. He wasn't selected for the current MIRT, despite signing up before others who were chosen.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
776. Part of it is that there's practically no one who's saying "he couldn't have meant
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:00 PM
Jun 2015

to call Hillary Clinton that." When it's extremely easy to believe he'd call her that kind of name, that indicates a "straw that broke the back" type of dynamic.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
782. He hated Clinton, no question
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:06 PM
Jun 2015

And it's a shame he turned to misogyny to oppose her. In general, I'd found him supportive of feminist issues. Even soon after she announced he said people shouldn't use sexism to oppose her, but then he really seemed to become increasingly hostile toward her. As you said, he seemed to go off the rails. There is probably more than we know about that led to the administrators' decision. Regardless, I wish him well.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
787. he had also tried to blame the Charlie Hebdo victims by insisting that those
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:09 PM
Jun 2015

who peddle what he called hate speech had to expect consequences.

oh the irony.

Until today, I had forgotten that it was him who posted gun porn (a glowing review of a military shotgun) in GD 48 hours after Sandy Hook because he didn't like seeing people argue for gun control.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
218. I feel bad for SKP
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:19 AM
Jun 2015

Obviously we were supporting different candidates. I tried to reach a truce with him where at least he wouldn't comment on my posts and i wouldn't comment on his, call it a detente...It didn't work...Sometimes I don't respond to a post I disagree with because the relationship is more important than the post.

SKP has had several brain surgeries. I am not a neurologist but I wonder if it affected the part of the brain that governs emotions...

...


While I don't agree with the banning I do see a trend by some to dismiss the abject awfulness of the word or that really wasn't what he was saying. I strongly take exception from that.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
244. I wondered too about impulse control
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:29 AM
Jun 2015

given his surgeries. I really think DU is important to him and he benefited from the support he got from us following his most recent health issues. I hate to see him lose that support system, especially after being a DUer for years. Too bad after tens of thousands of posts, one got him banned.

lark

(25,856 posts)
265. Curious
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:40 AM
Jun 2015

What do you think the punishment for using that awful women targeting C word should be? I too hate banning unless there's been a pattern of abuse, but that word is so hateful and derogatory to women, how can using that be tolerated on this board?

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
302. I'm not God but I would have given him a thirty day timeout, long enough to miss the place.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:55 AM
Jun 2015

Or maybe he would decide to live without it.

lark

(25,856 posts)
330. I think the bans already been lifted
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:04 PM
Jun 2015


Just hope this doesn't encourage the haters, but afraid that's exactly what'll happen.
 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
440. For a person on for 7 year, can't a 30 day suspension work?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:39 PM
Jun 2015

And if that doesn't stop them a full ban?

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
804. He never used that word, never called her that, it's all made up nasty shit to ban a critic. /nt
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:39 PM
Jun 2015

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
832. Come on
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:29 PM
Jun 2015

Anyone can see that is exactly what he was calling her. You can disagree with the banning denying reality or pretending misogyny doesn't matter.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
840. I honestly don't see it, I see word twisting to achieve a goal
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:49 PM
Jun 2015

I never use that word, it is low class as well as stupid, but he did not call anybody that, I can fucking read you know and don't need people to translate English for me, especially in such an obviously "creative" attempt to put words in someones mouth in order to ban them.

I find such behavior deplorable and transparent as hell in this case!

My god, I can't wait to see what you translate my words into, maybe I just called you a pumpkin or something.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
927. I am against the ongoing movement here to label individual words as "inappropriate"....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:26 PM
Jun 2015

....across the board without context. I think it smacks of authoritarian censorship, which is not a progressive value.

However, he knew what he was doing, it's silly to act like he was "tricked". It was an OP.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
971. EarlG is the one who translated it
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:09 PM
Jun 2015

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You are the one who refuses to see it. The "goal," as you call it, was to make a vulgar, misogynistic comment about Clinton. You take the beginning of the first word and combine it with the last of the second word. It's not terribly complicated, and it has no meaning other than to insult her. The problem is that people around here think name calling amounts to calling out a politician. It does not. It simply reveals who they are and that they have nothing of substance to say.

The reality is Clinton has a good chance of getting the Democratic nomination, whether you like it or not. I wouldn't discuss any Democrat in the way people do regularly about Clinton. I probably wouldn't discuss any human being with the frequency and level of vitriol directed against Clinton. So what happens if she wins the primary? Are you all going to pretend you didn't call her every name in the book, present her as vile, use every piece of nonsense put out by the right-wing media? Or will people refuse to vote for a Democrat and turn the presidency over to Scott Walker, or some similar Republican. The effect of all of this is to suppress the Democratic vote. The GOP knows that very well, and they know they can take advantage of the widespread acceptance of misogyny in American culture to win the White House.

People do not turn to misogyny to attack a politician, whether Democrat or Republican, unless that contempt for women is inside them. I think it unfortunate, particularly since I liked NYCSkp and would have never thought him capable of such a thing.

Spare me your little victim pretense. The meaning is clear. I did not ban Skp, and I twisted nothing. You choose not to see it, and then go on to say it is for "a goal.' as though any name-calling, misogynistic or not, constitutes a goal.

Hassin Bin Sober

(27,362 posts)
980. Bull fucking shit. And nobody ever called Mrs. Clinton a name when they passed this Photo shop around in 2008
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:38 PM
Jun 2015

I no longer speak to an acquaintance over the lashing I gave him when he sent this to me.

I was initially pro Hillary in 2008. He was pro Obama. I parted with the comment to just WAIT and see how Mrs. Obama is treated by the right (and other misogynists).

Calling Hillary those names goes back to the nineties.

I won't post the pic but it is at the link.


http://slog.thestranger.com/2008/05/today_in_hillary_bashing_and_defending


Or this guy

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/02/19/msnbc-hosts-founder-of-an_n_87356.html

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
855. Here's how I see it... context is everything and I could be a thousand miles off base here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:09 PM
Jun 2015

The post was underneath an OP whose main thrust was contained in these words: "There will be NO opportunities to interview Hillary Clinton; her speech will be her interview."

SKP was replying to a poster (currently feasting on pizza) who decried Hillary Clinton's refusal to talk to the press. In his response to that post he used these words: "And yes, it's (not she's, but it's) a Cunning Stunt!" What I heard in my head when I read the post was "Her refusal to talk to the press is a cunning stunt!" and not a direct insult to Hillary Clinton.

I totally missed the dog whistle. It seems as though I'm not alone; madfloridian, whom I consider to be a 1%er when it comes to intelligence, missed it too as did a ton of other people. I've heard "cunning runt" but never "cunning stunt". I must confess though; I'm not always on the lookout for dog whistles as are some.

Bottom line for me? Banning a poster who's been here that long, has that many posts, and at the time had ZERO hidden and is also a financial supporter of this site? Bad Bad Bad.

So that's my take. I'd like to know how you feel about it as I've always valued your opinions on any number of things whether they meshed with my thinking or not.

Peace.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
862. I think when some saw "cunning stunt"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:25 PM
Jun 2015

followed by

"I say that to myself every day, over an over.

It can be a tongue twister!"

I think the words I bolded are what triggered the alarm. I think he meant to say it. I also think a 30 day time out would have been more in order. I don't agree with the ban.

ladyVet

(1,587 posts)
1069. I'm late to the issue, but my reading of it was the same.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 07:04 PM
Jun 2015
I think the words I bolded are what triggered the alarm. I think he meant to say it.


If he was against Hillary, it would come off as a round about way of calling her the c word. That was totally my take on it.

I don't know what happened to NYC_SKP, but I'd noticed some odd postings, and I'm not here that much. Brain surgeries would explain a lot, for me.

But I think possibly a short time out might have been a better first step, if he would admit he'd done wrong, and could be able to come back and tone it down (that is, not be insulting to any woman or other minority).
 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
1072. I didn't know it when I posted
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 07:43 PM
Jun 2015

but "cunning stunt" is "popular" enough to warrant an Urban Dictionary entry. I had never heard it, but then I have never done a search for euphemisms for that word. The thought of using it makes me want to slap myself.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
890. He got banned for THAT?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:16 PM
Jun 2015

Jayzus. That's a bit of wordplay that has been around forever. I even saw it as an album title once - a british prog band in the Seventies called Caravan used the plural of that particular phrase.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
242. I agree so much. I've been a fan since I first joined DU. I think it's unfortunate
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:28 AM
Jun 2015

that a misstep like this leads to a ban of a long time DUer. Sometimes anyone's emotions can go over the top.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
886. This is true. He was one of my favorite DUers.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:10 PM
Jun 2015

And a long-timer should not be axed over one post. That is neither fair nor just.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
863. Both his post and the banning...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:27 PM
Jun 2015

30 day time out period would be more in line, but then I don't run the place.

Coventina

(29,078 posts)
9. Primary time is always the worst times of DU.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:17 AM
Jun 2015

It's a shame.

NYC_SKP won't be the only one who forgets the SOP in the heat of the moment.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
11. NYC_SKP used to be a mod on DU2. He will be missed. I hope the admins give him another chance.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:18 AM
Jun 2015

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
45. He's had a rough couple of years. Three complicated surgeries...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:32 AM
Jun 2015

he's had to deal with and death in his family and relocation.

The post I could find that caused the banning didn't say the C-Word that I could understand. But, maybe the last post on his Profile wasn't the post in question. In that post he said a "Cunning Stunt" that Hillary wouldn't answer questions in her Campaign kick off. His banning message said there was a cleverly worded use of the C-Word.

Very sad since I've seen worse posted here on DU that didn't get a banning of a long time DU'er who has been a Moderator and Forum Host for many years on many Forums.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
61. He joked that it was a tongue twister. He was definitely referencing that word. n/t
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:37 AM
Jun 2015

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
581. Now even referencing a word will get you banned?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:24 PM
Jun 2015

Words have become fatally dangerous.
Wow...I think it is time to find a new home.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
666. And I enjoy yours, as well as many in this forum
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:06 PM
Jun 2015

And have sense it began.
But there a lot of egg shells on the floor and you have to watch where you walk...not something I enjoy much.
And many really good posters have left because of it...and it is a shame.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
1058. Well it is unlikely that I will stop replying to people who I highly respect.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 09:27 AM
Jun 2015

And there are a great many of them here...but if they go so will I.

But I have not created an OP in a long time because if it is not in praise of the orthodoxy of DU it will be pounced on and I just do not have the energy to deal with it.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
1059. Good to know.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 09:31 AM
Jun 2015

You can always create OP's in the Populist Group. There, any host can block pouncers who are not "like minded" and I am currently a host. Just alert on a pouncing reply as Off Topic. The decent ones will even self delete on request.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
1054. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cunning%20stunt
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 08:45 AM
Jun 2015

Would you tolerate such a refence to the word n@gger?

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
1056. Well I am weird I know, but no word is intolerable for me
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 09:18 AM
Jun 2015

They are just words, what is intolerable is actions.
And I think the banning of words like the "N" word just gives cover to racism, because as long as they don't use it you cannot accuse them of racism.

MLK never insisted that he not be called the N word...that is not what he was fighting against...he was fighting for equal treatment not the use of a word.

And this word policing has been extended to all forms of justice, and it will produce nothing but contentiousness...and we see it here.

But that is not to say words do not have power because they do, but the irony is that forbidden words have more power than when not forbidden, because you can accuse people for using them and in this case even the implication of the word can be used to accuse...so more power is given to those words when banned.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
1062. Welp, that's an opinion.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 09:49 AM
Jun 2015

I feel that it's reasonable for a private site to say such words, especially when used in an attack, are not acceptable.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
1064. Well of course it is, that is what the rights of ownership is all about.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 10:12 AM
Jun 2015

But that don't necessarily mean it is right or even prudent to do so.

And my opinion can easily be classified as a thought crime if this is taken to the extreme, which some seem willing to do in the name of social justice.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
1065. I get what you're saying....
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 10:23 AM
Jun 2015

And a part of me agrees. But the other part of me wins the argument for now.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
785. What did he actually say? I know people have been trying to have him banned but I can't believe
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:07 PM
Jun 2015

he'd actually call anyone the "c word."

Or was it just an excuse because he was a critic of those that were head hunting him?
What exactly did he say?


On edit, after looking for the c word post - it appears that one may not utter the phrase it is a clever stunt. I left off the now, apparently new word added to the list made famous by George Carlin.


https://www.google.com/search?q=cunning+definition&oq=cunning+&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j0l5.7401j0j7&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=122&ie=UTF-8

cun·ning
ˈkəniNG/Submit
adjective
1.
having or showing skill in achieving one's ends by deceit or evasion.
"a cunning look came into his eyes"
synonyms: crafty, wily, artful, guileful, devious, sly, scheming, designing, calculating, Machiavellian; More


Hopefully the definition of the word is not a bannable offense.


That people would use a word that is not even a swear word to organize and execute a witch burning shows how low this place has sunk in the last decade.

The OP is misleading, he called no one the "c-word"
You people really suck, this is not even excusable to to the heat of the moment, it is outright banning for criticizing a politician, a long time DUer was banned simply because some can not abide the idea that some of us feel that Hillary Clinton is capable of devious political maneuverings and dared to admit it.

This is totally unbelievable.

I better not call her clever either, that sounds like all it would take if one refuses to swear fealty to what is in truth (contrary to the beliefs of the faithful) only ONE of the primary contenders and not a deity that must not be criticized for fear of stoning.

Is this now HillaryClinton.com?

Paka

(2,760 posts)
860. I'm a newbie by NYC_SKP standards.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:13 PM
Jun 2015

I used to lurk more than I posted, but enthusiasm over the primaries has caused me to post more often. I can honestly say the nastiness goes both directions; a statement to that effect did get me banned from the Hillary group.

I have always enjoyed NYC_SKP's posts and I am saddened to see he is banned for the mis-perception of using a word that was not actually what he did use. If you misread it, that's unfortunate, but to continue slamming him for the mistake is sad. I have never felt the need to use ignore. I can do that on my own without pushing a button.

I've enjoyed DU and hope to continue that enjoyment, but in the toxic environment of the moment I am starting to be fearful of posting. We aren't all professional journalists and sometimes don't express ourselves perfectly. We all don't read perfectly either, and need to take a step back occasionally.

Thank you Dragonfli for your clarification in this matter.

 

billymayshere

(94 posts)
934. I like you am just a lurker, as a matter in fact I haven't posted for years.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:36 PM
Jun 2015

I logged in just to note my displeasure of this banning, it sounds very petty and you captured my feelings exactly. As a daily visitor of this site I've noticed that some here have become really hyper-sensitive. It's sad really.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
1055. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cunning%20stunt
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 08:50 AM
Jun 2015

His choice of words and reference to a tongue twister.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
67. Sorry to hear that, I didn't know he'd been dealing with all of that.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:38 AM
Jun 2015

He screwed up. I would hope a sincere apology might get him back, his post hidden. He's one of the posters I log in to read, very sad to see him gone just like that.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
78. I do not think there was justification for this. So now cunning stunt is a code word for cunt? Not
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:42 AM
Jun 2015

any where I have ever seen. Oh well that is kind of what we risk when we do not support the inevitable one.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
103. Absolutely. He is banned because he supports someone else and was doing a good job of it. EarlG
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:46 AM
Jun 2015

the fact that she does not answer questions from anyone is a part of her campaign strategy. Calling her out on it is legit.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
127. C*nt is not "legit" and he should be embarrassing true supporters of any and all Dem candidates with
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:51 AM
Jun 2015

That bullshit. It's hateful to half the Dem base. Fuck that casual misogyny.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
155. "You all", lol. Women are the Dem base- try respecting them instead of trying to dismiss and
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:58 AM
Jun 2015

Marginalize them.

Response to marym625 (Reply #168)

Raine1967

(11,667 posts)
411. Not a fair comment.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:31 PM
Jun 2015

I agree with you about women being a big part of the base. Calling another woman a useful tool for having an opinion that differs from yours is not cool. jwirr is a woman. She is not a tool and not an object.



Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
467. That comment is probably itself alertable,
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:48 PM
Jun 2015

at least in the explosive atmosphere that prevails currently in these parts.

NYC SKP was wrong. There is no doubt in my mind about that.

However, particularly given his history here and his situation, I hardly see it as a capital offense. I think he was the subject (I do not use the word "victim" deliberately) of an overreaction here. I don't care to speculate on any implicit motives behind that reaction.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
983. Yes, we women have been part of the Dem base for most of our lives. Mary and I are part of the Dem
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:40 PM
Jun 2015

base. What is your point? I don't feel marginalized because I am a woman, I feel marginalized because I do not support Corporate control of our politicians and our government. However in the Real World, I know I am in the majority, so I'm not particularly worried about the Dem leadership's opinion of THIS woman.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
646. We're criticizing you for the thing you said that was wrong
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:56 PM
Jun 2015

That he was banned for supporting Sanders.

And that criticism is to you, not to others who support Sanders but didn't say anything as wrong as you did.

Response to jwirr (Reply #138)

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
653. C*nt is not "legit"....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:58 PM
Jun 2015

...unless you are in Australia.
There, you have to use it every 5 minutes or get deported.

whathehell

(30,331 posts)
733. Thank you..
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:08 PM
Jun 2015

No, it's not. It's an ugly gender slur, which, like racial slurs, amounts to shitting on someone for

a circumstance of birth -- It's fascistic, cruel and wrong.

He doesn't like her?..Frankly, I don't like her much either, but calling a woman the C-word

for that reason is no more legit than calling an African American the N-word for the same reason.




Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
807. He called no one any such thing and you damn well know it
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:44 PM
Jun 2015

Dishonesty is not a desirable trait no matter what the "cool kids" may have told you.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
1051. Talk about dishonesty...
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 08:27 AM
Jun 2015

Read the post again. The dude says "cunning stunt" and then jokes that its a tongue twister.... How fucking obvious do you have to be?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cunning%20stunt

 

demwing

(16,916 posts)
838. You know he didn't write the word "cunt"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:47 PM
Jun 2015

You know he didn't, but you keep spreading the same fuckload of bullshit anyway.

Starry Messenger

(32,379 posts)
153. I'm sad you think this.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:58 AM
Jun 2015

If someone called Bernie the K-word in a Hillary group, that person would also be banned. Why wouldn't they be? That kind of language has no place here.

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
206. Oh my fucking god, I can't keep up with all the "insert letter here"-words.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:16 AM
Jun 2015

Say what you mean. This code shit is infuriating. Are we children? What the hell is the "K-word?"

Damn it!

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
213. I'm going to throw a guess out there that it rhymes with
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:17 AM
Jun 2015

hike.

It is infuriating, and I'm pretty sure this post will be alerted on.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
657. I hope not. If it is alerted on, the jury should surely vote to leave 7 to 0. Context matters. nt
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:01 PM
Jun 2015
 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
634. nope...he wasn't doing a good job recently
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:49 PM
Jun 2015

for whatever reason the recently had been so extremist as to cross lines of decency several times.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
115. he called it a "tongue twister", come on
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:48 AM
Jun 2015

he was in trying to post a slur and get away with it.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
217. Which is weird, because people come right out and say horrendous stuff. It might
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:19 AM
Jun 2015

get hidden, but they don't get banned for it. Pretty sure that's why a few of us are scratching out heads.

***Disclaimer: I am not tight with NYC SKP for those who have notebooks and such.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
504. Where did you get that?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:00 PM
Jun 2015

I am asking for examples of long time DUers being banned for using the offensive slur one time. You said you've seen it.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
510. This thread here is an example of one, no?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:02 PM
Jun 2015

Why worry about past usages, when this one is staring you right in the face.

Maybe discuss how unacceptable it is to do that, rather than trying to find others that have used it and gotten away with it.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
517. You are deflecting now.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:05 PM
Jun 2015

It is zero policy or it isn't. Is this the ONLY example? If so, I am curious why others were not banned for using it and why he was banned for using it only once.

My question is a serious one. In this thread, there is already one example of a poster who used the word, towards Ann Romney, but is still an active poster. They got a hide, but not a ban.

Is this a new policy? Or it it because NYC SKP was anti-HIllary plus he used the word? Or is it because he used it in regards to HIllary?

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
525. So, in your view it would be ok to use and not deserve a banning because others didn't get banned.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:06 PM
Jun 2015

Or you can't find proof of it.... Ok, I got you now, again...

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
552. You don't understand my view at all. Slow down.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:13 PM
Jun 2015

If it is zero tolerance ban, so be it. I have no problem with that and think it makes sense. It is an offensive word and shouldn't be welcome here.

The question is: Is it zero-tolerance? And if it is, when did it become so? Because it hasn't been in the past, agreed?

There is proof that a poster had a post hidden, but still posts here for using the word.

So, it is new? Or is there something more? Like, NYC SKP was already on the wire, and this did him in? I think that is closer to what happened rather than just the word.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
555. I don't know. I'm happy to see it getting the treatment it deserves.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:15 PM
Jun 2015

It concerns me not at all that possibly others have used it and not been shown the door.

That's not a barometer I choose to use in this circumstance.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
754. I suspect the last one is a big part of the reason
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:33 PM
Jun 2015

but I am curious about the post SKP was responding to, that was "auto removed". What did it say and is that why he responded the way he did?

Context is important. I am in no way validating the use of that word, as I hate it with a passion, but what triggered it?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
435. NYC_SKIP.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:38 PM
Jun 2015

Try the 'site search' and see just how many times the word has been used here without repercussions. This was a clear message sent by the admins imo.

Quackers

(2,256 posts)
495. ^^^This times 1,000^^^
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:56 PM
Jun 2015

Talk about being biased as fuck against someone who doesn't support Hillary. The message sent is very clear.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
894. The "offending" phrase is a bit of (primarily) British wordplay
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:21 PM
Jun 2015

intended to trip up someone who says it. As noted on this thread I have seen it used as the title of a prog album in its plural form. This strikes me as bad. Very bad.

Quayblue

(1,045 posts)
993. who said said it??
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:10 AM
Jun 2015

i'm outta here though, fake democrats and bad dreams don't go together. Tried and done.

deurbano

(2,980 posts)
997. Nobody said it. I was responding to a poster who wrote:
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:24 AM
Jun 2015

<<I could see if it was referring to a member of DU, but a Presidential candidate?>>

My point was it would have been unacceptable to call Pres. Obama (when he was a candidate) the n-word, just as it is unacceptable to call any female candidate the c-word. (Just as a general principle, and not a comment on the banning.)

CherokeeDem

(3,732 posts)
252. Seriously?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:35 AM
Jun 2015

Now we are to disrespect anyone on this board who doesn't agree with the candidate we support? I believe an apology is due the admins.

Response to L0oniX (Reply #88)

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
695. That is indisputable
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:26 PM
Jun 2015

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They have made their positions known. Numerous posters in this thread have used the c- word - in referencing, of course, but used it nonetheless, yet none of them has been banned. If the word is offensive, it must be deemed offensive in all contexts. This is targeting a long time poster for his allusion to an offensive term (although not directly using it) and for enthusiastically supporting a candidate not supported by the DU hierarchy. There. I said it. Now ban me. I'll be in good company.

zappaman

(20,627 posts)
98. yes it is
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:45 AM
Jun 2015

its an old joke and the troll he was responding to, used it.
he was agreeing and made it even more clear what the troll was saying.

good ban.

bluedigger

(17,384 posts)
233. Thanks for the context.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:25 AM
Jun 2015

Makes the ban clearer for those of us who missed the complete exchange.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
118. If someone called my mom or girlfriend the c word he, me or we are going to the hospital.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:50 AM
Jun 2015

If someone called my mom or girlfriend the c word, me or we are going to the hospital, even if he thought he was being clever about it...


If that makes me illiberal then so be it.


DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
158. I said up thread I don't agree with the banning.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:58 AM
Jun 2015

I would hate to be judged by my worst moment.


But we can not minimize the damage done by using that word. It's an easy top three pejorative. I have it at two behind the n-word.

He had several brain surgeries. I'm not a neurosurgeon or neurologist but I wonder if it affected the part of the brain that controls emotions. There's a huge distance in thinking something and actually saying it or writing it down.

Cosmic Kitten

(3,498 posts)
322. Really??? You still believe in "fighting words" ha ha
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:00 PM
Jun 2015

That is beyond ridiculous!

If someone expresses a thought
with sound or gesture you would be
incited to violence!?!

Violence over words, pfft.
seems like personal insecurity to me

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
368. I live in the real world.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:17 PM
Jun 2015

If I hop on the bus and drop the N word, the F word, or the S word on somebody, what should I expect?



If someone called my mom or girlfriend the c word, he, me or we are going to the hospital...


If you believe that my refusal to allow someone to call my mother a c--t in my presence makes me "personally insecure" there is nothing I can do to disabuse you of that notion.




DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
488. You don't think if I drop the wrong epithet on the wrong person I am going to get a whuppin ?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:53 PM
Jun 2015

Oh, Cassius Clay/Muhammad Ali = my idol.

uppityperson

(115,993 posts)
132. Yes, it is. Switch the first letters, the consonants and see what it says.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:52 AM
Jun 2015

It's been around a while, is a known way to call someone a stunning c*. It is rude, uneccessary, and over the top to call someone that.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
1028. Fox is a credible source when one is pointing out RW bias in media.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:03 AM
Jun 2015

Likewise, urban dictionary can be a cultural reference on current slang. The link was an entry that is more than ten years old which points to it floating about in our culture for at least that long.


Others have linked to references from the 1970s. Still others have linked to earlier usage on DU.

Ms. Toad

(38,096 posts)
740. Not quite the same.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:16 PM
Jun 2015

Neither "Nucking" nor "futs" are actual words, whereas but both "cunning" and "stunt" are actual words. Because you aren't using them in context, I can't make a direct comparison to the second difference - but as non-words a second distinction is inherent: in the context of the sentence the words actually describe a legitimate perception of Clinton's tactics in with regard to press communications. (Cunning - as in clever, and stunt - as in a way to make it appear something is real that isn't (she is putting on a show of speaking with the press without actually doing so in a meaningful way.))

Could it have been a way to come close to using the "C" word, without actually saying it - definintely. I have absolutely no problem with him losing the game of chance with the jury because they believed that was his intent.

Banning a long time poster for a single instance of using the "C" word - when he didn't actually use any "C" word other than cunning - is ridiculous and, given his vocal opposition to Clinton and the announced support for Clinton by the board administration, feels politically expedient, at a minimum.

Heck, i've been on juries (or alerted on) any number of posts recently where people were using gay or transgender (and even the old "mAnn Coulter) without even a hide - and I find insulting someone we hate by calling them gay or transgender is at least as offensive as actually using the "C" word.

ETA: Wow. I had not even been to ATA when I added that last paragraph. The discrepancy between how actually using gay/transgender as an insult and using a phrase that doesn't actually say - but could fairly be read as - implying the "C" word is pretty start: The former - it's bad. Alert on it. Vote to hide it - despite repeated pleas from members of the LGBT community to do more; the latter - out the door. http://www.democraticunderground.com/12598005

GoneFishin

(5,217 posts)
910. Exactly. I find the word vulgar. I can cuss with the best of them, but I wince when I hear the word.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:57 PM
Jun 2015

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
1035. and even if I did make the connection, it is still only an implication, much in the same way
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:23 AM
Jun 2015

that last week it was implied that Bernie is a racist. And yes, everyone is right. No one called Bernie a racist. Just like, this time, no one called Hillary a c***.

Precise language.

The truth remains that no one called anyone anything offensive and this is why I am getting the feel of a double standard being applied on this site.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
255. Because you've never dreamt it, so, it couldn't be??
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:36 AM
Jun 2015

You are wrong, it is code, has been code for quite a long time.

Just because it's never dawned on you that it is code, doesn't mean it isn't.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
663. Even with that being true, the meaning is clear.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:04 PM
Jun 2015

We all know what nucking futs means as well as cunning stunts.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
711. Not making excuses, just observing:
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:43 PM
Jun 2015

"nucking futs" is easier to recognize because neither of those words, when spelled that way, has any meaning.

I don't know that I would have understood the other term if, for example, the first poster, now known as name removed, had said so and so has pulled a lot of c*nning st**ts. I was not familiar with the expression before this thread and would have taken the comment at face value.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
739. I see that a lot of posters don't know what it means, guess I am wrong.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:14 PM
Jun 2015

Also didn't know SKIP was going through a lot of health issues at this time.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
750. I read some posts about it and got nauseous--and I've been through a lot of surgery.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:31 PM
Jun 2015

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I don't think what I read was even posted by him I think some other DUer was filling us in, but I am not sure.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
1036. and we all know what the poster implied with the pictures in the "Not Good Enough" OP .
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:27 AM
Jun 2015

And, we didn't have to use Urban Dictionary to validate our suspicion.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
281. Are you completely obtuse?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:47 AM
Jun 2015

It's akin to the "unique New York" phrase, which, if repeated enough, starts coming out as "unique you-nork." Try a little transposition and make the first word of SKP's little phrase "stunning" and you'll eventually figure it out.

He should be ashamed. He was looking to insult,put down and deride with that phrase. Now he has to learn a new one--"Too clever by half."

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
297. Seen it MANY times over the years. Its not a "new" thing.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:52 AM
Jun 2015

And thats exactly what it refers to

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
378. You must not be a Metallica fan.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:20 PM
Jun 2015

Cunning Stunts is a concert video by heavy metal band Metallica released in 1998. It was released in DVD and VHS formats. The title is a spoonerism of the words stunning c*nts.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cunning_Stunts_(video)



I'm a Bernie supporter but this is over the line. Maybe when he cools off they'll let him come back.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
533. Yep- in hopes a jury would not get it and he'd evade a reprimand.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:08 PM
Jun 2015

Which makes it a fairly calculated attempt at slurring women here- and not nearly the first time. Earl G looks at the history and it's been fairly ugly.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
811. It was a blatant and obvious bullshit excuse, he called no one the c word, no one at all.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:50 PM
Jun 2015

A new low IMO, I guess to criticize Hillary Clinton for pulling devious political stunts is now reason to be banned.

If she would stop pulling devious political stunts then there would be no need to criticize her for it, but banishing critics is one way to win a primary I guess in the minds of some.

Response to zappaman (Reply #813)

merrily

(45,251 posts)
788. That is true, but, prior to this thread, I was unfamiliar with the term.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:09 PM
Jun 2015

Had I seen it, I would have taken it at face value, without knowing its second meaning and without even knowing to google the term.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
818. Witch hunters are very clever at finding "witch marks" where a pimple exists
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:04 PM
Jun 2015

As long as it gets the intended to the stake, they will stretch anything to absurd levels.
I find the whole thing disgraceful, unless there is another post that was edited or something, this is bull. I may have missed the actual post, but what was shown is not what was claimed to have been said.

snappyturtle

(14,656 posts)
397. I agree with all you have said and feel we have lost a strong voice. DUers
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:27 PM
Jun 2015

better toughen up....repubs could say, if they haven't all ready, the same that has banned NYC SKP. It's a shame.

Autumn

(48,717 posts)
68. I hope so, he has been through the mill with his health issues and brain surgery.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:39 AM
Jun 2015

But the word play in that post was over the top. It was a good hide.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
76. Hide yea ...ban?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:41 AM
Jun 2015

I will consider that the admins are pro Hillary in that decision.

Autumn

(48,717 posts)
86. I can't remember for sure who called Hillary the c word in 2007 but they didn't get banned.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:43 AM
Jun 2015

And that person used the actual word.

Mnpaul

(3,655 posts)
929. But no gets outraged over "prick"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:29 PM
Jun 2015

I saw this discussion over at kos some years ago. It was a long thread over there. The c word remained forbidden but the p word was allowed.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
957. Why would you say that to someone who posted she does not use that kind of term?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:27 PM
Jun 2015

I find the word "outrage" condescending and it does not accurately describe my reaction. However, I don't use words for any genitalia, male or female, as a slur because I think doing so is wrong. I do see the argument for a distinction, but I don't make any distinction. I don't use any of the words and just posted I think no one should use them. Must I say I am "outraged" by their use to get my point across?

Mnpaul

(3,655 posts)
981. I was just curious on how you felt about that term
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:38 PM
Jun 2015

I'm not offended by it and use the term myself. It is almost always derogative, often follows the effin' word and often directed at Republicans.

and I enjoy long threads like this where many participate in the discussion.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
932. Probably because most guys dont really care about it. or "prick" either.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:33 PM
Jun 2015

I get called both if I'm winning a lot of hands of cards with my friends. No big deal.

lark

(25,856 posts)
285. Should have been banned then
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:48 AM
Jun 2015

Fair comes to town once a year, otherwise it's absent.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
426. Just go to 'site search' and look and see how many have used the actual word and survived.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:35 PM
Jun 2015

This was a clear message sent by the admins, no doubt about it imo.

Autumn

(48,717 posts)
463. I thought I had that thread bookmarked but some of those old threads no longer exist.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:46 PM
Jun 2015

In my book marks when you click on them they are missing. But no matter, yes you are right this is a clear message.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
478. If this will make some think before posting nasty shit about the other guy/gals pony
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:51 PM
Jun 2015

then some good came from the ban. It just tells me the admins are as sick of the endless bullshit war over ponies as most of us are.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
573. If this means Skinner has less tolerance for misogyny (as Earl G has for years) then I'll take it...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:20 PM
Jun 2015

Not looking a gift pony in the mouth. Is that metaphor too mixed?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
604. No I don't think so.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:38 PM
Jun 2015

Maybe they have finally decide on zero tolerance over misogyny...which is great imo, long time coming.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
617. I am with you on that. If Skinner finally sees how fucked up it is- he is now way ahead of many here
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:43 PM
Jun 2015

Too many overlooked the sexist shit- still do- when it is directed toward Coulter, Palin, etc.
guess what people- it's still sexist shit that degrades all women. It's not hard.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
633. Very true, plus being a bigot is not very progressive imo.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:49 PM
Jun 2015

I can call Coulter and crew 'dumbass, moronic clowns' all day long and any other of the thousands of ways to describe horrible people. No need to be a sexist pig and one would think it would go against peoples nature. At least here.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
544. Agree. Because when women were complaining about misogyny and stalking nothing was done.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

So it's clear they are not doing it to protect all women. But if it's against Hillary, bam, the door.

He could have been given a time out. I mean really, look at how nasty posts are by people who get repeated hides and they get to come back and spew their shit over and over again.

What he said was wrong and uncalled for and OTT, but so was the ban.

I can't get the search to work. It happens a lot. The search is pretty bad on this site. How many were there?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
560. Pages and pages.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:16 PM
Jun 2015

That is the part that bugs me, we both remember correctly the way women were treated when DU3 first started up. The stalking, the name calling etc..

OTTH I have to say I hope this causes some to stop fighting so dam much over their pony! The nastiness is unneeded and unwarranted.

I think we can all talk about our candidates without having to smear the ones we don't like...so maybe something good will come from the ban, but I doubt it.

Some just cannot keep from being nasty.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
688. agree that the search on this site is near useless.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:20 PM
Jun 2015

and I cannot get advanced search to work AT ALL. It times out every single time, even if I am looking for something I posted a week ago.

TBF

(35,458 posts)
133. I have to stand up for EarlG on this one -
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:53 AM
Jun 2015

when I was on MIRT I felt like EarlG was an admin who actually had a good eye for misogyny and acted on it. I always appreciated that and will not question his judgment on this ban because he can easily pull up a user's entire history.

BUT, I am certainly concerned about some of the other anti-Bernie language I've seen in this particular thread. The outright nastiness towards supporters of Bernie is noted and makes me feel unwelcome at DU. I hope the campaign makes a forum for Bernie so we can support him elsewhere if it's going to continue like this on DU.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
457. It's been like that for the
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:45 PM
Jun 2015

pro-Hillary people for a very long time. Not sure I agree with the ban but it's not my board.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
942. Not even.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:47 PM
Jun 2015

In the Progressive Reform Group, two hosts were alerted on, one for making a post that allegedly did not belong in the group--something that, as you know, is up to the hosts to decide. The second host then got alerted on for including a brief mention of the alert--without naming the alerter--in a post. The first alert went to the hosts. The second alert went to a DU jury, who decided in favor of the group host.

By the standard used by the alerter to send the post to a DU jury, this post would be alerted on tenfold.

I guess someone should have given the hosts of the Bernie Sanders Group a heads up. I apologize for myself and my fellow hosts about that. Please tell the other BSG hosts.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
185. There is a forum for Bernie here....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:05 AM
Jun 2015

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However many seems to believe that women and POC in GD are paid trolls because they ask questions and want the campaign to be more inclusive. So, they have made a conscious decision to be hostile and dismissive to us in GD... And this is the result.

Edited to remove a comment regarding hosts there and a question- was Skip hosting a group? I think that is what ledw astray, thanks!

TBF

(35,458 posts)
212. I do tend to look at greatest threads every day -
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:17 AM
Jun 2015

but most of my interest is in the Socialist Progressives and Bernie groups. I try to keep up with all posts in both although that can be hard some days.

I agree that it is time we are all more involved in politics - the capitalists are killing our planet and will continue in that vein unless we stop them. Being inclusive is very important in that effort. We need to hear everyone's voices - not just the male land-owner types.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
240. There seems to be a heightened level of hostility to women here and
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:28 AM
Jun 2015

It seems to be overlooked in the blind hatred of Hillary. If her run serves as flypaper for idiots to think tongue twisters of bigotry and hate are acceptable here, fuck em. They're as hateful - and as stupid- as any republican were supposed to be fighting.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
228. You can refer back to the original thread - am not linking to it as requested because
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:23 AM
Jun 2015

Somehow people often trick juries into thinking it is a hidable offense. Been baited daily by people just "asking questions", lol.

Autumn

(48,717 posts)
230. Would you PM the link to me please? No host in the Bernie group is laughing at that post
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:24 AM
Jun 2015

I have looked through that thread and I don't see it. I would remove a host who cheered that on.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
268. Wait- was Skip the host referred to in that thread?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:41 AM
Jun 2015

I went to check and damned if its impossible to follow on a phone. If so I will apologize and correct my posts.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
514. Witness their discussions on how they cannot trust anyone in GD because they are not really
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:03 PM
Jun 2015

Interested in social issues, they're just trolls who want to turn Bernie away from his economic populism. It's beyond paranoia- it's fucking unhinged. There's nothing to do but point and laugh at them.

hootinholler

(26,451 posts)
557. Well since you're saying you're pointing
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:15 PM
Jun 2015

How about linking to what you describe? I haven't seen it.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
586. There are two threads there discussing Sander's need to broaden his outreach....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:27 PM
Jun 2015

Not hard to find. Funny thing is- one was started by someone who - in GD only- denies its a worthy issue, lol. But in the privacy of the group (oops!) it's a worthy issue. Apparently they think they have a secret hiding place there with no trolls- and that many long time posters in GD are unworthy, paid operatives, etc. In flexible stuff! Like I said- paranoia abounds.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
589. Hm, I haven't seen that. Can you provide an example?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:28 PM
Jun 2015

I have noticed that in the Hillary Group they seem to think it's the War Room as they were literally plotting against Sanders' supporters in a thread appealing to Hillary supporters to email Bernie's campaign with some posts they deemed as nasty and mean. It got a lot of recs and no one asked to take it down.

In the Bernie group, an OP was made calling Hillary supporters a name and several people, myself included, asked that that not happen and asked for a self-delete. I also pm'd a host asking them to lock and request the OP to self-delete. The OP was self-deleted.

I also had a Hillary supporter edit a post I had replied to, after they had already replied to my reply. About 20 min, iirc, after their second reply to me they decided to go back and edit their first post to make it look like my reply was wrong and theirs was right. That was calculated and completely dishonest and nefarious. He sort of apologized but since he didn't acknowledge what he actually did, just apologized for 'being' wrong not 'doing' wrong I think he only did it because he got caught and it was documented for all to see.

So, there are bad apples in every group. It's better to not generalize about a group as a whole and just take each individual as they come along.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
639. I think you nailed it with the "war room" mentality and how it does no one any good....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:53 PM
Jun 2015

Like it or not, this is just the start of people asking questions. There are always going to be people talking out of both sides of their mouths and playing games, but this is a time for people to ask questions. Everyone should welcome it as an opportunity to speak well for their candidate.

If you have the war room mentality 24/7 you may as well not be here, you know what I mean? Go knock on doors and make phone apps for your candidate- see how many questions people in real life have, maybe you'll get better at coping with them!
I generally stay out of the supporter groups, and the war room mentality is exactly why.

uppityperson

(115,993 posts)
362. It is interesting that EarlG and not Skinner banned him as they typically ban for very different
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:15 PM
Jun 2015

reasons. I've served on MIRT and found these 2 admins banning for very different reasons.

EarlG typically bans for bigotry, misgynism, the like. Skinner bans more for repeat disruptors, trolling, stuff like that.

I have not seen EarlG ban someone lightly, and have appreciated that and what he does.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
735. You can always hang in the Bernie Group here. Then, there is the Bernie campaign's page
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:12 PM
Jun 2015

on Facebook and on youtube. He has many fans on reddit, too.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
956. Me, too, L0oniX...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:27 PM
Jun 2015

I don't think he called anyone the "C" word, based on the conversation.

Implied? Yeah, probably wink and snicker. How many times have I called Dick Cheney a DICK?

 

truebrit71

(20,805 posts)
626. Sorry, which one was just banned and which one were you piling on about...buddy...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:46 PM
Jun 2015

I swear I had you on ignore....here...let me fix that right now...

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
638. You jumped my ass for gravedancing
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:52 PM
Jun 2015

when I wasn't. Now, here you are gravedancing.
Putting me on ignore can't fix that.

 

truebrit71

(20,805 posts)
661. You are correct. You weren't grave-dancing...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:02 PM
Jun 2015

...you were just being an obnoxious bully....

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
14. Well, we all know this can happen to any of us, potentially.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:21 AM
Jun 2015

Sad to see this, but I'm sure he'll either move on, or come back with a new name.

It's a discussion board, nothing more - and fun for the most part for those of us who are liberal and progressive. I've gotten a lot more liberal with my usage of ignore lately, lol, and voila, my experience here is much better.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
214. Uhhh, no this can't happen to just anyone.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:17 AM
Jun 2015

The vast majority of supporters know calling someone c*** will get you banned.

I will never be banned from this site for using that work. I can guarantee it, because I don't use that word ever.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
247. Not going to spar with you, out of respect for the threadstarter.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:33 AM
Jun 2015

But suffice it to say that any DU member CAN have their posting privileges revoked.

And with that, I'll let you have the last bit of snark. Thanks!

 

demwing

(16,916 posts)
1060. "I will never be banned...for using that word...because I don't use it"
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 09:40 AM
Jun 2015

Neither did NYC_SKP.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
15. I'll buy this when...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:21 AM
Jun 2015

you can get banned for calling a male candidate a dickhead.

DU is becoming less relevant by the hour.

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
20. No, this has been a standard of behavior for the entire existence of DU.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:23 AM
Jun 2015

Banning someone for that word actually is not a decline but represents status quo.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
58. I am well aware of that...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:36 AM
Jun 2015

but I don't have to agree with it on my own time.

Near as I can tell, a lot more people complain about feminine insults than masculine ones so there's a ban on female insults. While I don't agree, I can live with it on a site I don't own. But, banning a long-term member such as this for this seems a little much.

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
93. It's part of being perceived as privileged. Calling me a dick is both appropriate and acceptable.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:44 AM
Jun 2015

Calling anyone by a certain list of female-specific words will get you canned because women are fighting against greater inertia.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
32. Considering that some inmates here have taken over the asylum,
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:28 AM
Jun 2015

wait for that to happen just about never.

Meanwhile, trashing Democratic constituencies which are popularly associated with our adversaries, Republicans, though we call ourselves a big tent? I am Charlie Hebdo! Free Speech! No to censorship!

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
42. There are pejoratives and there are pejoratives
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:31 AM
Jun 2015

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There are pejoratives and there are pejoratives and it's disingenuous to argue the c word and dickhead carry the same sting. The former is going to get most men to throw their hands up if it's aimed at a woman close to them, the latter will get a shrug if it's aimed at them.

The C word is right up there with the N word, the F word, the S word, and the K word. It's actually worse than the B word that some women actually embrace though I can't understand why.





Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
261. I find your post to be funny in an ironic sort of way.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:38 AM
Jun 2015

You actually used the 'c' word but not the others. I have always thought the 'c' word to be one of the worst, along with 'c' sucker, which is a different c word entirely. If the 's' word is shit, well, it's crude, but not particularly shocking to hear someone say it outloud.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
299. I went back and changed c--t to the c word in all my posts on this topic....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:53 AM
Jun 2015

Hey, a person can call anybody anything he or she wants as long as he or she is willing to live with the consequences.

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
377. They 'can' but I'm sure you will agree that
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:19 PM
Jun 2015

some tbought would be a good idea to see if they 'should'.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
1008. I have been having some trouble with all these letter words
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 03:24 AM
Jun 2015

I am like "D-word? What the hell is the D-word?"

Then it dawns on me that it's something we called Mr. Milhaus Nixon.

As I think he said "They won't have (expletive deleted) D-word Nixon to kick around any more."

The S-word I believe has something to do with hispanics, but that word is pretty much non-existent (seems like it was more common in the 1970s, or it could be a teen thing). Now, of course, we have the I-word.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
46. 'Dickhead' is by no measure equivalent.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:33 AM
Jun 2015

There is no epithet describing male anatomy that is the equivalent in current or historical usage.

lark

(25,856 posts)
310. Sorry, those 2 words are not at all the same.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:56 AM
Jun 2015

Dickhead is used humorously all the time, Jimmy Buffet even wrote a song called "Dickhead" that's very funny. I have never seen the "C" word as humorous, don't think anyone at all does. It's mean and hateful and meant to be that way. It's not in songs, except the gangster rap variety and then it's meant as a bad slur.

 

Smarmie Doofus

(14,498 posts)
935. Dick and prick are in fact used constantly and intentionally in a "mean and hateful" way.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:36 PM
Jun 2015


Did you not grow up in the United States?

The taboo against "cunt" is simply more powerful. In other words women are... in THIS case..... being afforded linguistic preference; in other words, they are enjoying an .... ahem... *privilege* based on gender.

If one hears "cunt" less frequently it could be for any number of reasons. Leading the pack: less hostility harbored and expressed toward women.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
496. No need to fret
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:56 PM
Jun 2015

The word has been used many times and sometimes not even hidden. This wasn't about misogyny generally but because it was directed at a Democratic candidate.

DU is becoming less relevant, but it isn't because there isn't enough freedom of misogyny.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
605. +1
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:38 PM
Jun 2015

A while ago (a year maybe?, I think soon after disucssionist started) EarlG wrote a very condescending post to women at the time that there were some who were being threatened and stalked. He didn't care about the misogyny then at all, he was dismissive of it.

But now that it is directed at his preferred candidate he stepped right up in to action, so it's not about women's rights, it's about politics. That's pretty sad.

I see he lessened the punishment, so I agree with the time out as that was a definite transgression by SKP.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
694. Agree with you there.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:26 PM
Jun 2015

Or suggesting that a kick in the balls is an appropriate response to taking up too much space on the train.

Hillary the inevitable, love it or leave it I guess is the message here.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
1019. Why? Very few men are particularly ruffled by being called a dickhead.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 07:02 AM
Jun 2015

Most women I know will be very offended if you call them the C-word, however.

Response to cyberswede (Original post)

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
70. If you can quote any part of anything I EVER SAID that would suggest banning all Sanders supports...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:39 AM
Jun 2015

... please put it right here, and I will apologize profusely.

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
65. Well
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:38 AM
Jun 2015

maybe now threads mocking "some Sanders supporters" will have no threads to link to.

I've often thought when reading those, "You mean Sanders supporter."

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
101. That post is a bit muddled. Your feeling is that Skippy was the only Sanders bad boy at DU?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:45 AM
Jun 2015
 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
257. I haven't met any of these angry supporters
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:37 AM
Jun 2015

...but I will take your word that they exist.

As for the ban, I understand why it happened, but I do believe it was a tad harsh.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
290. Well, then all of "Angry Supporters of Sanders" better toe the line.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:49 AM
Jun 2015

It's a bad moment for all of us when someone who has been here so long is banned.

Labeling us all "angry supporter" is really over the line.

Response to madfloridian (Reply #290)

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
18. He's been grumpy lately
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:23 AM
Jun 2015

But so have a lot of folks.

Don't know why so many people have to be so twitchy.

demmiblue

(39,164 posts)
21. Saw that coming a long time ago.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:23 AM
Jun 2015

I am not a Hillary supporter (but will ultimately vote against republicans).

I am sure that some here will link him to the DUers that support liberals/progressives. :sigh:

Edit: Didn't read the previous responses... the accusations have already started. Just stop.

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
25. He deserved it.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:24 AM
Jun 2015

Dumb to make such nasty comments about anyone especially our likely nominee.

I hope more like him get the same fate.

 

jamzrockz

(1,333 posts)
31. Me thinks
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:27 AM
Jun 2015

After 7 yrs of just talking and nothing really changing, he had enough of everything and just made a move that he knew would get him banned. Maybe he can now do something more constructive with his life.

God knows that all this back and forth on this forum can get very exhausting and even though it's probably not going to change a thing in the real world. So here's to you NYC SKP, enjoy your family, life outside politics and non politics hobby. The stress relief would probably improve your health and add more years to your life.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
49. Why would you think he was doing nothing constructive with his life?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:33 AM
Jun 2015

Most people work, participate in charity events, fund-raisers, have families and do all of the things involved with that. You have no idea what his life is like.

You've only been here two years, how would you know anything about his 7 years here?

I do think what he said was way over the top and honestly don't know what he was thinking, but I hope maybe after a sincere apology he's allowed to come back. Everyone screws up once in a while.

 

jamzrockz

(1,333 posts)
239. I said
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:28 AM
Jun 2015

more constructive not that he wasn't doing anything constructive with his life. Also the 7yrs on DU I got from reading the OP and I think it shows when you look at the profile.

But what I said is all speculation and maybe he didn't want to leave yet but that just the way I like to spin it. NYC is someone I have noticed in my brief stay here, he was very active and his heart seemed to be in the right place. I just hope he makes the better of his life out of this ban.

As the saying goes, every disappointment can be a blessing.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
248. That's right, everything you said was speculation.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:33 AM
Jun 2015

Hopefully, the admins may consider letting him back, I'm crossing my fingers. I don't believe he should be banned, what he said was awful and he should apologize for it, but there's been much, much worse done here by people not only on this thread but also those rec'ing it.

Quit being so condescending towards him re 'his life'. I noticed you didn't mention his recent brain surgeries or what he's been going through. Your 'concern' doesn't seem all that genuine. Just a sly little way to appear caring while you dance.

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
491. I wouldn't even call the dumbest GOP female candidate that Ugly word.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:55 PM
Jun 2015

I don't care if this banned poster ever comes back.
That is not a reflection on Hillary as much as a reflection on the poster narrow vile mind.

Its ugly.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
506. Yeah, me either.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:01 PM
Jun 2015

It is ugly. So are many things here - ugly, inhumane, damaging - yet allowed.

The poster made a mistake. I hope he can apologize, be penalized for it in some way and come back.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
553. Or just a stupid play on words that he wouldn't normally have done but in a moment
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:14 PM
Jun 2015

of stupidity responding to a troll, he did.

I've called men dicks and other demeaning names before - yet I love men, respect them, and think every person on earth deserves to be treated equally with the same rights. We all screw up., I'm not a misandrist, yet I used words that some could accuse me of being one with, and I feel horrible that I did that.

 

jamzrockz

(1,333 posts)
709. Yes, I didn't know much about him
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:41 PM
Jun 2015

I didn't know about his health scare, didn't even know he was anti Hillary poster. All I knew about him that he wasn't someone I disliked or someone that really special. Also, I am been very much depressed about politics and went ahead and channeled my feeling towards him and made speculations that is at best less than 50% true.

But one thing is for sure, my post is not in anyway trying to denigrate. God knows I have said worse things in anger

polly7

(20,582 posts)
714. I didn't know about all his health scares either, that's very sad for him.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:47 PM
Jun 2015

He made a mistake, I hate seeing people crucified for some stupid thing he could rectify by apologizing, as I'm sure he would if he had the chance. He was always a big part of this place, for me ... and it seems, many others. Doesn't seem fair in comparison to other things that have happened - truly awful things.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
606. No, it's not true. That poster has absolutely no knowledge of NYC Skip's life.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:38 PM
Jun 2015

It's almost embarrassing to see someone post such a personal (obviously disingenuous) 'wish' for a poster's life that he/she has no idea about.

Phony crap.

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
665. Embarrassing is defending someone who got banned for using the c-word
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:05 PM
Jun 2015

I n all the personal vile nasty insults the banned one said to pro-Hillary or other subjects he didn't like, posters, did he ever consider what those posters dealt with in their personal life before throwing insults out?
Not at all. Nor did he care.

This battle is O V E R.
Makes my day to hear the good news that DU draws the line on posters who try so cleverly to use this stupid ugly word against anyone on it's site.
Thank You Earl G.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
679. No, I spelled out what was embarrassing about that post.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:12 PM
Jun 2015

And yes, I will defend a long time contributor here who's brought so much information and added so much to this site. One mistake and people are so happy to crucify him without considering what he's been through, going through or anything else. So much hate on this site it makes my stomach churn sometimes.

There has been so much worse, and yet ......... nothing, it was fine.

I hope he's given a second chance. So do many others. It's sad, he was appreciated by many. I looked forward to seeing his posts when I logged in, he was someone I learned from - those posters are getting rarer and rarer all the time here.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
691. "This battle is O V E R. " Very telling use of words you have there.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:23 PM
Jun 2015

Who's next on your hit list?

JustABozoOnThisBus

(24,574 posts)
343. +1
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:07 PM
Jun 2015

Hopefully, he's big enough to make that apology.

And hopefully, we're big enough to accept it.

Well written, Polly7

TBF

(35,458 posts)
100. Agree - EarlG has been very good
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:45 AM
Jun 2015

through the years at noticing such comments and acting on them.

I'm not thrilled however with the nastiness in this thread aimed at Sanders' supporters. Not unexpected but sad to see nonetheless.

Starry Messenger

(32,379 posts)
167. I myself do not think Skip was any representative
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:00 AM
Jun 2015

of Sanders or Sanders supporters. He hated public education, for one. I think he was long past his expiration date, frankly.

demmiblue

(39,164 posts)
219. I remember when DU3 came online... he went absolutely ballistic towards a teacher or two.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:20 AM
Jun 2015

It was so venomous and nasty (he ended up deleting his comments). I have always felt that he harbored a slight resentment toward women.

He had a huge chip on his shoulders then... when he lost his control, his perma-mod status. I also remember looking at his ignore list and was stunned by how many people had him on ignore.

Starry Messenger

(32,379 posts)
232. He did.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:25 AM
Jun 2015

He also used belittling language on people who didn't support education reform or charter schools.

As a long-time teacher and socialist, I found his new embrace of socialism a little puzzling. To say the least.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
824. He was also very nasty to Atheists and Agnostics
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:17 PM
Jun 2015

who voiced issue with things that he held dear. He called us disturbed, traumatized, emotionally stunted, unable to come to grips with our anger. He compared us to mentally disturbed youth that had histories of severe and ongoing physical and sexual trauma. He called us pathologically broken. He suggested we needed therapy to get over our irrational anger with God.

Oh, and according to him, HE was an atheist. Sure. Yeah. whatever.


He was a nasty piece of work and I'm glad his posting days here are over. He was toxic to anyone who dared disagree with St.Skip and his band of buddies.

Starry Messenger

(32,379 posts)
835. Wow, I missed all of that, outrageous.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:37 PM
Jun 2015

I just had to deal with him in the Education forum. I hold him partially responsible for chasing away several teachers who used to post here. He savaged me one day for asking him politely to use "sexual orientation" instead of "sexual preference" in a post in there, since I am one of the hosts. And anyone who didn't agree with him about charter schools, he also called passive-aggressive names.

I'm sorry to see many good people here that I like upset with those of us who had problems with him. I wish the Admins had noticed a lot sooner that he was a toxic poster, it might have alleviated some of the suspicion that this is just a partisan banning.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
857. If I didn't want to relive the trauma of his hateful words, i'd dig up old posts for proof
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:12 PM
Jun 2015

for his steadfast supporters who truly believed then and believe now that the sun rose and set upon his happy ass. I modded with him, and I can't say anything about what it was like to be a mod because of the billion-year confidentiality thing we signed adn are held to under threat of legal action by Skinner if we mention anything about modding. But I will tell you that he was even more unpleasant in the hidden mod forum than anyone EVER saw in the public forums. I was kicked out of modding because I publically aired some of the bigotry I and others saw back then.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=221x173419
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x1303902

The other "mending fences" type thread from june 2011 is strangely archived...and unsearchable. what I posted in that thread was what caused me to get removed permanently from moderating.

Just, you know, to maybe shed some light.....

Starry Messenger

(32,379 posts)
871. I remember when that happened.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:40 PM
Jun 2015

I have mad respect for you bringing that all to light, did then, did now. You rock!

I remarked this morning on FB to a (former, now banned) LGBT DUer friend of mine that it was remarkable how this is all coming to bear now, even though it had been obvious for years to anyone with eyes and a keen sense of pattern recognition that certain groups were being treated with a heavy hand by a few mods on DU2.

I have good friends who disagree with me, and lord knows the jury system is funky, but I just can't see going back to the mod system. Sadly it was only because of a few, but I'd never trust it under the same process, ever again.

I guess I shouldn't be shocked it was even worse in private. He took on my Education co-host in public quite nastily in 2012. I honestly am dismayed that this behavior was tolerated for so many years when he was a mod.



I hope after you've slept on it you'll see the error of your ways and apologize and undo the harm that you've done to the DU education group.

You're out of line, and this kind of behavior from anyone, and from the host of a progressive discussion board in particular, is a gross embarrassment and the kind of thing that can only hurt educational progress.

Unbelievable.

Actually, you should probably step down as host and offer up a vote for somebody less inclined to abuse their power.

You were never a DU moderator, I'll bet.

Fix it.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
874. People want to blame his nastiness on his brain surgery
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:46 PM
Jun 2015

but let's be frank--he was nasty to people who dared to disagree with St Skip lonnng before he had brain surgery. Years before.

People need to take off their blinders and realize that he was probably a really good ally when he agreed with you, and was a steaming pile of jerk when you were on the opposite side of his issue of choice. God, education, guns, gays....he was always right, and it wasn't enough for him to be right, but he had to be nasty about it with those he disagreed with. It was like total war. In his mind, YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO DEVIATE FROM HIS THOUGHTS, ever. If you do, you're not only wrong, you're psychologically damaged beyond repair and need extensive restorative therapy and thorough re-education.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
895. I think DU3 destroyed him.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:23 PM
Jun 2015

It was the loss of the authority and prestige of being a mod. He talked about the "glory days" quite often. Hell, he was still modding DU2 long after it was abandoned by all but a few dozen people. He didn't stop until admin was getting complaints in meta about mods still having access to users' info. Admin finally shut those powers down on DU2. I got the impression that he felt he was no longer important. He became somewhat of a Jeckel and Hyde after that.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
903. There were many moderators who were called (by themselves and others) PermaMods
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:40 PM
Jun 2015

because they never removed themselves from moderating term after term after term, and actually saw themselves as a league apart from "regular posters." The idea of term limits made their stomachs TURN. They fought against it tooth and nail. You'll notice many of the perma-mods were the first to sign up to be hosts in DU3, and have continued to host at least one main forum, and one smaller forum, pretty much continuously. For many people, it's absolutely a power thing.

FOr the record, I modded many terms, often back to back, but after a few I'd sit it out and do other things. Actually interact with people on DU (Mods weren't forbidden from posting on DU, but you had to stay away from hot-topic issues and not cause any nonsense. It was pretty bad if a mod got a post hidden or a thread locked).

Others...modded for YEARS non-stop. And still continue to have a moderator-mentality when it comes to hosting. I saw this myself when I had hosted briefly GD and still am host of LGBT (back when that group had access to the host forum). Lots of lamenting that hosts couldn't ban people like mods did, that hosts didn't have access to poster history like mods did. It's bizarre.

My only interest in modding is keeping the place cleaned up. When I modded, it was LBN until they took away mods being assigned to individual forums and it was all mods for all forums. LBN had easy to understand rules, and I liked keeping clutter off the page.

There are definitely people who see modding/hosting as some kind of badge, like it's a job or something that demonstrates skill or knowledge or something. There was no test for modding. No licensing exam. Submit an application and be approved. Even less "skill" for hosting. Get on a wait list and bide time.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
920. What's amazing to me is how illiberal some liberals are
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:14 PM
Jun 2015

That's always been a peeve of mine in real life and on this board...IMHO, empathy is the hallmark of liberalism and how you react to folks in distress...It's not about if you're pro TPP or anti TPP, if you think the 1%/99% divide is the biggest issue of our time, if you think all our problems can be solved for repealing corporate personhood, but how you treat your fellow citizen, of your nation and of the world. If you don't have empathy you're not a liberal.

joshcryer

(62,534 posts)
1002. I didn't know about any of this.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 01:19 AM
Jun 2015

I must be living under a rock because I've only even encountered NYC_SKP a few times over the years. He knows grantcart, told me that grantcart was still around. He defended me in the Sanders group when I got into an argument there.

But those posts in the education group were downright nasty, I'm surprised they weren't all hidden, way over the top. I've not been that bad in my worst stupor (OK maybe a bit).

The Newton thing was also fucked up.

I'll have to reconsider my statements about reversing the decision. I think DU3 enables a lot of ugliness, unfortunately, and I feel like I've seen a lot worse stuff survive a jury. That is not in any way meant to diminish what was said. SKP knew what he was saying and EarlG interpreted correctly. It was really low and banworthy.

Starry Messenger

(32,379 posts)
1006. I'm no perfect angel either.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 01:53 AM
Jun 2015

Most def!

I don't want to flog this, I know people who liked him are hurting. But there was some stuff going on in groups and forums that didn't get the kind of attention that a GD post might get. I was shocked at how outright nasty he was to my co-host, and mocking that she'd never been a mod and should be removed as a host. It was an opportunity to be helpful to someone trying to learn how DU3 works--not an opportunity to make her a figure of ridicule, using his experience as a cudgel, instead.

I feel a little weird even bringing this stuff into the conversation, but I feel like as a woman, that "just" being upset about the thing he got banned for isn't credible enough. Which is itself kind of awful. But I hope that people who thought he shared their values will also look at the record and reflect a bit.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
165. I agree it is too severe.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:00 AM
Jun 2015

Am very troubled by some comments also that are rude about people who may support another candidate. All discussion should be on table here. This is sad.

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
508. Its not even about WHO he supported. This is about his nasty insulting personal attacks
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:01 PM
Jun 2015

The choice of words were his own.
And he is gone.
Good.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
678. I have had no issue with him.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:11 PM
Jun 2015

Reading also about what he has been through recently if we as a group cannot be compassionate then what. I saw two different words. Not a blended word. I am female.
What I was referring to was some aggressive behavior from both groups. I see there is an issue with it and see no good coming from it. There are many comments and perhaps others on similar note that should have been banned. He contributed a lot imho but then again I have not read everyone's posts nor everything.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
225. I agree
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:23 AM
Jun 2015

Sure what he said/alluded to was wrong, but he should have been warned and given a time out.

samsingh

(18,234 posts)
332. i'm a strong Hillary supporter, but i don't like banning people who don't think like me
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:04 PM
Jun 2015

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
518. He wasn't banned for not supporting Hillary, nor was he banned
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:05 PM
Jun 2015

..because of candidate support.
He is banned from DU because of a vile nasty word he chose to post.
His own words got the ban. Not his choice of candidate.

samsingh

(18,234 posts)
631. true enough - but still banning someone for a word in a world of free speech is excessive
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:48 PM
Jun 2015

we are trying to build a large tent and this does not help. I think hiding the post would have been sufficient. it was the only post he's had hidden for the past 3 months.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
664. I liked him...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:04 PM
Jun 2015

But it's doubtful he was clueless. And it's also doubtful he didn't know he was responding to a well known troll.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
996. Certainly not "everyone else"
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:18 AM
Jun 2015

I agree with you that NYC_SKP certainly had the consonant-switched meaning in mind, but right in this thread you'll see that there are several of us who wouldn't have gotten that reference without being tipped off.

Yes, I know, people have posted links to where it's explained on the Internet. Guess what, the Internet is a big place. It's possible to spend considerable (in my case, excessive) time online and never encounter any of those explanations.

As to NYC_SKP, my personal opinion is that a longtime poster should not be banned for a single mistake. Better to use an escalating ladder of warning, temporary suspension, longer temporary suspension, ban. For a particularly egregious offense, maybe skip the warning, but not to go directly to a permanent ban.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
1018. I leave the decision about severity of punishment
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 06:15 AM
Jun 2015

up to the people who own the sight.

There's been a larger pattern of problematic behavior with this poster, such that it's perfectly believable he meant to call Clinton that word. As unpopular as Clinton is on DU, there are very, very few people about whom that could be said.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
1031. Yes, the site owners can ban. And we can denounce the ban.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:55 AM
Jun 2015

And other DUers can denounce those who denounce the ban.

I was responding to EarlG's stated rationale, the reasonable interpretation of which is that one post of this sort would trigger a ban, regardless of other conduct. Quite a few posters in this thread would support such a rule.

If NYC_SKP or any other member exhibits "a larger pattern of problematic behavior", then that should be addressed through a warning and escalating punishments, culminating (if necessary) in a ban. If the admins agreed with you about the pattern, they shouldn't have been silently seething about it until their anger reached the banning point.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
728. Then let the rules apply evenly across the board
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:06 PM
Jun 2015

What about the posters who call people "ratf*ckers"? Shouldn't they be banned? That is a reference to ---oh, I don't know--- bestiality. And the "b" word. Sometimes posters who call someone a "bit@h" get a pass, and sometimes their posts are hidden. There is a selectivity in who gets hidden or banned and who gets a pass. It's wrong, undemocratic, and it is unacceptable.

Cha

(316,455 posts)
1015. He wasn't banned for "not thinking like you".. he was banned for trying to be "clever" with his
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 05:02 AM
Jun 2015

insult.

"Welcome to DU, Feel the Bern! And yes, it's a Cunning Stunt!

I say that to myself every day, over an over.

It can be a tongue twister
!

Posted it in his journal too.. with a big wave at the end..

http://www.democraticunderground.com/~NYC_SKP

There are some actual Bernie Supporters who aren't excusing his post.. I've seen others, too..

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6782293

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6782326

Response to marym625 (Reply #36)

markpkessinger

(8,875 posts)
706. Totally agree with you, Marym . . .
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:39 PM
Jun 2015

. . .especially in light of what he has been through of late.

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
37. "Posting Priveleges Revoked"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:29 AM
Jun 2015

The profile page says NYC_SKP has an 80% chance of serving on a jury. Does this mean this is a temporary ban from DU?

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
104. The only way this could become temporary is if he sends an email to Skinner asking to be reinstated.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:46 AM
Jun 2015

Which doesn't seem likely since we all know the word he used is forbidden on DU.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
339. Yes, he did. Arguing format over content and cowering behind implication is simply puerile.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:06 PM
Jun 2015

Yes, he did. Arguing format over content and cowering behind implication is simply puerile.

Jesus Malverde

(10,274 posts)
464. Hard to imagine it takes 69K posts before someone decides he doesn't belong.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:47 PM
Jun 2015


Not my forum.

Peace.

Quackers

(2,256 posts)
577. +1
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:24 PM
Jun 2015

You are a great person, hrmjustin! I know we don't support the same primary candidate but you have always been a respectable person. I have a feeling someone like me won't be around much longer with my views, so I just wanted to thank you for representing yourself and your beliefs so well. You are a credit to the Democratic Party.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
594. You are always welcome here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:29 PM
Jun 2015

You always are respectable.

This primary will pass.


Thank you for your kind words and go nowhere.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
44. How ironic that his last post
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:32 AM
Jun 2015

was the first reply in this thread:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018767679

Hmm. Member since '08. Seems longer, like he's always been here.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
47. Good riddance- hope it will give those who chuckled along pause....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:33 AM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:56 AM - Edit history (1)

In the last week I've seen claims that women and POC who are here for many years are paid trolls.
The paranoia and deep disrespect is untenable. I do believe many would rather destroy this place than allow it to coalesce around a Dem candidate they do not favor. Seriously stupid shit.

Edited to remove reference to a host here-
I believe I misconstrued a post regarding who was actually the host referred to. Apologies.

BeyondGeography

(40,793 posts)
48. Bummer
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:33 AM
Jun 2015

I liked him. Seemed determined to see where the edge was on Mount Hillary. Found it, obviously. Pretty early, too. I mean, shit, hold serious fire until the first debate at least, dude...

uppityperson

(115,993 posts)
82. Of course, he can email admin. They have occasionally reversed a ban.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:42 AM
Jun 2015

How would you explain using that phrase?

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
57. We lost a very bright member. Keenly intelligent. Lost perspective due to intensity, I imagine.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:36 AM
Jun 2015

I'll miss him just for his environment posts. He has a head on his shoulders like not many.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
278. + a thousand thousand thousand.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:46 AM
Jun 2015

NYC_SKP added to the community. That's why all DUers should be sad the place cannot be the same without him.

Compared to what other DUers have done and said over the years, that's up there. The thing is, they're still here.

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
569. It will be much better.His hate begat hate. Clear as day.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:18 PM
Jun 2015

To get to the point of using that ugly word against a candidate you don't like, geez then it is time to leave.
A little early in the election process for such ugly speak.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
376. I agree he usually was one of the most level headed around here imo.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:19 PM
Jun 2015

I wonder what caused the meltdown.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
470. Of late? After the Newtown shooting - 2012 - he famously
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:49 PM
Jun 2015

decided to post a picture of a real vile anti-personnel weapon and proceeded to explain that the shooter had not gone about things the right way.

That was it for me and him.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
779. And then when the Charlie Hebdo offices got shot up, he blamed the victims up one
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:03 PM
Jun 2015

side and down the other.

So he's apparently getting some kind of karma for his belief that hate speech doesn't deserve protection.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
825. And then the numerous times he referred to the Atheists/Agnostic on DU
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:20 PM
Jun 2015

that he disagreed with as being emotionally stunted, unable to come to grips with their anger at god and their parents, unloved, needing therapy, and compared us to children who had been sexually and physically abused. He called us broken. He called us damaged and suggested that nothing short of long-term in-patient therapy could get us straight in the head.

He was a noxious, toxic jerk and I"m gad he's gone.

His "would you kiss you mossberg with that mouth" post after Newtown shooting was possibly the lowest, though. When he was asked to step down as a host because of it, he initially denied making the post. Then he said it was in jest. Then he said it was sarcasm. Then he said it was a joke. Then he just denied the whole thing.

Only a real classless asshole can make a joke about the gun used in a mass shooting DAYS AFTER SAID MASS SHOOTING as not being a good enough choice for a weapon to use in a mass shooting.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
746. He had brain surgery not long ago
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:25 PM
Jun 2015

Who knows the impact this had. I think he deserves the benefit of the doubt.

 

WillyT

(72,631 posts)
66. Ok... I'm Confused...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:38 AM
Jun 2015

Went to that thread... and he was responding to an auto-removed post. MIRT I guess ???

And he didn't LITERALLY use the C-Word... although I got the jist...

But without the post that was removed... the one he was responding to, it's impossible to judge it in context.

A hide, sure. But a banning???

Wow.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
90. The admins can probably see the name removed post
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:43 AM
Jun 2015

thus had the whole context. As for banning vs. a hide, the admins have always made it clear that when one of them thinks a poster should be banned, the poster is gone.

eta: he isn't the first person I've seen use this Spoonerism to disguise the use of C***. Hell, it's even been listed in the Urban Dictionary for over a decade.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
154. I don't agree with him doing it, but that should have been taken into
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:58 AM
Jun 2015

consideration and maybe the two who voted not to hide did just that. Still no excuse, but banning seems over the top here. A hidden post, maybe a time out with an apology - I think he deserves it after so many years of contributing here. Sad.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
191. Agree...Time Out not a banning. He has 80% Jury Approval and Star Membership
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:08 AM
Jun 2015

So...there isn't a record of him being out of line before. Given the stress of his repeated surgeries... his clean record plus his years serving as a Moderator on DU-2 and Hosting many Forums in DU-3....it just seems very harsh.

I hope he can apologize and be reinstated.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
202. Yes, especially giving consideration to his surgeries.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:12 AM
Jun 2015

I wasn't aware of all that ....... he may be emotionally troubled d/t medical issues, I'd noticed some days he seemed pretty excitable, the next - he was calm as could be. But always very, very intelligent and informative. He was a GOOD DU'er, many have done MUCH worse and not been completely banned, including some on this very thread.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
116. Making excuses because you had to "untwist " the words - as he suggested- to read c*nt?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:49 AM
Jun 2015

Gee, thanks a fuck load for standing with misogynistic bullshit.

 

WillyT

(72,631 posts)
163. Were You Here For The 2008 Primaries Between HRC And Barack Obama ???
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:59 AM
Jun 2015

This was tame compared to back then.

Hell... the jury vote was 5-2 to hide.

Meaning 2 DUers voted to let it stay.

As I said... Hide... not Ban.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
181. A 5-2 hide reveals one of two things
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:03 AM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:48 AM - Edit history (1)

One, that one or two jurors didn't understand the insult or
Two, that one or two jurors did understand it and let it stand.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
428. So yeah- making loads of excuses for tossing out slurs....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:36 PM
Jun 2015

You agreed to the TOS here, not sure why you did- given this anything goes attitude?
Do you really not give a fuck about sexism or racism here and think it's just fine?

 

WillyT

(72,631 posts)
597. First, I HATE Zero-Tolerance Bullshit... I Prefer To Use Judgement...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:34 PM
Jun 2015

And I wish Skip had used better...

Second... And I don't remember if it's in the TOS... but there is the "Develop A Thick Skin Theory" somewhere around here.



Hide... Not Ban...

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
481. Folks are confusing the punishment with the crime.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:51 PM
Jun 2015

Calling a woman the c word is odious behavior no matter how clever the person is in doing so and those that defend that odious behavior because they too don't like the target are desperately in need of some sober and intense self reflection. They might be a lot of things but they aren't small l liberals whose northstar are empathy.


That doesn't mean the punishment shouldn't be revisited. There are mitigating circumstances because the poster has gone through a lot.


 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
122. Banned for perceived use of foul pig Latin?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:50 AM
Jun 2015


edit - found on urban dictionary. Ya, he probably knew what he was saying. I had never heard of that phrase before now.
 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
151. See post #98.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:57 AM
Jun 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026777709#post98

As mentioned, the admins can see the post that was removed in context and they are the ones who get to judge what violates the terms of service of their website.

MANative

(4,185 posts)
69. In the last few days, I'd finally hit my limit with his crap...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:39 AM
Jun 2015

and put him on Ignore. The vitriol had become intolerable.

Sancho

(9,173 posts)
738. I also had enough of the disruptive behavior (and it was not because of supporting a candidate).
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:14 PM
Jun 2015

Honestly, there was a plan to skirt the rules, flame bait, and repost disproven information.

It was a legalist way to get get around the TOS. He just finally went too far.

edhopper

(37,018 posts)
71. seems harsh for the post
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:39 AM
Jun 2015

which didn't actually use that word.

I would have given him a time out, but not a complete ban.

Unless there were several warnings given already.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
80. that's the point, he thought he was being clever by pushing the boundaries.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:42 AM
Jun 2015

He wasn't.

Anyone who can read knew what he was doing there.

There's no need for a warning on that kind of hate speech.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
119. he may get reinstated. probably after the primaries would be the soonest
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:50 AM
Jun 2015

it should be considered.

not my call of course.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
75. The anti Hillary crap here is so over the top that I guess I'm
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:41 AM
Jun 2015

not surprised that someone finally called her the c word .I'm sure he had some cheering him on. This placed has jumped the shark and become the left's version of Free Repubic.

Autumn

(48,717 posts)
689. I hope you remove this post now that you know you were mistaken and no host cheered him on.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:20 PM
Jun 2015
 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
288. There was an over the top post a few months back on President Obama by a long termer, where the
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:49 AM
Jun 2015

President was called names in the most hateful manner I have seen. It was an extremely disgusting display, but the poster was not banned, and the thread was not even locked, though in the past, I do not believe that would have been tolerated.

What was even was more bothersome to me was the number of responses in that thread that supported the use of the hate filled language.

Even in this thread I see some complaining that people can complain about descriptions of men with vulgar characterizations, and no one thinks twice, as though that is a justification for the vulgar insult hurled at Hillary. It isn't, and in my view it isn't the same thing either. Gender wise, women are the victims of discrimination far more than men, and referring to women in condesending sexual terms is not only inappropriate, but blatant sexism

unblock

(55,860 posts)
79. this is one reason why mrs. unblock will never be a du member
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:42 AM
Jun 2015

she just loves using the c-word. the british have a rather different view of the word, and it's a particular favorite, at least for some british woman and some british tv programs....

that said, i get it, and i'm not about to use the word myself, and while i enjoy watching her british shows with her, and frankly i enjoy watching shows with the free use of vulgarisms, i still have a tough time seeing the use of this particular term (and other sexist terms) as simply unenlightened as to the full ramifications....

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
114. Let TRP use the same word to describe a hated conservative female and it's cheered.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:48 AM
Jun 2015

Not understanding this inconsistent standard.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
139. Calling a woman, even a hated one, the c word here wouldn't survive. /NT
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:54 AM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:40 AM - Edit history (1)

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
172. Pardon my ignorance but who is TRP?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:02 AM
Jun 2015

SKP got in trouble because he got upset at a candidate and hurled an epithet that didn't just demean her but demeaned a whole group...

I reserve the right to call Ben Carson a right wing charlatan but I surrender the right to call him the N word.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
672. That's the truth...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:09 PM
Jun 2015

there was a rude pundit piece posted here once that was did have the 'c' word in it repeatedly as well as other misogynistic language. It was alerted, I was on the jury, it was left 2-5. Jurors were angry that it was alerted. How dare he be questioned on his language etc...

Had a DU'er wrote that piece I'm sure it would have been hidden and the DU'er possibly banned.

The language didn't bother me, I curse like a drunken sailor, but I thought for sure, rude pundit or not, it would get hidden. I was surprised when it was left.

 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
313. The British historically also had no problem using racial epithets for African Americans and Asians,
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:57 AM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:49 PM - Edit history (1)

along with actions that represented blatant discrimination, so extrapolating that the British have a rather different view of the word, I would say that doesn't make that view right, and if that is the only way they can express themselves, then they are intellectually deficient



unblock

(55,860 posts)
327. i think you mean epithets, not epitaphs.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:02 PM
Jun 2015

at least i hope that's what you meant....

and i'll stick to "unenlightened". there are certain hazards using a term like "intellectually deficient"....

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
81. Wow.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:42 AM
Jun 2015

There is no way to be 'clever' and use that word. Ever. To reverse the Nike slogan, Just don't do it. Ever.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
89. Not commenting on the poster one way or the other, but I've seen more offensive posts
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:43 AM
Jun 2015

survive a jury.

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
109. You've seen posts that are more offensive that calling Hillary a **** survive a jury?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:48 AM
Jun 2015

That's remarkable.

My opinion is the jury system is totally broken, and that affirms it.

Response to hughee99 (Reply #140)

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
150. "My opinion is the jury system is totally broken, and that affirms it. "
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:57 AM
Jun 2015


That's not how one "calls bullshit".

Response to hughee99 (Reply #150)

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
166. I'm glad to be keeping you from being productive or perhaps annoying someone else
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:00 AM
Jun 2015

who doesn't find your antics so amusing.

I cannot wait for your next ridiculous posting. Please don't disappoint.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
549. He did NOT use that word. To the naive like me I can see no connection to what he said.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

You seem to be ready to pour yourself a glass of champagne in celebration.

H2O Man

(78,519 posts)
92. That's not good.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:43 AM
Jun 2015

NYC SKP is one of my favorite people on DU. I do not approve of what he apparently did. But I hope that he is allowed back soon.

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
445. + 1000 I truly like NYC SKP, he had a lot of thoughtful & wonderful OPs over the years.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:41 PM
Jun 2015

I think a hide, or timeout and warning was justified but no need to frigging ban him.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
95. Remember what he posted after the Newtown shootings in 2012?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:44 AM
Jun 2015

and I have a lot more respect for people who support Sanders and have always been staunch progressives and social democracy proponents all along.

I have not much respect who only seemed to latch onto Sanders because they didn't like Hillary and her position on gun regulation.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
106. He called Charlie Hebdo racists and suggested they were responsible for the shooting.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:47 AM
Jun 2015

On the France/CH thing. At least, that Cahrlie Hebdo was responsible for the bystanders.

He was good at blaming the victim.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
543. Indeed he did, in most starling terms. The poster was a conservative on many issues and on that
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

one appallingly so.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
896. His posts on Charlie Hebdo were absolutely disgusting
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:24 PM
Jun 2015

Some of the worst stuff I've ever seen here.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
178. he self-deleted the OP but copied it to the last post in the thread for posterity
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:03 AM
Jun 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022002711#post34

less than 48 hours after Newtown.

probably worse was that he was in the gungeon planning the post to disrupt the discussions of gun control in the wake of the Newtown shootings. he self deleted that one, but the thread is still there.

Spazito

(55,238 posts)
794. Wow, how compassionate of the poster given the murder of twenty CHILDREN...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:19 PM
Jun 2015

and 6 adults.

Kingofalldems

(40,019 posts)
125. That's what got me. In the past I have seen him
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:51 AM
Jun 2015

as pretty conservative. I found it odd he was supporting Sanders.

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
174. I think I may have to agree
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:02 AM
Jun 2015

I think I had him on my jury blacklist, and normally it is only gun nuts and people I see with pretty extreme right wing posting patterns that make it to my blacklist.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
208. He loved trolling feminists here and making it a hostile atmosphere
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:16 AM
Jun 2015

And often posted meta craziness- sometimes pretending others used his account as cover.

Kali

(56,593 posts)
837. I think you are misremembering something.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:41 PM
Jun 2015

I recall some meta antics by a poster who claimed somebody else posting to their account while they were drunk. It was not NYC_SKP.


there is now a bit of a DU meme out of it. I like cjeekdog.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
342. I often wondered if he was more anti-Clinton than pro-Sanders.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:06 PM
Jun 2015

I often got the impression that he was pretending to support him to rile up the crowd against HRC.

Kingofalldems

(40,019 posts)
348. I was thinking he was actually a conservative.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:10 PM
Jun 2015

But another DUer told me he met him and he was genuine.

NutmegYankee

(16,454 posts)
852. Being pro-gun does not make one a conservative.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:05 PM
Jun 2015

No more than being pro-free speech makes one a conservative or liberal. People on both sides either support or don't constitutional civil liberties. Look at freedom of religion as a classic example. Just because the opposition is in support of a constitutional civil liberty doesn't mean we should oppose it.

NutmegYankee

(16,454 posts)
891. Some people have such hard feelings I doubt they see a difference.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:17 PM
Jun 2015

Trust me, I can't stand the RWNJ's that constantly threaten and hate on the Fed Gov, Gadsden flag and guns in hand. But I don't associate the 2nd Amendment with them anymore than the 1st or 4th, which they also proclaim and hold sacred. For example Pamela Geller proudly proclaims the 1st's right to free speech while insulting the motives and faith of 1 billion people. I don't start hating the 1st or thinking only assholes believe in free speech. I just recognize that sometimes assholes will use a constitutional civil liberty.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
925. I am not a gun banner or grabber.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:25 PM
Jun 2015

I have a relation who feeds his family hunting. I can understand why some people would want personal protection. What I can't get behind is is the comments he made after Hebdo or the school shooting. Those aren't Dem platform stances.

I am no fan of that deranged Gellar, but I wouldn't endorse anyone calling her that spoonerism, either. I can't see any 'gain' in deeply insulting over half the population of the world, even if some say they aren't bothered by it.

There have been many discussions about this here, and the view re: that and the bee word have morphed over the years. There was a lot more ribald talk in the old days, but community standards DO rule here and I'm fine with that. I respect the feelings of the majority in this regard, and won't even use the word here in the context of a quote, because I KNOW there are DUers who will be very offended by the term, and I don't see any need to hurt them.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
137. I do. Sometimes it takes a while for a gun apologist to burn out here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:53 AM
Jun 2015

There are more on the 'Not Hillary' bandwagon.

Noting to do with Senator Sanders.

Response to CreekDog (Reply #95)

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
110. I have a rather low opinion of her but I would never use that word to describe her or any woman
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:48 AM
Jun 2015

He fucked up. No excusing it.

rock

(13,218 posts)
120. I enjoyed reading his posts
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:50 AM
Jun 2015

But he did appear to be obsessing and losing his cool here lately. Sorry to see him go but I can't argue with the judges.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
571. So we *shouldn't* ban everyone who recommended one of his threads?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:20 PM
Jun 2015

(Too lazy to find "angry mob with torches" picture).

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
1032. Absolutely! That explains some of what goes on at DU.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:06 AM
Jun 2015

I suspect that, for some members, DU's main value is the opportunity for self-righteousness.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
1038. I don't know that it's the main value, but it's sure ok here, if you are on the side of
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:41 AM
Jun 2015

goodness.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
535. Nobody is going to get banned for voting on a jury.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:09 PM
Jun 2015

If this happened, folks would opt out of jury service in droves, which is the last thing Skinner wants to happen.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
123. Cruised for a bruisin'
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:51 AM
Jun 2015

I like the guy, but he was starting to skirt lines. When I saw the cunning remark, I figured that was about it for him. I really don't like Clinton for the nomination, but no one should use gendered language to have a go at her. Not okay.

NRaleighLiberal

(61,541 posts)
124. .
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:51 AM
Jun 2015


DU recently is pushing me to spend even more time in the garden, writing, listening to music, watching movies - even watching the wretched Red Sox mach 2015. Not a bad thing.

But I suspect those activities will see more of me, this place will see far less - until....

appalachiablue

(43,800 posts)
784. From this experience I've learned quite a lot more about the member & group which
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:06 PM
Jun 2015

is all good, and better late than never. I can see how recent matters would put you in the garden more, it's been a very active time. Some of the interests you note I share. Peace.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
142. C*nt is a "bit of silliness"? Nope- it's hateful and bigoted.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:55 AM
Jun 2015

And not allowed here. Glad to see its not tolerated.
This is supposed to be a progressive and liberal space- those who deliberately make it hostile to women should be ejected.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
173. The word doesn't bother me in the least. But I didn't see the post. I thought the post
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:02 AM
Jun 2015

was the hidden one. I guess it was the removed one.

There are soooooo many other things to get worked up over other than name-calling. It's been going on for centuries and will continue. I know how trigger words are used for brainwashing, but I also know how the connotation of words mutate, like a commercial jingle you hear over and over that loses its effect and meaning. IMHO, that "magic" word has mutated to neutrality.

I guess I'm less rigid than some others here.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
203. Well, I don't know about the word knee, but as for the other word, black rappers
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:12 AM
Jun 2015

were taking the magic and power out of it until the RW PCers resurrected it.

Individual words should not have power. Only context should. The more power we give individual words, the more brainwashing bullshit flourishes. But I've said this before. Not again, though. Goodbye forever.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
221. Lol, so you're okay with n*****r and will be when Bernie gets k*k* thrown at him....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:21 AM
Jun 2015

Which means you joined the wrong fucking place- and much of the Internet- especially rude anonymous comment sections filed with bigotry is a more welcome environment for you.

You should not have agreed to the terms of service here, but since you did you'll have to live with them.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
264. white males using the N-word and the C-word aren't taking the power out of the words
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:40 AM
Jun 2015

please.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
357. And his context was both clear and obvious to even the dullest halfwit.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:14 PM
Jun 2015

"Individual words should not have power. Only context should..."

And his context was both clear and obvious to even the dullest halfwit, regardless of the rationalizations being made to more efficiently cower behind implication.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
460. Every poster I have ever seen here defending racism or sexism ignores history and denies context....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:46 PM
Jun 2015

Remember the "I had NO IDEA!" that chicken and watermelon had a horrible racial history. Amazing how some people are all about history except how it pertains to these things. Interesting lapse in their education, IF that's actually the case. I think some get a kick out trying to marginalize people here. Not a progressive impulse, not fooling us.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
176. That poster got banned from a group here for using that word.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:03 AM
Jun 2015

Don't expect to see any kind of reasonable reply.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
216. Thank you. It's only fair
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:19 AM
Jun 2015

that if a serious allegation is made, proof should be provided. It protects the accuser and anyone who would be falsely accused.

I won't comment on that member, other than to say I'm not surprised.

Thanks again.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
559. NYC SKP was banned for his recent posting history. The use of that offensive word was just a pretext
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:16 PM
Jun 2015

to ban him.

It can be debated whether using that word should result in an automatic ban, but it hasn't thus far.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
752. Recent posting history = highly critical of Hillary.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:31 PM
Jun 2015

Loudly, incessantly critical of Hillary. Nothing hide-worthy. Which is my point. He was out spoken in his dislike of HIllary and I am sure many wanted him gone. I think the admins were looking for a reason and got it.

Cha

(316,455 posts)
1013. Why don't you take that up with Skinner in ATA? Here's a Bernie Supporter who thinks that's rubbish
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 04:47 AM
Jun 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6782293

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6782326

Tell EarlG you think they were just "looking for a reason and got it", too.. I'm sure he'll be interested in your assessment.

"Dislike for Hillary"?

"Welcome to DU, Feel the Bern! And yes, it's a Cunning Stunt!

I say that to myself every day, over an over.

It can be a tongue twister
!

Posted it in his journal too.. with a big wave at the end..

http://www.democraticunderground.com/~NYC_SKP

I think EarlG was exactly right.. "Called Hillary Clinton the c-word. Thought he was being clever about it. He was not."

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
627. That's what it looks like.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:46 PM
Jun 2015

Capital punishment for using a "bad word." May not be the first time here, but this time it really looks like a political purge. That's a very bad thing for DU.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
195. Good heavens, I'd forgotten all about that. I used it as a joke response to a
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:09 AM
Jun 2015

previous post.

Ah, the humorless thrive.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
129. He's been off the reservation
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:52 AM
Jun 2015

for quite awhile now, just could not seem to be able to tone it down recently.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
148. That's a little bigoted.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:56 AM
Jun 2015

It implies native Americans 'off the reservation' are unable to control themselves once let out of their cages - reservations.

Many of the news articles that used the term in a literal sense in the past were also expressing undisguised contempt and hatred, or, at best, condescension for Native Americans — "shiftless, untameable...a rampant and intractable enemy to civilization" (New York Times, Oct. 27, 1886).

polly7

(20,582 posts)
584. Well, apparently it's been alerted on and is fine to stay.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:27 PM
Jun 2015

Bigotry against native Americans is okie-dokie.

Sick.

 

lonestarnot

(77,097 posts)
596. Yeah jury said it was DU approved.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:31 PM
Jun 2015

Someone else already alerted on this post before you alerted on it, and only the first alert was sent to a Jury. A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of the post on Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:03 AM, and voted 2-5 to keep IT. Please note that even though your alert was not sent to a Jury, it has been forwarded to the Administrators who review all alerts.


Admin may delete though.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
715. My irony meter is broken
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:47 PM
Jun 2015

But if the C word should not be used, well neither should this. But the term is approved.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
130. Thanks for letting us know. Your "pretty please" couldn't stop the grave-dancing.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:52 AM
Jun 2015

I agree he went too far, but he is a good person and doesn't deserve the grave-dancing.

MoonRiver

(36,975 posts)
468. Not unless you're a sexist!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:48 PM
Jun 2015

My post was directed at everybody on this thread who is defending NYC SKP and his repulsive comment.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
718. I won't defend him. he's been skating the edge for a while
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:52 PM
Jun 2015

But I will notice that it's exceptionally rare that the admin give a flying fuck about misogyny on DU. Or any other bigotry that doesn't target a group they identify with.

So it's deserved... but I can't but wonder why the punishment isn't also doled out to many other deserving people.

MoonRiver

(36,975 posts)
737. Maybe it will be.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:14 PM
Jun 2015

I agree that misogyny and bigotry shouldn't be tolerated on a liberal message board.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
149. If SKP is reading this thread
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:56 AM
Jun 2015

My suggestion: don't bother creating alt accounts or asking to come back. Move on. This place is doomed if Hillary gets nominated anyway because DU appears to be roughly 4-1 against her. It's going to lose a lot of its members soon.

https://www.reddit.com/r/politics/

No juries or weird groups

 

Buzz Clik

(38,437 posts)
156. To be fair... DU has set up a Sanders group where Sanders fans are totally protected.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:58 AM
Jun 2015

I doubt that anyone who drops the "c" word at reddit.com/r/politics will be there for long.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
170. I hate the protected group system too
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:01 AM
Jun 2015

Believe me, that has been an issue for me for a long time. I saw a Bernie supporter who was actually banned from that group

Like I said, move on to a forum where the posters are normal and almost anything goes.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
721. Not true. Had I seen the term and recognized it for what it is--I would have alerted a DU jury.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:56 PM
Jun 2015

Not even just a Sanders group host, but a DU jury. However, as to a long time poster, I would have expected a hide, not a ban.

And, prior to this thread, I would have been clueless about the rude meaning of the term.

If someone in the Sanders group wants to say Bernie is better than Hillary, cool. But a term like that, no, not for Hillary, not for me, not for any woman or any man. No one. Not on this board.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
200. I don't see how it's going to work. DU is essentially anti-Hillary
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:12 AM
Jun 2015

On a site where the owner endorses Hillary. The biggest anti-Hillary threads get roughly 4-7 times more recs than the most popular pro-Hillary threads.

She isn't very well-liked here. And in roughly a year it will be against the rules to do anything but cheerleader for her. Even the ones who say they will support any nominee won't necessarily post enthusiastically any longer.

DU is screwed. It will limp on but its traffic is going to take a big hit

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
324. Actually many Hillary supporting DUers may come back
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:01 PM
Jun 2015

or post more when the hatred... yes hatred.. is controlled.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
651. Perhaps the admin has decided to drop the Underground part.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:57 PM
Jun 2015

And go full Hillary all the way, all the time...they no longer need us...or want us around.

But things seem to mature this way...Democrats mature into Repugs and repugs mature into the crazy...and America is fucked...and underground becomes convention.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
690. That is how I see it
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:20 PM
Jun 2015

The left gets moved economically to the right until everyone joins the corporate neoliberal. Economic fascism, in other words.

No surprise we were bombarded with Hillary ads shortly after her announcement

Godhumor

(6,437 posts)
210. DU won't see a mass migration when Bernie loses the primary
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:17 AM
Jun 2015

No more than when Clinton lost the primary in 2012. Some people will leave and in short order realize there are few places like DU in terms of size and overall shared attitude.

Primary season is silly season; it all changes when the nomination is secured.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
226. DU was heavily in favor of Obama by the middle of 2008
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:23 AM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:25 PM - Edit history (1)

That is the difference. Members of a minority holdout were purged, and most joined the bandwagon after learning more about a formerly unknown candidate.

Nobody's opinion of Hillary is changing. She's too well known to change the opinons of political junkies. Nobody at the time viewed Obama as DLC/Third Way.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
307. I think that statements like this is what is
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:56 AM
Jun 2015

offending people and bringing disharmony and good debate to DU. "WHEN BERNIE LOSES..."

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
152. Locking. TOS does not specify whether calling out DUers applies to current or former members.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:58 AM
Jun 2015

[hr][font color="blue"][center]TECT in the name of the Representative approves of this post.[/center][/font][hr]

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
160. A real loss.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:59 AM
Jun 2015

If a candidate can't stand scrutiny or name-calling during the primary on DU, what chance does that candidate have in the general election when Karl and the Kochs apply full volume to their Media Machine?

Furthermore, the fewer good DUers there are, the less relevant the community becomes. Losing NYC_SKP means the difference between light and emoticons.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
260. If a female candidate for the nomination can't be called a C-word on DU, what???
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:37 AM
Jun 2015

have you lost it?

you can do all kinds of things during primary season on DU.

don't even dare try to say that Skip getting banned for calling Hillary the C-word is a weakness that is Hillary's.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
316. The banned member is the one that didn't hold up to scrutiny.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:59 AM
Jun 2015

Hillary had zero to do with this banning. This comment goes against the reality of the situation. "If a candidate can't stand scrutiny or name-calling during the primary on DU, what chance does that candidate have in the general election when Karl and the Kochs apply full volume to their Media Machine?"

merrily

(45,251 posts)
161. over 68,000 posts and service as a moderator.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:59 AM
Jun 2015

He's gone through so much in the past year and had yet another surgery ahead of him. See also Reply 45 for some of his other problems.

I don't know if that caused him to go over the top, but can say from experience that things like that affect people profoundly.

I cannot condone what got him banned. Having been a co-host with him, though, I can say without question that he would have someone a second chance a lot quicker than I would. Perhaps the admins will see their way clear to doing for him what he did for others.

If you read this, NYC, best wishes on your next surgery and your recovery from all of it.

 

MohRokTah

(15,429 posts)
180. Even though I tend to disagree with him more than I agree with him...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:03 AM
Jun 2015

I hope he gets his posting privileges returned.

He's passionate about his beliefs and that was his only hidden post.

Yes, he can be frustrating at times, but overall I think the positives outweigh the negatives.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
184. I'm going to miss him and had him on ignore for over a year
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:05 AM
Jun 2015

we all burn out here for so many reasons and loose our cool , over react and piss people off .This is the nature of the net where you can't really know each other .I miss him and had him on ignore ...thats the net .

herding cats

(19,967 posts)
188. Calling Clinton the C word is despicable.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:07 AM
Jun 2015

There's no excuse for that on a Democratic site. I've just been hiding all the threads that look like their purpose is to bait and antagonize the other candidates supporters, so I don't know how bad things may have gotten recently.

There's always a chance once everyone reflects on things he can return and we can all move on and behave like adults.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
194. I have nothing to lose, so I'm going to say it. The banning was biased.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:09 AM
Jun 2015

Do I like NYC Skip? Not particularly... I'm not even sure if he's a he or a she, and we've both been here a long time. Have other posters used the actual c-word around here? Yep. Have they been banned for it? Not the times I can recall from back when I was a mod even though I always fought for it. People are banned for behaviors over a period of time typically when they are a long timer. I'd respect the admin decision for referencing that. To ban for an attempt to call a candidate admins have made no secret of supporting (with silly fonts and whatnot) a bad word, smacks of bias. It's why DU can really piss me off sometimes.

Don't bother responding. You won't change my mind, this is just a discussion board and I'm not in to arguing. And again, NYC pissed me off more times than not, but this is ridiculous.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
263. I won't try to convince you...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:39 AM
Jun 2015

I will say I am heading to the gym soon... There are some huge guys there , Brock Lesnar sized. Many of them are there with their girlfriends who are usually big too... If I deigned to call one the C word I would expect to have my face punched in.

So in a way he got off easy...

I don't agree with the ban. I would hate to be judged by my worst moment but it's a hateful word and a fighting word. It's the twin sister to the N word.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
277. There is nothing to convince me of. We are agreed on the main points.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:46 AM
Jun 2015

The ban was biased. And you got me to respond to you.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
289. I would have given him a thirty day ban and not a permanent one.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:49 AM
Jun 2015

I have to believe he temporarily lost control of his senses.

Puglover

(16,380 posts)
270. Agreed m' Dear.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:43 AM
Jun 2015

Meanwhile posts like this are a-ok, in fact not even alert worthy.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6758127

I don't give a crap if this gets hidden. It was an odious post but hey according to DU standards just swell.

As you said, NYC Skip. Not my favorite poster but man there are so much worse out there. And horrifying crap survives our esteemed juries daily.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
283. or hey, the one talking about a black man getting shot in the back,
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:48 AM
Jun 2015

then "hope you get yours soon', or some stupid thing. THAT isn't cause for a permanent banning but repeating a troll's words back is - I think having the post hidden, an apology and time-out would be more fair, but that's just me.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
197. You all know what George Carlin would say about censorship.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:10 AM
Jun 2015

Yes, I know this is a private site and it is not censorship.

I also am SICK and tired of the attacks of Hillary

and yet

NO liberal should EVER ban or silence another liberal because they use an politically incorrect word.

I hate that word, NEVER use it. I capitalize the W in Women for a reason, in case anyone has noticed.

But banning is wrong, it would be different if he was a righty, then I say ban them regardless.



BTW, admins and mods and owners of DU, I knew I was maturing when I could admit I made a mistake and corrected it.


your turn

randys1

(16,286 posts)
262. I wonder what can be done about trolls who follow posters around and make smart ass
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:38 AM
Jun 2015

comments every single time they can.

I wonder what we can do about that.

The more liberal you are the more likely said trolls will fuck with you, BTW

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
303. I demand the right to call Hillary a c*! George Carlin! PC police!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:55 AM
Jun 2015


Yeah, liberals don't call women that word.
 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
319. The George Carlin who said this about women with eating disorders:
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:59 AM
Jun 2015
Rich cunt won't eat? Fuck her.




is not a very good standard on avoiding hate speech towards women.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
421. The man was a genius, and he was not politically correct. His standards were quite high
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:33 PM
Jun 2015

even if he did occasionally use an incorrect word.

I will take his record of being a genius and his tremendous value to the human race over a couple comments in a comedy skit.

Or should we BAN all CARLIN recordings because he used that one word, one time?

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
432. "incorrect word" is not an accurate way of describing
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:37 PM
Jun 2015

the awfulness of his take on eating disorders.

The entire point is that his use of the word was fully consistent with the snarling misogyny that he was explicitly communicating.

That's why he chose that word, to emphasize his contempt and hatred for the women in question, hating them as women.

"politically correct" is how people pretend to disapprove of bigotry they really approve of. If you do not want to give the impression you condone misogyny, you really ought to stop using that rightwing phrase to describe hate speech.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
441. Complete and total nonsense.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:40 PM
Jun 2015

and now I am a rightwinger


wow, stay away from me, please

and i sincerely mean that

dont call me a rightwinger ever again and just dont post to me

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
351. There are consequences to the words we use, for me, you, and the late George Carlin...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:11 PM
Jun 2015

You are free to call anybody anything you want long as you are willing to live with the consequences.

I use to go to the L A Fitness in Hollywood, the one near the Dolby Theatre...There were a lot of gay guys working out there and some were fricking huge. My favorite t shirt I saw there said "If you don't like gay marriage don't marry one."

If I dropped the F word on of those guys I would likely get punched in the face, George Carlin notwithstanding.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
394. He's not silenced, and he may continue to use that word indiscriminately should he so choose.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:25 PM
Jun 2015

He's not silenced, and he may continue to use that particular word indiscriminately should he so choose. He simply chose to break the terms of service with an llc, and was then presented with a set of consequences spelled out plainly enough for any half-wit to both recognize and understand.

There seems to be an inaccurate justification that tolerance, by its definition, allows for intolerance-- a well too many otherwise-intelligent people are drinking from.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
601. I agree about censorship, and second your appeal to Admin to grant clemency
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:37 PM
Jun 2015

The real problem at DU isn't "bad words" expressed by individual members, it's the tolerance of Big Lies spread by political machines.

This place only diminishes itself when it tries to protect some members from being offended by angry expressions of difference.

Response to cyberswede (Original post)

jalan48

(14,914 posts)
205. What about the Rude Pundit?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:15 AM
Jun 2015

I happen to like the Rude P. because sometimes language needs to be outrageous to adequately describe the situation. I'm not saying Skip didn't cross the line in this case but I think a permanent 'ban' is a bit too much.

bluedigger

(17,384 posts)
295. The Rude Pundit is not a member and does not post here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:52 AM
Jun 2015

Juries are free to censor TRP's material, I suppose.

jalan48

(14,914 posts)
306. Thanks for the clarification.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:55 AM
Jun 2015

I guess I thought the issue here is language that is 'forbidden'. I didn't realize it only applied to members.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
792. The word does not belong here. Anyone copying and pasting can blank out letters, just as they would
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:15 PM
Jun 2015

do for the N word. I've blanked that out of direct quotes from POS Lee Atwater.

Sancho

(9,173 posts)
220. I can see why that post was too much...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:20 AM
Jun 2015

and heaven knows I've had my battles with NYC_SKP.

This primary has brought out the worst in some DUer's. I've said I will vote for the Democratic candidate, and I've been willing to argue when threads were "over the top", "bashing", and clearly RW material rehashed on DU.

I would have to say that NYC_SKP has been one of those who was overly difficult to deal with on occasion, so I can see that this one post was really the straw that finally went too far.

No matter what the argument, hopefully people can get to the point and keep it civil.



question everything

(51,624 posts)
227. I am sorry to see that
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:23 AM
Jun 2015

Would a suspension with a warning be better?

This is what has been happening here during election years - except in 2012 - people get carried away by their strong opinions.

Puglover

(16,380 posts)
236. What in the bloody HELL was he thinking?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:27 AM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:06 PM - Edit history (2)

SMH.

On edit he was replying to a PPRed troll so impossible to say what the hell he meant.

Those old letter inversion jokes are as old as the hills. And on it's face the post was inappropriate.

However it is far more inappropriate to ban a long term member in light of the crap that stands here. While the sock puppet trolls that disrupt contantly and have time out after time out after hidden post after hidden post STILL have posting privileges.

What a fucking joke.

The double standard stench is strong in this place.

Autumn

(48,717 posts)
696. Agreed, I hope he will be allowed back. He was a long time member and it's sad to see this
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:27 PM
Jun 2015

in light of everything he has gone through.

George II

(67,782 posts)
245. I "don't have a dog in this hunt" and don't think I've run across this guy before, but....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:31 AM
Jun 2015

....he did NOT use that word, and don't think if given the chance he would use the actual word.

FYI, back in the 70s or 80s, there was a thoroughbred race horse in New York named "Cunning Stunt", it tongue-tied the track announcers, but the authorities never made the owner change the name.

Nothing worse than the movie in which someone asked a woman to make an announcement about "Mike Hunt"!

Where's the sense of humor around here - there are a lot nastier things said, with venom, that slide right through.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
246. That is NOT what the post said. Be honest.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:32 AM
Jun 2015

I have seen some very awful stuff go down here, but he is one of the good guys.

He's had a rough time healthwise, and I am sick he was banned.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
273. It was crystal clear what he was doing, and yes he was calling her that name
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:44 AM
Jun 2015

but trying to be clever about it.

Go ahead and google that phrase. He was giggling about it being a tongue-twister and how what Clinton was doing that was in fact a "Cunning Stunt."

You're free to play dumb on what he was trying to do there, but don't expect everyone else to join the game.

Note also that he was expressing agreement with a troll who got zapped by MIRT.

KG

(28,792 posts)
253. had him pegged as a shitbag after he posted the gun porn thread in GD after the Newtown shooting
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:35 AM
Jun 2015

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
258. I will miss NYC_SKP. We did not always agree, but I think that banning him for making a joke
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:37 AM
Jun 2015

on a word play was not right.

This is a discussion board. As a Bernie supporter, I do not always feel very welcome, but I keep posting because I think Bernie is the right candidate for our country at this time.

I can understand how frustrating it must be to be, as some of the moderators have admitted they are, a Hillary supporter. She is now and was in 2008 a very touchy candidate, overly sensitive to criticism, without much sense of humor no matter how hard she tried to laugh and she has made some serious mistakes of judgment.

That said, when asked to judge posts, I try to be as tolerant as possible. I do not consider whether I agree or disagree with the sentiment or the jabs in the post. I just try to consider whether it is seriously over the top, etc.

I don't think NYC_SKP's post was all that over the top. Borderline maybe, but really. I'm a woman. NYC_SKP did not call Hillary a name. He simply did not. The naughty, wash-your-mouths-out-with-soap transgression was a word play, a funny one. If Lenny Bruce had said it, we'd all laugh.

I think somebody on DU was overly sensitive.

But I kind of understand it. After all, it must be frustrating to support a candidate who has been giving $200,000 a pop speeches to Wall Street bankers for the past few years but refuses thus far to talk regularly to the press. Very frustrating. I don't know what you call a candidate like that, but I'll leave it to your imaginations.

I assume that on June 14 when Hillary finally announces the inevitable and deigns to speak to the press, her supporters will return to normal. I just hope that once they get their senses of humor back, we can get NYC_Skip back here on the Bernie side of DU.

I wish that Hillary could have just a bit of Bernie's humility and ability to laugh at herself. It would make things so much happier on DU on both the Hillary and Bernie sides. We shall see. Miracles do happen.

Sign me, Call Me Anything. I've Probably Been Called It Before.

Wash. state Desk Jet

(3,426 posts)
266. So, he tried to slip in a cheap shot
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:40 AM
Jun 2015

and he got caught , well thats the risk. This time it wasn't a jury decision that brought it on. He brought that down upon himself.
Thats just the way it is.

Cosmic Kitten

(3,498 posts)
267. BS ban!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:40 AM
Jun 2015

Bring NYC_SKP back!!!!11!1!!

Apparently Democrats have turned
from robust working-class fighters
to delicate hot house flowers?!?

BooHoo.

I was VERY HURT TODAY...
by his words pfft



...AND my shoes fell off!
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
406. It can be tough when the realization hits a person for the first time
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:30 PM
Jun 2015

It can be tough when the realization hits a person for the first time that we often bear the consequences of what we publicly express.

No doubt, that initial realization can even cause otherwise intelligent people to minimize and trivialize the targets of intolerance and misogyny as little more than "delicate hot-house flowers." As long as we eventually realize that the minimization is simply a self-validating and biased mechanism for rationalizing the irrational.

dreamnightwind

(4,775 posts)
269. Wow a hide would have been enough
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:41 AM
Jun 2015

It's not like he came up with that on his own, there was a context, the PPR'd poster he was repying to used either that or similar language, correct?

If so, that to me is quite different than him coming up with it on his own. I guess I need to see the post he was repying to but a hide would have taught him not to use that language even in reply, and he was a good member of this community.

nichomachus

(12,754 posts)
272. Interesting double standard
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:44 AM
Jun 2015

You can call a guy a dick and it won't even get an alert, never mind a ban. Curious. Sexism?

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
276. No, false equivalency on your part. "Dick" is in no way in the same category
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:46 AM
Jun 2015

of insult, just like misandry is a joke of a 'problem' compared to misogyny.



nichomachus

(12,754 posts)
286. Nonsense
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:48 AM
Jun 2015

It's fully equivalent. In both cases, you're talking about characterizing a person as genitalia. But go on supporting the double standard. That seems to be becoming a major theme here.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
294. It's not fully equivalent for anyone who actually speaks American English
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:51 AM
Jun 2015

Any more than the n-word and "cracker" are the same.

They are not perceived, or used in the same manner. They do not have the same histories, and they do not draw the same reactions. They do not share the same association with bigotry.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
296. YES, it is.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:52 AM
Jun 2015

It's a body part when used in an insulting way to describe a man (as in, always) is in exactly the same category.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
279. A little surprised at the support this member recieves here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:47 AM
Jun 2015

For the longest time I thought they were fairly conservative. They love everyone's right to shoot shit and this isn't their first display of sexist behavior. The only thing that made me ever think he was even close to progressive was his discussions about the environment. Few one percenters give a shit about the environment so I always liked that from him. From their history here, I was shocked to see them as a Sanders supporter. Although I don't think they were in honest. Over the last couple of months their posting patter changed dramatically.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
287. Sanders has attracted a lot of people who just plain hate Hillary Clinton.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:49 AM
Jun 2015

That's the only reason they've latched on.

That reflects in no way on Bernie, but rather in the dynamics here.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
346. I agree with you one hundred percent that it reflects on Sanders in no way.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:09 PM
Jun 2015

Sanders is kicking ass. I have never said a bad word about him and won't. He is one of the best.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
291. I don't know if an outright banning is warranted.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:50 AM
Jun 2015

I know that NYC_Skip has been a pillar of this community for a while.

It is a shame to see him go, especially given the circumstances he has had to deal with.

So, I will miss the guy, but can understand that he has gone too far in his campaign against a candidate.

quickesst

(6,309 posts)
292. several people....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:50 AM
Jun 2015

...have been cruising very close to the Randi "HILLARY'S A FUCKING WHORE" Rhodes line. Looks like he crossed it. If any of her fans are offended by the reference.....I don't care.

backscatter712

(26,357 posts)
300. Wow, he should have been more creative in his cursing.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:54 AM
Jun 2015

It's possible to curse here on DU in ways that would make a Marine blush, and not be misogynistic about it.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
304. That was a dumb and offensive thing to write. I wonder, though, if his banning was
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:55 AM
Jun 2015

solely due to this post. Was he really banned because of the "zero-tolerance" for this word, even when "coded?" Or, was it because of this post on top of his quite vehement disdain for Hillary?

Would he had been banned had he made the same offensive comment about Sarah Palin, for example?

I tend to think it was the insult plus the posting anti-Hillary posting history.

To be clear, I have no problem for a zero tolerance policy on that word as an insult, if that is what it is. I would never use it, not in a code or a joke or any manner.

Tarheel_Dem

(31,454 posts)
311. SKP's demeanor changed. It wasn't just that we supported different candidates, it was personal.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:56 AM
Jun 2015

polly7

(20,582 posts)
318. According to posters upthread, he was having serious health issues and
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:59 AM
Jun 2015

had had brain surgery, among others, and was going through some very difficult things.

Tarheel_Dem

(31,454 posts)
323. That may be a plausible explanation. However, if that's the case, perhaps this isn't the place for
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:01 PM
Jun 2015

him right now. All the best to SKP. I honestly think he was a decent guy.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
337. He screwed up.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:06 PM
Jun 2015

I have no idea if health issues had anything to do with what he wrote responding to the troll, but it might possibly explain the difference you noticed in him.

Also, when people are going through issues, message boards may be very therapeutic and beneficial for them - sometimes support and comradery in real life aren't there when you need it - as in anyone recovering from serious medical issues, or anything else.

Jack Rabbit

(45,984 posts)
314. That's too bad, but I don't feel too sorry for him
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:58 AM
Jun 2015

Sometime last week I posted on the Bernie Group that, as long as we are the face on DU of a candidate who is proud of never having run a negative ad in his political career, we should represent him by not going negative and discussing issues rather than personalities.

That was negative.

Bobbie Jo

(14,344 posts)
315. Honestly...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:58 AM
Jun 2015

Admin has been EXCEEDINGLY gracious in allowing the vicious garbage hurled at our Democratic candidates as of late.

I've always liked SKP, but his obsession got the best of him here.

EarlG did the right thing in this case. I hope others with similar "dispositions" will take notice.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
329. Please be clearer. I'd appreciate it.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:04 PM
Jun 2015

Because that sounds a little threatening.

For what it's worth, there are blooming idiots supporting all candidates, and I believe a strong admin bias toward one played a major role here.

I haven't thrown my weight or my money behind any candidate, besides knowing that all I will give Hillary is a vote, and I can see that.

But don't use posts as threats. As an editor, your use of scare quotes is incorrect unless you mean something else entirely.

Bobbie Jo

(14,344 posts)
361. My post was clear
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:14 PM
Jun 2015

How do you read that as a threat?

Admin has allowed all manner of vicious attacks, but there has to be a line somewhere. SKP crossed it. There are plenty of posters who have straddled the line in my opinion.

I don't have any authority to make threats here, but I have an opinion - and I just shared it.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
364. I have my opinion. Your post was a threat.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:16 PM
Jun 2015

The good thing is, I don't take notes on people so I'll probably forget about it. Again, there is good reason why I've kept the names of the major candidates in my trash bin. Their supporters are ruining it for them, and your scare quotes are improperly used.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
765. I think she is saying that as the primary season heats up
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:47 PM
Jun 2015

The admins are going to be less tolerant. I didn't take it as a threat. She's not the one who PPRs people. My understanding is that a number of people were PPR'd in 2008 as well.

Takket

(23,433 posts)
320. I was part of the jury yesterday
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:00 PM
Jun 2015

Posting this FYI. I was juror #6. Had never heard the term before so initially I said leave it but after reading the alerter's comment, I looked up the term and saw that the alerter was right and switched my vote to hide.

On Wed Jun 3, 2015, 07:20 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

Welcome to DU, Feel the Bern! And yes, it's a Cunning Stunt!
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6775973

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

This is a variation on the "See You Next Tuesday" game people play when they want to call a woman the c-word without spelling it out. Here he's repeating the post of a misogynist troll who got zapped by MIRT. NYC_SKP has taken his vitriol towards Hillary Clinton WAY too far. No woman should be called that.

JURY RESULTS

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Wed Jun 3, 2015, 07:32 PM, and the Jury voted 5-2 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Not sure who NYC_SKP is referring to since MIRT took out the trash, but it appears to be Hillary. Not cute and not nearly subtle enough.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Maybe we should SKP? I'm kidding of course, but yes this post is OTT.
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: never heard of this but googled it and alterter is right. vote to hide.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

dreamnightwind

(4,775 posts)
363. Were you able to see the post he was replying to?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:16 PM
Jun 2015

Did it use this language? Knowing this would help us understand the context, not that it would make it ok but context is a component of everything.

dreamnightwind

(4,775 posts)
418. Thanks
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:33 PM
Jun 2015

Interestingly, the post he was replying to was not actually using that phrase, cunning stunt, to call her such, he (or she) was actually referring to something he considered a clever stunt, though other words could have been chosen. Skip (if that is his name) was chortling about the use of the phrase. Inappropriate but the punishment in no way fits the crime, IMHO, YMMV and obviously does.

 

Purveyor

(29,876 posts)
325. It would not surprise me if many of us "Block Members" on this list to be banned
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:02 PM
Jun 2015

way before Nov. 16

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=about&forum=1107

WOW. Up to 71 members now...

Just saying.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
331. Are you suggesting that people on that list are likely to call Clinton the c-word?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:04 PM
Jun 2015

If so, no wonder they're on that list.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
335. I never knew until now, given his posts, that he was part of the HRC group
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:05 PM
Jun 2015

So I really do not think you need to worry about it. But then again, I don't keep with that crap at all.



 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
556. Thanks for the clarification
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:15 PM
Jun 2015

that makes more sense

As I said, I don't keep up with the cliques anymore... I really don't

William769

(59,147 posts)
360. The Bernie Sanders Group is a little over a month old
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:14 PM
Jun 2015

and they have already blocked 25 people. http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=about&forum=1280

The Hillary Clinton Group has been here since DU3's inception.

You should really do your homework before making accusations.

Just saying.

 

Purveyor

(29,876 posts)
389. AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:23 PM
Jun 2015

AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service

Mail Message
On Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:13 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

It would not surprise me if many of us "Block Members" on this list to be banned
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6778480

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Callout of the Hillary Clinton group, also insinuating that the site admin has an axe to grind and will ban people based on that. Please vote to hide this OTT, callout post. It's unfair and uncalled for.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:20 PM, and the Jury voted 1-6 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Poster has a valid concern that they are sharing.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: I understand that people are shocked about NYC SKP, but I doubt that any widespread banning is about to occur.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Bad alert. If you disagree, say so .. no need to censor.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: The horror of a callout post in a callout thread.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
450. Oh do you now??
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:42 PM
Jun 2015

What I see, is that I said it's none of your business and wasn't addressed to you.

 

Purveyor

(29,876 posts)
417. OMG! It took him all of 3 minutes to make a reply so lets haul out the {{{crickets}}}
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:33 PM
Jun 2015


haikugal

(6,476 posts)
686. Wow, I had no idea this was happening!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:18 PM
Jun 2015

Now I have to go check out groups...the more I learn the more I think

WTF?

MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
326. A good banning
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:02 PM
Jun 2015

this is only the beginning. The other side will take it to her and to women in general, we do not need sexist crap from our own side.

If I had seen this I would have instantly put him on ignore, actually I am amazed I had not done it before but....

petronius

(26,695 posts)
336. That's too bad. I like(d) SKP, and he added a lot to DU over the years
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:05 PM
Jun 2015

It's a shame to lose long-time DUers, for any reason.

Happy trails, SKP, wherever your e-journey takes you next...

SunSeeker

(57,445 posts)
345. Thank you, EarlG.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:07 PM
Jun 2015

His pro-gun trolling after Newtown and sexist nastiness stunk up this place.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
347. Just for the record this is what the poster he was responding to said.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:10 PM
Jun 2015

Feel the Bern.

If she's not ready to handle spontaneous exchanges,

she is not fit for the Presidency. This is all smoke and mirrors, IMO. Yes, I am voting for Bernie but just thinking of her even pulling such a cunning stunt is pretty shockingly appalling.

I'm not sayin'--I'm just sayin'...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6775879

His reply

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6775973

as a member of mirt i have the admin look up function.

I loved NYC SKP but what he did here was inexcusable.

I am not arguing for or against the ban.

I wish him the best.


Kali

(56,593 posts)
647. thanks for that, Justin
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:56 PM
Jun 2015

so he was actually repeating that term. that kind of slides it a just a bit in my mind. no doubt at all he knew what it all meant, but the fact that he was repeating from another post and that post was actually referring to what could truly be called a stunt (a speach with no questions being called an "interview&quot gives a bit of mitigation.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
703. Is it possible that he didnt even know what "cunning stunt" meant?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:35 PM
Jun 2015

I sure as hell didnt!

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
953. Okay, I think I caught up to what happened… stupid decision to provoke privileges, IYAM
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:21 PM
Jun 2015
Come on, people…

Thanks for explaining.

mmonk

(52,589 posts)
349. The crazy season (primaries) always claims a member or two it seems.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:10 PM
Jun 2015

Restraint should be the order of the day.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
352. That's kind of shocking.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:11 PM
Jun 2015

I've met him in person when he came to AK for a conference. Nice guy.

But then many nice people have been banned over the years. I guess rules are rules, although sometimes arbitrarily applied.

carolinayellowdog

(3,247 posts)
355. he became a target of at least two, largely non-overlapping, gangs of harassers
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:13 PM
Jun 2015

so perhaps this was inevitable. But it is awfully sad to see someone who has posted twenty times as much as I have in half the time on DU, summarily discarded on such flimsy grounds in the wake of a very serious health crisis.

 

AtomicKitten

(46,585 posts)
359. Harsh punishment for one occurrence.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:14 PM
Jun 2015

NYC SKP is a good guy who deserved a more thoughtful resolution than this. Surely a less severe penalty such as a suspension would have been a fair and satisfactory penalty for this isolated incident. I hope he petitions to come back because DU is a better place with his participation.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
790. Same here
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:15 PM
Jun 2015

I've thought about it all day. He's a long time DU poster who has endured a lot lately. He made one ill advised round about reference to a term and they dropped the hammer on him. It's unconscionable and uncalled for. I do think this is politically motivated because he's been very vocal in his support of Bernie, and not the anointed one. Give me a damn break.

petronius

(26,695 posts)
507. I agree: hide the post, give a 'time-out' when enough hides accrue, but I
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:01 PM
Jun 2015

don't think this ban makes DU a better place. Hopefully--if SKP chooses to appeal--the Admins will reconsider...

Renew Deal

(84,650 posts)
564. I kind of remember from the old days....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:16 PM
Jun 2015

Skinner saying something like the c word was an auto-ban.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
673. I agree.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:09 PM
Jun 2015

Total banning seems harsh given some of the other things I've seen on DU over the years. I know of a few that I can't believe are still here given their almost-to-be-expected nastiness. I don't put people on ignore, but I regularly have to bite my tongue (or tie my typing fingers behind my back). But the owners of the site are pro-Hillary apparently and can do as they please. It's just that sometimes these bannings seem so capricious.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
773. I agree. I could live with a hide, even suspension. But a ban is over the top...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:57 PM
Jun 2015

DU is smelling like a pound of high flesh, this being a prime example of it. NYC SKP posts are among the few OP's I consistently read.


I sure hope this wasn't about guns.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
366. Sid is in timeout and NYC_SKIP is banned...DU is in upside down world.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:17 PM
Jun 2015

So one of the most prominent mods on DU2 is banned and one of the best troll busters this site has ever had is in timeout...crazy place, however the GOLDEN RULE: you take your chances when you post. I think the admins just let everyone know what a bad idea it is to disrespect our candidates.

I hate that they banned a longtime member, but some of us are really really really getting tired of the war between supporters here...

It is beyond old by now and we have a long way to go...

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
372. I wouldn't give either one of the two that title... so I'm not sure which is which.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:19 PM
Jun 2015

Neither has done much but stir up trouble even though I am against an outright ban.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
382. I like both for different reasons. We all stir at times.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:21 PM
Jun 2015

However, both work/ed very hard to keep the trolls at bay for years and years...I am a little shocked, but hey calling HRC the c-word is going to have repercussions. SKIP should have known that and probably did.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
393. I don't think it's about disrespecting the candidates
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:25 PM
Jun 2015

It's about language in general that's unacceptable. If someone called or cleverly called the Duggar woman or any woman the same I'd expect them to be banned too.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
414. I've seen that word used here and not get a hide or the person banned
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:32 PM
Jun 2015

go to the 'site search' and try it, there are many that have actually used the word and are still posting here. I think this was a message sent by the admins to the rest of us.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
446. message sent...... Don't call Hillary a c*nt... seems simple enough, wouldn't you say?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:41 PM
Jun 2015
 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
922. And yet POS used car salesman is just fine
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:16 PM
Jun 2015

Guess the guys with the keys get to make the rules but what a joke.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
484. I alerterd when I saw it used on Plain or Bachman because it's not okay against any woman.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:52 PM
Jun 2015
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
492. Good! I alert if I see it and a few other choice words.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:55 PM
Jun 2015

There is NO reason for us to be posting like that on a progressive forum; I am not trying to make an excuse for SKIP...he obviously had a meltdown and got what he deserved.

Response to Rex (Reply #366)

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
783. Primary season is seeing a lot of casualties from all over the DU spectrum.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:06 PM
Jun 2015

I skipped the 2008 season for this reason; I did not want to see good people I like a lot get PPRd and in timeout. Maybe this will cause some here that like to stir the most, to step back and hesitate before hitting the reply button.

mvd

(65,826 posts)
375. Sad to see a long timer go
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:19 PM
Jun 2015

I trust admin's judgment though. It is a word I would never use and was on our potential nominee. I noticed his posts had changed from a couple years ago, but maybe that is due to what he went though - he got a new political outlook.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
396. Sanders & Clinton threads quickly come and go. But a thread about a banned DUer garners 400 replies.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:27 PM
Jun 2015

That's where the real DU effort shines. (I'm as guilty as anyone.)
[hr][font color="blue"][center]All things in moderation, including moderation.[/center][/font][hr]

 

Purveyor

(29,876 posts)
424. Think that is bad, try wasting time by posting actual news articles and see how lonely that is. eom
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:34 PM
Jun 2015
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
509. And look at the speed! Over 500 replies already!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:02 PM
Jun 2015

[hr][font color="blue"][center]"If you're bored then you're boring." -Harvey Danger[/center][/font][hr]

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
415. Banning a long time Du'er who has contributed a lot here doesn't seem liberal to me
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:32 PM
Jun 2015

So much for the idea of a 'big tent'.

It gets smaller and smaller here at Du all the time. Hide a post, time out, etc, but this just seems a bit much IMHO.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
475. I'm happy to exclude misogynistic speech from the big tent.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:50 PM
Jun 2015

But I can see some here feel differently.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
493. Du is a witch hunt anymore
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:55 PM
Jun 2015

People who like to try and remove anyone who doesn't agree with them all the time - and doing so by labeling them something or other and hounding them.

I don't see that as progressive.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
505. I don't see someone calling a woman a c*nt as a progressive attribute.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:01 PM
Jun 2015

I guess that is where we differ.

I don't find that to be acceptable or just another old opinion.

It is a degrading slur used against women. It is explicitly misogynistic.

Focus on that being un-progressive, would be the best advice I could provide to you.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
590. Ah I see, one post out of thousands and you latch onto that one
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:28 PM
Jun 2015

as an indicator of who someone is in total.

Got it. Like a witch hunt. Ignore everything, ever, by someone and find the one thing you can use to beat them down.

Yeah...that is soooo progressive.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
635. I see you disagree. You can educate yourself if you want.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:49 PM
Jun 2015

I'm not going to take the time and try to convince you.

And who are you calling a witch? Me?? EarlG, Skinner?? others who understand it is in no way progressive to call a woman a c*unt?

Anyone who uses that word in a derogatory fashion toward women, is not progressive. Although, it seems lots of people, including yourself disagree.

Have fun with it..

Response to boston bean (Reply #505)

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
623. I see you disagree. You can educate yourself if you want.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:45 PM
Jun 2015

I'm not going to take the time and try to convince you.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
652. Witch hunting is a lesser issue that people alerting on posters who hurt their feelings
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:58 PM
Jun 2015

It's pathetic when it's clear that an alert was written by a poster who was too insecure to reply in public, even more pathetic when he has to point out the poster's sig line in hopes that a jury will believe him.

(and yes, such pettiness and abuse of the alert system does occur.)

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
595. Nice try.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:31 PM
Jun 2015

"I don't like someone's position on guns, so I will brand them with scarlet 'NRA' letters because I can't win in a debate."

We get it. You don't like people with views different than yours and don't want them around.

The big tent is now a pup tent and some will do anything they can to keep out 'the enemy'. Almost sounds like a religion.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
610. It wasn't a 'try' -- if you think c- word name-calling is cool,
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:40 PM
Jun 2015

I can tell you where the tent flap is too.

So can the DNC platform.

Nice defense of the indefensible...

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
629. Another nice try - you know I didn't say that. If you think I did - back it up :)
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:48 PM
Jun 2015

Everyone has a bad day, not everyone is perfect, and when all you look for is a reason to kick people to the curb who don't cow tow to your views on issues....well, all you will see is what you want.

Witch hunts are where people only look for the negative and use that remove people who didn't kiss their butt elsewhere.

It's dishonest, it's regressive, and it is something one would think they would see from the right.

And yet, here we are on DU, trying to judge a human's entire existence and belief system on one post because you didn't like other things they posted.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
675. Stop endorsing or excusing misogyny then...because that is what you are doing
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:09 PM
Jun 2015

with each and every mitigating post you make.

It's not 'one' post. It is a pattern of hate-filled rants that culminated in c-word disparagement.

When people don't ACT like Democrats, it's reasonable to assume they're playing for the other team.

Double down all you want--make it clear where you stand. I'll stay over here on the team that favors equality in all its forms and believes it's possible to differ without resorting to sexist hate speech.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
778. And there you are, doing it again - same technique
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:02 PM
Jun 2015

Accusing me of doing something I am not.

Really?

You can do better.

When people don't ACT like Democrats, it's reasonable to assume they're playing for the other team.

And when people are on witch hunts it is reasonable to believe they don't care about a discussion but about labeling people because they have no real argument.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
892. You have the power. If you don't want to be mistaken
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:19 PM
Jun 2015

for someone who supports, excuses or minimizes that conduct, then just stop doing it.

As for that 'dire' quote you referenced, you might want to go have another peek at the TOS here--that's where that thought you're hating on came from.

Democrats don't use misogynistic language, chuckle about it, mitigate it, or defend it.

It's really quite simple. Don't even try complicating what should be a no-brainer to any regular poster here.

chknltl

(10,558 posts)
433. I suspect you ghost through here
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:37 PM
Jun 2015

I will miss you and remember you as a teacher. We live in a society that is still learning how we oppress others, that sometimes we do so without realizing it. As i read the many posts in this thread, i see more than a few that instruct us how the use of the 'c' word is an example of how we can oppress a group within our society without realizing it. Let this be a teachable moment for us all.

JustAnotherGen

(37,476 posts)
436. NYC - My best to you
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:38 PM
Jun 2015

Since I've been supporting one of the other runners - I put the Sanders, Clinton groups in the Trash - and started trashing a lot of the tit for tat candidate threads. I missed a lot - as a result.

I understand why the Admin did what they did - but it doesn't mean I won't miss you.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
516. guess he is allowed to start fresh with a new name. really was a very disrespectful remark.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:04 PM
Jun 2015

Republican party doesn't even have to roll out the expensive media guns like Mr. slut-slut to degrade woman, the D party, presidential contenders anymore.

Algernon Moncrieff

(5,961 posts)
529. By the way, that's not easy
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:08 PM
Jun 2015

I changed my DU name (voluntarily). What I discovered starting over is that DUers are very nasty to posters with fewer than 1,000 posts. The assumption is that you are a troll.

However, I agreee that the remark, however "cleverly disguised" has no place in a discussion at DU.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
570. strip the post count would be suitable punishment.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:19 PM
Jun 2015

call it "2 weeks in the DU troll stocks"

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
473. "You know, this would be a good time for Kucinich and other progressives to rally around Obama".
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:50 PM
Jun 2015

This would be a terrific time to find and highlight the common ground rather than divide the party of hope, not to help the party of nope.

High profile progressives like Dennis could join NY Rep. Anthony Weiner in laying out the facts and the best of what the POTUS has embraced.

Because when our side, with all our quirks and subsets, go out and are over the place with "the message" we look like fucking fools who can't get along.

In the meantime, conservatives are united in their rage against what we know in our hearts is the right thing.

And most Americans would agree that the Public Option is the right thing.

But we have to express it cohesively and in a united way.

This will never happen if we can't find a way to come together.

(Posted by NYC_SKP in General Discussion: Presidential (Through Nov 2009)
Tue Aug 18th 2009, 09:33 PM)

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=132x8597741

It's very sad to see longtime DUers, solid Democrats like NYC_SKP, get tombstoned for a dumbass faux pas like this. I've always liked NYC_SKP, he's still part of our team, whether he can post here or not.

Algernon Moncrieff

(5,961 posts)
479. I often disagree with NYC_SKP; I agree with the ban hammer here; but I'd also support a 2nd chance
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:51 PM
Jun 2015

People who should know better say and write stupid, regrettable things. I would hope that, after a period of time (a couple of weeks to a couple of months), a return would be allowed conditioned on: a) a promise of good behavior and b) the posting of a public apology.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
486. I feel sad about this
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:53 PM
Jun 2015

and certainly shocked. I liked NYCSkp. I had noticed his antipathy for Clinton was leading him to post things that didn't seem in keeping with his usual character. He has always been pretty good on gender issues, so it saddens me to see him resort to this sort of thing and then lose his posting privileges as a result.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
494. I am very sad. Way too many are gloating over it. That's even worse.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:55 PM
Jun 2015

I don't feel comfortable here anymore. Afraid to post almost.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
536. perhaps post on admin page and suggest a week or two ban for that type of comment
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:09 PM
Jun 2015

Permanent ban for a bannable first offense seems harsh to me.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
829. Yup, I keep most of my substantive stuff
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:24 PM
Jun 2015

off the site and what I post, mostly OFF GD where the.....

mopinko

(73,251 posts)
490. the really unfortunate thing is that the post he was replying to was removed.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:55 PM
Jun 2015

it was a repeat troll who used that phrase and he replied to it.
i hope that the guys will let him back in if he asks. i hope he asks.

that said, i cant blame earlg for the ban. the anti-hillary nonsense here has gone pretty damn far. he is certainly not the only one. it is pretty sad to see.
glad i am not a mod any more, tho. what a tough and unappreciated job that was. dont think there was any way to make that thing work any better than it did. the toll it took on those of us doing it is something i dont think anyone here appreciates.

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
502. I have gone and read the link. I think NYC SKP got a bum deal. If I wre to refer to a cunning stunt
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 12:59 PM
Jun 2015

That would be exactly what I meant, a particularly clever stunt. Good grief, it's like a jury I served on earlier this week where someone alerted on someone for replying "two words, one syllable each"
The alerter said that meant 'eff you', me, I took it as 'bye bye!'

Silly season is here in force. Imho NYC SKP did not deserve a ban for this.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
531. did you miss the part where he talked about it being a tongue-twister
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:08 PM
Jun 2015

and capitalized it--

Welcome to DU, Feel the Bern! And yes, it's a Cunning Stunt!





I say that to myself every day, over an over.

It can be a tongue twister!



He obviously knew what he was doing. He was not referring to clever actions on Clinton's part.

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
550. Until this thread I had never heard that cunning stunt was code for anything. I still say its
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

A damn shame.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
554. he had been getting increasingly unhinged and deranged towards Clinton.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:14 PM
Jun 2015

One of his last OPs accused her of trying to get her own supporters injured at a rally.

If it hadn't been this, it would have been something else.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
565. I didn't know about "See you next Tuesday" until I relayed a bizarre story to a coworker
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:17 PM
Jun 2015

Where I was puzzled at a store owner for saying this to me. She had been very verbslly abusive to her ownemployees and I remarked how unpleasant being there was. That was her response, and I could not figure out WTF it was supposed to mean! Everyone else I told the story to knew. Must have been in a popular movie once or something.

peacebird

(14,195 posts)
576. Nevermind... The googles told me.......Ok, now I have to ask. What does 'see you next Tuesday' mean?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:23 PM
Jun 2015

English has many wonderful words. I wish people would use them and say what they mean....

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
607. The See you = CU! Wasn't obvious to me, and puzzling because I said I'd never be back!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:38 PM
Jun 2015

She was an odd woman in a foul mood. I'd put down a cup of coffee on a huge stack of brown cardboard boxes (not on a product box) and she ripped her staff an asshole over it. I responded with an apology and said it was me, and I had no place to put it a moment (the store was a crowded mess) while I pulled out my credit card. It was a cardboard box and my cup didn't mark it one bit.
The she sneeringly offered me help?!? I explained that -as she could see - I'd just signed the slip, got my coffee and was already leaving. I felt so bad for the people working there. What a weirdo!
If it had not been such an odd phrase I don't know of I would have repeated the story and found out. Lol. What a nut job.
Her stores motto- "the happiest store in NYC" bwaaaah!!

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
618. See you next Tuesday = C U Next Tuesday
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:43 PM
Jun 2015

Misogynists think they're terribly clever some times.

haikugal

(6,476 posts)
761. The things I learn here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:38 PM
Jun 2015

I was unfamiliar with both phrases..lol

I think it was too harsh and hope some resolution will be reached that NYSKP can return to us. There is a huge hole now. I hate this kind of thing, it makes DU suck.

Hekate

(100,131 posts)
513. It's sad, but justified. SKP morphed into rabidness as soon as HRC entered the race.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:03 PM
Jun 2015

DU is badly in need of a housecleaning, and if it takes place there will be some oldtimers who can't be minimally civil who will be swept out along with the hordes of newbies showing off.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
528. Definitely wouldn't have been my choice
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jun 2015

He seems to have changed since his surgery. I wonder if that had an effect?

Hekate

(100,131 posts)
716. I didn't know about the surgery. It's possible....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:47 PM
Jun 2015

Knowing about medical conditions can be a mitigating factor -- but we are having such a bad time here that if someone is completely unable to rein themselves in, it becomes a matter of not letting DU become even more toxic than it has already become.

Kali

(56,593 posts)
522. wow
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:06 PM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:15 PM - Edit history (1)

that is pretty shocking. I mostly just know him from the Lounge and he was a long time staple in there. He seemed to be a classic liberal in the sense of always talking to underdogs or people that were getting piled on. I didn't always agree with him on all of those he tried to "protect" but he was pretty consistent in that behavior. He had humor and has been having a horrific health situation with brain surgeries and fighting for his life during post surg infection. He cared for and lost both parents in the last few years.

I know he sometimes posted some pretty unfiltered things occasionally but that is what the jury system is for. I can not believe he used the concept of calling any woman a cunt and that shocks and saddens me as much as the banning of a long time member. I do not envy admins in this decision one bit. I am not sure what I would do. On the one hand I believe in second chance. On the other, using that word on any woman especially here on DU is just plain unacceptable.

This makes me sad for all of us.


I want to add this as an edit: after seeing the actual post that he had replied to, I am not quite so certain a permanent ban is the appropriate punishment. It is a tough situation. On the one hand the message that there will be no tolerance of misogyny on DU absolutely NEEDS reinforcing around here, but on the other hand, there are human, grey-area mitigating factors in this case.

Not to mention the aggravating (to me, at least) fact that there are so many much worse disruptors just blatantly going on with their trollery every damn day.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
526. I'm sorry to hear that.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jun 2015

really.

I don't know what's warranted or not. I haven't been
personally offended ever, that I can recall, by NYC_SKP. But
he/she has been someone whose posts I've consistently
appreciated. So I hope for an un-ban and a return, before
too long.

murielm99

(32,643 posts)
542. It's about time.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:10 PM
Jun 2015

He has gone completely crazy.

And, reading through this thread, so have a few others. Such unswerving loyalty to Bernie, such rabid hatred of Hillary is not political discussion. It has no place here.

 

peecoolyour

(336 posts)
546. He seemed like a genuinely good guy.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

Might've been a little rough around the edges, but I think that gives people a certain charm.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
547. Let this be a lesson to us all.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

No matter how much you support one of our candidates, don't let that become horrible, vituperative hatred for another candidate. Every last one of our candidates is a hundred times better than any of the Republicans.

Renew Deal

(84,650 posts)
548. The idea that NYC_SKP could get banned is absurd
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

Last edited Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:02 PM - Edit history (1)

Not because anyone is protected, but he is a major contributor to this site. Just shows that no one is safe.

Hopefully he gets a time out and is let back in at some point. People have been allowed back after worse indiscretions.

hlthe2b

(112,629 posts)
561. I'm not going to second guess the ban, but only say...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:16 PM
Jun 2015

how much I really hate it when we lose a very long term member who hadn't been a continuous problem...

Ahh, primary season. I guess we'll see more of this. sigh...

Renew Deal

(84,650 posts)
583. It's a part of primary season that I had forgotten about.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:25 PM
Jun 2015

Hopefully we make it to the end of 2016.

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
562. This thread seems like a celebration. I think that is horrible.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:16 PM
Jun 2015

It's cruel and it's heartless....and he did NOT use the c word. Unless one is into slang terms, and I am not...the words he used meant nothing.

The fact that someone coined the phrase Angry Supporters of Bernie to explain it tells me so much.

Good Lord what will you guys say as we are also banned?

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
600. Why not?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:35 PM
Jun 2015

Aren't I considered an "Angry Supporter of Bernie Sanders"? No one is immune during primary season.

I am fearful to post anything much right now.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
602. Nope I don't think so.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:37 PM
Jun 2015

Don't be afraid unless you were planning on posting something so obviously out of line. I don't feel your fear of posting is a rational fear, you'll get over it.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
612. SKP got banned for half-cleverly calling Hillary Clinton the c-word in exactly the same
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:42 PM
Jun 2015

manner that Matt Drudge called Cindy Sheehan the c-word back in 2005.


https://web.archive.org/web/20050926210119/http://www.drudgereport.com/

Unless you're willing to throw misogynist hate speech at Clinton, you are not in any danger.

Note, by the way, that the "Angry Supporter of Sanders" comment got hidden.

uppityperson

(115,993 posts)
645. Be civil when you post, don't post insults or nasty language. It isn't that difficult.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:55 PM
Jun 2015

Support who you support, disagree but do it with some class, being civil. Walk away from nasty posts rather than responding in kind, the "they did it first" excuse isn't a good one.



http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=termsofservice

Do not post bigotry based on someone's race or ethnic origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, religion or lack thereof, disability, or other comparable personal characteristic. To be clear: This includes any post which states opposition to full equal rights for gays and lesbians; it also includes any post asserting disloyalty by Jewish Americans, claiming nefarious influence by Jews/Zionists/Israel, advocating the destruction of the state of Israel, or arguing that Holocaust deniers are just misunderstood. In determining what constitutes bigotry, please be aware that we cannot know what is in anyone's heart, and we will give members the benefit of the doubt, when — and only when — such doubt exists.

Andy823

(11,555 posts)
777. Not all of Bernie's supporters are angry
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:02 PM
Jun 2015

I have been to the site, and many are doing a fine job of posting about "Bernie" not going after Hillary Clinton on a daily basis. He crossed the line, and the owners of this site banned him. He went to far. As I said many of Bernie's supporters are doing what should be done, promoting their candidate, and I applaud them. I like the hell out of Bernie, and would vote for him in a heartbeat if he wins the nomination, and I would vote for Hillary if she wins, or O'Malley if he wins. That's the way it should be. Trashing people isn't helping matters at all, and I think we all need to remember that.

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,612 posts)
568. To quote my favorite president "this is a teachable moment."
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:18 PM
Jun 2015

Given the fact that Hillary Clinton evokes such strong emotions it is a near certainty that some prominent Republican will make an ugly misogynistic remark about her that other Republicans will have to spend weeks to defend or deflect.

Response to cyberswede (Original post)

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
582. One thing I
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:25 PM
Jun 2015

always found weird about NYC_SKP was how he claimed to be a huge Obama supporter, yet disliked Clinton (so much that he threatened to not vote if she were to be the nominee). Both Obama and Clinton are moderate-leaning in terms of where they stand on the spectrum, supporting much of the same things (including more accessible health care). They turned out to be really good friends, and Obama made Clinton SOS for a while.
I don't get it...NYC's allegiances there never made much sense to me.

carolinayellowdog

(3,247 posts)
632. ambivalence and complexity are human, whereas lockstep ideological solidarity seems...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:49 PM
Jun 2015

robotic to me. I had NYC_SKP on ignore for years as a centrist who heaped relentless scorn on progressives, and was somewhat startled lately seeing him in the anti-Clinton, pro-Sanders camp. But when I learned of the Religion wars in three different forums, which spilled over into GD in the wake of the Charlie Hebdo and Chapel Hill massacres, I kept seeing him on the sympathetic side of the equation. Not that I'm a believer, but for the first time in a long life I found myself being insulted and abused, instead of supported, by unbelievers, and supported by believers, in my perceptions of the situation. At the time you and I shared horror at the Islamophobic frenzy that seemed to unite all kinds of formerly sane-appearing DUers in that brouhaha.

So now, NYC-SKP is a Sanders-supporting believer who has both Sanders-supporting anti-theists and Clinton-supporting believers dancing on his grave. Makes me feel all the more appreciative of my real-world friends, and all the more disgusted at what passes for "friendship" online.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
585. "It's" is NOT the same as "She's"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:27 PM
Jun 2015

And cunning stunt is not the same thing as cunning runt.

Sad that a little double-entendre causes so much wailing and gnashing of teeth followed by all this grave dancing.

Bullshit ban and this place WILL be less interesting without him.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
598. This is exactly like Drudge calling Cindy Sheehan's arrest a "cunning stunt"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:35 PM
Jun 2015
https://web.archive.org/web/20050926210119/http://www.drudgereport.com/

it's a way for chickenshit trolls to call a woman the c-word and snigger thinking they got away with something.

"cunning linguist" is a little double-entendre. This was hate speech from a person whose unhinged, hateful rants about Hillary Clinton were only getting worse by the day.

His voice will not be missed during primary season.

It is apparent you think a little misogynist hate speech against Clinton is perfectly cool. Well, start your own website then, since your tolerance of that kind of hate speech is outside the TOS for this place.






 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
649. If I disagree, is that hate speech, and/or misogyny as well?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:56 PM
Jun 2015

Because I disagree.

It's is not she's.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
656. No, it just means you condone that hate speech
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:01 PM
Jun 2015

You're free to play dumb all you want about what that phrase means, especially when the poster capitalizes it ("Cunning Stunt" and sniggers about how that phrase is a tongue-twister, while referring to a woman that poster hates with the passion of a thousand Orly Taitz's.

But don't expect the rest of us to play dumb along with you.

https://web.archive.org/web/20050926210119/http://www.drudgereport.com/

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cunning+stunt

That is what you're defending.


lpbk2713

(43,243 posts)
587. I've seen others with one foot on a banana peel ...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:27 PM
Jun 2015



and the other in the grave.

Too bad it should happen to a veteran DUer like SKP.



LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
608. I'm sorry to hear this
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:39 PM
Jun 2015

In spite of his recently contracting Hillary Derangement Syndrome, I liked him and hope he is well.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
624. Lotta crocodile tears being shed for ol' NYC_SKP by supporters of She Who Must Be Obeyed
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:45 PM
Jun 2015


And I must say that there seems to be a double standard here when it comes to genitalia references. It's perfectly acceptable to refer to former VP Cheney, former President Bush, Donald Trump, Ted Cruz, etc. etc. as a "dick" or a "prick". Everybody titters and giggles when the House Speaker is referred to as John "Boner".

And yet.. Hell, the guy didn't even use that horrible word and he's banished to coventry. And there are all sorts of patronizing pleas to let him return if he agrees to never sin again.

I don't like that word either, and I don't just whine about it on a message board. I once punched my daughter's boyfriend when I heard him call her that in the heat of an argument. But we're going to hear a lot worse if we nominate you know who.

I wouldn't blame NYC_SKP for telling DU to go pound sand if they offer him a "second chance". I hope he doesn't but I wouldn't blame him.
 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
642. Wait, you admit that word provoked you to violence but think it's perfectly
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 01:54 PM
Jun 2015

acceptable to call Hillary Clinton that?

No, it doesn't get worse than that.

And, hell no, calling a man a 'dick' is not even in the same zip code as dropping the c-bomb on a woman.

Would you ever punch a guy for calling a male relation a 'dick?'

No, of course you wouldn't, because you know it's not the same thing.

It's very clear where you're coming from--you HATE Hillary Clinton so much that you think it's perfectly okay to call her all kinds of degrading, misogynist names on a progressive discussion board.


If you want that, go to Discussionist. But you are also on notice that such virulent hatred is not acceptable here and you won't be allowed to pollute this place with that toxic filth.





polly7

(20,582 posts)
658. Oh get off your high horse!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:01 PM
Jun 2015

Yes, calling a man a dick is every bit as bad as what NYC Skip did. Why wouldn't it be? Body parts used in a demeaning way are equally insulting. It's a shame that you're using your version of 'equality' to blast other posters, call them haters of someone and tell them to leave this board. It says a lot more about you than those you're trying to chase off.

Either you believe in equal rights for everyone, which includes the way they're referred to, or you don't.

BainsBane

(57,314 posts)
834. And if I claim honkey isn't as bad as the n word
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:35 PM
Jun 2015

I must oppose civil rights, yet if I say it is no worse than a lot of words in common use in the English language, that upholds equal rights? Hardly. The words come out of a language of oppression. It isn't just about body parts. Saying it's the same as using dick is no different from saying whitey or honkey is the same as the N word. That is what the right says to legitimate oppression.

As GeekTragedy says, anyone who speaks English knows there is a huge difference. One can disagree with the banning without engaging in absurd claims.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
849. Claim whatever you like. I wasn't responding to you.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:03 PM
Jun 2015

Either support full equality for all, including not using the words that insult by which they're referred to, or don't pretend you support any.

I can't make it any simpler than that, sorry.

digonswine

(1,487 posts)
909. YOU know and I know-
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:52 PM
Jun 2015

that calling someone a dick and calling a woman a c---- are very different things. It is not at all about body parts. But you know that.
They are not "equally insulting." You know that.
This has been explained time and again. Continuing to claim this makes sensible people tune you out-as it should.

I am reminded of climate-change deniers, or evolution-deniers. When someone says that evolution is only a theory-smart people immediately assume that the person is ignorant and is to be ignored. When someone says that climate-change doesn't sound right to them-they are shunned by smart people--as they should be.
When someone equates calling someone a dick with calling a woman a c---, it causes the same type of reaction.
In my head, I think, "This person is not familiar with the English language and its usage."
Or, I think, "This is the type of person who says Bill Cosby's accusers are in it for the money."

It's like this. Statements like that are like the people who put the confederate flag on their trucks. It is the rare time when complete fucking idiots advertise to the world that they are complete fucking idiots. Now we don't have to guess!

polly7

(20,582 posts)
918. Exactly right.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:11 PM
Jun 2015

You know what you know, and I know what I know.

But, don't try to tell me what I know. K? That's pretty presumptuous and assuming, is usually wrong.

Yes, they are equally insulting. Using a part of one's body in a denigrating way is just as hurtful for one as the other - and why shouldn't it be???

Either give a shit about what everyone is called, or don't claim you're for equality, period.

digonswine

(1,487 posts)
928. Then what you know is just wrong-
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:27 PM
Jun 2015

and you are plainly wrong.
I assume you live in the US and speak English as a first language. If that is incorrect, I can see your confusion. I will proceed upon my assumptions--

You seem to be pretending to say that when a person refers to another person as a body part that they happen to possess, that they are actually comparing that person to that body part. If that was the case, being called a d--- would be a compliment, as the penis plays a major role in procreation.
The same goes for c---, which is another vital necessity in reproduction.

Clearly-this is NOT what is meant.

Here is what you and I BOTH KNOW--D--- equates roughly to "asshole" or "jerk" and c--- equates to "bossy woman", "woman I don't like right now", "just a woman, so who cares?", or just "woman."

You might not like it-but you know it is true.
Calling a guy a d--- does not reduce him to a penis, but the same is not true for women.

I would ask you this--Do you think-in your heart of hearts--that when guys are calling women c----s, that they simply mean they are assholes?

polly7

(20,582 posts)
951. Nah ..... maybe what you know is 'wrong'.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:15 PM
Jun 2015

Sorry, I've been alive a long time and been around thousands of people, just like you. I know what some have found very hurtful - like I said, don't bother even pretending you care about equality if you don't apply it equally to all. That would be just hypocritical. I don't play victim because I'm a woman, and words don't hurt me, personally. Yes, they're damaging for others and in creating a climate of intolerance and ugliness - but that applies to all.

Get over it, you don't get to tell me what I know, or whether I'm right or wrong. What you know is what you know - don't speak for anyone but yourself.

digonswine

(1,487 posts)
961. Your experiences are yours-
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:41 PM
Jun 2015

this is true.
I don't equate acknowledging the meanings of words as accepting being a victim.

I am glad that words do not hurt you-they shouldn't. But the fact remains that the way words are used absolutely hurts people.

Your idea that equality needs to apply equally to all is 100% true. I agree.

Words might mean something to you that does not translate to the population at large. Great--

You can say that d-- and c-- mean the same thing--if that is the case for you-then so be it. They have VERY different meanings as applied to different people.

This simply IS the case. It is true.

Your implication that I "pretend" to care about equality because I do not equate terms that are used in completely different ways is wrong-headed.

I am a man. I have been around for a long time. At no time-not once, not ever, have I heard d--- be used to mean anything other than jerk or asshole. I dare say that you have heard c--- used to refer to a "type" of female or just a female.

It is not about equality--if it was-I would agree with you. It is about the intent behind the use of terms.

I would like it if both terms were not used. But to pretend that they just reduce the other to the body part does not in any way represent the way they are used.

Frankly-claiming they are equivalent is a big dog-whistle for me. It's like when I hear people say that more whites are killed by police than African-Americans. There is almost always a reason why people bring it up-and it is never a good one.
By the way-I am not saying you are a racist!!!!

digonswine

(1,487 posts)
969. Right-
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:59 PM
Jun 2015

Yes -your experiences are yours---unfortunately, it would appear that you judge ALL things through only your own experiences. That is a very limited way to go through life. Good luck

polly7

(20,582 posts)
972. Your experiences seem to be the unhappy ones.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:12 PM
Jun 2015

Mine have shown me that people suffer equally. I truly believe that equality should be applied to all, regardless of gender, race, sexual orientation, religion or anything else, and that goes for language that demeans, laws, wages, opportunity, etc. etc. etc.

I can't make it any simpler for you and I don't understand why anyone would have a problem with that.

I also don't see that as limited at all, in fact, it makes me much more aware of how I treat people personally and the actions of everyone around me. People are people, they all hurt - that you don't think some shouldn't hurt or feel disrespected as much doesn't make sense to me, but you carry on.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
671. #1 It was my daughter, dude, what would you do?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:08 PM
Jun 2015

#2 You are welcome to view every one of my posts here to see if I have ever used that "toxic filth", but I'll tell you right now you'd be wasting your time. Take another look and try to find where I said it was "perfectly acceptable" to call that woman that.

#3 I don't "HATE" anybody. Hating consumes a lot of psychic energy that I no longer possess at my advanced age.

#4 You probably need to chill. Your response seems a bit emotional.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
681. #1 I think it's unacceptable to call any woman that.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:15 PM
Jun 2015

it's especially unacceptable to call the most prominent woman in the Democratic party that name, on a progressive, Democratic website.

#2 You launched into the deflective, false equivalency game of "what about calling men 'dicks?'" when any native speaker of American English can tell you that there is no comparison.

#3 you attributed the objections to people who support "She who must be obeyed" when in fact the condemnation of that slur was pretty much universal across Sanders, Clinton, and O'Malley supporters.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
742. There's so much wrong in that post
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:22 PM
Jun 2015

You seem to have me confused with somebody else. I did not call anybody a name. Furthermore, unlike people who just sit at their computers and pontificate about it, I acted when a female relative was demeaned by somebody using a slur.

I want to hear from a native speaker of American English that there is no comparison between derisive terms for male and female genitalia. Because I've never heard that.

And finally you need to read closer or clean your glasses, because I did not attribute objections to the term solely to supporters of "She Who Must Be Obeyed". I accused them of shedding "crocodile tears" over the departure of NYC_SKP. The term "Crocodile tears" refers to a false or insincere expression of concern, and that's precisely what all the bogus boo hooing over NYC_SKP looks like to me. Don't lie, you're glad he got booted.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
768. I think he lost the plot due to his intense hatred of Clinton, to the point
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:51 PM
Jun 2015

where he was incapable of functioning at a higher level than a MIRT-bait troll whenever she became the subject.

I wish he hadn't gone so far over the edge. But once he was over, he was over.

Jon Stewart called Tucker Carlson a "dick" to his face.

Can you imagine him calling a woman a "c@nt" to her face?

Answer: no. He would never do that.

The c-word is a word that's been used by men to degrade women as women, and to degrade men by comparing them to women.

"Dick" is a word that is usually used by men towards other men, to indicate they're being annoying or obnoxious. It's considered so anodyne that Stewart's use of it wasn't even bleeped out on television.

The c-word is up there with the f-word, and the n-word. "Dick" doesn't even reach the level of "asshole"

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
722. Actually prick dick and c are in the same zip code
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:57 PM
Jun 2015

And equally demeaning. Yeah one is used for shorthand of prostitute. Whay do you think the other two are though off as fighting words?

What is actually going on is the 2015 purge. So there are some eggshells. And if she loses the primary I expect even more spleen.

But this place is highly entertaining anymore.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
726. no, as a man I can tell you that virtually no man views "prick" and "dick"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:03 PM
Jun 2015

as anything more than synonyms for "asshole" and "jerk"

just like "breeder" does not carry the same weight as "f@gg@t"

polly7

(20,582 posts)
730. You speak for yourself.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:07 PM
Jun 2015

I have five brothers, and if someone called them a p* or d* they'd probably beat the living hell out of them, unfortunately - but it is what it is. So no, not every man thinks like you. What did you think of the subway guys with their legs open being told they should be kicked in the nuts? Is that not as bad as saying you'd like to kick a woman in the c*?

You either believe in equality, which includes how people are referred to, for all ......... or don't even pretend you believe in it for any.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
736. And as a woman I don't care
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:13 PM
Jun 2015

Is somebody uses the C word. Most of the women I know think there are far more serious things than fighting words and getting baited by them.

So by our mutual standards this is really a non issue.

Now silly season sees the arbitrary enforcement of certain rules to get rid of troublesome posters. I expect that to happen to me sooner or later. Why I do most of my substantive posting away from here.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
741. there's nothing substantive about that word and is various euphemisms
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:18 PM
Jun 2015

You seem to have no trouble avoiding hate speech, so you are not in danger.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
745. Here is the thing
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:23 PM
Jun 2015

I have seen pretty antisemitic posts here. They are hate speech. Off the reservation above is also hate speech. But you get riled off over that?

Silly season will see it's measure of scalps before it's over. It is DU after all.

But either we enforce language rules equally, or we don't.

Have a good day (I no longer bother with alerts on this site. I get attacked regularly. I don't bother with them and see quite a bit of hate speech used). It is what it is.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
755. Bottom line, calling Hillary Clinton a c*unt will get one the banhammer.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:33 PM
Jun 2015

Plain and simple. There is nothing else to be said. No need to lose sight of that with all the other excuses.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
759. Bottom line we will not enforce the rules
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:37 PM
Jun 2015

Equally and other hate speech is fine. Why do you think some of us laugh at this point?

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
772. So am I.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:56 PM
Jun 2015

I am not sure for the same reason. But I assure you, it is rip roaring hilarious. Another one of those moments of clarity.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
760. the anti-semitism should be dealt with much more harshly than it has
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:37 PM
Jun 2015

many of my alerts have fallen on deaf ears.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
767. The only reason I came back
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:49 PM
Jun 2015

Was the black lives matter. But I left because of open, rank, allowed antisemitism that was extremely in the open. Given the present bad dog whistles already I might as well take my leave again. That is the only thing that works with hate speech here, leaving. Except apparently for one word.



And with that, I think we have beaten this horse enough because I suspect we will not see eye to eye. Partly, I have been the victim of actual rules violations more often than not. And nothing is done. I have appealed it all the way to the owners

These days I just smile... what so far has happened is nothing. And it is quite self inflicted.

digonswine

(1,487 posts)
911. You are correct-
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:58 PM
Jun 2015

Those that claim that d--- and c--- are equally offensive are being intentionally obtuse.
Words mean things and THEY know it.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
937. Actually yes, according to the dictionary
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:43 PM
Jun 2015

how they dance around it though

Here you go

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/cunt

I really do not want to be banned for giving you the actual definition, but given the state of this site I would not be too shocked to be banned just for giving the link. Suffice it to say the etymology of the word is rather a matter of debate as well. I prefer the middle english origin, but the northern countries is kind of interesting too.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
944. Nowhere in your link does it get defined as prostitute.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:51 PM
Jun 2015

The "Grope__lane" reference is the closest.

What is stated over and over is variants of this: it is now and has been for centuries one of the strongest taboo words for a woman in the language. No matter how you slice it, that can not be said of the other two words you tried to make equivalent.

BTW, the best scholarly discussion of the word, its history and usage is by linguist Ruth Wajnryb

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
974. As I said, they danced around it
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:19 PM
Jun 2015

here is from Oxford

a. A woman as a source of sexual gratification; a promiscuous woman; a slut. Also as a general term of abuse for a woman.

http://www.oed.com/view/Entry/45874?redirectedFrom=cunt#eid

And I can find this at other places.

The other definition, which is the one you are thinking is, not to dance around it like dictionary. com did. vagina.

I learned of this definition of a slut actually from the unlikeliest of places. (or perhaps likeliest) the streets. And then I looked it up.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
982. Well slut and prostitue are synonyms.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:39 PM
Jun 2015

At least in English. Perhaps not in American



This was one hilarious autocorrect. Where did IOS come with slur (that ok) and prototype I do not know.

Gotta love it though.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
655. Well this certainly doesn't sound like him.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:01 PM
Jun 2015

I know SKP (aka skippy) in meatspace (the real world for those who don't remember fidonet) (no double entendre here, just move along), and if the old fucker was trying to flame out or just bail it would have been EPIC. This is way beneath that. This is kid's stuff.
This is obviously Grantcart getting even for the kerfuffle at the Thai restaurant over his double entendre concerning monkey brains, right after NYC_ reported having a headache and making a pass at the hostess.

Algernon Moncrieff

(5,961 posts)
687. What does Grantcart have to do with Earl G banning NYC-SKP?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:19 PM
Jun 2015

AFIAK, Grantcart has been M.I.A. around DU for months.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
700. One has absolutely nothing to do with the other.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:31 PM
Jun 2015

A joke among old friends. Sorry I have to explain it.

 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
677. I was starting to wonder
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:10 PM
Jun 2015

About him... He has always been a bit caustic, but lately some of the things he's been saying have had me considering putting him on my ignore list. That latest quip of his was clearly over the line. Now that I've read the rest of this thread and heard about his brain surgeries, I think perhaps a suspension would have been more appropriate - maybe the Admin is using him as an example due to primary season starting up.

Response to cyberswede (Original post)

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
692. I am guessing there is no way we can keep the thread from getting nasty.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 02:24 PM
Jun 2015

nearly 700 responses - wonder if it'll break a grand.

Bryant

 

captainarizona

(363 posts)
724. no censorship is good censorship
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:00 PM
Jun 2015

I do not like censorship or censors and it does not matter from the left or right. History has shown with rare exception censors are wrong and the people being censored or right. If people say bad words they can be told to do it again with out the bad words. I don't think I am better then others so I don't believe in censorship I support freedom of speech it has worked pretty well since america was founded.

boston bean

(36,850 posts)
744. Then maybe DU isn't for you. Cause pinned right at the top of
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:23 PM
Jun 2015

the GD forum is note from the ADMIN, titled "What can and cannot be posted in the General Discussion forum" and when you click on it, there's a bunch of stuff you might consider censorship, which you do NOT like.

uppityperson

(115,993 posts)
756. Did you not read the Terms of Service when you signed up? "By registering a Democratic Underground
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:34 PM
Jun 2015

"By registering a Democratic Underground account, you agree to abide by these terms. A single violation of any of these terms could result in your posting privileges being revoked without warning.....(more)"

Link is at the bottom of each and every page.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=termsofservice

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
727. NYC_SKP in his own words:
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:03 PM
Jun 2015

"Giving perpetrators of provocative free expression a pass in the name of free expression, absent some return on investment, doesn't seem to be helpful.
"-NYC_SKP, talking about people other than himself.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6062962

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
774. Yeah, that was pretty amazing, but I guess it's a lot easier to blame the people
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:57 PM
Jun 2015

with pens than the ones holding their beloved guns.

he also got bent out of shape because people posted gun control stuff in GD after Newtown.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
747. Sad. I liked his passion
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:26 PM
Jun 2015

And he thinks more and clearer, cared more about the future of our country, and writes better than most of the people he annoyed.

Looks like we need a couple of fainting couches.

Lithos

(26,599 posts)
766. Interesting
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:49 PM
Jun 2015

“Actions become very effective when they meet the habit of consistency.”
― Edmond Mbiaka

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
769. Too bad...he was making me nuts lately
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 03:53 PM
Jun 2015

But prior to the incessant Hilary bashing a lot of his stuff I agreed with.

marble falls

(70,487 posts)
775. There's no place for that word used that way here. As much as I enjoy 90% of NYC, he had to know....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:00 PM
Jun 2015

that was going to cost him. He should have known that comment was over the top. I would like him to be allowed to return after an apology.

Agnosticsherbet

(11,619 posts)
786. It is sad to think that some people think that the "C" word is acceptable as honest critique
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:07 PM
Jun 2015

of a politician.

brett_jv

(1,245 posts)
796. I fail to see how calling any particular woman ANY name ... is derogatory to all women ... baffled
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:21 PM
Jun 2015

Also, I don't know if this has been brought up in this huge thread, but if the poster is British (or even just hangs out w/lots of Brits), the dreaded 'c-word' is bandied about WAAAAAY more loosely by the English.

It's much more synonymous with 'a-hole' and generally has no gender connotation in the British parlance, men as well as women receive this (actually fairly light-hearted) insult in the UK.

Just something(s) to consider.

uponit7771

(93,469 posts)
806. I think there should be boundaries and racist and sexist and homophobic name calling should be one
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:42 PM
Jun 2015

... of them.

The poster knew they were using a UD for the word c*nt

Number23

(24,544 posts)
797. He is just the latest in a long line of posters here that get sucked into GD and start taking
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:26 PM
Jun 2015

the endless foolishness that flows out of this forum as gospel. This place has an almost cultlike effect on certain people. I've seen it happen so many times.

I've always questioned some of his policies -- his staunch defence of gun rights for one -- but he started to really get nutty with his anti-Hillary bullshit that was cheered endlessly by certain and very non-surprising quarters here. I even called him out on the increasing weirdness of his posts just a few weeks ago.

The admins did the right thing and I seriously doubt it will be the last time they have to do it.

HornBuckler

(1,015 posts)
802. Don't agree with the banning.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:35 PM
Jun 2015

This seems like a quick reaction rather than a thoughtful process. NYC SKP is a great poster and I really enjoyed reading what he had to say. I read through the comments above and a lot of people seem to be pretty pleased with themselves over this banning. Some even going so far as to claim he is a troll - wtf is that bullshit?

This is why I am mostly quiet as a poster here - I'd probably end up like NYC SKP.

I'll donate $50 to Bernie for NYC SKP today.


HornBuckler

(1,015 posts)
820. Done and done.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:11 PM
Jun 2015

Thanks for the reminder on using the DU link - but banning NYC SKP and stuff made me hesitate using it for a second. I still used it though.

I got another 50 for Bernie if they ever get rid of you!

merrily

(45,251 posts)
843. If it makes you feel any better, Omaha Steve set that up.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:53 PM
Jun 2015

He's my union hero and he's going through a boatload of grief. You probably made him a bit happier than he'd otherwise be.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
810. If you paid attention to this poster's imput after Sandy Hook, you'd be wondering who the "real"
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:49 PM
Jun 2015

NYC_SKP was.

This poster was on the extreme limits of DU after the Sandy Hook tragedy. Essentially what many hear call a "gun-humper".

NYC_SKP was "name removed"

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023890311

And more weirdness

http://sync.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6081518

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
815. You are mistaken, he called no one any such thing, very dishonest of you, unbelievably so in fact.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 04:56 PM
Jun 2015

If you want to burn a witch, at least make a better effort to find an actual birthmark or something to call "a witch mark left by Satan" or whatever.

This is pretty low. I can read, I can see your deception regarding what was said.
You owe him an apology, but witch hunters are not known for apologizing for doing what is necessary to get one to a stake by alleging non-existent magic.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
841. ...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:50 PM
Jun 2015

On Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:06 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

You are mistaken, he called no one any such thing, very dishonest of you, unbelievably so in fact.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6780281

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Over the top.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:21 PM, and the Jury voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Enough with the blasted name calling and nastiness. I lived through the party divisions of 1968, 1972
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: A lot of fuss over a term that is contemptible, but not in this case. It's a play on words, and the sooner NYC SKP is permitted to apologize for his/her unintended insult, the better. I've seen transposed words here before, and never such a fuss....
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Alert is over the top.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.
Cannot reply to automated messages

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
827. A 7 year member given the death penalty over one post.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:23 PM
Jun 2015

Well, at least that's what the administrator that did it said was the reason.

Apparently, The Purge has begun.

The certainly seems to be a different set of rules for those that don't happen to agree politically with TPTB on this site.


HornBuckler

(1,015 posts)
833. I agree with you.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:33 PM
Jun 2015

If NYC SKP's toe crossed over the line of acceptable speech here the admins nuking of NYC SKP had their entire body over the line, built a house on it and raised a family of four.

A ridiculous over reaction in my opinion.

steve2470

(37,481 posts)
828. That's a shame he said that
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:24 PM
Jun 2015

Of course I didn't agree with him on a few things (guns, Hillary), but he was a good guy and a good guy to me. He stuck up for me once (not that I ever need it) and I always remembered that.

Since he was here for so long and made good contributions, I'd like to see him be able to make a sincere apology in GD and be reinstated.

 

orpupilofnature57

(15,472 posts)
831. Agreed! helpful and freindly to me as well . The hostility toward
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:26 PM
Jun 2015

people who don't support Hillary is spooky .

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
870. One can say the same thing about how HRC supporters are treated here.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:39 PM
Jun 2015

We are treated with hostility.

zappaman

(20,627 posts)
904. I see you attacked numerous times.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:40 PM
Jun 2015

Every.
Fucking.
Day.

I respect that you rarely are rude to those people; many of whom get banned just to come back and attack you under a different name.

Do you wonder if we would see his defenders defending his words if the target was Senator Warren?

zappaman

(20,627 posts)
842. I wonder if all his defenders would be defending him if it was about Warren?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:51 PM
Jun 2015

Instead of Clinton?

Kali

(56,593 posts)
941. I don't know about all of them
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:47 PM
Jun 2015

and I am not sure I am a defender exactly, but to me what he posted was completely wrong and rightfully hidden. I don't care who it was aimed at.

I think he even deserves some kind of time-out over it. I am not 100% positive in his case it is worth a total ban, but admins know more than me and I have seen some other troubling things in this thread.

So as a kinda-sorta defender, no it does not matter who it was aimed at.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
1047. I volunteered for Warren's campaign in 2012, so here's my answer.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 05:02 PM
Jun 2015

If someone's been here a long time and made many posts, and has zero hides within the last 90 days, and makes one post that's unacceptable -- be it about Clinton or Warren or another DUer or a progressive NGO or any other person, place, or thing -- then I think a permaban is too harsh. Everyone makes mistakes.

In a situation like this, I would give the member another chance, in fact more than one. More appropriate than an immediate ban would be a ladder along the lines of hide-plus-warning, then timeout, then longer timeout, then ban.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
844. I alerted on this OP as being Meta. The hosts are locking all the other threads about NYC_SKP
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:55 PM
Jun 2015

Why should this thread be allowed, and all the others locked??

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
858. Which goes to the issue at heart
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:12 PM
Jun 2015

it was an excuse to ban a troublesome poster. The great purge of 2016 has begun.

The enforcement of rules is not equal, never has been, never will. He got banned for using a term that some consider hate speech. I left this site originally due to the open rank and allowed antisemitism. We are already getting whistles. So if it gets bad, I won't bother alerting, I will just leave.

I also get personally attacked regularly, I no longer bother with alerting those folks either. The juries will let that stand. And I don't play juries either.

The site owners are getting exactly what they were warned they were going to get when they decided to allow some cyberstalking on some choice members. Some of us tried to tell them.

These days I just smile. Pass the popcorn

In the right frame of mind this place can really be hysterical.

Kali

(56,593 posts)
915. except that you often claim ANY criticism or disagreement as a personal attack
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:02 PM
Jun 2015

that isn't the way the real world works.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
930. Not any
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:31 PM
Jun 2015

But when you attack me personally with spell flames. Question my trainng, which happens often. Last night one of your pals compared a straight newspaper with orly taitz. Those my friend are attacks.

Some here took the show on the road. ( Whch is cyberstalking, legal definition and all) and continued the shit at my paper. I allow a lot of weird shit in. Not personal attacks. IP bans are peachy.

And I did that also with somebody posting a personal attack on one of my posters. It is, the site, a bully free zone. DU...not so much.

Kali

(56,593 posts)
939. my pals? see who does the snide remarks?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:44 PM
Jun 2015

comparing a paper to some trash lawyer is NOT a personal attack on anybody (and for the record I have NO idea what paper you are talking about nor what thread)

I agree criticizing someone's spelling is generally a low form of attack. on the other hand, when one arrogantly positions themselves above everyone else and claims to be some sort of academic or journalist they kind of invite criticism of bad grammar or spelling. people like to take snobs down a notch. they don't enjoy being talked down to. respect is a two-way street.

I have no idea what you are talking about in your second and third paragraphs other than possibly the blog you were flogging pretty regularly when you returned to DU after leaving last time. is that your "paper"?

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
947. Yes your pals
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:59 PM
Jun 2015

you tend to come in groups...

And people here, who are aware of this shit, have told you, and your friends.

As to flogging, it is not against anybody's tos, or perhaps we should now ban Will Pitt. The Rude Pundit, for god sakes the NYT. let's get this place actually produce it's own material. And we do cover news that is quite exclusive, like the peaceful occupation of a United States Congressman's office. or the stand off yesterday at the Mexican consulate.

We source everything by the way. And I do not post a lot of the policy material here, becuase DU'ers do not care about policy. I posted about the breach today, because we took the route of telling people what the government is doing to protect their identity, is that ok with you, or should I not bother telling people that they will GET AN EMAIL if they are affected, pius a USPS letter.

That seems to be a problem with many of you. I don't bother with a lot of it here, and quite brutally honest, if we have (when we have) a major fire in my county, DU is not my priority either. Trust me, you can catch it on CNN.

I know the local folks who are actually working on policy read our material, and that includes members of the local government. I know because I have been told that. In fact, some of our reports have had the effect of getting action from city hall.

For the record, so you know, what you call a blog, is a registered newspaper with the state of California.

We all just happen to use WordPress, because the two platforms used by most media these days ARE either WordPress or Drupal. Some are even running on Facebook now. By the way, the Hillary mojo site, and discusionists ARE WordPress.

But this is the kind of shit that you do. Your blog... grammar attacks, spell flames, those are attadks,. Why bullies do it, I know now why they do it. It is in YOUR DNA, not mine.

As I told you, I care not about you, I really do not care what happens to you, how you live your live, whether you are a democrat, republican or martian. It does not affect my life. But after understanding what makes bullies tick... I feel sorry for you guys, Really, really, really sorry. My empathic side is coming out. I would love to give you a tight hug, but I expect a bite.

And with that, have an excellent day. I think we are beyond done.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
933. Oh and one more thing Kali
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:34 PM
Jun 2015

I know some of you hate me. I don't know you from shinola. I don't care to know you, I have not one bad feeling against you. At this point, all this, after reading a lot into cyber bullies and stalkers, this is about the person doing it. not the victim. But, this has allowed this site to be rather comedic at this point. George Orwell and all that.

Kali

(56,593 posts)
955. about the only thing you are a victim of
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:25 PM
Jun 2015

is your own hubris

thanks for several more replies after you claimed to be done.

I am not sure how I will survive your not caring to know me.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
959. For the rest of the class
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:34 PM
Jun 2015

this is a textbook example of blaming the victim and the victim deserves this.

Why bullies need to do this... is no longer a mystery to me, Ignoring them only encourages them, as we all saw over the years. Putting them on ignore just encourages them. This is about their needs and they vary from person to person.

But this is textbook.

Now Kali, on this subthread, do have the last word. Thanks for the example though.

uppityperson

(115,993 posts)
864. It seems those other posts were locked for complaining, per Skinner's pinned thread, top of forum
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:27 PM
Jun 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025307978
"Threads complaining about Democratic Underground or its members; threads complaining about jury decisions, locked threads, suspensions, bannings, or the like; and threads intended to disrupt or negatively influence the normal workings of Democratic Underground and its community moderating system are not permitted."

The OP of the locked threads are complaining about his banning, the OP here is not. Hosts judge only the OP, not the rest of the responses, in deciding if they meet a forum's Statement of Purpose.

Kali

(56,593 posts)
913. some meta is allowed
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:00 PM
Jun 2015

the OP is not complaining or disruptive, it is simply an announcement and even asks people to be cool. I know the difference might be hard to grasp, but there is one.

Letting the DU community know that a long time member has been banned is way different than blasting into GD to whine and complain that somebody is full of shit.

In addition one or two grave-dancing threads have often been allowed when a particularly disruptive asshole has been banned.

DanTex

(20,709 posts)
845. Bad decision IMO.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 05:58 PM
Jun 2015

I disagreed about him about a lot, guns, Hillary...

And I'm not excusing the post. It should have been hidden, without any doubt.

But NYC was a solid DUer and an asset to the board, despite how much I thought he was wrong about things. He got carried away, thought he was being clever, and he wasn't, but he's not malicious or misogynist. I don't agree with his banning.

Of course, it's not my decision, and I'm glad I don't have to make decisions like this.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
848. That sux. I know he stepped over the line...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:02 PM
Jun 2015

...but wouldn't 30 days be more appropriate? Banning seems way too harsh, it's not like he had a whole bunch of hidden posts.

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
851. He was trying to be funny, not clever
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:05 PM
Jun 2015

Reading comprehension helps a bit here...

Where is the 'JUST KIDDING' avatar anyway?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
865. Everyone who wants NYC_SKP back, please message the Administrators
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:29 PM
Jun 2015

Let's all message and demand NYC_SKP back!

There is no way an awesome person like him should be banned forever!

Let's speak our thoughts! Its a community, first and foremost!!!!

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
875. A poster messes up in ONE post, and you think he should be permanently banned????
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:47 PM
Jun 2015


One post, out of the tens of THOUSANDS!!
 

2banon

(7,321 posts)
877. I find this news as disturbing as I find it disheartening.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:50 PM
Jun 2015

I read the post in question, and for the life of me, I just don't get what goes on inside the heads of those that make these kinds of decisions. seriously, that post was not at the level for banishment.

In fact, it says more about the alerter than the alertee.

sad, sad, sad.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
897. +1
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:25 PM
Jun 2015

There are posters here whose years of snide, passive-aggressive bullshit continues to be allowed in mass quantities.

The alerter should be ashamed of him/her self.

 

Blue_Tires

(57,596 posts)
878. I hate seeing longtime decent folks driven off by a simple disagreement...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 06:53 PM
Jun 2015

But sadly, he won't be the last in this primary season...

merrily

(45,251 posts)
990. More celebratory threads were started.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:46 PM
Jun 2015

Endless grave dancing has morphed into grave stomping. Either he presented a totally different face to me than he did to everyone else, or this is well beyond all reason, or both.

Captain Stern

(2,248 posts)
900. That sucks.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:32 PM
Jun 2015

I enjoyed reading the guy's posts even when I disagreed with his opinion.

I almost feel like there's an effort to make this place even less interesting. A person can get banned for kinda, sorta, alluding to a bad word? Pathetic (in my humble opinion)

merrily

(45,251 posts)
901. This has been a very revealing thread.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:32 PM
Jun 2015

For one thing, I did not know that NYC-SKP is/was into guns or an environmentalist. I guess I need to get out GD, Populist Group, and Bernie Group more often.

I am also very surprised to hear that NYC was persistently rude to people. He and I did not agree about much, even about how best to perform our hosting duties. However, he never once made a negative personal remark to me that I can recall and I certainly hope I did not address him disrespectfully.

It's also revealing how very ugly grave-dancing can get.

carolinayellowdog

(3,247 posts)
948. revealing of the costs and risks of investing great time and energy in an online forum
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:01 PM
Jun 2015

With barely 3000 posts in 13 years, I still feel that DU has been and is a huge time sink. Of course, it has also been hugely educational, and in the early years uplifting as well. But I've made few friends in all that time, and fewer enemies I hope-- have never had a hide on DU3 or even an alert AFAIK. So if the axe fell, I'd be bummed out for a few days and then be distracted by real life friends and activities. I worry that this could be vastly more distressing to NYC_SKP. He had 20 times my post count in half as long-- hence on a daily basis 40 times the investment of time, energy, and passion, all in a place where you can be banished in an instant and then find dozens if not hundreds dancing on your grave. It's a very sobering example to all of us, and an encouragement to cut back on the amount of time and energy we invest in this or any such forum.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
912. A bullshit, biased decision. This sort of shit is the reason I stopped donating. /nt
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 07:59 PM
Jun 2015

.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
924. I won't be donating again either.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:18 PM
Jun 2015

Donating was never easy for me, financially - but I loved supporting, mostly because of such intelligent people like NYC SKP who I learned from, I felt I owed for the experience and satisfaction of it - now more and more good posters are either leaving, being banned or being bullied off the site completely. It's frustrating seeing good people who've given so much to this site gotten rid of for a stupid mistake while others get away with the most egregious shit ever.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
1037. Likewise.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:31 AM
Jun 2015

Not re-upping next February, with this as the main reason. What a huge, steaming load of shit.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
936. This sort of response might encourage me to donate again.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:37 PM
Jun 2015

I wish they'd decouple from PayPal, but I suppose I could go the cheque route...

polly7

(20,582 posts)
954. Huh?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:23 PM
Jun 2015

It takes a post about someone's disappointment to make you want to donate? That's just weird.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
960. Way to misinterpret my intention...
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:41 PM
Jun 2015

I am pleased that the admins are responding to those who make crude remarks of a sexist, racist, orientation-related, etc. nature in an unambiguous way. I've seen way too much 'disagreement while being disagreeable' in the last few months to last two lifetimes, and way too many sleazy posts attacking personal characteristics.

I was starting to think that no one cared about the TOS anymore and I am glad I was proven wrong.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
917. Unfortunate
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:10 PM
Jun 2015

He's allowed himself to be consumed by total blind hatred for someone, who while not my favorite politician in the world, is a hell of a lot better than the dregs we could potentially be saddled with come November of 2016, and I and most other people here will vote for without hesitation if she is indeed the nominee. The ones who say they won't are either Republican trolls, or totally fucking stupid and can STFU and GTFO when conservative justices over run the SCOTUS and strip us of any last liberty we have.

I thought his refusal to delete the wrong date on Hillary's New York rally was cheap shit too.

Depaysement

(1,835 posts)
923. This banning stuff seems way over the top
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:18 PM
Jun 2015

The statement was offensive but the penalty seems heavy-handed and excessive in this instance. Do longtime members really deserve this?

Renew Deal

(84,650 posts)
931. Some history on DU with the C word
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:33 PM
Jun 2015

I remember a post from Skinner saying that using the c-word was pretty much an auto-ban. I found some posts from the old days that may provide context:

From Skinner: Anyway, as I said, I agree that his comments were utterly beyond the pale. Every person who has ever called another DU member the c-word has been banned from DU. I see no reason why this guy should be treated any differently. He's been banned.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php/www/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=437x5237


2011 From ATA:

I thought I would waste my time with a rhetorical question.

How come American soldiers can be called "terrorists", "murderers", "trained killers", "human wreckage", and a buttload of other shit; but I can't call Ann Coulter a "c***", and calling Chris Christie "fat" is the cause of great angst?

If veterans aren't welcome here, just fucking say so, but the selective outrage over what is, and is not acceptable speech, makes me want to puke.

Reply from Skinner: I think that the comments you refer to about American soldiers would depend on context.


But if it makes you feel any better, if someone were to call a female soldier the c-word, or if they called a black solder the n-word, that would always be removed, regardless of context.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=437x4680


And of course the old DU Rules from 2010 (1.5 years before DU3)

http://journals.democraticunderground.com/Skinner/363

Beacool

(30,500 posts)
945. I'm sorry to see him banned because I like him,
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 08:58 PM
Jun 2015

but I totally abhor that word, even if it was in Urban Dictionary format. The "C" word is as offensive as the "N" word. Women deserve more respect than being called that term by men who can't handle women who either disagree with them or say No to them.

There's certainly no place for it at a Democratic site. I would hope that the men here would be more enlightened than to think that it's acceptable to call any woman a cu..

DonCoquixote

(13,939 posts)
958. here is where the credibilty wears
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 09:30 PM
Jun 2015

when you go ahead and BAN someone, not probation, not ask them to fix things, but ban, it lumps them right in with people who we know should have been banned. It puts them right there with the people who were sock puppets, get consistency getting voted to the greatest page. It puts them right there with the people that used the bad words directly, instead of trying to be clever. It also means that we look like we either cannot nor will not try to tell the difference. Do we really need the equivalent of "hands up, don't shoot?"

If this is allowed to stand, you will enable the crazies, especially as there are many who will gladly use trickery.

aikoaiko

(34,213 posts)
970. 1000 replies within 12 hours -- almost.
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:04 PM
Jun 2015

NYC-SKP, I hope you get the chance to return.

Good hide; Bad ban.

Response to cyberswede (Original post)

polly7

(20,582 posts)
979. Joe
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:31 PM
Jun 2015

I'm with you.

NYC_SKP added much to this site. It saddens me to see that his years of participation and contribution mean zilch in the face of one stupid mistake that I know he'd apologize for, given the chance. Makes me wonder if anyone here means a damn thing.

Hekate

(100,131 posts)
984. Going for 1,000. The topics really hit a nerve here, but it was not "just one post"....
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 10:42 PM
Jun 2015

People, people, people. NYC_SKP jumped the shark. He went around the bend. Jumped the couch. Leaped off a cliff. Foamed at the mouth.

It wasn't just the one post, it was a whole pattern of posting about a legitimate Democratic presidential candidate. SKP became consumed with hatred. There was no discussion to be had: the hatred was that bad.

I'm not rejoicing -- I'm kinda sad, because I used to have pleasant interactions with him from time to time. And then he changed.

The Admins have to do what they have to do, and they've waited a very long time, imo. DU, especially GD, has become toxic. I support any efforts at not allowing DU to become Discussionist or FR/Left.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
1007. This is going to be an awesome place to post
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 02:22 AM
Jun 2015

When we all absolutely agree with each other.

I mean who wouldn't want to actually have a discussion on a discussion board where everyone agreed with each other 100%?

akbacchus_BC

(5,827 posts)
991. Oh no, not NYC, he is a good person!
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:48 PM
Jun 2015

I hope he gets back sooner than later. If DU keeps banning important members, have no idea where this site is going.

That is so sad that NYC has been banned.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
1045. Oh, you want to go there? Ok. Oh, and you cropped out the best part.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 03:53 PM
Jun 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12628795#post9

It'd be nice to compare both lists.

Thanks for keeping that screenshot, by the way. It's not creepy or stalkerish in the least.
 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
1046. The exchange was hilarious.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 03:58 PM
Jun 2015

You can call it what you want, but it's funnier than shit.

I sure as shit don't stalk you, and you know it.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
1003. Congratulations Prism!
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 01:29 AM
Jun 2015

1000th post in the thread.

As your prize you win a copy of the home version of Democratic Underground.

It's an entertaining game in which you misinterpret what other players say, berate them for what you think they said, throw the game out claiming the rules suck, then blame it all on someone other than yourself!

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
1004. This sounds suspiciously like the office version!
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 01:36 AM
Jun 2015

I would just like to thank my family and innate love of ridiculous drama for making all of this possible.

For all the kids out there, I just want to let you know - if you slack off hard enough, you too can spend your life making a difference to absolutely no one at all by participating megathreads of your own that will be referenced long after you are gone from this cyber-earth.

While this is no Clue Home VHS boxed set, I will take it!

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
1005. It's almost exactly the same!
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 01:39 AM
Jun 2015

Your acceptance speech will go viral. It's truly something. Truly.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
1001. 10001 post!
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 01:16 AM
Jun 2015

If I've learned anything here it's that a lot of people really enjoy arguing on the internet!

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
1021. I'm sure I've disagreed with him a time or two
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 07:21 AM
Jun 2015

But the ban was beyond what was needed. I hope he can come back.

Sanity Claws

(22,323 posts)
1026. I have nothing to contribute to this thread
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:21 AM
Jun 2015

but wanted to increase the response count.

This thread could end up beating the kudzu thread.

 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
1030. What's to stop a banned member from cleaning their cookies and
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:50 AM
Jun 2015

re-enter DU under a new user name?

steve2470

(37,481 posts)
1070. nothing, but if he's banned by IP address, he has to get a lot more inventive than that nt
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 07:06 PM
Jun 2015

lpbk2713

(43,243 posts)
1040. To be honest ...
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:47 AM
Jun 2015




I have nothing to add. There probably is not much that hasn't neen said at this point.

I just wanted to be part of a soon to be legendary GD post.

LostOne4Ever

(9,732 posts)
1044. I am sorry but He should have been banned after these posts:
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 03:03 PM
Jun 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6062598

Add them to the three innocents who died on Wednesday


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6066386

Innocent of what?


Be specific.

Some of the victims of these murders had done nothing to offend anyone, others were engaged in a campaign of satirical attacks against extremism, and others were just doing their jobs.

In some ways, all were innocent.

Indeed, all were innocent of any acts deserving of murder.

All twelve were innocent of acts deserving murder and mayhem.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6066163

"little defenders"?

Wow Sid.

I'm sorry that you want to jump on the ugly thought police bandwagon that insists that I call the cartoonists "innocent".

I don't mind so much, but to try to belittle anyone who might speak in defense of such comments is pretty disappointing and unnecessary.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6067368

Wow. I guess you haven't been reading many replies, bettyellen.

And what possesses you to make such remarks?

I'm not ashamed at all, in fact I left many of my remarks open because I want others to feel free to express themselves about things and not feel bullied and stalked.

If you would bother to check, you'd see that I left my first reply open in every case because the rest in the subthread were just petty bickering with no substance.

I want people to feel able to express themselves without thinking they are the only ones who felt that maybe Hedbo cartoons were RUDE and MEAN.

And sometimes rude and mean cartoons backfire on the publishers..

I'm still sad for the three innocent victims who were doing nothing whatsover to provoke a terrorist attack yet lost their lives.

I hope this day is a terrific day for you, bettyellen.

Me, I'm hoping for another great sunset tonight out my living room window like I had last night.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018710005


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6068900

I was attacked for "perceived" victim blaming, people offended by "three innocent victims".

Contextually, the statement was fair, it was something like:

"I am particularly saddened by the deaths of the three innocent victims who had no involvement"

And then a bunch of people swarmed me with "what about the other nine", challenging me to include them among the innocent.

It didn't matter that I qualified my statement and said that "all 12 were innocent of any acts deserving of death", but that wasn't enough.

I'm supposed to change my mind and say that people who chose to publish insulting vulgar cartoons were every bit as innocent as a person who was in the wrong place at the wrong time, ha.

No, that's never going to happen because it would be a LIE.

The nine CHOSE to engage in that battle of words, that use of satire and rhetoric toward those targets, and there was a certain amount of assumed risk.

Not so with the three very innocent victims.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6068986

No, not blaming the victims. They assumed risk, but they did not deserve to die.

Don't try to reason your way around it, and seriously don't put words in my mouth.

They knew there was risk, they chose to take that risk, they died martyrs to their beliefs, they were victims.

Their life choices contributed to their increased risk and they suffered for those choices.

You want to make it a binary black white question, that's safe for you, it doesn't require thinking or describing nuance or making a particularly well described defense.

It's intellectually lazy.

The three bystanders were by far more innocent of acts that led to the killings than the publishers, the targets of the attacks.

It's OK, we can disagree, but one of us (me) is not going to stoop to using insults like "depraved".

You can have that questionable honor.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6069890

Three of the victims were 100% innocent, that is true.

Do you really think I'm going to change my mind.

The others are innocent, too, but they have to own some of the responsibility.

How can they not?

The nine and the three, they are not equally innocent no matter how you try to spin it.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=178108

They should have known, that hasn't changed.

Everyone has been so busy changing their avatars and jumping on the "Look at me, Je suis Charlie" bandwagon, that the group of political artists is somehow given a pass.

You know what? They can be both heroes and arrogant and careless, those three attributes often come together.

Were the three bystanders less deserving of death? No, I never suggested that. But they were innocent, and they had not a thing to do with what allegedly provoked the attack.

I'll give you this, if it was a false flag attack, and had nothing to do with the cartoons, then Hebdo can be said to be more like the bystanders.

They should have known that something might happen, and maybe something did or maybe something different did, but they even admitted that they lived and worked in danger.

Jamastiene

(38,206 posts)
1048. Not to mention his nasty OP after Sandy Hook.
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 03:33 AM
Jun 2015

That was beyond just insensitive. It was horrible.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
1068. None of his defenders will even attempt to address the facts of those Hebdo or Sandy Hook posts
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 04:26 PM
Jun 2015

Not to mention the simple hypocrisy of calling for extensions of free speech mercy for a person who posted this about people murdered for their speech:
"I'm supposed to change my mind and say that people who chose to publish insulting vulgar cartoons were every bit as innocent as a person who was in the wrong place at the wrong time, ha.

No, that's never going to happen because it would be a LIE.

The nine CHOSE to engage in that battle of words, that use of satire and rhetoric toward those targets, and there was a certain amount of assumed risk."


Vile. And his post was insulting and vulgar toward women, he chose to engage in a battle of words and there was a certain amount of well known risk in the TOS.

But none of his defenders will address any of this. They won't even admit they know all of this. They are cowards.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
1074. What a pantload
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 09:04 PM
Jun 2015

Not as thing wrong with those posts. You have to intentionally try to twist his intent to get anything even remotely malicious out of those posts.

And not a single one of them violates the TOS. They may make you uncomfortable but gladly your opinion of what is ok and what is not has no bearing whatsoever on what actually is.

-none

(1,884 posts)
1075. I read your whole post and
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 10:44 PM
Jun 2015

I failed to see anything wrong, that you referenced, in what NYC_SKP posted.

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