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riqster

(13,986 posts)
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:05 AM Jun 2015

A word about Handicapped Placards...

My handicap placard is because of my coronary insufficiencies, but those are of course largely invisible. However, if I over-exert, I will drop dead in my tracks. That is a pretty serious health issue. (My ICD will be implanted as soon as the insurer pulls its institutional thumb out).

And do I get looks? Oh fuck yeah, I get looks. People think they can fucking diagnose persons with physical limitations just by looking at us. Arrogant assholes...even qualified medical practitioners can't do an eyeball scan and see my cardiovascular issues. But far too many laypeople think they can do such an analysis. Fucking ridiculous.

When you see someone with such a placard, remember how little we can tell about a stranger's health via a glance.

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A word about Handicapped Placards... (Original Post) riqster Jun 2015 OP
My husband's is because of COPD and bad knees stage left Jun 2015 #1
I hear ya. riqster Jun 2015 #5
There are plenty of invisible ailments, so I don't giare at anyone with a permit. Nye Bevan Jun 2015 #2
As do I. riqster Jun 2015 #3
Another word: Disabled KamaAina Jun 2015 #4
I prefer "handicapped", myself. Each to their own. riqster Jun 2015 #6

stage left

(2,962 posts)
1. My husband's is because of COPD and bad knees
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:34 AM
Jun 2015

But he doesn't use oxygen or walk with a cane so it's not obvious.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
5. I hear ya.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 12:38 PM
Jun 2015

I just move kinda slowly.

Then there are the nimrods who see me get out of my car, placard displayed, and then honk, gesture and yell because I am taking to long to cross the parking lot and into the store. Dafuq?

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
2. There are plenty of invisible ailments, so I don't giare at anyone with a permit.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 11:43 AM
Jun 2015

I do, however, give my worst possible stink-eye to those without permits who park in the handicapped spots anyway because they are simply too special to walk an extra 50 feet or so.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
6. I prefer "handicapped", myself. Each to their own.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 12:53 PM
Jun 2015

I can still work, after a fashion and with the required technology. To call myself "disabled" seems an overstatement.

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