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mahina

(17,652 posts)
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 07:44 PM Jun 2015

So, we wage war on other countries for no reason and are suprised when our kids are murderers?

Thank God, the killers are exceptions, and our people are mostly peaceful, of course.

But we hold nobody accountable for sending us to WAR for no reason at all, and somehow expect young people to follow an ethical code that we, as a nation, have not followed?

Nuts.

I have no idea how to stop the killing, and I know we really must. The loss of not just life, but loving, brilliant, gifted, giving lives, is unfathomably huge for us as a people.

Stunning that there have been two more mass shootings since Charleston. Reading the news today, I don't really have a way to process this other than talking with you guys.

Has anyone heard any kind of reconcilation, peace building, healing processes?

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So, we wage war on other countries for no reason and are suprised when our kids are murderers? (Original Post) mahina Jun 2015 OP
This society is pathologically sick. Gun violence is just one symptom of a public KingCharlemagne Jun 2015 #1
Or maybe a small group deliberately MAKES it sick? Betty Karlson Jun 2015 #41
I never really bought a conspiracy theory that we were being dumbed down until recently, mahina Jun 2015 #46
Precisely: a determined resolve to commit a crime doesn't require a vast number of conspirators. Betty Karlson Jun 2015 #48
Roof is not a victim and what he did has nothing to do with iraq JI7 Jun 2015 #2
I never said he was a victim, I don't think he is a victim. That's the farthest thing from my mind. mahina Jun 2015 #3
"somehow expect young people to follow an ethical code that we, as a nation, have not followed" JI7 Jun 2015 #4
I'm not saying he is a victim. Would you like me to restate that? mahina Jun 2015 #5
but you put some of the blame on things like the war in iraq ? JI7 Jun 2015 #7
F u cn rd ths mssge mahina Jun 2015 #9
You will have a far more productive conversation FlatBaroque Jun 2015 #11
No joke! mahina Jun 2015 #12
You were alerted on. U4ikLefty Jun 2015 #16
LOL FlatBaroque Jun 2015 #17
no prob U4ikLefty Jun 2015 #18
How bizzare. mahina Jun 2015 #19
I appreciated your post. mahina Jun 2015 #20
Kids are not born racist. Where do you think he learned it from? davidn3600 Jun 2015 #21
he said why he did what he did and it was because he was a racist like the ones this country had JI7 Jun 2015 #28
He came of age while we were killing innocent brown people as evildoers. morningfog Jun 2015 #22
so why didn't he join the military ? because none of it has anything to do with JI7 Jun 2015 #27
The point is not that the Iraq War was the cause of his hate or his actions. morningfog Jun 2015 #32
innocent black people were being killed in the US long before Iraq, Vietnam etc JI7 Jun 2015 #33
K&R..... daleanime Jun 2015 #6
No candidate except Bernie is prepared to change the paradigm of perpetual war. AtomicKitten Jun 2015 #8
I'm sure Bernie won't get sucked in to another war. mahina Jun 2015 #44
Not setting a good example for sure damnedifIknow Jun 2015 #10
k/r nationalize the fed Jun 2015 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author Corruption Inc Jun 2015 #14
I read you. mahina Jun 2015 #15
Your sentiment is good, but the point isn't bhikkhu Jun 2015 #23
OK, your view is your business, mahina Jun 2015 #25
I think the point is PowerToThePeople Jun 2015 #26
which nation doesn't do that ? most nations have done fucked up things JI7 Jun 2015 #29
No, not really. mahina Jun 2015 #31
haha, internally doesn't count ? how black people are treated by law enforcement doesn't count ? JI7 Jun 2015 #34
Again, I never said that. I said the opposite. mahina Jun 2015 #35
There are a lot of people on this board with whom I don't agree whom I am happy to discuss mahina Jun 2015 #36
so which country ? JI7 Jun 2015 #37
Are you suggesting that invading other countries for no reason is standard and acceptable? mahina Jun 2015 #38
if you want to teach why not tell me a nation of the country(s) ? JI7 Jun 2015 #39
I sadly agree. Violence at home is so apropo to oppose,, but voting for wars is SaranchaIsWaiting Jun 2015 #24
Ive been saying this for days. WDIM Jun 2015 #30
Couldn't agree more, sadly. mahina Jun 2015 #43
Throw in some military-sponsored video-games. Betty Karlson Jun 2015 #40
Exactly. mahina Jun 2015 #42
Let's walk together then. Betty Karlson Jun 2015 #45
I'm in mahina Jun 2015 #47
It's just some "folks" killing some "folks". As long as it isn't our "folks" it's all good. L0oniX Jun 2015 #49
No! That's different! nt Romulox Jun 2015 #50
I have a feeling that Roof would still have been a murderous racist regardless of our Iraq policy. Nye Bevan Jun 2015 #51
I guess we'll have to cancel the subversion plot, then pinboy3niner Jun 2015 #52
 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
1. This society is pathologically sick. Gun violence is just one symptom of a public
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 07:52 PM
Jun 2015

health epidemic, in my opinion.

This society doesn't have the slightest interest in healing or reconciliation. If it had, 1 in 5 children would not experience hunger at least once per month.

This society is pathologically sick.

 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
41. Or maybe a small group deliberately MAKES it sick?
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 03:23 AM
Jun 2015

Sick people are easily manipulated. That's why torure was invented: to make people feel sick and weak and distressed.

You may call it an epidemic, but I'm starting to contemplate the use of two other words: criminal neglect.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
46. I never really bought a conspiracy theory that we were being dumbed down until recently,
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 07:35 AM
Jun 2015

but it's looking that way to me these days. Not all parties, just that there has been a coordinated and committeed force determined to do so. They persuaded enough people not to spend 'their' taxes on education, and undermined unions.

We'll have to get ourselves out of it.

 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
48. Precisely: a determined resolve to commit a crime doesn't require a vast number of conspirators.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 11:04 AM
Jun 2015

Just a vast amount of money to mislead those not involved in the conspiracy.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
3. I never said he was a victim, I don't think he is a victim. That's the farthest thing from my mind.
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 07:57 PM
Jun 2015

Wherever you got that idea, I suggest you put it right back there.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
4. "somehow expect young people to follow an ethical code that we, as a nation, have not followed"
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 08:00 PM
Jun 2015

which you think is nuts

mahina

(17,652 posts)
5. I'm not saying he is a victim. Would you like me to restate that?
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 08:03 PM
Jun 2015

I never said, and don't think, that the man is a victim.

Good heavens.

Go look for perceived slights from passing motorists or something. I'm not interested.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
9. F u cn rd ths mssge
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 08:11 PM
Jun 2015

please see posts above.

I am calling attention to an inconsistency.

Who was it who said, "I'm not saying you don't know what you're talking about, but I don't know what you're talking about"?

Again, I do not think that Dylan Roof is a victim. Whatever joy you get from looking for someone to bash, look elsewhere.

Don't know how we've both been here so long and I've never had the pleasure of your acquaintance.

Charmed I'm sure.

Ta.

U4ikLefty

(4,012 posts)
16. You were alerted on.
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 09:01 PM
Jun 2015

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davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
21. Kids are not born racist. Where do you think he learned it from?
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 10:00 PM
Jun 2015

When this guy was arrested, I saw many people making rape jokes, making homosexual jokes....not on DU, but on other LIBERAL forums. The stuff these so-called progressives were saying was so vile I can't repost it here.

We are a sick society that seems to get off on other people suffering. We raise our kids in this environment of violence, hate, and vengeance. We love war. We love torture. We cheer the death penalty. We have so much hate and division all over society. Racism and hate will continue to propagate down from one generation to another.

Society has to change.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
28. he said why he did what he did and it was because he was a racist like the ones this country had
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 10:44 PM
Jun 2015

for over a 100 years .

JI7

(89,249 posts)
27. so why didn't he join the military ? because none of it has anything to do with
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 10:42 PM
Jun 2015

what he did which is hating black people which certian people have always done . especially in certain areas where they still can't get over the civil war loss.

 

morningfog

(18,115 posts)
32. The point is not that the Iraq War was the cause of his hate or his actions.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 12:22 AM
Jun 2015

The point is that growing up in a culture which devalues the lives of "others" -- read those with darker skin -- contributes to the hate of "the other" in their neighborhood. If one is taught to hate and then sees their country hold a vote to kill a million innocent darker skinned people as a matter of foreign policy, it is a shorter step for that hate-filled person to murder innocent black people here.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
33. innocent black people were being killed in the US long before Iraq, Vietnam etc
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 12:54 AM
Jun 2015

innocent native americans and blacks were being killed before all of that.

in the US white people's hatred of black people is a problem in itself , especially in certain parts of the country which still longs for certain days gone by .

 

AtomicKitten

(46,585 posts)
8. No candidate except Bernie is prepared to change the paradigm of perpetual war.
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 08:07 PM
Jun 2015

We are stealing the lives of children in the ME, literally and figuratively.

Also by failing to prosecute the perpetrators of torture, we have failed to reinforce the fact that torture is illegal as well as immoral. Now half the nation think the brutality is okay.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
44. I'm sure Bernie won't get sucked in to another war.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 03:59 AM
Jun 2015

With the Bush/Walker/Paul/Christie/Santorum?clown car, it's just a countdown to the next war. As if these will ever end. As if two or three or four wars or however many we're even fighting now is not enough.

damnedifIknow

(3,183 posts)
10. Not setting a good example for sure
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 08:12 PM
Jun 2015

A majority of Americans think that the harsh interrogation techniques used on terrorism suspects after the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks were justified, even as about half of the public says the treatment amounted to torture"

In general, 58 percent say the torture of suspected terrorists can be justified “often” or “sometimes.”

http://www.washingtonpost.com/world/national-security/new-poll-finds-majority-of-americans-believe-torture-justified-after-911-attacks/2014/12/16/f6ee1208-847c-11e4-9534-f79a23c40e6c_story.html

Response to mahina (Original post)

bhikkhu

(10,715 posts)
23. Your sentiment is good, but the point isn't
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 10:09 PM
Jun 2015

A kid rotten with racist hate kills people...has nothing to do with Iraq, nothing to do with "war on christianity", or anyone else's pet projects. I think the act speaks for itself, and turning it into things it isn't is one way we render our responses ineffective and beside the real point.

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
26. I think the point is
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 10:16 PM
Jun 2015

that we, as a nation, justify murder for whatever fucking reason we want, valid or not. It is applauded my much of the population. This mindset permeates the national mindset in many facets. It could very well be a factor in why this individual thought he was justified in his actions.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
31. No, not really.
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 11:44 PM
Jun 2015

Chile under Pinochet, the Congo under King Leopold, China under Mao, internally, but mostly, no, most nations don't.

If we love this country, we need to hold our leaders to the ideals we stand for. Can't really see the sense in your post. s.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
34. haha, internally doesn't count ? how black people are treated by law enforcement doesn't count ?
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 12:55 AM
Jun 2015

i'm asking you which country sets a good example for it's citizens which in turn means their citizens don't harm others ?

mahina

(17,652 posts)
35. Again, I never said that. I said the opposite.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 01:55 AM
Jun 2015

To your question, which you stated here for the first time, I'd encourage you to dust off your history books.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
36. There are a lot of people on this board with whom I don't agree whom I am happy to discuss
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 01:57 AM
Jun 2015

matters with. We learn from each other and determine not who is right, but what is right. You know- disagreeing without being disagreeable. Civil discourse.

And then there's you.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
38. Are you suggesting that invading other countries for no reason is standard and acceptable?
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 02:03 AM
Jun 2015

I am not interested in teaching you world history.

You are tiresome and irritating and I am not going to learn anything from you, no matter how long we communicate.

 

SaranchaIsWaiting

(247 posts)
24. I sadly agree. Violence at home is so apropo to oppose,, but voting for wars is
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 10:12 PM
Jun 2015

okie dokie.

I can't accept that.

WDIM

(1,662 posts)
30. Ive been saying this for days.
Sun Jun 21, 2015, 10:57 PM
Jun 2015

Now is the time to address all violence in our society especially the violence perpetrated by our own government. It is complete hypocrisy for our president to speak about innocent victims when innocent victims are killed everyday by bombs made in the US.

I even did a post to try to start dialogue about this and it went completely ignored. http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026871674

mahina

(17,652 posts)
43. Couldn't agree more, sadly.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 03:47 AM
Jun 2015

Not completely ignored

Consider yourself blessed not to have gotten into a battle of the electrons with a bonehead!



 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
40. Throw in some military-sponsored video-games.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 03:19 AM
Jun 2015

We deliberately allow our children to be condition into callosity, and we tell them that moral decisions are easy: there is a bad man - and he is always darker-skinned than you - and you must fight him, and fight the men and women around him.

When Fox tried to undermine (then) senator Obama's first campaign for the presidency, they increased the darkness of his skin in the pictures they used...

And our school system(s) all seem to train for compliance, not critical thinking or creative thinking even. Live in the problem not in the solution.

 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
45. Let's walk together then.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 04:03 AM
Jun 2015

If we can't find a path, a group can pave the way just by walking.

I think some of the candidates have suggested as much.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
49. It's just some "folks" killing some "folks". As long as it isn't our "folks" it's all good.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 11:19 AM
Jun 2015

This country thrives off of war. Bomb and missile makers can send their kids to college because of war. It's a jobs thing. We've made it normal and comfortable to have war. We don't see our "folks" bloodied and coming home in caskets. At least we do see how our vets get treated afterwards. People who think war has a minimal affect on our society should look at the militarized pigs shooting unarmed people. IMO you can't have a country perpetually at war and not have it affect attitudes on killing. Demonizing the enemy is standard psych in the military so no wonder "folks" are also demonized for their race back home. There's just too many connections between war and its affect here at home to deny it has an real affect on what can cause murder.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
51. I have a feeling that Roof would still have been a murderous racist regardless of our Iraq policy.
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 11:27 AM
Jun 2015

I realize that folks are struggling for explanations but I don't think blaming US foreign policy is really on the mark here.

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