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NotoriousRBG

(44 posts)
Sat Jul 11, 2015, 11:04 AM Jul 2015

Honest Question re: Polygamy

If the government has no business interfering in the lives of two consenting adults, how can anyone here argue that the government does have standing to interfere with three consenting adults?

Madness abounds.

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Honest Question re: Polygamy (Original Post) NotoriousRBG Jul 2015 OP
Missed one, EarlG. NuclearDem Jul 2015 #1
Probably, yes. closeupready Jul 2015 #3
I agree with you. NaturalHigh Jul 2015 #2
Honest? Yeah right. LostOne4Ever Jul 2015 #4
thank you for pointing that out. somehow, not in the least surprising. niyad Jul 2015 #6
Do you have a preference for toppings? cwydro Jul 2015 #5
probably a combo niyad Jul 2015 #7
Oh yes, the Skinner special. cwydro Jul 2015 #8
indeed we have!! niyad Jul 2015 #9
What three or more consenting adults SheilaT Jul 2015 #10
You're not going to get an answer jberryhill Jul 2015 #12
Exactly. uppityperson Jul 2015 #14
Best answer. n/t pnwmom Jul 2015 #16
Honest answer: GeorgeGist Jul 2015 #11
Where are all the droves of brave, brave advocates who were glutting up these threads so recently? Bluenorthwest Jul 2015 #13
The issue isn't whether such relationships should be criminalized or interfered with. pnwmom Jul 2015 #15

LostOne4Ever

(9,745 posts)
4. Honest? Yeah right.
Sat Jul 11, 2015, 11:39 AM
Jul 2015

[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]BTW nice being the sole vote for the judge here.

You are totally not a troll [/font]

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
10. What three or more consenting adults
Sat Jul 11, 2015, 11:51 AM
Jul 2015

do in privacy is no business of the government.

But given the legal and financial benefits that accrue married couples (and in some cases divorced people) then the government has a right to make a few rules.

Social Security is one. If there are three, four, ten adults married to each other, and one divorces out of the relationship after they've all been married ten years, do the other two, three, or nine get to collect the spousal benefit at retirement? Or a man has six wives, dies, do they all get the widow's benefit?

How about pensions? Right now most people, when they go to collect a pension, can choose a lower amount so that a surviving spouse gets a portion of the pension holder dies first. How would that work if you have two or more spouses?

Inheritance. Child support. Probably lots of other things I'm not thinking of.

Divorce itself. Imagine the nightmare of property settlement if more than two consenting adults are involved.

On the other hand, think of how much more employment for lawyers in this field.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
12. You're not going to get an answer
Sat Jul 11, 2015, 12:56 PM
Jul 2015

The people starting these threads don't answer these questions.

Whether shit-stirrers or merely ignorant, they will not distinguish between equal protection under existing laws, and something that requires a paradigmatic redraft of a host of new laws.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
13. Where are all the droves of brave, brave advocates who were glutting up these threads so recently?
Sat Jul 11, 2015, 01:50 PM
Jul 2015

See how swiftly they dropped the issue they claimed such passions about? Fucking shams.

pnwmom

(110,216 posts)
15. The issue isn't whether such relationships should be criminalized or interfered with.
Sat Jul 11, 2015, 03:02 PM
Jul 2015

The question is whether they should be given the legal status of a marriage -- whether the law must be changed to accommodate marriages of more than two -- and, if so, how many more, and how that would work, and what the effects would be on society.
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