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Little Star

(17,055 posts)
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:13 PM May 2012

How do you guys feel about assisted suicide?

Los Angeles Times
By Tony Perry
May 16, 2012


SAN MARCOS, Calif. —When paramedics arrived at the Purdy home March 20, Margaret was seated in her favorite chair in the living room. The morning sunshine streamed in through a picture window that overlooked a valley. A plastic bag was over her head, tied securely at the neck.

A suicide note in her handwriting was in a folder on her desk, beneath a shelf with books about death and dying. She had written that the pain from her various medical conditions had become unbearable.

Alan Purdy met the paramedics at the door. He said that his 84-year-old wife had taken 30 sleeping pills mixed with applesauce and then suffocated herself.

Please hurry, he recalled telling them. She had donated her body to UC San Diego Medical Center, he said, and they need to harvest her organs for transplant as soon as possible.

Sheriff's deputies showed up and took him to the backyard patio, away from his wife's body. Purdy, 88, shivered in the cold, still urging them to hurry.


http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-assisted-suicide-20120516,0,7106709.story
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How do you guys feel about assisted suicide? (Original Post) Little Star May 2012 OP
I support legalizing assisted suicide. nt ZombieHorde May 2012 #1
Me too. Little Star May 2012 #6
Totally agree cbayer May 2012 #12
I do too. lunatica May 2012 #38
Me too. But there needs to be safeguards in place so that people with disabilities applegrove May 2012 #49
saves money, saves suffering... ileus May 2012 #2
Any person of sound mind should have the right hifiguy May 2012 #3
I support it JitterbugPerfume May 2012 #4
I kinda like the way Dr Death did it. Make it simple and make it sure the person is in so much southernyankeebelle May 2012 #8
I agree. I certainly would like the option of having someone (a doctor) give me the same injection Booster May 2012 #9
I support it, if someone desiring to end their life has put that in writing. sinkingfeeling May 2012 #5
I believe in physician assisted suicide with appropriate precautions and review if necessary hlthe2b May 2012 #7
I agree. RebelOne May 2012 #23
I'm proud to live in Oregon, the first state that legalized it. Arugula Latte May 2012 #10
I'm in favor. MrSlayer May 2012 #11
I can think of people whom I would volunteer to assist Jackpine Radical May 2012 #13
I'm all for it. Ganja Ninja May 2012 #14
All for it Marrah_G May 2012 #15
Don't know why you ask about assisted when this one apparently wasn't. Lionessa May 2012 #16
Depends, I guess, on your definition of "assisted." lapislzi May 2012 #19
OIC your point. Yep it certainly could mean, "did nothing to stop her" Thanks. Lionessa May 2012 #31
For it. Iggo May 2012 #17
I like the way it is set up in Oregon. MuseRider May 2012 #18
Better than taking on a train or 18 wheeler. Downwinder May 2012 #20
Fully support legalizing assisted suicide. n/t cynatnite May 2012 #21
If i'm in irresistible pain when I grow old Marzupialis May 2012 #22
I believe that we are the owners of ourselves. MineralMan May 2012 #24
100% in favor of assisted suicide rustydog May 2012 #25
Extremely ambivalent. Suicide CAN be and sometimes IS a rational decision. More often it is not. slackmaster May 2012 #26
I don't think that's what this discussion is about. lapislzi May 2012 #30
People who have mental illnesses sometimes decide incorrectly that they are incurably ill slackmaster May 2012 #37
Agreed. Borderline is a very difficult condition to treat lapislzi May 2012 #48
Thank you for your kind words slackmaster May 2012 #53
Sad story. lapislzi May 2012 #55
It should be an option? Are_grits_groceries May 2012 #27
It should be legal. ProfessionalLeftist May 2012 #28
Kevorkian had it right, Doctors should do it for you and it shouldn't cost you a dime. jp11 May 2012 #29
I have a lot of respect for Kevorkian. We should have option to die with dignity with MD supervision Hoyt May 2012 #36
all for it frylock May 2012 #32
I support assisted suicide. tallahasseedem May 2012 #33
Are we talking about Democrats? Or Republicans? AnotherMcIntosh May 2012 #34
I support death with dignity laws. MerryBlooms May 2012 #35
I support it without reservation. n/t CaliforniaPeggy May 2012 #39
As long as you clean up after yourself - go for it. kenny blankenship May 2012 #40
I think it should be allowed like in Oregon. I believe Norway or Denmark has an assisted shraby May 2012 #41
I support it (nt) bigwillq May 2012 #42
I think in this sort of situation - TBF May 2012 #43
I'm pro-choice on this matter. JNelson6563 May 2012 #44
no thanks, im good arely staircase May 2012 #45
It is another kind of choice felix_numinous May 2012 #46
It is not assisted suicide - it's death with dignity and that's an important distinction. SmileyRose May 2012 #47
I completely support death with dignity w8liftinglady May 2012 #50
I Support it, but fascisthunter May 2012 #51
100% support it LadyHawkAZ May 2012 #52
Not to sound camusian, it is a rational choice. aikoaiko May 2012 #54
Death With Dignity is a legal option in Oregon. Anyone who wants to know how it 'would' work Bluenorthwest May 2012 #56

applegrove

(118,622 posts)
49. Me too. But there needs to be safeguards in place so that people with disabilities
Thu May 17, 2012, 08:59 PM
May 2012

are not forced into the situation. I think as the baby boomers age, it will become legal.

ileus

(15,396 posts)
2. saves money, saves suffering...
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:20 PM
May 2012


A third component would be saving resources...


I don't see a problem here IMHO
 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
8. I kinda like the way Dr Death did it. Make it simple and make it sure the person is in so much
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:28 PM
May 2012

pain that life is not worth living that way. Then and only then I agree with it.

Booster

(10,021 posts)
9. I agree. I certainly would like the option of having someone (a doctor) give me the same injection
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:31 PM
May 2012

that vets have given my pets over the years. However, just like the "stand your ground" law I can see the potential danger in having such a law. I don't doubt this man's story, but it's obvious that his wife's death could have easily been set up to look like a suicide when, in reality, in was a murder. There would have to be a lot of restrictions, such as "only in the presence of a licensed doctor", etc. I believe Oregon has such a law so I would be interested in hearing from anyone from that state on how well it's going, problems, etc.

hlthe2b

(102,228 posts)
7. I believe in physician assisted suicide with appropriate precautions and review if necessary
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:27 PM
May 2012

Just as we allow/encourage veterinarians to help loving pet owners to know when quality of life has so declined and suffering intense and to end it in a kind, compassionate painless manner.

There is no way in the world I would convict someone like this man for his final act of love. I'd also like to see the law that requires one to intervene as someone consciously acts to end their own suffering-- talk about slippery slopes. That may be an ethical issue, but surely not a legal argument.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
23. I agree.
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:38 PM
May 2012

When I had to have my beloved Rottweiler put down, the vet said that this should also be allowed for humans to put them out of their suffering. A couple of shots and they go quietly and painlessly.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
10. I'm proud to live in Oregon, the first state that legalized it.
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:32 PM
May 2012

It gives me peace of mind to know it's there if I ever need it.

Ganja Ninja

(15,953 posts)
14. I'm all for it.
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:49 PM
May 2012

I always thought Jack Kevorkian was right on. It should simply be considered another phase of medical treatment.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
16. Don't know why you ask about assisted when this one apparently wasn't.
Thu May 17, 2012, 02:56 PM
May 2012

Suicide should be the right of everyone. It's is our life and we should be able to end it at our choosing if something else doesn't take us first regardless of old age or infirmity.

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
19. Depends, I guess, on your definition of "assisted."
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:03 PM
May 2012

It appears to be relatively elastic in the eyes of the law. It would seem that "assisting" means "I did nothing to stop her."

I disagree strongly with this definition.

I agree strongly that individuals have the right to make their own end of life choices, in consultation with their doctors, family, and whoever else they see fit.

If this man is prosecuted, it will be a travesty.

MuseRider

(34,105 posts)
18. I like the way it is set up in Oregon.
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:02 PM
May 2012

There is a documentary about it and I simply can't remember the name right now. It was sad to watch but exactly what I wish I had on hand for the time that things become unbearable. There is so much leeway for the patient and their family. It is respectful and easy and I can't think of a kinder way for people to go than under their own power when things are just too much to take anymore.

 

Marzupialis

(398 posts)
22. If i'm in irresistible pain when I grow old
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:37 PM
May 2012

And it's irreversible, I would like to use this method. I support it.

MineralMan

(146,287 posts)
24. I believe that we are the owners of ourselves.
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:38 PM
May 2012

Absolutely. As such, we should be free to control our own destinies in that regard.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
26. Extremely ambivalent. Suicide CAN be and sometimes IS a rational decision. More often it is not.
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:42 PM
May 2012

I've known a few people who decided to end it all when it became clear that their quality of life was poor and sure to get worse.

Most suicide victims I have known are just that - Victims of depression itself or depression as a symptom of a deeper psychological disorder. The most recent suicide loss in my life was a woman, age 54, who was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder during an involuntary commitment. She had been misdiagnosed as bipolar or obsessive-compulsive several times over the last 25 years or so, and never given proper treatment. She never saw a psychiatrist until she was locked up.

For example, a family practitioner put her on Zoloft one time back in the mid 1990s. It did no good whatsoever. Borderline is best treated with intense, specialized psychotherapy over several months at a minimum. My friend gave up before she could get to the right kind of doctor. He death was IMO needless. With proper treatment she could have had at least 20 years of good life.

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
30. I don't think that's what this discussion is about.
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:56 PM
May 2012

I agree that treatable mental illness should be...treated.

But in cases of incurable disease, constant pain, and/or diminished cognitive functioning without hope for improvement, why should a person not be able to say "enough is enough?"

I would like the option of making that decision while I still have my faculties and I would like to go out before my quality of life and that of my family is so diminished that we are ruined people.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
37. People who have mental illnesses sometimes decide incorrectly that they are incurably ill
Thu May 17, 2012, 05:45 PM
May 2012

That's basically what happened to my friend. She had a (IMO) wildly exaggerated, distorted perception of the general course her health was taking. I believe her depression, and underlying personality disorder, led her to conclude that she was going downhill MUCH faster than she actually was in the normal course of aging. I do not believe she made a properly informed and rational decision to end her life.

If we are to have legally sanctioned assisted suicide, I would want some kind of safeguard to ensure that the person making the decision to end his or her life IS OF SOUND MIND.

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
48. Agreed. Borderline is a very difficult condition to treat
Thu May 17, 2012, 07:58 PM
May 2012

Her clinicians should have been aware of the elevated suicide risk with this diagnosis. 10% succeed in killing themselves. I would imagine that were she in consultation with a medical professional, family, friends, clergy, whatever...this would not have occurred.

No good doctor should sign off on the suicide of a person in otherwise good physical health, who can be treated for a mental disorder. Even if your friend had medical conditions, they may have been treatable and enabled her to enjoy a decent quality of life for at least a few more years.

I am sorry for your loss.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
53. Thank you for your kind words
Fri May 18, 2012, 09:03 AM
May 2012

I think my friend was several years beyond any possibility of being helped.

One of the biggest problems with treating a major mental disorder is that except under extraordinary circumstances in which a person can be compelled by a court of law to get treatment, the patient always has the right to refuse to be treated.

I know that my friend had developed a very negative attitude about psychiatric medications. I have no doubt that during her stay at the county mental hospital she at the very least put up a great deal of resistance to taking any pills. She was given a prescription for some kind of antidepressant, which she didn't take; and an appointment with a specialty psychiatric clinic, which she blew off.

Another sad aspect of the situation is that she bought the gun with which she shot herself, just 10 days BEFORE her involuntary commitment. She picked it up after California's mandatory 10-day wait on the day that police were called because an alert friend saw that she was setting things up for her death, including an obvious suicide note. The police who picked her up didn't find the weapon, neither did the people who searched through her personal belongings (for drugs or weapons) while she was locked up. We survivors believe it was probably hidden in the trunk of her car, where nobody thought to search.

Had she attempted to buy the gun after being released from the hospital, she could not have legally acquired it. But I am sure that in the long run she would have found a way to end her life even without it.

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
55. Sad story.
Fri May 18, 2012, 09:57 AM
May 2012

Sounds like she was determined to die, which suggests a co-morbidity with depression. Not uncommon in borderlines. Borderlines will often theatrically attempt suicide, and kill themselves by accident. But it is very, very difficult, even for professionals, to unravel the tightly wound threads of mental illnesses.

Obvious suicide note: typical borderline.
Purchasing and hiding the gun: deep depression. Possible bipolar/rapid cycling?

SSRIs will help depression and are useful in treating bipolar, in conjunction with other drugs, but they need to be given time to work. I wish for your friend's sake that this could have been undertaken in a safe clinical environment.

I'm no doctor. It's not for me to second guess the professionals...but it sounds like your friend was able to slip through the safety net by accident and design.

That is sad.

Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
27. It should be an option?
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:45 PM
May 2012

The thought of ALS or Huntington's would give me great pause. Dementia would too. In addition, there are other circumstances that would probably bring it up.

After I read Johnny Got His Gun by Dalton Trumbo I had nightmares.



ProfessionalLeftist

(4,982 posts)
28. It should be legal.
Thu May 17, 2012, 03:45 PM
May 2012

People need to be able to die with dignity and without suffering if they choose. We have the ethics to put our animals down to prevent suffering. Humans should have the same options for themselves.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
36. I have a lot of respect for Kevorkian. We should have option to die with dignity with MD supervision
Thu May 17, 2012, 05:26 PM
May 2012

shraby

(21,946 posts)
41. I think it should be allowed like in Oregon. I believe Norway or Denmark has an assisted
Thu May 17, 2012, 06:30 PM
May 2012

suicide policy also. Has for years. There are safeguards in the form of psychiatric evaluation, doctors evaluation and one has to be of sound mind and able to make a decision like that independently.
There aren't as many in Oregon as was warned there would be, in fact the number is rather small considering the numbers of diseases with horrid pain associated with them.

TBF

(32,050 posts)
43. I think in this sort of situation -
Thu May 17, 2012, 06:34 PM
May 2012

if it has been put in writing and there is at least one doctor attending and we have an appropriate regulating board I would be ok with it. Why would we sentence people to live in unbearable pain?

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
44. I'm pro-choice on this matter.
Thu May 17, 2012, 06:49 PM
May 2012

People shouldn't be forced to live out the final agony of some horrible situation. That's simply inhumane.

Julie

felix_numinous

(5,198 posts)
46. It is another kind of choice
Thu May 17, 2012, 07:42 PM
May 2012

and I support it. Ideally done with physician supervision, but if it is clear that someone was in great pain and did it on their own or with help, then absolutely. We do this for our beloved animal companions, so the same option should be available to us.

I think euthanasia is a better word IMHO, it is a type of suicide but describes death as a relief from great pain or terminal condition.

SmileyRose

(4,854 posts)
47. It is not assisted suicide - it's death with dignity and that's an important distinction.
Thu May 17, 2012, 07:53 PM
May 2012

Too often the medical community prolongs our death, not our life. I've seen it up close and personal.

It is pure insanity that a doctor is legally permitted to force the indignities of extreme medical intervention upon a person who is dying, but can wound up in jail if they supply the tools to the same person so they can end their own suffering in some sort of dignified way.

w8liftinglady

(23,278 posts)
50. I completely support death with dignity
Thu May 17, 2012, 09:04 PM
May 2012

I've seen a lot of patients come and go.The ones who I remember dying at peace,in comfort,with familiar surroundings,had a good impact on their survivors.I think "Assisted Suicide" is a misnomer.It applies a negative aspect to the assistance of the normal course of events.

 

fascisthunter

(29,381 posts)
51. I Support it, but
Thu May 17, 2012, 09:07 PM
May 2012

In Florida all ya need to do is walk into a neighborhood where an armed drugged out paranoid lives.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
56. Death With Dignity is a legal option in Oregon. Anyone who wants to know how it 'would' work
Fri May 18, 2012, 10:21 AM
May 2012

can look to Oregon to see how it does work, right now. At the link you can find stats of all kinds breaking down the cases (500+) that have made use of the law since it's inception.
http://public.health.oregon.gov/ProviderPartnerResources/EvaluationResearch/DeathwithDignityAct/Pages/index.aspx

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