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grasswire

(50,130 posts)
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:22 PM May 2012

Why the blackout on Mrs. Zimmerman?

George's brother has come forward, his father has come forward, a couple of friends and neighbors have come forward to attest to his character and his state of mind.

Where's Mrs. Zimmerman? Why is she being shielded or hidden? Does she not want to speak in George's favor in the court of public opinion?

From day one, she's been hidden or is hiding.

What's that about?

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Why the blackout on Mrs. Zimmerman? (Original Post) grasswire May 2012 OP
Post removed Post removed May 2012 #1
Maybe she wants no part of the press. I wouldn't. virgogal May 2012 #2
Her son is in trouble...not her. jaysunb May 2012 #3
are you talking about the wife or mother ? JI7 May 2012 #4
I don't feel the need to hear from her. She didn't ask for any of this shit, her son forced it on cherokeeprogressive May 2012 #5
Spousal or marital privileges. I'm assuming you mean his wife. JDPriestly May 2012 #6
Thats actually an interesting point because if it was me, my mother would be a fucking lioness Quixote1818 May 2012 #7
Me Klukie May 2012 #12
Why do you believe we NEED to hear from Zimmerman's mother? Ken Burch May 2012 #8
I was talking about the George's wife. n/t grasswire May 2012 #14
Oh...sorry, that wasn't clear. Ken Burch May 2012 #18
I didn't expect that this was such a difficult question to communicate. grasswire May 2012 #19
The implication being? TBF May 2012 #9
Gladys Zimmerman (mother),... -..__... May 2012 #10
I thought you meant his wife, everyone seems to think it's the mother Raine May 2012 #11
yep, you are right. grasswire May 2012 #15
I remember one statement... Cave_Johnson May 2012 #13
Why do you care whether she's "hidden" or "hiding"? She's not accused of anything, is she? n/t. apocalypsehow May 2012 #16
I think I read some statement by his wife. Skip Intro May 2012 #17
It has nothing to do with her. MrSlayer May 2012 #20
I think its a good idea that she is hidden. Lilyeye May 2012 #21
That could change quickly meanit May 2012 #22

Response to grasswire (Original post)

jaysunb

(11,856 posts)
3. Her son is in trouble...not her.
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:31 PM
May 2012

It's not the responsibility of the parents of adult children to share their shame or punishment....that will happened, but it'll be highly personal and in private.

On edit: As a matter of fact, my heart goes out to her as much as Trayvons parents. This is a nightmare for ALL concerned.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
5. I don't feel the need to hear from her. She didn't ask for any of this shit, her son forced it on
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:32 PM
May 2012

her.

As far as I'm concerned she's more than welcome to stay quiet and out of the picture. More power to her.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
6. Spousal or marital privileges. I'm assuming you mean his wife.
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:34 PM
May 2012

She probably knows a lot more than anyone else, and his lawyers don't want her to testify. It's just a guess, but she may have been warned not to spoil her right not to testify against her husband.

I'm assuming that Florida recognizes such a right. I don't really know. This is just my guess.

Quixote1818

(28,930 posts)
7. Thats actually an interesting point because if it was me, my mother would be a fucking lioness
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:36 PM
May 2012


fighting for me. What mother wouldn't be?

Klukie

(2,237 posts)
12. Me
Sun May 20, 2012, 08:06 PM
May 2012

This may be harsh, but I will not stand up for my children if they do wrong...I will stand beside them but I refuse to enable the behavior by defending the indefensible.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
18. Oh...sorry, that wasn't clear.
Sun May 20, 2012, 08:43 PM
May 2012

In that case, why do you think we need to hear from his wife?

You do realize that defense lawyers in high-profile cases like this usually don't let the spouse of the defendant do the interview circuit, right? It's too risky.

Besides, it's not like it's her fault that Zimmerman is like this.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
19. I didn't expect that this was such a difficult question to communicate.
Sun May 20, 2012, 09:39 PM
May 2012

We don't need to hear from her.

Yes, lawyers don't usually let spouses do the circuit.

But Zimmerman has sent out half a dozen other surrogates. Dad. Brother. Friends. Neighbors.

It would seem useful for them to deploy the Missus, because they are playing for sympathy in every other aspect of George's relationships.

The fact that they are NOT doing so is interesting. That's all.

TBF

(32,058 posts)
9. The implication being?
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:43 PM
May 2012

I don't think you can draw much from this. Could be many reasons. Mothers know their children very well and she may have insight into his past problems/medical issues that she doesn't want to talk about (particularly if it would hurt him). But it could just as easily be that she doesn't want to be batted about by the press - no matter what she says.

I'd give her a pass on this.

 

-..__...

(7,776 posts)
10. Gladys Zimmerman (mother),...
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:53 PM
May 2012

was probably frightened/put off enough after Roseanne Barr Tweeted the home address of "Mommys Little Monster".

Wife/mother... both testified at Zimmermans bail/bond hearing...

Speaking publicly for the first time since her husband shot the unarmed teenager in February, Zimmerman’s wife of almost five years, Shellie Nicole Zimmerman, said her husband poses no danger to the community.

“Absolutely he is not a violent person,” Shellie Zimmerman said. She spoke to the court by phone because she said she has received hate mail and is concerned for her safety. She did not report the mail to the police, she admitted upon cross-examination by Prosecutor Bernie De La Rionda.

Zimmerman, who is a nursing student four weeks shy of graduation, said she would “absolutely” ensure that her husband would be present in court for his trial if he were to be released on bail. She added that her husband has been living in hiding since the shooting.


Zimmerman’s mother’s testimony painted the portrait of a man concerned with the community he lived in, who was “protective” of people and children. Gladys Zimmerman testified that the Sanford mayor had recognized her son for his efforts in mobilizing the community in the case of a homeless man who had been beaten. She also added that her son mentored two African-American children in Orlando and visited them often despite her objection that they lived in a “dangerous” area


http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/04/20/11304742-zimmermans-bond-set-at-150000-he-apologizes-to-trayvon-martins-parents?lite

Raine

(30,540 posts)
11. I thought you meant his wife, everyone seems to think it's the mother
Sun May 20, 2012, 07:58 PM
May 2012

you mean? Seems like it would be more likely the wife would come forward rather than the mother.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
15. yep, you are right.
Sun May 20, 2012, 08:40 PM
May 2012

I meant his wife.

We all know that she can't be made to testify against her husband in court.

But she COULD be used to sway the court of public opinion (and jury pool) FOR him. She COULD be someone who garners sympathy and understanding for him.

It's natural to wonder why they haven't used her in that regard, considering that everybody else and his brother has been employed to speak well about him.

 

Cave_Johnson

(137 posts)
13. I remember one statement...
Sun May 20, 2012, 08:27 PM
May 2012

... from her that said she was not comfortable in public due to the threats that had been levied against her specifically and her family.

I'm talking about the wife and not the mother.

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
17. I think I read some statement by his wife.
Sun May 20, 2012, 08:43 PM
May 2012

Can't remember when or where tho.

I think she also spoke at his bond hearing.

I would imagine much of his family is keeping a low profile out of fear.

Lilyeye

(1,417 posts)
21. I think its a good idea that she is hidden.
Sun May 20, 2012, 09:59 PM
May 2012

Her idiot husband is the one who caused this mess. She shouldn't have to say anything.

meanit

(455 posts)
22. That could change quickly
Sun May 20, 2012, 10:20 PM
May 2012

if it turns out that she is a Democrat. Then the media will want to know her underwear size along with everything else about her.

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