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Without video, this beeyatch would have gotten him arrested just based on her pale faced word-
After being assaulted by a woman who had repeatedly called him the n word in South Carolina, Jermarro Dantzler, 22, was in handcuffs, on his way to jail on charges of strong-armed robbery.
That was, until he showed Myrtle Beach police his cellphone footage.
The cops then removed his handcuffs and arrested the woman instead.
The Wisconsin man was in town to enjoy Memorial Day weekend and happened to be at a Rent Me Scooter Store when he witnessed a store associate later identified as Tara Belcher, 28, in a heated exchange with a customer where she berated him with racial slurs.
Belcher was immediately fired over the incident and as she waited outside the store for her ride to pick her up, Dantzler, armed with a camera, decided to approach her about some of the things he overheard her say.
Tara Lynn Belcher, 28
CurtEastPoint
(20,010 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)Just FYI
Trajan
(19,089 posts)Right? ...
Right ...
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)There, certainly, are more than a few, who's language doesn't reveal much space.
Quackers
(2,256 posts)He is a hardcore Union Democrat that worked at Ford all of his life. When it comes to Poc, he has stated that they all need to be killed. Some people will be racist assholes until they die.
Puddy
(51 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)most disturbing part is that he was on his way possibly to a Sandra Bland scenario without that video.
It's almost as if African-Americans need to wear body cams.
tblue
(16,350 posts)Google her and you'll see she has a bit of an arrest record--unless there's a lot of Tara Lynn Belchers getting in trouble out there.
She a looza.
http://tennessee.arrests.org/Arrests/Tara_Belcher_8166831/
SummerSnow
(12,608 posts)marmar
(79,686 posts)If he didn't have the video, who knows what we'd be talking about today.
Typical.
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)Who gets the benefit of the doubt.
Two people get in a fight, one goes to the magistrates office and says he was assaulted and presses charges, cops go arrest the other and leave it to the courts to straighten out- unless like in this case there is easily shown evidence otherwise.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)and HE is the victim.
What a privilege.
edit: yeah and "pale faced word" is a nice phrase.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Your Freudian slip is showing...
tammywammy
(26,582 posts)she called the cops on him and said he robbed her and pushed her to the ground, which never happened.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)HE gets to hit HER.
Why - because he's mad about being spit at.
She, on the other hand does NOT apparently get to spit at him because she's mad about being recorded and being asked a bunch of stupid questions and about being fired.
He felt free to start a confrontation because he knows he can win if there is a fight. He, is apparently a rich guy on vacation. She, on the other hand cannot even afford a second car, so she had to call for a ride home after getting fired.
I think it is kinda funny now if WE are apparently creating at least one exception to the "a man should never hit a woman" rule.
tammywammy
(26,582 posts)She should have just ignored him. If you assault someone, I don't care if you're male or female, you should be prepared for the inevitable consequences.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)He was not just talking to her, he was videotaping her.
No such thing as "inevitable consequences" either. Lot's of times people get spit at and slapped and punched, and they do not dare retaliate. That's why he felt free to escalate it, because he knew she could not retaliate. All she could do was call the cops. Interesting that he apparently wasn't worried about the racist police and hightail it out of there.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)especially considering how she tried to falsely put his ass in jail...
I guess if he had a girlfriend with him it would have been okay if she stood up for him and punched her in the throat right? Because woman?
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)he's the one who looks like an a$$hole. Harassing somebody who just got fired. All she wanted to do was leave, but he's there following her around with a camera and pestering her with questions. She's already pissed off, maybe he coulda just left her the hell alone?
He probably should have been arrested for harassment and assault, or at least been told to go about his business and stop bothering people. Rich dude harassing people with his camera phone doesn't become a hero just because he is black, and because his victim is a jerk too.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)You should probably throw in he hates cats too, that might get a few more folks to agree with your perspective
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)The Black guy WAS on vacation, was at a scooter rental shop, AND he had a cell phone!
snooper2
(30,151 posts)LOL
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)Having a dime more than the white male DUer, calling him rich!
JustAnotherGen
(38,041 posts)
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)JustAnotherGen
(38,041 posts)ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)That's my take.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)yardwork
(69,333 posts)Short and to the point. I agree.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)That fucking stupid and filing false charges is taken seriously when there is evidence. I'm sure it's not a coincidence you think videotaping was a shitty, because he'd be in jail now under false charges if he didn't. But no big deal to you.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)We are supposed to feel sorry for this women allegedly in a customer service position using racial epithets in an altercation with a customer?
She doesn't deserve to be left alone.
You are not looking at the big picture at all. Racism continues to exist because people don't stand up to it.
yardwork
(69,333 posts)I'm strongly in favor of speaking up when racism is happening. We have to intervene. But this woman's employer had already intervened, by terminating her. She was kicked out of the store waiting for a ride to take her away. At that point, approaching her was an asshole move.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)This young black man who witnessed the incident was still angry over her behavior, and went to talk with her about it.
I see nothing wrong with it.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts).....and out of the terminal, would you encourage witnesses to go "talk to him about it"?
kwassa
(23,340 posts)If a homeless or drunk man flashed me, I would probably laugh.
yardwork
(69,333 posts)As Gormy points out, maybe he didn't realize she'd been fired. Even so, I would advise my kids to approach management and lodge a complaint.
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)Last edited Tue Aug 25, 2015, 07:10 PM - Edit history (1)
In the video she seem to say that she's a manager (not was a manager )in between a few bleeps, so it's hard to be certain. Dantzler says that he was wanted to video her saying things so that he could show it to the managers or other higher-ups.
Did you see some other report of the event where it indicates that he knew she was fired?
Dantzler deserved to be arrested for slapping her. Both of them committed assault and battery.
yardwork
(69,333 posts)That puts his approaching her in a more understandable light.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)If that wasn't enough for her to get the message, then there is no hope for her. This guy was simply looking for trouble. Why anyone would look to engage and provoke such an unstable individual is beyond me.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)He witnessed it. He had to experience it.
JustAnotherGen
(38,041 posts)What a world- what a world . . .
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)Can be quite harassing.
dieter
(94 posts)In SC - no big surprise given the Charleston shootings.
Yes, in much of the South the white person is automatically believed over the person of color. That is white privilege in action.
BTW, apparently her drug use and her poor outlook and behavior have made her look far older than 28.
She should be tested for STD's. If she has any then spitting on someone could possibly upgraded from simple assault to assault with a weapon.
Glad to see she got the Karma payback she so richly deserved.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)You will fit in well with the south-bashers here.
Racists are everywhere.
npk
(3,701 posts)You do know what the "S" in STD stands for right?
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)if, for instance, you have a cut or sore in your mouth.
And that blood can carry some nasty crap, such as HIV for one, which is still generally considered an 'STD'.
dieter
(94 posts)STD's are communicable not only through sexual contact but exchange of other bodily fluids - such as saliva. If she has an STD she could have transmitted it to the person she spat upon.
That is why she should be tested.
redgreenandblue
(2,125 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)redgreenandblue
(2,125 posts)It will be interesting to see whether DU can reach a consensus.
Marr
(20,317 posts)Sorry folks, sometimes there isn't one. She's a racist asshole. He's an asshole and a bully who harassed a woman who'd just been fired and then assaulted her for responding as anyone could've expected she might.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)Anyway, she will have plenty of problems to follow her now and as another poster pointed out, she certainly seems to have a record of problems with the law.
All of that being said, I do think that spitting on (or at) someone is disgusting in the extreme.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Everyone has the right to defend themselves from an attacker, man or woman.
Marr
(20,317 posts)Understandable anger? Sure. But then, the situation was one of his own making, where he was antagonizing someone who had just lost their job and was, if the story is true, obviously a racist.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)Marr
(20,317 posts)everyone making excuses for him would be indignantly proclaiming that it's 'never acceptable to hit woman, ever'.
It seems like that rule needs to be appended for some people to read, 'it's never acceptable to hit a woman... unless I don't like her'.
I'm on no one's side here, but I cannot see why this man is being defended, apart from the fact that the particular woman he hit was a racist and a liar. She's a pig, he's a pig.
WestCoastLib
(442 posts)just saying...
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)just saying...
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)There was no immediate threat that warranted his return assault.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)yardwork
(69,333 posts)I don't call it self defense for him to hit her after she spit at him while he was harassing her. He inserted himself into a situation that had already been handled. She was fired for racist, unprofessional behavior towards a customer. So why does this guy feel compelled to follow her out of the store and film himself bothering her? What did he think would happen? Trashy angry out of control racist gets more out of control. I guess that's what he hoped to film.
They both come across as jerks.
Warpy
(114,588 posts)and head for the dark isolation of interstellar space.
The advice here is spot on: use that smart phone as your best weapon. Record these ignorant sacks of shit at their worst and use it against them with the cops, online, wherever thay can be shamed and their stories exposed as lies.
XemaSab
(60,212 posts)It's always justifiable!