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snooper2

(30,151 posts)
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 11:27 AM Aug 2015

Update:Racist Woman Spits In Black Man's Face

Without video, this beeyatch would have gotten him arrested just based on her pale faced word-



After being assaulted by a woman who had repeatedly called him the n word in South Carolina, Jermarro Dantzler, 22, was in handcuffs, on his way to jail on charges of strong-armed robbery.

That was, until he showed Myrtle Beach police his cellphone footage.

The cops then removed his handcuffs and arrested the woman instead.

The Wisconsin man was in town to enjoy Memorial Day weekend and happened to be at a Rent Me Scooter Store when he witnessed a store associate later identified as Tara Belcher, 28, in a heated exchange with a customer where she berated him with racial slurs.

Belcher was immediately fired over the incident and as she waited outside the store for her ride to pick her up, Dantzler, armed with a camera, decided to approach her about some of the things he overheard her say.










Tara Lynn Belcher, 28
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Update:Racist Woman Spits In Black Man's Face (Original Post) snooper2 Aug 2015 OP
Let's guess her political leanings... CurtEastPoint Aug 2015 #1
There are racist assholes on the left and the right, and people with no political leanings snooper2 Aug 2015 #3
Yes ... We all know that Liberal Democrats are a bunch of racist haters Trajan Aug 2015 #13
Not all; but judging by DU, of late ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #29
I personally know one. Quackers Aug 2015 #44
Yep.... sad but so true. Puddy Aug 2015 #28
And her religion... cleanhippie Aug 2015 #5
Stupid question, but how did he show them his cell phone while in handcuffs? nt geek tragedy Aug 2015 #2
grab cellphone out of my pocket and play video Mr. Copper? snooper2 Aug 2015 #4
I guess, minor detail. geek tragedy Aug 2015 #6
OMG. That's not all she's done tblue Aug 2015 #7
Im just saying....after she had spit in my face, she would have a reason to hate black people. SummerSnow Aug 2015 #8
So her story is automatically believed, and he gets reflexively arrested? marmar Aug 2015 #9
+1 uponit7771 Aug 2015 #43
In almost every case it's the first person to call and report Lee-Lee Aug 2015 #46
So he gets to harrass a woman and then hit a woman hfojvt Aug 2015 #10
Your Freudian slip is showing... LanternWaste Aug 2015 #12
She spit on him and then he hit her. tammywammy Aug 2015 #14
you don't see how that works? hfojvt Aug 2015 #16
You don't get to assault someone bc you don't like them talking to you. tammywammy Aug 2015 #18
but you do get to assult somebody if they spit at your phone? hfojvt Aug 2015 #27
I guess it is hard for you to say that she is a fucking asshole and deserved what she got snooper2 Aug 2015 #19
when I look at the big picture hfojvt Aug 2015 #26
woman can do no wrong LOL, like how you just made up that he is rich as well snooper2 Aug 2015 #30
Well ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #33
Oh fuck, you got a point! I better re-evaluate the situation snooper2 Aug 2015 #34
The new DU criteria for rich negroes ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #35
Its your old friend jag JustAnotherGen Aug 2015 #51
What? ... You're a woman ... everyone knows it's your husband's money ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #52
Oh my! JustAnotherGen Aug 2015 #56
They are both massive assholes ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2015 #31
I agree. nt cwydro Aug 2015 #42
You said it better than I did. yardwork Aug 2015 #47
Yeah-her assaulting him first and lying to get him imprisoned are no big deal? Luckily the law isn't bettyellen Aug 2015 #37
No, I think he did the right thing. He stood up to the racist. Asshole not. kwassa Aug 2015 #50
She had already been fired. yardwork Aug 2015 #54
I disagree. kwassa Aug 2015 #58
If a homeless/drunk man flashes you on the subway, and the transit cops haul him off the train.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2015 #60
Not a good analogy. kwassa Aug 2015 #66
His anger was understandable but it's unwise to approach unstable people. yardwork Aug 2015 #65
yardie, how do you know he was aware of the firing? Gormy Cuss Aug 2015 #62
Good point. Maybe he didn't realize she'd been fired. yardwork Aug 2015 #64
She was terminated for her racist behavior ProudToBeBlueInRhody Aug 2015 #57
Because he was personally affected by her behavior, as he should be. kwassa Aug 2015 #59
MRA men around the world rejoice JustAnotherGen Aug 2015 #15
Yes ... Calling someone on their racism ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #32
What a horrible, horrible person. dieter Aug 2015 #11
Welcome to DU. Tipperary Aug 2015 #20
Why would she be tested for STD's because she spat on someone. npk Aug 2015 #49
You can have blood in your saliva Erich Bloodaxe BSN Aug 2015 #61
Because Diseases are commuicable through saliva. dieter Aug 2015 #68
Hmm. So hitting a woman is ok if she is a racist asshole? redgreenandblue Aug 2015 #17
Only if defending oneself from assault, as was the case here. cleanhippie Aug 2015 #23
I know, its just that it this incident doesn't fit neatly into the usual categories. redgreenandblue Aug 2015 #36
It's a tornado of assholes and everyone's trying to identify the protagonist. Marr Aug 2015 #21
She is a nasty and low person, but that does not give him the right to hit her. Tipperary Aug 2015 #22
She assaulted him, he was defending himself. cleanhippie Aug 2015 #24
I don't see how you can label a punch in response to spit, 'self defense'. Marr Aug 2015 #38
The police seemed to agree that it was self defense. cleanhippie Aug 2015 #40
It was a smack, not a punch...Thinking about it- Smack = Spit snooper2 Aug 2015 #48
Oh, c'mon-- change the backgrounds of the individuals a little bit and Marr Aug 2015 #53
Ray Rice's fiance was assaulting him too. WestCoastLib Aug 2015 #39
That wasn't Ray Rice and that wasn't his girlfriend. cleanhippie Aug 2015 #41
Bullshit.Back up out of loogie range and dial 911. Gormy Cuss Aug 2015 #63
Posted to for latere. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2015 #25
The incident reflects poorly on both of them. yardwork Aug 2015 #45
Good grief, people like that want me to get off the planet Warpy Aug 2015 #55
Hey, violence against women! XemaSab Aug 2015 #67
 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
3. There are racist assholes on the left and the right, and people with no political leanings
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 11:34 AM
Aug 2015

Just FYI

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
13. Yes ... We all know that Liberal Democrats are a bunch of racist haters
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 12:19 PM
Aug 2015

Right? ...

Right ...

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
29. Not all; but judging by DU, of late ...
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 02:50 PM
Aug 2015

There, certainly, are more than a few, who's language doesn't reveal much space.

Quackers

(2,256 posts)
44. I personally know one.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 03:26 PM
Aug 2015

He is a hardcore Union Democrat that worked at Ford all of his life. When it comes to Poc, he has stated that they all need to be killed. Some people will be racist assholes until they die.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
6. I guess, minor detail.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 11:39 AM
Aug 2015

most disturbing part is that he was on his way possibly to a Sandra Bland scenario without that video.

It's almost as if African-Americans need to wear body cams.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
7. OMG. That's not all she's done
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 11:40 AM
Aug 2015

Google her and you'll see she has a bit of an arrest record--unless there's a lot of Tara Lynn Belchers getting in trouble out there.

She a looza.

http://tennessee.arrests.org/Arrests/Tara_Belcher_8166831/

SummerSnow

(12,608 posts)
8. Im just saying....after she had spit in my face, she would have a reason to hate black people.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 11:46 AM
Aug 2015

marmar

(79,686 posts)
9. So her story is automatically believed, and he gets reflexively arrested?
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 11:48 AM
Aug 2015

If he didn't have the video, who knows what we'd be talking about today.

Typical.


 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
46. In almost every case it's the first person to call and report
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 03:39 PM
Aug 2015

Who gets the benefit of the doubt.

Two people get in a fight, one goes to the magistrates office and says he was assaulted and presses charges, cops go arrest the other and leave it to the courts to straighten out- unless like in this case there is easily shown evidence otherwise.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
10. So he gets to harrass a woman and then hit a woman
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 12:00 PM
Aug 2015

and HE is the victim.

What a privilege.

edit: yeah and "pale faced word" is a nice phrase.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
14. She spit on him and then he hit her.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 12:22 PM
Aug 2015

she called the cops on him and said he robbed her and pushed her to the ground, which never happened.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
16. you don't see how that works?
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 12:44 PM
Aug 2015

HE gets to hit HER.

Why - because he's mad about being spit at.

She, on the other hand does NOT apparently get to spit at him because she's mad about being recorded and being asked a bunch of stupid questions and about being fired.

He felt free to start a confrontation because he knows he can win if there is a fight. He, is apparently a rich guy on vacation. She, on the other hand cannot even afford a second car, so she had to call for a ride home after getting fired.

I think it is kinda funny now if WE are apparently creating at least one exception to the "a man should never hit a woman" rule.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
18. You don't get to assault someone bc you don't like them talking to you.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 12:55 PM
Aug 2015

She should have just ignored him. If you assault someone, I don't care if you're male or female, you should be prepared for the inevitable consequences.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
27. but you do get to assult somebody if they spit at your phone?
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 02:41 PM
Aug 2015

He was not just talking to her, he was videotaping her.

No such thing as "inevitable consequences" either. Lot's of times people get spit at and slapped and punched, and they do not dare retaliate. That's why he felt free to escalate it, because he knew she could not retaliate. All she could do was call the cops. Interesting that he apparently wasn't worried about the racist police and hightail it out of there.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
19. I guess it is hard for you to say that she is a fucking asshole and deserved what she got
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 01:02 PM
Aug 2015

especially considering how she tried to falsely put his ass in jail...

I guess if he had a girlfriend with him it would have been okay if she stood up for him and punched her in the throat right? Because woman?

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
26. when I look at the big picture
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 02:30 PM
Aug 2015

he's the one who looks like an a$$hole. Harassing somebody who just got fired. All she wanted to do was leave, but he's there following her around with a camera and pestering her with questions. She's already pissed off, maybe he coulda just left her the hell alone?

He probably should have been arrested for harassment and assault, or at least been told to go about his business and stop bothering people. Rich dude harassing people with his camera phone doesn't become a hero just because he is black, and because his victim is a jerk too.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
30. woman can do no wrong LOL, like how you just made up that he is rich as well
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 03:27 PM
Aug 2015

You should probably throw in he hates cats too, that might get a few more folks to agree with your perspective

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
33. Well ...
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 03:37 PM
Aug 2015

The Black guy WAS on vacation, was at a scooter rental shop, AND he had a cell phone!

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
35. The new DU criteria for rich negroes ...
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 03:44 PM
Aug 2015

Having a dime more than the white male DUer, calling him rich!

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
37. Yeah-her assaulting him first and lying to get him imprisoned are no big deal? Luckily the law isn't
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 06:03 PM
Aug 2015

That fucking stupid and filing false charges is taken seriously when there is evidence. I'm sure it's not a coincidence you think videotaping was a shitty, because he'd be in jail now under false charges if he didn't. But no big deal to you.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
50. No, I think he did the right thing. He stood up to the racist. Asshole not.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:08 PM
Aug 2015

We are supposed to feel sorry for this women allegedly in a customer service position using racial epithets in an altercation with a customer?

She doesn't deserve to be left alone.

You are not looking at the big picture at all. Racism continues to exist because people don't stand up to it.

yardwork

(69,333 posts)
54. She had already been fired.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:23 PM
Aug 2015

I'm strongly in favor of speaking up when racism is happening. We have to intervene. But this woman's employer had already intervened, by terminating her. She was kicked out of the store waiting for a ride to take her away. At that point, approaching her was an asshole move.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
58. I disagree.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:56 PM
Aug 2015

This young black man who witnessed the incident was still angry over her behavior, and went to talk with her about it.

I see nothing wrong with it.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
60. If a homeless/drunk man flashes you on the subway, and the transit cops haul him off the train....
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:59 PM
Aug 2015

.....and out of the terminal, would you encourage witnesses to go "talk to him about it"?

yardwork

(69,333 posts)
65. His anger was understandable but it's unwise to approach unstable people.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 06:24 PM
Aug 2015

As Gormy points out, maybe he didn't realize she'd been fired. Even so, I would advise my kids to approach management and lodge a complaint.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
62. yardie, how do you know he was aware of the firing?
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 06:18 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Tue Aug 25, 2015, 07:10 PM - Edit history (1)

In the video she seem to say that she's a manager (not was a manager )in between a few bleeps, so it's hard to be certain. Dantzler says that he was wanted to video her saying things so that he could show it to the managers or other higher-ups.

Did you see some other report of the event where it indicates that he knew she was fired?


Dantzler deserved to be arrested for slapping her. Both of them committed assault and battery.

yardwork

(69,333 posts)
64. Good point. Maybe he didn't realize she'd been fired.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 06:21 PM
Aug 2015

That puts his approaching her in a more understandable light.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
57. She was terminated for her racist behavior
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:46 PM
Aug 2015

If that wasn't enough for her to get the message, then there is no hope for her. This guy was simply looking for trouble. Why anyone would look to engage and provoke such an unstable individual is beyond me.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
59. Because he was personally affected by her behavior, as he should be.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:57 PM
Aug 2015

He witnessed it. He had to experience it.

 

dieter

(94 posts)
11. What a horrible, horrible person.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 12:05 PM
Aug 2015

In SC - no big surprise given the Charleston shootings.

Yes, in much of the South the white person is automatically believed over the person of color. That is white privilege in action.

BTW, apparently her drug use and her poor outlook and behavior have made her look far older than 28.

She should be tested for STD's. If she has any then spitting on someone could possibly upgraded from simple assault to assault with a weapon.

Glad to see she got the Karma payback she so richly deserved.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
20. Welcome to DU.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 01:08 PM
Aug 2015

You will fit in well with the south-bashers here.

Racists are everywhere.

npk

(3,701 posts)
49. Why would she be tested for STD's because she spat on someone.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 04:52 PM
Aug 2015

You do know what the "S" in STD stands for right?

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
61. You can have blood in your saliva
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 06:04 PM
Aug 2015

if, for instance, you have a cut or sore in your mouth.

And that blood can carry some nasty crap, such as HIV for one, which is still generally considered an 'STD'.

 

dieter

(94 posts)
68. Because Diseases are commuicable through saliva.
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 06:26 PM
Aug 2015

STD's are communicable not only through sexual contact but exchange of other bodily fluids - such as saliva. If she has an STD she could have transmitted it to the person she spat upon.

That is why she should be tested.

redgreenandblue

(2,125 posts)
36. I know, its just that it this incident doesn't fit neatly into the usual categories.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 04:15 PM
Aug 2015

It will be interesting to see whether DU can reach a consensus.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
21. It's a tornado of assholes and everyone's trying to identify the protagonist.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 01:14 PM
Aug 2015

Sorry folks, sometimes there isn't one. She's a racist asshole. He's an asshole and a bully who harassed a woman who'd just been fired and then assaulted her for responding as anyone could've expected she might.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
22. She is a nasty and low person, but that does not give him the right to hit her.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 01:18 PM
Aug 2015

Anyway, she will have plenty of problems to follow her now and as another poster pointed out, she certainly seems to have a record of problems with the law.

All of that being said, I do think that spitting on (or at) someone is disgusting in the extreme.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
24. She assaulted him, he was defending himself.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 01:49 PM
Aug 2015

Everyone has the right to defend themselves from an attacker, man or woman.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
38. I don't see how you can label a punch in response to spit, 'self defense'.
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 07:18 PM
Aug 2015

Understandable anger? Sure. But then, the situation was one of his own making, where he was antagonizing someone who had just lost their job and was, if the story is true, obviously a racist.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
53. Oh, c'mon-- change the backgrounds of the individuals a little bit and
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:19 PM
Aug 2015

everyone making excuses for him would be indignantly proclaiming that it's 'never acceptable to hit woman, ever'.

It seems like that rule needs to be appended for some people to read, 'it's never acceptable to hit a woman... unless I don't like her'.

I'm on no one's side here, but I cannot see why this man is being defended, apart from the fact that the particular woman he hit was a racist and a liar. She's a pig, he's a pig.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
63. Bullshit.Back up out of loogie range and dial 911.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 06:20 PM
Aug 2015

There was no immediate threat that warranted his return assault.

yardwork

(69,333 posts)
45. The incident reflects poorly on both of them.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 03:38 PM
Aug 2015

I don't call it self defense for him to hit her after she spit at him while he was harassing her. He inserted himself into a situation that had already been handled. She was fired for racist, unprofessional behavior towards a customer. So why does this guy feel compelled to follow her out of the store and film himself bothering her? What did he think would happen? Trashy angry out of control racist gets more out of control. I guess that's what he hoped to film.

They both come across as jerks.

Warpy

(114,588 posts)
55. Good grief, people like that want me to get off the planet
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 05:32 PM
Aug 2015

and head for the dark isolation of interstellar space.

The advice here is spot on: use that smart phone as your best weapon. Record these ignorant sacks of shit at their worst and use it against them with the cops, online, wherever thay can be shamed and their stories exposed as lies.

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