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retrowire

(10,345 posts)
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 01:53 PM Sep 2015

Thinking about leaving the DU?

Don't.

So things are getting heated. There's a lot of things going on right now. It's primary season, the world is falling apart, etc...

But here's the thing, politics are all about making decisions, wise ones. And you don't make the best decisions in an echo chamber, that's why the people on capital hill are so out of touch with the rest of us, they only see each other and the 1%.

so stay, learn, teach and fight.

You feel that DU is filling up with members who are alert stalking others? Stay, fight, find a solution with the admins. You leave, the problem will just get worse.

Hillary supporters, you're upset that this is feeling like Bernie Underground? You can either accept that the majority of your party is following Bernie on DU or if you're so sure that Hillary is the best choice for president you should stay, learn, teach and fight.

Again, this is politics. We will only find our best decisions through debate, disagreement and resolution.

So if this kitchen is too hot then go ahead and take a break, but remember that all voices are necessary for a democracy to work. Stay and fight. Don't weaken our party by leaving. You, and all of us are our greatest strength.

Thank you.

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Thinking about leaving the DU? (Original Post) retrowire Sep 2015 OP
DU being overrun with trolls and disrupters has nothing to do with politics. nt onehandle Sep 2015 #1
politics has always been full of trolls. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #3
And there are ways to deal with them. onehandle Sep 2015 #4
given up? retrowire Sep 2015 #7
One effective way to deal with trolls... bvar22 Sep 2015 #125
this so bad. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #130
+1 Bubzer Sep 2015 #230
This is the time-honored way of dealing with trolls. senz Sep 2015 #238
I wouldn't say "given up" RussBLib Sep 2015 #10
exactly! retrowire Sep 2015 #19
sounds like good advice, not giving up notadmblnd Sep 2015 #62
you mean they won't pre-emptively declare the primaries over and boot all non-Hillary supporters? Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #122
So what you are saying is all trolls and disrupters are non-Hillary supporters. onehandle Sep 2015 #145
No, I've done terms on MIRT. Trolls and disruptors are generally dealt with effectively. Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #150
Good post. You are absolutely right PatrickforO Sep 2015 #165
I've done MIRT too. Constant discussion of 'passing up' people out of reach of MIRT. onehandle Sep 2015 #172
Confirmed your suspicion of what? There's no great secret, MIRT isnt tasked with going after long time Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #192
Since you clearly don't know what 'passing up' means... onehandle Sep 2015 #196
I believe the term we used was "kicking upstairs", actually. Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #204
I've experienced nothing like that. It's very business like, and efficient. onehandle Sep 2015 #217
oh my.... Bubzer Sep 2015 #231
Very true. zentrum Sep 2015 #65
Puhleazeee, handle RobertEarl Sep 2015 #11
thank you passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #39
It is getting old, isn't it? RobertEarl Sep 2015 #54
Old, yes, but not unexpected passiveporcupine Sep 2015 #56
Yeah, I got carried away the other day. PatrickforO Sep 2015 #166
...^ that 840high Sep 2015 #92
I think losing "politics 2015" may have something to do with this impression re trolls (or twits) Bill USA Sep 2015 #93
I said nothing like that. It's interesting that so many in this thread... onehandle Sep 2015 #147
Quote from reply #1: RobertEarl Sep 2015 #188
You and others claimed that I was saying 'not agreeing' = troll and disrupters activity. onehandle Sep 2015 #195
Put them on ignore. roody Sep 2015 #52
Put them on ignore and not be able to call some one an asshole notadmblnd Sep 2015 #64
Who? People who disagree with one's presidential choice are not JDPriestly Sep 2015 #61
^^^ This ^^^ Tommymac Sep 2015 #113
I said nothing even near that. You seem to be saying that. onehandle Sep 2015 #146
This is so deep that senz Sep 2015 #236
The poster that spams the board with "scoreboard" posts of national polling.. frylock Sep 2015 #77
That's what you think is disruption? onehandle Sep 2015 #148
What other reason would there be to post national polling of a primary election.. frylock Sep 2015 #160
good advice still_one Sep 2015 #2
Don't conflate message boards with the Party or the voting booth. merrily Sep 2015 #5
yeah i just corrected that broad statement. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #6
+1 Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #8
This AuntPatsy Sep 2015 #13
Nah. When I use board tools like Ignore and Trash Thread, I have an enjoyable closeupready Sep 2015 #9
you're doing it right. :) n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #12
I like what you are saying, problem is the jury system cant work for everyone, only the majority randys1 Sep 2015 #14
i too am a white male that agrees that the powers that be retrowire Sep 2015 #18
The rule here is Democrats only, I am pretty sure. Now not all Democrats are liberals, and that randys1 Sep 2015 #21
i read an idea about making those being judged anonymous. retrowire Sep 2015 #22
Better than what we have now, for sure...What I would do is appoint mods, and the rule would be randys1 Sep 2015 #28
Avoid the accusatory and very personal "you." JDPriestly Sep 2015 #82
Very true! Bubzer Sep 2015 #232
But I looked up the posts that 1StrongBlackMan was JDPriestly Sep 2015 #234
I usually try to see the entire thread so that I know the context JDPriestly Sep 2015 #76
totally agree. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #97
That really does not help with civility at all. Alert on the other posts in the thread if you think seaglass Sep 2015 #99
When we had moderation awoke_in_2003 Sep 2015 #152
Often, though, the baby got tossed out with the bathwater. MADem Sep 2015 #205
+1 Bubzer Sep 2015 #233
I'd be fine with that awoke_in_2003 Sep 2015 #239
There's not only one way to be a liberal. Nitram Sep 2015 #47
So if there are hundreds of right leaning, non liberal members here at a board dedicated randys1 Sep 2015 #85
Is that what I said? Nitram Sep 2015 #222
How does one know how liberal or not liberal jury members are? notadmblnd Sep 2015 #81
sigh randys1 Sep 2015 #84
Is that your way of saying that you are unable explain it to me? notadmblnd Sep 2015 #91
They may have changed the rule, bvar22 Sep 2015 #134
And women who feel driven to out-macho the white heterosexual men? Divernan Sep 2015 #50
Oy, it NEVER stops randys1 Sep 2015 #83
Just come out and say it awoke_in_2003 Sep 2015 #155
What does that even mean? Lisa D Sep 2015 #223
The jury system is a problem. JDPriestly Sep 2015 #67
I was going to stop serving on juries awoke_in_2003 Sep 2015 #142
When on a jury, Admiral Loinpresser Sep 2015 #201
I tend to lean that way, unless blatant awoke_in_2003 Sep 2015 #202
Perhaps there is a reason for your difficulties with some posters. kiva Sep 2015 #167
There is right and wrong on race, period. I know where I stand. randys1 Sep 2015 #227
Everytime I announce I'm going to leave, don't listen to me. mmonk Sep 2015 #15
+1 n/t Admiral Loinpresser Sep 2015 #200
That's it! I am leaving right now ...damn it all. L0oniX Sep 2015 #235
Ahhhh. You're onto me. mmonk Sep 2015 #240
I have been here for 10 years. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #16
keep fighting. don't give up. otherwise they win. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #20
I am with Starry on this - TBF Sep 2015 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author retrowire Sep 2015 #24
I think that is something only the admins TBF Sep 2015 #30
How in the world did someone get her home address from DU? LittleBlue Sep 2015 #78
Real what? Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author retrowire Sep 2015 #37
It's a real letter I have no doubt, cwydro Sep 2015 #58
are you implying Braveneck faked the letter? It would seem so. bettyellen Sep 2015 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author retrowire Sep 2015 #60
+1000 Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #26
They did win. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #25
you're still here aren't you? retrowire Sep 2015 #27
I'm leaving a message so people know why we are leaving, in case they care. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #32
They (you) win WHAT?? Yes, I'm leaving, but no, you haven't won much. Squinch Sep 2015 #151
If you think this is an "us vs them" scenario, then that's your weakness. We're equals in my eyes. retrowire Sep 2015 #153
Something terrible happened to a person who posts here. You have pooh-poohed it and discounted it. Squinch Sep 2015 #159
So, being a skeptic who doesn't take things at face value makes me the problem? retrowire Sep 2015 #162
No, you're not going to let a letter divide you from other people...you're just going to accuse the Squinch Sep 2015 #169
The letter is real, or not. That's my final position. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #170
You've accused her of faking it all over this thread. THAT's your final position. Squinch Sep 2015 #171
Thanks for speaking for me. retrowire Sep 2015 #173
Oh, you've spoken for yourself just fine. I think we all know exactly what you are saying. Squinch Sep 2015 #174
New final position. retrowire Sep 2015 #175
Gosh, we've all been waiting with baited breath for you to come around. Squinch Sep 2015 #176
I'm glad you're relieved. retrowire Sep 2015 #177
I am appalled at the way Bravenak is being treated around this, and you are one of the Squinch Sep 2015 #178
no skin off my back. stay cool. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #179
I feel as you do, chervilant Sep 2015 #218
Yes, it is time. Been time. Homework time. ancianita Sep 2015 #51
+10000. YoungDemCA Sep 2015 #53
I doubt if that was a federal crime hfojvt Sep 2015 #57
I'm on the other end of the spectrum KentuckyWoman Sep 2015 #186
I hope Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #212
+1000 Lisa D Sep 2015 #224
This. geardaddy Sep 2015 #226
When is/was the world NOT falling apart? n/t PasadenaTrudy Sep 2015 #17
People were pretty upbeat before that whole Crimean War thing. <G> -nt Freelancer Sep 2015 #36
*snort* dorkzilla Sep 2015 #43
I realize I'm coming at this from a "data" viewpoint erronis Sep 2015 #29
I was just invited to another board JustAnotherGen Sep 2015 #33
I'm staying, but if you go, JAG, mountain grammy Sep 2015 #70
Thank you mg JustAnotherGen Sep 2015 #124
Thanks for this. lark Sep 2015 #34
Most people are immovable, impenetrable & impervious. Why lean against immovable objects? Freelancer Sep 2015 #35
Well said. gregcrawford Sep 2015 #38
Good post, retrowire! dorkzilla Sep 2015 #40
Nobody is leaving... Helen Borg Sep 2015 #42
I'm leaving... meaculpa2011 Sep 2015 #44
yep that is real easy on these internets dembotoz Sep 2015 #48
If you get tombstoned, you'd become "name removed" ms liberty Sep 2015 #187
Good advice. DU is a good place to hash out all that can't be hashed out with family or friends. ancianita Sep 2015 #45
well said! n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #59
This stuff has gone on here for years and will go on for years. Give it no nevermind. marble falls Sep 2015 #46
You can check out anytime you want, but you can never leave... liberal N proud Sep 2015 #49
"On a dark desert highway..." great tune, thanks saidsimplesimon Sep 2015 #229
The only thing we have to fear is…. world wide wally Sep 2015 #55
A calm voice in the storm calling for all hands on deck Android3.14 Sep 2015 #63
Tried the "stay, learn, teach, and "fight" " route - although trying not to really fight. George II Sep 2015 #66
I try to remember that this is a message board. hamsterjill Sep 2015 #68
If I may offer my two cents DonCoquixote Sep 2015 #69
PS: sleaze DonCoquixote Sep 2015 #73
Never bothers me... brooklynite Sep 2015 #71
I'm not planning on going anywhere, but... HuckleB Sep 2015 #72
It's been clear to me since I joined that this is a board for white men, and so long as your Sheldon Cooper Sep 2015 #74
I Wish I Could Favorite Your Post lib87 Sep 2015 #228
leaving no banned hope not captainarizona Sep 2015 #75
Especially seeing as how this latest incident probably isn't even real. Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #79
I'm a sanders supporter retrowire Sep 2015 #86
I don't think anybody would not foresee that getting posted. Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #88
but someone said there's photo proof retrowire Sep 2015 #90
It isn't hard Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #94
good point. retrowire Sep 2015 #96
I agree. n/t Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #104
Agree. 840high Sep 2015 #199
The sender sent two letters. Realizing he had written the wrong address on one. boston bean Sep 2015 #163
The person who did is probably high fiving his wonderfulself this very moment. boston bean Sep 2015 #161
Sorry, logic has absolutely no place in this discussion Fumesucker Sep 2015 #89
You're welcome. Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #100
This was a very 840high Sep 2015 #105
Agree. Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #117
yep. false flag operation. not a very good one either Doctor_J Sep 2015 #135
Makes me feel so sad. Sanders is 840high Sep 2015 #137
That's ridiculous gollygee Sep 2015 #110
Not jedi, pretty simplistic actually. Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #115
Nasty and mean is one thing, stupid is another Fumesucker Sep 2015 #141
I doubt the person's user name is Mr. Citizen gollygee Sep 2015 #168
I'm quite skeptical of this "letter" myself. Just doesn't Purveyor Sep 2015 #121
A fucking lunatic would. boston bean Sep 2015 #156
It was posted publicly on this site, Waiting For Everyman Sep 2015 #203
when i read the letter i thought the same thing questionseverything Sep 2015 #185
I would like to point out to everyone that I did a search through a search engine. I came up with LiberalArkie Sep 2015 #190
Yeah, no, the way BLM was treated here... joshcryer Sep 2015 #208
Yes, leaving DU would be a mistake for me. salib Sep 2015 #80
I don't understand eliminating "Politics 2015". THis leaves pretty much only Gen Disc for political Bill USA Sep 2015 #87
Didn't you know? You can checkout anytime you want, but you can never leave. nt Rex Sep 2015 #95
But Some Will Always Try Marty McGraw Sep 2015 #237
When stalkers are invading people's privacy... DemocratSinceBirth Sep 2015 #98
what if the purpose of that letter is to only scare people? n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #101
A prudent person would be scared if people who could conceivably harm them had their address. DemocratSinceBirth Sep 2015 #106
would a brave person be considered a fool then? n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #107
No matter how brave a person is he or she can't protect him or herself from threats they can't see. DemocratSinceBirth Sep 2015 #112
Then I guess I'm a fool. retrowire Sep 2015 #164
End of message amigo! Nt. Juicy_Bellows Sep 2015 #183
Thanks! ....eom retrowire Sep 2015 #184
I just got blocked from the African American group vlyons Sep 2015 #102
Don't feel bad. Par for the course. 840high Sep 2015 #108
There's having an opinion, and then there's being a jerk about it. nomorenomore08 Sep 2015 #181
I sure hope you're right about that. Number23 Sep 2015 #209
You deserved it, too. Your message was mocking, not innocuous. MADem Sep 2015 #114
No, you got blocked for more than that and you know it. leftofcool Sep 2015 #129
No, actually I don't vlyons Sep 2015 #193
Innocuous? mcar Sep 2015 #143
Certain AA posters don't feel safe here anymore NuclearDem Sep 2015 #149
Learn? Learn what? That the troll to DUer ratio is approaching ten to one? MADem Sep 2015 #103
This message was self-deleted by its author 840high Sep 2015 #109
I'm still thinking about it. blackspade Sep 2015 #111
Nope, I'm not thinking about leaving DU. cwydro Sep 2015 #116
good to hear! n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #118
I'm outta here fuckers! Guy Whitey Corngood Sep 2015 #119
I left to get groceries. Did you miss me? 840high Sep 2015 #138
I have had to take breaks from here PowerToThePeople Sep 2015 #120
No thanks. Keep Bernie Underground. No one gives a rat's butt! leftofcool Sep 2015 #123
Anyone who posts here must give a rat's butt... Or a rats ass Autumn Sep 2015 #140
I'll be the last one here. bvar22 Sep 2015 #126
Rest assured, I serve on a lot of juries.... Spitfire of ATJ Sep 2015 #127
AsahinaKimi is not on as much... yuiyoshida Sep 2015 #128
I have loved DU for over ten years. Liberal Jesus Freak Sep 2015 #131
No, damn it! They'll have to THROW ME OFF Warpy Sep 2015 #132
Humans are the most dangerous when Faux pas Sep 2015 #133
I'm gonna follow your lead! n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #136
Let me know how it goes Faux pas Sep 2015 #219
If people don't stop alerting on everything that offends their delicate sensibilities... AOR Sep 2015 #139
True. n/t retrowire Sep 2015 #154
No swhit every litle butt hyrt.......... Historic NY Sep 2015 #180
Each individual DUer sets their own temp in the kitchen Kaleva Sep 2015 #144
This is a good way to put it. retrowire Sep 2015 #158
I've hung in here against the trolls this long.....I plan on being here for good. ileus Sep 2015 #157
If I can't post in my chosen Group without being hidden because I am Gloria Sep 2015 #182
"And you don't make the best decisions in an echo chamber ..." NanceGreggs Sep 2015 #189
Oh alright then. retrowire Sep 2015 #191
"Go ahead and leave if you really intend to ... NanceGreggs Sep 2015 #194
Then why are you here? 840high Sep 2015 #198
"I wish DU was worth fighting for. But it's not." Capt. Obvious Sep 2015 #225
What a BUNCH of DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA... Rockyj Sep 2015 #197
The only problem with DU these last few years is our right to "FREEDOM OF SPEECH"..there onecent Sep 2015 #206
I so remember 2004................... raven mad Sep 2015 #207
I'm still waiting for my free toaster oven olddots Sep 2015 #210
such a wise post Liberal_in_LA Sep 2015 #211
To the OP's question PJMcK Sep 2015 #213
i'm thinking about leaving DU. barbtries Sep 2015 #214
+1 nt steve2470 Sep 2015 #215
No, but... steve2470 Sep 2015 #216
Everyone has the same tools available to control their own experience her at the DU Capt. Obvious Sep 2015 #220
thanks captain obvious! retrowire Sep 2015 #221

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
7. given up?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:02 PM
Sep 2015

that's how you're supposed to deal with trolls.

ignore or permaban. what else can you do? track them down and slap them?

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
125. One effective way to deal with trolls...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 05:42 PM
Sep 2015

Don't feed them.
They crave a response....ANY response to keep their shit rolling.
No response denies them the gratification.

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
238. This is the time-honored way of dealing with trolls.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:45 PM
Sep 2015

I thought it was common knowledge. Back in the day, on now-defunct message boards, there was a saying that went something like DFTEC (I may have the acronym wrong) that meant: DON'T FEED THE ENERGY CREATURE. When an actual troll showed up trying to harass commenters and disrupt conversations, people would type the warning.

And it's true, ignoring them shuts them up, eventually. They live off attention.

RussBLib

(10,624 posts)
10. I wouldn't say "given up"
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:06 PM
Sep 2015

Just reminding people that there are way to tailor your experience if you are feeling overwhelmed or angry all the time.

I look at all the Hillary/Bernie fighting as still ultimately good for the party. I believe that most Dems on this site will still support the eventual Dem nominee even if their candidate didn't make the cut.

Such is life. I guess perhaps I'm too old to let the bickering bother me.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
19. exactly!
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:35 PM
Sep 2015

the bickering is good, it is a part of the process to making the best decision.

people should always try being cordial and less rude but hey, its politics.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
122. you mean they won't pre-emptively declare the primaries over and boot all non-Hillary supporters?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 05:20 PM
Sep 2015

THE FIENDS!

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
145. So what you are saying is all trolls and disrupters are non-Hillary supporters.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:10 PM
Sep 2015

Glad I didn't say that.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
150. No, I've done terms on MIRT. Trolls and disruptors are generally dealt with effectively.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:18 PM
Sep 2015

The jury system has its flaws but that too, tends to average out to working, over time.

Too many people, of course, want to define everyone who doesn't agree with them as a "troll". I've been called a right winger, a libertarian, AND apparently a stealth GOP operative, just in the last few months.

Yes, that's me- I've been going under deep cover here for 10 years so I could pretend to think that Hillary Clinton has so far been running an uninspiring, craptastic primary campaign. All part of my master plan, my long game so to speak. MUAHAHAHAAAHAA!

Or something.

"trolls and disruptors" aren't running amok on DU, certainly no more than they always are. DU undeniably has a lot of people- a majority, it seems- who don't support a particular establishment primary candidate, and some of the supporters of that candidate seem to be profoundly distressed, angry, and agitated over that fact. But that doesn't mean that everyone who supports a different candidate -or is undecided- is a "troll and disruptor", even though some of the supporters of said primary candidate sure seem like they would like to define them all as such.

Hope that clears it up.

PatrickforO

(15,420 posts)
165. Good post. You are absolutely right
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:39 PM
Sep 2015

Debate is healthy, echo chambers are bad, and most of the people on here aren't trolls.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
172. I've done MIRT too. Constant discussion of 'passing up' people out of reach of MIRT.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:55 PM
Sep 2015

Many of which have been here a decade.

MIRT confirmed my suspicions.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
192. Confirmed your suspicion of what? There's no great secret, MIRT isnt tasked with going after long time
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 10:59 PM
Sep 2015

Members, that's admin's job.

They're pretty up front about it- and it's a wise call. If MIRT could ban long time members, this place would be a train wreck.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
196. Since you clearly don't know what 'passing up' means...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:20 PM
Sep 2015

...if you were on MIRT, you weren't paying attention.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
204. I believe the term we used was "kicking upstairs", actually.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:42 AM
Sep 2015

But that was the old days, was it not?

The system was changed- oh, maybe a year or two ago, so that MIRT now doesn't even get the alerts on long-time members. At all. Because it became too much of a fucking shitshow. Specifically because some people were bound and determined to use alerts on some long timers to turn the MIRT forum into their own private little mini-meta, where they could spend hours opining at length on the people and groups they didn't like and "didn't belong on DU".

So unless I'm mistaken, at least on the terms I was there it was referred to as "kicking upstairs" or "sending upstairs" but again, that was MIRT 1.0 and not 2.0 or whatever the system is now.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
217. I've experienced nothing like that. It's very business like, and efficient.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:38 AM
Sep 2015

Must have been the group at the time.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
11. Puhleazeee, handle
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:08 PM
Sep 2015

DU is not being overrun with trolls and disrupters.

99% of the posters here are good Democrats who have taken a keen interest in politics and current events.

Just because not everyone agrees with you does not make them trolls. Good gawd, as long as you have been here all you can do is smash and trash DU?

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
54. It is getting old, isn't it?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:25 PM
Sep 2015

All this trashing of DU and the good members here is weird.

It's like they think they can tickle porcupines and not get quilled.

The Bern just makes some people try to do weird things, and is what I figure some here are reacting to.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
56. Old, yes, but not unexpected
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:26 PM
Sep 2015

Unfortunate. It sure doesn't make it easier to have discussions here.

Bill USA

(6,436 posts)
93. I think losing "politics 2015" may have something to do with this impression re trolls (or twits)
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:30 PM
Sep 2015

as I wrote here:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7157812

With the loss of "Politics 2015", basically, the only place you've got to go, if you want to post something on politics but it's NOT about Democratic Primaries --- is Gen Disc. Now, re GD I lost interest long ago on posting to that forum, if I thought the issue/event I was posting about warrented serious consideration - as there are rather more air-heads (people who just don't want to have a sensible discussion about anything) on GD than to my own liking. Now, if I am posting something that isn't that serious, something laughable, sure I will post to GD but I preferred to use "Politics 2015" for more serious, 'grown-up' consideration/discussions.

I think it was a mistake to eliminate "Politics 2015" for those who want to discuss political events/issues but really are looking for a fairly serious (e.g. grown-up) consideration/discussion of issues/events posted about. Frankly, not haveing a place for serious discussion of political issues/events is killing DU.

Just my 'take' on it. I think DU would be better if we still had "Politics 2015" or something similar as a place for those who want to present/discuss issues and events in a reasonably serious manner.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
147. I said nothing like that. It's interesting that so many in this thread...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:13 PM
Sep 2015

...automatically equate a difference of opinion with trolls and disrupters.

Very.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
188. Quote from reply #1:
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 10:38 PM
Sep 2015

onehandle: "DU being overrun with trolls and disrupters has nothing to do with politics."

That is a pretty clear statement that you think DU is being overrun with trolls and disrupters.

So, yeah, you said something like that. What I am saying is that you, onehandle, are claiming DU is being overrun with trolls and disrupters, and that you claim that because hardly anyone agrees with you when it comes to Hillary.

But now claim to have never said what you said. Weird, man, weird.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
195. You and others claimed that I was saying 'not agreeing' = troll and disrupters activity.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:18 PM
Sep 2015

I said nothing like that.

And good fucking bye.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
64. Put them on ignore and not be able to call some one an asshole
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:36 PM
Sep 2015

or tell them to leave the thread and to shut up? Now what fun would that be?

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
61. Who? People who disagree with one's presidential choice are not
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:32 PM
Sep 2015

necessarily trolls and disrupters.

I think a lot of people are disenchanted with DU because people with opinions and ideas that differ from those of the disenchanted are presenting persuasive arguments.

The discomfort is due to having to admit that our first choice may have been wrong and that we need to rethink our loyalties.

Dealing with conflict is always unpleasant. But if we humans did not deal with conflict, humanity would make no progress.

Fortunately, on DU, the conflict is all verbal and hopefully polite. But new ideas set off internal conflicts that can be really hard to deal with, internal in each of us, within ourselves.

New ideas are threatening to us. They make us feel attacked and vulnerable even though the new ideas are not really hurting us at all.

We feel secure when we just repeat our old ideas, when we fortify ourselves by encircling ourselves with people who agree with us.

We have to be willing to open up to new ideas. That is what a lot of people on DU are finding difficult.

Many thought they knew what candidate was the best and are now realizing still at a subconscious level, that the candidate they had picked really does not stand up to scrutiny.

That is painful.

If people want a life of miserable comfort rather than a life of creative challenge and the comfort that creativity and adopting new ideas provide, then so be it.

But I am sticking around.

Feel the Bern.

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
236. This is so deep that
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:14 PM
Sep 2015

I doubt the people who most need to read and understand it can do so without tremendous discomfort.

Perhaps what is needed is a simple willingness to allow others to think and feel differently from oneself.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
77. The poster that spams the board with "scoreboard" posts of national polling..
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:49 PM
Sep 2015

complaining about disrupters is pretty amusing.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
148. That's what you think is disruption?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:15 PM
Sep 2015

Is it only when you don't like the results of polls?

Interesting.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
160. What other reason would there be to post national polling of a primary election..
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:28 PM
Sep 2015

other than to troll Sanders supporters? In any case, perhaps you could provide examples of some the disrupting you alluded to?

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
8. +1
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:03 PM
Sep 2015

And this message board can do better at providing a civil, constructive forum for center-left Dems and progressives.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
9. Nah. When I use board tools like Ignore and Trash Thread, I have an enjoyable
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:06 PM
Sep 2015

time exchanging thoughts with like-minded Democrats and progressives.

Before those existed, then I DID on occasion think of leaving. Not now.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
14. I like what you are saying, problem is the jury system cant work for everyone, only the majority
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:11 PM
Sep 2015

and the majority here have HUGE issues with race, for instance.

So if you are not white, or if you are white like me but constantly criticizing white people, well you simply wont last long here.

The real problem in America, in our party, in both parties, in our politics, is white men, mostly heterosexual, have had their way, a very violent and corrupt way, for far too long.

What you are seeing here at DU is a microcosm of what is happening across America.

The thought that DU was a refuge for liberal thinkers like myself, was a mistaken thought.

Yes, I am saying that almost all of the problems we are facing are directly due to white hetereosexual men fucking everything up for hundreds of years here and elsewhere.





retrowire

(10,345 posts)
18. i too am a white male that agrees that the powers that be
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:31 PM
Sep 2015

are a group of heterosexual white males that have had power for too long.

but where did you get the idea that this was a refugee for liberal thinkers? I thought it was for all democratic mindsets.

I myself am liberal, and I've found plenty of like minded people here. I didn't have the expectation that it would only have liberals.

but I think it's better that way, its good that liberals can interact with centrists and vice versa, it creates great ideas if we work at it long enough.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
21. The rule here is Democrats only, I am pretty sure. Now not all Democrats are liberals, and that
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:37 PM
Sep 2015

is something I am finding out more and more each day.

I dont care if only Dems or libs are here, what I care about is non liberals silencing liberals by using juries

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
22. i read an idea about making those being judged anonymous.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:39 PM
Sep 2015

I like that idea.

someone said you could get past that and see who it is with a google search but still, that's an extra step that assholes would have to make.

it would curb the abuse of the system at least.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
28. Better than what we have now, for sure...What I would do is appoint mods, and the rule would be
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:47 PM
Sep 2015

only hide posts that are personal attacks that are over the top.

For instance I should be able to say to anyone here, as I have often wanted to, something like this:

"You dont act or talk like any liberal I know...you are constantly on the wrong side of race issues and Gay issues, and your overall attitude is very rightwing and very familiar to me from my experience on rightwing message boards"

Now I would like to say that to several people but NOT with the agenda of silencing them, just my way of telling them and everyone that this person is not here for the same reasons I am or most of you are.


Then they could say anything the want to me, as long as they dont disclose personal information or go over the top harsh ...

You see, nothing ANY con ANYWHERE on this planet would say to me or you, could be a problem because we are right, they are wrong. About everything. When left and right disagree, the left is always right.

Not complicated. We are on the right side of history, they are not. So nothing they say is a problem for me, the problem is when they can silence what I have to say.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
82. Avoid the accusatory and very personal "you."
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:59 PM
Sep 2015

The word you in English, as I have been pointing out a lot lately on DU has two meanings. It encompasses the meaning "one," "on" in French and "Mann" in German which is a general way of saying "a person" and "you" which has different forms, plural, singular in German and French. We could use "one" but somehow that has gone out of style. It would make our lives less confrontational. Oh, well. Sigh.

You said:

"You dont act or talk like any liberal I know...you are constantly on the wrong side of race issues and Gay issues, and your overall attitude is very rightwing and very familiar to me from my experience on rightwing message boards"

You can use the passive voice and say the same thing without personally insulting someone, without engaging their defenses. Here goes a try:

"Liberals I know don't act or talk that way . . .that kind of view is on the wrong side of race issues and Gay issues. That attitude is very rightwing and very familiar to me from my experience on rightwing message boards."


Just a suggestion. It often is not WHAT a person says but HOW THEY SAY IT that makes an idea personally insulting.

Plus, I think that when we get on a message board, we have to put on a sort of raincoat that lets all the nasty drops of whatever just run off to the ground. We have to put on our spiritual and psychological protection.

There are a few posters on DU who, I sense, do not have very much in the way of spiritual or psychological protection. They are very vulnerable and take everything personally. I am sorry about that. I try to watch out for a couple of them. And I really like many of them. But they tend to have bad days or lose it easily. I try to let them alone and not respond to ugly posts. Strong people have to help the weak and vulnerable. That goes for our conduct on DU as well as our conduct off DU.

In the end, my personal religious belief is that we are all one, each of us a different part of "life," and that we are more bound together than separate so we have to help each other.

Thanks.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
234. But I looked up the posts that 1StrongBlackMan was
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:33 PM
Sep 2015

removed on, and I found one to be objectionable. The rest should not, in my opinion, have been removed.

He was one of the best, most intelligent DUers. I think that his forced departure is very unfortunate.

We are getting into vendetta territory here. We need to retreat from that and get back into heated but tolerant discussions.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
76. I usually try to see the entire thread so that I know the context
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:48 PM
Sep 2015

of the offending post. Often, the post that is tagged for a jury is really just one of a number of questionable posts.

I usually vote against (well I virtually always vote against) removing a post if I think that the post was the result of someone goading or teasing the person whose post is being judged.

I would like to be able to remove whole chains of exchanged insults. They usually move from the topic being discussed to personal jibes to out-of-hand, troubling insults or even mild threats.

I don't know what to do about that. But I don't want to remove one of a number of really ugly posts. It does not seem fair. The jury members should be able to go through and tag other posts for removal.

And the penalties for posting removed posts should be less severe. I think that a DUer should be barred from posting only after at least ten posts have been removed.

And someone suggested to me that someone who has two posts removed within 24 hours should be asked to take a 24-hour or so break and then be allowed to return.

I favor more inclusion, not less.

seaglass

(8,185 posts)
99. That really does not help with civility at all. Alert on the other posts in the thread if you think
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:36 PM
Sep 2015

someone was the instigator and acting uncivil. There is no way of knowing while judging one post if there is another jury judging one of the others.

This is sentiment I have seen expressed over and over on DU and it is one of the reasons DU juries are such a fail.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
205. Often, though, the baby got tossed out with the bathwater.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:46 AM
Sep 2015

Some very thoughtful and well written posts got tossed with the rest of the "offending" sub- threads.

If we returned to moderation I would prefer that posts continue to be hidden, not "disappeared."

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
239. I'd be fine with that
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:49 PM
Sep 2015

I think full time mods put much more thought into what they are doing than juries. Plus, moderators had better tools available to them- tracking posting and alerting history was easy to do. I know there were a few cases where posters were put on forced ignore because one would just not let the other one alone.

Nitram

(27,673 posts)
47. There's not only one way to be a liberal.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:17 PM
Sep 2015

I see some DUers putting up litmus tests for being a liberal candidate or a liberal voter. Let's leave that kind of exclusionary thinking to the GOP.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
85. So if there are hundreds of right leaning, non liberal members here at a board dedicated
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:04 PM
Sep 2015

to democrats, and a democrat says something liberal, if the jury finds enough rightwingers to silence him, so be it?

Fuck that

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
81. How does one know how liberal or not liberal jury members are?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:57 PM
Sep 2015

I think the jury system is as fair as it can be. I believe people are selected randomly and there are times that I disagree with the verdict. However, whining and crying incessantly that the system isn't fair is childish and immature. No one is forced to be here, no one is forced to pay to be here, so if one is unable to have a discussion without rudeness and name calling- then they need to pick up their toys and go play elsewhere.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
91. Is that your way of saying that you are unable explain it to me?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:27 PM
Sep 2015

Or could it possibly be your way of telling me that I am too simple minded to understand if you did?

Because that post right there is a fine example of how the discourse here is usually escalated.

Which ever reason you replied with your "sigh" for, it was a slight and if you were not intending to slight me, the kindest thing you could have done- is simply not replied at all.



bvar22

(39,909 posts)
134. They may have changed the rule,
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 06:24 PM
Sep 2015

but when I joined it was a board for "Liberals of all Stripes",
and the only prohibition was campaigning for 3rd Party Candidates during an election.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
67. The jury system is a problem.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:41 PM
Sep 2015

I think a DUer should have to have at least 10 hides before being dismissed from DU.

Someone suggested to me that we have a cooling off period for anyone who has more than 2 posts removed within 24 hours. Say a 24-hour cooling off period.

I try my best to set aside differences of opinion when acting as a judge on a jury.

And recently, just yesterday I think, I simply refused to be on a jury because I did not feel I had enough understanding of the topic of the thread and post in question which had to do with transgender issues. I just don't have the experience to judge the value of an opinion or post on that topic. I don't have a problem with transgender people. I am not very visual in my approach to life and I often don't recognize that a transgender person is trans, so I'm kind of not the person to have an opinion on that issue.

So refusing to serve on a jury if you think you cannot judge fairly is also an alternative.

Plus I often think that we should be able to remove an entire series of responses that escalate into an exchange of insults if we wish.

I agree that the jury system is sometimes just an excuse to get rid of voices we do not want to hear.

So thanks for your post.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
142. I was going to stop serving on juries
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 07:51 PM
Sep 2015

but decided that left a slot open for the people described. It gets tiring, but we have to stick around.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
202. I tend to lean that way, unless blatant
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:25 AM
Sep 2015

I like to look at the whole thread first to get some context. Three terms as a moderator makes you realize context means everything

kiva

(4,373 posts)
167. Perhaps there is a reason for your difficulties with some posters.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:42 PM
Sep 2015

"the majority here have HUGE issues with race"

"if you are white like me but constantly criticizing white people"

Thinking that other people are always wrong and that you are always right...well, that seems to be the sort of thing you are criticizing about people that disagree with you.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
235. That's it! I am leaving right now ...damn it all.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:53 PM
Sep 2015

Be back in a few ...have to get something to drink.

Starry Messenger

(32,381 posts)
16. I have been here for 10 years.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:16 PM
Sep 2015

10 years we have informed the owners of this website that minority voices get overwhelmed here. Blacks, Gays, Feminist women, people who post in other languages--have all been muffled by the system of this website. Going back years. You can go to DU2 and go through the old subforums and see all the people who were tombstoned or left.

It's time for the majority to fight for us. We have been here in the trenches, and practically nothing has been reformed. If you want our voices here, fight for us to be heard.

Someone took their spleen to real life and threatened a Black DUer, by mail, a federal crime. This isn't just board fuckery, it is real life. That's old tactics going back to the FBI mailing MLKjr to tell him to kill himself, and other terrorist tactics.

The message that sends, is shut up, shut up your friends, or we will make you all shut up.

TBF

(36,589 posts)
23. I am with Starry on this -
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:41 PM
Sep 2015

she and I may support different candidates at the primary stage but I know we are overall on the same page. This breach of security is unacceptable. I expect to hear from the admins on this or I will leave and I'm sure many others will as well. Or they will simply read and no longer contribute (with voices or donations).

This doesn't change how I feel about Bernie and I will of course be working for him via donations and local. But none of us need DU to do that. When it comes to our personal safety being threatened they've crossed a line - no matter which side of the aisle they are standing on politically.

Response to TBF (Reply #23)

TBF

(36,589 posts)
30. I think that is something only the admins
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:48 PM
Sep 2015

can determine because posting the envelope with Bravenak's name, address, and postmark is not going to happen. However, Bravenak could give that info to Skinner if she chose. I don't know how something like this is handled - perhaps she needs to contact her local police department. That is what I would do if I received hate mail via regular snail mail.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
78. How in the world did someone get her home address from DU?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:51 PM
Sep 2015

Someone please explain how this happened.

Starry Messenger

(32,381 posts)
31. Real what?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:48 PM
Sep 2015

It was really sent to her house by post. If you still can't see the images because of your web browser, it is going to be hard for you to understand, so you'd probably better fix your settings. It is on paper, with a mail cancellation from the post office and everything.

Response to Starry Messenger (Reply #31)

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
58. It's a real letter I have no doubt,
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:27 PM
Sep 2015

but I don't necessarily believe it was sent by a DUer.

If the cavers are behind this, and they have done this type thing before, they must be laughing their asses off at all the accusations flying around here.

Response to bettyellen (Reply #41)

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
27. you're still here aren't you?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:46 PM
Sep 2015

those who've been silenced can make new accounts and come back can't they?

Squinch

(59,450 posts)
151. They (you) win WHAT?? Yes, I'm leaving, but no, you haven't won much.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:18 PM
Sep 2015

They (including you)have won the ability to post your musings, unchallenged, in the echo chamber of this very small and insignificant sliver of the world, namely white males, mostly supporters of Bernie, who more and more often, are extremely nasty.

I am a white woman who likes Bernie, and I can't stand what I am seeing here.

This has become a place in which the experiences of anyone who is not a white man (including Bravenak's experience) is discounted by the majority (including you specifically in this thread in which you say that you think Bravenak faked the letter) and lots of other white guys high five each other for having discounted those experiences.

Yeah. Winning. Have fun with that.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
153. If you think this is an "us vs them" scenario, then that's your weakness. We're equals in my eyes.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:22 PM
Sep 2015

I'm sorry you see me as an enemy.

Squinch

(59,450 posts)
159. Something terrible happened to a person who posts here. You have pooh-poohed it and discounted it.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:28 PM
Sep 2015

That kind of discounting is habitual here and that behavior leads to an us vs. them scenario. It has nothing to do with whether I am weak or strong.

I'm sorry you can't see that your behavior is part of what has created this problem.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
162. So, being a skeptic who doesn't take things at face value makes me the problem?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:33 PM
Sep 2015

Listen, if the letter is real, then I pray for bravenak's safety, I truly do. If it isn't (which is always a possibility. I don't like the fear that it's instilled in our community. And in politics, things like that can be faked, but they can be real.) real, then I just guess that's part of DU's political maelstrom.

We can let the subject of the letter be a divisive thing, OR, we could agree to disagree. In the end, as long as bravenak does what is best for her safety, as long as we all are vigilant to continue with our daily lives, then the letter doesn't matter and we'll carry on as we always do.

I'm not letting a letter divide me from other people, I'm not letting it scare me from the damn internet.

So your choice is yours, does the letter divide you from we the people? Or does it embolden you to find resolve?

Squinch

(59,450 posts)
169. No, you're not going to let a letter divide you from other people...you're just going to accuse the
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:45 PM
Sep 2015

receiver of faking the letter. Do you hear yourself? I guess in your world that isn't a divisive thing to do. In my world it is.

"Embolden you to find resolve"? What are you even talking about? The fact that some creep sent a creepy letter to someone I respect because she dares to post on DU as a black woman is supposed to embolden me to find resolve to continue posting here??

Yeah. No. It doesn't embolden me to find resolve.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
173. Thanks for speaking for me.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:05 PM
Sep 2015

Last I checked, I was in control of what my final position was.

For example, if I ended this very sentence with the phrase that I believed the letter, THAT would be my final position.

Not what is all over this thread. I did not ever accuse her of making it either. Just said it was possibly fake. As in, the letter is bogus and intends no real threat?

Either way, I decide my final position and honestly it's indifference. I don't care to talk about it. Truth is, and again, I'll say it AGAIN...

If it's real, I pray for her safety, if not then I guess that's just the nature of this political beast.

Squinch

(59,450 posts)
174. Oh, you've spoken for yourself just fine. I think we all know exactly what you are saying.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:08 PM
Sep 2015

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
175. New final position.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:10 PM
Sep 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/118725126#post47

A second letter is odd. It's really hard to call, but it's getting to be too much.

The letter is likely real.

But it won't deter me from encouraging people to stay here, and fight.

Squinch

(59,450 posts)
176. Gosh, we've all been waiting with baited breath for you to come around.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:12 PM
Sep 2015

Imagine our relief.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
177. I'm glad you're relieved.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:13 PM
Sep 2015

It did seem extremely important to you that I accept the reality of the letter. lol

Either way, stay safe and I wish you well. No hard feelings, I hope.

Squinch

(59,450 posts)
178. I am appalled at the way Bravenak is being treated around this, and you are one of the
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:18 PM
Sep 2015

ones who has added to the problem. I have no plans to lol over this with you.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
218. I feel as you do,
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 09:04 AM
Sep 2015

and I am disgusted with the "skeptics" who discount and "justify" insupportable positions about the isms we see here -- especially the racism, sexism and heterosexism.

(I have made an appropriate addition to my IL...)

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
57. I doubt if that was a federal crime
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:27 PM
Sep 2015

at least I don't see it.

The DUer was threatened? Threatened with what?

The big threat was "we will jury stalk you and put you on time out in DU".

that's about as threatening as saying "we will call you a doodoo head".

I mean what, is a person going to hire bodyguards to protect themselves from being put on timeout on DU? Maybe go into witness protection? It's not a significant threat at all.

The really freaky part is, since, unlike William Pitt, she does not post here under her real name, well how does anybody know where she lives? How did this person learn her real name? Only Agent Mike should know that. Would former mods have that information? Has she, like me, posted her real name before? Met other DUers at meet-ups?

The other freaky part is the idea that there is somebody so deranged as to think a letter like that was a good idea.

I have a hard time believing it is real, from a real Bernie supporter on DU. Even the average Trump supporter is not THAT ridiculous.

KentuckyWoman

(7,398 posts)
186. I'm on the other end of the spectrum
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 10:04 PM
Sep 2015

I've been around a few years - not many. Don't post much since my life is usually too full to have time to come by but also because there are so many threads I simply don't feel comfortable speaking my mind.

Impressions are subjective of course but what I've seen is that inflammatory posts that fat shame, belittle people (especially conservative women) for the way they look, are anti white people, anti church, anti business are mostly allowed to stand and if anyone replies with anything less than a high five it's like smacking a hornet's nest.

I've lost count of how many times I've started to leave a reply to a thread that is intended to be a reasoned thoughtful addition to the conversation and ended up not posting because it just didn't seem worth the inevitable flame war to follow. Sure enough, someone else hits the thread to say something close to what I was thinking and gets hosed for not high fiving.

Like I said, I'm relatively new but this is my impression of the current situation. I expect to get absolutely reamed for posting this. But I like the DU. A lot. If it times past people speaking the minority position were getting muffled that's just wrong. If my impression is correct and the pendulum has swung the opposite way then that's wrong too.

My sister, DUer SmileyRose loved this place. She learned a lot and it kept her sane during the last years of her life when she was in a lot of pain with one cancer after the next up until her death. When she didn't have the energy anymore she asked me to create a login and keep her posted on what I saw here. I was hooked.

Anyways, in the round about way I guess I'm saying I agree with you on the big picture. This can be a really good place to share info and support each other in common cause even if we quabble about the smaller things. Muffling speech is not helpful in that regard.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
212. I hope
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 04:19 AM
Sep 2015

you'll resist the impulse to delete, and post more often. I am very taken with this post. Just two cents but you can always ignore the inevitable flame war to follow, that's what I do. Let it blow on by and just don't answer the snark etc. Nothing says you have to.

I wasn't lucky enough to know your sister well, but I did know her name, and how much she was loved around here.

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
43. *snort*
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:10 PM
Sep 2015

I have on my hutch a Staffordshire portrait figure of Sir William Fenwick Williams. He asked me to thank you for that chuckle.

erronis

(23,812 posts)
29. I realize I'm coming at this from a "data" viewpoint
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:48 PM
Sep 2015

Can we have some simple statistics/graphs about who has posted what to which threads?

Altho I'm very wet behind the ears, I can sorta identify certain ids with a certain POV. I'm sure that many people/bots take on multiple ids and styles to avoid being caught. And I'd hope that the DU administrators are already doing some semantic analyses of who is answering what in a particular fashion.

I'm no advocate of big brother but I'm sure that other organizations are gaming the DU board.

mountain grammy

(29,009 posts)
70. I'm staying, but if you go, JAG,
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:43 PM
Sep 2015

please tell me where and I'll follow. I would really miss you.

lark

(26,068 posts)
34. Thanks for this.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 02:54 PM
Sep 2015

I, for one, am staying, fighting at times and holding hands at others. Yes, there are aggravating trolls, this is what rw'ers do, however there are so many good souls here, I overlook the rotten apples. I learn so much here.

We all have our pet peeves and differences, but the Democratic party has always been the "big tent" and I'd hate to see it any other way.

Freelancer

(2,107 posts)
35. Most people are immovable, impenetrable & impervious. Why lean against immovable objects?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:00 PM
Sep 2015

It's just no fun. I've written a lot here, but the only fun I've had is arguing over original Star Trek vs Next Generation. Why is that?

I just dunno.

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
40. Good post, retrowire!
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:07 PM
Sep 2015

See, you’re fairly new and you’ve already added so much to the “conversation” by being here.

I’ve always learned a lot from people with differing opinions, different life experiences etc. Maybe those people with differing opinions haven’t changed my mind, but I agree with the echo chamber effect and that’s whats happened to people who only listen to RW-radio or Fox News. I love that we don’t march lock-step like some other party who shall remain nameless.

Helen Borg

(3,963 posts)
42. Nobody is leaving...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:08 PM
Sep 2015

Like nobody is not gonna watch the next season of Game of Thrones. It's addictive.

meaculpa2011

(918 posts)
44. I'm leaving...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:13 PM
Sep 2015

but my only question is: How do I delete my account so that there is no record of my having been here?

ms liberty

(11,225 posts)
187. If you get tombstoned, you'd become "name removed"
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 10:32 PM
Sep 2015

"name removed" has a lot of posts with no text. (A little levity, here...)

ancianita

(43,303 posts)
45. Good advice. DU is a good place to hash out all that can't be hashed out with family or friends.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:15 PM
Sep 2015

Just a few quick echoes...

DU is the place where relevant news -- not fluff -- can enrich your thinking and overall enjoyment of living. There's as much fun (the DU Lounge, the small personal interest groups, etc.) as you want here as well as politics.

As for the Big Threads, the verbal sparring is what the best of democracy is about.

The mudslinging and personal attacks are the bad discourse which are useful, cautionary tales of how not to be.

Many who've been politically asleep for decades have learned the hard way to never walk away.

Every withdrawal costs this country and those who withdraw.

DU saved my sanity when, in 2007, media could not. It will save yours, too, in ways that might surprise you.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
229. "On a dark desert highway..." great tune, thanks
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:23 PM
Sep 2015

It's wonderful to read comments that celebrate our diversity, while recognizing we stand together on the majority of issues.

George II

(67,782 posts)
66. Tried the "stay, learn, teach, and "fight" " route - although trying not to really fight.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:40 PM
Sep 2015

The problem is that I've been a member here for almost 10 years, and had my first two "hides" in July of this year because I had the chutzpah to question the Sanders campaign. Those two hides were within an hour or two of each other.

So, I've significantly cut back on my posts and visits here because I don't want to see things posted that I disagree with but can't comment upon in fear of being swarmed upon with alerts. I've stepped up a couple of times (most recently a few minutes ago) but for the most part have decided to be silent, at least until early next year.

hamsterjill

(17,562 posts)
68. I try to remember that this is a message board.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:42 PM
Sep 2015

DU is a part of my internet activities. I come here for information, for news, for sharing of likeminded opinions, etc. I used to come here to learn, but I don't feel the level of discussion here at this time is the same as it was several years ago, so I'm not sure I've learned anything of late, except that there are a few really childish posters on here. If you don't agree with the opinions that those posters have - watch out!

I've been here officially since 2004, lurked since DU's inception. I have around 6,000 posts. So I'm not obsessed with DU.

That said, I ignore people who are nasty to me, and I get off of DU and go about my real life.

DonCoquixote

(13,956 posts)
69. If I may offer my two cents
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:43 PM
Sep 2015

Part of why sleaze prospers is because they know that, even if you heal the wounds, sooner or later, your body tells your brain "Jeesh, it is not worth it, we have to get out of here before we get a stroke!"

I say, please, let's not give this over to the bad guys, and yes, I do not care where said sleaze is a sincere clinton/sanders/socialist/centrist/anarchist insert affiliation here, when the sleaze says "I do not care who I have to hurt or how I have to do it" then they are a discredit to their cause, and someone that will indeed, reap the whirlwind, because in time, the very people they need to survive will either be too afraid to offer food and aid, or simply think they can take their place. As far as the outright paid ops, we cannot pretend they are not there: one trip to Freeperland or DI will show these people lighting cigars and pouring champagne while stitching their sock puppets.

I do not care what you think, feel, or believe, I care what you DO. There are many people who frankly, I should be politically at war with, but because they have been kind and willing to listen, they are the people I fight for on DU. Likewise, politically, I should be a Sanders supporter, but seeing the yes, outright RACIST behavior that has been shown because of some activists in Seattle is DISGUSTING. I wish Bernie would return every cent you gave him, because of he knew who some of his supporters were, I think he would, as well as give a fine jeremiad castigating them for attitudes.

But the key thing is to DO, to make sure that the cranks and bullies and "ratf**ers" do NOT run the show, because unless people make a stand, they will. Our goal should be to be the ones who survive, so when all the "idealists" and "pragmatists" are floating on their little bit of flotsam, we will stand together on our raft, but this time, we will make it VERY clear that whoever we let onto the boat does NOT try to become captain. The left, right and center all have plenty of people who have allowed their ideals to sink because they want to WIN, well, they win battles, but it is those of us that no matter what, actually care for others, and our own integrity, that survive wars.

DonCoquixote

(13,956 posts)
73. PS: sleaze
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:44 PM
Sep 2015

the term comes from Sileseia, now part of Poland. It was known for making the best silks outside of China, but so many knock offs happened, silk was called "silesi". This foits because the would be warriors are nothing but cheap kick offs trying to appear to be precious.

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
71. Never bothers me...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:43 PM
Sep 2015

...I can take whatever insults people want to dish out; I'm able to remember that there's a real world outside of the blogosphere.

HuckleB

(35,773 posts)
72. I'm not planning on going anywhere, but...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:44 PM
Sep 2015

... the reality is that DU's majority reflects mainstream upper middle-class Democrats, who sometimes can see what should be done, but seldom do so. And the bigger issue is they refuse to challenge their preconceptions. It's really not a progressive mindset.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
74. It's been clear to me since I joined that this is a board for white men, and so long as your
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:44 PM
Sep 2015

interests align with theirs, everything will be fine. If they don't, then you are the one with the problem. It's counterproductive to exhort those being oppressed to stay and fight, when it's quite clear who's in charge.

You really need to address the ones who are driving people away - THEY are the ones "weakening the party".

lib87

(535 posts)
228. I Wish I Could Favorite Your Post
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 12:13 PM
Sep 2015

I also love how the onus is always on the oppressed minority group to fight and change the hearts and minds of the majority.

 

captainarizona

(363 posts)
75. leaving no banned hope not
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:47 PM
Sep 2015

I am a politically aggressive lefty so I worry about being banned. It would not occur to me to leave the fight against evil republicans. Most liberals are not like me they want to be reasonable with the unreasonable republicans and shame those who have no shame. They prefer conflict resolution to conflict. I accept that from them and hope they will accept me.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
79. Especially seeing as how this latest incident probably isn't even real.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:55 PM
Sep 2015
Ask yourself this: is there ANY Sanders supporter who is likely to be STUPID enough not to realize and expect and KNOW ahead of time that the person receiving the letter would MOST CERTAINLY post such a letter on DU? What Sanders supporter would not see that coming? NONE! Given that, why would a real Sanders supporter direct responsibility for it back to him/herself? Wouldn't they put it on anyone else instead? Put yourself in the hypothetical sender's shoes for a second, would YOU send a threatening letter to someone and ID it with your real group identity?

Knowing that it would be posted on DU, who would go, "I'm a Sanders supporter and I'm threatening a black woman"???? Who is that dumb? Nobody is. This is what tells us definitely that it was NOT a Sanders supporter. That's pretty easy to figure out.

Also, why would some disgruntled DUer send something like that now, when the person he/she's sending it to hasn't had a visible presence on DU for sometime now, weeks maybe? Why wait till now? Is a disgruntled Sanders supporter more likely sitting back and stewing over some remark made weeks ago, or is the person who is currently on a time out more likely sitting back and impatiently stewing over a way to get more attention and some revenge.

And who benefits the most from this? 1) threads of support; 2) discredit on Sanders supporters; 3) more friction between races; 4) persecution no longer debated but a foregone conclusion. I see a payoff there. It wouldn't be hard to create that frame. Simple.

I'm sorry, that just doesn't fly. This is most likely a backwards B scenario. It's least likely a Sanders supporter for the reason stated above. Doesn't add up.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
86. I'm a sanders supporter
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:10 PM
Sep 2015

and I'll answer your first question.

yes, a Bernie supporter can be that stupid. anyone could. do you really think all Bernie supporters are like minded geniuses?

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
88. I don't think anybody would not foresee that getting posted.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:19 PM
Sep 2015

Anybody who has had, or even read, one exhange with the person in question would know that anything usable would get posted. Restraint is not a word that comes to mind.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
90. but someone said there's photo proof
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:24 PM
Sep 2015

of something from the USPS proving she received it as a real letter. I was skeptical myself but that may be the evidence you seek. ask starrymessenger.

I admit, I still remain somewhat skeptical of the letter but I will say that people are being unfairly targeted.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
94. It isn't hard
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:31 PM
Sep 2015

to send a letter to someone (family or friend?) in a larger envelope, and have it mailed back to you.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
96. good point.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:35 PM
Sep 2015

I remain skeptical and with this post I officially wash my hands of that subject.

I care about those users that have been alert targeted and silenced but my opinion on the letter is up in the air so, I won't talk about that any longer.

if its real, I pray for another users safety. if its fake, welp, that's how the game is played in politics isn't it?

boston bean

(36,929 posts)
163. The sender sent two letters. Realizing he had written the wrong address on one.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:34 PM
Sep 2015

I've seen the envelopes. Go educate yourself and read some threads in the AA forum, but do all a favor and refrain from posting you think the receiver sent them to herself from St. Petersburg when she lives in freaking a whole continent away!

boston bean

(36,929 posts)
161. The person who did is probably high fiving his wonderfulself this very moment.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:29 PM
Sep 2015

Happy it's been posted. That is what lunatics do.

think your conspiracy has about as many holes as swiss cheese.

 

840high

(17,196 posts)
105. This was a very
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:41 PM
Sep 2015

juvenile effort to attack Sanders supporters hoping it discourages people from supporting Bernie.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
117. Agree.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 05:03 PM
Sep 2015

It's too "neat" and ties right in to the pre-existing constructed meme of the big bad Sanders supporters vs. the black woman.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
135. yep. false flag operation. not a very good one either
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 07:09 PM
Sep 2015

But people who want to believe something won't be dissuaded. I continue to be amazed that the "Sanders is a racist" meme actually caught on. The marketing has been ingeniously diabolical.

 

840high

(17,196 posts)
137. Makes me feel so sad. Sanders is
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 07:14 PM
Sep 2015

such a good, decent man who would fight for fairness for all.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
110. That's ridiculous
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:48 PM
Sep 2015

There have been some Sanders supporters going after her here, saying similar things. It's ridiculous to think there's some jedi mind trick going on here.

There are horrible people among the voters of every single candidate in the world. Even the most wonderful candidate ever is going to pick up a few nasty, mean supporters.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
141. Nasty and mean is one thing, stupid is another
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 07:49 PM
Sep 2015

If it was actually the poster whose name was on the letter who sent it then that's one of the dumbest tricks I've heard of in some time.

Whoever sent it for whatever purpose they were certainly nasty and mean and more than likely underhanded as well, it goes along with the first two character traits more often than not.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
168. I doubt the person's user name is Mr. Citizen
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:45 PM
Sep 2015

But IMO it probably is a DUer and it probably is a misguided and maybe very immature Sanders supporter. There have been DU Sanders supporters saying just those same kinds of things to her. I don't think it's that complicated. Some DU Sanders supporter is really upset by her, searched around to find her home address, and sent her a letter.

I know most Sanders supporters would never do that. I plan to vote for Sanders myself. But I do think that it's just what it looks like on the surface.

boston bean

(36,929 posts)
156. A fucking lunatic would.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:27 PM
Sep 2015

Your conspiracy theory ought to get you booted from this website. Intimating some one is spoofing (who possibly the receiver of the letter to get some pay back?)

Likely scenario is a Bernie Supporter sent the letter and has intimate knowledge of DU and many of the phrases and knowledge of history we see posted here day in and day out by those supporters.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
203. It was posted publicly on this site,
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:01 AM
Sep 2015

and I have a right to my opinion about it. And if you don't like that, tough toenails.

questionseverything

(11,803 posts)
185. when i read the letter i thought the same thing
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:54 PM
Sep 2015

it is possible it was an incredibly stupid sanders supporter but more likely it was from another campaign or even the repubs

the 1% have got to be happy with all this division among dems

LiberalArkie

(19,772 posts)
190. I would like to point out to everyone that I did a search through a search engine. I came up with
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 10:48 PM
Sep 2015

everything I needed within 3 minutes to have her name, address, childs picture, and telephone number. Yes someone could get all the information they needed, they just needed to be pissed off to print off the letters (looked like inkjet as they were folded before being dry).

joshcryer

(62,536 posts)
208. Yeah, no, the way BLM was treated here...
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:36 AM
Sep 2015

...and on other sites (like Reddit) tells me that there is an under currant with certain types of people. Rather than say it's not possible I say it's possible and likely. But I don't consider those types Sanders supporters. They're just vindictive anti-social types.

salib

(2,116 posts)
80. Yes, leaving DU would be a mistake for me.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 03:55 PM
Sep 2015

But what has happened to Bravenak, that also must addressed and should not be dismissed as that's "politics".

Yes, this is the good fight, but a critical part of that fight is the medium and the environment.

Bill USA

(6,436 posts)
87. I don't understand eliminating "Politics 2015". THis leaves pretty much only Gen Disc for political
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:13 PM
Sep 2015

comments that are not specifically about Dem primaries.

I am not enthusiastic about posting to GD as there are rather more air-heads on this forum than to my tolerance level. If I am posting something that I think deserves some serious consideration/discussion I am not that enthusiastic about posting it on GD just to see idiots post comments that really don't add anything to a meaningful discussion of the event or issue.


That leaves Good Reads as the only place to post something deserving serious consideration. But I prefer to leave GR for only those extra significant events or articles, otherwise GD will start to get too filled up with posts on matters that are worthy of serious discussion but do not actually rank as particularly noteworthy or singularly important articles or issues worthy of serious discussion.

For this reason I have become somewhat less interested in what's being discussed, and less motivated to post on DU.




 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
95. Didn't you know? You can checkout anytime you want, but you can never leave. nt
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:32 PM
Sep 2015

nt

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,842 posts)
98. When stalkers are invading people's privacy...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:36 PM
Sep 2015

When stalkers are invading people's privacy, getting their addresses, and sending them threatening letters maybe it's time for them to leave, if not for the safety than for the safety of their loved ones:


http://www.democraticunderground.com/118724750

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,842 posts)
106. A prudent person would be scared if people who could conceivably harm them had their address.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:42 PM
Sep 2015

eom

DemocratSinceBirth

(101,842 posts)
112. No matter how brave a person is he or she can't protect him or herself from threats they can't see.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:54 PM
Sep 2015

eom

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
164. Then I guess I'm a fool.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:36 PM
Sep 2015

And what the heck does eom mean? I see it everywhere.

Also, we're all threatened by something greater everyday. Do NOT let fear guide your decisions.

...I don't know. Maybe I'm too damn hopeful. Maybe I like people too much. I just want everyone to stick with it. We have a greater cause. There are certainly dissenters within us who seek to rattle everything and shake the very thing we built, but damn it, why leave and let them win?

I don't want anyone to leave. I don't want anyone to be afraid.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
102. I just got blocked from the African American group
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:39 PM
Sep 2015

I posted what I thought was a pretty innocuous message about not being afraid of DU, and tolerating opinions different than one's on. And for that I got blocked? Jeepers! What a bunch of hyper-sensitive folks, or at least the one is, who blocked me. I'm not leaving DU. You can write and reply whatever you like. Your opinions don't "hurt" me, because they're just opinions, just thinking.

People, who brag about disrupting the jury process are just braggarts. Some people brag about a lot of stuff. Bragging doesn't make it so. Trump brags about a lot of stuff. Doesn't make it so, does it? You can see the thread at http://www.democraticunderground.com/118724818

Get a grip people. It's political silly season.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
181. There's having an opinion, and then there's being a jerk about it.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:29 PM
Sep 2015

Also the fact that standards for posting are typically stricter in designated groups than in GD.

I suppose it's easy enough to run afoul of A or B, or both.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
114. You deserved it, too. Your message was mocking, not innocuous.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:55 PM
Sep 2015

Did you miss this bit, garnishing the OP?

************** For the African American Group *********************************

Perhaps you're unclear re: how many black voices have been silenced here, by agenda-laden jurors?

Your snark was obvious and unappreciated, and the response to it was entirely appropriate.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
193. No, actually I don't
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:08 PM
Sep 2015

and it just proves my impression that some folks have a low tolerance to hear an opinion that differs from their own. If someone complains about not having a fair opportunity to express an opinion, and then blocks those whose opinions are disliked, that's called hypocracy. What a bunch of phonies.

mcar

(46,000 posts)
143. Innocuous?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 07:59 PM
Sep 2015

I disagree. Your post was mocking and trivializing. You deserved the block.

Nice try at changing history though.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
149. Certain AA posters don't feel safe here anymore
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:17 PM
Sep 2015

because some asshole sent one of them a threatening letter through the USPS.

It had nothing to do with fucking different opinions. Jesus.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
103. Learn? Learn what? That the troll to DUer ratio is approaching ten to one?
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:39 PM
Sep 2015

That people will put "their" candidate over civility to people they've interacted with for a decade and a half?

This is Fight Club on the internet now. It's slightly more literate than YAHOO....but only just.


I think Skinner's little experiment has played out. It's a shame, really.

Response to MADem (Reply #103)

blackspade

(10,056 posts)
111. I'm still thinking about it.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:54 PM
Sep 2015

This place has become toxic to civil conversation.
With the alert stalking and real life stalking on top of this it's hard to make excuses to stay.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
116. Nope, I'm not thinking about leaving DU.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 04:58 PM
Sep 2015

I've been here 10 years, and I've seen a lot of tempests.

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
120. I have had to take breaks from here
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 05:12 PM
Sep 2015

Sometimes in the past, this place got too right wing for my liking.

When Discussionist openned, I used it as sort of a gettaway spot. At least there you know there are right wingers. Here there should not be, per the board terms of services.

Bernie has livened up the left on this board, it is not the DU of 2014 anymore.

Good thread.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
126. I'll be the last one here.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 05:47 PM
Sep 2015

If I don't earn a granite cookie first,
I'll turn out the lights when everyone else leaves.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
127. Rest assured, I serve on a lot of juries....
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 05:48 PM
Sep 2015

Oh wait,....that's not that reassuring....

Forget I said anything.

Carry on.

yuiyoshida

(45,397 posts)
128. AsahinaKimi is not on as much...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 05:49 PM
Sep 2015

I miss her.. we don't see each other that much either, now she has a job with the VA administration.

Liberal Jesus Freak

(1,476 posts)
131. I have loved DU for over ten years.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 06:16 PM
Sep 2015

I'm a low-poster but I read all the time. Don't plan on going anywhere but I will be glad when it's this time next year and we are all focused on the same candidate! In the meantime you are ALL guilty of educating me...thanks

Warpy

(114,590 posts)
132. No, damn it! They'll have to THROW ME OFF
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 06:16 PM
Sep 2015

and since I've taken on the word warriors and other concern trolls, that day is likely coming.

Faux pas

(16,343 posts)
133. Humans are the most dangerous when
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 06:22 PM
Sep 2015

emotions are involved. Sad thing is, politics are all about emotions. The 99% are emotional because every day is a struggle for survival. The 99% are emotional because money is more important than any living thing to the 1%. You start f-ing with everything the 99% needs to attain life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, they're going to be emotional. Emotions lead to revolutions.

I've said stupid things in my real life and my DU life. I'm not perfect, are you? My way to survive the political hell we'll be living until Nov 2016 is:

1. Confining myself to only responding to those I agree with and non political threads.

2. Not responding to obvious (master)baiters.

3. Trashing threads I find offensive. I hit the 'trash this thread' button with my middle finger.

4. When needed I chant my peace, love and joy mantra as many times as needed until the emotion passes.


How's everybody else surviving?

 

AOR

(692 posts)
139. If people don't stop alerting on everything that offends their delicate sensibilities...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 07:30 PM
Sep 2015

there won't be anyone left to leave. The place is bare bones now -and has been for some time- for anything resembling in-depth discussion on the real suffering for millions happening on the ground. Everything is about personalities and identities at DU in its current incarnation. Posters and lurkers will only put up with that shit for so long before they go elsewhere.

Historic NY

(40,006 posts)
180. No swhit every litle butt hyrt..........
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:26 PM
Sep 2015

they need to grow up and learn that its a rough and tumble world. I keep hearing FDR ..etc.. mentioned he would have chew these political neophyte sup like candy.
They stand out like beacons running up "thousands" of posts in a few months of membership - multi-post in several groups before they begin to serves on juries. We used to serve pizza here. The day after election day they will disappear like locusts, they always do.

Kaleva

(40,346 posts)
144. Each individual DUer sets their own temp in the kitchen
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:04 PM
Sep 2015

By choosing to skip the argumentative threads, DU remains a rather mellow place where one can engage in many interesting conversations or just read.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
158. This is a good way to put it.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:28 PM
Sep 2015

I'm told by some that if I were black or a Hillary supporter, that I would have been alerted into oblivion because of this thread.

Do you think this is true? Because though my message is one of "let's stick together" I'm told again, that if I were black or a Hillary supporter, that I'd be attacked for this. Do you think it's true?

Gloria

(17,663 posts)
182. If I can't post in my chosen Group without being hidden because I am
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 09:37 PM
Sep 2015

targeted by trolls, what's the point of DU?? No way to respond in the thread...just blocked? WOW..

Like a purge going on...

NanceGreggs

(27,835 posts)
189. "And you don't make the best decisions in an echo chamber ..."
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 10:44 PM
Sep 2015

Given that 80% to 85% of DUers are Bernie supporters, THIS IS AN ECHO CHAMBER.

"Hillary supporters, you're upset that this is feeling like Bernie Underground? You can either accept that the majority of your party is following Bernie on DU ..."

And yet again, there is the proof that DU has become an echo chamber for BS supporters, as it is in no way reflective of the Party as a whole. BS does not have the support of the "the majority of the party" in RL - only here in the echo chamber that DU has become.

"Don't weaken our party by leaving."

You've got to be kiddin' me. DU has absolutely nothing to do with "the Party", and one's participation here has no impact whatsoever on that Party. In fact, I doubt that even 50% of the regular posters here are Democrats.

Stay? Fight? WHY? The BSers can have DU - it's all theirs. Exactly what part of "we non-BSers don't give a flyin' fuck what happens to DU" do you not understand?

I've been here for ten years, and I wish DU was worth fighting for. But it's not. And it hasn't been for a very long time.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
191. Oh alright then.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 10:48 PM
Sep 2015

But it's not an echo chamber.

Because I have an interaction with a Hillary supporter, every freaking day.

And yes, it weakens the website/party by leaving.

For example, this website is the ONLY place I do political conversation. I'm sure I'm not the only one.

Stay, fight, why? Because that's the only thing that changes anything.

Go ahead and leave if you really intend to, but that changes nothing here.

Then again, you state you don't care about this place. If that's the case then... Well... Oh well!

NanceGreggs

(27,835 posts)
194. "Go ahead and leave if you really intend to ...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:09 PM
Sep 2015
... but that changes nothing here."

Now you're catching on. No matter who stays here or who leaves, nothing really changes.

And the Democratic Party will somehow survive whether DU changes or doesn't.

Imagine that.

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
225. "I wish DU was worth fighting for. But it's not."
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 11:45 AM
Sep 2015

You usually use a lot more words to say that.

Rockyj

(538 posts)
197. What a BUNCH of DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA...
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 11:35 PM
Sep 2015

Are there any adults here? Just high school kids? Go figure!

onecent

(6,096 posts)
206. The only problem with DU these last few years is our right to "FREEDOM OF SPEECH"..there
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 01:48 AM
Sep 2015

are guard dogs following our every word, and the juries are full of the hecklers, so i say many are going
to be leaving the closer we get to the end of the campaign trail.

We will NEVER all agree to the same person....but our rights to disagree have been tampered with.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
207. I so remember 2004...................
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 02:31 AM
Sep 2015

and I was a lurker.

We are all Dems, and gotta stick to it.

barbtries

(31,301 posts)
214. i'm thinking about leaving DU.
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 08:29 AM
Sep 2015

i don't even call it "the" DU, i'm out of touch. DU is not so much teaching me these days; it's more like going to a playground where the kids are beating up on each other relentlessly.
the thing is i can't leave. DU has been my virtual home for so long. i try to find a better home but i always, ALWAYS click back at DU. usually to be saddened by the sight of the kids relentlessly beating up on each other.
so i lurk, i hide threads, i post very rarely. i scan for OPs that hopefully offer a learning experience. i get called to jury service and see more and more and more specious alerts.
i consider myself a grown up. a DUer was first alerted off the board then a very nasty letter posted to her home via snail mail. what the fuck.
i don't want to fight like this. this is not useful, this does not advance the body politic. it makes democrats look like republicans as well, aargh. that's the worst thing about it to me - democrats are NOT republicans why are we acting like them?!
we may need to argue different positions but on DU these days it appears respect for one another has fallen by the wayside. a bunch of little kids incessantly beating up on each other. i have little hope this will improve any time between now and november 2016. so yeah, i'm thinking about leaving DU. probably won't though.

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
220. Everyone has the same tools available to control their own experience her at the DU
Fri Sep 11, 2015, 10:19 AM
Sep 2015

If you choose not to use them then that's your fault.

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