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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThinking about leaving the DU?
Don't.
So things are getting heated. There's a lot of things going on right now. It's primary season, the world is falling apart, etc...
But here's the thing, politics are all about making decisions, wise ones. And you don't make the best decisions in an echo chamber, that's why the people on capital hill are so out of touch with the rest of us, they only see each other and the 1%.
so stay, learn, teach and fight.
You feel that DU is filling up with members who are alert stalking others? Stay, fight, find a solution with the admins. You leave, the problem will just get worse.
Hillary supporters, you're upset that this is feeling like Bernie Underground? You can either accept that the majority of your party is following Bernie on DU or if you're so sure that Hillary is the best choice for president you should stay, learn, teach and fight.
Again, this is politics. We will only find our best decisions through debate, disagreement and resolution.
So if this kitchen is too hot then go ahead and take a break, but remember that all voices are necessary for a democracy to work. Stay and fight. Don't weaken our party by leaving. You, and all of us are our greatest strength.
Thank you.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)onehandle
(51,122 posts)However, the owners have given up:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10134733
retrowire
(10,345 posts)that's how you're supposed to deal with trolls.
ignore or permaban. what else can you do? track them down and slap them?
bvar22
(39,909 posts)Don't feed them.
They crave a response....ANY response to keep their shit rolling.
No response denies them the gratification.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)senz
(11,945 posts)I thought it was common knowledge. Back in the day, on now-defunct message boards, there was a saying that went something like DFTEC (I may have the acronym wrong) that meant: DON'T FEED THE ENERGY CREATURE. When an actual troll showed up trying to harass commenters and disrupt conversations, people would type the warning.
And it's true, ignoring them shuts them up, eventually. They live off attention.
RussBLib
(10,624 posts)Just reminding people that there are way to tailor your experience if you are feeling overwhelmed or angry all the time.
I look at all the Hillary/Bernie fighting as still ultimately good for the party. I believe that most Dems on this site will still support the eventual Dem nominee even if their candidate didn't make the cut.
Such is life. I guess perhaps I'm too old to let the bickering bother me.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)the bickering is good, it is a part of the process to making the best decision.
people should always try being cordial and less rude but hey, its politics.
notadmblnd
(23,720 posts)nt
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)THE FIENDS!
onehandle
(51,122 posts)Glad I didn't say that.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)The jury system has its flaws but that too, tends to average out to working, over time.
Too many people, of course, want to define everyone who doesn't agree with them as a "troll". I've been called a right winger, a libertarian, AND apparently a stealth GOP operative, just in the last few months.
Yes, that's me- I've been going under deep cover here for 10 years so I could pretend to think that Hillary Clinton has so far been running an uninspiring, craptastic primary campaign. All part of my master plan, my long game so to speak. MUAHAHAHAAAHAA!
Or something.
"trolls and disruptors" aren't running amok on DU, certainly no more than they always are. DU undeniably has a lot of people- a majority, it seems- who don't support a particular establishment primary candidate, and some of the supporters of that candidate seem to be profoundly distressed, angry, and agitated over that fact. But that doesn't mean that everyone who supports a different candidate -or is undecided- is a "troll and disruptor", even though some of the supporters of said primary candidate sure seem like they would like to define them all as such.
Hope that clears it up.
PatrickforO
(15,420 posts)Debate is healthy, echo chambers are bad, and most of the people on here aren't trolls.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)Many of which have been here a decade.
MIRT confirmed my suspicions.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Members, that's admin's job.
They're pretty up front about it- and it's a wise call. If MIRT could ban long time members, this place would be a train wreck.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)...if you were on MIRT, you weren't paying attention.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)But that was the old days, was it not?
The system was changed- oh, maybe a year or two ago, so that MIRT now doesn't even get the alerts on long-time members. At all. Because it became too much of a fucking shitshow. Specifically because some people were bound and determined to use alerts on some long timers to turn the MIRT forum into their own private little mini-meta, where they could spend hours opining at length on the people and groups they didn't like and "didn't belong on DU".
So unless I'm mistaken, at least on the terms I was there it was referred to as "kicking upstairs" or "sending upstairs" but again, that was MIRT 1.0 and not 2.0 or whatever the system is now.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)Must have been the group at the time.
Bubzer
(4,211 posts)"MUAHAHAHAAAHAA!
Or something. "
I think that may have to be my new tagline.
zentrum
(9,870 posts)RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)DU is not being overrun with trolls and disrupters.
99% of the posters here are good Democrats who have taken a keen interest in politics and current events.
Just because not everyone agrees with you does not make them trolls. Good gawd, as long as you have been here all you can do is smash and trash DU?
passiveporcupine
(8,175 posts)Now I don't have to say it.
RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)All this trashing of DU and the good members here is weird.
It's like they think they can tickle porcupines and not get quilled.
The Bern just makes some people try to do weird things, and is what I figure some here are reacting to.
passiveporcupine
(8,175 posts)Unfortunate. It sure doesn't make it easier to have discussions here.
PatrickforO
(15,420 posts)But you know, I am feeling the BERN!
840high
(17,196 posts)Bill USA
(6,436 posts)as I wrote here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7157812
With the loss of "Politics 2015", basically, the only place you've got to go, if you want to post something on politics but it's NOT about Democratic Primaries --- is Gen Disc. Now, re GD I lost interest long ago on posting to that forum, if I thought the issue/event I was posting about warrented serious consideration - as there are rather more air-heads (people who just don't want to have a sensible discussion about anything) on GD than to my own liking. Now, if I am posting something that isn't that serious, something laughable, sure I will post to GD but I preferred to use "Politics 2015" for more serious, 'grown-up' consideration/discussions.
I think it was a mistake to eliminate "Politics 2015" for those who want to discuss political events/issues but really are looking for a fairly serious (e.g. grown-up) consideration/discussion of issues/events posted about. Frankly, not haveing a place for serious discussion of political issues/events is killing DU.
Just my 'take' on it. I think DU would be better if we still had "Politics 2015" or something similar as a place for those who want to present/discuss issues and events in a reasonably serious manner.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)...automatically equate a difference of opinion with trolls and disrupters.
Very.
RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)onehandle: "DU being overrun with trolls and disrupters has nothing to do with politics."
That is a pretty clear statement that you think DU is being overrun with trolls and disrupters.
So, yeah, you said something like that. What I am saying is that you, onehandle, are claiming DU is being overrun with trolls and disrupters, and that you claim that because hardly anyone agrees with you when it comes to Hillary.
But now claim to have never said what you said. Weird, man, weird.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)I said nothing like that.
And good fucking bye.
roody
(10,849 posts)notadmblnd
(23,720 posts)or tell them to leave the thread and to shut up? Now what fun would that be?
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)necessarily trolls and disrupters.
I think a lot of people are disenchanted with DU because people with opinions and ideas that differ from those of the disenchanted are presenting persuasive arguments.
The discomfort is due to having to admit that our first choice may have been wrong and that we need to rethink our loyalties.
Dealing with conflict is always unpleasant. But if we humans did not deal with conflict, humanity would make no progress.
Fortunately, on DU, the conflict is all verbal and hopefully polite. But new ideas set off internal conflicts that can be really hard to deal with, internal in each of us, within ourselves.
New ideas are threatening to us. They make us feel attacked and vulnerable even though the new ideas are not really hurting us at all.
We feel secure when we just repeat our old ideas, when we fortify ourselves by encircling ourselves with people who agree with us.
We have to be willing to open up to new ideas. That is what a lot of people on DU are finding difficult.
Many thought they knew what candidate was the best and are now realizing still at a subconscious level, that the candidate they had picked really does not stand up to scrutiny.
That is painful.
If people want a life of miserable comfort rather than a life of creative challenge and the comfort that creativity and adopting new ideas provide, then so be it.
But I am sticking around.
Feel the Bern.
Tommymac
(7,334 posts)onehandle
(51,122 posts)Interesting.
senz
(11,945 posts)I doubt the people who most need to read and understand it can do so without tremendous discomfort.
Perhaps what is needed is a simple willingness to allow others to think and feel differently from oneself.
frylock
(34,825 posts)complaining about disrupters is pretty amusing.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)Is it only when you don't like the results of polls?
Interesting.
frylock
(34,825 posts)other than to troll Sanders supporters? In any case, perhaps you could provide examples of some the disrupting you alluded to?
still_one
(98,883 posts)merrily
(45,251 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)And this message board can do better at providing a civil, constructive forum for center-left Dems and progressives.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)time exchanging thoughts with like-minded Democrats and progressives.
Before those existed, then I DID on occasion think of leaving. Not now.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)randys1
(16,286 posts)and the majority here have HUGE issues with race, for instance.
So if you are not white, or if you are white like me but constantly criticizing white people, well you simply wont last long here.
The real problem in America, in our party, in both parties, in our politics, is white men, mostly heterosexual, have had their way, a very violent and corrupt way, for far too long.
What you are seeing here at DU is a microcosm of what is happening across America.
The thought that DU was a refuge for liberal thinkers like myself, was a mistaken thought.
Yes, I am saying that almost all of the problems we are facing are directly due to white hetereosexual men fucking everything up for hundreds of years here and elsewhere.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)are a group of heterosexual white males that have had power for too long.
but where did you get the idea that this was a refugee for liberal thinkers? I thought it was for all democratic mindsets.
I myself am liberal, and I've found plenty of like minded people here. I didn't have the expectation that it would only have liberals.
but I think it's better that way, its good that liberals can interact with centrists and vice versa, it creates great ideas if we work at it long enough.
randys1
(16,286 posts)is something I am finding out more and more each day.
I dont care if only Dems or libs are here, what I care about is non liberals silencing liberals by using juries
retrowire
(10,345 posts)I like that idea.
someone said you could get past that and see who it is with a google search but still, that's an extra step that assholes would have to make.
it would curb the abuse of the system at least.
randys1
(16,286 posts)only hide posts that are personal attacks that are over the top.
For instance I should be able to say to anyone here, as I have often wanted to, something like this:
"You dont act or talk like any liberal I know...you are constantly on the wrong side of race issues and Gay issues, and your overall attitude is very rightwing and very familiar to me from my experience on rightwing message boards"
Now I would like to say that to several people but NOT with the agenda of silencing them, just my way of telling them and everyone that this person is not here for the same reasons I am or most of you are.
Then they could say anything the want to me, as long as they dont disclose personal information or go over the top harsh ...
You see, nothing ANY con ANYWHERE on this planet would say to me or you, could be a problem because we are right, they are wrong. About everything. When left and right disagree, the left is always right.
Not complicated. We are on the right side of history, they are not. So nothing they say is a problem for me, the problem is when they can silence what I have to say.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)The word you in English, as I have been pointing out a lot lately on DU has two meanings. It encompasses the meaning "one," "on" in French and "Mann" in German which is a general way of saying "a person" and "you" which has different forms, plural, singular in German and French. We could use "one" but somehow that has gone out of style. It would make our lives less confrontational. Oh, well. Sigh.
You said:
"You dont act or talk like any liberal I know...you are constantly on the wrong side of race issues and Gay issues, and your overall attitude is very rightwing and very familiar to me from my experience on rightwing message boards"
You can use the passive voice and say the same thing without personally insulting someone, without engaging their defenses. Here goes a try:
"Liberals I know don't act or talk that way . . .that kind of view is on the wrong side of race issues and Gay issues. That attitude is very rightwing and very familiar to me from my experience on rightwing message boards."
Just a suggestion. It often is not WHAT a person says but HOW THEY SAY IT that makes an idea personally insulting.
Plus, I think that when we get on a message board, we have to put on a sort of raincoat that lets all the nasty drops of whatever just run off to the ground. We have to put on our spiritual and psychological protection.
There are a few posters on DU who, I sense, do not have very much in the way of spiritual or psychological protection. They are very vulnerable and take everything personally. I am sorry about that. I try to watch out for a couple of them. And I really like many of them. But they tend to have bad days or lose it easily. I try to let them alone and not respond to ugly posts. Strong people have to help the weak and vulnerable. That goes for our conduct on DU as well as our conduct off DU.
In the end, my personal religious belief is that we are all one, each of us a different part of "life," and that we are more bound together than separate so we have to help each other.
Thanks.
Bubzer
(4,211 posts)JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)removed on, and I found one to be objectionable. The rest should not, in my opinion, have been removed.
He was one of the best, most intelligent DUers. I think that his forced departure is very unfortunate.
We are getting into vendetta territory here. We need to retreat from that and get back into heated but tolerant discussions.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)of the offending post. Often, the post that is tagged for a jury is really just one of a number of questionable posts.
I usually vote against (well I virtually always vote against) removing a post if I think that the post was the result of someone goading or teasing the person whose post is being judged.
I would like to be able to remove whole chains of exchanged insults. They usually move from the topic being discussed to personal jibes to out-of-hand, troubling insults or even mild threats.
I don't know what to do about that. But I don't want to remove one of a number of really ugly posts. It does not seem fair. The jury members should be able to go through and tag other posts for removal.
And the penalties for posting removed posts should be less severe. I think that a DUer should be barred from posting only after at least ten posts have been removed.
And someone suggested to me that someone who has two posts removed within 24 hours should be asked to take a 24-hour or so break and then be allowed to return.
I favor more inclusion, not less.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)seaglass
(8,185 posts)someone was the instigator and acting uncivil. There is no way of knowing while judging one post if there is another jury judging one of the others.
This is sentiment I have seen expressed over and over on DU and it is one of the reasons DU juries are such a fail.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)You could delete entire subthreads if necessary
MADem
(135,425 posts)Some very thoughtful and well written posts got tossed with the rest of the "offending" sub- threads.
If we returned to moderation I would prefer that posts continue to be hidden, not "disappeared."
Posterity can be quite useful.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)I think full time mods put much more thought into what they are doing than juries. Plus, moderators had better tools available to them- tracking posting and alerting history was easy to do. I know there were a few cases where posters were put on forced ignore because one would just not let the other one alone.
Nitram
(27,673 posts)I see some DUers putting up litmus tests for being a liberal candidate or a liberal voter. Let's leave that kind of exclusionary thinking to the GOP.
randys1
(16,286 posts)to democrats, and a democrat says something liberal, if the jury finds enough rightwingers to silence him, so be it?
Fuck that
Nitram
(27,673 posts)notadmblnd
(23,720 posts)I think the jury system is as fair as it can be. I believe people are selected randomly and there are times that I disagree with the verdict. However, whining and crying incessantly that the system isn't fair is childish and immature. No one is forced to be here, no one is forced to pay to be here, so if one is unable to have a discussion without rudeness and name calling- then they need to pick up their toys and go play elsewhere.
notadmblnd
(23,720 posts)Or could it possibly be your way of telling me that I am too simple minded to understand if you did?
Because that post right there is a fine example of how the discourse here is usually escalated.
Which ever reason you replied with your "sigh" for, it was a slight and if you were not intending to slight me, the kindest thing you could have done- is simply not replied at all.
bvar22
(39,909 posts)but when I joined it was a board for "Liberals of all Stripes",
and the only prohibition was campaigning for 3rd Party Candidates during an election.
Divernan
(15,480 posts)randys1
(16,286 posts)awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)or do you not want the hide?
Lisa D
(1,532 posts)JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)I think a DUer should have to have at least 10 hides before being dismissed from DU.
Someone suggested to me that we have a cooling off period for anyone who has more than 2 posts removed within 24 hours. Say a 24-hour cooling off period.
I try my best to set aside differences of opinion when acting as a judge on a jury.
And recently, just yesterday I think, I simply refused to be on a jury because I did not feel I had enough understanding of the topic of the thread and post in question which had to do with transgender issues. I just don't have the experience to judge the value of an opinion or post on that topic. I don't have a problem with transgender people. I am not very visual in my approach to life and I often don't recognize that a transgender person is trans, so I'm kind of not the person to have an opinion on that issue.
So refusing to serve on a jury if you think you cannot judge fairly is also an alternative.
Plus I often think that we should be able to remove an entire series of responses that escalate into an exchange of insults if we wish.
I agree that the jury system is sometimes just an excuse to get rid of voices we do not want to hear.
So thanks for your post.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)but decided that left a slot open for the people described. It gets tiring, but we have to stick around.
Admiral Loinpresser
(3,859 posts)I almost always vote "leave it alone," unless it is overtly racist, etc.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)I like to look at the whole thread first to get some context. Three terms as a moderator makes you realize context means everything
kiva
(4,373 posts)"the majority here have HUGE issues with race"
"if you are white like me but constantly criticizing white people"
Thinking that other people are always wrong and that you are always right...well, that seems to be the sort of thing you are criticizing about people that disagree with you.
randys1
(16,286 posts)mmonk
(52,589 posts)I always end up back.
Admiral Loinpresser
(3,859 posts)L0oniX
(31,493 posts)Be back in a few ...have to get something to drink.
mmonk
(52,589 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,381 posts)10 years we have informed the owners of this website that minority voices get overwhelmed here. Blacks, Gays, Feminist women, people who post in other languages--have all been muffled by the system of this website. Going back years. You can go to DU2 and go through the old subforums and see all the people who were tombstoned or left.
It's time for the majority to fight for us. We have been here in the trenches, and practically nothing has been reformed. If you want our voices here, fight for us to be heard.
Someone took their spleen to real life and threatened a Black DUer, by mail, a federal crime. This isn't just board fuckery, it is real life. That's old tactics going back to the FBI mailing MLKjr to tell him to kill himself, and other terrorist tactics.
The message that sends, is shut up, shut up your friends, or we will make you all shut up.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)TBF
(36,589 posts)she and I may support different candidates at the primary stage but I know we are overall on the same page. This breach of security is unacceptable. I expect to hear from the admins on this or I will leave and I'm sure many others will as well. Or they will simply read and no longer contribute (with voices or donations).
This doesn't change how I feel about Bernie and I will of course be working for him via donations and local. But none of us need DU to do that. When it comes to our personal safety being threatened they've crossed a line - no matter which side of the aisle they are standing on politically.
Response to TBF (Reply #23)
retrowire This message was self-deleted by its author.
TBF
(36,589 posts)can determine because posting the envelope with Bravenak's name, address, and postmark is not going to happen. However, Bravenak could give that info to Skinner if she chose. I don't know how something like this is handled - perhaps she needs to contact her local police department. That is what I would do if I received hate mail via regular snail mail.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Someone please explain how this happened.
Starry Messenger
(32,381 posts)It was really sent to her house by post. If you still can't see the images because of your web browser, it is going to be hard for you to understand, so you'd probably better fix your settings. It is on paper, with a mail cancellation from the post office and everything.
Response to Starry Messenger (Reply #31)
retrowire This message was self-deleted by its author.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)but I don't necessarily believe it was sent by a DUer.
If the cavers are behind this, and they have done this type thing before, they must be laughing their asses off at all the accusations flying around here.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)WOW.
Response to bettyellen (Reply #41)
retrowire This message was self-deleted by its author.
Starry Messenger
(32,381 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,381 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)those who've been silenced can make new accounts and come back can't they?
Starry Messenger
(32,381 posts)Squinch
(59,450 posts)They (including you)have won the ability to post your musings, unchallenged, in the echo chamber of this very small and insignificant sliver of the world, namely white males, mostly supporters of Bernie, who more and more often, are extremely nasty.
I am a white woman who likes Bernie, and I can't stand what I am seeing here.
This has become a place in which the experiences of anyone who is not a white man (including Bravenak's experience) is discounted by the majority (including you specifically in this thread in which you say that you think Bravenak faked the letter) and lots of other white guys high five each other for having discounted those experiences.
Yeah. Winning. Have fun with that.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)I'm sorry you see me as an enemy.
Squinch
(59,450 posts)That kind of discounting is habitual here and that behavior leads to an us vs. them scenario. It has nothing to do with whether I am weak or strong.
I'm sorry you can't see that your behavior is part of what has created this problem.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)Listen, if the letter is real, then I pray for bravenak's safety, I truly do. If it isn't (which is always a possibility. I don't like the fear that it's instilled in our community. And in politics, things like that can be faked, but they can be real.) real, then I just guess that's part of DU's political maelstrom.
We can let the subject of the letter be a divisive thing, OR, we could agree to disagree. In the end, as long as bravenak does what is best for her safety, as long as we all are vigilant to continue with our daily lives, then the letter doesn't matter and we'll carry on as we always do.
I'm not letting a letter divide me from other people, I'm not letting it scare me from the damn internet.
So your choice is yours, does the letter divide you from we the people? Or does it embolden you to find resolve?
Squinch
(59,450 posts)receiver of faking the letter. Do you hear yourself? I guess in your world that isn't a divisive thing to do. In my world it is.
"Embolden you to find resolve"? What are you even talking about? The fact that some creep sent a creepy letter to someone I respect because she dares to post on DU as a black woman is supposed to embolden me to find resolve to continue posting here??
Yeah. No. It doesn't embolden me to find resolve.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)Squinch
(59,450 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)Last I checked, I was in control of what my final position was.
For example, if I ended this very sentence with the phrase that I believed the letter, THAT would be my final position.
Not what is all over this thread. I did not ever accuse her of making it either. Just said it was possibly fake. As in, the letter is bogus and intends no real threat?
Either way, I decide my final position and honestly it's indifference. I don't care to talk about it. Truth is, and again, I'll say it AGAIN...
If it's real, I pray for her safety, if not then I guess that's just the nature of this political beast.
Squinch
(59,450 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)A second letter is odd. It's really hard to call, but it's getting to be too much.
The letter is likely real.
But it won't deter me from encouraging people to stay here, and fight.
Squinch
(59,450 posts)Imagine our relief.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)It did seem extremely important to you that I accept the reality of the letter. lol
Either way, stay safe and I wish you well. No hard feelings, I hope.
Squinch
(59,450 posts)ones who has added to the problem. I have no plans to lol over this with you.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)chervilant
(8,267 posts)and I am disgusted with the "skeptics" who discount and "justify" insupportable positions about the isms we see here -- especially the racism, sexism and heterosexism.
(I have made an appropriate addition to my IL...)
ancianita
(43,303 posts)YoungDemCA
(5,714 posts)Well said, and agreed entirely.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)at least I don't see it.
The DUer was threatened? Threatened with what?
The big threat was "we will jury stalk you and put you on time out in DU".
that's about as threatening as saying "we will call you a doodoo head".
I mean what, is a person going to hire bodyguards to protect themselves from being put on timeout on DU? Maybe go into witness protection? It's not a significant threat at all.
The really freaky part is, since, unlike William Pitt, she does not post here under her real name, well how does anybody know where she lives? How did this person learn her real name? Only Agent Mike should know that. Would former mods have that information? Has she, like me, posted her real name before? Met other DUers at meet-ups?
The other freaky part is the idea that there is somebody so deranged as to think a letter like that was a good idea.
I have a hard time believing it is real, from a real Bernie supporter on DU. Even the average Trump supporter is not THAT ridiculous.
KentuckyWoman
(7,398 posts)I've been around a few years - not many. Don't post much since my life is usually too full to have time to come by but also because there are so many threads I simply don't feel comfortable speaking my mind.
Impressions are subjective of course but what I've seen is that inflammatory posts that fat shame, belittle people (especially conservative women) for the way they look, are anti white people, anti church, anti business are mostly allowed to stand and if anyone replies with anything less than a high five it's like smacking a hornet's nest.
I've lost count of how many times I've started to leave a reply to a thread that is intended to be a reasoned thoughtful addition to the conversation and ended up not posting because it just didn't seem worth the inevitable flame war to follow. Sure enough, someone else hits the thread to say something close to what I was thinking and gets hosed for not high fiving.
Like I said, I'm relatively new but this is my impression of the current situation. I expect to get absolutely reamed for posting this. But I like the DU. A lot. If it times past people speaking the minority position were getting muffled that's just wrong. If my impression is correct and the pendulum has swung the opposite way then that's wrong too.
My sister, DUer SmileyRose loved this place. She learned a lot and it kept her sane during the last years of her life when she was in a lot of pain with one cancer after the next up until her death. When she didn't have the energy anymore she asked me to create a login and keep her posted on what I saw here. I was hooked.
Anyways, in the round about way I guess I'm saying I agree with you on the big picture. This can be a really good place to share info and support each other in common cause even if we quabble about the smaller things. Muffling speech is not helpful in that regard.
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)you'll resist the impulse to delete, and post more often. I am very taken with this post. Just two cents but you can always ignore the inevitable flame war to follow, that's what I do. Let it blow on by and just don't answer the snark etc. Nothing says you have to.
I wasn't lucky enough to know your sister well, but I did know her name, and how much she was loved around here.
Lisa D
(1,532 posts)geardaddy
(25,392 posts)PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)Freelancer
(2,107 posts)dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)I have on my hutch a Staffordshire portrait figure of Sir William Fenwick Williams. He asked me to thank you for that chuckle.
erronis
(23,812 posts)Can we have some simple statistics/graphs about who has posted what to which threads?
Altho I'm very wet behind the ears, I can sorta identify certain ids with a certain POV. I'm sure that many people/bots take on multiple ids and styles to avoid being caught. And I'd hope that the DU administrators are already doing some semantic analyses of who is answering what in a particular fashion.
I'm no advocate of big brother but I'm sure that other organizations are gaming the DU board.
JustAnotherGen
(38,042 posts)And I may very well join after the Primary Season!
mountain grammy
(29,009 posts)please tell me where and I'll follow. I would really miss you.
JustAnotherGen
(38,042 posts)lark
(26,068 posts)I, for one, am staying, fighting at times and holding hands at others. Yes, there are aggravating trolls, this is what rw'ers do, however there are so many good souls here, I overlook the rotten apples. I learn so much here.
We all have our pet peeves and differences, but the Democratic party has always been the "big tent" and I'd hate to see it any other way.
Freelancer
(2,107 posts)It's just no fun. I've written a lot here, but the only fun I've had is arguing over original Star Trek vs Next Generation. Why is that?
I just dunno.
gregcrawford
(2,382 posts)dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)See, youre fairly new and youve already added so much to the conversation by being here.
Ive always learned a lot from people with differing opinions, different life experiences etc. Maybe those people with differing opinions havent changed my mind, but I agree with the echo chamber effect and thats whats happened to people who only listen to RW-radio or Fox News. I love that we dont march lock-step like some other party who shall remain nameless.
Helen Borg
(3,963 posts)Like nobody is not gonna watch the next season of Game of Thrones. It's addictive.
meaculpa2011
(918 posts)but my only question is: How do I delete my account so that there is no record of my having been here?
dembotoz
(16,922 posts)ms liberty
(11,225 posts)"name removed" has a lot of posts with no text. (A little levity, here...)
ancianita
(43,303 posts)Just a few quick echoes...
DU is the place where relevant news -- not fluff -- can enrich your thinking and overall enjoyment of living. There's as much fun (the DU Lounge, the small personal interest groups, etc.) as you want here as well as politics.
As for the Big Threads, the verbal sparring is what the best of democracy is about.
The mudslinging and personal attacks are the bad discourse which are useful, cautionary tales of how not to be.
Many who've been politically asleep for decades have learned the hard way to never walk away.
Every withdrawal costs this country and those who withdraw.
DU saved my sanity when, in 2007, media could not. It will save yours, too, in ways that might surprise you.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)marble falls
(71,872 posts)liberal N proud
(61,194 posts)saidsimplesimon
(7,888 posts)It's wonderful to read comments that celebrate our diversity, while recognizing we stand together on the majority of issues.
world wide wally
(21,836 posts)You know the rest!
Android3.14
(5,402 posts)Thanks.
George II
(67,782 posts)The problem is that I've been a member here for almost 10 years, and had my first two "hides" in July of this year because I had the chutzpah to question the Sanders campaign. Those two hides were within an hour or two of each other.
So, I've significantly cut back on my posts and visits here because I don't want to see things posted that I disagree with but can't comment upon in fear of being swarmed upon with alerts. I've stepped up a couple of times (most recently a few minutes ago) but for the most part have decided to be silent, at least until early next year.
hamsterjill
(17,562 posts)DU is a part of my internet activities. I come here for information, for news, for sharing of likeminded opinions, etc. I used to come here to learn, but I don't feel the level of discussion here at this time is the same as it was several years ago, so I'm not sure I've learned anything of late, except that there are a few really childish posters on here. If you don't agree with the opinions that those posters have - watch out!
I've been here officially since 2004, lurked since DU's inception. I have around 6,000 posts. So I'm not obsessed with DU.
That said, I ignore people who are nasty to me, and I get off of DU and go about my real life.
DonCoquixote
(13,956 posts)Part of why sleaze prospers is because they know that, even if you heal the wounds, sooner or later, your body tells your brain "Jeesh, it is not worth it, we have to get out of here before we get a stroke!"
I say, please, let's not give this over to the bad guys, and yes, I do not care where said sleaze is a sincere clinton/sanders/socialist/centrist/anarchist insert affiliation here, when the sleaze says "I do not care who I have to hurt or how I have to do it" then they are a discredit to their cause, and someone that will indeed, reap the whirlwind, because in time, the very people they need to survive will either be too afraid to offer food and aid, or simply think they can take their place. As far as the outright paid ops, we cannot pretend they are not there: one trip to Freeperland or DI will show these people lighting cigars and pouring champagne while stitching their sock puppets.
I do not care what you think, feel, or believe, I care what you DO. There are many people who frankly, I should be politically at war with, but because they have been kind and willing to listen, they are the people I fight for on DU. Likewise, politically, I should be a Sanders supporter, but seeing the yes, outright RACIST behavior that has been shown because of some activists in Seattle is DISGUSTING. I wish Bernie would return every cent you gave him, because of he knew who some of his supporters were, I think he would, as well as give a fine jeremiad castigating them for attitudes.
But the key thing is to DO, to make sure that the cranks and bullies and "ratf**ers" do NOT run the show, because unless people make a stand, they will. Our goal should be to be the ones who survive, so when all the "idealists" and "pragmatists" are floating on their little bit of flotsam, we will stand together on our raft, but this time, we will make it VERY clear that whoever we let onto the boat does NOT try to become captain. The left, right and center all have plenty of people who have allowed their ideals to sink because they want to WIN, well, they win battles, but it is those of us that no matter what, actually care for others, and our own integrity, that survive wars.
DonCoquixote
(13,956 posts)the term comes from Sileseia, now part of Poland. It was known for making the best silks outside of China, but so many knock offs happened, silk was called "silesi". This foits because the would be warriors are nothing but cheap kick offs trying to appear to be precious.
brooklynite
(96,882 posts)...I can take whatever insults people want to dish out; I'm able to remember that there's a real world outside of the blogosphere.
HuckleB
(35,773 posts)... the reality is that DU's majority reflects mainstream upper middle-class Democrats, who sometimes can see what should be done, but seldom do so. And the bigger issue is they refuse to challenge their preconceptions. It's really not a progressive mindset.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)interests align with theirs, everything will be fine. If they don't, then you are the one with the problem. It's counterproductive to exhort those being oppressed to stay and fight, when it's quite clear who's in charge.
You really need to address the ones who are driving people away - THEY are the ones "weakening the party".
lib87
(535 posts)I also love how the onus is always on the oppressed minority group to fight and change the hearts and minds of the majority.
captainarizona
(363 posts)I am a politically aggressive lefty so I worry about being banned. It would not occur to me to leave the fight against evil republicans. Most liberals are not like me they want to be reasonable with the unreasonable republicans and shame those who have no shame. They prefer conflict resolution to conflict. I accept that from them and hope they will accept me.
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)Knowing that it would be posted on DU, who would go, "I'm a Sanders supporter and I'm threatening a black woman"???? Who is that dumb? Nobody is. This is what tells us definitely that it was NOT a Sanders supporter. That's pretty easy to figure out.
Also, why would some disgruntled DUer send something like that now, when the person he/she's sending it to hasn't had a visible presence on DU for sometime now, weeks maybe? Why wait till now? Is a disgruntled Sanders supporter more likely sitting back and stewing over some remark made weeks ago, or is the person who is currently on a time out more likely sitting back and impatiently stewing over a way to get more attention and some revenge.
And who benefits the most from this? 1) threads of support; 2) discredit on Sanders supporters; 3) more friction between races; 4) persecution no longer debated but a foregone conclusion. I see a payoff there. It wouldn't be hard to create that frame. Simple.
I'm sorry, that just doesn't fly. This is most likely a backwards B scenario. It's least likely a Sanders supporter for the reason stated above. Doesn't add up.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)and I'll answer your first question.
yes, a Bernie supporter can be that stupid. anyone could. do you really think all Bernie supporters are like minded geniuses?
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)Anybody who has had, or even read, one exhange with the person in question would know that anything usable would get posted. Restraint is not a word that comes to mind.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)of something from the USPS proving she received it as a real letter. I was skeptical myself but that may be the evidence you seek. ask starrymessenger.
I admit, I still remain somewhat skeptical of the letter but I will say that people are being unfairly targeted.
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)to send a letter to someone (family or friend?) in a larger envelope, and have it mailed back to you.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)I remain skeptical and with this post I officially wash my hands of that subject.
I care about those users that have been alert targeted and silenced but my opinion on the letter is up in the air so, I won't talk about that any longer.
if its real, I pray for another users safety. if its fake, welp, that's how the game is played in politics isn't it?
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)boston bean
(36,929 posts)I've seen the envelopes. Go educate yourself and read some threads in the AA forum, but do all a favor and refrain from posting you think the receiver sent them to herself from St. Petersburg when she lives in freaking a whole continent away!
boston bean
(36,929 posts)Happy it's been posted. That is what lunatics do.
think your conspiracy has about as many holes as swiss cheese.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)juvenile effort to attack Sanders supporters hoping it discourages people from supporting Bernie.
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)It's too "neat" and ties right in to the pre-existing constructed meme of the big bad Sanders supporters vs. the black woman.
Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)But people who want to believe something won't be dissuaded. I continue to be amazed that the "Sanders is a racist" meme actually caught on. The marketing has been ingeniously diabolical.
840high
(17,196 posts)such a good, decent man who would fight for fairness for all.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)There have been some Sanders supporters going after her here, saying similar things. It's ridiculous to think there's some jedi mind trick going on here.
There are horrible people among the voters of every single candidate in the world. Even the most wonderful candidate ever is going to pick up a few nasty, mean supporters.
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)I agree with your second thought.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)If it was actually the poster whose name was on the letter who sent it then that's one of the dumbest tricks I've heard of in some time.
Whoever sent it for whatever purpose they were certainly nasty and mean and more than likely underhanded as well, it goes along with the first two character traits more often than not.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)But IMO it probably is a DUer and it probably is a misguided and maybe very immature Sanders supporter. There have been DU Sanders supporters saying just those same kinds of things to her. I don't think it's that complicated. Some DU Sanders supporter is really upset by her, searched around to find her home address, and sent her a letter.
I know most Sanders supporters would never do that. I plan to vote for Sanders myself. But I do think that it's just what it looks like on the surface.
Purveyor
(29,876 posts)pass the smell test, IMO
boston bean
(36,929 posts)Your conspiracy theory ought to get you booted from this website. Intimating some one is spoofing (who possibly the receiver of the letter to get some pay back?)
Likely scenario is a Bernie Supporter sent the letter and has intimate knowledge of DU and many of the phrases and knowledge of history we see posted here day in and day out by those supporters.
Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)and I have a right to my opinion about it. And if you don't like that, tough toenails.
questionseverything
(11,803 posts)it is possible it was an incredibly stupid sanders supporter but more likely it was from another campaign or even the repubs
the 1% have got to be happy with all this division among dems
LiberalArkie
(19,772 posts)everything I needed within 3 minutes to have her name, address, childs picture, and telephone number. Yes someone could get all the information they needed, they just needed to be pissed off to print off the letters (looked like inkjet as they were folded before being dry).
joshcryer
(62,536 posts)...and on other sites (like Reddit) tells me that there is an under currant with certain types of people. Rather than say it's not possible I say it's possible and likely. But I don't consider those types Sanders supporters. They're just vindictive anti-social types.
salib
(2,116 posts)But what has happened to Bravenak, that also must addressed and should not be dismissed as that's "politics".
Yes, this is the good fight, but a critical part of that fight is the medium and the environment.
Bill USA
(6,436 posts)comments that are not specifically about Dem primaries.
I am not enthusiastic about posting to GD as there are rather more air-heads on this forum than to my tolerance level. If I am posting something that I think deserves some serious consideration/discussion I am not that enthusiastic about posting it on GD just to see idiots post comments that really don't add anything to a meaningful discussion of the event or issue.
That leaves Good Reads as the only place to post something deserving serious consideration. But I prefer to leave GR for only those extra significant events or articles, otherwise GD will start to get too filled up with posts on matters that are worthy of serious discussion but do not actually rank as particularly noteworthy or singularly important articles or issues worthy of serious discussion.
For this reason I have become somewhat less interested in what's being discussed, and less motivated to post on DU.
Rex
(65,616 posts)nt
Marty McGraw
(1,024 posts)
DemocratSinceBirth
(101,842 posts)When stalkers are invading people's privacy, getting their addresses, and sending them threatening letters maybe it's time for them to leave, if not for the safety than for the safety of their loved ones:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/118724750
retrowire
(10,345 posts)DemocratSinceBirth
(101,842 posts)eom
retrowire
(10,345 posts)DemocratSinceBirth
(101,842 posts)eom
retrowire
(10,345 posts)And what the heck does eom mean? I see it everywhere.
Also, we're all threatened by something greater everyday. Do NOT let fear guide your decisions.
...I don't know. Maybe I'm too damn hopeful. Maybe I like people too much. I just want everyone to stick with it. We have a greater cause. There are certainly dissenters within us who seek to rattle everything and shake the very thing we built, but damn it, why leave and let them win?
I don't want anyone to leave. I don't want anyone to be afraid.
Juicy_Bellows
(2,427 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)vlyons
(10,252 posts)I posted what I thought was a pretty innocuous message about not being afraid of DU, and tolerating opinions different than one's on. And for that I got blocked? Jeepers! What a bunch of hyper-sensitive folks, or at least the one is, who blocked me. I'm not leaving DU. You can write and reply whatever you like. Your opinions don't "hurt" me, because they're just opinions, just thinking.
People, who brag about disrupting the jury process are just braggarts. Some people brag about a lot of stuff. Bragging doesn't make it so. Trump brags about a lot of stuff. Doesn't make it so, does it? You can see the thread at http://www.democraticunderground.com/118724818
Get a grip people. It's political silly season.
840high
(17,196 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Also the fact that standards for posting are typically stricter in designated groups than in GD.
I suppose it's easy enough to run afoul of A or B, or both.
Number23
(24,544 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)Did you miss this bit, garnishing the OP?
************** For the African American Group *********************************
Perhaps you're unclear re: how many black voices have been silenced here, by agenda-laden jurors?
Your snark was obvious and unappreciated, and the response to it was entirely appropriate.
leftofcool
(19,460 posts)vlyons
(10,252 posts)and it just proves my impression that some folks have a low tolerance to hear an opinion that differs from their own. If someone complains about not having a fair opportunity to express an opinion, and then blocks those whose opinions are disliked, that's called hypocracy. What a bunch of phonies.
mcar
(46,000 posts)I disagree. Your post was mocking and trivializing. You deserved the block.
Nice try at changing history though.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)because some asshole sent one of them a threatening letter through the USPS.
It had nothing to do with fucking different opinions. Jesus.
MADem
(135,425 posts)That people will put "their" candidate over civility to people they've interacted with for a decade and a half?
This is Fight Club on the internet now. It's slightly more literate than YAHOO....but only just.
I think Skinner's little experiment has played out. It's a shame, really.
Response to MADem (Reply #103)
840high This message was self-deleted by its author.
blackspade
(10,056 posts)This place has become toxic to civil conversation.
With the alert stalking and real life stalking on top of this it's hard to make excuses to stay.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I've been here 10 years, and I've seen a lot of tempests.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)Guy Whitey Corngood
(26,848 posts)I'll be back in hour.
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840high
(17,196 posts)PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)Sometimes in the past, this place got too right wing for my liking.
When Discussionist openned, I used it as sort of a gettaway spot. At least there you know there are right wingers. Here there should not be, per the board terms of services.
Bernie has livened up the left on this board, it is not the DU of 2014 anymore.
Good thread.
leftofcool
(19,460 posts)Autumn
(48,952 posts)bvar22
(39,909 posts)If I don't earn a granite cookie first,
I'll turn out the lights when everyone else leaves.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Oh wait,....that's not that reassuring....
Forget I said anything.
Carry on.
yuiyoshida
(45,397 posts)I miss her.. we don't see each other that much either, now she has a job with the VA administration.
Liberal Jesus Freak
(1,476 posts)I'm a low-poster but I read all the time. Don't plan on going anywhere but I will be glad when it's this time next year and we are all focused on the same candidate! In the meantime you are ALL guilty of educating me...thanks
Warpy
(114,590 posts)and since I've taken on the word warriors and other concern trolls, that day is likely coming.
Faux pas
(16,343 posts)emotions are involved. Sad thing is, politics are all about emotions. The 99% are emotional because every day is a struggle for survival. The 99% are emotional because money is more important than any living thing to the 1%. You start f-ing with everything the 99% needs to attain life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, they're going to be emotional. Emotions lead to revolutions.
I've said stupid things in my real life and my DU life. I'm not perfect, are you? My way to survive the political hell we'll be living until Nov 2016 is:
1. Confining myself to only responding to those I agree with and non political threads.
2. Not responding to obvious (master)baiters.
3. Trashing threads I find offensive. I hit the 'trash this thread' button with my middle finger.
4. When needed I chant my peace, love and joy mantra as many times as needed until the emotion passes.
How's everybody else surviving?
retrowire
(10,345 posts)Faux pas
(16,343 posts)k?
AOR
(692 posts)there won't be anyone left to leave. The place is bare bones now -and has been for some time- for anything resembling in-depth discussion on the real suffering for millions happening on the ground. Everything is about personalities and identities at DU in its current incarnation. Posters and lurkers will only put up with that shit for so long before they go elsewhere.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)Historic NY
(40,006 posts)they need to grow up and learn that its a rough and tumble world. I keep hearing FDR ..etc.. mentioned he would have chew these political neophyte sup like candy.
They stand out like beacons running up "thousands" of posts in a few months of membership - multi-post in several groups before they begin to serves on juries. We used to serve pizza here. The day after election day they will disappear like locusts, they always do.
Kaleva
(40,346 posts)By choosing to skip the argumentative threads, DU remains a rather mellow place where one can engage in many interesting conversations or just read.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)I'm told by some that if I were black or a Hillary supporter, that I would have been alerted into oblivion because of this thread.
Do you think this is true? Because though my message is one of "let's stick together" I'm told again, that if I were black or a Hillary supporter, that I'd be attacked for this. Do you think it's true?
ileus
(15,396 posts)Gloria
(17,663 posts)targeted by trolls, what's the point of DU?? No way to respond in the thread...just blocked? WOW..
Like a purge going on...
NanceGreggs
(27,835 posts)Given that 80% to 85% of DUers are Bernie supporters, THIS IS AN ECHO CHAMBER.
"Hillary supporters, you're upset that this is feeling like Bernie Underground? You can either accept that the majority of your party is following Bernie on DU ..."
And yet again, there is the proof that DU has become an echo chamber for BS supporters, as it is in no way reflective of the Party as a whole. BS does not have the support of the "the majority of the party" in RL - only here in the echo chamber that DU has become.
"Don't weaken our party by leaving."
You've got to be kiddin' me. DU has absolutely nothing to do with "the Party", and one's participation here has no impact whatsoever on that Party. In fact, I doubt that even 50% of the regular posters here are Democrats.
Stay? Fight? WHY? The BSers can have DU - it's all theirs. Exactly what part of "we non-BSers don't give a flyin' fuck what happens to DU" do you not understand?
I've been here for ten years, and I wish DU was worth fighting for. But it's not. And it hasn't been for a very long time.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)But it's not an echo chamber.
Because I have an interaction with a Hillary supporter, every freaking day.
And yes, it weakens the website/party by leaving.
For example, this website is the ONLY place I do political conversation. I'm sure I'm not the only one.
Stay, fight, why? Because that's the only thing that changes anything.
Go ahead and leave if you really intend to, but that changes nothing here.
Then again, you state you don't care about this place. If that's the case then... Well... Oh well!
NanceGreggs
(27,835 posts)Now you're catching on. No matter who stays here or who leaves, nothing really changes.
And the Democratic Party will somehow survive whether DU changes or doesn't.
Imagine that.
840high
(17,196 posts)Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)You usually use a lot more words to say that.
Rockyj
(538 posts)Are there any adults here? Just high school kids? Go figure!
onecent
(6,096 posts)are guard dogs following our every word, and the juries are full of the hecklers, so i say many are going
to be leaving the closer we get to the end of the campaign trail.
We will NEVER all agree to the same person....but our rights to disagree have been tampered with.
raven mad
(4,940 posts)and I was a lurker.
We are all Dems, and gotta stick to it.
olddots
(10,237 posts)Since 2003 .
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)PJMcK
(25,046 posts)Nope. Never.
barbtries
(31,301 posts)i don't even call it "the" DU, i'm out of touch. DU is not so much teaching me these days; it's more like going to a playground where the kids are beating up on each other relentlessly.
the thing is i can't leave. DU has been my virtual home for so long. i try to find a better home but i always, ALWAYS click back at DU. usually to be saddened by the sight of the kids relentlessly beating up on each other.
so i lurk, i hide threads, i post very rarely. i scan for OPs that hopefully offer a learning experience. i get called to jury service and see more and more and more specious alerts.
i consider myself a grown up. a DUer was first alerted off the board then a very nasty letter posted to her home via snail mail. what the fuck.
i don't want to fight like this. this is not useful, this does not advance the body politic. it makes democrats look like republicans as well, aargh. that's the worst thing about it to me - democrats are NOT republicans why are we acting like them?!
we may need to argue different positions but on DU these days it appears respect for one another has fallen by the wayside. a bunch of little kids incessantly beating up on each other. i have little hope this will improve any time between now and november 2016. so yeah, i'm thinking about leaving DU. probably won't though.
steve2470
(37,481 posts)steve2470
(37,481 posts)if the site is not reformed, a lot of people may leave in time. We'll see.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)If you choose not to use them then that's your fault.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)lol no I agree though.