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SAO PAULO (AP) -- A Brazilian airline says one of its female pilots tossed a passenger off a flight because he was making sexist comments about women flying planes.
Trip Airlines says in a Tuesday statement the pilot ejected the man before takeoff as he made loud, sexist comments upon learning the pilot was a woman. The jet continued on to the state of Goias after a one-hour delay.
The passenger involved in Friday's incident has not been identified. He was met by police at the plane and escorted out of the Belo Horizonte airport. Police at the airport have not responded to calls and it isn't known if the man has been charged with anything.
Trip says it won't tolerate disparaging remarks made about any of the 1,400 women working for the airline.
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Enrique
(27,461 posts)not one bit.
left coaster
(1,093 posts)..or, oh, say his surgeon, before she operates on him..
Idiot.
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)Aviation Pro
(12,125 posts)...that was an internet hoax.
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)Bake
(21,977 posts)The analogy is kind of lacking ...
Bake
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)unless she was going to kill them all to spite this one guy.
A dentist/surgeon is dealing with you one and one. A pilot, not so much.
/I'd add waiter to that list as well.
Buns_of_Fire
(17,154 posts)Never, never, EVER piss off a person who gets to your food before you do.
If your dentist ever asks you, "Is it safe?"... You're on your own.
bvar22
(39,909 posts)!
virgogal
(10,178 posts)ProfessionalLeftist
(4,982 posts)Way to go!
Zero tolerance.
Proles
(466 posts)to kick people off her airplane.
whathehell
(29,034 posts)Sen. Walter Sobchak
(8,692 posts)Some old geezer began berating the female captain for stealing a job that should have gone to a veteran.
Darth_Kitten
(14,192 posts)Sen. Walter Sobchak
(8,692 posts)She just told him to enjoy his stay in Portland and walked away.
Darth_Kitten
(14,192 posts)That's just plain nasty.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Stargazer09
(2,132 posts)...stop to think that women can be veterans, too?
kardonb
(777 posts)Some of these old guys just can't get their head around the fact that times , and opinions ,about women have changed . They still think its the 20th century , early on , when they were " Lord of the Manor " , and women were only there to cook and clean for them and have babies . Feel sorry for them , they can't help it .
CrispyQ
(36,421 posts)IMO, women have gone back wards in this country since I was a teen in the 70s. I worry about the influence media has, especially on young minds. Our culture pushes the stereotype that women are here to serve men. Also, there's a blatant sexualization to all of it, that I don't recall in the past. Our culture has always been a misogynist one, just not pumped up so much on sex. Poll dolls & thongs for little girls - people think that's ok? And then there's the violence, but that's a whole other thread. ~sigh.
I'm not a parent, but I can't imagine the time & patience it must take to counter this cesspool we call a culture. Hat's off to all who are engaged & doing a good job raising their young ones!
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)All non-white males and all females are below them and "lesser" -- they believe that with all their heart.
Sen. Walter Sobchak
(8,692 posts)Something tells me he wouldn't be cheering on women in the airforce.
Stargazer09
(2,132 posts)Back in his day, women weren't worthy of "real" jobs. Sad, sad, sad.
dana_b
(11,546 posts)She may have taught him a lesson and saved someone from further disparaging remarks from this guy.
spanone
(135,791 posts)marmar
(77,053 posts)Perhaps he can find a seat on Asshole Pig Air.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Airline personnel are now on the alert for politically incorrect speech as well as security threats?
treestar
(82,383 posts)An enclosed tube hurtling through the air at several thousand feet. Anyone that idiotic might cause a problem up in the air.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)I understand that there have been some instances of sexist comments interfering with aircraft electronics and navigation systems. Better safe than sorry.
treestar
(82,383 posts)when he's a passenger that makes one think he is a nutcase.
He must have been relived anyway. He wants to be transported above ground at 500 mph by a female pilot when he thinks females don't have that ability? Maybe he volunteered to get off.
obamanut2012
(26,046 posts)"Was he even smart enough to pass the test?"
Would that be okay to say?
Do you not get employees have a right to not be harassed or discriminated against by non employees? That is actually the law here.
blueamy66
(6,795 posts)nt
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)The guy is an idiot no doubt.
But so are the people who pack everything they own and claim it's just "carry on".
If every idiot were kicked off a plane because they might cause trouble we'd have no passengers. And few pilots.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)First, you don't want a passenger speaking loudly expressing concerns about the qualifications of the pilot, getting passengers nervous or scared.
Second, it's more than not politically correct. It really is hate speech to loudly proclaim in public disparaging remarks about someone just because of his/her race or gender or age.
Third, it's a private business, selling tickets to the public. The business has a right not to serve anyone they find is disruptive to their business. Same as if you were seated in a restaurant and started loudly talking about how your waiter being black means the service will be lousy, the waiter will be lazy, or whatever other disparaging remarks you can think of. The business has an employee in the process of doing his job; he has a right not to be subjected to disparaging, discriminatory, hate remarks from the public.
spooky3
(34,405 posts)and, as other posters pointed out, Title VII forbids discrimination against employees based on race, gender, etc. - and includes harassment and discrimination by customers when the employer can control it. In this case, it could. Not sure what the Brazilian laws say but I'm glad the company stands behind its pilots and female employees.
Geezerdom is no excuse for rude or discriminatory behavior. People have a responsibility to control themselves, and that geezer knows it, even if he is too stupid to have learned through time.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)undeterred
(34,658 posts)that would have been ok too.
randome
(34,845 posts)marmar
(77,053 posts)Dios mio.
Cerridwen
(13,252 posts)All members of the worker caste, er class, regardless of pay, should be required to tolerate the most abusive language a customer can throw at them. If it escalates to abusive behavior, well, too fucking bad, huh? They are after all, just workers. Why the hell should they think they have any sort of right to get through their day without abuse? Geez, what do they think they are, ruling class? Meh, it's just business and the customer is always right...unless the customer is fucking with the business...but I digress.
Since there appears to be an influx of the sarcastically impaired, the previous message was brought to you by
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)that person would make the flight run less smoothly...
it's generally good advice to not make them upset
obamanut2012
(26,046 posts)By NON EMPLOYEES, ie clients, customers, diners, passengers. A LEGAL right. That's in the US, and I'm sure is the law and the company norm in many other places, too.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)on this website is it appropriate to characterize sexist remarks as "politically incorrect speech"? That's the kind of remark I've witnessed from the most sexist among us.
McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)Like shouting "fire" in a theater. He was a safety risk himself.
justice1
(795 posts)At the airline I did business for, white males, were the minority, and so we were accustomed to the remarks. I felt sorry for my Muslim coworkers, who were the easiest, most accommodating people, and by far they were treated the worst by passengers... Sitting on a cramped plane, bored, and consuming alcohol, doesn't improve their behavior... A few years ago, a passenger was asked to take their seat, for landing. The flight attendant was attacked, and feces were spread throughout the cabin. My co-worker, who had stomach of steel, about hurled trying to clean it. In the mean time, passengers were delayed, and missed connections, due to the behavior of one person.
Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)the person in command is responsible for that vessel and everything and everyone in it.
If they don't like your haircut, they can ask you to get off, and there is precious little anyone other than their employer can do about it.
At sea, or in the air, their word is law.
Designating someone a 'Captain' does actually mean something. The Pilot In Command has final say over everything in and on that craft...period.
CTyankee
(63,889 posts)Idiot!
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treestar
(82,383 posts)Or a gay pilot? Would that mean "emotional and insecure?"
Logical
(22,457 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)are regularly kicked off for doing so that makes the entire industry emotional and insecure.
When I worked as a store clerk and a customer started harassing me, I'd kick that person out. Did that make me emotional and insecure?
Logical
(22,457 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)that loudly started spewing misogynist, or racist, or homophobic crap. Not an infrequent occurrence in Southern California. Bigotry goes well beyond rude and does not deserve sheepish acceptance.
As the article states: "Trip says it won't tolerate disparaging remarks made about any of the 1,400 women working for the airline." So, the company stands with her. Good for them.
obamanut2012
(26,046 posts)For being racist, homophobic, ageist, xenophobic, and sexist. And for sexual harassing staff. It is not only the ethical and moral thing to do, it is the LEGAL thing to do.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Tolerating it leads to acceptance that it is OK.
Quantess
(27,630 posts)She made a rational decision that the customer was going to be a behavioral problem, and that he should not stay on the plane.
He stated himself that he had hesitations flying with her as a pilot, so... the customer is always right!
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Anyone who harasses a pilot, needs to get booted. If the passenger was similarly harassing the staff, he should get booted. If he was harassing passengers, he should get booted.
RedCappedBandit
(5,514 posts)Iggo
(47,534 posts)Good job.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)Perhaps you should speak for yourself...
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)And the pilot did indeed, as part of her job, deal with this particular idiot in a most efficient and effective manner.
That it may seem to you to be an overreaction does not in any way illustrate that it was in fact, an over-reaction at all-- merely that you yourself believe it as such.
Darth_Kitten
(14,192 posts)n/t
Logical
(22,457 posts)Darth_Kitten
(14,192 posts)SunSeeker
(51,512 posts)It's a safety issue. It's like someone yelling the plane is going down and creating a panic. This guy was disparaging the skills of the pilot and was disrupting the flight, just like someone yelling at a flight attendant. As the article says, this guy was being loud.
They have to maintain peace on a flight to maintain safety for the passengers. You just can't say whatever you want on an airplane, and you certainly can't yell (crying babies aside). If the douchebag had just mumbled his thoughts to his neighbor, he would not have gotten kicked off. It's when he kept loudly broadcasting his indictment of the pilot's skills that he forced the pilot's hand.
The poster arguing this should ask the other passengers too. If someone was loudly yelling that the pilot can't handle the plane, I'd feel a little unsafe. What will that person do when we are at 10000 feet? And during the whole flight?
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)obamanut2012
(26,046 posts)It empowers and emboldens them. And, employees should never have to deal with them. Ever.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)I guess our forebears should have just ignored all those Southerners who insisted on keeping slaves. Surely, that would have been the best solution.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I would think that many different solutions would be the best choice depending on particular situations. That there is in fact, no one "Best Solution" in dealing with anti-social behavior, if that for no other reason, idiotic behavior manifests itself in innumerable ways.
secondvariety
(1,245 posts)the over compensating macho sexist bullshit gets old.
Logical
(22,457 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)stupid comments, rather than throwing a hissyfit and delaying the flight and inconveniencing all of the other passengers.
Logical
(22,457 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)SunSeeker
(51,512 posts)Very revealing choice of words, isn't it?
cali
(114,904 posts)you were on the flight, right? No?
People get tossed of planes frequently for obstreperous behavior. How do YOU know that he wasn't loudly disturbing other passengers? How do YOU know that he hadn't been asked to please stop his disruptive behavior? Oh, you don't, huh? I hate to break this to you, hon, but people don't have the right to get on a plane and behave obnoxiously. How do YOU fucking know that the passenger wasn't the one disturbing the passengers.
You don't know a fucking thing about this. But that doesn't stop you from making shit up.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)No need for the profanity. There may be ladies reading this thread.
SunSeeker
(51,512 posts)Fawke Em
(11,366 posts)And I'm a lady.
(My apologies if this goes to a jury).
EOTE
(13,409 posts)Your post get a big from me. Sometimes a good 'fuck you' is really the only appropriate response.
cali
(114,904 posts)now how about answering the questions, honeybunch?
EOTE
(13,409 posts)of throwing a "hissy fit". I think it's quite clear what you meant by that and you have absolutely zero evidence of such.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)You just keep flying your sexist banner high, don't ya?
CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)great term there. how about instead she exercised her authority? no no just a girl with a hissy fit.
To steal from Brunner I would say some folks have not yet celebrated their 21st.
obamanut2012
(26,046 posts)Good God.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)What specifically leads you to conclude the pilot threw a "hissyfit"? Do we conclude that you believe any pilot who demands the expulsion of an anti-social passenger has thrown a "hissyfit", or is there a particular, relevant, and precise reason you concluded her response was based simply on emotion?
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Yet it continues to beg the question...
What specifically leads you to conclude the pilot threw a "hissyfit"? Do we conclude that you believe any pilot who demands the expulsion of an anti-social passenger has thrown a "hissyfit", or is there a particular, relevant, and precise reason you concluded her response was based simply on emotion?
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)them alone, I hope they suck it up and let the behavior continue. Even if that behavior encourages others to pile on as well. It would be really grand if they were working in a male dominated field and ALL of their co-workers habitually harassed them. After all, DOING something about it is merely whining.
(FYI - )
Logical
(22,457 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)to stop harassment dead in its tracks all by themselves. Maybe your daughter's can give seminars. And just think, all that money wasted on HR just so women have someone to go to in order to whine.
randome
(34,845 posts)...I think that's up to the woman to decide. I don't think men have the same experience with the world that a woman does -in general.
I have daughters, too, and they are guided by my viewpoints but I am guided by theirs, too.
So while we can offer opinions, we won't have the same understanding of the situation as a woman does.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)but that is no guarantee that would have shut the guy up for good. Which would end up with the guy spewing his sexist bullshit with the passengers and staff as a captive audience while the pilot sits behind closed doors and safe from his harassment.
Yeah, that's my idea of an ideal flight. Listening to a sexist (or racist or homophobic) ass from one airport to another with little recourse to make it stop.
Yeah, individual women, people of color, and religious minorities laughed the problem (in the work place) away for centuries and decades. If that works so well then why Civil Rights Act. Why give protections to people as a class so we don't have to rely solely on the individual to make the attempt to right a wrong but we have the law and constitution to back us up in our demands from a harassment-free professional work place.
My working career has spread 4 decades (from 15-55) and I've seen some remarkable changes and I applaud businesses that have policies in place that take the burden off the individual to "police" bigoted behavior.
And as the article states: "Trip says it won't tolerate disparaging remarks made about any of the 1,400 women working for the airline." So obviously, the company stands with her. Good for them.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)own father, apparently...
spooky3
(34,405 posts)Doesn't that suggest that individual "handling" of sexist behavior is not solving the problems?
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)secondvariety
(1,245 posts)you don't have a problem with someone spewing sexist bullshit about your daughters. You tell your daughters they should just shut up and take it? Or do you just avert eye contact and meekly try to change the subject? What a joke.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)spooky3
(34,405 posts)crap that women sometimes get subjected to on the job.
School is a very egalitarian environment. Companies often are not. Let us know after they have worked for 10 years or so--and in a much improved era than when many here started their careers, where we can hope that they will experience far less overt discrimination.
chknltl
(10,558 posts)Will get you TSd from a plane...hope that guy likes pizza!.....................these times they are a changin.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)Because George Tierney Jr. of Greenville, South Carolina doesn't want to be discussed or even noticed on teh Google! So it's likely that George Tierney Jr. of Greenville, South Carolina wouldn't do anything sexist to make teh Google take notice, right?
DeSwiss
(27,137 posts)...I stand corrected. Because I would never want to besmirch the name of George Tierney Jr. of Greenville, South Carolina. At least I wouldn't want to besmirch his name anymore than the name George Tierney Jr. of Greenville, South Carolina already is besmirched......
SunSeeker
(51,512 posts)I'm proud to have added one more click to reinforce the Google result!
DeSwiss
(27,137 posts)...George Tierney Jr. of Greenville, South Carolina won't like that one bit.
JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)fishwax
(29,148 posts)thanks for the links.
obamanut2012
(26,046 posts)backscatter712
(26,355 posts)Fawke Em
(11,366 posts)he'll get close to female genitalia after this incident.
gort
(687 posts)She did what any pilot would do.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)for making a snide remark about his mustache?
I think not.
Cerridwen
(13,252 posts)I'm sure old Sully would have been proud to take abuse by the customers on his flights.
How often do you figure that happened to the man?
Since there appears to be an influx of the sarcastically impaired, the previous message was brought to you by
SunSeeker
(51,512 posts)It's a matter of public safety. Even a crying toddler has been kicked off, by a MALE pilot.
http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/2-year-old-kicked-off-flight-for-tantrum-is-flying-anti-kid/
This douche was being loud, and repeatedly disparaging the pilot's skills--which can cause passenger panic, like saying there's something wrong with the plane. It was not just one "snide remark." If he had just made one snide remark to his neighbor, he would not have gotten kicked off. He forced the pilot's hand by being loud and repeating his statements.
But, if you want to test your theory, next time you board a plane with a mustachioed pilot, I suggest you start loudly disparaging his mustache and see how long they let you keep that up.
Darth_Kitten
(14,192 posts)n/t
treestar
(82,383 posts)And not had his competency questioned just for having a mustache.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)he has been accused of throwing a 'hissy fit' while performing competently at his job.
Darth_Kitten
(14,192 posts)wickerwoman
(5,662 posts)because making fun of a man's facial hair is exactly the same as questioning a person's professional competence based on their genitalia.
underseasurveyor
(6,428 posts)Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)justiceischeap
(14,040 posts)I predict if the pilot were male, there would be no questioning his motives, whether he was suffering from PMS or throwing a "hissy fit" or that he should grin and bear abusive behavior. People would be congratulating the guy for not taking shit from a passenger.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)if he would be getting the same amount of support here.
BTW, you are the first person in this thread to mention the issue of "PMS". I personally do not think that is an appropriate issue to raise.
spooky3
(34,405 posts)racist hate speech, sexual harassment, or keeping anyone who isn't a white male in low paying jobs, etc.? Funny, no one in the Congress seemed to agree with you when they reviewed all the evidence that anti-discrimination laws were needed. And apparently Brazilians see it the same way.
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)Huh.
spooky3
(34,405 posts)types of discriminatory behavior that is outlawed. Calling someone a redneck--which probably would be based largely on how the person acted, rather than an immutable characteristic, is not illegal. Read the history of the legislation if you don't understand why a distinction was drawn.
RitchieRich
(292 posts)Its a bad idea to let someone piss you off to the point where you approve of any form of hatred. Attacking a person's social status is right there with attacking any other form of status.
There are plenty of good rebuttals that don't employ the same thing you are refuting.
spooky3
(34,405 posts)treated differently under the law, for an entire set of reasons that have been extensively documented elsewhere.
Why not read up on this if you aren't aware of it?
No one is arguing that running around insulting people is a good idea.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Sexists will condemn a female no matter how she handles things.
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)consider how police are treated (mostly male) when they overstep their power.
Are they labeled heroes on here?
justiceischeap
(14,040 posts)if a male threw someone off a plane for their behavior. I'd also guess that male pilots toss people off planes quite often and it never makes the news.
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)by that passenger.
If he did he would be overstepping his bounds.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I imagine that we often imagine hypothetical scenarios only in such a way as to better validate our own preconceptions.
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)so that cuts both ways.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)"so that cuts both ways..."
It certainly does-- no implication was made the contrary... unless you simply inferred one.
However (to expand your cutting metaphor), when we shave vertically, it's much more effective that shaving horizontally. Granted, collectively they cut both ways, yet only one if them is a problem.
We can all pretend. I think if the pilot was a large cat, it would have eaten the passenger. Possibly...
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)Uh . . . ok. . .
/slowly backs away.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Standing up for oneself within in the guidelines of your employer = beating, arresting, and harassing peaceful protesters?
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)we were talking about how someone in a position of authority (like pilots, or cops) would be viewed on here for overstepping their bounds based on their gender.
The person I was responding to seemed to think men would get a complete pass for abusing their authority.
Since I couldn't find any instances of male pilots kicking someone off because that passenger hurt his feelings I went with a very common story of police officers (mostly male) abusing their authorities. They are not given a heroes welcome here, even though they are male.
Additionally cops do other things besides beat and arrest peaceful protesters who were just trying to bring milk to a kitten stuck in a tree and help old ladies across the street. Like say, pull you over for nothing a give you a silly ticket. That would be more on par with this.
NoPasaran
(17,291 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)RitchieRich
(292 posts)Great movie! Thanks for lightening this mess up a bit. For a moment I was worried it would be a different clip... my monitor may have melted.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)and one of these days, I'm going to be boarding a plane with this movie loaded on my tablet.
And I'm going to watch it.
RitchieRich
(292 posts)if you do, make sure you glance around a lot and mutter under your breath the whole time.
People like that.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)Also, I would like to get wherever I'm going without being detained by the gropemeisters.
Airplane! is one of those rare movies that just never gets less funny with time.
Skittles
(153,113 posts)if they're acting like that on the ground there's always the worry the behavior will escalate once in the air. I'm pretty sure any female pilot in Brazil is accustomed to guys acting like sexist idiots.
CTyankee
(63,889 posts)Get over it, sexist crybabies...
randome
(34,845 posts)Everything in context. Other than that - right on!
CTyankee
(63,889 posts)sexist crap. I have the deepest respect for pilots flying the planes I'm on. It's inconceivable to me that someone would attempt to disrespect a pilot doing her job...
randome
(34,845 posts)chervilant
(8,267 posts)Sad that some on this thread cannot see their own sexism, when it is glaringly apparent in their comments.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)DLevine
(1,788 posts)Bake
(21,977 posts)This pilot was off base. Was the passenger a jerk? Yes. And he paid for that privilege. Was he a threat to anyone?
NO.
Pilot, fly the damn plane and do your job.
Bake
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)This guy's disruptive rhetoric must have been bad enough to alert the stewards, who THEN alerted the pilot. If the guy's being such an ass already, clearly the "management" (the pilot) decided enough's enough.
That's standard in ANY business. I was a waitress in college and if the harassment got bad (blonde, big boobs), the management ejected the offensive customer.
Same thing happens in my business today. If my customers harass staff they face the risk of expulsion. I'm not putting up with verbal abuse.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)No he didn't. He paid for transportation. He paid for a service, not a punching bag. None of the customers or the pilot herself should have to deal with this ass. Good on her.
Bake
(21,977 posts)I didn't think so.
I've done customer service and had to listen to people curse me, curse my employer, and call me everything but a Christian. People suck. That's life.
I bet the airline kept the money he paid for his ticket, too.
Bake
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)None of my employees have to tolerate anything like that. I have more respect for them and for myself than to allow that.
jp11
(2,104 posts)and their lack of respect or acknowledgement of my humanity over some inconveinence or stupid material possession that I almost never had any control/power to fix or had involvement in 'screwing' them over.
That power is of course reserved for others often management and in this case the Pilot has that 'power' to remove such a horrible person.
There's no reason if you have that power to make those 'under' you suffer because you don't have to deal with it personally. The other passengers as well as the crew had to put up with that horrible person. As a passenger I wouldn't want such a piece of garbage spewing their hate on the plane and be forced to deal with it. I certainly wouldn't want to put up with it if I was the crew either.
He did pay for a service and paying for that service does not entitle anyone to be a jerk unless you specifically solicit that service. All he had to do was keep his hateful thoughts to himself and he could've made use of his purchase. He could've just taken a flight where the pilot was a man to satisfy his prejudice or maybe learn to keep his stupid mouth shut. You can be sure he's at least learned he can't act like a hateful sexist without someone doing something about it.
Yes many people suck but that doesn't mean we all need to be horrible to each other or put up with that horrible behavior. If fewer people put up with adults acting like little children throwing tantrums and cursing out the people who have to serve them fewer would do it as they'd see it wouldn't get them what they want. Having more of the verbally abusive horrors of human beings inconvenienced, kicked out, denied service or even arrested, where appropriate, for acting out to demean other people is a good thing.
fishwax
(29,148 posts)It sucks for assholes, I'm sure, but them's the breaks.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)And the pilot did indeed deal with an a**hole. She simply resolved the issue in an effective and efficient manner that merely happens to be not of your own personal liking.
wickerwoman
(5,662 posts)and I'm allowed to hang up on people who make sexist, racist or homophobic comments, who swear at me, who make paranoid accusations about the organisation I represent or who are otherwise abusive.
Since when did the fact that you're at work mean that you just have to put up with abusive behaviour from people who happen not to be at work?
meeksgeek
(1,214 posts)I've worked in retail and other customer service jobs, including a stint in a call center. Callers got one warning, per that employer's policy, if they became abusive. After we gave them the warning (a polite but firm request to conduct themselves in a civil manner), we were allowed, encouraged in fact, to terminate the call. Same thing with retail. I excused a number of customers from my place of business when I worked retail. If I got the opportunity I would diffuse the situation by negotiating with the customer and finding a way to help them. Sometimes, though, that's not what they're there for. Usually it's just some jerk who insists that they are having their way no matter what. They really just want to treat those "beneath them" like crap. I've even been told so in no uncertain terms on at least one very public occasion. Several times I've handled this kind of customer by telling them that I could no longer help them and they could take it up with my manager if they wanted, and walked off. Once I had to actually go so far as to threaten to call the police to have the person removed. There is no reason to put up with people engaging in what amounts to disorderly conduct, something for which you could get arrested if you choose the wrong place and time.
StarryNight
(71 posts)Initech
(100,038 posts)ProfessorGAC
(64,852 posts)And, the pilot should have a right to excuse any passenger that has "concerns" about that pilot's comptence.
GAC
myrna minx
(22,772 posts)fishwax
(29,148 posts)Bake
(21,977 posts)Who insisted on playing Rush Limbaugh over the intercom, and that didn't contravene company policy. Now suppose a rather loud, perhaps obnoxious passenger objected to that and called the pilot a Hannity Wannabe (or worse).
Would the pilot be justified in throwing that passenger from the plane?
I didn't think so.
Bake
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)If the passenger complaining was loud, obnoxious and rude, the airline/pilot would have the same right.
However, I think a critical and relevant difference in your scenario is that the pilot has no choice in being a female as opposed to your Freeper pilot having every and any opportunity to reduce volume. One being a chance of birth, the other simply being obnoxious.
bvar22
(39,909 posts)at 32,000 feet.
The other passengers applauded.
The asshole who cause the disruption apologized
shortly before he hit the ground.
The Woman Pilot later received a Leadership Award from the airline.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)I used to work with a woman attorney who decided she wanted to fly. She wound up as a commercial jet pilot. And she could drive better than I, and I am a good driver.
No reason to charge him with anything, but this might make the poltroon watch his big, stupid yap in the future.
RitchieRich
(292 posts)This will probably get hidden, and tarnish my, um, spotless record on here, but this whole page is thick with infighting and nastiness, could use to be lightened up.
"So, what do you call a female, flying a plane?"
"No idea."
"The Pilot! You freaking Sexist!!"
RitchieRich
(292 posts)There should not be this level of hostility.
We shouldn't be fighting each other like this.
Remember, we need to band together and really make this thing work, if we are going to have any chance of getting Ron Paul into office.
McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)Anyone who attempts to create a panic on board a plane should be taking a boat or train instead.
jobycom
(49,038 posts)since she tossed him before she took off. After takeoff... I'd have been cheering.
Seriously, though, people should read the story a little more closely. The passenger wasn't just making sexist comments, he was making them loudly enough to disrupt and delay the flight for an hour. He wasn't tossed for his opinions, but for his actions.
DallasNE
(7,402 posts)Maybe the translation of "Flute" became flight and this jerk thought it was in reference to a pilot. Either that or we have no corner on louts.