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n2doc

(47,953 posts)
Wed May 23, 2012, 08:03 PM May 2012

U.S. General Says Soldiers Who Commit Suicide Are 'Selfish'


After 10 years at war, American soldiers are showing severe signs of wear. Not only have 126,000 troops returned from Iraq and Afghanistan with traumatic brain injuries since the start of the wars, another 70,000 of them have been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder. According to Army Vice Chief of Staff General Peter Chiarelli, the majority of soldiers disqualified from service due to injury have either TBI or PTSD.

As you might imagine, all that mental turmoil has resulted in erratic behavior in the military's ranks. Hundreds of American veterans and enlisted people still commit suicide every year, and for a couple years more soldiers were killing themselves than were dying on the battlefield. Crime is regular enough amongst the veteran community that special "veterans courts" have begun popping up around the United States.

War demands that people kill men, women, and children, and watch their friends get killed in return—probably the most mentally taxing experience the world has ever known. Of course our soldiers come back in agony, and of course that agony sometimes leads to suicide. But to at least one American general, all this complaining about soldiers killing themselves is "selfish."

"I have now come to the conclusion that suicide is an absolutely selfish act," wrote Major General Dana Pittard, who commands Fort Bliss, one of the nation's largest military bases, in an official blog post. "I am personally fed up with soldiers who are choosing to take their own lives so that others can clean up their mess." Pittard added that any soldier thinking of committing suicide should "be an adult, act like an adult, and deal with your real-life problems like the rest of us."

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U.S. General Says Soldiers Who Commit Suicide Are 'Selfish' (Original Post) n2doc May 2012 OP
I am looking up the word "asshole" in my dictionary....oh, there it is, ZombieHorde May 2012 #1
God, what a fucking asshole! whatchamacallit May 2012 #2
I was sure it was the Onion tularetom May 2012 #3
This asshole has obviously never suffered from either stress or ptsd so I have no idea teddy51 May 2012 #4
Fuck you you worthless fucking asshole Autumn May 2012 #5
I one particular area I agree with him....... socialist_n_TN May 2012 #6
Bull loyalsister May 2012 #7
for whatever, they are doing this roguevalley May 2012 #17
Absolutely loyalsister May 2012 #19
he's fed up elehhhhna May 2012 #8
you sick brainwashed feeble moron! fascisthunter May 2012 #9
What an ASSHOLE! nt. SammyWinstonJack May 2012 #10
He needs to be relieved of duty Lars39 May 2012 #11
it's official now: that general is an ASSHOLE. provis99 May 2012 #12
I swear that could have been a Frank Burns line in M*A*S*H. GreatCaesarsGhost May 2012 #13
Say goodbye to your command shitbag. Arctic Dave May 2012 #14
What of the bullies who physically & verbally abused a soldier in war zone until he killed himself? freshwest May 2012 #15
Saying that is about as low as you can get. Swede May 2012 #16
This asshat shouldn't be in command of a scout troop hifiguy May 2012 #18
Im going to be flamed for this but I actually agree with the General somewhat. Mr.Turnip May 2012 #20
Depression is a disease RedCappedBandit May 2012 #21
No not really. Mr.Turnip May 2012 #22
I suppose this is how they sleep at night... SomethingFishy May 2012 #23
This isn't all that unusual. Suicide is often characterized as 'selfish' RZM May 2012 #24
Without regard to a person's mental health, suicide is a cowardly and selfish act. However, boxman15 May 2012 #25
"(P)ersonally 'fed up,'" are you, General? BlueIris May 2012 #26

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
1. I am looking up the word "asshole" in my dictionary....oh, there it is,
Wed May 23, 2012, 08:05 PM
May 2012

a picture of the general making that statement.

 

teddy51

(3,491 posts)
4. This asshole has obviously never suffered from either stress or ptsd so I have no idea
Wed May 23, 2012, 08:13 PM
May 2012

how he is in any kind of position to judge!

And to add: These men and women come home from war suffering from a serious problem, and told to basically deal with it on their own.

Autumn

(45,055 posts)
5. Fuck you you worthless fucking asshole
Wed May 23, 2012, 08:21 PM
May 2012

My beloved Nephew was the most unselfish ,kindest, loving young man in the world. Bastards like you sent him into Iraq and Afghanistan 4 fucking times. 4 FUCKING TIMES. And you fucking call him selfish ? You are the selfish son of a bitch. I hope you fucking rot in hell.

socialist_n_TN

(11,481 posts)
6. I one particular area I agree with him.......
Wed May 23, 2012, 08:31 PM
May 2012

Suicide and depression is ANGER turned inward. Maybe they need to turn that anger outward. Like against a few generals.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
7. Bull
Wed May 23, 2012, 08:34 PM
May 2012

I would argue the opposite. Many people who commit suicide do it because they don't want to subject their friends and family to their behavior. People don't get how much pain people go through when they unjustifiably hate themselves.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
17. for whatever, they are doing this
Wed May 23, 2012, 11:56 PM
May 2012

personal private thing. I wish they would stay but they aren't so we have to DO SOMETHING!

we have to save our boys and girls.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
19. Absolutely
Thu May 24, 2012, 12:21 AM
May 2012

I really hate to see them maligned - especially by someone who is supposed to care about them.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
11. He needs to be relieved of duty
Wed May 23, 2012, 09:01 PM
May 2012

and at minimum have his ass kicked from one end of the base to the other.

 

Arctic Dave

(13,812 posts)
14. Say goodbye to your command shitbag.
Wed May 23, 2012, 10:21 PM
May 2012

Easy for this fuckstick to say while in the comfort of an air conditioned office. Most likely came up the ranks during "peacetime" and thinks he is the shit.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
15. What of the bullies who physically & verbally abused a soldier in war zone until he killed himself?
Wed May 23, 2012, 10:27 PM
May 2012
What of their selfishness?

Is this a back handed defense of them, further defaming this young man?


U.S. soldiers charged in death of their comrade in Afghanistan


http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/316495

He may have some deep reasons for his statement, but the phrase, 'be an adult, act like an adult, and deal with your real-life problems like the rest of us' does not come near to equating with the problem of a soldier away from home, in a country surrounded by enemies both foreign and of his own group. Who is the 'rest of us,' the ones who drove him to that? I suggest they made sure he felt he did not belong!

This is no way to refer to a person who commits suicide when they have been subjected to war, doubts, exhaustion and knowing they no longer have the function to behave as they once did... And are not free to change their circumstances.

Perhaps a robot army would be preferable to him, to be able to be turned on and off when useful, instead a human being with the infinite capacity to understand and learn about themselves and the world.

Yet this makes news, this harsh statement, instead of the protest of veterans who are arguing for a better world and he is arguing for ...what exactly?

I think this is a media diversion from the positive news from the veterans in Chicago.



Mr.Turnip

(645 posts)
20. Im going to be flamed for this but I actually agree with the General somewhat.
Thu May 24, 2012, 12:31 AM
May 2012

I do see suicide as a fundamentally selfish and cowardly act, now of course every case is different and I know that veterans committing suicide are going through a lot more than most who think about that and we should do everything in our power to help them get through it. But I stand by my view of suicide as cowardly and selfish at it's core.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
21. Depression is a disease
Thu May 24, 2012, 12:37 AM
May 2012

and it is sometimes fatal (along with other mental illnesses). Cowardly and selfish are irrelevant words.

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
23. I suppose this is how they sleep at night...
Thu May 24, 2012, 12:48 AM
May 2012

"It's not my fault the guy couldn't handle 4 tours of duty".


This sick fucking piece of shit needs to have his fucking rank pulled right fucking now.

Why is it that "support the troops" in this country means put a flag bumper sticker on your car, and not actually "SUPPORT THE TROOPS".

Gee, maybe if there wasn't a 120 day waiting period for a soldier with PTSD to see a shrink there would be less suicides. Gee, maybe if instead of throwing away used soldiers, they were treated like human beings and given the best medical and mental help there is we might have lees suicides. Gee, maybe if we spent a little less arming these guys and a little more helping them deal with what they had to do there would be less suicides.

Gee maybe if the families of soldiers on their 4th tour weren't in danger of losing their mortgage or having to live on fucking food stamps there might be less suicides.

Fuck this guy and his army.





 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
24. This isn't all that unusual. Suicide is often characterized as 'selfish'
Thu May 24, 2012, 12:53 AM
May 2012

There was a rash of suicides at my HS when I attended there. And several more after. I've known people who have done it and know others whose family members have. I have a history of it in my own family as well.

One friend of mine's mother committed suicide and he was really angry about it. He was mad because he thought that for somebody with children to do such a thing was an incredibly spiteful and selfish act. And I see where he was coming from.

It causes a lot of pain to one's family and friends, who are the same people who want to support and help the person who feels that they have no help and support. I couldn't imagine doing such a thing to my family. I could never hurt them like that.

boxman15

(1,033 posts)
25. Without regard to a person's mental health, suicide is a cowardly and selfish act. However,
Thu May 24, 2012, 12:55 AM
May 2012

the vast, vast majority of those who commit suicide or contemplate suicide are not in a good state of mind and are suffering from depression or other mental problems. Depression is an extremely serious issue that should never be belittled in any way, shape, or form, especially not in the context of the battlefield.

The general's comments piss me off. My brother suffers from a stress disorder and went through a period of depression. It was not easy on any of us, but it was the hardest on him. To just dismiss certain acts as "selfish" or "childish" is insulting not only to those suffering from depression, but also to the loved ones of that person.

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