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FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:35 AM Nov 2015

People Who Left Islam Are Explaining Why Using the #ExMuslimBecause Hashtag

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2015/11/20/people-who-left-islam-are-explaining-why-using-the-exmuslimbecause-hashtag/







These people are very brave considering that becoming an apostate is a death sentence in many places. Also good to be reminded that many of the Muslim refugees may not be as Muslim as people think. They just aren't in a place that allows them to identify as anything else.

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People Who Left Islam Are Explaining Why Using the #ExMuslimBecause Hashtag (Original Post) FLPanhandle Nov 2015 OP
An opportunity for anti-Muslim rants. How special to generalize, and your comment at the end" still_one Nov 2015 #1
As an atheist, all religions are silly to me FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #4
and that is fine, but the statement in the OP signled out Muslims, and that was my point. I suspect still_one Nov 2015 #6
You're confusing a belief system... MellowDem Nov 2015 #8
No, that was intentional to present the trouble with generalizations. I did that to put emphasis on still_one Nov 2015 #13
Islam is a very bigoted... MellowDem Nov 2015 #16
Islam is an umbrella term, not a specific belief system. Donald Ian Rankin Nov 2015 #19
The dogma and texts of Islam... MellowDem Nov 2015 #25
So's christianity, too, if you practice it on all cylinders. MADem Nov 2015 #76
Bullshit! ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2015 #65
I doubt it, look at how DU acted with all the Mormons, now ex-Mormons who resigned from their... Humanist_Activist Nov 2015 #68
Islam is a belief system... MellowDem Nov 2015 #7
See my post 13. It was to put emphasis on prejudice. As far as your comment regarding Islam has a still_one Nov 2015 #18
Am I "Islamicphobic"? True Earthling Nov 2015 #84
+1000 smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #88
Being African isn't a religion. Oneironaut Nov 2015 #11
People say that about Christians all the fucking time ie 'they are Christians but not fundie nut Bluenorthwest Nov 2015 #27
It's actually an anti-generalization statement. True Earthling Nov 2015 #82
So we are taking that one man's opinion treestar Nov 2015 #2
Yes, because it is. MellowDem Nov 2015 #10
Have you read how the New Testament deals with the "Jewish issue". I know exactly where you are still_one Nov 2015 #20
Not very well... MellowDem Nov 2015 #22
Read the book of John sometime still_one Nov 2015 #24
Skip the OT right? MellowDem Nov 2015 #26
nope, just as bad still_one Nov 2015 #30
where in the Koran does it say treestar Nov 2015 #39
This one is problematic... MellowDem Nov 2015 #47
very sexist but they don't say treestar Nov 2015 #54
And then you strike her... MellowDem Nov 2015 #63
It would be nice if people would educate themselves on what is really taught in various religions snooper2 Nov 2015 #14
Many people do educate themselves on what is really taught in various religions FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #15
Extremists exist in every religion treestar Nov 2015 #40
simple question, do you think one who wants Sharia Law implemented is an extremist? snooper2 Nov 2015 #43
So where in Sharia Law does it say treestar Nov 2015 #44
we can go there in a minute, first the question- Do you think one wanting Sharia Law is an extremist snooper2 Nov 2015 #45
Yes, of course. smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #49
To me it would be treestar Nov 2015 #55
several hundred million muslims believe in Sharia law and would like it implemented snooper2 Nov 2015 #91
By definition. hifiguy Nov 2015 #89
He makes me sick. He just makes up shit, doesn't he? TexasMommaWithAHat Nov 2015 #42
A week ago, DU would have recced the shit out of this. linuxman Nov 2015 #3
I'd pretend as much too if reality didn't confirm my biases LanternWaste Nov 2015 #9
Don't know if I'd agree that DU would have recced it. sibelian Nov 2015 #21
From the video... skypilot Nov 2015 #5
"#ExMuslimBecause my own mother told me I should be killed because I didn't believe the same things smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #12
I agree - and they are letting us know with this campaign flamingdem Nov 2015 #17
It's hearing Muslims talk about Islam that cured me of the idea of "Islamophobia". sibelian Nov 2015 #23
Let me know when there's an #ExJewishBecause mwrguy Nov 2015 #28
People talking about why they are no longer Christian is very common and there are all sorts of Bluenorthwest Nov 2015 #31
There's an important distinction though. Scootaloo Nov 2015 #60
But that is not what the other poster said, he said 'tell me when Christians do this' and I did. Bluenorthwest Nov 2015 #85
I'm no longer christian because it's a bunch of 2000y old superstitions lindysalsagal Nov 2015 #80
let me know when Christians and Jews are ericson00 Nov 2015 #56
Let me know when there are large parts of the world it's not legal to be exJewish or exChristian. Donald Ian Rankin Nov 2015 #64
Found these: Humanist_Activist Nov 2015 #69
Thank you mwrguy Nov 2015 #71
Really appreciating this thread... cilla4progress Nov 2015 #29
Rec for this reply FrodosPet Nov 2015 #72
Jury results: cwydro Nov 2015 #32
A BIG thank you to the jury that voted to Leave It FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #33
You're welcome. cwydro Nov 2015 #34
Seriously, enough of the censorship eissa Nov 2015 #46
seriously lindysalsagal Nov 2015 #81
I can see why some might be concerned el_bryanto Nov 2015 #52
Thanks for the Leave It vote. FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #59
RIDICULOUS alert. RIDICULOUS. sibelian Nov 2015 #37
Thank YOU! smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #50
Bravo! hifiguy Nov 2015 #90
Awful alert, but not surprising ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2015 #66
This is less of a problem in secular regimes which kept a lid on religious fundamentalism. CJCRANE Nov 2015 #35
+1 Rex Nov 2015 #41
People who use religion to hurt others, extremist fundamentalists, are a big problem uppityperson Nov 2015 #36
Forget it, Jake; it's DemocraticUnderground. nt Codeine Nov 2015 #38
A few other great posts from Muslims FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #48
How big a risk are these people taking that they will be killed? 6chars Nov 2015 #77
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Nov 2015 #51
Your dismissiveness of the serious nature of this event Trajan Nov 2015 #53
Some people dismiss what they don't want to see FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #57
replace ex-muslim with 'have been raped' climber3986 Nov 2015 #61
Ok, there IS such a thing as Muslim apostasy sibelian Nov 2015 #62
Considering the penalties for being an apostate in many Muslim countries, along with the danger... Humanist_Activist Nov 2015 #70
I'm dying to see Bill Maher tonight. ericson00 Nov 2015 #58
Bradford dad attacked by pickaxe thugs ‘for converting from Islam to Christianity (UK 2015) MowCowWhoHow III Nov 2015 #67
its sad agnostic102 Nov 2015 #73
Ignore the one or two that do that; it doesn't fit their narrative so they attack. FLPanhandle Nov 2015 #74
Welcome to DU femmedem Nov 2015 #92
And I'm sure you can probably find just as many people... Spider Jerusalem Nov 2015 #75
Probably more 6chars Nov 2015 #78
And Muslims in Western countries generally won't be killed for leaving, either. Spider Jerusalem Nov 2015 #83
generally not. in western countries. i like them odds. 6chars Nov 2015 #86
Replace 'ex-Muslim' with ex-Mormon' ... earthside Nov 2015 #79
November 11- Thousands of Mormons Plan to Abandon the Faith This Weekend- 98 DU rec's Bluenorthwest Nov 2015 #87
 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
1. An opportunity for anti-Muslim rants. How special to generalize, and your comment at the end"
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:48 AM
Nov 2015

"Also good to be reminded that many of the Muslim refugees may not be as Muslim as people think"

I wonder what would happen if that was replaced that with the following statements:


"Also good to be reminded that many of the Jewish refugees may not be as Jewish as people think"

"Also good to be reminded that many of the Christian refugees may not be as Christian as people think"

"Also good to be reminded that many of the African refugees may not be as African as people think"

"Also good to be reminded that many of the __________ refugees may not be as _________ as people think"






FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
4. As an atheist, all religions are silly to me
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:53 AM
Nov 2015

Christian, Jewish, Muslim, etc.

So, yes, swap in any religion into the blanks space and I'm still okay with it.

 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
6. and that is fine, but the statement in the OP signled out Muslims, and that was my point. I suspect
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:57 AM
Nov 2015

if another religious group was used, it would have created a controversy.

In my view, not the best choice of words, and I tried to explain it with an example in my response to the OP

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
8. You're confusing a belief system...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:58 AM
Nov 2015

with ethnicity. That's a pretty big mistake to make.

 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
13. No, that was intentional to present the trouble with generalizations. I did that to put emphasis on
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:10 PM
Nov 2015

the anti-Muslim nature of comment. While the differences between ethnicity and religion are evident, prejudicial generalization apply to both.





MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
16. Islam is a very bigoted...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:17 PM
Nov 2015

conservative belief system, so benign against it on DU isn't prejudicial, it's like being against any other belief system that is conservative and bigoted.

I suppose what confuses some people is the privilege of religion, where progressive people continue to identify with bigoted and hateful religions while expecting others not to associate them with the bigoted, hateful belief system they identify with.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
19. Islam is an umbrella term, not a specific belief system.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:24 PM
Nov 2015

It is certainly the case that Islam *as interpreted by a significant majority of its practitioners* is a very bigoted and conservative belief system, but it's important to recognise that there are also tens or maybe even hundreds of millions of people who call themselves Muslims and their beliefs Islam, and are neither bigoted nor conservative.

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
25. The dogma and texts of Islam...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:32 PM
Nov 2015

are conservative and bigoted, which is something even progressive Muslims cannot change.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
76. So's christianity, too, if you practice it on all cylinders.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:14 AM
Nov 2015

There are "Jack Muslims" in the world, though. I've talked about this before on this board.

People who turn up for the major holidays, who may take grampa to the masjid on odd occasion, who eat bacon, who like a drink, who don't believe in the multiple wives schtick, or the promises of the afterlife. They might not observe Ramadan, but they don't make it obvious that they don't out of respect for the culture.

There are people who are not observant, slightly observant, reasonably observant, very observant, and fundamentalist full-bore noxiously observant. In the western press, though, we only seem to get a window on the latter types.

Jimmy Carter is not the same as people from the Fred Phelps Westboro Baptist Church. They're all Christians, though, so they say. No broad brush with them, though...

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
65. Bullshit!
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 08:38 PM
Nov 2015

There are posts here all the time about people leaving the Catholic Church, Evangelical Christianity, etc. etc due to it's misogyny, homophobia, scandals and general problem with it's teachings.....and all of the responses are overwhelmingly positive. Anyone even attempting the "No True Scotsman" crap is shouted down. Of course, that's because Christianity is treated TOTALLY different than Islam who also has MASSIVELY PROBLEMATIC teachings and deserves the same scorn.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
68. I doubt it, look at how DU acted with all the Mormons, now ex-Mormons who resigned from their...
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 12:35 AM
Nov 2015

Church over the new policy on how to treat children of same sex couples.

Also these examples:

https://twitter.com/hashtag/ExCatholic?src=hash

https://twitter.com/hashtag/exmormon

If you want I can probably find more.

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
7. Islam is a belief system...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:57 AM
Nov 2015

not an ethnicity. And some of the punishments required for apostates of Islam in its own texts probably keep many people that don't believe it from identifying as anything other than Muslim.

Islam has a lot of hateful stuff to say in its text and dogma, any person willing to speak out against it from that background is being brave, and many don't have the luxury to do so.

 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
18. See my post 13. It was to put emphasis on prejudice. As far as your comment regarding Islam has a
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:22 PM
Nov 2015

lot of hateful stuff, so does Christianity.

All you are doing is justifying Islamicphobia.

As a Jew, I know exactly how that rationalization goes





True Earthling

(832 posts)
84. Am I "Islamicphobic"?
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 12:25 PM
Nov 2015

Please define "Islamicphobia".

I know the difference between what a Muslim and Islam is. One refers to people the other to ideology.

I do not believe that all Muslims are the same. I do believe there is variability in the group as to what they believe, what they practice or how faithful they are and some may only call themselves Muslim for fear of death for apostasy.

The ideology scares the shit out of me.

Am I "Islamicphobic"?

Oneironaut

(6,288 posts)
11. Being African isn't a religion.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:07 PM
Nov 2015

Religion is a choice. Someone can simply stop being religious.

Islam is oppressive and backwards. Most religions are the same way. It has done serious damage to the Middle East and the world. It is not a force of good in the world. The more people that leave Islam and open their minds, the better.

If I prayed, my only prayer would be that organized religion be obliterated from the earth. I have no problem with people who are religious, but organized religion (especially extremist sects) tends to rot any country that it is common in to the core.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
27. People say that about Christians all the fucking time ie 'they are Christians but not fundie nut
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:39 PM
Nov 2015

jobs' or 'they were Christians, but not the Christian right'.

And dig it- for LGBT people these are very important distinctions. Those who are extreme are extreme and some in both of those faiths act out against us, 10 Islamic Nations execute gay people. I say that is wrong, too extreme, far too Islamic. Got a problem with that?

True Earthling

(832 posts)
82. It's actually an anti-generalization statement.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:31 AM
Nov 2015

"Also good to be reminded that many of the Muslim refugees may not be as Muslim as people think"

I interpret it as saying that people would be wrong to believe that all Muslims are the same, that there is variability in the group as to what they believe or how faithful they are and some may only call themselves Muslim for fear of death for apostasy.

There is a generalization in "not be as Muslim as people think" ..which subtly implies that people in general have a negative or stereotypical view of Muslims....the generalization is about people...not Muslims.

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
10. Yes, because it is.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:01 PM
Nov 2015

Maybe you should read the Koran and hadiths to get a better idea?

That man's opinion isn't uncommon at all.

 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
20. Have you read how the New Testament deals with the "Jewish issue". I know exactly where you are
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:25 PM
Nov 2015

coming from, because folks threw the same shit at me for being a Jew.

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
22. Not very well...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:29 PM
Nov 2015

Christianity continues to inspire horrible acts, which isn't surprising when you read the Bible.

 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
24. Read the book of John sometime
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:32 PM
Nov 2015

“Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.”

—John 8:44

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
26. Skip the OT right?
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:35 PM
Nov 2015

The God of the Bible condones and even engages in variously: genocide, bigotry, misogyny, slavery, homophobia, infanticide, etc. etc. Which unfortunately overshadows the peaceful stuff.

Especially when a person can be good without all the terrible baggage Christiankty brings to the table.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
54. very sexist but they don't say
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:56 PM
Nov 2015

you can force your wife. In fact, if she misbehaves, you "forsake her in bed." That sounds like you withhold sex from her!

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
63. And then you strike her...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:49 PM
Nov 2015

So if Koran states that women are under your control and you may have your way with them in bed and if they disagree with you you may strike them... well it's not really a stretch.

I mean, the fact that the Koran advocates domestic violence and you left that part out makes me think you're being disingenuous.

And read the hadiths, most Muslims follow those as well.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
14. It would be nice if people would educate themselves on what is really taught in various religions
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:12 PM
Nov 2015

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
15. Many people do educate themselves on what is really taught in various religions
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:16 PM
Nov 2015

That's why we are atheists.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
40. Extremists exist in every religion
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 03:13 PM
Nov 2015

I don't see how educating oneself can be done by listening to various opinions of different extremists, as I could find Muslims who don't agree. If it is endemic to the religion, it should be in the Koran or some part of Sharia Law.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
44. So where in Sharia Law does it say
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 03:19 PM
Nov 2015

a married woman can be forced to have sex if it's her husband?

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
45. we can go there in a minute, first the question- Do you think one wanting Sharia Law is an extremist
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 03:20 PM
Nov 2015

treestar

(82,383 posts)
55. To me it would be
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:58 PM
Nov 2015

I don't want to live anywhere with Sharia law.

You sound like you are trying to set me up.

I'd like to know if Sharia Law would allow a husband to rape his wife.

At least in theory. I would hazard to assume women in Islamic countries have it way worse than women here when it comes to rape cases.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
91. several hundred million muslims believe in Sharia law and would like it implemented
Sun Nov 22, 2015, 05:19 PM
Nov 2015

And yeah, husband can rape his wife and if your son steals a bike his hands can be cut off...


TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
42. He makes me sick. He just makes up shit, doesn't he?
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 03:17 PM
Nov 2015

Oh, my goodness.

paraphrase - the woman who controls her jealousy because of plural wives (because she should be jealous), will get the same reward as the man who controls his fear of jihad.

I would kill myself before I would let any man who believes this shit touch me.

 

linuxman

(2,337 posts)
3. A week ago, DU would have recced the shit out of this.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:52 AM
Nov 2015

Reactionary politics being what it is though, Islam is now the most peaceful religion the world has ever seen, and the best thing since sliced bread.

Weird.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
9. I'd pretend as much too if reality didn't confirm my biases
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:00 PM
Nov 2015

I'd pretend as much too if reality didn't confirm or validate my biases. As long as we admit to ourselves (if no one else) that it's merely pretense, lacking any semblance of rational thought. Just human nature to find the contrary where none exists... except in our own irrational thoughts.

Weird, part deux.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
21. Don't know if I'd agree that DU would have recced it.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:28 PM
Nov 2015

I think it far more likely that everyone would have jumped up and down screaming "Islamophobia".

I've been trying to argue that Islam is a belief system just like any other and deserving of analysis like any other for ages. I've had to wade through post after post of "blaming all Muslims for x is like...." And I just got completely sick to death of saying "I don't mean MUSLIMS, I mean ISLAM and it's fascination with abusing women and throwing gay men off buildings", to little avail. Obviously I was a bigot. Not really sure how being pissed off with watching men like me being thrown of buildings and being hung because God says so makes me a bigot. Muslims that DON'T throw gay men off buildings and DON'T demand that women shouldn't drive or be treated as sex slaves are fine by me.

I've said it elsewhere on the net, Islam exists in this weird mythological vaccuum in certain political circles where it's beyond analysis because it's a religion. Ahem. The Inquisition was motivated by religion.

There is such a thing as conflating the criticism of an idea with meaningless prejudice, they are not the same thing.
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
12. "#ExMuslimBecause my own mother told me I should be killed because I didn't believe the same things
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:07 PM
Nov 2015

she did".

There are some pretty powerful posts on that hashtag campaign sight. I would say the people posting there know more about islam thank any of us do.

flamingdem

(40,878 posts)
17. I agree - and they are letting us know with this campaign
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:19 PM
Nov 2015

they it's as bad as we might imagine and that there is hope among the young and those who can think rationally.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
23. It's hearing Muslims talk about Islam that cured me of the idea of "Islamophobia".
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:31 PM
Nov 2015

Many of them despise some of the ideas it espouses themselves.

"MUSLIMOPHOBIA" I believe in. That's a real thing. But distinguishing between meaningless prejudice and valid opposition to an idea is completely different and much more difficult.
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
31. People talking about why they are no longer Christian is very common and there are all sorts of
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 01:03 PM
Nov 2015

reasons cited, from bigoted hate preachers to pedophile priests to corrupt clergy to plain old common sense.
Escaping Christian Fundamentalism
http://www.lutherwasnotbornagain.com/

Lots of personal stories here:
http://recoveringfundamentalists.com/

I could do this all day, including denomination specific materials for many denominations. There are dozens if not hundreds of websites about those who have left every religion.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
60. There's an important distinction though.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 06:16 PM
Nov 2015

Here on Du there are very few Muslims or people who "come from" Islam. nah, for the great majority we're either Christians, or people who come from Christianity, living in societies strongly informed by Christianity. We don't really have much "point of connection" with these former Muslims as we would with Christians doing the same.

So when brought here, the object is not to provoke thought or introspection, but to reinforce existing bias.

Remember back, not too long ago, Bill Cosby had some negative things to say about some aspects of blackness in America? Right or wrong, his intended audience was other black people who, whether they agree or disagreed with him, at least knew where he was coming from, that shared point of connection. And then you had the white racists who used Bill Cosby as a "voice of truth<" supposedly supporting their already-present assumptions of inherent black dysfunctions

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
85. But that is not what the other poster said, he said 'tell me when Christians do this' and I did.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 12:35 PM
Nov 2015

Your comments have nothing to do with his, I responded to his request. I did not interject that information in a void.

Like it or not, this is a matter of current religious events, because just this month hundreds of people left the LDS because of that Church's bigoted edict against kids from LGBT families. Here is an editorial about that from the NY Times...
Stung by Edict on Gays, Mormons Leave Church
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/11/19/opinion/stung-by-edict-on-gays-mormons-leave-church.html?_r=0

And some straight reporting on the story:
Mormon Resignations Put Support for Gays Over Fealty to Faith
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/11/16/us/mormon-resignations-put-support-for-gays-over-fealty-to-faith.html

So the challenge was: show me Christians leaving their faith. I demonstrated that it is common, and in fact all over the news right now with LDS, which is another minority faith.

What you are arguing, I have no idea.

lindysalsagal

(22,902 posts)
80. I'm no longer christian because it's a bunch of 2000y old superstitions
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:00 AM
Nov 2015

right up there with the Loch Ness Monster, unicorns, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny.

It's all bullshit politics wrapped in sanctified "godly" doctrine.

I'm hoping this current muslim ugliness opens christian's eyes, too.

BTW-
Having previously been married into a jewish family, being jewish doesn't neccesarily mean anyone believes in god or any particular book: It's more likely just a family heritage feeling, rather than a specific doctrine used to hate others.

I think religion is slipping away this century, and the few remaining "believers" are freaking out to find that the floor beneath them is caving in. So, they're piling it all on heavier, with the "war on christmas" crap.

 

ericson00

(2,707 posts)
56. let me know when Christians and Jews are
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:58 PM
Nov 2015

blowing themselves up in the cause and name of their religion all across the globe.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
64. Let me know when there are large parts of the world it's not legal to be exJewish or exChristian.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:52 PM
Nov 2015

cilla4progress

(26,525 posts)
29. Really appreciating this thread...
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 12:50 PM
Nov 2015

here's a cliche that, however much of an oversimplification, I think, does apply:

Religion is good for good people, and bad for bad people.

I don't know if the Qu'ran was - as was the Bible - really written as a political text, or who wrote it.

As a raised humanist and current agnostic/pagan/humanist (aspiring Buddhist, although I feel like this is not culturally appropriate, as a North American), this discussion does nail it for me: not to single out Islam as a violent, murderous, hypocritical, genocidal text, but to lump it with the Old and New Testament of the Christian text. I would agree that all are archaic, damaging, counter-productive, and serve primarily to tap into our tribalist tendencies and to divide us. The sooner we move on and realize we are ALL connected, the better off humanity will be.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
32. Jury results:
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 01:10 PM
Nov 2015

On Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:49 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

People Who Left Islam Are Explaining Why Using the #ExMuslimBecause Hashtag
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027365049

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

This is a round about way to bash Muslims. We have to be careful not to fall into the Trump trap. Are we going to advocate for tattoo those who stay with Islam. This doesn't belong here. If you want to bash Muslims, then do it, don't use this as way to say what you want to say. Bigotry of any kind is unacceptable.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Fri Nov 20, 2015, 11:57 AM, and the Jury voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: OP please take a moment, walk away from the computer screen and think about why you posted this... at this point in time... in this country.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: You can't hide everything you don't agree with. The poster simply posted a link and I don't see any Muslim bashing.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
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Explanation: The post should be ok for discussion in my humble opinion. Have at it.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Afraid I'm not seeing what the alerter sees. Alerter, just say what you wrote here in a comment—i.e., discuss it like everyone else in the thread is doing.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: While I understand and appreciate the concerns expressed, I do think this should be part of the discussion at DU. I don't think silencing this discussion is appropriate. El Bryanto

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
33. A BIG thank you to the jury that voted to Leave It
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 01:20 PM
Nov 2015

As for the Hide it voters, why hide the voices of people who were brave enough to leave Islam? Especially on a day where Saudi Arabia sentenced a poet to death for being an atheist.



eissa

(4,238 posts)
46. Seriously, enough of the censorship
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 03:26 PM
Nov 2015

We wouldn't blink an eye if this involved any other religion, but Muslims speaking out about their own religion is considered off-limits?

Btw, kudos to these people. Middle Easterners, regardless of religion, frown upon individualism. Doing something differently than your parents/society is strongly discouraged. These folks are brave, especially considering the backlash many of them will be getting from their community.

lindysalsagal

(22,902 posts)
81. seriously
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 11:02 AM
Nov 2015

Only personal attacks warrant that, and even then, we're all grown-ups, right???

Just hit close and go rake leaves or wash your hair, for goodness sake.

IGNORE the crap.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
52. I can see why some might be concerned
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:53 PM
Nov 2015

I voted to leave it; but I can understand how some might feel this paints a picture that those who immigrate without leaving Islam are people we should be concerned about. That said that's not a good enough reason to ignore people who feel differently - rather look at all sides of the story.

Bryant

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
59. Thanks for the Leave It vote.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 06:02 PM
Nov 2015

Maybe I poorly worded it. That, and as an atheist, I was pissed about the Saudi's applying a death sentence to someone who left Islam.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
37. RIDICULOUS alert. RIDICULOUS.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 01:38 PM
Nov 2015

I am tired of this nonsense. This religion does revolting things to people all the time and every attempt to explain that it's the BELIEF that's causing the problem is turned into "you hate the PEOPLE" no matter how many times the appropriate language is used and no matter how many times it's explained that we already understand that belief and worshipper are different things.

"Muslim bashing" my arse, how is it bashing when it's Muslims themselves making the point?

We need to distinguish between "MUSLIMOPHOBIA" and "ISLAMOPHOBIA". It's getting important now.

RIDICULOUS.

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
35. This is less of a problem in secular regimes which kept a lid on religious fundamentalism.
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 01:30 PM
Nov 2015

Pity we removed most of them and helped to install islamist regimes and support islamist rebels.

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
48. A few other great posts from Muslims
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:28 PM
Nov 2015

#ExMuslimBecause because I got tired of making excuses for every violent, hateful verse and Hadith. Simply stopped deluding myself!

:large

:large

Nemat Sadat ‏@nematsadat
#ExMuslimBecause I'm gay and proud to be the first public figure to come out and campaign for LGBTI Rights in Afghanistan.

Lalo Dagach ‏@lalodagach
#ExMuslimBecause those who dared to leave Islam are the bravest and most courageous amongst us Atheists.

Eiynah -- ‏@NiceMangos
#ExMuslimBecause I want to be free to draw and write without fearing for my life.

Brother Rachid ‏@BrotherRasheed
#ExMuslimBecause I wanted to reclaim my humanity

Response to FLPanhandle (Original post)

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
53. Your dismissiveness of the serious nature of this event
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:55 PM
Nov 2015

An event that had been declared weeks in advance, is, frankly, rather sad ....

Not sure what to say ... Bye seems appropriate ...

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
57. Some people dismiss what they don't want to see
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 05:59 PM
Nov 2015

It's an expected reaction from those that are stuck on their own world view and experience information that challenges it.

You see it with Creationists and Climate Change Deniers all the time too.

climber3986

(107 posts)
61. replace ex-muslim with 'have been raped'
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 06:26 PM
Nov 2015

and now you sound like the a right winger. We cant trust them at their word because it goes against the narrative. Violence against apostates in many gulf region countries is a very serious issue.

Have you ever been outside the united states?

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
62. Ok, there IS such a thing as Muslim apostasy
Fri Nov 20, 2015, 07:22 PM
Nov 2015

And it's a big thing in the Muslim world because some movements have the DEATH PENALTY FOR IT.

It's not a joke, closeupready. Yes, there are Muslim apostates. Go and look at Youtube, there's videos about it all over the place, just because the Western media doesn't really pay any attention to it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
70. Considering the penalties for being an apostate in many Muslim countries, along with the danger...
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 12:39 AM
Nov 2015

that many people's families and friends present, not saying all our true, but at least some fraction would be.

MowCowWhoHow III

(2,103 posts)
67. Bradford dad attacked by pickaxe thugs ‘for converting from Islam to Christianity (UK 2015)
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 12:02 AM
Nov 2015
Terrifying video shows Bradford dad attacked by pickaxe thugs ‘for converting from Islam to Christianity’

A FATHER-of-six was attacked by hooded thugs with a pickaxe handle outside his Bradford home because he converted from Islam to Christianity.

Nissar Hussain, 49, suffered a broken kneecap, a fractured forearm and a concussion in the attack on Tuesday.

He is currently in Bradford Royal Infirmary following surgery after the unprovoked assault outside his home in Manningham.

The episode was caught on Mr Hussain’s home CCTV and is being reviewed by West Yorkshire Police, who have confirmed they are treating it as a religious hate crime.

Read more: http://www.yorkshirepost.co.uk/news/main-topics/general-news/terrifying-video-shows-bradford-dad-attacked-by-pickaxe-thugs-for-converting-from-islam-to-christianity-1-7579804#ixzz3s5xOw7FI

agnostic102

(198 posts)
73. its sad
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:50 AM
Nov 2015

to see some of the comments here questioning the people who left islam. I left islam and im sorry but i dont apologize for it and and certainly im not going back to iran or saudi to be executed. I dont deserve to have my head cutt of or be stoned to death because i refuse to believe in a fairy tale. If that upsets some people thats fine and if they want to question me thats fine. But i lived under sharia law. Those people are playing for keeps over who has the best imaginary friend. I have a right to life irrelevant of my beliefs.

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
74. Ignore the one or two that do that; it doesn't fit their narrative so they attack.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:00 AM
Nov 2015

Personally, I'm proud of you.

It's easy to give up religion for rational thought in secular countries. It takes an amazing amount of courage to do that when your entire country, friends, and family won't support it.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
75. And I'm sure you can probably find just as many people...
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:02 AM
Nov 2015

who are happy to tell you why they're ex-Catholics, or ex-Mormons.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
83. And Muslims in Western countries generally won't be killed for leaving, either.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 12:16 PM
Nov 2015

Upon a time, though? Christians considered apostate or heretic were just as likely to be put to death (one of my ancestors was burnt at the stake as a heretic under bloody Mary Tudor in 1558, and a distant great-uncle of mine who was a Catholic was hanged under Elizabeth I for hiding a priest).

earthside

(6,960 posts)
79. Replace 'ex-Muslim' with ex-Mormon' ...
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 10:59 AM
Nov 2015

... the signs are 90 percent just as apropos.

Do you think anyone would 'alert' on that -- or would there be broad approval?

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
87. November 11- Thousands of Mormons Plan to Abandon the Faith This Weekend- 98 DU rec's
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 12:46 PM
Nov 2015

Thousands of Mormons Plan to Abandon the Faith This Weekend
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10141257138



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