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sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:01 AM Nov 2015

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours DU~

I mean this from the bottom of my heart.

This will be a tough one for my family. Last year my BIL died in the early morning hours. So yes, we will laugh and cry and salute him with some good old Irish whiskey.

However this is not about his death, it is what I am thankful for. It is about a strong family unit and wonderfully loving friends. They take your back and hug you hard when you most need it. We have always pulled together.

We all have only so many years in this life. I am trying to make the best I can of all of them. I try to pay it forward when I have no money to do that. We had a stupid feel good exercise at one of our work meetings. Ha! They stuck a paper plate to our backs and said write something that made you feel good about this person. One of my coworkers said, she feeds me. Yes I do try to bring him food when I cook, the reason I am able to cook is because my sister gives me gift cards to the local market on a monthly basis. So I share.


I have great nephews and niece, a new one on the way. I want to leave this place better for them. I want that and am doing it the best way I know how.

To quote a movie, "I will not go quietly into the night".

I have made some good friends here at DU, love you.

Happy Thanksgiving to you all.

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Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours DU~ (Original Post) sheshe2 Nov 2015 OP
U too shenmue Nov 2015 #1
Happy Thanksgiving sweetie. sheshe2 Nov 2015 #25
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours, too, she! BlueCaliDem Nov 2015 #2
I give you credit. sheshe2 Nov 2015 #3
Aw, thanks, she. BlueCaliDem Nov 2015 #5
Ha! sheshe2 Nov 2015 #9
"We're only here for a short time. We forget that." villager Nov 2015 #4
Best to you and yours~ sheshe2 Nov 2015 #10
Happy Thanksgiving to you. DisgustipatedinCA Nov 2015 #6
The very best for you too, sheshe2. roguevalley Nov 2015 #7
Thank you, sweetheart! Kath1 Nov 2015 #8
Kath1! Backatya! sheshe2 Nov 2015 #11
nice ucrdem Nov 2015 #14
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours DU~ sheshe2 Nov 2015 #20
Happy Thanksgiving to you, too. Lifelong Protester Nov 2015 #12
Thanks sheshe! ucrdem Nov 2015 #13
Happy Thanksgiving to all DUers! lovemydog Nov 2015 #15
Happy Thanksgiving. LuvNewcastle Nov 2015 #16
Thanks for giving me yet another thing to be thankful for, sheshe2... SunSeeker Nov 2015 #17
When I lift a shot of Irish~ sheshe2 Nov 2015 #21
Thank you, sheshe Jack Rabbit Nov 2015 #18
Best to you and yours~ sheshe2 Nov 2015 #22
Same back to you from Germany! DFW Nov 2015 #19
Germany? sheshe2 Nov 2015 #23
She could still be right DFW Nov 2015 #27
I have pics of my grandfather in Switzerland. sheshe2 Nov 2015 #32
Switzerland is my back yard DFW Nov 2015 #33
Dayum.... sheshe2 Nov 2015 #36
It's cheaper here in Germany DFW Nov 2015 #41
Stop on in! DFW Nov 2015 #42
Right back at ya sheshe Marie Marie Nov 2015 #24
Ha! sheshe2 Nov 2015 #37
Lets see.. the word Thanksgiving yuiyoshida Nov 2015 #26
Now there's a good phrase DFW Nov 2015 #28
Yes, its said after the meal...or yuiyoshida Nov 2015 #29
I can try it here. DFW Nov 2015 #31
Goshisosama deshita... yuiyoshida Nov 2015 #34
So sweet. sheshe2 Nov 2015 #38
Have a great one sheshe2! Rex Nov 2015 #30
Lol~I have all Dems. sheshe2 Nov 2015 #35
Even with sad memories, brer cat Nov 2015 #39
Happy Thanksgiving! handmade34 Nov 2015 #40

BlueCaliDem

(15,438 posts)
2. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours, too, she!
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:06 AM
Nov 2015


For me, it's going to be hard work. Cooking all day, both a Thanksgiving brunch and Thanksgiving dinner. Did all the grocery shopping last night and I'm ready for it! Haha!

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
3. I give you credit.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:16 AM
Nov 2015

Thanksgiving is one of the longest hardest dinners to make. Ha! a few years ago I did it and had to cook for a vegan to boot!

Small very small kitchen, dayum took me 4 days to finish cleaning up. I work retail, black Friday and all.

Best to you sweetie.

Happy Thanksgiving.

BlueCaliDem

(15,438 posts)
5. Aw, thanks, she.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:25 AM
Nov 2015


Yes, it's one of the longest hardest dinners to make, but I do it with love. Good thing no one likes stuffing, though!

The brunch is a bit longer since some like pancakes, all like freshly baked croissants, and some want toast and pancakes. Some like bacon and some like sausage, and some want both. lol

I have to deck the table twice tomorrow, too.

Family and friends want to wake up to a nicely decked table ready to pull up their chairs and chow down. So I'll be cooking breakfast at about 8 a.m. PST. in order to have everything ready by 10. If you're awake around then, think about little ol' me here in cold but sunny SoCal? I sure will be thinking of you.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
9. Ha!
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:44 AM
Nov 2015

I always hated stuffing. Yuck!

That year I made a vegan stuffing. It was okay. The diehards were not happy. Yet they love my baby niece. Baby, lol, 28 years old.

I cannot believe you are doing two in a day!!!! You are amazing.

I will indeed be thinking of you this Thanksgiving. Love and hugs to you and yours.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
4. "We're only here for a short time. We forget that."
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:23 AM
Nov 2015

It's a line from the upcoming Anomalisa. It's not exactly a new insight, but always worth repeating.

Be well, warm circles around you, happy holiday-ing...

Jack Rabbit

(45,984 posts)
18. Thank you, sheshe
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:05 AM
Nov 2015

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours, also.

I will be having dinner with my lady friend, who is from Poland and was once part of the movement that put an end to Communism.

DFW

(54,403 posts)
19. Same back to you from Germany!
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:10 AM
Nov 2015

This year, we will be having twenty people over from three different countries. We have known some of them for over 40 years (!!!) and some of them haven't been alive for that long (our younger daughter and a few of her friends). We brought in Peppridge Fahhhm stuffing and cranberries from the States and ordered an 18 kilogram free range turkey from a poultry farm near here that has exotic (for Germany) offerings like that.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
23. Germany?
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:24 AM
Nov 2015

I am part German though my mom tries to deny it. She says we are German Swiss.

Best to you on this Thanksgiving.

DFW

(54,403 posts)
27. She could still be right
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:32 AM
Nov 2015

Germany wasn't even a country before 1871, and the Swiss confederation wasn't really solidified until 1850. Before that, there was a map full of smaller Kantons, Bishoprics, Duchies, Principalities and kingdoms. The German they speak in the Swiss Kantons is so different from the versions spoken in what is now Germany and Austria that Swiss German TV programs need to be subtitled. By now, I am so used to it, that I understand the "Mundart" of several of the bigger Swiss Kantons, but get up into the mountains of Uri or Appenzell, and it might as well be Kiswahili for all I can understand.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
32. I have pics of my grandfather in Switzerland.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:44 AM
Nov 2015

Maybe 10 or so. They were in the hay fields.

He use to sing in German and taught me a swear word or two much to my moms chagrin.

Thank you for some of the history DFW.

Best~

she

DFW

(54,403 posts)
33. Switzerland is my back yard
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:48 AM
Nov 2015

So to speak. By U.S. standards anyway. Grab a train from Düsseldorf (nearest city to me, about 15 km) at breakfast, and you'll be in Switzerland in time for lunch. Or, it's a 50 minute cheapie flight from here to Zürich, but be prepared for sticker shock when you get there. $30 for a pizza, etc. It's insane down there.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
36. Dayum....
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 04:05 AM
Nov 2015

If and when I can afford to retire I will be on your door step to say hello. However I will not pay $30 for a pizza. Yikes!

I am not sure where he was from, my sister is the historian. However I did find the manifests for when they immigrated to the US. I saw his name, to cool.

DFW

(54,403 posts)
41. It's cheaper here in Germany
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 05:36 PM
Nov 2015

I was just in downtown Düsseldorf with my immediate superior and his wife today, and we wanted a late light lunch. We ducked into a Turkish place I know, and we got spicy lentil soup for three, a huge Lahmacun (Turkish pizza) with cheese and spinach to split, and drinks for 3, and the bill came to under €20. In Switzerland it would probably have cost that just for the soup!

DFW

(54,403 posts)
42. Stop on in!
Sat Nov 28, 2015, 05:28 PM
Nov 2015

This little shack is in our back yard (actually it has been there in one form or another since the year 973, and that is NOT missing a digit!). My immediate superior was in town on Thursday, and so we and our wives had dinner in a restaurant that is in one of the towers. The rest is now divided up between an architect's studio, some small horse stables and a small venue for the performing arts with a tiny apartment attached so that visiting musicians can stay stress-free and rehearse without having to travel back and forth. A family of peacocks lives in the courtyard during the summer. Most visitors find it pleasant unless the weather is lousy, and the weather is only lousy maybe 75% of the time--some years only 65% LOL!!

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Marie Marie

(9,999 posts)
24. Right back at ya sheshe
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:25 AM
Nov 2015

And remember to save room for the pumpkin pie or whatever yummy dessert makes it to your table. (am I the only one here who thinks that the dinner should start with dessert?) Anyway, have a wonderful Thanksgiving.

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
26. Lets see.. the word Thanksgiving
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:31 AM
Nov 2015

in Japanese is Kansha-sai. So you can say... Kanshasai Omedeto!! which means, congratulations for your Thanksgiving. Its sounds odd, I know. Obviously they don't have a Thanksgiving in Japan, but my favorite Japanese word is itadakimasu!...its like saying I am thankful for all the food I am about to eat, and thank everyone involved in the process of bringing it to my table!

Note: When one is done with the meal, we say: Goshisosama deshita! It kinda means, That was indeed a feast!!

Happy Thanksgiving!

DFW

(54,403 posts)
28. Now there's a good phrase
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:34 AM
Nov 2015

"Goshisosama deshita!" Ima wakarimasu! I think I'll use that one on my sister-in-law next time I'm in Langley!

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
29. Yes, its said after the meal...or
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:37 AM
Nov 2015

If you are in a Japanese restaurant, say it to the staff as you walk outside. It will make their day!

DFW

(54,403 posts)
31. I can try it here.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:43 AM
Nov 2015

Düsseldorf is the Japanese capital of Europe. Part of town might as well be in Tokyo. Hotel Nikko, the Japanese consulate, Japanese bookstores, Japanese travel agencies and Japanese grocery stores complete with Korean cashiers--all with signs in Nihongo. German? Kore-wa nan desuka?

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
38. So sweet.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 04:36 AM
Nov 2015
in Japanese is Kansha-sai. So you can say... Kanshasai Omedeto!! which means, congratulations for your Thanksgiving. Its sounds odd, I know. Obviously they don't have a Thanksgiving in Japan, but my favorite Japanese word is itadakimasu!...its like saying I am thankful for all the food I am about to eat, and thank everyone involved in the process of bringing it to my table!


Actually, beautiful. Thank you yuiyoshida .
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
30. Have a great one sheshe2!
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:38 AM
Nov 2015

Going to have to put up with the GOP uncle for Turkey Day. Hopefully he will keep his yap shut. I will be focusing on eating cranberry and stuffing until I pass out.



sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
35. Lol~I have all Dems.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 03:58 AM
Nov 2015

Thank Goddess!

I am making pumpkin pie. The cranberry sauce, my mom makes. Fresh cranberries and orange in a food processor, some sugar....heaven.

Hey, enjoy your day, Rex!

Happy Thanksgiving.

brer cat

(24,574 posts)
39. Even with sad memories,
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 06:14 AM
Nov 2015

I know you are thankful today for what you have...a new nephew or niece on the way is really special.

Have a great day, sheshe! Your DU friends love you.

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