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callous taoboy

(4,585 posts)
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 10:57 AM Nov 2015

Check in if you're spending time with Republican family members this Thanksgiving-

Heard so far at dad's house:

Dump Trump quickly before SHE gets in!

Ted Cruz's star is rising.

Ted Cruz is brilliant.

Black -on- Black crime is way up.


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Check in if you're spending time with Republican family members this Thanksgiving- (Original Post) callous taoboy Nov 2015 OP
Whenever they spout their bullshit I just remind them that ... Scuba Nov 2015 #1
Ted Cruz is brillant. When I hear something like that I imagine someone in a suit saying: BlueJazz Nov 2015 #2
Hahahaha. narnian60 Nov 2015 #4
I just rolled my eyes and went back to playing with the kitten. callous taoboy Nov 2015 #15
reminds me of this quote: HeiressofBickworth Nov 2015 #22
I will be later today Sherman A1 Nov 2015 #3
Of Course, Isn't Everyone...... Laxman Nov 2015 #5
I'm not engaging anyone in politics today, nor replying to any bait. callous taoboy Nov 2015 #6
Great post.. mountain grammy Nov 2015 #18
Great post Laxman. Doctor Who Nov 2015 #24
Can't wait to break bread with the slightly evolved ape people damnedifIknow Nov 2015 #7
Probably treestar Nov 2015 #8
Here but lucky right now. dilby Nov 2015 #9
Nope! The_Commonist Nov 2015 #10
Me neither! Freddie Nov 2015 #16
Checking in. Fully expect the insanity to be at full blast. Coventina Nov 2015 #11
. lastlib Nov 2015 #12
Wow. callous taoboy Nov 2015 #14
(This is the same loon who tries to tell people..... lastlib Nov 2015 #19
That's one thing I don't have to worry about. hobbit709 Nov 2015 #13
I dont associate with rethugs, even family...nt StopTheNeoCons Nov 2015 #17
I try to be open-minded and associate with everyone TeddyR Nov 2015 #28
I don't understand why anyone would engage Snobblevitch Nov 2015 #20
Just got off the phone w/ my daughter.. Scurrilous Nov 2015 #21
I AM, and I wouldn't have it ANY other way. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #23
Most of us are good Dems and when a Repuke OldHippieChick Nov 2015 #25
Ick. PatrickforO Nov 2015 #26
The last tine I was home for a holiday... CoffeeCat Nov 2015 #27
I take my family for what it is at Thanskgiving TeddyR Nov 2015 #29
 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
2. Ted Cruz is brillant. When I hear something like that I imagine someone in a suit saying:
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:05 AM
Nov 2015

"They're coming to take me away..to the funny farm...where life is beautiful all day long and..."

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
22. reminds me of this quote:
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 05:03 PM
Nov 2015

John Randolph, the eccentric Virginia aristocrat, invented this phrase in the 1820's and used it against at least two of his Congressional colleagues. Henry Clay, he complained, was so brilliant, so capable and yet so corrupt that, ''like a rotten mackerel in the moonlight, he both shines and stinks.''

It was my mother's favorite description of lawyers she had dealt with in her life. It can also be applied to Ted Cruz.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
3. I will be later today
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:30 AM
Nov 2015

My wife's family is pretty much all Republican. My response today to much of any of their campaign comments will be "The Democrats can run a cardboard box in 2016 and will win the White House. "

Laxman

(2,419 posts)
5. Of Course, Isn't Everyone......
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:38 AM
Nov 2015

and it really isn't that important. My mom and dad are getting up there and won't be around much longer. The last thing I'm going to do is judge them on their political beliefs or waste my Thanksgiving arguing with a couple of old people who watch too much Fox News. They're still my parents and I love them anyway. They must have done something right to raise 5 liberal socially aware kids along with a bevy of similarly inclined grandchildren. When my father looks around the room and sees his Jewish son-in-law hugging his Muslim son-in-law or two of his Muslim grandchildren hanging with their Catholic, Presbyterian and Agnostic/Atheist cousins it's got to trigger a bit of the "Captain Kirk blowing up the computer with logic" response. I know he loves them all. Let it go. What are you going to do, change their minds over turkey? Is it really more important than your family? I'm certainly not going to let politics mess up my Thanksgiving. I don't care what they think or say about politics enough to let that happen. Besides, the reality in the room tells a much different story. Be confident in your own beliefs and enjoy the day.

callous taoboy

(4,585 posts)
6. I'm not engaging anyone in politics today, nor replying to any bait.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:44 AM
Nov 2015

And this post is not meant to stir up shit in families today. It was posted in the spirit of what kind of lou-lou things are DUers hearing today, e.g. Ted Cruz is brilliant.

mountain grammy

(26,623 posts)
18. Great post..
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:27 PM
Nov 2015

Last year we were with the right wing of the family.. There was my thrice divorced niece with her newly adopted black daughter. The ingrained racism in this family has come back to bite them with a beautiful and loved granddaughter. My niece, still very Republican, has had her eyes opened by the racism she's experiencing with her daughter, coming from, of all places, her church. Last year we had a fun Thanksgiving with all of them. We laughed and ate and politics was off the table. It's the only way we can be together as a family, so we suck it up and just do it.

 

Doctor Who

(147 posts)
24. Great post Laxman.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 07:33 PM
Nov 2015

The tie that bonds me to my family is stronger than our difference on political issues. People tend to loose sight of that, on both sides.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
8. Probably
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:46 AM
Nov 2015

and they usually bring it up, assuming agreement of anyone there, as right wingers do.

I'm ignoring them this Thanksgiving. They all have everything they need, yet they have to whine about some brown people somewhere who are allegedly victimizing them somehow.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
9. Here but lucky right now.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 11:51 AM
Nov 2015

Currently at my dad's in AZ who was a lifelong Republican till after Bush Jr then went Libertarian for a little bit. But he almost made me fall out of my chair when he said he was a Sanders supporter, he is 67 a little racist, a little bigoted but still my dad.

I still have to go to my Mom's tonight and I already know she is a Trump supporter. And then there will be my brother who I am sure is going for Cruz or Rubio. It will take everything within my power not to lose my shit as we debate politics and social issues. My mom already calls me a pinko commie liberal which I am pretty proud about.

The_Commonist

(2,518 posts)
10. Nope!
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:01 PM
Nov 2015

Don't have any.
A couple of Thanksgivings ago, my niece said "Political arguments in this family are boring! Everyone agrees with everyone else..."

I expect more of the same this year.

Freddie

(9,267 posts)
16. Me neither!
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:22 PM
Nov 2015

Pretty left-of-center family here. Wasn't sure about my son-in-law at first but my daughter got him to see the light.

lastlib

(23,242 posts)
12. .
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:05 PM
Nov 2015

When my neo-Nazi brother tells me that "Arab kids blow up so quickly these days," I'm going to smack him with the bread pudding--bowl and all.

callous taoboy

(4,585 posts)
14. Wow.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 12:14 PM
Nov 2015

My family doesn't get that crass. They might in private, though. I could hear one of my brothers saying that.

lastlib

(23,242 posts)
19. (This is the same loon who tries to tell people.....
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 01:35 PM
Nov 2015

...that the Newtown massacre was a hoax by Obama to take his gunz..... . . I'll always wonder what he smoked in the 70s ???)

Scurrilous

(38,687 posts)
21. Just got off the phone w/ my daughter..
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 02:05 PM
Nov 2015

She's on her way to her boyfriend's parents house in Bum@#$% North Florida. When you google the town name a picture of a telephone pole and some shrubbery pops up. Very rural. Anyway, the Mom is OK but the Dad is full-on FOX News 24/7 true believer. Never turns it off. I told her to wait until the turkey comes out then start going "Goebbel Goebbel." It'll probably sail over the Dad's head but it'll be bit of a payback and make her feel better when the traditional racist tirades crank up.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
23. I AM, and I wouldn't have it ANY other way.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 05:50 PM
Nov 2015

But then we talk about family memories, dinner, football, how your hair has changed since the last time we got together...

I can't remember EVER in my 54 years when there was an argument about politics or anything else at family dinners on ANY holiday.

It's how the C*****w's roll.

OldHippieChick

(2,434 posts)
25. Most of us are good Dems and when a Repuke
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 08:02 PM
Nov 2015

told us how much she thought of Trump in July, we ripped her a new one, so didn't get any of that at Thanksgiving.

PatrickforO

(14,576 posts)
26. Ick.
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 08:05 PM
Nov 2015

We're hosting the dinner for our children. No Republicans here, just one right leaning independent, but he doesn't vote.

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
27. The last tine I was home for a holiday...
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 08:11 PM
Nov 2015

My arch-conservative father argued that teachers are paid too much. He also expressed relief that the local country club had high fences, because, "We've got to keep the riff raff out somehow."

I've also been mocked for caring about the homeless and social justice. My father once said, "Hey, I think there's someone scratching at the window. They sound hungry. Maybe you could bring them out some food. God knows I won't."

After dinner he would always suggest that we hop in his Porche "and go see how the lower 90 percent lives."

Um...yeah. I haven't been home in 15 years. Best decision I ever made.

Too busy focusing on my wonderful husband and two lovely daughters.

 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
29. I take my family for what it is at Thanskgiving
Thu Nov 26, 2015, 09:23 PM
Nov 2015

And all the other days of the year. Some are more liberal than me (though very few), some are moderate, some are conservative and some I don't know about. Still, all are family, and family is important. And at the end of the day, I think all want what is best for America, though their idea of what is "best" might differ from mind. Too much intolerance in this country for me to bring it to the dinner table on Thanksgiving.

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