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darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:48 PM Dec 2015

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No one is taking your guns away. hrmjustin Dec 2015 #1
+ 1000 JustAnotherGen Dec 2015 #3
Some are trying to propose a ban. You can't deny that. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #8
But that is not going to happen and we all know that. hrmjustin Dec 2015 #10
Say what?? darkangel218 Dec 2015 #17
What. hrmjustin Dec 2015 #18
Nevermind.. Nt. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #20
I'm one of those people. Its just a question of how many innocent deaths you're willing to ignore... 951-Riverside Dec 2015 #14
How exactly will it happen? philosslayer Dec 2015 #120
Context 951-Riverside Dec 2015 #122
So you implied that she will "lose her precious toys" philosslayer Dec 2015 #123
I don't know what you're trying to argue or dig at here. My position very clear. 951-Riverside Dec 2015 #124
I don't get into this debate much and I have no beef with you, darkangel218, but you're as good... ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2015 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Dec 2015 #19
The honest answer is that they don't care... TipTok Dec 2015 #29
That's not true at all. nt ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2015 #34
How is that not true? TipTok Dec 2015 #50
Well, who are you referring to as "they"? People who want gun control? Because, if so... ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2015 #63
Statistically speaking the odds that she will be raped again by a stranger breaking into her home... Humanist_Activist Dec 2015 #66
No, I don't want that to happen, and I said so when I said I have no beef with you. You do... ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2015 #30
Depends upon what and where she is shooting REP Dec 2015 #61
sound of the slide + mumbling kill or cripple + angry dirty words Dont_Bogart_the_Pretzel Dec 2015 #99
Would you pass a background check? nt 99th_Monkey Dec 2015 #2
I'm just curious -- what well-regulated militia are you a member of? Arugula Latte Dec 2015 #4
I'm member of the rape survivor one. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #12
Where does the Second Amendment state that a gun owner has to be a militia member? TeddyR Dec 2015 #111
Absoluely right Old Codger Dec 2015 #116
Which "well-regulated militia" do you belong to... yallerdawg Dec 2015 #5
Every day a new shooting upaloopa Dec 2015 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Dec 2015 #15
So are you packing all of the time? Texasgal Dec 2015 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Dec 2015 #23
Oh buzz off.. Texasgal Dec 2015 #24
Boo hoo! You do that! darkangel218 Dec 2015 #28
I'm not even on DI. Texasgal Dec 2015 #35
You're not on DI?? darkangel218 Dec 2015 #42
Toodles Texasgal Dec 2015 #76
Yup. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #78
Our gun culture is still a negative upaloopa Dec 2015 #26
Having a Gun in the House Doesn't Make a Woman Safer Katashi_itto Dec 2015 #84
My wife was attacked brutally by a male nearly 25 years ago and yet she has no madinmaryland Dec 2015 #109
Our murder rates are down significantly yeoman6987 Dec 2015 #132
Saying that when we are having almost upaloopa Dec 2015 #135
You don't have to worry about gun confiscation. Rex Dec 2015 #7
Good. n/t darkangel218 Dec 2015 #9
Very good. 840high Dec 2015 #90
They could not make prohibition stick. States are making pot legal. Rex Dec 2015 #117
You are so right Rex. GGJohn Dec 2015 #130
Thanks for giving me your name to put on Eternal Ignore. nt valerief Dec 2015 #11
Right back atcha. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #13
I find ignore lists really TeddyR Dec 2015 #114
Statistically speaking, you are far more likely to be harmed by your own gun mythology Dec 2015 #22
Show me the stats on rape crimes. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #27
I don't believe these statistics exist maxsolomon Dec 2015 #44
Especially important to females? grntuscarora Dec 2015 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Dec 2015 #39
Where is your evidence that its not a myth? Humanist_Activist Dec 2015 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Dec 2015 #43
This demand for "fuking delete!!!!!" is completely irrational, and while its true that you might... Humanist_Activist Dec 2015 #48
Maybe you "should speak to someone *. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #55
The fact is that you are grossly overreacting to posts on this board from people who are trying to.. Humanist_Activist Dec 2015 #62
So you're saying that a rape victim... philosslayer Dec 2015 #121
Exactly etherealtruth Dec 2015 #57
I'm sorry for not reading your earlier post. grntuscarora Dec 2015 #49
darkangel218 with all due respect choie Dec 2015 #101
This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Dec 2015 #104
How many times are you going to post this? DLevine Dec 2015 #107
I asked them to delete, not edit. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #134
Let me be the first rec on this thread. edgineered Dec 2015 #31
that is a false assertion maxsolomon Dec 2015 #40
Pretty much Old Codger Dec 2015 #118
I'm very sorry for your experience and I understand your motivation maxsolomon Dec 2015 #32
D is what I was asking about upthread. You added some good other possibilities, especially... ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2015 #46
Yes, 20K out of 30K deaths every year maxsolomon Dec 2015 #54
I'm a 5'3" woman who has successfully fought off much larger male attackers REP Dec 2015 #33
Good for you. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #37
"Lucky"? REP Dec 2015 #47
Are you trying to say that I "didn't fight back enough" so I won't get raped??? darkangel218 Dec 2015 #51
If that's what I meant, I would have said that. REP Dec 2015 #53
That is what you said. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #59
Sigh. No, it isn't. But nice try. REP Dec 2015 #64
Yes that is what you said. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #65
Move along now, sweetie. You're done here. REP Dec 2015 #67
I am not your "sweetie". darkangel218 Dec 2015 #69
Whatever you say, babycakes. REP Dec 2015 #70
Shove it. n/t darkangel218 Dec 2015 #71
That's not very ladylike, sugarplum REP Dec 2015 #74
And you're "gentleman like"?? darkangel218 Dec 2015 #75
See post #33. So no, I'm not. At all. REP Dec 2015 #80
Even worse. n/t darkangel218 Dec 2015 #83
Feel better now, hon? REP Dec 2015 #85
Not your "hon". darkangel218 Dec 2015 #93
IBTL yuiyoshida Dec 2015 #36
Women packing a small gun, and not otherwise pushing gunz, doesn't really bother me. Hoyt Dec 2015 #38
I get where you are coming from. leftofcool Dec 2015 #45
Absolutely. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #58
Terribly sorry about what you went through. NCTraveler Dec 2015 #52
You expect a response to that?? darkangel218 Dec 2015 #56
No, I do not, even though I got more than one. NCTraveler Dec 2015 #73
Don't bother. This one called me RW and a troll in my own thread for opposing guns. Photographer Dec 2015 #60
Because you replied this when I posted that I did not agree with you darkangel218 Dec 2015 #68
And I edited the line out and this is like the 3rd time you have reposted it. Photographer Dec 2015 #86
she will likely bring it up for years, too Kali Dec 2015 #125
Are you really accusing a rape victim of being an attention-seeker TeddyR Dec 2015 #126
no I am stating some facts about the behavior of an individual Kali Dec 2015 #128
It has been tough reading their replies throughout. Nt NCTraveler Dec 2015 #82
I disagree. Chan790 Dec 2015 #72
I join the rape victims Militia. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #79
No. Chan790 Dec 2015 #89
oh we can just ignore the militia part ok lol nt msongs Dec 2015 #81
There are too many assailants in America.. sanatanadharma Dec 2015 #77
people should be careful when they drink and play with guns Kali Dec 2015 #87
The only gun confiscation I can remember was by G W Bush in New Orleans. B Calm Dec 2015 #88
and You as a Gun owner are RESPONSIBLE for that Firearm. bobalew Dec 2015 #91
I am for all that. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #95
Agree 100%. 840high Dec 2015 #129
Can this thread please be locked??? elias49 Dec 2015 #92
All the other anti second amendment threads ate allowed, because of the recent events. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #94
In the meantime you're being driven to an aneurism - elias49 Dec 2015 #97
I don't think so ( in regard to the "aneurism") darkangel218 Dec 2015 #100
Whoop-de-fucking-doo. hifiguy Dec 2015 #96
This message was self-deleted by its author darkangel218 Dec 2015 #98
FORUM HOST DECISION: thread meets news exception-LEAVE nt LostOne4Ever Dec 2015 #102
Ty hosts. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #106
Good. 840high Dec 2015 #110
If you belong to a well regulated militia. Which no one does of course. OregonBlue Dec 2015 #103
Actually TeddyR Dec 2015 #115
Cool - When did you last muster? jmg257 Dec 2015 #131
If its so Constitutional try brings a gun to your representatives office..... Historic NY Dec 2015 #105
Which regiment do you belong to? MANative Dec 2015 #108
The right to keep and bear arms TeddyR Dec 2015 #119
Thank you for revealing yourself librechik Dec 2015 #112
And the nuts have them voting to allow those on the terror watch list to buy them.... bettyellen Dec 2015 #113
K and R (nt) bigwillq Dec 2015 #127
The Second Amendment says you have a right to keep and doc03 Dec 2015 #133
 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
1. No one is taking your guns away.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:51 PM
Dec 2015

JustAnotherGen

(38,054 posts)
3. + 1000
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:52 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
8. Some are trying to propose a ban. You can't deny that.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:00 PM
Dec 2015
 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
10. But that is not going to happen and we all know that.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:01 PM
Dec 2015

Gutless politicians who are afraid of the gun lobby.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
17. Say what??
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:05 PM
Dec 2015
 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
18. What.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:06 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
20. Nevermind.. Nt.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:08 PM
Dec 2015
 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
14. I'm one of those people. Its just a question of how many innocent deaths you're willing to ignore...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:04 PM
Dec 2015

until you've had enough.

You're on the side war, death and mayhem and in the end you will lose your precious toys. It could be 1 year, it could be 5 years, it could be 10 years but its just a matter of time and its going to happen.

 

philosslayer

(3,076 posts)
120. How exactly will it happen?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:01 PM
Dec 2015

Do you mean confiscation?

 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
122. Context
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:06 PM
Dec 2015

I was responding to:

Some are trying to propose a ban. You can't deny that.


My response:

I'm one of those people. Its just a question of how many innocent deaths you're willing to ignore until you've had enough.

You're on the side war, death and mayhem and in the end you will lose your precious toys. It could be 1 year, it could be 5 years, it could be 10 years but its just a matter of time and its going to happen.
 

philosslayer

(3,076 posts)
123. So you implied that she will "lose her precious toys"
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:16 PM
Dec 2015

Seeing as she already HAS a firearm, do you believe it will be taken from her?

 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
124. I don't know what you're trying to argue or dig at here. My position very clear.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:48 PM
Dec 2015
 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
16. I don't get into this debate much and I have no beef with you, darkangel218, but you're as good...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:05 PM
Dec 2015

...a person to ask this question to as anyone: What happens to the bullets that miss their intended target?

Response to ChisolmTrailDem (Reply #16)

 

TipTok

(2,474 posts)
29. The honest answer is that they don't care...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:15 PM
Dec 2015

The innocent folks who die from violent crime are somehow less important than the innocent folks who die from mass shootings.

Go figure...

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
34. That's not true at all. nt
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:16 PM
Dec 2015
 

TipTok

(2,474 posts)
50. How is that not true?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:26 PM
Dec 2015

A total confiscation (accomplished through magic) would last about a week and criminals would be rearmed.

Crime will rise and people who would have been able to defend themselves will be hurt and killed. Doubly so in a culture like America...

Just the cost of doing business right?

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
63. Well, who are you referring to as "they"? People who want gun control? Because, if so...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:35 PM
Dec 2015

...you said "they don't care" and one group is less important that the other. I am saying that is not true. Because "they" would include me. And I made my case in post #30 that darkangel's situation must be taken into consideration, etc. You can read it. So, it's not true that "they" don't care because I do care. But, something has to be done about the madness; we can't just not do something. It's important that personal defense in instances of rape (and other cirmes) be considered but there are also innocent people out there who have no business being dead getting killed!

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
66. Statistically speaking the odds that she will be raped again by a stranger breaking into her home...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:36 PM
Dec 2015

several times less likely than being shot by her own gun now that she has one.

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
30. No, I don't want that to happen, and I said so when I said I have no beef with you. You do...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:16 PM
Dec 2015

...what you feel you need to do to feel safe so you can go outside and function in life and be able to defend yourself if needed. Whatever the solution to this gun madness going on in this country I believe it must take situations like yours into consideration. But something must be done to stop the madness.

REP

(21,691 posts)
61. Depends upon what and where she is shooting
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:34 PM
Dec 2015

If she's in a house, shooting a shotgun, the pellets are likely to stay within the dwelling. Firing a pistol above .22, there's a chance of the projectile escaping the walls. That's one reason shotguns are good for self-defense in a house; that, and the characteristic sound of the slide is usually enough to encourage intruders to leave.

99. sound of the slide + mumbling kill or cripple + angry dirty words
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:25 PM
Dec 2015

I tried that ounce with a non-friend hanging around too much... work great! I just wish I tried it a a few months earlier

 

99th_Monkey

(19,326 posts)
2. Would you pass a background check? nt
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:52 PM
Dec 2015
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
4. I'm just curious -- what well-regulated militia are you a member of?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:53 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
12. I'm member of the rape survivor one.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:02 PM
Dec 2015

Those who chose to protect themselves, and not fall victim again.

Do you have a problem with that??

 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
111. Where does the Second Amendment state that a gun owner has to be a militia member?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:41 PM
Dec 2015

At best, it states that a militia is the best protection of a free state, and therefore the right to keep and bear arms "shall not be infringed." But it doesn't say you only get to own a gun if you are a member of a militia. And in any event, the Founding Fathers viewed the "militia" as every able bodied person in the country. For example, George Mason stated “I ask you sir, who are the militia? They consist now of the whole people.”

 

Old Codger

(4,205 posts)
116. Absoluely right
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:51 PM
Dec 2015

The requirement to be a member was 16 years of age and the owning of a gun...

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
5. Which "well-regulated militia" do you belong to...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:55 PM
Dec 2015

as specified in the Constitution?

You know, for the "security of a free state." We insist on security, you know.

I'm not sure if handing you a gun and anyone else who wants one makes me feel secure.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
6. Every day a new shooting
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:56 PM
Dec 2015

The responce is pray for the victims and you won't take my guns away.

Our gun culture in this country a real negative.
I could say worse but what's the use.

Response to upaloopa (Reply #6)

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
21. So are you packing all of the time?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:08 PM
Dec 2015

Does Florida have concealed handgun law? Are you a CHL holder?

I don't disgree with you, just curious.

Response to Texasgal (Reply #21)

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
24. Oh buzz off..
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:12 PM
Dec 2015

Ugh. :rollseyes:

Take your drama somewhere else.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
28. Boo hoo! You do that!
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:14 PM
Dec 2015

I never attacked you on DI.didn't even know who you were till I was told later.

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
35. I'm not even on DI.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:16 PM
Dec 2015

Now, go take your drama elsewhere.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
42. You're not on DI??
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:20 PM
Dec 2015

You are in DI, you admitted it yourself who you were lmao!!!!

Bye.

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
76. Toodles
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:44 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
78. Yup.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:45 PM
Dec 2015

I only see "stars"...

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
26. Our gun culture is still a negative
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:13 PM
Dec 2015

We have 88.8 guns per 100 people.

That is not sane. I think we have too much fear.

 

Katashi_itto

(10,175 posts)
84. Having a Gun in the House Doesn't Make a Woman Safer
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:47 PM
Dec 2015

Christy Salters Martin is a professional boxer and the owner of a concealed carry permit. But when she attempted to leave her husband, she was shot with her own gun. Today, she cautions other women against making the same mistake. “Just putting a weapon in the woman’s hand is not going to reduce the number of fatalities or gunshot victims that we have. Too many times, their male counterpart or spouse will be able to overpower them and take that gun away.”

http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/02/having-a-gun-in-the-house-doesnt-make-a-woman-safer/284022/

madinmaryland

(65,729 posts)
109. My wife was attacked brutally by a male nearly 25 years ago and yet she has no
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:16 PM
Dec 2015

desire to own a gun. She was with a boyfriend a couple of years later who she was with when he got busted for drugs and if she had had a gun she would probably be still in jail and we would never have met.

Her father owned one or two as a private investigator back in the 60's to 80's before he retired, but she never felt that having a gun provided her any protection. Her father hid the gun, but she still knew where it was. It's something that (and I) did not want in our house.

And I am sorry that you were assaulted.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
132. Our murder rates are down significantly
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:07 AM
Dec 2015

More guns equals less murders. At least statistically.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
135. Saying that when we are having almost
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:30 AM
Dec 2015

daily mass shootings is unbelievable

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
7. You don't have to worry about gun confiscation.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 06:57 PM
Dec 2015

That will never happen, it is logistically impossible. IMO.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
9. Good. n/t
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:00 PM
Dec 2015
 

840high

(17,196 posts)
90. Very good.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:58 PM
Dec 2015
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
117. They could not make prohibition stick. States are making pot legal.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:57 PM
Dec 2015

As much as people want a big bonfire of guns, the genie left the stage coach eons ago. It will never happen, just like the govt coming for yer guns. Or the govt shutting down a S&W factory. Or shutting down the MIC for that matter. Maybe there is an uptick in rampages, because of actions on the otherside of the planet?

Bottom line is people will never give up their firearms, they heard Moses tell them over their cold dead hands. It was not a joke.

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
130. You are so right Rex.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:31 AM
Dec 2015

the best guesstimate of firearms in this country is appox 320 million, and that's not counting those that aren't known about.

Those fantasizing about a confiscation are truly not living in the land of reality.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
11. Thanks for giving me your name to put on Eternal Ignore. nt
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:01 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
13. Right back atcha.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:02 PM
Dec 2015
 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
114. I find ignore lists really
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:44 PM
Dec 2015

Odd. Why would you go to a website that encourages political debate and then "ignore" people who disagree with you. Our entire political system is based on disagreement and compromise. I, for one, don't want one group to impose their beliefs on another, or "ignore" someone else's position because they don't like it.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
22. Statistically speaking, you are far more likely to be harmed by your own gun
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:10 PM
Dec 2015

than to defend yourself with one. Your gun is more likely to harm a friend or family member than a potential criminal, again by a wide margin.

http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2013/01/pro-gun-myths-fact-check



 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
27. Show me the stats on rape crimes.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:13 PM
Dec 2015

Armed vs Unarmed ( as far as the victim)

?

maxsolomon

(38,715 posts)
44. I don't believe these statistics exist
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:21 PM
Dec 2015

Or they would be trumpeted from the mountaintop.

grntuscarora

(1,249 posts)
25. Especially important to females?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:12 PM
Dec 2015

umm, no. The idea that gun ownership makes a woman safer is an NRA myth.

http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/02/having-a-gun-in-the-house-doesnt-make-a-woman-safer/284022/

Response to grntuscarora (Reply #25)

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
41. Where is your evidence that its not a myth?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:20 PM
Dec 2015

What happened to you is atrocious and shouldn't happen to anyone but it also isn't an excuse to lose all rationality.

Response to Humanist_Activist (Reply #41)

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
48. This demand for "fuking delete!!!!!" is completely irrational, and while its true that you might...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:26 PM
Dec 2015

have been able to defend yourself if you were armed, its also just as likely that you wouldn't have been able to whether you had a gun in the house or not.

Frankly speaking, it sounds like you need to talk to someone, and still blame yourself for what happened, I would recommend connecting with a survivors group. Sorry this happened to you.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
55. Maybe you "should speak to someone *.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:30 PM
Dec 2015

Do you agree with this post?
[IMG][/IMG]

The reason I'm posting this is because I've been bombarded with insults for the past 24 houts. Decide for yourself.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
62. The fact is that you are grossly overreacting to posts on this board from people who are trying to..
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:35 PM
Dec 2015

not be confrontational, but simply disagree with your position. There is no need for you to go off the handle like that.

 

philosslayer

(3,076 posts)
121. So you're saying that a rape victim...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:05 PM
Dec 2015

Is grossly overreacting to a poster who said her desire to defend herself was "bloodlust". I alerted on that particular post. I thought it was disgusting.

I take it you don't understand the trauma that can be involved after a rape. By your post, you clearly don't.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
57. Exactly
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:31 PM
Dec 2015

Horrifying life events often prompt solutions that aren't actually solutions; sometimes they put us in more danger.

https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17922-carrying-a-gun-increases-risk-of-getting-shot-and-killed/

Packing heat may backfire. People who carry guns are far likelier to get shot – and killed – than those who are unarmed, a study of shooting victims in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, has found.


http://articles.latimes.com/2014/feb/24/news/la-ol-guns-women-increased-risk-of-being-shot-studies-20140224

So much for the argument that a gun in the house makes you safer. And it’s especially not true for women.

Atlantic Cities has a roundup piece Monday of recent studies of gun ownership and violence. It concludes that women living in homes in which guns are present are at much higher risk of being shot — most often by a spouse or partner — than women in homes without gun access. The most recent study is in the Annals of Internal Medicine, and its overall conclusion is direct: “Access to firearms is associated with risk for completed suicide and being the victim of homicide.”


http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/03/opinion/sunday/dangerous-gun-myths.html?_r=0

The cost-benefit balance of having a gun in the home is especially negative for women, according to a 2011 review by David Hemenway, director of the Harvard Injury Control Research Center. Far from making women safer, a gun in the home is “a particularly strong risk factor” for female homicides and the intimidation of women.

grntuscarora

(1,249 posts)
49. I'm sorry for not reading your earlier post.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:26 PM
Dec 2015

What you went through is horrible, and I am truly sorry.

I do disagree with your point that guns make women safer.

Changing our society and its attitude toward women is going to be a long, complicated process.

Again, my apologies for what you've been through.

choie

(6,905 posts)
101. darkangel218 with all due respect
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:27 PM
Dec 2015

and I'm asking this with all sincerity -- Have you received any counseling? Your responses indicate that you are really struggling to cope with what happened to you.

Response to choie (Reply #101)

DLevine

(1,791 posts)
107. How many times are you going to post this?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:44 PM
Dec 2015

That person edited their post per your request. What more do you want?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
134. I asked them to delete, not edit.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:29 AM
Dec 2015

Anyone can see the post if they click on their "edit".

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
31. Let me be the first rec on this thread.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:16 PM
Dec 2015

It eludes me how a community of open minded people cannot know that possession of a firearm does not change the nature of a person. The idea that irrational and unreasonable actions by some will infect the minds of all gun owners seems to be fairly common here.

maxsolomon

(38,715 posts)
40. that is a false assertion
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:19 PM
Dec 2015

possession of a firearm DOES change the nature of SOME people. impulsive suicides by firearm come to mind.

and yes, they COULD use a substitute method. but by and large they don't.

 

Old Codger

(4,205 posts)
118. Pretty much
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:57 PM
Dec 2015

Integral here.... some seem to think that the act of owning a gun is the same as being as much a criminal as the ones that perpetrate these horrendous acts...

maxsolomon

(38,715 posts)
32. I'm very sorry for your experience and I understand your motivation
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:16 PM
Dec 2015

A firearm will, in theory, give you the chance to defend yourself. That's why most people have them.

There is also the possibility that
a. you won't ever need it
b. if you need it, it won't be at hand
c. if you try to use it, it could be taken away and used against you
d. you will shoot an innocent
e. you will shoot yourself

All of these are possible. In fact, option E is the most likely as 2/3 of firearm deaths every years are suicides.

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
46. D is what I was asking about upthread. You added some good other possibilities, especially...
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:23 PM
Dec 2015

C and E (2/3 of the suicides? Damn, E!).

maxsolomon

(38,715 posts)
54. Yes, 20K out of 30K deaths every year
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:29 PM
Dec 2015

And most of them are impulsive - family had no idea it was coming. Survivors have said they gave it about 1/2 hour of thought.

REP

(21,691 posts)
33. I'm a 5'3" woman who has successfully fought off much larger male attackers
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:16 PM
Dec 2015

I didn't drive until I was 29. Before that, I took the bus and walked everywhere in my hometown, which still has a fairly high crime rate. I have fought off two muggers at once (until I realized the odds weren't in my favor; then I took my wallet out of my purse and let them have the purse); broke the arm and shattered the cheekbone of another would-be purse thief; and escaped an attempted kidnapping/rape. There's nothing special about me; I'm not athletic (if I were, I would have run instead of fought) and I have always had severe problems with the joints in my upper extremities. I don't have martial arts or other self-defense training. It just never occurred to me to not fight back with my bare hands. Women can fight an assault and win.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
37. Good for you.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:18 PM
Dec 2015

You got lucky.
I am taller than you and was raped on knife point.

Thanks for sharing.

Just don't try to take out rights away.

REP

(21,691 posts)
47. "Lucky"?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:25 PM
Dec 2015

What if I said you got "lucky" because you weren't killed? Insulting, right?

No, I didn't get "lucky." I fought back.

Don't go pushing the "women are helpless" lie. Because it's a lie.

I hope you passed a range and written test before you started carrying your derringer around. I'm not trying to take anyone's gun - I just want to make sure they're safe to use it.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
51. Are you trying to say that I "didn't fight back enough" so I won't get raped???
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:27 PM
Dec 2015

You should be ashamed of what youre trying to insinuate.

REP

(21,691 posts)
53. If that's what I meant, I would have said that.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:28 PM
Dec 2015

I'm not one to mince words.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
59. That is what you said.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:32 PM
Dec 2015

REP

(21,691 posts)
64. Sigh. No, it isn't. But nice try.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:35 PM
Dec 2015

Go yell at someone else now.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
65. Yes that is what you said.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:36 PM
Dec 2015

I was not "yelling" at you.

REP

(21,691 posts)
67. Move along now, sweetie. You're done here.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:37 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
69. I am not your "sweetie".
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:38 PM
Dec 2015

Take your condescending posts elsewhere.

REP

(21,691 posts)
70. Whatever you say, babycakes.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:40 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
71. Shove it. n/t
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:41 PM
Dec 2015

REP

(21,691 posts)
74. That's not very ladylike, sugarplum
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:42 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
75. And you're "gentleman like"??
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:43 PM
Dec 2015

You disrespect women like is nothing.

Good riddance.

REP

(21,691 posts)
80. See post #33. So no, I'm not. At all.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:46 PM
Dec 2015

Since I'm a woman and all ...

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
83. Even worse. n/t
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:46 PM
Dec 2015

REP

(21,691 posts)
85. Feel better now, hon?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:48 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
93. Not your "hon".
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:16 PM
Dec 2015

Try again.

yuiyoshida

(45,409 posts)
36. IBTL
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:17 PM
Dec 2015
 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
38. Women packing a small gun, and not otherwise pushing gunz, doesn't really bother me.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:18 PM
Dec 2015

They at least have some degree of rationale for toting.

Gun fanciers do -- those who accumulate lots of gunz, train as if we are in a war zone, indoctrinate their kids into the gun culture, etc.

I get your anger and am very sorry for what happened to you, but anger and gunz don't mix.

leftofcool

(19,460 posts)
45. I get where you are coming from.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:22 PM
Dec 2015

You do have the right to defend yourself and yes, you have the right to shoot anyone who tries to rape you (aim for the head). Let's just call that draining the swamp. Would you also agree that we can ban assault weapons and high capacity mags?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
58. Absolutely.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:32 PM
Dec 2015

We can defend yourself with regular pistols, no need for assault weapons.

Ty.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
52. Terribly sorry about what you went through.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:27 PM
Dec 2015

But you sure as hell cant sell guns as an equalizer for women and reality shows that. This is as NRA as it gets.

What Well Regulated Malitia are you a part of?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
56. You expect a response to that??
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:31 PM
Dec 2015
 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
73. No, I do not, even though I got more than one.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:41 PM
Dec 2015

That's always nice.

 

Photographer

(1,142 posts)
60. Don't bother. This one called me RW and a troll in my own thread for opposing guns.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:33 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
68. Because you replied this when I posted that I did not agree with you
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:37 PM
Dec 2015

And that I was a rape victim

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You didn't even deleted it.

 

Photographer

(1,142 posts)
86. And I edited the line out and this is like the 3rd time you have reposted it.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:52 PM
Dec 2015

You do seem to harbor quite a temper and like to publicise the fact you were assaulted in a terrible way.

Kali

(56,829 posts)
125. she will likely bring it up for years, too
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 10:56 PM
Dec 2015

she sent her phone number unsolicited to someone here once, and regularly accuses them of giving out her personal information.

best is to avoid interacting with her, but sometimes it can be hard to ignore the flaming lookatmeeeee threads.

 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
126. Are you really accusing a rape victim of being an attention-seeker
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:36 PM
Dec 2015

Because she was raped? I've never alerted on a post before, but that's a pretty low-down asshole thing to do. Hope you feel good about yourself. Asshole.

Kali

(56,829 posts)
128. no I am stating some facts about the behavior of an individual
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:55 PM
Dec 2015

check out her posting history for yourself

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
82. It has been tough reading their replies throughout. Nt
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:46 PM
Dec 2015
 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
72. I disagree.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:41 PM
Dec 2015

It is not a Constitutional right to carry and bear arms...at least not under the second Amendment...not unless you joined the state militia.

The 2nd Amendment confers no actual rights on the citizenry since the disbandment of the state militias and their replacement with the National Guard under the control and auspices of the Department of the Army.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
79. I join the rape victims Militia.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:46 PM
Dec 2015

Is that good enough for you???

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
89. No.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:57 PM
Dec 2015

I don't believe that confers the RKBA either. You forming or joining a private militia is basically null; it's not the militia that the Amendment confers the right upon and which was explicitly and formally disbanded by act of Congress and forebeared against any future reestablishment.

There is no means for citizens to RKBA without joining the armed forces or National Guard. You're free to apply...I've heard they're being pickier about who they take.

msongs

(73,752 posts)
81. oh we can just ignore the militia part ok lol nt
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:46 PM
Dec 2015

sanatanadharma

(4,089 posts)
77. There are too many assailants in America..
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:44 PM
Dec 2015

...and we tolerate too many of them at all levels of society from those acting out in mass shootings to those TV talking heads encouraging hate against the 'them'.

Guns are not the answer to violence against women.
The answer is stopping boys from becoming violent men by religiously refusing to tolerate hate in America at all levels.

This means raising up generations in a welcoming world rather than a Republican world.

Gun manufacturers are responsible for world-wide carnage. Daesh kills with guns made by 'respectable ' corporate people.

Bad guys get guns from good guys.

Kali

(56,829 posts)
87. people should be careful when they drink and play with guns
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:55 PM
Dec 2015

lots of idiots have achieved Darwin awards that way.

 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
88. The only gun confiscation I can remember was by G W Bush in New Orleans.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 07:56 PM
Dec 2015

bobalew

(439 posts)
91. and You as a Gun owner are RESPONSIBLE for that Firearm.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:00 PM
Dec 2015

You MUST:
Keep it locked in a safe place, when not in "USE".
Keep it from being Stolen
BE SKILLED in its use
Understand that it is a LIFE ENDING instrument
Have the proper mindset, and Give FAIR WARNING when about to "USE" it
KNOW how to maintain it.
Understand Differing forms of AMMUNITION.
Keep it out of the hands who do NOT KNOW how to use it.
ANd BE SANE.

You pass all of these, you get to have a gun WITH ammunition. You fail, you get no ammunition. That is my stance on the subject & YES I own Guns.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
95. I am for all that.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:18 PM
Dec 2015

Thanks.

 

840high

(17,196 posts)
129. Agree 100%.
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:22 AM
Dec 2015
 

elias49

(4,259 posts)
92. Can this thread please be locked???
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:12 PM
Dec 2015

Heads are exploding for nothing.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
94. All the other anti second amendment threads ate allowed, because of the recent events.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:17 PM
Dec 2015

So NO.

If this thread was locked, Then the other threads should be locked as well.

 

elias49

(4,259 posts)
97. In the meantime you're being driven to an aneurism -
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:22 PM
Dec 2015

let it go. For your own sanity.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
100. I don't think so ( in regard to the "aneurism")
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:25 PM
Dec 2015

Nice try though.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
96. Whoop-de-fucking-doo.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:19 PM
Dec 2015

How many days until the next massacre in this open-air lunatic asylum we laughingly call a country?

Response to hifiguy (Reply #96)

LostOne4Ever

(9,752 posts)
102. FORUM HOST DECISION: thread meets news exception-LEAVE nt
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:29 PM
Dec 2015
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
106. Ty hosts.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:44 PM
Dec 2015
 

840high

(17,196 posts)
110. Good.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:40 PM
Dec 2015

OregonBlue

(8,215 posts)
103. If you belong to a well regulated militia. Which no one does of course.
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:30 PM
Dec 2015
 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
115. Actually
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:50 PM
Dec 2015

The Founding Fathers thought the "well-regulated militia" consisted of all able-bodied adults, so both you and I are part of that militia.

jmg257

(11,996 posts)
131. Cool - When did you last muster?
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 12:31 AM
Dec 2015

Because THAT militia no longer exists.

Historic NY

(40,037 posts)
105. If its so Constitutional try brings a gun to your representatives office.....
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:43 PM
Dec 2015

MANative

(4,188 posts)
108. Which regiment do you belong to?
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 08:58 PM
Dec 2015

"A well regulated militia being necessary to the security of a free State,..."

 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
119. The right to keep and bear arms
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:58 PM
Dec 2015

Shall not be infringed. According to the Founding Fathers, we are all part of the "well regulated militia," meaning each and every one of us (within limits of course - no felons, no mentally ill, etc.) have a protected right to keep and bear arms. That means you and I are part of the "militia" and the Second Amendment prevents the government from infringing on our right to bear arms. You don't have to be part of the military to be part of the militia. Here's a quote from George Mason: “I ask you sir, who are the militia? They consist now of the whole people.” And from Tench Coxe: "Who are the militia? are they not ourselves. Is it feared, then, that we shall turn our arms each man against his own bosom. Congress have no power to disarm the militia. Their swords, and every other terrible implement of the soldier, are the birth-right of an American...The unlimited power of the sword is not in the hands of either the federal or state governments but, where I trust in God it will ever remain, in the hands of the people."

librechik

(30,957 posts)
112. Thank you for revealing yourself
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:42 PM
Dec 2015

Now you are gone

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
113. And the nuts have them voting to allow those on the terror watch list to buy them....
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 09:43 PM
Dec 2015

Fuck that.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
127. K and R (nt)
Thu Dec 3, 2015, 11:37 PM
Dec 2015

doc03

(39,086 posts)
133. The Second Amendment says you have a right to keep and
Fri Dec 4, 2015, 01:11 AM
Dec 2015

bear arms. It says nothing about any right to "carry". It also says they can be regulated.

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