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It came down to the addition of a single word for the a tree lighting ceremony, but that word carried enough significance for borough Councilwoman Charlene Storey to resign.
Minutes after the council voted 4-2 Thursday night to change the name of the ceremony from A Tree Lighting to A Christmas Tree Lighting, the councilwoman-at-large, left the meeting. She later submitted her letter of resignation with the municipal clerk's office.
"I cannot in good conscience continue to be part of a council that is exclusionary or to work with a Mayor who is such," Storey said in her letter.
When reached today, Storey said she regretted having to resign, but said the change "cuts non-Christians out of the loop and favors one religion."
http://www.nj.com/union/index.ssf/2015/12/roselle_park_councilwoman_quits_over_tree_lighting.html
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)I mean, shit. Is anyone offended over the use of "menorah" instead of "candelabra"?
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I suspect it's not done as much any more, but it was quite common for Jewish families in the '50s and '60s to get a small tree, decorate it, and call it a Hannukah Bush.
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)religious connection it would have to be called "Lighted Bush". Extend it further, and we'll have to sing, 'O Lighted Tree, O Lighted Tree! O how we love your branches!"
starroute
(12,977 posts)She would say that if you wanted a Christmas tree you should just have one and not pretend it was something else. She also said that when she was a child, Hanukkah was barely mentioned and that it only got inflated in the 50s as a Christmas equivalent.
But of course "Christmas" trees have nothing to do with Christianity. They're pagan symbols of the world-axis with the Pole Star at the top.
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I seem to recall that when I was in kindergarten and first grade in a Catholic school, some sixty years ago now, the nuns didn't seem to think all that highly of Christmas trees, regarding them as a pagan symbol.
Me, I'm not at all religious these days, and I love all of the secular aspects of Christmas, and I simply ignore the religious meaning as it doesn't speak to me. If someone wishes me a Merry Christmas, I'll say the same back. Same with any other greeting.
Major Nikon
(36,925 posts)
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)valerief
(53,235 posts)it's a religious holiday. Duh. Santa Claus brings presents not sermons.
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)as much as benefitting from a holiday to which you have no connection. The symbol of a lighted tree should mean zip to you, in that case. I'm not Jewish, so a menorah means exactly zip to me. But I'd find it weird if anyone went out of their way not to call it a menorah. Or a dreidel a "holiday top" instead of a dreidel. I'm not a big fan of mixing government and religion to begin with, and it's not really necessary to have a tree lighting ceremony. But if you're going to have one, don't pretend it has nothing to do with Christmas. You can't keep the symbol but erase the meaning--then why do it at all?
valerief
(53,235 posts)their religion. People are expected to buy others gifts regardless of their religion.
It doesn't matter how Christmas started (a pagan holiday). It's a national holiday now with no ties to religion. Live with it.
http://www.religioustolerance.org/xmas_tree.htm
http://www.livescience.com/25779-christmas-traditions-history-paganism.html
Perhaps that's why pagan traditions remained even as Christianity took hold. The Christmas tree is a 17th-century German invention, University of Bristol's Hutton told LiveScience, but it clearly derives from the pagan practice of bringing greenery indoors to decorate in midwinter. The modern Santa Claus is a direct descendent of England's Father Christmas, who was not originally a gift-giver. However, Father Christmas and his other European variations are modern incarnations of old pagan ideas about spirits who traveled the sky in midwinter, Hutton said.
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)It's not me that has to "live with it". It's whoever is in that community who objects to the tree being called a "Christmas tree" who has to live with it.
valerief
(53,235 posts)People like days off from work!
I'd rather it be called Winter Holiday, but the PTB like to exploit religion to control the masses.
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)Any time of year.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)"If you're non-Christian, you're not so much celebrating Christmas... as much as benefitting (sic) from a holiday to which you have no connection."
I think your dramatically discounting the historical processes of acculturation and cultural appropriation.
"You can't keep the symbol but erase the meaning--then why do it at all?"
Hence, your confusion as to why Christians involve themselves in pagan celebrations of the Winter Solstice?
localroger
(3,782 posts)What, pray tell, do you think lighted evergreen trees have to do with the birth of the Jewish prophet Jesus of Nazareth? Christmas is a Winter solstice celebration which was very deliberately hijacked by the Roman Catholic Church for the purpose of making it easier to convert northern Europeans who would not have been amenable to a new order that lacked a big celebration in mid-Winter.
The whole Yule tree thing came from the pagans, as did the jolly elf who delivers presents.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)You can call it anything you like, just like you can call menorahs "spiritual candle holders". Doesn't change the fact that they are Christmas trees and menorahs.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)So many Christian traditions were originally pagan anyway.
Major Nikon
(36,925 posts)Only the names were changed.
1939
(1,683 posts)Chrstmas--At the winter solstice, greenery was used. After the "mother night" of the year, they waited twelve days to assure themselves of the sun coming back north. They would then burn the "sunwheel" hung on the door made of evergreens.
Eostre/Ostara was the Germanic goddess of the vernal (spring) equinox. Her sacred animal was the hare and colored eggs were placed on her altar to insure fertility for the coming year.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)in April, please remember to pass the bunny outfits
Waldorf
(654 posts)Archae
(47,245 posts)Having a Christmas tree is a leftover from old European pagan winter celebrations.
Baitball Blogger
(52,350 posts)since a crooked mayor brought in a priest to provide a benediction on a program that had no legal, city foundation.
Can you imagine that? A community is so indoctrinated in the purity of religion, that they assume that a benediction can be used to sanctify an illegal purpose?
Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Many forget that little fact.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)Many forget that little fact.
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Only Christmas Day and New Year's Day.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)You think only federal holidays should be acknowledged in greetings?
Weird.
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Voters are probably relieved.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I think it's pretty Fox Newish when people object to the all-inclusive "Happy Holidays."
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Dumbest thing on earth to argue over. Could care less who uses it or not. This is at the bottom of my worries.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)world wide wally
(21,836 posts)grossproffit
(5,591 posts)To be all inclusive.
FLPanhandle
(7,107 posts)I have a Christmas tree every year. I guess there is always someone who is easily offended.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)One of the larger universities in the country changed the name of their "Christmas Tree" to "Holiday Tree." The student paper interviewed a ton of non-Christian students students about the move, and they all thought it was funny and unnecessary. The quote I remember the best was, "We look forward to the lighting ceremony every year. Christmas and the lighting of the Christmas tree are two the best American traditions."
The following year, the name was changed back, and the number of complaints was limited to the usual cast.
Facility Inspector
(615 posts)get over yourself councilwoman
tritsofme
(19,900 posts)Sometimes real news is stranger than the Onion!
linuxman
(2,337 posts)What were these assholes thinking? A Christmas tree in December?
What a fucking tool.
demmiblue
(39,720 posts)Religion does not belong in government. Period.
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smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Purveyor
(29,876 posts)bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Someone is always offended by something.
LiberalArkie
(19,807 posts)The only time I ever saw anyone get their panties in a bunch was when a Jewish lady said to another lady Happy Hannukah. And I guess she was "Christian", she just turned away and said "I've never".
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Because everyone knows it's really a Christmas Tree. It's like calling a Menorah a "Holiday Candelabra".
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Here's her statement on this:
I am issuing this statement because I want to be clear about why I am leaving the Borough Council.
I submitted my letter of resignation today on a matter of conscience and principle. The Mayor and a majority of the Council chose last night to adopt a resolution that cuts non-Christians out of the loop on a public event in Roselle Park. This violates the oath we all took to uphold the Constitutions of the U.S. and New Jersey, which forbid government to get involved in religion.
Yes, Christmas is a cultural holiday as well as a religious one. And I like Christmas trees and the happy spirit that usually pervades this season.
But the Mayor proposed, and most of Council voted, to change a key word in the name of the Boroughs annual tree-lighting event from a neutral, inclusive term back to a religious one.
Had the name of this event never been changed to use a non-religious term, had it stayed with Christmas instead of being changed to Holiday, I could have accepted it as a cultural term. But to change it from a neutral term back to a religious one was clearly meant to put religion back into the public event. And to underscore religious division at this time in the nation and world is, to me, as wrong as wrong can be.
This isnt a minor matter of political correctness. It is a fundamental issue of freedom of religion one of the basic freedoms that tens of thousands of Americans, including my uncle, died to defend over the years.
This is also an issue of including people rather than excluding them. To quote U.S. Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day OConnor, government action endorsing religion sends a message to nonadherents that they are outsiders, not full members of the political community, and an accompanying message to adherents that they are insiders, favored members of the political community.
All four members of the Council who voted for this are male, white, Catholic and members of the Knights of Columbus, a religious organization that every year posts a large sign urging, Keep Christ in Christmas. So I find it hard to accept that to them, a Christmas tree is a secular tree.
To be clear, I have no problem with the church putting up that sign. Its a Catholic church. Thats what it does. But were talking about what a municipality does for an event funded and for the community. All the community.
I am a non-Christian and a non-believer. My husband and I are Humanists, as Ive pointed out in campaign literature and in my bio on the Boroughs website. We believe its our duty to do good in this life as a matter of principle, not as a religious obligation.
There are also many other philosophies and religions outside of Christianity, and a growing number of Americans profess none when asked by pollsters what their religion is. Roselle Park is a diverse Borough. In fact, according to City-Data, nones make up 33.8 percent of the Roselle Park population more than a third! And since the number of nones increases as you look at younger groups, that figure is only likely to increase.
And that 33.8 percent doesnt include non-Christians such as Hindus, Buddhists and Muslims.
Changing the name and I emphasize changing clearly disrespects them all and hijacks the tree lighting for one religion.
The Mayors introduction of the Christmas resolution last night came as a surprise to me. He and I had discussed the issue briefly several days before the Council meeting, and I had told him of my opposition. I had only begun to gather information on the issue, such as the fact that every municipality in this area calls it a tree lighting or holiday tree lighting. It was my understanding that the Council would consider the issue next year, not last night. It was not listed on the meetings Agenda, despite the Mayors insistence that the Agenda should be set two days before each meeting.
Im sorry to leave the Council. I have enjoyed serving the Borough, and Ive worked hard at it. But I believe the Councils action on Christmas was unconstitutional and exclusionary, and, as a matter of principle, I dont want to be part of it.
http://www.roselleparknews.org/councilwoman-storey-provides-insight-into-decision-to-resign/
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Relax, Councilwoman. It's just a Christmas Tree, like the White House Christmas Tree and the National Christmas Tree.
JanMichael
(25,725 posts)this is not a one off issue. it is the creeping nastiness of our religious overlords. i get her reasoning. pl7s she is probably just fed the fuck up with them. there is always a backstory.
Mariana
(15,626 posts)for example, by leaving the fact they'd be dealing with this issue out of the meeting agenda, even though they knew she had concerns about it. It looks like they wanted her to be unprepared to present opposition to the change. I can't say I blame her for not wanting to work with dishonest people. This may not be the first time they've treated her this way. Of course, she is absolutely right that changing the name of the event is intended to promote Christianity and to make non-Christians feel unwelcome.
FLPanhandle
(7,107 posts)And I am a strong fighter of separation of church and state.
What a loon.
grossproffit
(5,591 posts)"And that 33.8 percent doesnt include non-Christians such as Hindus, Buddhists and Muslims."
I guess they fall under "non Christians."
whatthehey
(3,660 posts)ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)melman
(7,681 posts)romanic
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Demonaut
(10,083 posts)davidn3600
(6,342 posts)ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)Anyone who would quit a post over such bullshit clearly isn't fit to serve.
Mendocino
(8,492 posts)a hypocrite or a zealot?
Demonaut
(10,083 posts)she's an idiot...good riddance
MisterP
(23,730 posts)leave cookies and milk, and disappear out the front door with an "Oh, oh, oh!"
did she invoke the Bataclan shooting, too?
clarice
(5,504 posts)Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)her dissent noted and the creation of a diversity council which she will head. They sound like the did an admirable job of clean up politics. Everybody got served, which is what happens when everybody speaks up.
Of course this was all a few days ago anyway.
http://www.nj.com/union/index.ssf/2015/12/councilwoman_who_quit_over_christmas_tree_rescinds.html