Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:14 AM
Fast Walker 52 (7,723 posts)
If there's one thing that will drive me away from living in this country, it's the pathological
obsession over guns. I'm so very sick of this debate.
If we can't enact some reasonable gun laws in the next few years, I'm seriously going to look to move. I say this as someone who has resisted the move away sentiment, and have really wanted to work within the system. But this argument frustrates me like no other.
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Fast Walker 52 | Dec 2015 | OP |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #1 | |
lancer78 | Dec 2015 | #31 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #39 | |
G_j | Dec 2015 | #2 | |
merrily | Dec 2015 | #3 | |
meaculpa2011 | Dec 2015 | #4 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #5 | |
meaculpa2011 | Dec 2015 | #7 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #11 | |
meaculpa2011 | Dec 2015 | #12 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #40 | |
EX500rider | Dec 2015 | #47 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #55 | |
EX500rider | Dec 2015 | #56 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #58 | |
treestar | Dec 2015 | #10 | |
Fast Walker 52 | Dec 2015 | #16 | |
meaculpa2011 | Dec 2015 | #18 | |
Squinch | Dec 2015 | #20 | |
meaculpa2011 | Dec 2015 | #37 | |
librechik | Dec 2015 | #46 | |
jeff47 | Dec 2015 | #51 | |
RKP5637 | Dec 2015 | #6 | |
ryan_cats | Dec 2015 | #8 | |
Squinch | Dec 2015 | #22 | |
laundry_queen | Dec 2015 | #54 | |
Squinch | Dec 2015 | #57 | |
Fast Walker 52 | Dec 2015 | #23 | |
CTyankee | Dec 2015 | #9 | |
Nitram | Dec 2015 | #13 | |
Fast Walker 52 | Dec 2015 | #14 | |
Fast Walker 52 | Dec 2015 | #15 | |
olddots | Dec 2015 | #17 | |
Lizzie Poppet | Dec 2015 | #19 | |
Fast Walker 52 | Dec 2015 | #24 | |
Lizzie Poppet | Dec 2015 | #25 | |
Skittles | Dec 2015 | #21 | |
BeyondGeography | Dec 2015 | #26 | |
mnhtnbb | Dec 2015 | #27 | |
951-Riverside | Dec 2015 | #28 | |
former9thward | Dec 2015 | #29 | |
951-Riverside | Dec 2015 | #30 | |
former9thward | Dec 2015 | #32 | |
951-Riverside | Dec 2015 | #34 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #41 | |
former9thward | Dec 2015 | #42 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #43 | |
former9thward | Dec 2015 | #44 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #45 | |
former9thward | Dec 2015 | #48 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #49 | |
former9thward | Dec 2015 | #50 | |
whathehell | Dec 2015 | #53 | |
jeff47 | Dec 2015 | #52 | |
PasadenaTrudy | Dec 2015 | #33 | |
Laffy Kat | Dec 2015 | #35 | |
Arugula Latte | Dec 2015 | #36 | |
a la izquierda | Dec 2015 | #38 |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:21 AM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
1. My spouse and I feel the same way.
We're close to retirement, and we're sick of this shit...When you can't even go to an office party or
a movie theater without looking over your shoulder, it's time to go. |
Response to whathehell (Reply #1)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:41 AM
lancer78 (1,495 posts)
31. I do it
All the time. Fear is the most powerfull weapon of the terrorists
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Response to lancer78 (Reply #31)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 10:13 AM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
39. You do what?
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:24 AM
G_j (40,347 posts)
2. Agreed..
insanity, and it just gets worse
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:27 AM
merrily (45,251 posts)
3. I've been daydreaming about re-locating to a country whose foreign policies haven't resulted in so
many people from other nations being eager to annihilate me and mine.
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:29 AM
meaculpa2011 (918 posts)
4. Where...
will you move?
Every time I consider a move the question of "where" puts those thoughts to rest. |
Response to meaculpa2011 (Reply #4)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:32 AM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
5. Are you challenging the idea or just looking for places to move?
Just wondering.
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Response to whathehell (Reply #5)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:45 AM
meaculpa2011 (918 posts)
7. We have looked into relocating...
and we have traveled extensively throughout the world.
I have family in Italy. Very nice to visit but I would not want to live there, or anywhere in Europe. Too crowded. I'm a lifelong New Yorker, but it's nowhere near as crowded as small towns in Italy. My cousins live a beautiful town of 20,000 people near the Adriatic and they live one on top of the other. I lived in London many years ago. Much more crowded than Manhattan. I love Latin America, but if you're concerned about gun violence it's not for you. I don't want to live in a gated fortress for safety's sake. Costa Rica is a popular destination for American retirees. The homicide rate is off the charts. We're looking to escape the crowds of NYC, but when we weigh the pros and cons the advantages win out. |
Response to meaculpa2011 (Reply #7)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 10:00 AM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
11. Your biggest misgiving seems to be "crowds"...Mine is random violence,
insane gun laws, and wide open access to guns. To each his own.
![]() BTW, when it comes to Costa Rica (a country that, unlike our own, is marked as a very LOW risk for terrorist violence) you may want to view the homicide rate in light of certain facts like these: The murder rate for the capital city of San Jose, Costa Rica in 2005 was 9.2 - the murder rate in the US capital Washington DC at 35.40 is nearly four times higher than San Jose, Costa Rica... |
Response to whathehell (Reply #11)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 10:13 AM
meaculpa2011 (918 posts)
12. Any major decision is based on a variety...
of criteria. I wouldn't relocate to D.C. either.
The homicide rate in NYC this year is 4 per 100,000 and it's 10 in Costa Rica. Twenty five years ago the rate in NYC was 30. The chance of random violence here is still fairly remote, and I'm speaking as someone who had a gun stuck in my ribs on a bright sunny afternoon on the streets of NY. Did I care whether the young gentleman with the revolver was on a terrorist watch list? |
Response to meaculpa2011 (Reply #12)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 10:26 AM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
40. I am a 3 time victim of crime, one violent
and 2 home invasion- near violent. I can assure you that I'm as familiar with it as you.
I am more concerned with domestic mass shootings as I am with terror strikes. My decision to leave, btw, should I make it, would be based as much on a principaled anger as on personal fear. |
Response to whathehell (Reply #11)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 07:28 PM
EX500rider (8,802 posts)
47. I love Costa Rica, lived there 5 years...
....but the homicide is over 2 times worse then the US rate:
US 3.8 per 100,000 CR 8.5 per 100,000 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate |
Response to EX500rider (Reply #47)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 02:16 PM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
55. Is that why you left?
Response to whathehell (Reply #55)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 04:45 PM
EX500rider (8,802 posts)
56. No, the low level crime of theft was much more bothersome...
....and the low level corruption amoung local police hitting you up for bribes.
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Response to EX500rider (Reply #56)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 07:43 PM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
58. So most of the crime was "low level" and non-violent
Works for me.
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Response to meaculpa2011 (Reply #4)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:59 AM
treestar (81,181 posts)
10. American assume it will be easy
but it may not be, as they may well not be eligible. Unless they have a lot of money. There are some countries with retirement visas. If you're not going to work there, but live there and spend your money, they are OK with that!
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Response to meaculpa2011 (Reply #4)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 02:55 PM
Fast Walker 52 (7,723 posts)
16. right now, Australia or England seem attractive
but not sure how realistic it is.
Maybe for retirement, which is a ways away |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Reply #16)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 03:42 PM
meaculpa2011 (918 posts)
18. I lived in London many years ago...
and it was horrendously expensive, even compared with NY. I don't know how it is now, but I don't imagine it's much better.
Life in the countryside was less hectic, but still very expensive. I was in Cairns, Australia for a bit and it was D-U-L-L. I may have to spend a few months there on business ext year and I don't look forward to it. Melbourne is wall-to-wall sprawl. It's a big, beautiful world with plenty of great places to live. |
Response to meaculpa2011 (Reply #18)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:31 PM
Squinch (47,334 posts)
20. Cairns is dull? You have to be kidding!
Response to Squinch (Reply #20)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 04:53 AM
meaculpa2011 (918 posts)
37. I don't dive, I don't bungee jump and I don't raise sheep. n/t
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Reply #16)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 07:11 PM
librechik (30,524 posts)
46. Australia needs skilled workers in a big way--in every category
They need to build more housing and everything need an update. It takes a year to get a plumber, there aren't enough. Technical skills are much desired.
My son lives in Australia and is trying to get a citizenship going--He has had many more opportunities in his field (programming) there than here at home. |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Reply #16)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 12:36 AM
jeff47 (26,549 posts)
51. If it's for retirement, you will need A LOT of money.
They don't just let anyone in. Massively oversimplified, they have to get something out of you moving there.
If you're young, they'll get decades of taxes. If you're rich, they'll get lots of taxes in a short time. If you've got someone unique or otherwise in-demand skills, they'll benefit from you bringing those skills. You'll need to research the immigration programs for each country you're considering. |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:40 AM
RKP5637 (64,913 posts)
6. Yep, same here! In fact, I'm fed up with hearing about guns and religion. For both, for some,
it's an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder IMO. If I had the means, I would be looking for other places to live. The 2016 elections will be very revealing. If this country swings full republican IMO it's going to be a dreadful place to live. Yep, there are far worse places, but this country could be doing far better.
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:50 AM
ryan_cats (2,061 posts)
8. Much
Much as I think Mother Theresa didn't really want to end poverty, I don't think you really want to end gun ownership.
Else how would you maintain a pretense at a virtue you have not earned? If gun ownership ended tomorrow, would you feel fulfilled and self actualized, of course not, you need a cause and any cause will do, would it not? |
Response to ryan_cats (Reply #8)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:33 PM
Squinch (47,334 posts)
22. Stupid post of the day award goes to yours.
Response to Squinch (Reply #22)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 08:59 AM
laundry_queen (8,646 posts)
54. That one may go up for the week or month award at least. nt
Response to laundry_queen (Reply #54)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 04:57 PM
Squinch (47,334 posts)
57. The sad thing is his friends are running around, and they all read the same talking points.
So I hate to commit, even though I can't imagine stupider. But I am always amazed by some of our DU brethren.
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Response to ryan_cats (Reply #8)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 10:27 PM
Fast Walker 52 (7,723 posts)
23. hmmm, I never said anything about ending gun ownership
I simply hate that we can't even enact simple measures like UBC, and so forth.
I hate that people in this country stock up on guns and ammo whenever there is a mass shooting. I hate the fucking paranoia that gun ownership seem to bring in this country. |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:57 AM
CTyankee (61,633 posts)
9. Not much I can do about the guns here now, but one thing I can do is NOT put up with
DUers who presumbably with a straight face defend their guns against sensible restrictions and swearing they are progressive Democrats.
I won't let that go easily, I will tell you...anyone who says that to me will get "I don't believe you" from me. And I mean it. |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 11:12 AM
Nitram (20,351 posts)
13. I've lived all over the world and I chose to come back to the US to live (Charlottesville Virginia).
I can assure you, you will have to put up with things you don't like wherever you go. Right wingers are just as obnoxious in every country I've ever been to. Endemic corruption is worse than gun violence, in my experience, and it will affect you daily if you live in countries where corruption is part of the system. Every Latin American nation has gun issues, regardless of what laws are on the books. Remember, there is an enormous difference between living in a country and just visiting on vacation. I'd suggest moving to a community in the US where the record of gun violence is very low. Where I live, ownership of guns is high, but there is a very, very low incidence of gun violence.
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Response to Nitram (Reply #13)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 02:51 PM
Fast Walker 52 (7,723 posts)
14. thanks... yeah, still annoying as hell though
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 02:51 PM
Fast Walker 52 (7,723 posts)
15. Americans stock up on guns and ammo after latest shooting- yeehaw!
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 03:05 PM
olddots (10,237 posts)
17. America is in it's adolescence
hopedully it will grow up but in the meantime there are countries that have become more grown up because they decided to still value education above materialism .
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 03:51 PM
Lizzie Poppet (10,164 posts)
19. Are you considering this because you feel endangered...
...or because you find it makes the atmosphere of the nation intolerable? If the latter, then I understand (although I don't agree). Living somewhere that just feels wrong does nothing good for a person.
If the former, however, you might want to consider that your actual probability of being shot is really, really low (unless you're making some really bad life decisions). Violent crime has been dropping steadily for decades. Things are still messed up,...but despite media inundation with "fear, fear, FEAR 25/7," they're getting better. |
Response to Lizzie Poppet (Reply #19)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 10:30 PM
Fast Walker 52 (7,723 posts)
24. Thanks... it's more the latter
I live in a safe area and don't feel threatened. But yeah, it's really the political atmosphere.
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Reply #24)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 10:57 PM
Lizzie Poppet (10,164 posts)
25. I understand.
It's crossed my mind more than once...but I'm not sure where to go. =/
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 09:32 PM
Skittles (148,591 posts)
21. I'd never let gun humping cowards run me from my own country
stay and fight the bastards
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Mon Dec 7, 2015, 11:17 PM
BeyondGeography (38,561 posts)
26. They think the right to their pathetic hobby ranks with a woman's right to choose or gay rights
It would be funny if it weren't so fucked up and destructive.
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:21 AM
mnhtnbb (30,505 posts)
27. We made the decision to find an 'escape' after Bushie boy took the election in 2004.
Considered a lot of places, but we were nearing retirement. Canada was out for that reason
and so were most European countries (too expensive and no family connections). We looked seriously at Belize and ended up buying in to a development in Panama (Bocas del Toro area) being built by Americans. Talk about disaster. The thing turned into a financial nightmare--but eventually the investors got together to salvage the place. We were very lucky--after going through all the paperwork and getting our permanent resident visas--to eventually get our money back, but we had to wait several years. The development has been up and running now for several years and is beautiful. Bocas has gotten a lot of attention in the last few years. Last summer--after the Charleston shootings--I told my husband I wanted to go take another look at Bonaire (off the coast of Venezuela). We have friends who've had a place there for almost 20 years. Several years ago the relationship between Bonaire and The Netherlands changed, and it's now possible for Americans to become full time residents. I would move there in a heartbeat but my husband has vetoed the idea. He doesn't want to give up the features of living in a classic university town. We have a friend who moved to Lyon, France two years ago to marry the love of his life. He was from Kansas City area and had gone to Lyon for a summer ed class to gain credits towards his Master's in French (he's a teacher) and met his husband to be. After they got married, he was hired as an elementary school teacher at an International School in Lyon. He's very, very happy. I have another friend from college who has lived her entire adult life abroad. She and her husband are teachers. They lived in Japan for many, many years, then went to Georgia (former Soviet Union) and two years ago relocated to Cairo. They are approaching retirement--but I don't know where they will retire. I'd be surprised if they come back to the US. I really think the country is on the brink of what could become disastrous violence. Racism, hatred of immigrants and Muslims, misogyny, fear and bigotry towards gays...it just feels like the whole thing could blow at any time. It scares the crap out of me to think there are 360 million--give or take a few--guns in this country and millions of them are in the hands of people who have no business owning firearms. The other thing I've considered is that living in Hawaii might not be too bad, either. Still the US but very isolated. |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:29 AM
951-Riverside (7,234 posts)
28. Absolutely
I lived many years of my life in a neighborhood where you would often hear gunshots, it is not fun and it is no way to live.
I'll be honest I don't like living in a country where at any moment anyone could blow me away for no reason. There are so many guns in the country that no one is safe anywhere, that is no way to live! ![]() |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:31 AM
former9thward (28,517 posts)
29. Where are you going to move?
Do you really think other countries just let you permanently move there? You have to have a lot of money or skills they want. Good luck.
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Response to former9thward (Reply #29)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:38 AM
951-Riverside (7,234 posts)
30. I'd say figure it out and move before everybody else has the same idea
Do you really think other countries just let you permanently move there?
Yes, why wouldn't they? Most countries (except for North Korea and the US) don't wall off their country and shun people from immigrating. |
Response to 951-Riverside (Reply #30)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:47 AM
former9thward (28,517 posts)
32. Dream world.
Almost ever country does not want other people unless they have big money or skills. Try to move to our neighbor to the north and see what happens.
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Response to former9thward (Reply #32)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:53 AM
951-Riverside (7,234 posts)
34. American Exceptionalism at its finest. n/t
Response to former9thward (Reply #32)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 10:34 AM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
41. You need skills to live here, unless you want to live
on welfare or minmum wage, so what's the difference?
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Response to whathehell (Reply #41)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 06:13 PM
former9thward (28,517 posts)
42. The difference is that other countries won't let you live there.
The U.S. will.
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Response to former9thward (Reply #42)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 06:56 PM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
43. You mean the U.S. will let you live here on minimum wage or welfare
Well, since I actually work and not for minimum.wage, that doesn't concern me much.
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Response to whathehell (Reply #43)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 07:06 PM
former9thward (28,517 posts)
44. Most people are not on the minimum wage or welfare.
I guess they didn't get your meme.
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Response to former9thward (Reply #44)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 07:09 PM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
45. So.what are you talking about regarding the need for skills to move to other countries ?
Response to whathehell (Reply #45)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 07:56 PM
former9thward (28,517 posts)
48. Why is this so hard to grasp?
Other countries don't let Americans in for permanent stay unless they have a lot of money or have skills the country can use.
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Response to former9thward (Reply #48)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 09:17 PM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
49. LOL..There's nothing to "grasp".
You're making an assertion with nothing to back it up. Haven't you yet "grasped" that this doesn't work well at DU?
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Response to whathehell (Reply #49)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 12:28 AM
former9thward (28,517 posts)
50. What?
You want me to list the immigration requirements of every country in the world? Hey, you think it is so easy to emigrate, go for it. No one is stopping you....
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Response to former9thward (Reply #50)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 08:48 AM
whathehell (27,885 posts)
53. Never mind, loll
I doubt you know the immigration requirements for even one other country let alone all of them.
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Response to 951-Riverside (Reply #30)
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 12:44 AM
jeff47 (26,549 posts)
52. The other country has to get something out of you moving there.
If you're young, they'll get decades of taxes.
If you're rich, they'll get taxes in a much shorter timeframe. If you have special skills (ex, famous scientist) they'll get the benefit of those skills. Most "first world" countries won't take everyone who applies. After all, they have things like universal healthcare, so you retiring to Canada is going to cost Canada a lot of money, with you not paying them much money. You need to research the immigration policies of any country you are considering. |
Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 12:50 AM
PasadenaTrudy (3,998 posts)
33. I'd like to leave the L.A. area
It feels like a pressure cooker here, it's so crowded. My goal is to live in Santa Fe, NM.
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 01:19 AM
Laffy Kat (15,510 posts)
35. Me too.
Plus my sister, her husband; my two boys, we all want to leave.
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 02:34 AM
Arugula Latte (50,566 posts)
36. Yep. If it were easy to emigrate we'd be gone.
But there are family & financial considerations and restrictions...I want to tell my kids to do their best to get the hell out.
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Response to Fast Walker 52 (Original post)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 07:13 AM
a la izquierda (11,673 posts)
38. You'll eventually find me in the jungles
of Mexico.
It's my area of research, I'm learning a Mayan dialect for work, and it will be more fulfilling than my current situation. |