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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSome years ago a DU member who had been homeless posted a list of things
that would be very helpful for homeless people but that most people would not think of donating. I present the list to my college students every semester. I just posted it as a reply in someone else's thread about homelessness, but I think it also needs to be an OP.
If the person who originally posted this list is still on DU, I am sorry I can't credit you because I don't remember who you are. If you are reading this OP, please step up and take credit for it. Your list has done a lot of good.
Posted on a message board I frequent by a formerly homeless woman.
Something that is a necessity is a good size pack. When you are out there, it is your home. It is something that is in short supply. So if you have a school pack that is the kind a high school kid would carry and is no longer using it, please donate it. Even a rolling suitcase is useful. Rolling backpacks are a dream come true! And if you have a messenger bag that you dont use, please donate it. They are great for carrying paperwork in. Believe me, when you are homeless, you have a lot of paperwork you need to try (the big word) and keep with you.
Another thing is dark color blankets. They are used all year long. The dark color works as camouflage at night while one sleeps. So, light or heavy in weight, if they are dark the homeless need it! If you have a dark sleeping bag you dont want anymore, it would be great to. The street is not very soft.
So many could use reading glass. Prescription glass as well. Many places have an eye glass drop off to help people that cannot afford them. Sun glasses, all year around, are need. One must protect from the sun and wind. So if you see some cheap reading glasses at one of those $1 shops, pick a couple up to donate to your local shelter to give out and sunglasses too! You would not believe how much they are needed!
Pens and paper are a great help. I know that sounds odd. But when you are trying to find work or take down information to remember later, you need to have something to write on and with. Folders with pockets are great too. You will not believe how much paperwork is involved when you are in poverty and worse. Sometimes it feels like a full time office job just to get help.
Something some may see as odd is batteries, but they are needed for flashlights and, for the lucky few, radios. The flashlights are a necessity, but the radio can be a life saver in and before foul weather. Information is vital when on the street.
Besides the usual cloths like jeans (jeans are a major thing for women and men), everyday shoes, and t-shirt (sweat shirt and coats in winter), the homeless also need cloths for getting work. Believe it or not there are people out there that are in need of black or khaki slacks, dress shoes, blouses/ white dress shirts, and everything else one need to dress for work are a must have to get a job. The dress codes for department stores, call centers, etc. are what is needed on top of the usual needed cloths. Oh, and underwear! For both sexes (bras are an extreme luxury for a homeless woman and you cant look nice without one). You would not believe how little underwear can be found at the places that help with giving out cloths to the homeless. Socks, belts and Rain gear is a big plus too!
And here is something to think about too. Ladies with one piece swimsuits you no longer were, please donate. The swimsuits can buy some time if a woman is sexually attacked. The culprits want to do there dastardly deed and get out of the area. The one piece as well as what is worn over them is a time consuming situation that those that want to do harm cannot afford to put up with.
Wallets, glasses cases and phone cases: These are something that is very useful. The government phones do not come with holders and that makes it hard to take care of. Those phones are your only way to reach help in an emergency and get contacted for a possible job. The phone holder, glasses case and wallets make it easier to keep your ID, food cards (many food banks that help with homeless food packs use an ID card and you also need to keep your food stamp card safe) and many other needed cards in and safe. And the glasses case to keep ones glasses safe. If you have any that you dont use anymore, please donate them. They will not go unwanted!
Another thing is Maxis and Tampons. Yes, the women need them. But did you know that the guys will carry Maxis as part of a makeshift first aid kit? Things one needs to treat wounds are big, everything from decent bandages, peroxide, alcohol, and anti-bacterial ointment. So is hygiene in general. Stuff like travel size shampoos and soaps, even Foot Powder is in high need. And another big one that is asked for at walk-in centers and shelters is toothpaste and toothbrushes.
Toilet paper is also something that is big as well. With a pack on, many cannot go into certain places, so they have to use port-o-potties or park bathrooms. Those choices may or may not have TP, so one learns you must carry your own.
Something else that is also worth its weight in gold is water bottles. The kind that you can fill in a park bathroom or drinking fountain. Having water is something that is very important; there has been many a death due to not having water to drink out there. I remember seeing many homeless get taken away in an ambulance due to being dehydrated. Eating utensils are a nice thought too! Spoon fork and knife is something that are so nice to have. And a can opener! I had been given cans of food but had no way to open it.
The last thing many dont think of is pet food and leashes. Thats right, pet food and leashes. Many homeless have dogs, some even have cats. They are, for many, what is left of their family. The animals watch them and they watch out for the dog or cat. It is such an attachment that those that do have pets will not go to shelters due to the no pets allowed rule at many. It is that important, the pet is their family, what is left of love. I have seen the attachment so strong that if something happens to that pet, the owner will not be long for this world. The food to properly feed them as well as the leashes to keep legal is in need.
Speaking of keeping pets legal, another big thing that has started to happen is groups that are making sure that the homeless pets get shots and licenses. They ever try to help get then spaded or neutered. If you have a group in your area helping with this, donations to buy the shots are welcome in a big way!
For those that are looking for something to do, I hope that it gives you some ideas. To those that are reading this and remembers that you have some of this stuff and you arent using them, please donate!
tblue37
(68,362 posts)Fantastic Anarchist
(7,309 posts)annabanana
(52,802 posts)tammywammy
(26,582 posts)ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)...because I ask about her in that post.
Thank you for posting the DUers nick who posted the article in the OP.
rpannier
(24,877 posts)I was thinking about her two weeks ago, couldn't remember her name
I haven't heard from her in so long (years)
Have you heard from her at all?
Do you know anything about her now?
tblue37
(68,362 posts)DU and that she will realize how much good she has done with that one post.
If you are here LFR, check in and say hi!
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)...for the homeless and was homeless herself. I hope she is doing well these days.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)KentuckyWoman
(7,385 posts)rec
tblue37
(68,362 posts)Jarqui
(10,873 posts)We moved from the suburbs to an area closer to the area we call "downtown". It's been heart wrenching for all of us to walk past all these unfortunate people in the streets. Some days I come home, I'm near tears. It is so sad and awful - they are so destitute in so many ways. We started putting our change in a dish and we grab a handful when we go for a walk to the store. But you know that you can never do enough - there are simply too many of them.
My daughter came up with the idea about not exchanging gifts this year. She did some research and came up with a battered women's shelter to help. We went to a place she found and filled the trunk of our car with economical but new clothes for these women and their kids. We got a 50% off employee discount on top from someone we knew there. Then my daughter, who is working for minimum wage pays for the whole thing - hundreds of dollars. My jaw dropped. She worked really hard for that money ... and in doing so, she kind of left us out of it. I'm very proud of her and don't want to bicker with her about it being "too much" (even though I kind of feel it's a little over the top for her).
So this list is welcome because there's a bunch of ideas that are great to add to what my daughter got for them.
All the best
renate
(13,776 posts)Wow, that was heartwarming.
I want to give you credit for raising such a wonderful person, and I want to give her credit for taking the lessons you gave her and running with them. She is going to give a lot of people a lot of joy, not just this Christmas but throughout her life.
Jarqui
(10,873 posts)Someone from city council gives her this community service award. My wife and I had no idea. We're looking at each other going "What just happened? What did we miss? How did this happen?" I can't take responsibility for that. I never won anything like that and neither did my wife - or anyone else in our families. For the most part, my daughter was born that way.
Same with her sister who is a very special teacher of kids that have learning disabilities. I don't have a clue about kids with learning disabilities. Neither does my wife. Neither of us were teachers. So again, that's nothing I can take any credit for. She was born with a gift, was lucky enough to find her calling and sensible enough to go with it.
We've seen really nice parents we've known for years, try everything and have terrible jerks for kids for no explicable reason. And we've seen idiot parents who don't do anything for their kids have really wonderful kids. My daughters got a great Mom and I've tried to be a good Dad. I won't say good parenting and a stable home doesn't help. But I just figure a big bunch of the reason is we got really lucky and just supported them while staying out of their way. I truly believe that. We were very fortunate.
Have to run to the store now with that list
tblue37
(68,362 posts)ghostsinthemachine
(3,569 posts)Especially the eno hammocks. Keeps people of the ground (and outta the water in rainy weather) and zip up.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)since so often there isn't even a place for the homeless to sit down.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)tell you one of the things that I used that really helped - a cooler for keeping ice and foods that would have spoiled otherwise.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)tblue37
(68,362 posts)Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)May all be safe, warm, and dry in this season and always. May all wanderers find their way home.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)I spread it around wherever I can.
w0nderer
(1,937 posts)i'd add in that blankets should be fleece or wool (pref wool) anything else doesn't work well in the wet
tarps (lightweight) , rope, tent, old camping supplies
i just this morning dropped off 3 'Military style OD' 50 litre backpacks(waterproofed) with (steel water canteen+cup+home made billycan and wood burner, food, hygienics/shave/kygel (waterless shaving) and wool throws and tarp and a nylon poncho plus a couple of garbage (55gal) contractor bags and gallon size ziplocks (keeps papers and phones dry) surplus knife fork spoon, canopeners 2pcs and 'camp knife', a "crank/solar flashlight/am/fm/usb charger" ) to three homeless people i've greeted over the last few months on my bicycle commute,
total was about $65 or so per pack (shopping carefully when things are on sale over a year and gathering up stuff, dollar stores, mil surplus stores, thrift stores and even pawn stores)
it was what i could afford this year :-/
tblue37
(68,362 posts)themselves--in ugly weather. Thanks for adding this tip.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)w0nderer
(1,937 posts)left army (non US) and couldn't get a job, and was to 'twitchy' to live with parents
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7473136
copying
Homeless is often solved by an income and a 'home' << always surprises people who haven't been there
I'd like to see homeless money go towards 'land' and 'at cost/discounted' materials
for housing, i'm not talking huge..small cabins
i was homeless in a 'northern' area (-20C or less)
when winter hit a friend offered me (way illegally) to live in his 'allotment house)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allotment_%28gardening%29
the houses are like US garden sheds but with windows (9-12x9-12 feet)
not much insulation (i added insulation during the winter, styrofoam, plywood walls inside and painted
one is not allowed to live in them at all theoretically but he had a compost toilet and a stove in his, and i sprung for a kerosene heater and with snow falling...i didn't care much about law and neither did he
(my power was a 50 watt solar panel on the roof that he'd installed)
but it kept me alive that winter
and i was happy to have it, even if 'building code' says it's not 'human habitation' << it beat being on the street
he was happy i modified his house as i lived there (i did ask him in advance before doing stuff) i was happy for walls roof and a heater
(non copy pasted) a couple of years later, he lost his apartment (divorce) and kept only his allotment house
he slept on a couch in my insulated basement/garage that winter
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on a side note, if you are well off
take a 1 - 2 week vacation
put away credit and debit cards, car keys, house keys
now walk out the door
now go back home in 2 weeks
was it easy?
aaaaaaah this is called, walking a few miles in someone elses' shoes
Things I would never have thought of on this list, thanks.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)w0nderer
(1,937 posts)should be zinc base not the normal stuff, zinc base lasts better and stops 'pre skin'
tblue37
(68,362 posts)w0nderer
(1,937 posts)pref tropic weight
oh SQUITO (deet or similar)
or nets
nothing like sleeping out and getting west nile
Rebkeh
(2,450 posts)I read this at the time, I hadn't become a member yet and for the life of me I couldn't remember where I read this. I have kicked myself for not bookmarking or saving it because I've wanted to refer back a few times.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)passiveporcupine
(8,175 posts)Thanks so much for posting this. So thoughtful.
aikoaiko
(34,213 posts)She was inconvenient but she really cared about the fringe of humanity.
I hope you are thriving, wherever you are Bobolink.
Thank you for this OP
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)aikoaiko
(34,213 posts)I hope she is not suffering. Or maybe suffering less.
underpants
(195,683 posts)Very illuminating
Thanks for reposting.
daredtowork
(3,732 posts)STAMPS
copy/printing card.
Over the counter meds that Medi-cal won't pay for: tylenol, throat lozenges, digestive problems. Vitamins in major deficiency areas: iron, D, B, C.
Bus/train pass in areas that refuse to subsidize public transportation. Lack of access to transportation keeps people helpless.
nail clippers.
Shoes need to be good walking shoes. Many homeless people have mobility issues and they are in a lot of pain just trying to get around.
coffee cards (access to warmth and clean bathrooms during the day).
propane for campers with a stove.
Please advocate for transportation, storage, and TIMELY health care for the poor as well as stable housing.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)at the beginning of next term.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)JimDandy
(7,318 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)tblue37
(68,362 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)tblue37
(68,362 posts)LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)I'll be clearing out closets etc and I'm certain some of these items are in there.
Not Sure
(735 posts)Every railroad I've dealt with supplies the train crew with several crew packs, which consist of toilet paper, bandages, moist alcohol towelettes, paper towels, garbage bags, and hand sanitizer. It sure sounds like these could go a long way for our homeless friends. I wonder if there's a way to purchase them for homeless shelters? Like bottled water, they are free to train crews, but if we take them for any use other than while at work we will be fired. There's got to be a way.
Thanks for an enlightening post!
tblue37
(68,362 posts)In our town a group puts together backpacks for low income kids. They include all of the supplies on the school required list for each grade. A group interested in helping the homeless could create sch "crew packs" for the homelss. I think people would--they just need someone to make a suggestion about something they didn't consider.
w0nderer
(1,937 posts)if the crewpacks are prepackaged items they are massproduced so there should be a stamp or label somewhere to contact manufacturer...i'm sure they'd love to run out bigger batches, and the bigger, the cheaper generally
malaise
(294,442 posts)Happy Holidays
wendylaroux
(2,925 posts)that list and what it is for made me So very sad.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)rpannier
(24,877 posts)It's far more useful and important than much of what I see posted throughout the internet
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,198 posts)I was thinking of re-posting that. Glad to see it remembered. Thanks!
For those that may still wonder about me sometimes, I have my job and little apartment. I also still fight for the homeless.
tblue37
(68,362 posts)want to help. I provide it to my college students every term!
It has probably helped a lot of people!
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,198 posts)As for the reason I was thinking about it is that a anti- homeless law that some wants to have start here in Tucson. But to do so will be against the Constitution ant will cost the city many federal dollars.
