man posts groveling apology for forcing girlfriend out into the street naked

[Liberal_in_LA]

The woman, 22, who was allegedly forced to walk the streets of New York City naked by her boyfriend Jason Melo, 24, is breaking her silence

Melo is accused of choking and hitting her in front of their newborn daughter before threatening to throw her down stairs and slash her face

Melo then allegedly forced her to walk around the streets of New York City naked while yelling abuse, calling her a 'b***h' and a 'w***e'

He was arrested Wednesday evening and is awaiting arraignment on charges of choking, child abuse, coercion and assault

Melo posted a series of Instagram videos in which he appears to confess to the crime before begging for forgiveness

Just hours earlier however he had posted another video mocking the cruel punishment




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The woman, who is initially wearing a towel, is then stripped and made to walk around in the street while trying desperately to cover herself with the dust jacket from a motorcycle (right)

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3410748/Man-24-choked-beat-girlfriend-forcing-walk-naked-streets-New-York-arrested-begging-forgiveness-social-media.html#ixzz3xveGUK1N

In a post alongside apology videos (pictured) he released, Melo writes: 'I hope my family is OK, I have a world ahead of me with goals to achieve, I won't do anything else to affect my life, I apologize to ALL the mothers'

[saturnsring]

1. take a good look ladies and pass his face around with a warning to stay away

may he never know the love of a woman again

[840high]

2. .^that

[yurbud]

27. if women didn't let guys like this pass on their genes, the breed would die out

[saturnsring]

30. that's why pass his face around

[yurbud]

41. it should become a common practice

[Xipe Totec]

3. I really don't get it. How does any woman end up married to a dipshit like that?

[sibelian]

8. They're not terribly obvious.

Most of them are lovely to start with.

[Skittles]

14. actually they ARE obvious

to anyone with a healthy dose of self-esteem

[sibelian]

15. You're probably right actually...

But that's an observation I can make only after years of experience, a lot of these guys come across all cuddly and confident and underneath there's this seething self-absorption... I can spot them now, I didn't used to be able to.

[Skittles]

16. they steer WAY clear of someone like me

[sibelian]

17. LOL I can't imagine anyone like that getting the better of YOU, darling

Maybe if I'd had a big sister I'd have turned out luckier...

[tblue37]

18. Cuz they KNOW you'd kick their ass. nt

[Skittles]

21. damn straight

I am not blaming the victims - it's complicated, but I had five brothers, served in the military, etc - if a guy ever hit me I would find the nearest baseball bat and beat the living shit out of him - this they know

[KentuckyWoman]

31. I can't disagree more strongly.

Yes some women get sucked in because childhood abuse damaged their self esteem and they can't see clearly, or do see and think it's the best they can get. But these jerks are nearly always all rainbows and unicorns until the first child comes. Anyone can get sucked in by the master manipulators.

[jeff47]

12. They can be quite good at hiding their dipshit-ness

until after they feel their victim is too entangled to walk away.

[JudyM]

26. ^^This.^^ Nt

[Xipe Totec]

32. Sad

There are a lot of good men out there.

Mostly ignored because they don't give out the "bad boy" vibe.

[Piasladic]

37. girls want "bad boys"

I don't think the problem is that women are passing up the good men or the "nice guys" in favor of "bad boys," but rather sometimes nice women get fooled by bad boys pretending to be nice.

Lo

[sibelian]

39. Yeah, I think that's one of the things.

"Nice guys" can often tell that the obnoxious guys are wankers, too...

[Eleanors38]

45. Can this phenomenon be discussed in DU?

[sibelian]

49. I don't know, there's this mess around the term "nice guy" now...

... with a kind of amalgam of genuinely nice guys and probably not very nice guys who THINK they are both being depressed about not really getting anywhere with relationships and a somewhat simplistic (although entirely understandable) response from a subsection of feminism behaving as if they are all of the PUA scene, which is actually a separate phenomenon altogether.

I really think if people were a little more specific in their terminology, particularly around gender, sooooo many of these discussions would proceed sooooo much more amicably...

[Eleanors38]

53. Righteous punishment: "The sweetest of moral pleasures" attr. Aldous Huxley.

[nadine_mn]

54. Some of us believed we don't deserve

"Nice" guys. My mom has been married and divorced 5 times...my role model of what to expect from a man was pretty crappy and ingrained since birth. Fortunately, I married the best guy.

[malaise]

34. On the other hand, lots of us females ignore the signs and

have this belief that we can change them.
Throw away the keys!

[Eleanors38]

44. Fortunately, in FL authorities don't need a woman's go-ahead to prosecute...

in domestic violence cases. The state can prosecute without it, and does. Hoping NY has such a law.

[uppityperson]

46. It starts well, with them focused on each other, they slowly goes to shit

Been there, done that, trying to explain to others how it's a gradual process. Rather like that frog sitting in the nice warm hot tub only to one day realize it's a lot on the stove with the chef standing by holding tongs and a knife.

I hope she gets the help she needs, with this being publicized.

[lpbk2713]

4. He's sorry he got caught.

That's how it usually works out.

[EllieBC]

6. ^That

Threatening to kill the mother of your newborn? Beating her and making her walk naked in the cold?

He's not sorry. He's just sorry he's going to the big house.

[smirkymonkey]

11. Exactly! These bastards are never sorry for what they do to anyone else.

They are only sorry they got caught and for how their reputations are going to suffer.

[Blue_Tires]

7. I'm guessing he wanted to get caught

Which is why he recorded it and uploaded it to social media...

[cwydro]

52. I doubt that completely.

He's a stupid criminal and thought he was being tough with his boys on that video.

I hope he gets prosecuted.

[Sherman A1]

5. Sad,

simply Sad....

I don't understand how anyone could treat another person in such a manner.....

[Blue_Tires]

10. I've seen worse things happen when the other person

is suspected of being unfaithful...

Of course that in no way excuses such an unthinkable and shocking episode of abuse and humiliation...Nobody should have to go through that, and somebody needs to remind that dude that he doesn't fucking *own* the woman in his life...

[onehandle]

9. Probably a gun culturist like these guys...

Anti-woman. Pro-codpiece.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027547949

[FLPanhandle]

13. Let me guess, she goes back to him.

That is something I will never understand.

[tblue37]

19. Sure, he's "sorry." He included THIS typical abuser comment with his "apology":

I came from a woman, I have a daughter, and I have two sisters. But look what you pushed me to do (emphasis added). I am sorry for everything.

[Orrex]

28. See? Obviously he's the real victim here.

That poor, poor fuckwit.

[bullwinkle428]

35. Bingo! Abusers ALWAYS have to drop that one into any "apology".

Trust me...I've heard that one more than once.

[sibelian]

38. Total dickhead.

What an asshole.

[Rex]

20. It's all about him. Don't need to read a single thing.

Run away fast and never look back.

[LittleBlue]

22. Crocodile tears

GTFOH. Dude is unfit to be a parent, she should get full custody.

[mythology]

23. I hope they both learn from this.

Her to get away and get help for her and her daughter.

I hope he learns this is abominable and gets the help he needs along with a swift dose of criminal justice.

[tblue37]

40. If she allows her daughter to grow up with this jerk or some other abusive man in the

father role, that little girl will also learn that this is the way women should expect to be treated by the men they are in a relationship with, and thus dooes the cycle perpetuate itself.

[LiberalElite]

24. Here's the NY Daily News link -

http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/manhattan/exclusive-man-forces-girlfriend-walk-streets-naked-article-1.2504623

snip
A self-pitying misogynist maniac was arrested for choking his girlfriend, parading her around the streets of Harlem naked and then posting video of the public humiliation online, police sources said Thursday.

Jason Melo, 24, beat and choked his 22-year-old girlfriend in their W. 142nd St. apartment in front of her 3-month-old daughter before forcing the woman into the cold for the medieval-style degradation, cop sources said.

Sources said Melo punched the victim in the face and crotch and threatened to kill her if she didn’t disrobe, put on a towel and leave the apartment.
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oh yeah he's sorry. So sorry he says "Look what you pushed me to do."

[Ilsa]

25. I hope she takes the child and gets

as far away from him as possible. I hope he goes to jail. Maybe be forced to disrobe in front of others for a humiliating body check.

[Eleanors38]

43. I think is hepcat apologia is aimed at her. Such poor sick puppy eyes.

[Oneironaut]

29. "But look what you pushed me to do"

Oh fuck off. Go run in traffic you loser.

[Javaman]

33. sociopath

fuck him.

let him parade naked in jail, see how he likes it.

fucker.

[steve2470]

36. this guy deserves everything coming to him, and I hope he changes radically

I wish the woman all the best!!

[Eleanors38]

42. Punishment phase: NYC. Lot of snow. Needs clearing.

[BlueJazz]

47. I'm glad I don't run into shit like this. Next thing I know I'd wind up in jail for screwing up..

..this mother-fucker's face.

[ladyVet]

48. I bet she goes back to him. nt

[Mister Ed]

50. I hope his subsequent posts are all made from jail. n/t

[Warpy]

51. Let's hope she's now his ex girlfriend

Some men should be restricted to dating Real Dolls. He's a prime example.