"But I don't make the rules…"

[MrScorpio]

[southernyankeebelle]

1. Is that the response of the boys parents? If I were the parent of the daughter I would tell

her don't let any guy talk you into bed. If he really respects you he won't push you into something you do not want to do. If he keeps pushing introduce him to your father and brother(s). They will make sure they don't force you. Plus if your have a good brother he could tell you if the guy is a jerk in the first place. For me I don't want a guy who whore around either. They are no better than a woman who jumps from bed to bed. But that is just me.

[MrScorpio]

2. That's pretty much why I know that it's hell to be a woman in this world.

Coercion from everywhere

[southernyankeebelle]

3. You are right. I was dang lucky to have a wonderful father who instilled pride in yourself.

always told his daughters that don't let any man talk you into bed. If you don't put yourself alone with a man nothing will happen. So I always managed to make sure I always had alot of friends around when we all went out. Of course I don't drink and I am not really a party girl. I am happy I listened to my dad. Of course he was a very strick dad who retired from the military and he always said he knows how guys are. Now I have a granddaughter and pray she doesn't get the cart before the horse. What are you going to do.

[wandy]

4. Yup. Pretty much what you said.......

Just knowing that some things are inevitable I added a few words about Birds, Bees, STDs and contraception.

[southernyankeebelle]

7. Facts, are facts. They fall where they fall. You don't that is your right. But lets say

a young woman gets raped and she ends up calling the police. It becomes a he said she said. It goes to court and in the courtroom it comes out she was drink and so was he and he said she was willing. Honestly what do you think the jury might do?

[wandy]

8. And that was sort of the point to that little talk. NO, is a valid answer.....

And if you nead to put force behind that NO, then that's OK to.
Still, humans are humans and sooner or later the answer would be yes.
Just know what you're getting into.

[southernyankeebelle]

9. Wandy, I can't disagree with you there.

[ProfessionalLeftist]

5. "if you have a good brother he could tell you if the guy is a jerk in the first place"

That's the truth!

[Life Long Dem]

6. If you don't have sex with me your not attracted to me.

Sort of doubt that one, but that's just me.