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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) cynatnite Jun 2012 OP
I had no idea until AFTER I quit.... Permanut Jun 2012 #1
Guess you are one DUer I will never want to meet. jillan Jun 2012 #2
There's nothing worse than a reformed smoker. catbyte Jun 2012 #3
They certainly illustrate the dangers of LanternWaste Jun 2012 #7
Reformed Smoker ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2012 #14
<3 you REP Jun 2012 #104
Is that a sign of approval? 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2012 #110
I agree, my wife quit years before I knew her and she is crazy anti smoking. sarcasmo Jun 2012 #115
Why's that? cynatnite Jun 2012 #5
Yeah, I mean gosh, why don't they just stop? Lex Jun 2012 #4
And the Indians, must be all that curry. Egalitarian Thug Jun 2012 #47
Well, actually, it IS the curry! (I like curry.) WinkyDink Jun 2012 #56
Well actually, it's the Stinking Rose! garlic eaters. ps I love garlic crunch60 Jun 2012 #66
Ugh. noamnety Jun 2012 #6
I had the same problem. Prometheus Bound Jun 2012 #113
OFFS..a week or two, eh?...LOLOLOL pipoman Jun 2012 #118
Nobody hates the smokers as much as an ex-smoker. nt DCKit Jun 2012 #8
I do not hate smokers... cynatnite Jun 2012 #12
Some do some don't As with all personal hygiene, Lionessa Jun 2012 #9
When I was little and went to church, one lady doused herself in crunch60 Jun 2012 #69
All the bars smell like stale beer, puke and urine now jberryhill Jun 2012 #10
Bingo...and the bathrooms make me puke in my mouth. RagAss Jun 2012 #96
It's amazing what the cigarette smoke was covering up jberryhill Jun 2012 #102
I've interviewed people who have wreaked of smoker odor. onehandle Jun 2012 #11
Wow, thats progressive of you. DiverDave Jun 2012 #116
I lived with smokers and it really does stink amuse bouche Jun 2012 #13
You are right, I think--Shaming just doesn't work.... MADem Jun 2012 #20
I quit after 39 years Mojorabbit Jun 2012 #36
If this OP was about what offends someone about obesity cthulu2016 Jun 2012 #15
Because obesity does not fall within the same vein as smoking... cynatnite Jun 2012 #23
"mitigating factors" LOL cthulu2016 Jun 2012 #33
It's still apples and oranges... cynatnite Jun 2012 #42
There are many mitigating factors for obesity, here are a few; crunch60 Jun 2012 #70
As bad as it is, try sitting near someone who is marinated hifiguy Jun 2012 #16
I'm not sure which is worse on the bus Scootaloo Jun 2012 #43
Some people reek of smoke AND cheap cologne. raccoon Jun 2012 #65
And you people who fart in elevators ... do you know how bad YOU smell???? Bake Jun 2012 #17
Never mind elevators--some of these modern "sealed" buildings can really MADem Jun 2012 #26
I'll take a smoker over a crop-dusting farting effort any day. UnrepentantLiberal Jun 2012 #60
pffft! you should try being in the lab magical thyme Jun 2012 #111
some smokers smell like stale smoke, some don't fishwax Jun 2012 #18
Agree... cynatnite Jun 2012 #27
What did you say? rug Jun 2012 #19
... opiate69 Jun 2012 #21
I don't think smokers smell bad, but they definitely have a distinct odor alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #22
Seriously? WI hangs in the balance, and you're worried about how smokers SMELL? Bake Jun 2012 #24
Many people are capable of walking and chewing gum at the same time... cynatnite Jun 2012 #31
I thought you might say that ... the ol' "chewing gum and walking" canard Bake Jun 2012 #37
Do you think waiting until tomorrow to give my anti-smoking message is better? cynatnite Jun 2012 #44
Why piss off ANYBODY? Bake Jun 2012 #48
Do you know where we're at? cynatnite Jun 2012 #51
I like the smell of cigarette smoke, hate the smell of alcohol. To each their own. sabrina 1 Jun 2012 #98
This message was self-deleted by its author sabrina 1 Jun 2012 #99
Would you willingly inhale carcinogens knowing that they could kill you? cynatnite Jun 2012 #108
Because they'll stay home, or vote Walker, because someone on DU said they smell bad? Scootaloo Jun 2012 #45
No, becuase WHY PISS OFF ANYBODY WHO IS ON OUR SIDE? Bake Jun 2012 #49
Welcome to humanity, chuck Scootaloo Jun 2012 #54
I suspect I've been a human longer than you, so welcome yourself Bake Jun 2012 #57
I did spend some time as a potted fern in a previous life... Scootaloo Jun 2012 #59
well except for the progressives.. frylock Jun 2012 #63
probably no worse than your upper lip? datasuspect Jun 2012 #25
It's true. MoonRiver Jun 2012 #28
No one sings louder in church than a reformed sinner. hobbit709 Jun 2012 #29
I used to get on the bus some years ago SwissTony Jun 2012 #30
Thanks, we all needed you to tell us that! Such a cheery post. crunch60 Jun 2012 #32
I try whenever possible... cynatnite Jun 2012 #34
I am a smoker and I know how badly my house and I smell of smoke. RebelOne Jun 2012 #35
The perfume mixed with the cigarette smoke is just the worst smell ever. YellowRubberDuckie Jun 2012 #75
Smokers smell. Water is wet. Sky is blue. bluerum Jun 2012 #38
Depends on how often you smoke cigars hifiguy Jun 2012 #107
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jun 2012 #39
My lead assistant, bless her otherwise fabulous heart, is a smoker. kestrel91316 Jun 2012 #40
LOL! Do the cologne-soakers know how horrible they smell? lynne Jun 2012 #41
My husband is a garlic secreter - even just a small dose of garlic at lunch in salad dressing nadine_mn Jun 2012 #71
I really don't think playing on people's self-consciousness is a good way to elicit behavior change. antigone382 Jun 2012 #46
I really had no idea until after I quit almost two years ago... truebrit71 Jun 2012 #50
Because if we punched you we'd have to get even closer to you. Arugula Latte Jun 2012 #84
And? nt daaron Jun 2012 #52
Boy is that ever true NV Whino Jun 2012 #53
One question: bighart Jun 2012 #55
So you're on record supporting smoking for tax purposes... cynatnite Jun 2012 #58
Just pointing out that smokers are an easy target but bighart Jun 2012 #62
Yep, just like there are unintended consequences when there are no wars... cynatnite Jun 2012 #67
That's okay. It will be offset by their decreased healthcare costs. Arugula Latte Jun 2012 #86
So would you support imposing a tax on everyone with a BMI over 30? bighart Jun 2012 #94
Yes, we do know that. But hey, thanks. MineralMan Jun 2012 #61
Cigar and pipe smoke are among life's most delightful smells aint_no_life_nowhere Jun 2012 #64
Cigars stink and are gross. No idea how you feel different. Logical Jun 2012 #74
agreed... good cigars smell nice... opiate69 Jun 2012 #80
Now you're talking! KansDem Jun 2012 #101
Nice! opiate69 Jun 2012 #103
Some smokers don't, but yes, the majority of them do. nt raccoon Jun 2012 #68
When you go to a smokers house,after you leave,your clothes stink,too. Swede Jun 2012 #72
If I smelled offensive, and wasn't aware of it, I'd hope my friends would tell me. RedCappedBandit Jun 2012 #73
I know why I was never told... cynatnite Jun 2012 #78
It amazes me how many rude smokers throw butts out the window but NONE of them ever admit doing it. Logical Jun 2012 #76
Has anyone smelled felix_numinous Jun 2012 #77
They actually leave a foul-smelling trail behind themselves Nye Bevan Jun 2012 #79
I had a workman come into my house once Arugula Latte Jun 2012 #81
Thanks, Brooke (old commercial) HopeHoops Jun 2012 #82
I quit 4 years ago. 99Forever Jun 2012 #83
As a cyclist, I think your exhaust pipe is a whole lot worse. Gregorian Jun 2012 #85
And? DearAbby Jun 2012 #87
Of course not taught_me_patience Jun 2012 #88
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Jun 2012 #89
Ex smoker, and totally agree Blaukraut Jun 2012 #90
You know, I hardly ever wear perfume anymore... cynatnite Jun 2012 #93
Having quit 25 years ago, I wouldn't nag anyone Cairycat Jun 2012 #91
2 stories on this .... JoePhilly Jun 2012 #92
"It's the smell, if there is such a thing. I feel saturated by it. Trillo Jun 2012 #95
Posts like this are the dark side of DU. RagAss Jun 2012 #97
If the studies are right, there is permanent damage to my heart and arteries.... cynatnite Jun 2012 #105
Finger waggers stink more! n/t sabrina 1 Jun 2012 #100
Amazing that anyone who ever smoked doesn't or didn't know they smelled of smoke. I mean really, Laura PourMeADrink Jun 2012 #106
Yes. sibelian Jun 2012 #109
The smoke covers wendylaroux Jun 2012 #112
This message was self-deleted by its author cynatnite Jun 2012 #114
Wow a self-rightous ex smoker, never see those DiverDave Jun 2012 #117
What is the point of such a negative, hateful post? Are you that unhappy that you need Honeycombe8 Jun 2012 #119

Permanut

(8,391 posts)
1. I had no idea until AFTER I quit....
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:04 PM
Jun 2012

that was almost six years ago. Glad to get away from that addiction!

jillan

(39,451 posts)
2. Guess you are one DUer I will never want to meet.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:05 PM
Jun 2012

catbyte

(39,152 posts)
3. There's nothing worse than a reformed smoker.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:06 PM
Jun 2012

Diane
Anishinaabe in MI & mom to Leo, Taz & Nigel, members of Dogs Against Romney, Cat Division
"Dogs Aren’t Luggage Even Though They Are Lower Life Forms--HISS!”

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
7. They certainly illustrate the dangers of
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:09 PM
Jun 2012

"There's nothing worse than a reformed smoker..."

They certainly do illustrate the both the ease and the dangers of rationalizing bad habits and holding mirrors up to ourselves-- nothing worse than that, indeed.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
14. Reformed Smoker ...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:15 PM
Jun 2012

Recently Converted Evangelical Fundamentalist christian ... Neither are my choice of company.

REP

(21,691 posts)
104. <3 you
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:42 PM
Jun 2012
 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
110. Is that a sign of approval?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 07:06 PM
Jun 2012

sarcasmo

(23,968 posts)
115. I agree, my wife quit years before I knew her and she is crazy anti smoking.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 08:22 PM
Jun 2012

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
5. Why's that?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:07 PM
Jun 2012

I bathed today.

Lex

(34,108 posts)
4. Yeah, I mean gosh, why don't they just stop?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:07 PM
Jun 2012

And fat people, you are not attractive.

Anyone else?

/sarcasm

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
47. And the Indians, must be all that curry.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:54 PM
Jun 2012

And you French folk, You invented soap FFS.

And those awful homeless people...

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
56. Well, actually, it IS the curry! (I like curry.)
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:06 PM
Jun 2012
 

crunch60

(1,412 posts)
66. Well actually, it's the Stinking Rose! garlic eaters. ps I love garlic
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:22 PM
Jun 2012
 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
6. Ugh.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:08 PM
Jun 2012

That just brought back the vivid memories of one child we had over to the house to play with my daughter, and we didn't have her back because the furniture reeked so badly it was making me sick for a week or two afterwards, from the third hand smoke she introduced into the upholstery. God that was awful. Sweet kid, but I couldn't sit on the couch after she was there without my stomach turning.

I didn't tell the parents though. I don't know that they would have stopped even if they knew it was costing their kid some friends. I think they just would have been insulted.

Prometheus Bound

(3,489 posts)
113. I had the same problem.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 08:13 PM
Jun 2012

I didn't dare say anything because it would be so hurtful but I would find any excuse to have the child and parent visit again. A second time was unavoidable, so we put covers on all the chairs and washed them afterwards. I'm sure I must sound like a jerk to some, but it the smell makes you sick what can you do?

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
118. OFFS..a week or two, eh?...LOLOLOL
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 08:38 PM
Jun 2012
 

DCKit

(18,541 posts)
8. Nobody hates the smokers as much as an ex-smoker. nt
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:10 PM
Jun 2012

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
12. I do not hate smokers...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:14 PM
Jun 2012

Unfortunately, I have members of my family that smokes. They have left their kids at the house and the children even smell like smoke.

I would think more people would be bothered by it. I was shocked and embarrassed to think that my children at one time smelled like cigarette smoke. I really wish someone had told me.

Society is too polite at times.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
9. Some do some don't As with all personal hygiene,
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:11 PM
Jun 2012

That said, I'll take the smell of a smoker over the smell of perfume and/or cologne any day.

 

crunch60

(1,412 posts)
69. When I was little and went to church, one lady doused herself in
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:28 PM
Jun 2012

Tabu perfume OMG, nothing worse, you could smell her a mile a way. Once almost had an asthma attack and my Dad had to take me home.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
10. All the bars smell like stale beer, puke and urine now
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:11 PM
Jun 2012

And even I can smell that.

RagAss

(13,832 posts)
96. Bingo...and the bathrooms make me puke in my mouth.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:24 PM
Jun 2012
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
102. It's amazing what the cigarette smoke was covering up
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:39 PM
Jun 2012

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
11. I've interviewed people who have wreaked of smoker odor.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:12 PM
Jun 2012

This was for white collar office positions.

You show up stinking of anything, you probably will not get hired by me.

DiverDave

(5,245 posts)
116. Wow, thats progressive of you.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 08:30 PM
Jun 2012

I hope you don't need a job badly and lose out because the person doesn't like something about you.
Have you not hired someone because of that lame reason?

amuse bouche

(3,672 posts)
13. I lived with smokers and it really does stink
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:15 PM
Jun 2012

but they think a breath mint and cologne eradicate the smell

At least they try and fool themselves into believing that. Smokers know very well the damage smoking does to the inside of their bodies but live in denial. Same thing with the smell. Telling them doesn't do any good. They have to make up their own minds, bite the bullet and quit

Shaming just doesn't work

MADem

(135,425 posts)
20. You are right, I think--Shaming just doesn't work....
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:19 PM
Jun 2012

Nor does bullying, mocking, pestering...often as not it makes them defensive, I believe.

It's the same as any other addictive behavior. If the person is not motivated from within to change the conduct, they just won't.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
36. I quit after 39 years
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:35 PM
Jun 2012

but I still love the smell of smoke.

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
15. If this OP was about what offends someone about obesity
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:15 PM
Jun 2012

I somehow doubt it would remain un-hidden

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
23. Because obesity does not fall within the same vein as smoking...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:20 PM
Jun 2012

Smoking is an unhealthy choice. It was not forced upon them due to mitigating factors such as genetics, medications, etc.

For many who are obese, there are mitigating factors such as genetics or medications that could contribute to being overweight. That is a far more complex issue than smoking.

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
33. "mitigating factors" LOL
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:31 PM
Jun 2012

All addictive smokers have neurological predispositions to nicotine addiction. There is a vast difference in ease of quitting based on the number and character of different receptors in the brain, which vary widely among people. (For many people, nicotine doesn't work well at all. Just makes them feel bad.)

So what? Does that fact make them smell better? Does that fact make smoking less hazardous?

You just get off on being offensive and have found what you think is a socially acceptable way of being offensive because it is for the smelly people's own good for you to tell then they stink.

I do not drink alcohol and I can smell it someone's breath at a dozen paces. I makes me sick.

But somehow I never got around to writing an OP about it.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
42. It's still apples and oranges...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:45 PM
Jun 2012

Besides, they don't fully understand those gene variations which govern nicotine receptors in cells. What they have learned so far is that the predisposition is there which is tied to lung cancer. They can't explain away 90 year old smokers who never get lung cancer, people who light up an occasional cigarette and never get hooked, and other examples.

You have made a valid point. Some people can quit easier than others and this may be related. It'll be some years probably.

Smoking is very addictive no matter your predisposition, IMO. The tobacco companies have designed it this way. It's a monster to beat. Even after 5 years, I still feel like I'm battling it as I did on day one. I'm not going to pretend that this is an easy habit to drop as easily as it was picked up.

I figure this is one of those things that needs to be said because no one else is saying it. A lot of people just don't care for the truth of it.

I'm fine with that.

 

crunch60

(1,412 posts)
70. There are many mitigating factors for obesity, here are a few;
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:32 PM
Jun 2012

Big Mac, pizza, KFC. Soda, sitting on butt to long, and of course the genetic factor as well.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
16. As bad as it is, try sitting near someone who is marinated
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:16 PM
Jun 2012

in cheap cologne of some sort when on the bus or an airplane. You can't smoke on a bus or a plane, but you can drown yourself in scent and still ride. Barf. Double Barf. I can deal with a smoker who isn't smoking, but not that.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
43. I'm not sure which is worse on the bus
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:48 PM
Jun 2012

The guy who smells like damp marlboro butts, or the guy who gargles with axe.

I'll take standard-issue BO reek any day over either of them.

raccoon

(32,390 posts)
65. Some people reek of smoke AND cheap cologne.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:22 PM
Jun 2012

The two are not mutually exclusive.



Bake

(21,977 posts)
17. And you people who fart in elevators ... do you know how bad YOU smell????
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:17 PM
Jun 2012


Bake

MADem

(135,425 posts)
26. Never mind elevators--some of these modern "sealed" buildings can really
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:21 PM
Jun 2012

hold a "SBD"* or a crop-dusting farting effort in a larger workcenter for some time! Who's got the air freshener?

*silent but deadly

 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
60. I'll take a smoker over a crop-dusting farting effort any day.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:09 PM
Jun 2012
 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
111. pffft! you should try being in the lab
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 07:14 PM
Jun 2012

when we have to work up somebody's toxic pooh!

Under hood with ventilation running full steam. No matter. Stinks from one end of the lab to the other. We keep freshener spray handy, which mitigates somewhat.

People, please eat right and take care of your colon. Puleeeeeze!

fishwax

(29,346 posts)
18. some smokers smell like stale smoke, some don't
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:18 PM
Jun 2012

A lot depends on how one smokes. Smoking indoors (or in the car or other enclosed spaces) intensifies the smell and its effect on clothes, etc. But many smokers don't do that.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
27. Agree...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:23 PM
Jun 2012

It does depend on when, where, and how often.

I have an aunt who only smokes outside her house. She does not smoke in her car or even if she is out and about. She smokes on her back porch and that's it. She still has a bit of a smell, but it's nowhere as bad as some others.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
19. What did you say?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:19 PM
Jun 2012
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
21. ...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:19 PM
Jun 2012
 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
22. I don't think smokers smell bad, but they definitely have a distinct odor
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:20 PM
Jun 2012

I also didn't know about it until I quit. I can point to every smoker in the supermarket now. I smell them coming as they walk down the aisle. It's really weird, like I have those "They Live" Roddy Piper sunglasses.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
24. Seriously? WI hangs in the balance, and you're worried about how smokers SMELL?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:21 PM
Jun 2012

There are some warped priorities on display there.

Just sayin'.



Bake

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
31. Many people are capable of walking and chewing gum at the same time...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:27 PM
Jun 2012

I can be concerned about WI and express my distaste at smelling smokers at the same time. I know folks who eat chocolate kisses, worry about global warming and read at the same time.

Just sayin'

Bake

(21,977 posts)
37. I thought you might say that ... the ol' "chewing gum and walking" canard
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:37 PM
Jun 2012

But given that a lot of union members and Democrats also happen to smoke (don't know that stats, just an educated guess), why would you want to piss them off TODAY?

In fact, why ANY DAY?

Bake

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
44. Do you think waiting until tomorrow to give my anti-smoking message is better?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:48 PM
Jun 2012

Nope, can't do that. It'll be the day after. If it goes badly, I'll be making it worse. On the other hand, if it goes great and Walker gets the boot, then I'd probably be a downer and depressing folks.

Let me check the calender for a day when it's okay to piss off smoking Dems.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
48. Why piss off ANYBODY?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:54 PM
Jun 2012

Because you can't keep your opinion to yourself? EVeryone else is entitled to your opinion?

Human Relations 101. Try it.



Bake

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
51. Do you know where we're at?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:58 PM
Jun 2012

DU...where everyone's got an opinion about something and it's bound to piss someone off somewhere.

DemocraticUnderground 101.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
98. I like the smell of cigarette smoke, hate the smell of alcohol. To each their own.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:33 PM
Jun 2012

Hope you're not trying to stop people from smoking, though. Because people who drink, smoke, eat stinky food, wear bad smelling perfume, pot smokers or any other habit humans choose to develop, don't really care what you think or what I or anyone else thinks.

If they want to stop they will. And some might even get a kick out of pissing off the finger-waggers in our society, who I think stink more than all the others put together.

Response to sabrina 1 (Reply #98)

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
108. Would you willingly inhale carcinogens knowing that they could kill you?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:52 PM
Jun 2012

Second hand and third hand smoke can do a lot more damage than stinky food, bad perfume or pot.

Of course, I'll do my damndest to discourage it. There is more than just personal choice here. Kids are inhaling their parents' smoking.

This is a systemic debilitating addictive habit that does far more damage than smoking pot. I totally support legalizing pot, but it doesn't have all the carcinogens and other substances the tobacco companies have soaked in the tobacco to keep their customers hooked.

Smoking and alcohol are legal drugs, but have done far more damage than all the illegal drugs combined. Smoking gets singled out because that odor also has carcinogens in it and if you smell it, you are inhaling it against your will. Are you okay with that? Is that your choice or not?

Call me a "finger-wagger" all you like. I don't care. I've watched patients with holes in their necks attempt to talk and I've buried a lot of family who were killed by smoking. Most of my family still smokes.

My father wasted away to skin and bones in a nursing home from his smoking. It's an agonizing hellish death.

I don't feel a bit of guilt for being a "finger-wagger".

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
45. Because they'll stay home, or vote Walker, because someone on DU said they smell bad?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:49 PM
Jun 2012
Really?

Bake

(21,977 posts)
49. No, becuase WHY PISS OFF ANYBODY WHO IS ON OUR SIDE?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:55 PM
Jun 2012


Bake
 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
54. Welcome to humanity, chuck
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:01 PM
Jun 2012

Everyone's been pissing off everyone since the first bonobo-like hominid opened its mouth and went "Ook ook"

Smokers smell bad. it's kind of a dumb topic to start a thread on, but if that pisses off smokers... tough, not the OP's fault they live in a delusional reality where they are lightly scented of lilacs and honey.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
57. I suspect I've been a human longer than you, so welcome yourself
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:07 PM
Jun 2012

Now get the hell off my lawn.



Bake

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
59. I did spend some time as a potted fern in a previous life...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:09 PM
Jun 2012

They kept forgetting to water me, it was terrible.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
63. well except for the progressives..
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:16 PM
Jun 2012

fuck those firebaggers! am i right?

 

datasuspect

(26,591 posts)
25. probably no worse than your upper lip?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:21 PM
Jun 2012

i dunno.

MoonRiver

(36,975 posts)
28. It's true.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:26 PM
Jun 2012

I've never smoked and my husband doesn't smoke. But our son's girlfriend smokes and it is very noticeable when she's around. Sad, because in every other way she is great. But that is hard to deal with.

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
29. No one sings louder in church than a reformed sinner.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:26 PM
Jun 2012

I can think of plenty of things to get worked up about, but that isn't one of them.

And before anyone jumps me about this, I quit smoking in 1975.

SwissTony

(2,560 posts)
30. I used to get on the bus some years ago
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:26 PM
Jun 2012

and, for some reason, at the next stop a female smoker seemed to like to sit next to me. She was a very nice woman, but she absolutely stank of smoke.

Many years ago, I declared that nobody could smoke in my house. If you wanted to smoke, you went outside. Didn't matter if it was raining, hailing, thunder etc. You went outside. That included my mother.

Smokers stink. Full stop.

I'm not an ex-smoker. I did the usual teenage experimentation. I stopped on my thirteenth birthday.

 

crunch60

(1,412 posts)
32. Thanks, we all needed you to tell us that! Such a cheery post.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:31 PM
Jun 2012
now let's go have a nice cold Dortmund Union beer, to go with our Lucky Strike! Go Wisconsin! You can do it!

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
34. I try whenever possible...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:32 PM
Jun 2012

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
35. I am a smoker and I know how badly my house and I smell of smoke.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:33 PM
Jun 2012

Febreze is my friend for the house. And whenever I go out of the house, I do some liberal doses of perfume on my body and my hair.

YellowRubberDuckie

(19,736 posts)
75. The perfume mixed with the cigarette smoke is just the worst smell ever.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:43 PM
Jun 2012

I hate cigarette smoke smell, but the mixture will gag a maggot.

bluerum

(6,109 posts)
38. Smokers smell. Water is wet. Sky is blue.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:38 PM
Jun 2012

Cigar smokers are the pits. Worse than buttheads.

And dousing youself and your home in perfumes and air fresheners only makes it worse. More chemicals and the smoke still stinks.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
107. Depends on how often you smoke cigars
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:45 PM
Jun 2012

and what kind of cigars one is smoking. I like a good cigar a couple of times a week. I don't think I smell.

Response to cynatnite (Original post)

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
40. My lead assistant, bless her otherwise fabulous heart, is a smoker.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:43 PM
Jun 2012

3 times a day she goes outside for her cigarette break and comes back in surrounded by a cloud of smoke that she exhales all over me for the next 15 minutes.

And I can always tell which of my clients are heavy smokers by the way their cats just reek of cigarette smoke when they come in.

lynne

(3,118 posts)
41. LOL! Do the cologne-soakers know how horrible they smell?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:44 PM
Jun 2012

Horrible enough to clog my sinus and force me to take an allergy pill. So rank I had to roll down my car window when I gave one a ride to work and I never offered to drive her again. Let's not forget the times I've changed seats in the movies due to the cologne-sogged person who sat down nearby.

There's lots of stinkers in this world, many of them due to their own choices. BTW, we haven't even talked about garlic and onion breath. Or beer breath.

Or garlic eaters who emit garlic when they sweat. Dear Lord, that has to be one of the worst odors on the planet.

Anyone who say's they don't omit any offensive odor is lying.

nadine_mn

(3,702 posts)
71. My husband is a garlic secreter - even just a small dose of garlic at lunch in salad dressing
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:33 PM
Jun 2012

I can smell it by dinner on his breath. I can't stand it. Worse thing I ever did when we were newly married was make him creamy roasted garlic soup (this was before I knew what I was in store for) - oh dear god - he breathed, sweated, farted garlic for days. I couldn't be in the same room with him.

He loves garlic, so I still cook with it, but he has to keep away from me. But never again will I make that garlic soup, even though he still begs for it.

I will take a smoker any day over that.

antigone382

(3,682 posts)
46. I really don't think playing on people's self-consciousness is a good way to elicit behavior change.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:53 PM
Jun 2012

A lot of people smoke in response to stress, and exploiting peoples' sensitivity to how others perceive them is going to add to that stress, not take it away. I don't smoke and never have, but I have had my fair share of people tearing me down to try to change my behaviors, and it did not work. When I got away from them and went to the people that supported and loved me, and didn't try to make me define myself by my faults or vices, I was able to improve my behaviors substantially. Making people feel bad about themselves is not a good way to end self-destructive behavior.

 

truebrit71

(20,805 posts)
50. I really had no idea until after I quit almost two years ago...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 03:58 PM
Jun 2012

...when I stepped into an elevator with someone that had just finished a ciggie and I wanted to hurl...How come no-one punched me in the face smelling that bad???

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
84. Because if we punched you we'd have to get even closer to you.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:08 PM
Jun 2012
 

daaron

(763 posts)
52. And? nt
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:00 PM
Jun 2012

NV Whino

(20,886 posts)
53. Boy is that ever true
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:01 PM
Jun 2012

I hired a guy once to help me out programming some stuff in FileMaker. He was a nice guy, and he didn't smoke in my house, but he exuded cigaret odor. My house smelled for days afterward. Needless to say, I muddled through the rest of the programming myself.

Bathing, colone, perfume, breath mints do nothing to mitigate the odor seeping from the smoker's pores.

bighart

(1,565 posts)
55. One question:
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:04 PM
Jun 2012

How much of the missing tax revenue are you personally willing to kick in when all of the smokers quit tomorrow?

From a 2008 NY Times article
"In 2007, states collected more than $19 billion in cigarette taxes"
"The federal government, meantime, collects nearly $7 billion annually in cigarette excise taxes"

So how much of this $26 billion can we count on you for?

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
58. So you're on record supporting smoking for tax purposes...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:08 PM
Jun 2012

Even though it's physically and financially detrimental to people and to the nation as a whole?

How many medical bills are you wiling to pay and how many graves are you willing to dig?

bighart

(1,565 posts)
62. Just pointing out that smokers are an easy target but
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:13 PM
Jun 2012

there would be a whole lot of unintended consequences if there were no more smokers tomorrow.
And by the way, from April 2012:

"Obesity adds more to health care costs than smoking does, reports a study in the March Journal of Occupational and Environmental Medicine, official publication of the American College of Occupational and Environmental Medicine (ACOEM)."

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
67. Yep, just like there are unintended consequences when there are no wars...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:23 PM
Jun 2012

Because when there are no more wars that means soldiers won't have jobs, more jobs lost when we quit making bombs, etc.

The lives saved from no wars or not smoking should mean more than a tax burden. In some cases axes are a method of controlling behavior. It has been for some time. There are higher taxes on cigarettes and alcohol.

If we're not spending money on health care costs due to obesity, smoking, war-mongering then perhaps there will be an offset of sorts.

In the end, we have a healthier society.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
86. That's okay. It will be offset by their decreased healthcare costs.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:09 PM
Jun 2012

bighart

(1,565 posts)
94. So would you support imposing a tax on everyone with a BMI over 30?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:20 PM
Jun 2012

They cost the health care system more than smokers do.

MineralMan

(151,269 posts)
61. Yes, we do know that. But hey, thanks.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:13 PM
Jun 2012

We also know it's bad for us.
We also know it can cause lung cancer.

I wonder what things about yourself you don't know. I'll bet there are some such things.

But, hey, thanks for letting us know about that smell thing. Made my day, for sure.

aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
64. Cigar and pipe smoke are among life's most delightful smells
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:18 PM
Jun 2012

I gave up smoking years ago but I still miss the taste and smell. Cigarette smoke doesn't smell good to me unless it's from strong French cigarettes; Gauloises, Celtiques, or Gitanes.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
74. Cigars stink and are gross. No idea how you feel different.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:42 PM
Jun 2012
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
80. agreed... good cigars smell nice...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:52 PM
Jun 2012

I particularly like the nutty notes in a good maduro.

KansDem

(28,498 posts)
101. Now you're talking!
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:38 PM
Jun 2012
I particularly like the nutty notes in a good maduro.

I smoke an occasional cigar and love the smell and taste of a maduro!

I have a friend who lives in Switzerland. Every few years he visits...and brings me a pack of Cuban cigars!
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
103. Nice!
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:41 PM
Jun 2012

My wife manages a cigar lounge... no Cubans officially, but if you know the right people... lol

raccoon

(32,390 posts)
68. Some smokers don't, but yes, the majority of them do. nt
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:26 PM
Jun 2012

Swede

(39,494 posts)
72. When you go to a smokers house,after you leave,your clothes stink,too.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:35 PM
Jun 2012

It is a powerful smell.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
73. If I smelled offensive, and wasn't aware of it, I'd hope my friends would tell me.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:40 PM
Jun 2012

Just sayin.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
78. I know why I was never told...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:46 PM
Jun 2012

A lot of my family smoked and they couldn't tell. My husband had grown accustomed to it. I think anyone who wasn't a smoker and knew me, were being too polite.

It was only after I had stopped smoking for several months that it became apparent to me.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
76. It amazes me how many rude smokers throw butts out the window but NONE of them ever admit doing it.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:43 PM
Jun 2012

felix_numinous

(5,198 posts)
77. Has anyone smelled
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:45 PM
Jun 2012

the little foreign cigarettes---they're not half as bad as American ones with all the additives. Everyone (overseas) was always offering them, to be polite and I actually smoked them for awhile. I know this is not a PC answer, but I actually like the smell of pure tobacco--I think it burns differently

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
79. They actually leave a foul-smelling trail behind themselves
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:51 PM
Jun 2012

when they walk through the office back to their places after a smoke break.

Let the non-smokers work harder so you can indulge your addiction, stink up the office, and leave a disgusting pile of butts on the ground in the parking lot for some poor guy to clean up. What's not to love?

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
81. I had a workman come into my house once
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:53 PM
Jun 2012

whose hair and clothing smelled so badly and so strongly I had to open up all the windows and let it air out for an hour. He hadn't lit up anywhere near the house. Amazingly powerful stench, that smoke.

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
82. Thanks, Brooke (old commercial)
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 04:56 PM
Jun 2012

I quit in '85.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
83. I quit 4 years ago.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:03 PM
Jun 2012

One of the best and toughest things I've ever done. And you are correct, smokers stink, and tho I thought I knew it when I was smoking, I didn't really understand just how much. That said, I promised myself something when I did quit. I would NEVER become the self-righteous sort of ass that many other "reformed smokers" were to me. It's completely counter-productive anyway and pretending that you are "doing them a favor by telling them" is nothing more than seeking a rather poor excuse for being a jerk. That's my opinion anyway, your mileage may vary.

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
85. As a cyclist, I think your exhaust pipe is a whole lot worse.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:09 PM
Jun 2012

I think that's an important perspective people mostly don't consider.

DearAbby

(12,461 posts)
87. And?
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:11 PM
Jun 2012
 

taught_me_patience

(5,477 posts)
88. Of course not
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:12 PM
Jun 2012

They don't even realize that when they light up at a bus station, everybody can smell that shit. Or, when they light up in a crowded park, everybody withing fifteen feet can smell their toxic fumes, EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE OUTSIDE.

Response to cynatnite (Original post)

Blaukraut

(5,998 posts)
90. Ex smoker, and totally agree
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:14 PM
Jun 2012

Even while I was smoking, I hated the way it smelled. On me, the furniture, the curtains, you name it. That being said, I'm extremely sensitive to odors anyway. Garlic body odor, onion armpits, dirty-bed-sheet body odor, cooking smell in my house, clothes, and hair....I'm pretty much miserable all day unless I'm outside in the fresh air. LOL

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
93. You know, I hardly ever wear perfume anymore...
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:18 PM
Jun 2012

A lot of people are outright allergic to different smells and it can set off asthma attacks.

I love wearing perfume, but now I try to think about where I'm going before using it.

Cairycat

(1,867 posts)
91. Having quit 25 years ago, I wouldn't nag anyone
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:17 PM
Jun 2012

Most smokers know how bad smoking is for their health, some will admit that second-hand smoke is injurious to others' health, maybe some might even admit the dangers of third-hand smoke (residue on clothes, etc.).

But I know that until I quit, I really had no idea just how pervasive and nasty third-hand smoke is. I bought a CD once on eBay, took most of a week to get to me, and it smelled strongly of smoke when I opened it. I've subbed on my daughter's paper route, and some houses, you could tell as soon as you got to the porch, the people smoked. In winter, with closed doors. My sister-in-law would give me lovely hand-me-downs for my kids, but they had to be washed three times to get the smoke smell out. My partner at work is a smoker. I do everything I can to avoid hanging my coat anywhere near hers, because clothing that is that saturated with smoke doesn't just smell like tobacco, it starts to almost smell like feces. I work in an elementary school. It's very easy to tell which kids have smoking parents.

So, yes, it's tough to quit, I won't nag smokers. But I think the idea that bathing takes care of the problem, that some smokers smell smoky and some don't, is baloney. Smokers smell, and it's not a pleasant smell at all.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
92. 2 stories on this ....
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:18 PM
Jun 2012

1) I rarely get to visit my mother's house. She smokes. Usually when I see her, she and I stay at my sister's house for a few days. Mom lives up in the PA mountains and the time to drive where she lives would reduce the time we'd actually see each other. But I do at times go to her house. The last time I went, I stayed at her house one night. I was there a little more than 24 hours. I kept my luggage bag closed almost the entire time. When I flew home, and opened that bag, everything in it smelled like cigarette smoke.

2) I take the kids to a bowling lanes. Over 10 years ago, it allowed smoking. It has a bar area, but it stopped allowing smoking inside more than 10 years ago. They pulled out all the carpet. Cleaned and painted everything. Plus 10 years. You can still smell it. Its not a strong smell. But its a background smell.

Both of my parents smoked. I never did. And it was only after I moved away, that I came to know what other things smelled like.

Trillo

(9,154 posts)
95. "It's the smell, if there is such a thing. I feel saturated by it.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:20 PM
Jun 2012

"I hate this place. This zoo. This prison. This reality, whatever you want to call it, I can't stand it any longer. It's the smell, if there is such a thing. I feel saturated by it. I can taste your stink and every time I do, I fear that I've somehow been infected by it.

http://www.imdb.com/character/ch0000745/quotes

RagAss

(13,832 posts)
97. Posts like this are the dark side of DU.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:29 PM
Jun 2012

...and if you smoked for 27 years and quit...good for you...but the damage may already be done.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
105. If the studies are right, there is permanent damage to my heart and arteries....
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:42 PM
Jun 2012

I have recovered my lung function and feel better than I have in years.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
100. Finger waggers stink more! n/t
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:35 PM
Jun 2012
 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
106. Amazing that anyone who ever smoked doesn't or didn't know they smelled of smoke. I mean really,
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 05:43 PM
Jun 2012

all you would have to do is smell your clothes before they were laundered. And, personally don't think
someone telling them they smell would be enough to quit over. If they choose to ignore the health
risks, then knowing they smell is gonna do it? I remember a NY Times article years ago that actually
called people who smoked creative, risk-takers, and living on the edge. Like, sure I smell, sure it
could kill me....I don't care...I am doing it anyway.

And, as for the health risks...NY Times has an article this past week - Now salt's ok.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
109. Yes.
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 06:33 PM
Jun 2012

But it doesn't matter to me. I can't smell it!

wendylaroux

(2,925 posts)
112. The smoke covers
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 07:24 PM
Jun 2012

my old person smell.

Response to cynatnite (Original post)

DiverDave

(5,245 posts)
117. Wow a self-rightous ex smoker, never see those
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 08:35 PM
Jun 2012

around

I'm glad you quit, I've tried a thousand times, maybe a 1001 will be the charm.
I do know that when I quit I wont shout at smokers.
27 years you say, I wonder how YOU felt when people
said the same to you.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
119. What is the point of such a negative, hateful post? Are you that unhappy that you need
Tue Jun 5, 2012, 08:38 PM
Jun 2012

to walk on the graves of others? Or are you that narcisstic that you feel you have no vices?

Just because smokers stink to you, doesn't mean it smells the same to everyone, for one thing.

Another thing...don't you have something IMPORTANT to post about? Send us a list of what you do in an average day, please, so that we can do ugly posts about some of your habits. After all, that's what DU is all about! Right? Wrong.

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