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I have a question about the bathroom gender thingy. How is it proposed to enforce such (Original Post) underahedgerow Apr 2016 OP
Making light of it doesn't help. revbones Apr 2016 #1
really? Lurker Deluxe Apr 2016 #9
Depends On the Gas Station erpowers Apr 2016 #12
And how did the police know the person was transgender? LynneSin Apr 2016 #13
There is no enforcement mechanism in NC Kelvin Mace Apr 2016 #2
The most likely scenario, I think, might be this: The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2016 #3
I was going to say - a lot of uncomfortable awkward peering underpants Apr 2016 #5
No, this is the more likely scenario justiceischeap Apr 2016 #11
If 'he' was a transgender woman then 'he' would be referred to as a she LynneSin Apr 2016 #14
Surely not whatthehey Apr 2016 #21
I might have misread it - I thought he was talking about a trans woman LynneSin Apr 2016 #34
He is transgender but under NC law justiceischeap Apr 2016 #25
no, he is a transman but per this law, has to use the ladies room La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2016 #32
I misread it LynneSin Apr 2016 #35
Use the Men's Room erpowers Apr 2016 #16
How many post-op transwomen would pass the "genitals" test? XemaSab Apr 2016 #24
Everyone wear jeans and use the womens restroom Jim Beard Apr 2016 #4
What happens if a masculine-looking woman goes into the women's room? davidn3600 Apr 2016 #6
Somebody gets sued, is what happens. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2016 #7
That is absolutely horrifying. ScreamingMeemie Apr 2016 #30
Appoint Larry 'Wide Stance' Craig, the Potty czar Brother Buzz Apr 2016 #8
It isn't about "enforcement." 6000eliot Apr 2016 #10
bingo! LynneSin Apr 2016 #15
Same Question erpowers Apr 2016 #17
Obviously we must ban all clothes immediately Orrex Apr 2016 #18
Trans women DIE at a very high rate Marrah_G Apr 2016 #19
Yes, it does rather seem like an effort to pin a target on trans people, doesn't it? Orrex Apr 2016 #20
Yes- it frightens me to the core Marrah_G Apr 2016 #22
And what about Intersex people, who have no choice at all in the matter? lagomorph777 Apr 2016 #23
TSA would love to do it! 4139 Apr 2016 #26
New jobs promised by the GOP: Bathroom sex checker ... Jackie Wilson Said Apr 2016 #27
The GOP would make them work for tips. n/t Lil Missy Apr 2016 #39
I would simply ask the person if they are a Republican politician and if yes LiberalArkie Apr 2016 #28
Peeper Checks!!! ScreamingMeemie Apr 2016 #29
sometimes laws dont require enforcing, they are merely created to reinforce La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2016 #31
With the new handy dandy DNA scanners whistler162 Apr 2016 #33
Well that's just archaic technology, isn't it? How about an RFID-type tag implant? Lots less underahedgerow Apr 2016 #36
The same way all laws are enforced. Sam_Fields Apr 2016 #37
I wondered the same thing. Do the genitals have to be inspected upon entrance? Lil Missy Apr 2016 #38
 

revbones

(3,660 posts)
1. Making light of it doesn't help.
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 10:55 AM
Apr 2016

We just had a friend that was warned to leave a gas station by a police officer because she used the wrong bathroom. It's an excuse for harassment, the same as AZ's "let me see your papers" law.

Lurker Deluxe

(1,036 posts)
9. really?
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 05:31 PM
Apr 2016

Not sure how that could happen where I live, most gas stations bathrooms are locked and you have to ask for a key. And almost all of them are single occupancy so, again, not sure how that would happen.

Please elaborate.

erpowers

(9,350 posts)
12. Depends On the Gas Station
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 02:47 PM
Apr 2016

I am not the person you replied to, or asked for a reply, but I would like to offer my response. In my area there are a number of gas stations that have restrooms on the inside. These restrooms are multi-occupancy restrooms.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
13. And how did the police know the person was transgender?
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 02:51 PM
Apr 2016

It's not like they carry a big sign saying 'I'M Transgender'.

Does that mean because I'm 5'10" and big-boned that I could be harassed in North Carolina for using the women's room (which I was born that way).

This is all ridiculous.

But honestly, calling out the stupidity of the law about who is to judge who is the right sex to enter a bathroom, I believe, is a very valid question. GOP is suppose to be the party of 'Less Government' yet they want to check in my panties before I use the bathroom - I think that is total government overkill. The 'Joking' of the issue let's the world know that many of us see this as bullshit and are calling out on it.

 

Kelvin Mace

(17,469 posts)
2. There is no enforcement mechanism in NC
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 11:19 AM
Apr 2016

and the police say they have better things to do.

So, I am sure some vigil...er I mean "concerned" citizens will step into the breach.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,674 posts)
3. The most likely scenario, I think, might be this:
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 11:20 AM
Apr 2016

A woman goes into a public bathroom at, say, a mall. She goes into a stall, does her business, washes her hands and maybe combs her hair or touches up her makeup, then starts to leave. But there's another woman in the bathroom, a bigoted busybody who decides the first woman is maybe too "masculine" and must therefore be either trans or a man come to spy on ladies going to the bathroom. She furtively calls mall security, and a mall cop quickly arrives and confronts the first woman as she leaves the rest room. But now what?

Does the mall cop demand to see her birth certificate? Do a pat-down? Make her drop her pants? I can see so much potential for lawsuits here. These laws are nasty, insane and unenforceable, and I hope the first person who is harassed for something like this sues the pants off whoever does it (pun intended).

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
11. No, this is the more likely scenario
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 07:25 PM
Apr 2016

He walks into the bathroom and all the women freak out 'cause a guy is in the bathroom (even though said guy is transgender).



Then this guy has to explain that he's transgender and HAS to use the ladies room because of the law.

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
21. Surely not
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 03:49 PM
Apr 2016

A current trans man, correctly referred to as "he", would under this law have to use the womens' bathroom as he was originally born anatomically female, and certainly would cause the reaction described.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
25. He is transgender but under NC law
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 06:21 PM
Apr 2016

He would have to use the ladies room. I did not use any pronouns incorrectly in my post.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
32. no, he is a transman but per this law, has to use the ladies room
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 06:32 PM
Apr 2016

cos that's what it says on his birth cert.

erpowers

(9,350 posts)
16. Use the Men's Room
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 03:04 PM
Apr 2016

I guess most men would find it odd if he goes into a stall and sits down to pee, but other than that how would anyone know he was born a woman. I think the people pushing these laws do not understand transgender issues. For some reason they think someone looking like person in the picture will walk into a women's room hoping to see naked women, or hoping to do bad things. The problem is that these laws actually make it more likely that what they do not want to happen will happen. Even though it is likely that the person above would not be caught if they tried to use a men's room if he is to obey the law he should use the women's room. As a result, you have a person that looks like a man walking into a women's room because that person was born a woman.

Unless there is someone standing at the door doing a penis, or vagina check how could anyone know who is a man, or a woman? How many men would be willing to whip out their private parts to prove they are men? How many men would allow someone to check to see if their wife has proper woman equipment? How many women would want to drop their pants, or pull up their skirts/dresses in order to prove they were born a woman?

XemaSab

(60,212 posts)
24. How many post-op transwomen would pass the "genitals" test?
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 04:34 PM
Apr 2016

If the surgeon did his job right, all of them.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
6. What happens if a masculine-looking woman goes into the women's room?
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 12:14 PM
Apr 2016

If a woman goes into the woman's room and has a short haircut and a male-style of clothing but is a female? Will she be harassed too? Will other people call the cops "just to be on the safe side?"

I understand the target of the law is M-to-F transexuals. That's who the religious conservatives really hate. But the ones who will be hurt the most by this law are biologically-born women who don't look "feminine enough." People will question her every time she goes into a public restroom.

erpowers

(9,350 posts)
17. Same Question
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 03:18 PM
Apr 2016

A few days ago I started wondering how the law would be enforced. I just figured most people would continue to use the restroom that corresponds to their current gender.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
19. Trans women DIE at a very high rate
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 03:21 PM
Apr 2016

Now they want to force them into bathrooms where they are likely to be assaulted because some man's penis feels threatened.

Orrex

(63,203 posts)
20. Yes, it does rather seem like an effort to pin a target on trans people, doesn't it?
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 03:34 PM
Apr 2016

What a sick and deplorable mentality.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
22. Yes- it frightens me to the core
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 04:17 PM
Apr 2016

Religious zealotry has caused more bloodshed then anything else in the world and not once has it ever proved to be right.

It breeds ignorance, which breeds fear, which breeds hate.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
23. And what about Intersex people, who have no choice at all in the matter?
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 04:23 PM
Apr 2016

They're born with anatomy that's essentially impossible to assign to a gender. Then they are randomly assigned one anyway, which may or may not match their adult appearance or internal sense of gender identity. WTF are they supposed to do?

Jackie Wilson Said

(4,176 posts)
27. New jobs promised by the GOP: Bathroom sex checker ...
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 06:24 PM
Apr 2016

Duties include checking sexual organs and birth certificates.

Starts at $17 an hour with benefits.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
31. sometimes laws dont require enforcing, they are merely created to reinforce
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 06:31 PM
Apr 2016

existing social hierarchies.

The existence of these laws demonstrate the superiority of cis gender male and females over transpeople. That is the only reason for their existence.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
33. With the new handy dandy DNA scanners
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 06:45 PM
Apr 2016

just put a drop of your blood in the tester and 10 seconds later the door opens to either the Men's room or Woman's room.

underahedgerow

(1,232 posts)
36. Well that's just archaic technology, isn't it? How about an RFID-type tag implant? Lots less
Thu Apr 14, 2016, 01:39 AM
Apr 2016

messy and usefull in many future applications as well. It could be used in banking, voting, heck, even for shopping. No bulky cards to carry, all your handy-dandy info on the back of your hand?

Useful too for the cops; they could scan your driving record, prison records, credit score.... see if you're suitable for air travel and public transport...

Arthur C. Clarke was quite the prognosticator. So was Arthur Conan Doyle..... just sayin'.

Sam_Fields

(305 posts)
37. The same way all laws are enforced.
Thu Apr 14, 2016, 02:17 AM
Apr 2016

Someone needs to call the police to file a complaint and they investigate the alleged crime. Then the DA decides if they want to prosecute the accused person. That is how the criminal justice system works. I'm not saying it is right to do. I'm just explaining how it works.

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