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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsKentucky woman says man beat her for looking too masculine — as people stood by and watched
http://www.rawstory.com/2016/05/kentucky-woman-says-man-beat-her-for-looking-too-masculine-as-people-stood-by-and-watched/In a post on her Facebook timeline, Brittany Nicole Wallace wrote, Today I was assaulted. A man assaulted me because I look like a dike! He told me that he would beat me like the man I want to be. He said, people like me make him hate the world.'...
Wallace said she tried to fight back, but her attacker was bigger and stronger. Bystanders, she said, never even lifted a finger to help.
The sad part is that no one would come help me either. Several people stood around and watched this happen to me. Again, I truly believe that if I had a more feminine appearance someone would have helped, she wrote.
"Too masculine"?!
PatrickforO
(14,570 posts)At work again.
If we let these horrible fucks take over, we're looking at another burning time.
Jeffersons Ghost
(15,235 posts)Admittedly, there are judgmental people, who claim to be Christians; but the same thing can be said about many religions.
truebrit71
(20,805 posts)That kind of hatred here in 'Murrka is typically linked to "christians"...
Initech
(100,063 posts)I want absolutely nothing to do with them or their bigotry.
mythology
(9,527 posts)2naSalit
(86,559 posts)whose brother-in-law murdered her sister for having a life saving hysterectomy, said she wasn't a woman anymore. Same area as this. That's the hillbilly mentality for ya.
YOHABLO
(7,358 posts)Just cesspools of ignorance.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)She was beaten up for looking "too masculine"!
bjo59
(1,166 posts)Dress up in high heels, form fitting clothes, and makeup so they don't get beat up? And then, when raped, get blamed for "asking for it"? Misogyny (and racism and any kind of bigotry) is always shape shifting and contradictory so that any behavior (or look) you adopt just proves "it's your own fault."
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)places that are really cesspools of hatred and ignorance, and they are damn proud of it. Parts of America are just damn creepy, ignorant, hateful, mean and hostile. I used to have to drive through some areas like this. Gas up and eat on either side. Just plain weird and dangerous areas to many and all types of people.
BlueMTexpat
(15,366 posts)to commit grievous bodily harm, if not worse. I hope that she has filed a criminal complaint against this thug, who should not be on the streets.
As for those who stood by and watched, they are as bad as her attacker, IMO. Shame on them.
procon
(15,805 posts)To sit around like sheep and do nothing whilst a crime is being committed right is front of them and another human being is being injured, indicates a breakdown in our society. That man was a coward and a bully, he singled out a young woman knowing she likely would not fight back.
Bullies can be stopped, they have such low self esteem that it doesn't take much to send them slinking away. I've done it myself, and once someone breaks out of the herd to speak out, others will follow, and bullies can't withstand any public criticism.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Who knows how this started or if people even knew she was female when the fight was happening.
Much more info needed. Maybe the bystanders had no idea it was a man fighting a woman and not two men fighting. Generally when two guys fight it is quite common for people to just stand by and do nothing.
I am not saying that is the case all I am saying is unless you were there it seems pretty over the top to claim a failure to get involved is an indication of the breakdown of our society.
procon
(15,805 posts)"Today I was assaulted. A man assaulted me because I look like a dike! He told me that he would beat me like the man I want to be. He said, people like me make him hate the world.'
Can't get much clearer than that.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Maybe it went down exactly as she said I don't know and neither do you.
Clear as mud.
procon
(15,805 posts)for why his victim is laying in a hospital bed, and her statements are inadmissible. Got it. You should probably just stop now.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Your gullibility is awe inspiring. You put that much faith in everything you read on the Internet or just the bad man stories?
procon
(15,805 posts)There's no excuse for violence, none whatsoever. If there's any justice to be had, he will be charged with a hate crime.
A Paintsville police spokesperson told ATTN: that the assailant had been arrested and jailed following the incident. Wallace, the spokesperson said, was taken to a nearby medical center."
http://www.attn.com/stories/8337/kentucky-woman-attacked-for-not-looking-feminine-enough
Are you done now?
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Or it being an indication of the decline of our society. Keep trying.
procon
(15,805 posts)The jerk you were making excuses for is in jail, and you're doubling down on the victim blaming. That's just wrong, and it is a prime example of the decline of our society.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)That people not jumping in to stop a fight is somehow indicative of a collapse of our society.
That fact that you choose to see that as defending one of the people involved in the fight is your hang up not mine.
The thread is there for all to read and no where in it did I defend either of the participants.
Not surprising at all that you are trying to pretend I said something different.
You're tapdancing all over the place, whenever you run out of steam you just jump to a new tack. Read through all the different directions you've tried in the course of this one topic. I just don't know how to process the single minded determination it takes to repeatedly defend a violent man who hates LGBT people so much that he's willing to risk being charged with a hate crime.
TipTok
(2,474 posts)Guess we will see...
csziggy
(34,136 posts)Battery is battery whether it is man on man, man on woman, woman on man, or woman on woman.
Standing around and letting one person attack another is reprehensible. If the bystanders didn't want to intervene themselves, they could have at least called 911.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Or do you just insert what you want to think into everything you read.
I think what I said is pretty clear.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)Those are your words. Your implication is that that is OK since you said nothing to indicate that it is not.
Perhaps your writing skills are not as clear as you think.
Do you deny it? Is it common or not?
Has nothing to do with assault being ok. It has to do with it being an indication of a break down of our society.
And if it is an indication of a decline in society then I would be willing to bet that the incidents of people just watching have been going down and continue to do so.
kentuck
(111,079 posts)should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.
procon
(15,805 posts)"A Paintsville police spokesperson told ATTN: that the assailant had been arrested and jailed following the incident. Wallace, the spokesperson said, was taken to a nearby medical center."
http://www.attn.com/stories/8337/kentucky-woman-attacked-for-not-looking-feminine-enough
mcar
(42,302 posts)Her assaulter should get full punishment for his crime. What in the world are we coming to?
TipTok
(2,474 posts)... And some confirmation that events took place as she describes them.
struggle4progress
(118,280 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)I'd rather wait until I see a story or police report, not a post on facebook.
Vinca
(50,267 posts)Find the people involved, have them prosecuted and sue them civilly for everything they've got.
Turin_C3PO
(13,964 posts)needs to serve hard time. He better not get slapped on the wrist.
Initech
(100,063 posts)bobGandolf
(871 posts)Brittany, I am disgusted this type of behavior occurred, and you got injured. When you have republican presidential primary candidates stirring up hate....this is the horrible outcome. We need to stop this now. Do not vote for Trump, and the rest.
RKP5637
(67,104 posts)all sorts of reasons. There are a lot of sick people in this country roaming around. And, with all of the negativity in the world, they take this as signs that it's OK to beat on others for whatever sick thought/justification comes into their twist F'ed up minds. Conservative estimates are about 25% of the US needs mental health counseling for one reason or another. I do not view the US as a well country. In fact, I really wonder where the US is headed.
Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)I am pretty sure this is it:
http://wklw.com/news/road-rage-incident-leads-to-arrest-at-paintsville-walmart
http://www.attn.com/stories/8337/kentucky-woman-attacked-for-not-looking-feminine-enough
The guy flipped into a rage and followed her after some parking lot jockeying or something like that, an altercation ensued, and it got violent.
The man is in jail, obviously.
The woman in the photo is to be pitied, but I don't think the attack happened because of the way she looked as she implies.
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