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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Sat Jul 16, 2016, 03:44 PM Jul 2016

How Philando Castile's girlfriend transformed "sir" into a powerful tool for dignity and subversion


How Diamond Reynolds Transformed Politeness into Protest


The officer fired four bullets. Diamond Reynolds fired five sirs. In live-streaming the fatal shooting of her boyfriend, Philando Castile, by police in a St. Pauls suburb last week, Reynolds didn’t just provide dramatic video testimony of police violence: She also transformed a simple term of deference and submission – sir – into a powerful tool for dignity and subversion.

In the opening minutes of Reynolds’ Facebook video, we witness Castile slumped over in the driver’s seat, his white shirt soaked in blood. We glimpse his eyes roll back and hear a low, agonizing groan. The officer, his gun trained on a fading Castile, screams his commands – and his own shock, it seems, at his actions. But Reynolds is narrating with clarity and composure, repeatedly addressing the officer as sir. “You shot four bullets into him, sir. He was just getting his license and registration, sir.” Her unassuming, polite sir counterbalances the horror of the gun, the blood, the officer’s “Fuck!”


But Reynolds’s sir is more than a straightforward act of obedience: It is literally disarming. It defuses the crisis, demonstrating to the officers she is present and attentive: “I will, sir, no worries, I will,” she responds to an order. Her sir levels out the volatility, following a script all the actors know by heart: “Yes I will, sir.” Her sir even helps soothe the initial trauma, as if creating in its extra syllable a breath-catching pause, a pulse-calming rest – for her, for her daughter in the backseat, for the viewer, for the officer. In expressing deference with sir, Reynold stays in control.

While Reynold’s mannerly sir eases the scene, it also focuses our attention. “You told him to get his ID, sir, his driver’s license,” Reynolds says. “You told him to get it, sir.” Each sir refers us back to the officer. In a 10-minute video, Reynolds uses sir five times, four of them within that intimate minute before she exits the car. As she provides this first-person narration, she also pivots to third-person documentation, panning from the all-too-familiar outcome – another dead black male – to the problem: the use of lethal force against black Americans. Wielding the megaphone of Facebook Live, she addresses one sir to address the broader sir of authority and state.

http://www.slate.com/blogs/lexicon_valley/2016/07/14/how_diamond_reynolds_yes_sir_transformed_politeness_into_protest.html
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How Philando Castile's girlfriend transformed "sir" into a powerful tool for dignity and subversion (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Jul 2016 OP
what she did was amazing KT2000 Jul 2016 #1
Ma'am, you are a beautiful strong person. lostnfound Jul 2016 #2
There is a history behind that. Rex Jul 2016 #3
I noticed the same thing with this shooting mercuryblues Jul 2016 #4
If that were true ReTHUGs and media hacks would not get away with malaise Jul 2016 #5

KT2000

(20,576 posts)
1. what she did was amazing
Sat Jul 16, 2016, 03:58 PM
Jul 2016

How she was able to keep her composure is incredible. Sir - you murdered an innocent man.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
3. There is a history behind that.
Sat Jul 16, 2016, 04:42 PM
Jul 2016

Her tragedy is not an isolated innocent, it is part of the institutional racism black people have dealt with for centuries. Hopefully it will be the last, but I don't really have faith in that anymore.

mercuryblues

(14,530 posts)
4. I noticed the same thing with this shooting
Sat Jul 16, 2016, 07:53 PM
Jul 2016

Last edited Sat Jul 16, 2016, 08:30 PM - Edit history (1)

Again reaching for his wallet in the car. what did I do sir. I'm sorry.

malaise

(268,930 posts)
5. If that were true ReTHUGs and media hacks would not get away with
Sat Jul 16, 2016, 08:12 PM
Jul 2016

their descriptions of President Obama. He is always rational, calm and polite -he also has no problem acknowledging facts like 'we got a shellacking'. They rather the coarseness of Don the Con.

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