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TexasTowelie

(112,209 posts)
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 04:44 AM Aug 2016

New Miss Teen USA from Texas will keep crown after using racial slurs online



The newly crowned Miss Teen USA from Texas was receiving harsh criticism Sunday over a series of online posts she wrote that used racial slurs.

Karlie Hay, 18, of Tomball won the Teen USA title Saturday night in Las Vegas. Shortly after the pageant ended, a Twitter user posted a screenshot of tweets that included the N-word -- and a variation of it -- that Hay had sent to some of her acquaintances in January 2014 and July 2013.

The Miss Universe Organization, which owns the Miss Teen USA pageant, issued a statement Sunday evening condemning Hay's words, but the organization will also be "supporting her continued growth" and allow her to keep her crown.

Hay issued a series of apology tweets Sunday night.

Read more: http://www.dallasnews.com/news/state/headlines/20160731-new-miss-teen-usa-from-texas-will-keep-crown-after-using-racial-slurs-online.ece

[font color=330099]The statement by The Miss Universe Organization that they will allow Miss Hay to keep her crown is appropriate since the operating company for the pageant is owned by Donald Trump.[/font]
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New Miss Teen USA from Texas will keep crown after using racial slurs online (Original Post) TexasTowelie Aug 2016 OP
I bet ya she will end up at Faux. brettdale Aug 2016 #1
Olielly and Hannity will blame it on Proud liberal 80 Aug 2016 #4
This! Is! Outrageous! eom BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #2
As a black guy Proud liberal 80 Aug 2016 #3
As a white guy Lochloosa Aug 2016 #6
Its "being phased out"? it sure doesnt SEEM like it around here. 7962 Aug 2016 #8
if I heard it I would call it out Skittles Aug 2016 #45
Well, you've got more guts than I. You'll likely end up with your ass beat 7962 Aug 2016 #46
LOL Skittles Aug 2016 #48
I'm talking about random people, smart guy!! I WISH i was still in my 20s 7962 Aug 2016 #50
I would TRASH "random people" for talking like that Skittles Aug 2016 #51
In that case YOU might get away with it. 7962 Aug 2016 #52
I would not give a fuck if they laughed or sneered Skittles Aug 2016 #53
On what planet is the general use of the n-word been "phased out"? She wasn't using it in specific uponit7771 Aug 2016 #15
Especially when the tweets are from a 15 year old Tomball, Texas. rug Aug 2016 #7
Bingo. marble falls Aug 2016 #10
Soooooo, rap music came up with the N- Word? Also, she somehow has the benefit of the doubt... uponit7771 Aug 2016 #14
No rap music didn't come up with N word Proud liberal 80 Aug 2016 #21
Training Day the movie metroins Aug 2016 #26
So the way she used it wasn't used BEFORE rap music? (not a trick question) uponit7771 Aug 2016 #28
Probably was Proud liberal 80 Aug 2016 #37
K, so it wasn't COMMON before rap music?!?! Richard Pryor? Red FOX!?!? I'm dating myself here... uponit7771 Aug 2016 #41
Richard Pryor and red foxx Proud liberal 80 Aug 2016 #42
And there you have it. 7962 Aug 2016 #47
Read the linked article and look at the screen shot independentpiney Aug 2016 #25
WHICH "general public"? tia uponit7771 Aug 2016 #30
I was responding to your use of 'general public' independentpiney Aug 2016 #32
Not mine, I don't know where the use of those words outside of close relationships is being used in uponit7771 Aug 2016 #34
Well I guess we live in different worlds independentpiney Aug 2016 #38
Sigh, If I go to work and use the word outside of the context that even you describe (which I don't uponit7771 Aug 2016 #40
I think you're actually responding to a different thread? independentpiney Aug 2016 #43
Well, growing up as a black teenager in the 90's Proud liberal 80 Aug 2016 #39
*sighs* sakabatou Aug 2016 #5
Post removed Post removed Aug 2016 #9
If they had stripped her of her crown, it would have sent a strong message to young people... -Steph- Aug 2016 #11
Yeah because all young people look up to teen beauty pageant winners. cherokeeprogressive Aug 2016 #19
I wasn't trying to insinuate that all young people look up to teen beauty pageant winners... -Steph- Aug 2016 #20
It should be common knowledge the word is unacceptable. cherokeeprogressive Aug 2016 #27
A perfect example of the notion that... 3catwoman3 Aug 2016 #29
How do you propose to change that attitude in teenagers? cherokeeprogressive Aug 2016 #36
Millions do, and this teaches them that racism can be excused. jtuck004 Aug 2016 #22
You invented a premise no one else did! How adorable... LanternWaste Aug 2016 #33
They are so beautiful, then that mouth opens, and all stuff tumbles out. Eleanors38 Aug 2016 #44
This captures the essence of Miss Teen USA, not worth watching let alone endorceing. downeastdaniel Aug 2016 #12
Trump doesn't own the Miss Universe Organization anymore maryellen99 Aug 2016 #13
beauty pageants should become a thing of the past book_worm Aug 2016 #16
Lyrics of "Secret Agent Man" seem relevant SwankyXomb Aug 2016 #17
Hey, if it's acceptable in a Presidential candidate for a major political party maxrandb Aug 2016 #18
Was there even a person of color in the competition? The five finalists looked liked jtuck004 Aug 2016 #23
Here: EX500rider Aug 2016 #35
seems like she was engaged moreso in cultural appropriation rather than being a bigot. geek tragedy Aug 2016 #24
15-year-olds can do dumb things. Oneironaut Aug 2016 #31
This is what a "Miss Teen" anything looks like this day? Hortensis Aug 2016 #49
Well, its a pageant. They ALL do. 7962 Aug 2016 #55
She was 15 years old oberliner Aug 2016 #54
Pretty girl. GOLGO 13 Aug 2016 #56

Proud liberal 80

(4,167 posts)
4. Olielly and Hannity will blame it on
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 05:41 AM
Aug 2016

Rap music. And in this instance they are probably correct. Unlike when they use this same defense for racist kids.

Proud liberal 80

(4,167 posts)
3. As a black guy
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 05:39 AM
Aug 2016

I don't think she was being racist. She was using it like many other kids. I am not saying it's right, but I do not think she was using it to be racist. This is one instance where the media can blame rap music and the entertainment industry. Unlike when the right wing media uses the same excuse to defend racist kids for using the word, like the Oklahoma fraternity. It is all about intent, you can tell when someone is using it to be racist or when someone using it to be cool. Both are wrong though.

Lochloosa

(16,065 posts)
6. As a white guy
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 07:11 AM
Aug 2016

I thought the same thing. I have 5 sons, all over 18 now, and this type of speech was common a few years ago. I had a few heart to hearts with the kids about this and was I was not going to tolerate it in my house. I also think it's a cultural thing advanced by the music and entertainment industry. Thankfully, it seems to be phasing out.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
8. Its "being phased out"? it sure doesnt SEEM like it around here.
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 07:33 AM
Aug 2016

But GA is usually late to the "trends" anyway. But I hear it CONSTANTLY in even the most simple conversations

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
46. Well, you've got more guts than I. You'll likely end up with your ass beat
Tue Aug 2, 2016, 07:43 AM
Aug 2016

I'm sure not about to walk up to a bunch of 20-somethings and tell them to stop using it!

If anything, I hear it MORE today than 10 yrs ago

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
50. I'm talking about random people, smart guy!! I WISH i was still in my 20s
Tue Aug 2, 2016, 08:29 PM
Aug 2016

oh, the different choices i would make.......

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
52. In that case YOU might get away with it.
Tue Aug 2, 2016, 10:49 PM
Aug 2016

But these days just walking up to a bunch of strangers throwing the word around and telling them off is not very safe. At the least they'll laugh at you. Regardless of whether they're white, black or whatever.
Some people will hurt you just for looking at them!
Only times I have said something; I've been around tenants of rental units I help manage talking shit among themselves and said something to them, since i did kind of know them. They just laughed at me. Once I was asked if i was the language cop, another time I was told "who the hell are you?", etc
After that, screw 'em. Let em show their ignorance

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
53. I would not give a fuck if they laughed or sneered
Wed Aug 3, 2016, 12:29 AM
Aug 2016

the important thing is to let people know YOU DON'T CARE FOR IT......SILENCE = AGREEMENT

I am DONE here.

uponit7771

(90,344 posts)
15. On what planet is the general use of the n-word been "phased out"? She wasn't using it in specific
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 08:07 AM
Aug 2016

... to her friends it was for general consumption where she hasn't gained the benefit of the doubt.

It was really stupid, I don't give her the benefit of the doubt... I don't know her

uponit7771

(90,344 posts)
14. Soooooo, rap music came up with the N- Word? Also, she somehow has the benefit of the doubt...
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 08:06 AM
Aug 2016

... from the general public?

tia

Proud liberal 80

(4,167 posts)
21. No rap music didn't come up with N word
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 10:10 AM
Aug 2016

And I usually hate it when people use that as an excuse for when a racist kid uses it. But rap did come up with the way she used it. Both are wrong, but I didn't see racism with her usage.

Proud liberal 80

(4,167 posts)
37. Probably was
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 01:02 PM
Aug 2016

But rap music made it common, popular, and acceptable. Again, I normally hate it when this excuse is used by the right wing media to justify a racist usage of the word. But in this case I can really see it as an excuse.

uponit7771

(90,344 posts)
41. K, so it wasn't COMMON before rap music?!?! Richard Pryor? Red FOX!?!? I'm dating myself here...
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 01:18 PM
Aug 2016

... but to intimate rap music spread the use when Richard Pryor was saying it on SNL and the Late Show is ... well... you know

independentpiney

(1,510 posts)
25. Read the linked article and look at the screen shot
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 10:29 AM
Aug 2016

that's why the general public is giving her the benefit of the doubt.She used it the same way many teenagers use it, or at least used it a few years ago, mostly referring to friends. I don't know if it's used as much anymore. But the poster you replied to is absolutely correct that rap music and associated entertainment popularized the word in a non-racist way among younger people. If that's taken power away from the word, that's a good thing, even if as an older person, I'll never be comfortable with it.

uponit7771

(90,344 posts)
34. Not mine, I don't know where the use of those words outside of close relationships is being used in
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 12:00 PM
Aug 2016

... the way she used it and no...

Rap music did NOT normalize the use of the word AT ALL outside the context of the community the word has effected the most.

I don't know what world people live in, but there's no way they'd go to work saying any inflection of the n-word in any context.

It sounds like white splaining to me (don't care what the person's color is) to intimate that its ok to use the word outside of the context that even that generation called defined or that it shouldn't be offensive to blacks like me.

This had to be explained to Gweneth Paltro also, I don't know her ... no way i'm giving her the benefit of the doubt.

independentpiney

(1,510 posts)
38. Well I guess we live in different worlds
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 01:03 PM
Aug 2016

In my worlds I heard it and saw it used on myspace and facebook by teenagers of every ethnicity in their interactions. I saw it in an area that was 98% white, and the same after moving to a much more diverse area. If rap and related entertainment wasn't responsible for the spread of it's usage, what do you propose was? Notice I didn't and haven't said it 'normalized' it, I've said it 'popularized' or 'spread' it's use. Please, no straw men.


uponit7771

(90,344 posts)
40. Sigh, If I go to work and use the word outside of the context that even you describe (which I don't
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 01:16 PM
Aug 2016

... agree its EVERY or even MOST teenagers) I would be fired and I'm black.

So NO.... it's usage has NOT been "spread" beyond some anecdotal acknowledgements ... there's no facts backing that up.

I don't read anyone using those words any FB pages I read... and again I'm black...

I don't know anyone black who would be OK if Donald Dump used the word cause it was popular on FaceBook

Also, popularized and spread or aspects of normalized...

But even using your description where in the world is this kind of language popular than among close friends or in the black community?!!?

Again... Gwenyth Paltro is a prime example... she used the word outside her circle of friends ... then got lambasted for it.

Ok...

There's a definitive context for the word, use it outside of such and then its disingenuously asking people to give one the benefit of the doubt.

independentpiney

(1,510 posts)
43. I think you're actually responding to a different thread?
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 02:39 PM
Aug 2016

The one about people using it at work? This thread has nothing to do with using it in the workplace. I am not defending it's usage at all and particularly anywhere outside the black community. What I am doing is not getting outraged that a white future beauty pageant winner used the word as a term of affection in her social media posts when she was 15. She also called a friend 'bitch' in one of the posts. Teenagers post stupid stuff like that online and regret it years later when they mature . If you've never seen it on facebook I guess you've either not seen too many teenagers facebook feeds or you run with a higher socio-economic class than I do.

Donald Drumpf is well outside the age group that uses it non-pejoratively. I don't know any one who would be ok with him using it for any reason.

But even using your description where in the world is this kind of language popular than among close friends or in the black community?!!?

Not sure if you're asking where it's popular outside of or inside of the black community, but St Pete , Florida, with the younger crowd, it was common with both a couple of years ago, and I still overhear it being used fairly often.

I have to get off the laptop, so don't take it as an offense (or victory) when I don't respond if you reply. Have a good day and thanks for your replies.





Proud liberal 80

(4,167 posts)
39. Well, growing up as a black teenager in the 90's
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 01:12 PM
Aug 2016

It was common in my world to hear white teenagers saying that word. Looking back it, it was dumb, but back then I didn't think anything of it.

Matter fact, it started with them saying the lyrics to their favorite rap songs.

Edit: and it wasn't just white teenagers. Hispanics and Asians, too.

Response to TexasTowelie (Original post)

-Steph-

(409 posts)
11. If they had stripped her of her crown, it would have sent a strong message to young people...
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 07:49 AM
Aug 2016

That it's not okay to use the "N" word in any kind of capacity, ever.

-Steph-

(409 posts)
20. I wasn't trying to insinuate that all young people look up to teen beauty pageant winners...
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 10:07 AM
Aug 2016

I am simply stating my opinion that it would have sent a strong message to those that do enter these pageants or follow them, or for those that come across the story through some other means, that it's not okay to use that word.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
27. It should be common knowledge the word is unacceptable.
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 11:17 AM
Aug 2016

It ain't though. That's a shame
The trouble I see in young people is the attitude "they do it, why can't I?" As long as some use the word others will too.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
22. Millions do, and this teaches them that racism can be excused.
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 10:22 AM
Aug 2016

See, not only parents can fuck things up.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
33. You invented a premise no one else did! How adorable...
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 11:54 AM
Aug 2016

You invented a premise no one else did! How adorable that you pretend she implied "all young people" rather than observing merely the obvious.

SwankyXomb

(2,030 posts)
17. Lyrics of "Secret Agent Man" seem relevant
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 08:38 AM
Aug 2016

Beware of pretty faces that you find
A pretty face can hide an evil mind

maxrandb

(15,330 posts)
18. Hey, if it's acceptable in a Presidential candidate for a major political party
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 08:54 AM
Aug 2016

why not in a Miss Teen USA pageant.

This is another example of how Trump has already done damage to our country.

At least we can't say the Pageant Officials were "being politically correct"

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
23. Was there even a person of color in the competition? The five finalists looked liked
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 10:25 AM
Aug 2016

they had been bleached in the sun.

And to put that crown on that person's head while she had racist messages all over her facebook account makes me realize I need to stop suggesting to people that they no longer used racists terms.

I can't fight millions of people and kids being shown on national tv that we talk one way and act another.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
24. seems like she was engaged moreso in cultural appropriation rather than being a bigot.
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 10:27 AM
Aug 2016

the public humiliation should be enough

Oneironaut

(5,500 posts)
31. 15-year-olds can do dumb things.
Mon Aug 1, 2016, 11:43 AM
Aug 2016

Even now, she's still a child. Hopefully she learned her lesson, but I agree with the poster above - she probably just thought she was being "cool" and "edgy."

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
49. This is what a "Miss Teen" anything looks like this day?
Tue Aug 2, 2016, 07:16 PM
Aug 2016

She looks like she's made up to compete for Melania's position.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
54. She was 15 years old
Wed Aug 3, 2016, 12:34 AM
Aug 2016

And it's a fricking beauty pageant.

Screenshots of tweets from when she was 15? Come on now.

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