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BigDemVoter

(4,149 posts)
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:15 PM Dec 2016

I have an honest question. How many people here actually text and drive?

I'm curious. I already mentioned this in a response to an OP, but I have almost gotten crushed 3 separate times in the past 6 weeks while walking in my city. I do not have a car, and I walk everywhere. As I live in California, it is illegal to text while driving, but I see almost every single driver texting at every stoplight or stop sign. How could anybody think it's safe or a good idea?

The 3 times I've almost been run down were all at crosswalks. I walk across at a stop sign, and the driver is texting. . . . They don't even fucking look. They keep texting and take their feet off the brake. Consequently I get knocked down by an enormous car.

I'm certainly not fragile, but I can't compete with a vehicle. I'm not surprised that death rates on the road have climbed precipitously. If you're texting and driving, you better not run me down, because I'll fucking own you. And if you kill me while you're texting, you really better watch out, as I have instructions for my relatives to go to any legal means to have you punished.

This is bullshit. And yeah, I know pedestrians can be assholes, but we're not the ones in the "tanks", and I stay the hell out of the way unless I'm in a crosswalk or other legal passage.






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I have an honest question. How many people here actually text and drive? (Original Post) BigDemVoter Dec 2016 OP
do not own a cellphone jodymarie aimee Dec 2016 #1
No cellphone no texting. My solution. eom guillaumeb Dec 2016 #2
I don't drive. Iggo Dec 2016 #3
I seldom even answer my cellphone while driving, too distracting. Hoyt Dec 2016 #4
I pull the car over - if I notice my cell phone ringing csziggy Dec 2016 #14
Had to put my ringtone to an old rotary phone sound, otherwise I just ignored it as all new gadgets Hoyt Dec 2016 #18
That's what I had on my old phone - the new one doesn't have that pre-loaded csziggy Dec 2016 #22
My cell ring tone is the ooog'm horn madokie Dec 2016 #26
that would be cool! csziggy Dec 2016 #30
My phone is an iphone 5 s madokie Dec 2016 #32
I just looked up how to create a ringtone for an Android csziggy Dec 2016 #36
Cellphone never out in car mainstreetonce Dec 2016 #5
That's the only reason I'll get one Warpy Dec 2016 #80
Same here. GoCubsGo Jan 2017 #108
Never stopbush Dec 2016 #6
I use a flip phone Siwsan Dec 2016 #7
What's texting? El Supremo Dec 2016 #8
hehehe BigDemVoter Dec 2016 #12
Sexting while driving is a whole 'nuther level. JustABozoOnThisBus Jan 2017 #104
I text or check mail at red lights. aikoaiko Dec 2016 #9
I'm having a train horn installed for people like you. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2016 #38
i'm pretty good at attending to the traffic flow when green lights switch on aikoaiko Dec 2016 #44
Me too. Except when I'm not. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2016 #74
I don't ever text and drive - even at stop lights - as I'm too busy reading the newspaper and playing Candy Crush. InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2016 #42
Winner! pangaia Dec 2016 #58
It's the crosswalks. -- That's where pedestrians usually get run down. immoderate Dec 2016 #10
Absolutely not. LisaM Dec 2016 #11
Let me say this: I had a friend killed by a drunk driver. Warren DeMontague Dec 2016 #13
No cell phone here. Shit I can't even run and chew gum at the same time. shraby Dec 2016 #15
I never text while driving True Dough Dec 2016 #16
We had better success with a mount that fits in the a/c vent. woodsprite Dec 2016 #47
Thanks for that tip. True Dough Dec 2016 #59
Just asked hubby. He got it at Brookstones in our mall. n/t woodsprite Dec 2016 #94
Guilty as hell. Sorry, I try to fight my urges Bucky Dec 2016 #17
i don't text orleans Dec 2016 #19
I do but not at the same time. Alekzander Dec 2016 #20
Me too Ever-Green Jan 2017 #105
She should & she is looking out for you. Happy New Year. Alekzander Jan 2017 #109
Well, she's breaking me of the habit slowly but surely. Ever-Green Jan 2017 #111
Thanks, take care & may 2017 bring good health to you & your family. Alekzander Jan 2017 #112
Maybe I'm a generation younger than most of this forum crazycatlady Dec 2016 #21
I don't text, but have an equally bad confession, even moonscape Dec 2016 #81
No. I've been on two genuinely scary rides... neeksgeek Dec 2016 #23
That was terrifying to read! BigDemVoter Dec 2016 #24
Never. Not.....ever. WillowTree Dec 2016 #25
Never! n/t RKP5637 Dec 2016 #27
No way LeftInTX Dec 2016 #28
My phone goes into a dock when I drive. Hong Kong Cavalier Dec 2016 #29
My car actually reads me the texts, pretty neat. dionysus Dec 2016 #99
Phone is synced to car, steering wheel has buttons for accepting/rejecting calls. politicat Dec 2016 #31
Never liquid diamond Dec 2016 #33
I do, but only in certain circumstances. I don't in stop-and-go/city traffic. RedWedge Dec 2016 #34
long stretches KT2000 Dec 2016 #63
I do RB TexLa Dec 2016 #35
I know someone killed KT2000 Dec 2016 #65
I know someone killed RB TexLa Dec 2016 #97
Please - KT2000 Jan 2017 #100
never... chillfactor Dec 2016 #37
I'll be honest; I've done it. Codeine Dec 2016 #39
Never. Once or twice I've gotten a text PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2016 #40
What is this "text" thing you speak of? hunter Dec 2016 #41
I have siri text for me once in awhile marlakay Dec 2016 #43
Are you within the law? HassleCat Dec 2016 #45
Yes.. we all have Jetson cars now and fly around nini Dec 2016 #49
I don't have a cell phone so I don't....but I sure see a lot of people who do. hollowdweller Dec 2016 #46
I never text and drive.. rarely even text ..However.... nini Dec 2016 #48
Never ever Generic Brad Dec 2016 #50
I don't. Ever. PatrickforO Dec 2016 #51
No smart phone here. Don't give my cell number to people--except family-- mnhtnbb Dec 2016 #52
Even driving and talking on a hands free cell phone is dangerous for some people. applegrove Dec 2016 #53
If you text and drive, you are a fucking moron. Full stop. flvegan Dec 2016 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author metroins Dec 2016 #55
You are going to die, or kill someone Drahthaardogs Dec 2016 #60
This message was self-deleted by its author metroins Dec 2016 #89
Do us all a favor flvegan Dec 2016 #62
This message was self-deleted by its author metroins Dec 2016 #90
Get a voice command program Liberty Belle Dec 2016 #68
This message was self-deleted by its author metroins Dec 2016 #91
your work is not more important KT2000 Dec 2016 #70
This message was self-deleted by its author metroins Dec 2016 #92
Wait, aren't you also in poor health and getting up there in years? LeftyMom Dec 2016 #75
This message was self-deleted by its author metroins Dec 2016 #93
Not me, don't drink and drive, talk and drive nor text and drive. Wiseman32218 Dec 2016 #56
Not me, but I've made speed-dial phone calls while driving and... Buckeye_Democrat Dec 2016 #57
Don't even text ailsagirl Dec 2016 #61
I live in Socal and people are getting very rude on top of texting flamingdem Dec 2016 #64
Years ago... Timer Dec 2016 #66
If it was a guy I would say it might have been me. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2016 #72
Not me. leftyladyfrommo Dec 2016 #67
I never text while driving. Liberty Belle Dec 2016 #69
I have, but not in many years. hughee99 Dec 2016 #71
I can't walk and text sarah FAILIN Dec 2016 #73
I don't drive, but I cannot stand it when I am in a car with a driver who texts. smirkymonkey Dec 2016 #76
don't know how. my cell phone DesertFlower Dec 2016 #77
Not me. I have a hard time when I'm NOT driving, lol. I hate screen touch keypads. catbyte Dec 2016 #78
Hell no. LeftyMom Dec 2016 #79
I didn't get to read the thread yet, montana_hazeleyes Dec 2016 #82
That scares me to death! BigDemVoter Dec 2016 #84
I've never texted, and I pull off to return a call, my only issue when driving is when I get a braddy Dec 2016 #83
Don't text. Ever. Only drive 30-40 miles per MONTH. Binkie The Clown Dec 2016 #85
I have a cell phone malaise Dec 2016 #86
No I do not. PearliePoo2 Dec 2016 #87
If traffic is totally stopped greymattermom Dec 2016 #88
I hate running over children and going to jail, so I do not HoneyBadger Dec 2016 #95
A whole helluva lot more than will admit to it. eom TransitJohn Dec 2016 #96
Never. moondust Dec 2016 #98
No car... yuiyoshida Jan 2017 #101
RW Assholes Jakes Progress Jan 2017 #102
Never Chipper Chat Jan 2017 #103
Never. In fact I rarely use my cell phone at all. Vinca Jan 2017 #106
I don't own a cell phone or a TV. ileus Jan 2017 #107
Never. Greybnk48 Jan 2017 #110

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
14. I pull the car over - if I notice my cell phone ringing
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:30 PM
Dec 2016

Often I don't notice it at all. My old non-smart phone was small enough to fit into my reading glasses case so any rings were muted and I usually didn't hear it.

The new smart phone has it's own case and I do hear it ringing sometimes but often don't realize it's my ring. I seldom give out that number so hardly anyone calls me on it and I forget what the ringtone is like since I've heard it maybe twice since I got that phone a month ago.

I only text when I am sitting still, in the car or at some stopping place - but I text less than I receive calls on the phone.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
18. Had to put my ringtone to an old rotary phone sound, otherwise I just ignored it as all new gadgets
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:42 PM
Dec 2016

beep for some reason and I am just oblivious.

If I tried to answer my phone while driving, I'd have to locate it under all the junk on the street; look at the number to see if I answer with my friendly voice, work voice, or leave me alone voice; then I have to find the button to answer the phone. By then, I would have run into the back of a truck or run over a bunch of school kids crossing the street. So I either don't answer, figuring they'll leave a message, or pull over like you.

As I get older, it's a lot easier to get distracted with the technology.

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
22. That's what I had on my old phone - the new one doesn't have that pre-loaded
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:46 PM
Dec 2016

I guess I could find one and upload to the phone. Or find the "24" control center ringtone - I always liked that one.

Another ringtone I considered would be a recording of someone saying my name. Then it would be unmistakable!

Someone I knew used to have Ozzy Osborne screaming for their ringtone. Scared the hell out of me the first time I heard it since I thought it was a person screaming in real life.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
26. My cell ring tone is the ooog'm horn
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:53 PM
Dec 2016

from the early ford model T's and A's

I keep my cell phone in my front pocket so I have to stop to get it out and by the time I do that whoever called has long ago hung up so I just take note of the call and if its someone I want to talk to I'll call them back when I get to my destination.

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
30. that would be cool!
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:58 PM
Dec 2016

I haven't investigated uploading ringtones. I don't know what the sampling rate should be, how long is recommended or what format should be used.

My cell phone has a pocket on the side of my purse and stays there with my extra reading glasses. That's why having the old one in the glasses case was perfect since I have to put them on to see the phone screen. If I am driving alone, the purse is on the passenger seat and I could reach it if I needed to. But if I have a passenger with me, it's is in the back seat and completely inaccessible while I am driving. That's OK with me since I have no intention of using it while I am behind the wheel and the car is in gear!

madokie

(51,076 posts)
32. My phone is an iphone 5 s
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:10 PM
Dec 2016

and it was one of the ring tones that came preloaded.

As a kid our family car was a 31 model A ford 4 door sedan and it had the ooog'm horn. We lived way out in the boonies so the model A ford didn't seem so out of place back in the early '50s
My dad told me when I was in High school that I could drive it to and from school but it embarrassed me to no end just to think about doing that so I never did. I'd like to have that old car today. It was so cool, as I look back on it now

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
36. I just looked up how to create a ringtone for an Android
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:24 PM
Dec 2016

Since mine is a cheap Tracfone (ZTE Citrine), that is what I have.

Making a ringtone for an Android is easy - basically it's a MP3. Now I can decide what I want - maybe something from Firesign Theatre ("Uh, Clem" comes to mind or maybe "Shoes for Industry, Shoes for the Dead!&quot or the beginning to In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida are my first thoughts, but there are millions of possibilities! I think this phone will let me assign ringtones to people so I can have one for my husband, another for my sister, etc.

Today a Model A would be so cool. But teenagers never appreciate the old cars.

For a while the car my sister had to drive to school as a teenager was an early 1950s Jaguar sedan my Dad got at an auction. Problem was the power steering and brakes never worked so my 100 pound sister had to wrestle the thing around corners and stand with both feet on the brake and pull herself up on the steering wheel to stop it. She was so happy when it finally quit completely - until she found out the replacement was our grandmother's old 1958 Buick sedan. I inherited the Buick when she went off to college - it was perfect for me. I could load two bales of hay and several bags of horse feed in the trunk and still have room to carry my saddles in the back seat.

Either of those cars would be a collectible these days!

Warpy

(111,140 posts)
80. That's the only reason I'll get one
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:15 AM
Dec 2016

to call for the hook if the car conks out or any other inconvenience requiring a phone call to sort out. Since cell phones came out, pay phones have completely disappeared, another way of pushing what used to be a public service onto our shoulders.

GoCubsGo

(32,074 posts)
108. Same here.
Sun Jan 1, 2017, 10:10 AM
Jan 2017

Except for when I bring it in to re-charge it, and forget to put it back in my purse. I have only given my number to three or four people since I got the thing, and I don't even turn it on unless I'm going to make a call. I feel sorry for people whose whole existences are wrapped up in their damn phones. Look up. There's a whole world around you that is far more interesting than what's on that stupid, tiny screen.

Siwsan

(26,249 posts)
7. I use a flip phone
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:24 PM
Dec 2016

And I have no clue about how to text. I stand before the world as an unabashed neo-luddite.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,321 posts)
104. Sexting while driving is a whole 'nuther level.
Sun Jan 1, 2017, 08:54 AM
Jan 2017

I can't do cirque-du-soleil type contortions, so I probably won't even try this.

aikoaiko

(34,162 posts)
44. i'm pretty good at attending to the traffic flow when green lights switch on
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:50 PM
Dec 2016

But yeah, sometimes I've noticed that all the cars across three lanes have drivers checking their phones at red lights.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,311 posts)
74. Me too. Except when I'm not.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:02 AM
Dec 2016

I usually give a few seconds and a friendly toot on the first incident. I recently had some lady I was stuck behind for several lights. On the third light I let her have it. She had the nerve to throw her hands up like "what?"

My company car is an expedition so I can usually see what's going on - hunched over, clacking away, 5-10 second delay, then peel out out of embarrassment when they get the horn.

Definitely getting an air horn

InAbLuEsTaTe

(24,121 posts)
42. I don't ever text and drive - even at stop lights - as I'm too busy reading the newspaper and playing Candy Crush.
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:50 PM
Dec 2016

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
13. Let me say this: I had a friend killed by a drunk driver.
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:28 PM
Dec 2016

In my book, texting and driving is just as bad. Statistics bear this out, too.

True Dough

(17,246 posts)
16. I never text while driving
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:40 PM
Dec 2016

and I'm too slow to type texts at red lights (kids these days can text faster than I can type on a regular keyboard, but I'm a one finger texter so it takes forever).

I do, however, sometimes use my phone as my GPS and prop it up in the cupholder (haven't bought one of those dashboard mounts yet, but I'm gonna). The voice commands usually work, but sometimes they don't. It leaves me taking the occasional glance downward, but I pick my spots carefully. No close calls to date.

woodsprite

(11,904 posts)
47. We had better success with a mount that fits in the a/c vent.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 12:24 AM
Dec 2016

It's got a rubbery grip and is held in by friction. My problem is my bifocals. Don't need them to drive, but need them to see the gps, and the darned focal length is different than if I'm performing music or reading.

We're heading home from visiting my in-laws in Florida, and passed some girl on I-95 through NC today going 70mph futzing with her cell phone as we passed her. We were passing because she kept slowing down and speeding up, drifting, etc. Called her plate into 911 as erratic, unsafe driving.

Bucky

(53,936 posts)
17. Guilty as hell. Sorry, I try to fight my urges
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:40 PM
Dec 2016

I know better, and I don't converse any more, but I have been known to google directions at stop lights and even look up traffic patterns under gridlock conditions to cut down on my travel time.

I know better, but I'm weak with impatience.

 

Alekzander

(479 posts)
109. She should & she is looking out for you. Happy New Year.
Sun Jan 1, 2017, 11:40 AM
Jan 2017

Another thing about those who do both at the same time. Known fact here; the first thing law enforcement & insurance companies look for anymore with accidents is your cell phone records (if needed) especially if there are people hurt & a law suit. The activity they get will show precisely what your cell was doing at the time of the accident. They will know if you were texting or talking on the phone.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
21. Maybe I'm a generation younger than most of this forum
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:44 PM
Dec 2016

but I have a 3 year old smartphone. I've never had a landline in my own name (last had one when I lived with my parents, but after I got my cell, I never used it and it was theirs). I will occasionally take a phone call when driving (basically only my boss or an emergency)

As far as texting and driving. I never do it. In 2000, I was rear-ended by a woman on her cell phone in an Expedition. She didn't see that the light was red and I have been against cell phone use while driving since.

I've also noticed that more people who text and drive use iPhones than Android phones. Maybe Apple should do a few PSAs about this.

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
81. I don't text, but have an equally bad confession, even
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:16 AM
Dec 2016

though it was about 40 years ago. I used to ... tough to admit ... try to read books while in rush hour traffic. Thought I was so clever - would hold the book/magazine along with the steering wheel, as if because it was right in front of me it'd be okay.

One day the inevitable happened, I rear-ended the car in front. Thankfully it was just a tap, no damage to either car, but that cured me. Felt like an idiot!

Even if I did text, I know I wouldn't do it while driving because now I pull over if I need to check something on my iPad.

neeksgeek

(1,214 posts)
23. No. I've been on two genuinely scary rides...
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:49 PM
Dec 2016

As a passenger, where I felt certain I was going to be in an accident (but wasn't, thankfully).

Once was when I caught a two-hour ride with a girlfriend's recently-licensed teenaged daughter, who was still figuring out the notion of "following distance." Yikes!

But that was nothing compared to riding with my manager once ten years ago, when texting was still pretty new, to pick up my car from the shop after work one day. He texted the entire fifteen minutes, was all over the road, and also talking to me while I held on tight. Yikes my ass, it was truly frightening! I never rode with him again.

Hong Kong Cavalier

(4,572 posts)
29. My phone goes into a dock when I drive.
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:55 PM
Dec 2016

Bluetooth in the car automatically fires up a car mode which blocks incoming texts from notifying me.

I don't text anyways, but even if I wanted to, I couldn't. I wish Bluetooth was more of a standard for cars now than it is.

politicat

(9,808 posts)
31. Phone is synced to car, steering wheel has buttons for accepting/rejecting calls.
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:02 PM
Dec 2016

Calls get rejected. It's that simple. The neuroscience is too clear -- brains on cellphones are way too busy to be also driving.

When I'm going someplace I don't know, phone is mounted to Driver's right vent, for GPS. (I'm good at navigating. But I live someplace that has issues with Can't Get There From Here because of ridge lines, and way too many in-filled sub-cities that change street names at the town border.)

I still don't answer texts.

The whole point of a text is that it's not supposed to be instant communication. It's supposed to be less intrusive on the recipient's time and attention than a phone call. Anyone who can't deal with that? That's someone who doesn't respect other people's time and attention anyway, and probably can't cope with boundaries or other people having independence. So likely to become a Not My Problem person real fast.

RedWedge

(618 posts)
34. I do, but only in certain circumstances. I don't in stop-and-go/city traffic.
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:14 PM
Dec 2016

Long stretches of interstate? Well....

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
63. long stretches
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 01:48 AM
Dec 2016

is where I have almost been hit by people crossing the centerline while texting. Think of it this way - if you were texting, hit and killed someone and it was your fault - would the message make it worth it?

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
65. I know someone killed
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 01:52 AM
Dec 2016

by someone texting. She left work and said - see you tomorrow - only she didn't. A young woman thought her text was more important that anyone else's life.
I am sick of people crossing the centerline while texting, only to correct after I have to drive on the shoulder and lay on the horn.

For every accident while texting, the message that was so important should be posted publicly.

Please stop driving and texting.

 

RB TexLa

(17,003 posts)
97. I know someone killed
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 09:21 PM
Dec 2016

by someone who was driving and didn't even own a cellphone.

Please stop driving.

chillfactor

(7,573 posts)
37. never...
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:27 PM
Dec 2016

I neither text nor talk on the phone when I am driving...it is insane to do so. Risking my life is one thing, but risking another's life is criminal.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
39. I'll be honest; I've done it.
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:33 PM
Dec 2016

I don't anymore, but I did it pretty regularly for a while about six or seven years ago without even thinking about it. After a while I realized how reckless I was being and pulled my head out of my ass.

Luckily my selfish stupidity didn't have any consequences.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,816 posts)
40. Never. Once or twice I've gotten a text
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:47 PM
Dec 2016

message I want to read, so I pull over to do so.

I think the main reason so many cars are so slow to move when a traffic light turns green is that they're texting.

hunter

(38,302 posts)
41. What is this "text" thing you speak of?
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 11:49 PM
Dec 2016

Nah, just messing with you.

For me, texts are not an ordinary form of communication. And if I happen to have my cell phone with me in the car it's probably turned off.

My kids make fun of me.

For all my love of technology, there are certain technologies that simply annoy me.

 

hollowdweller

(4,229 posts)
46. I don't have a cell phone so I don't....but I sure see a lot of people who do.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 12:04 AM
Dec 2016

If I look over and somebody is texting or talking on a cell phone beside me I try to get past them or slow down and get way behind them because they jerk around and weave like crazy.

nini

(16,672 posts)
48. I never text and drive.. rarely even text ..However....
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 12:33 AM
Dec 2016

I can't tell you how many times I almost hit a pedestrian who was texting because they' stepped off a curb against a red light or similar. The last few blocks of my commute is near a big transportation hub - buses trains etc.... The people strolling along go to that area are too engrossed with their phones to care if they have the right of way or not.

Personally I hate smart phones - people are too addicted to them. But that's another topic.

Generic Brad

(14,272 posts)
50. Never ever
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 12:41 AM
Dec 2016

It is on my list of things to never do whilst driving - like driving impaired or streaming Nickelback through my phone.

mnhtnbb

(31,373 posts)
52. No smart phone here. Don't give my cell number to people--except family--
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 12:43 AM
Dec 2016

or if necessary when traveling. I only occasionally text (too hard to type with old flip phone).

I don't initiate phone calls while driving. Have NEVER texted while driving. I have occasionally answered the phone
when driving, but usually let it go to voice mail and pull over to get the message and return the call.

I see so many people on phones--talking and texting--while driving. It's really dangerous.

applegrove

(118,492 posts)
53. Even driving and talking on a hands free cell phone is dangerous for some people.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 12:46 AM
Dec 2016

I can't drive well and listen to something important at the same time. Thank god I no longer drive.

flvegan

(64,405 posts)
54. If you text and drive, you are a fucking moron. Full stop.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 12:56 AM
Dec 2016

The people that do this are too fucking dumb to respond to this. There is no excuse, no reason. Nobody will own up to it. Because...fucking stupid dipshit moron tag hurts.

Response to BigDemVoter (Original post)

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
60. You are going to die, or kill someone
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 01:34 AM
Dec 2016

it is not a matter of if, it is a mater of when. You are distracted and eventually, the odds will catch up with you. Better for you if you die, if you kill someone else because of texting while driving, when they are done with putting you in jail and then suing you, death would be better.

Response to Drahthaardogs (Reply #60)

flvegan

(64,405 posts)
62. Do us all a favor
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 01:46 AM
Dec 2016

"I'm a bad driver in traffic" and you admit to texting and driving. Go away. Remove yourself from the pool of idiots beforehand. Thanks, shitwit!

Response to flvegan (Reply #62)

Liberty Belle

(9,533 posts)
68. Get a voice command program
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 02:13 AM
Dec 2016

where you dictate the text verbally.

Typing is very dangerous and one of these days you're liable to miss a hazard on the road and cause a crash that could cost a life. Your work is not worth that.

Response to Liberty Belle (Reply #68)

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
70. your work is not more important
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 02:27 AM
Dec 2016

than someone's life. It really could happen to you - that you will kill someone. It happens all the time - crossing the centerline and hitting someone head-on. I'm sure you've had the experience when you know you should look up but continue to finish the text instead.
You think you are aware of everything around you but in fact you are not - your attention is on the text and your other senses are muted.
You don't get to choose who you may hit - but they and their loved ones will be with you for the rest of your life.
Don't do it.

Response to KT2000 (Reply #70)

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
75. Wait, aren't you also in poor health and getting up there in years?
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:04 AM
Dec 2016

You're going to kill somebody. Maybe just yourself, but I wouldn't count on it.

Response to LeftyMom (Reply #75)

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,852 posts)
57. Not me, but I've made speed-dial phone calls while driving and...
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 01:06 AM
Dec 2016

I needed to look at the phone briefly to do it.

If traffic is even slightly congested and moving, I won't even do that.

No calls just to chit-chat either!

flamingdem

(39,308 posts)
64. I live in Socal and people are getting very rude on top of texting
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 01:50 AM
Dec 2016

They know perfectly well to let a pedestrian cross in the crosswalk but millenials I notice especially female like to pretend they don't see you. They just can't get it through their heads what polite means because they want so badly to get back to their texting. At least I've stopped yelling at them.

Timer

(71 posts)
66. Years ago...
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 01:58 AM
Dec 2016

I passed a driver who was reading the newspaper as she drove. Turning pages, looking up to check traffic, back down to read the paper, all while she was driving. That was scary.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,311 posts)
72. If it was a guy I would say it might have been me.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 02:56 AM
Dec 2016

I would have been reading the paper or slumped over sleeping against the glass.

But my buddy was scrunched down actually steering the car.

Come to think of it, he was the same buddy we "hung" from a tree on Ogden avenue near the road in the forest preserve. Cops caught us on that one.

We got a stern talking to - supposedly we made some elderly lady really upset.

Liberty Belle

(9,533 posts)
69. I never text while driving.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 02:16 AM
Dec 2016

I recently got a car with phone that works through the dash, so I can answer calls etc. hands free.

I don't text much (bad eyesight) but if I must text, such as to let someone know I'm stuck in trafffic and late, I'll pull off the road to do so.

As a news editor I've reported on way to many sad stories about people killed while texting and driving, or worse, they killed or injured some innocent person.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
71. I have, but not in many years.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 02:40 AM
Dec 2016

I didn't really think about the dangers when I was younger, but when I started hearing about accidents related to texting, I stopped. That was probably about 10 years ago or more.

sarah FAILIN

(2,857 posts)
73. I can't walk and text
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 02:58 AM
Dec 2016

Driving and texting will not happen but I have checked a message while sitting stopped at a light. Just as illegal, but I'm a super fast reader.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
76. I don't drive, but I cannot stand it when I am in a car with a driver who texts.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:08 AM
Dec 2016

Like my sister and my mother. Fortunately I only see them on holidays so I am rarely exposed to their stupidity. I only feel comfortable in the car with my father who has wisely never taken to texting.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
77. don't know how. my cell phone
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:09 AM
Dec 2016

is a flip top. it's for emergencies, i.e., flat tire, etc. when i'm home it's turned off.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
79. Hell no.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:12 AM
Dec 2016

I just told a relative that I won't ride in her car or let my son do so because she won't put her phone down and drive. I hope she gets a hefty ticket but honestly I don't think that will stop her, either.

montana_hazeleyes

(3,424 posts)
82. I didn't get to read the thread yet,
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:35 AM
Dec 2016

but my answer is no I don't text and drive. It is illegal here, but I still I still wouldn't anyway.

There is a good documentary I saw on Netflix called " From One Second To The Next" that is truly heartbreaking and eye opening. Victims as well as persons who caused tragedies tell their stories of how accidents quickly destroyed and changed lived forever because of texting while driving.

BigDemVoter

(4,149 posts)
84. That scares me to death!
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 04:05 AM
Dec 2016

I only drive but rarely, as I don't have a car. But when I am behind the wheel, I always try to keep in mind that I have a several ton vehicle under my control, and as you said, 'from one second to the next' is really all it takes.

 

braddy

(3,585 posts)
83. I've never texted, and I pull off to return a call, my only issue when driving is when I get a
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 03:52 AM
Dec 2016

voicemail and I need to see if it needs to be quickly responded to.

On my cheap phone, I can't see the screen in daylight, and I can't hear my voicemail with the car noise.

greymattermom

(5,751 posts)
88. If traffic is totally stopped
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 06:13 AM
Dec 2016

on the perimeter or I75, I look at my texts. I don't text back. If something is important, I call using my car bluetooth. Texting while driving implies that the car is moving to me, but I don't actually know that for sure. Sometimes the car seems to be legally parked.

moondust

(19,958 posts)
98. Never.
Sat Dec 31, 2016, 09:30 PM
Dec 2016

Gadget Zombies are my pet peeve--mainly those endangering the public while driving but also those in public spaces unaware of what is going on around them and expecting everybody else to stay out of their way.

Jakes Progress

(11,122 posts)
102. RW Assholes
Sun Jan 1, 2017, 08:05 AM
Jan 2017

That's who text while driving. Or read texts.

Selfish idiots who have no concept of the term "others", little imagination, fungible morals.

I haven't read any of the replies so don't know whom I might be impugning. Sorry, but if you are so self-important that you think your idle curiosity is more important than other people's lives, you are just an asshole.

Vinca

(50,236 posts)
106. Never. In fact I rarely use my cell phone at all.
Sun Jan 1, 2017, 09:21 AM
Jan 2017

I have had several near collisions with cars driven by people too involved in conversations to pay attention to things like stop signs.

Greybnk48

(10,162 posts)
110. Never.
Sun Jan 1, 2017, 11:45 AM
Jan 2017

I'll answer calls and talk on speaker, but I am such a klutz I have to pull over to dial/speed dial someone if I need to talk to them.

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