Dad died in his sleep last nite, hugging his pillow...Korean war vet helicopter medic crew mechanic.

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Retired diesel mechanic (union steward who helped many),,,general pain in the ass I loved who made me tough enough to be a firefighter-paramedic and who will continue to fight for what's right for workers in america ...RIP George, you deserve it

I should have added at home, in his comfy bed, right by where my mom died...

[spanone]

1. so sorry....

[we can do it]

14. Thank you - I love DU

[jwirr]

2. So sorry.

[we can do it]

9. Thank you, he was a good guy who did a lot for others. I will miss him

gotta go somethings in my eye

[irisblue]

3. I am so sorry for your loss

[we can do it]

21. Thanks, lots of tears here...My mom was the strong dem who I am sure he's missed

she always told me to work for what's right and I promised her I would.....been trying to fill her shoes since 2004- three days before b88sch stole that election

[elleng]

4. Rest in Peace.

[we can do it]

31. thank you

[Old and In the Way]

5. Sorry to hear...best wishes to you and your family. nt

[we can do it]

33. Thanks, a good guy deserves a peaceful exit

[teddy51]

6. Never easy! I'm sorry for your loss.

[we can do it]

37. Thank you, when I go I hope its like this

he's been out with friends, family, grandkids were home this week helping his garden - everyone visited for fathers day (NOT DURING the RACE - just kidding, he was a NASCAR fan)

[renate]

152. what a wonderful exit

That's exactly the way I would want to go, busy and happy and surrounded to the last with friends and loved ones. Still, such a sad and sudden loss for you... I'm sorry.

[DearAbby]

7. RIP

[gademocrat7]

8. Condolences to you and your family.

[SoutherDem]

10. I am very sorry

George Rest In Peace

[Stinky The Clown]

11. For your Dad

My thoughts and condolences.

[we can do it]

63. Thanks, keep up the good fight...I read your comments to him a lot

[snacker]

12. I'm sorry for your loss.

May he rest in peace.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

13. Safe passage to your Dad.....may he rest in peace...n/t

[we can do it]

26. I only wish such a peaceful exit to all the kind souls here

[roody]

15. condolences

[JohnnyLib2]

16. Rest in peace.

[Beacool]

17. I'm sorry for your loss.

My condolences to you and your family.

[truthN08]

18. Sorry

I am so very sorry for your loss

[Pool Hall Ace]

19. hugs for you at this time

RIP George

[Tsiyu]

20. My Condolences to you on the loss of your Dad

I hope you find peace and support in the days to come.

[we can do it]

76. thanks to all for both

[Tsiyu]

94. ((((((we can do it))))))

[Auntie Bush]

22. I'm so sorry. May he rest in peace.

[intheozone]

23. So sorry for your loss. May your memories of him

bring you much comfort.

[villager]

24. condolences to you and your family, we can do it

May the memories left behind be good ones...

[we can do it]

25. Thanks to all - we have to protect our elderly, vets and all...

...that's what it comes down to - NO ONE will help us if we don't help ourselves...

[gateley]

27. And he'll know you're carrying on the good fight.

I'm so sorry for you. I know it hurts.

[we can do it]

38. It does, but knowing he did not suffer helps imensely

[Odin2005]

28. I'm so sorry!

[PAMod]

29. Condolences to you and your family -

RIP George, and thanks for your service...

[roguevalley]

30. I am so sorry. I wish you peace and good memories. That generation is wonderful.

[pacalo]

32. RIP, Mr. George...

And thanks for your service to the country & to your fellow man.



My condolences to you & your family, wcdi ...

[sandyshoes17]

34. Condolences to you and you family

[WillyT]

35. (((((((we can do it)))))))

My old man was in Korea too.

[we can do it]

58. It would be cool if they had bumped into each other

but anyway, thanks to your dad , too......they didn't get the thanks they deserved

[graywarrior]

36. Safe passage, George.

[we can do it]

78. peace and thank you!

[nadinbrzezinski]

39. my sincere condolences to you and your family

[we can do it]

67. and thanks to you for all you do.

[TeeYiYi]

40. (((((((we can do it)))))))

So sorry for your loss.

TYY

[polly7]

41. I'm so sorry.

Your Dad sounds like he was a great man. Peace and strength to you and yours.

[we can do it]

64. At least a very good one! I liked him even though I think he tried to drive me crazy..........

...ok maybe he succeded

[Tikki]

42. Hugs to you and family...

So sorry for your loss. He truly was an amazing man.


The Tikkis

[we can do it]

57. Thanks so much, amazing, yet very down to earth....

and someone who I think never got over the loss of my mom (I haven't either)

[AnnieBW]

43. Sorry for your loss.

My dad is also a Korean War vet. He's never asked anything from the VA before, but now Mom is going to call in his debt. Dad has Alzheimer's, and she's trying to get him into the VA home.

Dad never talked about what he did in Korea. I was under the impression that he didn't see much action because of his allergies. But, he apparently did. While I'm glad to see all of the love for the WWII vets, I'd really like to see more respect for their little brothers that fought in Korea.

[Laura PourMeADrink]

51. excellent point...no one ever honors Korean vets, you are right. My dad is in the

same boat - Alzheimers. Kind of got excited this week when they came out with the.."is it NPH or Alzheimer's." Probably
a shot in the dark, but if he really had NPH instead, it would be the happiest day in my life.
http://www.lifenph.com/

[AnnieBW]

54. In My Dad's Case, it's Dementia

His mother had it and his older sister had it. He doesn't have incontinence as much as he can't get up fast enough to get to the bathroom. But, since his "crash" at the end of April, he's been in a wheelchair.

But, thanks for the info. I hope things work out with your dad with it.

[Laura PourMeADrink]

60. yes...no incontinence with my dad either. guess I am just grasping at straws. It sucks

anyway you look at it. I would give anything to just be able to talk to him and
hear his comment. He can't even follow the love of his life...the Yankees.

[we can do it]

65. Peace and comfort to you and your dad.

[we can do it]

56. Me too, my partner just lost her dad in April (cancer EVERYwhere)

he signed up just at the end of Korea.......dad was at the truce(?) flying the generals, i think, he was just over with some pictures he probably shouldn't have taken of where the peace talks took place....
....and they had a disney artist design a logo for their heliccopter - a squirrel with a spinning tail

[nadinbrzezinski]

84. Annie, if I may

my dad went through the holocaust... and only in the last years of his life, did he ever opened up to me as to what he had to do to feed his family as a very young man, he had no childhood, and to fight the Germans. The only reason he opened up to me and my husband is that we both have seen combat.

There are things people who have seen combat know others will really not get... and quite frankly as my dad put it, "your two brothers and sister will not get it."

So cherish your dad... I know with the Alzheimers he won't be able to tell you much now... but at times, it is best.

Hugs... by the way... cherish the moments you will have with him, especially those where he will be more here.

[demosincebirth]

44. A real Human being, I would say. God bless him and your family. May he RIP.

[we can do it]

71. thank you! my best buddy and I always laugh because her mom and my dad

always call us and ask if its raining (or whatever) - and we all live near by.....now it will suck because it will just rain and no one wil call

[Rosa Luxemburg]

45. I am sorry to hear of your sad news

We will carry on the fight!

[seabeyond]

46. .

[we can do it]

66. Thanks

[MarianJack]

47. may your dad rest in peace and...

...please accept my best wishes for you and your family.

As a good union man, he made a big and positive difference in the lives of many people after serving his country honorably. In my book, that's a hero!

Here's one of my favorite songs about dads!

PEACE!

[we can do it]

62. Wow thanks, my dad and mom went to see Chet Atkins at least once I can remember.

he knows he left behind someone as stubborn and willing to help others as he was....this I am sure of

[Laura PourMeADrink]

48. I am sorry...Thank you and George for keeping up the fight for what's

right. Here's to you George !

[we can do it]

69. We did toast a few margarita's for him this evening...

a couple vets, a couple friends and a few hard working low wage folks.

[Laura PourMeADrink]

75. wow...feel like crying. only good thoughts going up to you. nt

[uppityperson]

49. I am so sorry

[joshcryer]

50. Sorry to hear that. Best wishes.

[cordelia]

52. Condolences to all who knew and loved him.

[Woody Woodpecker]

53. May his memory be for a blessing

And we lose yet another hero to you.

God bless you and your family.

WW

[we can do it]

72. thanks and he absolutly LOVED Woody Woodpecker btw

[RainDog]

55. hugs and condolences

[goclark]

59. May he rest in Peace

So sorry to hear of his passing.

[Greybnk48]

61. RIP George n/t

[we can do it]

74. thank you!

[emilyg]

68. Condolences.

[era veteran]

70. RIP

We are sorry for your loss.

[Lifelong Protester]

73. I am so sorry for your loss

my Dad is gone too, a Korean War vet, a union carpenter. He made sure I was a fighter, too, his eldest daughter.

[we can do it]

113. thanks

I'm the oldest daughter, too....got to go plan out the funeral

[Bozita]

77. Sincere condolences to you, your family , and George's many friends

[Frustratedlady]

79. My sympathy to the family and friends.

May he rest in peace.

[turtlerescue1]

80. No matter their age, the Good always leave us too early.

Heroes never look they are heroes. Korea never got the honor the guys deserved.

Sounds like he raised you right, and good. Driving you nuts was part of what it took.

Its too new yet, hope the time soon arrives that you look back in love and laughter and wrapped in warmth.

[PoliticAverse]

81. Sorry for your loss may he rest in peace. n/t

[BeeBee]

82. My condolences, so sorry for your loss.

[ProgressoDem]

83. Rest in peace.

He sounds like a great man.

[MannyGoldstein]

85. So sorry for your loss. So many hearts are with you.

From your post, it seems like you and your dad had a close relationship, that's a wonderful thing.

Peace to all.

[we can do it]

114. We did. We enjoyed driving each other crazy.

[slor]

86. Thank you for sharing...

your grief with us, and my deepest sympathies to you and yours.

[Smilo]

87. While I offer you my sincere condolences.........

I hope that in the days to come you find you smile, more than cry. at the memories your Dad has left with you. From the way you write - your Mum and Dad did a great job with you - and if you feel his and your mum's presence - know they are there still cheering you on.

A big hug to you and yours.

[we can do it]

165. (Well just a few more tears...)

[LiberalLoner]

88. im so sorry for your loss

[progressoid]

89. ...

[Lugnut]

90. I'm so sorry.

May he rest in peace and may you find peace in his gentle passing.

[MADem]

92. We all want to live forever. If one has to go, though, that's a good a way as any.

In one's home, surrounded by the things and people that one loves, in a nice snug bed full of memories.

It's harder on you, of course. I'm guessing you have some wonderful memories that will help during this tough period. My sincere condolences.

[we can do it]

159. thanks

[Iwillnevergiveup]

93. Even though it's part of the cycle of life

it is so very hard to lose a parent. This 4th of July will mark one year since my 90 year-old mom died at home in hospice with dementia. My dad just celebrated his 91st birthday a couple of weeks ago, and we did everything we could think of to make it a grand celebration. Still, I know he was missing her.

Yours sounds like a very caring family, and that your dad passed away in his sleep at home is a testament to that. Sounds to me like he was already at peace.

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved father.

[Bryn]

95. My Condolences

[area51]

96. I'm so sorry.

[Raine]

97. I'm so sorry, much sympathy to you

and all who loved him.

[shireen]

98. my deepest condolences to you

Your dad sounds like a remarkable person i would have liked to have met.

[Rhiannon12866]

99. I am so sorry...

Reading your post makes me ache inside. I lost my Dad in 1990, way too soon, and I still miss him every single day. And I just lost my mother last fall after she fell down the stairs when the lights went out during Hurricane Irene. I keep telling myself that they're together again, not sure if I really believe it, but I really want to. I understand and my heart breaks for you. It's a real blow, whenever it happens and no matter what age you are. Just know that DU is here for you and wishing you strength and hope... Your Dad sounds like a courageous and remarkable man and must have been so proud of you.

[we can do it]

167. They never die if we keep them alive in our hearts

peace to you and thanks

[trusty elf]

100. My condolences to you and your family....

[IMG][/IMG]

[handmade34]

101. ((condolences))

for you

...just spent last weekend with my dad (WWII vet) and know every minute is precious

[joeybee12]

102. Very sorry to hear this...I'm sure he's at peace

[malaise]

103. Deepest sympathy to you

and your family

[leftynyc]

104. I'm so sorry for your loss

I lost my dad on May 5 and know how long it takes for it to even feel real. I wish comfort for your heart and the hearts of those he loved and who loved him.

[we can do it]

117. peace to you, too

[Festivito]

105. Well done -- to both of you. /nt

[raouldukelives]

106. So very sorry. RIP George.

[snappyturtle]

107. Deepest sympathy to you and your family.

[pintobean]

108. My Condolences

He sounds like my kind of guy. May all of your memories of him be happy ones.

[nradisic]

109. sorry for your loss

at least he went peacefully

[we can do it]

116. thanks, it's something most of us hope for if we take time to think about it

[lillypaddle]

110. So sorry for your loss

It's very hard to lose a parent.

[Bossy Monkey]

111. Sounds like a great one. All condolences to you and to all who loved him n/t

[The Jungle 1]

112. sorry

I like the general pain in the ass part.
My Dad to and my Mom too. That pain is what makes who we are. Learning how to accept it is mystery.

Dad was 82 Airborne, WWII and also tough as nails.

I was holding Dad's hand when he passed. Man that was hard.

[we can do it]

115. I'm sure it was hard, but I'm also sure it helped you both.

My dad's legs were pretty bad, but he kept hobbling around everywhere, every day........I know he wouldn't have wanted to be in the hospital for any reason.

[SalmonChantedEvening]

118. My condolences, we can do it.

May his spirit be at peace, and may your heart holds his love always. <3

[Oilwellian]

119. I'm so very sorry

My father's a Korean vet as well...just turned 87, and I treasure every moment I can spend with him.

[juajen]

120. I am so very sorry.

[WilliamPitt]

121. (((hug)))

[Irishonly]

122. I am so sorry for your loss

[AlecBGreen]

123. RIP

[A-Long-Little-Doggie]

124. I am so sorry for your loss.

[yardwork]

125. I'm very sorry for your loss. Your father sounds like a wonderful person.

[MineralMan]

126. My thoughts are with you.

[closeupready]

127. Condolences to you, we can do it.

[Stargazer09]

128. I'm so sorry

Sending you hugs.

[joanbarnes]

129. May he rest in peace and may you cherish your memories.

[auntAgonist]

130. I'm so sorry for your loss!

Please know that there are many here who care and will continue to care. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.



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If and when you need us we are here --> http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1234

[we can do it]

158. Thanks so much, and thanks for the bereavement reminder

[JNelson6563]

131. My heartfelt condolences to you friend.

Hugs and encouragement.

Julie

[YellowRubberDuckie]

132. So sorry.

My husband's dad was a firefighter chief (or whatever you call it) on a Navy ship during Viet Nam. He has some serious PTSD. I understand the difficulties. Sounds like your dad was one of the good ones. So sorry. May you find peace and comfort. His poor mind will not torture him anymore, and he's probably holding your mom right now having a good laugh.

[redwitch]

133. I am sorry for your loss.

Glad your parents raised you right.

[we can do it]

162. thank you (I'm glad they did, too)

[barbtries]

134. ah, i'm so sorry.

sounds like a great guy.

[sueh]

135. I'm so sorry. May your good memories carry you through.(((hugs)))

[Ishoutandscream2]

136. Lost my momma three weeks ago yesterday

Peace be with you and your family.

[livetohike]

137. My sympathy to you and your family and everyone who loved your Dad

May all the good memories you have of his life fill your heart and bring you comfort.

[lunatica]

138. My mom died in her bed too

We were very lucky to have home hospice care. Her last months were quiet and pain free and stress free.

[we can do it]

168. thanks, sorry to hear about your mom as well

[LoisB]

139. So very sorry.

Much respect due him for his service; military and labor.

[NEOhiodemocrat]

140. So sorry for your loss

I hope you get peace from knowing his death was a peaceful one and that he got to enjoy his family and gardening up to the end. He sounds like a wonderful man, I am sure your family's memories of him will have him live on in your hearts.

[we can do it]

163. Thanks - we are from NEOh, too!

[davidwparker]

141. RIP n/t

[MissDeeds]

142. So very sorry for your loss, we can do it

You are in my thoughts.

MissDeeds

[we can do it]

160. .

[shanti]

143. my sympathies on your loss

it's tough losing your dad....i lost my own dad, also a korean war vet, in 2009. he was 80.

[we can do it]

166. I do hope your memories are comforting

[donnasgirl]

144. My friend i would be proud

we can do it to call you a friend,my father also was a Korean vet who i lost a few years ago.
I know how you feel right now it is a feeling no words can describe,and the loss will never go away but will become easier in time.I would like it and be proud if you would become a friend and as somebody else stated i can truly say from the bottom of my heart i love each and everyone one who posts here.GOP Excluded

[babylonsister]

145. My very sincere condolences, we can do it...

I'm sure he went knowing he was loved.

[blaze]

146. You loved each other... what a gift!

Your folks did good.

My Dad died two years ago (at 89, bless his loving heart) and Mom, at 86, is working hard to retain her independence.

My condolences... but my smiles and hugs in recognition of a life well lived.

[we can do it]

164. and mine to you- take care of mom!

[senseandsensibility]

147. I am so sorry for your loss.

It will be very hard for you to bear, but he died at home in his comfy bed as many of us would wish to do. It sounds like he had a great life and was a wonderful man. You must be so proud of him.

[GoCubsGo]

148. I am so sorry.

I'm sure he is with your mom now.

[CottonBear]

149. I am so very sorry.

[bluesbassman]

150. Sorry for your loss.

Safe passage and RIP George.

[OhioChick]

151. My condolences

[japple]

153. Bless him and peace to you and your family. May we be half

as good as this man.

[glinda]

154. Very sorry.

[mazzarro]

155. Sorry about that

My sincerest condolence to you and the family. How old was he? We all join in wishing for a peaceful repose of his soul. Be strong and take heart that he passed peacefully in his sleep.

[we can do it]

157. thanks, he was 80

[Liberal_in_LA]

156. sorry

[we can do it]

161. To Everyone Who Replied - Thank You So Much For Caring

I've been trying to keep up with responses, but haven't been able to thank each one individually .
Thank you all for helping me with this very difficult day, I love you all - WCDI

[fizzgig]

169. it's good that he was at home

i am so sorry for your loss, he sounds like a good man.

[freshwest]

170. Thanks for being the person he helped you be.

[we can do it]

171. OK now I'm crying again, thanks so much

[freshwest]

172. What you are doing in life is a fine testimony to his. Let it out, you are good. He's proud of you.

You are his eyes, his hands, his heart. He's not gone when you remember that. He lives in your best memories of him, not the grief you have now. The tears are the shock and in a way, he will never leave you until you are ready. That's my experience.