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yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:04 PM Feb 2017

I am deeply touched but the gift of a heart and here is why

Yesterday I received very bad news that a very close friend of mine from high school lost his battle with cancer and died. I didn't get the job I NEED desperately and I was so depressed on top of already being depressed over our nation. I was drinking and having a horrible day just trying to forget everything. When I got a notice of a heart and I just started balling and it released me from my funk. The timing honestly could never have been better. God only knows what the results would have been if I stayed drinking and feeling like crap.

I sincerely thank both heart donors. If you ever wonder if it will change a day or more, I promise you it does.

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I am deeply touched but the gift of a heart and here is why (Original Post) yeoman6987 Feb 2017 OP
I'm sorry you lost an old friend and you didn't get that job. I look forward to this week at DU. In_The_Wind Feb 2017 #1
Thank you so much yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #2
I have way too much time on my hands. DU helps me to remain sane. In_The_Wind Feb 2017 #5
I so agree. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #7
This is so great to hear such a personal story. PearliePoo2 Feb 2017 #3
Thank you. It gave me a lift that's for sure. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #4
I am sorry. I hope there is comfort and solace for you in the coming days etherealtruth Feb 2017 #6
Thank you for the kind words yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #8
Enjoy the hearts etherealtruth Feb 2017 #9
You are so super and appreciated. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #28
Dear yeoman6987, horseshoecrab Feb 2017 #10
so very sorry for the loss of your brothers. niyad Feb 2017 #12
Thank you niyad horseshoecrab Feb 2017 #15
Hugs for sure. We are in this sometimes brutal world together. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #18
Brutal world sounds accurate horseshoecrab Feb 2017 #34
I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend, and not getting the job. Nothing can make niyad Feb 2017 #11
It sure is. I don't know what I'd do without this wonderful site and great people. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #20
I think it is kindness and caring that allow us to get through hard times like this. It is so easy Amaryllis Feb 2017 #13
You're making my screen blurry. So wonder a post. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #29
Very warm message. NCTraveler Feb 2017 #14
I am feeling it today. I never should have turned to alcohol that's for sure. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #21
Thanks for sharing. hamsterjill Feb 2017 #16
You du'ers are awesome! So kind. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #22
Hang in there . . . We need liberal thinkers because we are going to take back our county! Liberal In Red State Feb 2017 #17
I'm ready to fight for this country along with you exceptional people. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #23
Thank you for sharing... ProudProgressiveNow Feb 2017 #19
My pleasure. You guys are treasures I am so lucky to have in my life. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #25
I'm so sorry TuxedoKat Feb 2017 #24
Thank you. I just have to remember that the sun will rise and the shock wears off yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #26
GREAT post, and at least a bit of a happy ending. calimary Feb 2017 #27
Thank you. I most certainly am grateful to DUer friends. yeoman6987 Feb 2017 #30
Thank you! StarryNite Feb 2017 #31
I have no hearts to give but here's a k&r qanda Feb 2017 #32
Hang tough, I've been at rock-bottom a couple times... VOX Feb 2017 #33
Oh, yeoman6987! I am so sorry for your troubles and so glad for your heart (AND the fact Squinch Feb 2017 #35
We are one. Hang in there! mfcorey1 Feb 2017 #36
here CatWoman Feb 2017 #37
So sorry you lost your friend and didn't get the job. emmadoggy Feb 2017 #38
a heart for you too my sweet Skittles Feb 2017 #40
Oh my. emmadoggy Feb 2017 #41
and another Skittles Feb 2017 #39

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
1. I'm sorry you lost an old friend and you didn't get that job. I look forward to this week at DU.
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:08 PM
Feb 2017
I hope things in your life take a turn for the better.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
5. I have way too much time on my hands. DU helps me to remain sane.
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:15 PM
Feb 2017

One or two special friends to lend an ear when no one else seems to care helps a lot.

PearliePoo2

(7,768 posts)
3. This is so great to hear such a personal story.
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:12 PM
Feb 2017

It's amazing how a simple act can have such a profound effect.
I sincerely wish you well.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
8. Thank you for the kind words
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:18 PM
Feb 2017

Tomorrow night is the viewing so a chance to say a final goodbye and I will get off my butt and begin putting even more job applications out.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
9. Enjoy the hearts
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:22 PM
Feb 2017

I will have you know (for what its worth) I purchased hearts so I could give you some more.

Sometimes we all need a little extra love!

horseshoecrab

(944 posts)
10. Dear yeoman6987,
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:32 PM
Feb 2017

I can relate and am so sorry that you've lost your friend.

I lost my brother to cancer on Tuesday and have been depressed. My other brother died of cancer in November.

Today I found a heart had been given to me. Whoever gifted me can't possibly know how much it means! Thank you to my donor. I so appreciate the kindness.

Hang in there yeoman6987. Better days must surely lie ahead of us.

horseshoecrab

(944 posts)
34. Brutal world sounds accurate
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 05:26 PM
Feb 2017

But things will improve, I am sure of it.

My brothers were true blue dems all the way and I will miss them.

Hugs for sure, you're right! We must all stick together as dems to fight the menace we face.

I hope you'll have an abundance of new job offers in the very near future!

niyad

(113,259 posts)
11. I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend, and not getting the job. Nothing can make
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:32 PM
Feb 2017

up for the loss of a friend, but here is hoping a truly wonderful job will be yours very soon.

DU is the best--has helped keep what is left of my sanity since the bush nightmare.

Amaryllis

(9,524 posts)
13. I think it is kindness and caring that allow us to get through hard times like this. It is so easy
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:33 PM
Feb 2017

to fall into despair when times are tough, but just a small kindness can be transformative. This is where our power lies. We can't control the bigger picture, but look what a difference those hearts made for you, and then you shared your story and uplifted all of us, and reminded us how important it is to focus on what we can do to uplift others. I find that is the best way for me to get out of my funk when it seems hopeless. So my thanks as well to whoever gave you those hearts, and thank you for sharing your story.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
14. Very warm message.
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:34 PM
Feb 2017

This is only because I care. Drinking doesn't suppress emotions. When one states that, there is a bigger problem. Take care. We need you.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
16. Thanks for sharing.
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 03:43 PM
Feb 2017

I am happy to learn that a simple act had such a profound effect. DU'ers are wonderful people!

I am thankful for the fellow DU'ers who have bestowed hearts on me, too. It put a smile on my face and reminded me that there are nice people left in this world, that we all need and support one another, and that we can do anything if we just stick together!

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
24. I'm so sorry
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 04:26 PM
Feb 2017

for the loss of your dear friend and the job situation. I'm glad the hearts cheered you up. They are very uplifting indeed. What kind of work are you looking for?

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
26. Thank you. I just have to remember that the sun will rise and the shock wears off
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 04:28 PM
Feb 2017

I think that it was a snowball that threw me off course.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
27. GREAT post, and at least a bit of a happy ending.
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 04:29 PM
Feb 2017

I hope another offer comes - preferably as many offers as you now have hearts!

StarryNite

(9,443 posts)
31. Thank you!
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 04:49 PM
Feb 2017

Thank you for sharing your bittersweet story. Somebody brightened my day by giving me a heart and although my day wasn't nearly as bad as yours was, it still wasn't a good day for me and receiving the heart made me feel better. I just hope all the 'heart donors' know they are making a difference. A big THANK YOU to all of the donors!

VOX

(22,976 posts)
33. Hang tough, I've been at rock-bottom a couple times...
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 05:05 PM
Feb 2017

And know how hard it is to claw oneself up out of a deep hole. You can only go upward from this point forward. Things will break well for you soon.

Cheers--

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
35. Oh, yeoman6987! I am so sorry for your troubles and so glad for your heart (AND the fact
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 05:33 PM
Feb 2017

that you got a bunch of those DU hearts.)

emmadoggy

(2,142 posts)
38. So sorry you lost your friend and didn't get the job.
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 05:55 PM
Feb 2017

It never fails that bad things come in bundles. I'm so glad that the hearts helped a little.

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