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JPPaverage

(508 posts)
Sat May 6, 2017, 07:03 PM May 2017

Something that will (hopefully) make you smile

My dad is in a nursing home, can't walk, and is suffering from dementia and likely early stages of Alzheimer's. Earlier today, my eight year old daughter and I went to visit him and the kid said something amazing, completely unprompted. "Grandpa, I am never going to give up because I know you never give up." Then she gave him a great big ol' hug. I haven't seen my dad with a great big smile like that for a long time. See, this kid is a very loving and gentle young lady and I am bursting with pride. Thank you for indulging me.

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Something that will (hopefully) make you smile (Original Post) JPPaverage May 2017 OP
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2017 #1
Bless them both and you for raising such a great kid..n/t monmouth4 May 2017 #2
😎❤️👍🏼 spanone May 2017 #3
Sounds like you're doing a great job with your kid PJMcK May 2017 #4
Well, you made me smile! Control-Z May 2017 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author MFM008 May 2017 #6
. Squinch May 2017 #7
A moment to treasure forever. yellerpup May 2017 #8
Made me smile proud patriot May 2017 #9
THanks for sharing. Happy and heartwarming posts always welcome! Amaryllis May 2017 #10
NICE! calimary May 2017 #11
Awww... That's so sweet Mountain Mule May 2017 #12
+ Agree iluvtennis May 2017 #14
Tell that sweet daughter of yours that this old coot thinks she's wonderful! Stinky The Clown May 2017 #13
- Bigredhunk May 2017 #15
That is beautiful! herding cats May 2017 #16
Thank you for sharing - you're indulging us! tenorly May 2017 #17
Rec. progressoid May 2017 #18
Sometimes kids can be the best medicine. oasis May 2017 #19
You have raised a wonderful daughter TxDemChem May 2017 #20
Sweet young lady. Lunabell May 2017 #21
What a nice story! smirkymonkey May 2017 #22
Kids will do that. DFW May 2017 #23
More than a smile, I had to wipe away a tear or two, your daughter is great. downeastdaniel May 2017 #24
Beautiful! DesertRat May 2017 #25
What a beautiful story. Mr.Bill May 2017 #26
Give her a couple thousand extra hugs from all of us ashling May 2017 #27
out of curiousty is this your webpage? snooper2 May 2017 #28
No JPPaverage May 2017 #29

Response to JPPaverage (Original post)

PJMcK

(22,035 posts)
4. Sounds like you're doing a great job with your kid
Sat May 6, 2017, 07:14 PM
May 2017

Rock on, JPPaverage!

Enjoy your weekend with your astute and loving daughter!

Response to JPPaverage (Original post)

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
16. That is beautiful!
Sat May 6, 2017, 10:02 PM
May 2017

Bask in the pride of the amazing young person you're helping to find their way, you deserve every moment of joy you're feeling.

tenorly

(2,037 posts)
17. Thank you for sharing - you're indulging us!
Sat May 6, 2017, 11:59 PM
May 2017

Who among us can't relate to your story, in one way or another?

It immediately brought to mind my late grandmother, who had been drifting in and out after a mild stroke in 2000 (at age 82). The last time I saw her, she seemed as lucid and witty as ever, and we had a long, meaningful chat and a very nice afternoon together like we hadn't had in a while.

A couple of weeks later, my mother called me let me know she had passed away. It was sudden and, her 91 years notwithstanding, pretty unexpected.

Cherish every moment you can spend with your older loved ones. Time flies.

Thanks again!

Lunabell

(6,080 posts)
21. Sweet young lady.
Sun May 7, 2017, 03:17 AM
May 2017

The last words my grandmother with Alzheimer's said to me as I tucked a pillow around her was, "Aw, you're nice."

Love and kindness may be out of style for some. But it will never be out of fashion for me.

Very fine young lady and kudos to her parents.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
22. What a nice story!
Sun May 7, 2017, 03:51 AM
May 2017

Sounds like you have a very caring and lovely daughter. You and your father are very lucky to have her!

DFW

(54,377 posts)
23. Kids will do that.
Sun May 7, 2017, 06:03 AM
May 2017

When they were little, we used to take our daughters to visit with my grandfather at least once a year in the States. He was so proud of his little blonde beauties. They used to cuddle up to him on the couch in his apartment, and babble to each other in their native German, of which he understood absolutely nothing. But they were so proud to have a great-grandfather, and beamed when we went to his 100th birthday party in New York.

So, I completely get how much your daughter's encouragement means to your dad, and I completely get how much it meant to him. Treasure the moments!

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