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My dad is in a nursing home, can't walk, and is suffering from dementia and likely early stages of Alzheimer's. Earlier today, my eight year old daughter and I went to visit him and the kid said something amazing, completely unprompted. "Grandpa, I am never going to give up because I know you never give up." Then she gave him a great big ol' hug. I haven't seen my dad with a great big smile like that for a long time. See, this kid is a very loving and gentle young lady and I am bursting with pride. Thank you for indulging me.
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monmouth4
(9,700 posts)spanone
(135,831 posts)PJMcK
(22,035 posts)Rock on, JPPaverage!
Enjoy your weekend with your astute and loving daughter!
Control-Z
(15,682 posts)Those proud parent moments are the best!!
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yellerpup
(12,253 posts)For all of you.
proud patriot
(100,705 posts)Thanks
Amaryllis
(9,524 posts)calimary
(81,260 posts)Little gestures mean a lot. Sometimes they mean everything.
Mountain Mule
(1,002 posts)Thanks for sharing that with us!
iluvtennis
(19,852 posts)Stinky The Clown
(67,798 posts)Bigredhunk
(1,349 posts)Very cool!
herding cats
(19,564 posts)Bask in the pride of the amazing young person you're helping to find their way, you deserve every moment of joy you're feeling.
tenorly
(2,037 posts)Who among us can't relate to your story, in one way or another?
It immediately brought to mind my late grandmother, who had been drifting in and out after a mild stroke in 2000 (at age 82). The last time I saw her, she seemed as lucid and witty as ever, and we had a long, meaningful chat and a very nice afternoon together like we hadn't had in a while.
A couple of weeks later, my mother called me let me know she had passed away. It was sudden and, her 91 years notwithstanding, pretty unexpected.
Cherish every moment you can spend with your older loved ones. Time flies.
Thanks again!
progressoid
(49,990 posts)oasis
(49,383 posts)TxDemChem
(1,918 posts)She's got the spirit and spunk needed for our next generation.
Lunabell
(6,080 posts)The last words my grandmother with Alzheimer's said to me as I tucked a pillow around her was, "Aw, you're nice."
Love and kindness may be out of style for some. But it will never be out of fashion for me.
Very fine young lady and kudos to her parents.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Sounds like you have a very caring and lovely daughter. You and your father are very lucky to have her!
DFW
(54,377 posts)When they were little, we used to take our daughters to visit with my grandfather at least once a year in the States. He was so proud of his little blonde beauties. They used to cuddle up to him on the couch in his apartment, and babble to each other in their native German, of which he understood absolutely nothing. But they were so proud to have a great-grandfather, and beamed when we went to his 100th birthday party in New York.
So, I completely get how much your daughter's encouragement means to your dad, and I completely get how much it meant to him. Treasure the moments!
downeastdaniel
(497 posts)DesertRat
(27,995 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,284 posts)We can always learn from our kids.
ashling
(25,771 posts)I am and (but in a good way)
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