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(20,998 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)Warpy
(111,255 posts)No matter how religious folks try to gussy it up with hearts and flowers and eternal love and kisses, it's made or broken right here on earth and it's a total crapshoot whether you're going to stay married or not.
Generic Brad
(14,274 posts)I don't mull over hypothetical unions in a hypothetical place/state/concept.
WheelWalker
(8,955 posts)Takket
(21,563 posts)Xolodno
(6,390 posts)Facts, science, etc. can never prove faith. The two are mutually exclusive, not intertwined like the creationist nut jobs, blasphemers if you ask me, would like everyone to accept.
pressbox69
(2,252 posts)Leith
(7,809 posts)So, unless you both float to heaven on a cloud, you are not married in heaven.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)Some folks tried more than a few times here.
But I don't believe in any of it.
Xolodno
(6,390 posts)Matthew 20:23-30
[23] The same day Sad'ducees came to him, who say that there is no resurrection; and they asked him a question,
[24] saying, "Teacher, Moses said, `If a man dies, having no children, his brother must marry the widow, and raise up children for his brother.'
[25] Now there were seven brothers among us; the first married, and died, and having no children left his wife to his brother.
[26] So too the second and third, down to the seventh.
[27] After them all, the woman died.
[28] In the resurrection, therefore, to which of the seven will she be wife? For they all had her."
[29] But Jesus answered them, "You are wrong, because you know neither the scriptures nor the power of God.
[30] For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.
WoonTars
(694 posts)...and I'm number seven, no way in going anywhere near her!!!
Grassy Knoll
(10,118 posts)unblock
(52,208 posts)*joking*
(I'm happily married but the setup was just too good )
Kingofalldems
(38,454 posts)Xolodno
(6,390 posts)...they would say, send me to hell.
customerserviceguy
(25,183 posts)superb!
Solly Mack
(90,764 posts)dchill
(38,484 posts)fishwax
(29,149 posts)davsand
(13,421 posts)Not sure I buy that whole Christian Heaven -v- Hell thing, however. I figure we all will get that sorted out sooner or later, however.
Laura
Towlie
(5,324 posts)See "What can and cannot be posted in the General Discussion forum" at the top.
But I don't think it's worth worrying about in this case because people aren't taking the question seriously.
defacto7
(13,485 posts)Here we lie, my wife and I,
Together we both did die.
And on that day when trumpets trill,
If she gets up I'll just lie still.
Sunriser13
(612 posts)I lived with my soulmate for nearly 20 years, although he died short of our fifth anniversary (and my 50th birthday - we married on my birthday). May 16th will mark the 6th anniversary of his death, so I'm currently a maudlin wreck. Forgive me.
He was my best friend, most trusted confidante, and the greatest playmate ever. There were times we just couldn't shut up 'cause there was too much to say, but also the truly special times spending hours and hours and miles and miles not saying a word, just enjoying the journey and enjoying each other.
I have been highly honored to have been one of few who have known true unconditional love - what a wonderful gift! We loved each other so!
"I love you neither with my heart, nor with my mind. My heart might stop. My mind can forget. I love you with my soul because my soul never stops... or forgets." ~ Rumi
musette_sf
(10,200 posts)I thought I'd be single, I guess."
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(2,334 posts)PsychoBabble
(837 posts)dchill
(38,484 posts)And it seems pretty legit there...
Caliman73
(11,736 posts)From what I remember in the Catholic tradition, as one poster already said, there are no relationships in heaven. The point of heaven is to be one with god. Oneness with god is supposed to be eternal bliss without knowledge nor care about past or earthly relationships.
That is what was taught in religion classes when I was at school.
FiveGoodMen
(20,018 posts)orleans
(34,051 posts)with mainly the same group of souls
(your husband may have been your mother, friend, child, passing acquaintance, stranger, or completely absent etc. in a past life)
suffice to say yes we are reunited, no we are not "married," our relationships with others become clear, and we continue to love (perfectly) those we loved here.
i'll go one further to add we love even those we did not love here, or did not know in this lifetime.
love never dies. it keeps us connected even when we are physically separated
imo
(why do you ask? everything okay?)
Orsino
(37,428 posts)haele
(12,650 posts)Can't help you, never going to that place, "against my religion", as the saying goes.
But the county courthouse has a really nice secular wedding room with a really nice backdrop; they have a huge window that overlooks the San Diego Bay and North Island/Pt. Loma. And they get fresh flowers every other day.
Haele
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)Or do I need special glasses?
MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)That said, YES! 26 years and counting here!