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Botany

(70,444 posts)
Wed May 24, 2017, 09:43 PM May 2017

Proud Dad Here

My Son (now 22) turned off the TV and his cell phone too and went out and
built a little campfire in the fire pit and got out the outdoor lounge chair
and then took our black lab out to sit with him by the fire.


update .....
He just asked if I wanted to come sit by the fire w/him.

Guess Rachel M. can do her show without me.

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Proud Dad Here (Original Post) Botany May 2017 OP
Congrats! Have a good time! elleng May 2017 #1
Gee, my eyes are a little wet. LisaM May 2017 #2
While you were having a real life jimlup May 2017 #3
Times like that with your son panader0 May 2017 #4
You and your son have your priorities straight. Well done! CaliforniaPeggy May 2017 #5
Sounds like a great kid. smirkymonkey May 2017 #6
Good to know that there are people in my generation retrowire May 2017 #7
time for some Smores grantcart May 2017 #8
Sorry Botany May 2017 #9
Some Father - Son Time Leith May 2017 #10
Ohhh, how nice. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2017 #11
Just got in* .... we discussed really important stuff .... Botany May 2017 #12
Nice. Happened to me too (minus the invite). Sometimes I think kids get overwhelmed by FailureToCommunicate May 2017 #13

panader0

(25,816 posts)
4. Times like that with your son
Wed May 24, 2017, 10:06 PM
May 2017

are more important than TV. I have two sons, 25 and 30, and wish I had
spent more time with them. Enjoy.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
7. Good to know that there are people in my generation
Wed May 24, 2017, 10:23 PM
May 2017

that can get technology fatigue and decide, you know what? I want to sit outside by a fire with my dog.

Botany

(70,444 posts)
12. Just got in* .... we discussed really important stuff ....
Wed May 24, 2017, 11:25 PM
May 2017

... how to load wood onto the fire.

* rainstorm

FailureToCommunicate

(14,006 posts)
13. Nice. Happened to me too (minus the invite). Sometimes I think kids get overwhelmed by
Wed May 24, 2017, 11:29 PM
May 2017

all the stuff flowing in front of them...and they need to take a break. Stare into a fire. Listen to crickets. Allow the silences. Talk with someone they trust...

I bet we all need more of that some days.

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