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Am I a bad person for finding Sandy Hook FAR more upsetting than Steve Scalise being shot? (Original Post) YoungDemCA Jun 2017 OP
Not at all, those were innocent victims gopiscrap Jun 2017 #1
So is Scalise. He did not deserve to be shot. Duh. Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2017 #52
he had armed guards, Sandy Hook children did not. As far as I remember. demigoddess Jun 2017 #64
So? What's your point? Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2017 #66
Nope atreides1 Jun 2017 #2
Not at all. That jerk is a 2nd amendment jackoff and got shot in the ass. Too bad so sad. The_Casual_Observer Jun 2017 #3
Irony, meet Fate. And so far the only "action" I hear being floated is more security for Congress flibbitygiblets Jun 2017 #50
Gives all the Republicans an excuse Bettie Jun 2017 #55
His 2nd amendment remedies turn around and bit him in the ass so to speak. nt elmac Jun 2017 #56
A bunch of those people died. Ilsa Jun 2017 #4
No, but they are both on the same 'spectrum,' elleng Jun 2017 #5
I think Sandy Hook is objectively more upsetting, and it has nothing to do with politics. DanTex Jun 2017 #6
No, nothing is worse than the death of a child marylandblue Jun 2017 #7
No. Not at all. Vinca Jun 2017 #8
There is no comparison between innocent children and Congressional Republicans dalton99a Jun 2017 #9
No. Sandy Hook shook me to the core. Scalise is still alive and will recover. No comparison. Nt. SweetieD Jun 2017 #10
I agree. Not even close. smirkymonkey Jun 2017 #49
No comparison msdogi Jun 2017 #11
let's be bad together barbtries Jun 2017 #12
NOT. AT. ALL. Raster Jun 2017 #13
Nope. (nt) Paladin Jun 2017 #14
No, you are right. nt Blue_true Jun 2017 #15
Of course not. Doreen Jun 2017 #16
I agree katmondoo Jun 2017 #33
Objectively, in terms of the scale, it was a far bigger tragedy. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2017 #17
The NRA will just up their legal bribes BannonsLiver Jun 2017 #20
If only your optimistic thoughts came true. I really think that if this does serve as an awakening, renate Jun 2017 #23
As I said in another post, even Ronald Reagan himself getting shot didn't change things. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2017 #24
I'm upset anytime anyone is shot. onenote Jun 2017 #18
Not in the least. jmg257 Jun 2017 #19
Absolutely not, but I see no purpose to your comparison except to minimalize what happened today. Goodheart Jun 2017 #21
No 20 small children lost their life in Sandy Hook TNLib Jun 2017 #22
No, you're just human. You have an opinion of some people's value over other people's value. JCanete Jun 2017 #25
It's better compared to the Gabby Gifford's shooting Lordquinton Jun 2017 #26
Agreed! bresue Jun 2017 #27
no and why would you even ask that? nini Jun 2017 #28
If you are, then so too am I . nt arthritisR_US Jun 2017 #29
Not at all. NT haele Jun 2017 #30
No malaise Jun 2017 #31
this is not helpful at all. yurbud Jun 2017 #32
Sometimes the best course of action is B2G Jun 2017 #34
Nope. The Reich Wing were screaming False Flag at the dead children before the kairos12 Jun 2017 #35
Kids are always worse...but this was awful make no mistake. Demsrule86 Jun 2017 #36
It's not really a competition. Murder is Murder fescuerescue Jun 2017 #37
NO!!!! Sandy Hook was THE worst mass shooting that has happened in my lifetime. beaglelover Jun 2017 #38
Can you quantify how much worse it was than, let's say, the Virginia Tech shootings? onenote Jun 2017 #39
IMO killing 9 and 10 years old is infinitely worse than killing college aged kids or adults. beaglelover Jun 2017 #40
Infinitely? onenote Jun 2017 #41
Yep. There's no words to describe a monster who would shoot a poor defenseless 9 year old. NONE! beaglelover Jun 2017 #42
And what words are there for a monster who shoots defenseless 18 year olds? onenote Jun 2017 #43
An 18-Year-Old Is Better Able to Defend Him or Herself Leith Jun 2017 #67
Did the Capitol Hill police who were shot "reap" what they sowed? onenote Jun 2017 #69
Oh, Quit It Leith Jun 2017 #71
Maybe what I'm reacting to is the fact that I'm acquainted with the family of one of the VA Tech onenote Jun 2017 #72
You then expect a precisely equitable concern to all acts of violence? Period? LanternWaste Jun 2017 #65
I see no reason to rank horrific acts as if they're in competition with one another. onenote Jun 2017 #70
No, Sandy Hook was a tragedy. JustABozoOnThisBus Jun 2017 #44
I always find it more upsetting when children die than when adults do NobodyHere Jun 2017 #45
Just Another Day .. Stats for Today NOT entered.. mrJJ Jun 2017 #46
Nope, not at all! denvine Jun 2017 #47
No lpbk2713 Jun 2017 #48
Nope... regnaD kciN Jun 2017 #51
Two different shooting events that can't be meaningfully compared. no_hypocrisy Jun 2017 #53
Right wing nut jobs may think your a bad lefty elmac Jun 2017 #54
None bora13 Jun 2017 #57
Give them whay they gave us after shootings. backscatter712 Jun 2017 #58
Not at all... N_E_1 for Tennis Jun 2017 #59
It's hard to compare the two events. 28 died at Sandy Hook. DesertRat Jun 2017 #60
You are either upset or not. Not like there is scale on any killings or beachbum bob Jun 2017 #61
You KNOW the answer to that! maddiemom Jun 2017 #62
Most of the people shot in D.C. today COULD BE ACTIVELY INVOLVED in finding ways.... BamaRefugee Jun 2017 #63
It Means You Are a Clear Thinker Leith Jun 2017 #68

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
52. So is Scalise. He did not deserve to be shot. Duh.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:51 PM
Jun 2017

Both sets are innocent victims. Both sets did not deserve to be shot. The United States of America does not function and advance by shooting civilians going about their ordinary everyday activities, whether it is studying in school or playing baseball.

Period.

However, we can have more sympathy for a classroom of child victims than for an individual adult. And we can hope that Scalise and other NRA supporters learn the valuable lesson that overly easy access to high powered guns is a societal problem.

I agree with the OP; Sandy Hook was more upsetting.

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
66. So? What's your point?
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:28 PM
Jun 2017

Are you saying he should have more or less sympathy because he had armed guards?

Are you saying he deserved to be shot more or less because he had armed guards?

Are you saying it is more or less upsetting because he had armed guards?

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
50. Irony, meet Fate. And so far the only "action" I hear being floated is more security for Congress
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:45 PM
Jun 2017

Isn't it bad enough that Congress gets paid more, works less, and gets better health coverage than most of us, now they will be even more isolated from the gun violence we "real Americans" experience. So how will they know it's happening unless they experience it the same as the rest of us? Sorry you got shot buddy, but these are YOUR policies in action.

The nonstop news coverage is really pissing me off. Are we really going to pretend there aren't shootings every damn day in this country?

Ilsa

(64,368 posts)
4. A bunch of those people died.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:12 PM
Jun 2017

That shooting was at closer range, too, IIRC. I think it was much worse than today's shooting.

DanTex

(20,709 posts)
6. I think Sandy Hook is objectively more upsetting, and it has nothing to do with politics.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:13 PM
Jun 2017

Sandy Hook was a guy who walked into a school and murdered a bunch of children. It was horrific.

Vinca

(53,993 posts)
8. No. Not at all.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:15 PM
Jun 2017

If those had been little kids on the baseball field, they'd be dead because they don't have armed protection. We have to get rid of the guns.

dalton99a

(94,115 posts)
9. There is no comparison between innocent children and Congressional Republicans
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:16 PM
Jun 2017

Congressional Republicans are evil scum

SweetieD

(1,673 posts)
10. No. Sandy Hook shook me to the core. Scalise is still alive and will recover. No comparison. Nt.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:16 PM
Jun 2017
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
49. I agree. Not even close.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:45 PM
Jun 2017

The only thing they have in common was a white guy with a gun he shouldn't have had access to and the similarity ends there.

barbtries

(31,308 posts)
12. let's be bad together
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:31 PM
Jun 2017

if you are.

come on, he survived, he chose to be in a prominent position, he got an A from the NRA, etc, etc.

they were innocents. big differences.

Raster

(21,010 posts)
13. NOT. AT. ALL.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:36 PM
Jun 2017

None of those kids enabled the NRA. None of those kids did everything they could to inhibit sane gun laws. None of those kids used fear-mongering to sell their agendas.

The Republican Party has been the legislative arm of the NRA and gun manufacturers FOR FUCKING YEARS.

Reap and sow, reap and sow.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
16. Of course not.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:39 PM
Jun 2017

Those were little innocent children and innocent adults. We have Scalise who commiting terrorism on the entire country in fact on innocent children also. Fuck him.

Tommy_Carcetti

(44,498 posts)
17. Objectively, in terms of the scale, it was a far bigger tragedy.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:44 PM
Jun 2017

I sincerely hope Rep. Scalise and the other three individuals shot this morning make a full and complete recovery. And I hope--although I'm not entirely optimistic--that this incident might serve as an awakening for Rep. Scalise about these types of incidents and how taking steps to lessen their chances outweighs the interests of the lobbying arm of the NRA. Thankfully, other than the shooter himself, there was not a loss of life in today's events.

Both events--as mass shootings--bothered me immensely, but Sandy Hook will always be a special case.

Sandy Hook was Sandy Hook. There's simply nothing that could compare to it in my book. I don't think there's been a news story that has ever bothered me as much as Sandy Hook, not only with the shooting itself but the disgraceful aftermath seeing some people's reactions to it being to run to the nearest gun store. Twenty seven people dead (28 including the shooter), with 20 of them being first graders. And being a father to young kids, the story really, really, really bothered me.

BannonsLiver

(20,595 posts)
20. The NRA will just up their legal bribes
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:55 PM
Jun 2017

The pollyanish media coverage about unity and a come to Jesus moment aside, nothing will change with that crowd. They are souless beings.

renate

(13,776 posts)
23. If only your optimistic thoughts came true. I really think that if this does serve as an awakening,
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:02 PM
Jun 2017

... it will only awaken GOP congresspeople to the need for increased security for politicians. They won't give a second thought to the regular people at other baseball practices around the country who don't have that option.

And if the loon had been shooting at Democrats instead of Republicans, there wouldn't have been security there at all, according to what I heard on TV. They were only there because of Scalise's position as whip. I hope I'm wrong about that--it seems ridiculous to only protect the party in power--but it sounds like not all members of Congress have any kind of security detail. It's chilling to think about how many people might be dead or injured if he'd been shooting at another baseball field.

Tommy_Carcetti

(44,498 posts)
24. As I said in another post, even Ronald Reagan himself getting shot didn't change things.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:05 PM
Jun 2017

So as much as I would love this to be a wake-up call, I sadly doubt it will be.

onenote

(46,140 posts)
18. I'm upset anytime anyone is shot.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:48 PM
Jun 2017

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I'm upset that Scalise was shot. I'm upset that a staffer was shot. And I'm upset that Capitol Hill police were shot.

Of course, I was more upset by the Sandy Hook shooting, because that resulted in fatalities, not just of children but also of teachers. And I was more upset about the Virginia Tech attacks than today's shooting, because it too resulted in fatalities (more than Sandy Hook). And I was more upset about the Gabby Giffords shooting than today's shooting, not because Gabby is a Democrat but because it also resulted in the deaths of children and adults and permanent injury to Giffords.

But don't ask me which of those incidents which resulted in fatalities is "more upsetting" -- I can't distinguish between a murderous rampage that kills 26 versus one that kills 32 or one that kills 12 or 6 or any other number.

 

Goodheart

(5,760 posts)
21. Absolutely not, but I see no purpose to your comparison except to minimalize what happened today.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 01:57 PM
Jun 2017

Frankly, it's uncalled for.

TNLib

(1,819 posts)
22. No 20 small children lost their life in Sandy Hook
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:01 PM
Jun 2017

The congressmen that got shot at today have done nothing to stop another Sandy Hook. Maybe god is trying to tell them something.

 

JCanete

(5,272 posts)
25. No, you're just human. You have an opinion of some people's value over other people's value.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:09 PM
Jun 2017

So not a bad person, but articulating this distinction of whose lives you care about more and whose lives you care about less, while representing liberalism, has its downsides, and this kind of post ends up being fodder on right-wing boards to gin up the sense that we are the monsters who don't value some human life.

I see no reason to give people evidence of that. I'd rather them have to pull it out of their ass.
 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
34. Sometimes the best course of action is
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:21 PM
Jun 2017

To denounce the violence, offer your condolences to the victims and then shut the fuck up.

kairos12

(13,588 posts)
35. Nope. The Reich Wing were screaming False Flag at the dead children before the
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:27 PM
Jun 2017

end of the day.

fescuerescue

(4,475 posts)
37. It's not really a competition. Murder is Murder
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:32 PM
Jun 2017

Sometimes I think we over value our feelings. We all do this.

Our reaction to it, in our private homes and workplaces is something that we are entitled to, but has no bearing on the actual crime and impact on the victims families.

Bottom line, unless you expect to get called the witness stand, your reaction to your reaction is your private business.

beaglelover

(4,466 posts)
38. NO!!!! Sandy Hook was THE worst mass shooting that has happened in my lifetime.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:39 PM
Jun 2017

Since nothing happened on the federal level regarding gun laws after Sandy Hook, nothing is going to happen this time.

onenote

(46,140 posts)
39. Can you quantify how much worse it was than, let's say, the Virginia Tech shootings?
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:42 PM
Jun 2017

Are the lives of college students somehow less valuable than those of elementary school students.

I don't understand how folks can rank these heinous acts. They're all bad. Period.

beaglelover

(4,466 posts)
40. IMO killing 9 and 10 years old is infinitely worse than killing college aged kids or adults.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:44 PM
Jun 2017

Sorry, that's just how I roll.

beaglelover

(4,466 posts)
42. Yep. There's no words to describe a monster who would shoot a poor defenseless 9 year old. NONE!
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:48 PM
Jun 2017

onenote

(46,140 posts)
43. And what words are there for a monster who shoots defenseless 18 year olds?
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:50 PM
Jun 2017

I have the same word for both: monster.

Leith

(7,864 posts)
67. An 18-Year-Old Is Better Able to Defend Him or Herself
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:45 PM
Jun 2017

than a first grader. The teen can run faster and figure out how to get to a safer place.

Both were horrendous, but Sandy Hook was the bigger tragedy. Today's shooting falls under "reaping what one sows."

onenote

(46,140 posts)
69. Did the Capitol Hill police who were shot "reap" what they sowed?
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:34 PM
Jun 2017

And are the victims of the Virginia Tech shootings partially culpable for their own deaths because they didn't adequately defend themselves?

Leith

(7,864 posts)
71. Oh, Quit It
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:43 PM
Jun 2017

You may be reacting to the horrible events of the day, but you don't need to attack me or my opinion over it.

onenote

(46,140 posts)
72. Maybe what I'm reacting to is the fact that I'm acquainted with the family of one of the VA Tech
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:26 PM
Jun 2017

victims. And it is my opinion that your suggestion that the shooting death of that young woman was somehow less tragic than the death of a younger person because that young woman, in your opinion, could have (and thus, while not stated by you, presumably should have) defended herself, is indefensible.

And statements made on DU aren't immune from criticism just because they're "opinion.'

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
65. You then expect a precisely equitable concern to all acts of violence? Period?
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:21 PM
Jun 2017

" don't understand how folks can rank these heinous acts. They're all bad. Period...."

You then expect a precisely equitable concern to all acts of violence? Period? That premise appears irrational and unsupported at best.

onenote

(46,140 posts)
70. I see no reason to rank horrific acts as if they're in competition with one another.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:34 PM
Jun 2017

The grief and loss suffered by the families of shooting rampages doesn't differ when the person they lost was one of six or one of 30. Nor does it really differ if the person is 10 or 18.

And if you read my original post, I did draw a distinction between acts of violence resulting in loss of innocent life and those that don't.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(24,681 posts)
44. No, Sandy Hook was a tragedy.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 02:55 PM
Jun 2017

So far as I know, the shooter of Scalise was the only death today. I wish all his victims a swift and complete recovery, but there's no comparison to a group of children being shot to death.

mrJJ

(886 posts)
46. Just Another Day .. Stats for Today NOT entered..
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:35 PM
Jun 2017

Gun Violence Archives

Total Number of Incidents 27,818
Number of Deaths1 6,880
Number of Injuries1 13,503
Number of Children (age 0-11)
Killed or Injured1 300
Number of Teens (age 12-17)
Killed or Injured1 1,440
Mass Shooting2 154
Officer Involved Incident
Officer Shot or Killed2 132
Officer Involved Incident
Subject-Suspect Shot or Killed2 954
Home Invasion2 1,133
Defensive Use2 939
Unintentional Shooting2 915
Gun violence and crime incidents are collected/validated from 2,000 sources daily – incidents and their source data are found at the gunviolencearchive.org website.

1: Actual number of deaths and injuries
2: Number of INCIDENTS reported and verified

22,000 Annual Suicides not included on Daily Summary Ledger

Numbers on this table reflect a subset of all information
collected and will not add to 100% of incidents.

www.gunviolencearchive.org www.facebook.com/gunviolencearchive

Data Validated: June 14, 2017

regnaD kciN

(27,639 posts)
51. Nope...
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:50 PM
Jun 2017

You don't have to support shooting Republican politicians to think that one shooting where the victim survives in no way compares with the killing of dozens of children.

no_hypocrisy

(54,906 posts)
53. Two different shooting events that can't be meaningfully compared.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:53 PM
Jun 2017

Each had its unique tragedy.

bora13

(860 posts)
57. None
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:57 PM
Jun 2017

all of the bickering should be held at the level of decency we once had in this country.
If we are to get anywhere, though I hear progress is one of the main points of contention with at least one side of this mess.

backscatter712

(26,357 posts)
58. Give them whay they gave us after shootings.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:58 PM
Jun 2017

Scalise has my thoughts and prayers. And being an atheist, you'll get an idea how much I think those are worth.

N_E_1 for Tennis

(13,032 posts)
59. Not at all...
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 03:59 PM
Jun 2017

I so glad he's going to be ok.

But the repubs have been trying to kill us for how long?

My tears won't burn.

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
60. It's hard to compare the two events. 28 died at Sandy Hook.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:01 PM
Jun 2017

All senseless shootings of innocents are horrible, as when Gabby Giffords was shot along with others who were killed beside her that day in Tucson.

BamaRefugee

(3,884 posts)
63. Most of the people shot in D.C. today COULD BE ACTIVELY INVOLVED in finding ways....
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:08 PM
Jun 2017

to LESSEN gun violence.
In Sandy Hook, the victims were helpless AND incapable of changing any laws until they had a chance to grow up.

I have to say Sandy Hook is far more upsetting for me too.

Leith

(7,864 posts)
68. It Means You Are a Clear Thinker
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:49 PM
Jun 2017

Sandy Hook was the slaughter of innocents. Today's shooting was the end result of the laws the victims worked hard to repeal and the ease of getting guns that they fought so hard for.

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