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MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:40 PM Jun 2017

It would be wise, I believe, on DU, to avoid attacking victims

lying in hospitals after being shot by a mass shooter. We can safely attack Republicans in Congress, but should avoid attacking any Republican in Congress who is currently fighting for his life after being shot. Doing that is not productive of anything but justifiable criticism by people in general.

Instead, we should wait until that victim is recovered, or at least well on the way to recovery. To do otherwise opens us up to criticism that is deserved. I suggest we exercise some sensible and judicious reticence in that regard.

It's a suggestion, of course, and not an order, since I have no authority to issue orders. I think it's a good suggestion, though. People are watching what we say here. Let's not give them good reason to point out our failings, shall we?

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It would be wise, I believe, on DU, to avoid attacking victims (Original Post) MineralMan Jun 2017 OP
I wish Rep. Scalise a full recovery. The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2017 #1
I believe we should remind him of that after he recovers fully. MineralMan Jun 2017 #5
Of course. It was not my intent to bust on him now. The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2017 #6
I Agree Leith Jun 2017 #8
It's wise anywhere and everywhere, not just on DU. Iggo Jun 2017 #2
Yes, I've been disappointed in some of the comments I've read. BainsBane Jun 2017 #3
Yes. cwydro Jun 2017 #4
Thank you. Ezior Jun 2017 #7
It is fair to talk about policy. Willie Pep Jun 2017 #9
Well said!!! n/t RKP5637 Jun 2017 #10
i won't attack them...but freddyvh Jun 2017 #11
You need only say nothing regarding that victim. MineralMan Jun 2017 #12
+Fucking Infinity. - nt KingCharlemagne Jun 2017 #49
+1 (n/t) FreepFryer Jun 2017 #13
Well, first reports was of an injury...not a serious injury angstlessk Jun 2017 #14
Sadly, some people are quick to attack Republicans who are victims of MineralMan Jun 2017 #15
I agree 100% angstlessk Jun 2017 #16
Once again, you are correct. And check out Twitter & the nasty comments celebrating it there. 7962 Jun 2017 #20
I don't want them dead Bettie Jun 2017 #23
First reports here were that he was shot, nothing else. The slime commenced instantly. 7962 Jun 2017 #17
First reports said he was in good spirits... angstlessk Jun 2017 #24
Yes I do remember. So will you be surprised when the opposite happens in this case? 7962 Jun 2017 #29
I agree, let's leave those knee jerk responses to the likes of trump jr et all angstlessk Jun 2017 #33
I'm sure before the day is out Trump will say something stupid to redirect the attention to HIM. 7962 Jun 2017 #54
Going after the victims is what Republicans do, not us lunatica Jun 2017 #18
Thank YOU! 7962 Jun 2017 #25
You can certainly speak for yourself and probably many more on this board. pennylane100 Jun 2017 #30
I wish him an awakening of humanity lunatica Jun 2017 #66
never seen anyone here attack victims elmac Jun 2017 #19
Then you havent been reading the posts in the related OPs 7962 Jun 2017 #22
The slime is the republicans blaming all democrats for this shooting! angstlessk Jun 2017 #26
Correct! elmac Jun 2017 #28
agreed FUCK anyone who is gop gopiscrap Jun 2017 #51
Well, I would not call not having sympathy attacking anyone. elmac Jun 2017 #27
its a pretty shitty attitude even if you dont want to call it an "attack" 7962 Jun 2017 #31
My attitude is fine, thank you very much. nt elmac Jun 2017 #35
Sorry, I was referring to the person who made the comment, not you. 7962 Jun 2017 #53
Agreed mcar Jun 2017 #21
Oh well elmac Jun 2017 #34
I get that mcar Jun 2017 #37
Violence, just like war, never solves anything elmac Jun 2017 #46
No, it's not mcar Jun 2017 #47
"Violence, just like war, never solves anything" EX500rider Jun 2017 #58
Tell that to the Vietnamese, Syrians, Iraqis, ect. ect, ect... elmac Jun 2017 #60
Didn't say it solved everything....but it has solved things. EX500rider Jun 2017 #62
I do not blame the victims of this shooting, only the ones playing the victim Saviolo Jun 2017 #32
How long have these idiots on the right been preaching their second amendment remedies? elmac Jun 2017 #36
of course bora13 Jun 2017 #38
Agree ananda Jun 2017 #39
Maybe take accountability for the effect of hate speak in forums Yossarian22 Jun 2017 #40
I'm sorry, but I can't. NutmegYankee Jun 2017 #41
And he now has one of those pre-existing conditions. alarimer Jun 2017 #68
Refusing to hide the fact that I feel absolutely no sympathy for him being shot Jake Stern Jun 2017 #42
My personal take on this... wysi Jun 2017 #57
Amen to that ailsagirl Jun 2017 #43
This, MinMan Hekate Jun 2017 #44
It's not "attacking" to bring up his voting record. rainlillie Jun 2017 #45
Thanks for your concern. Scalise would have no problem whatsoever KingCharlemagne Jun 2017 #48
Be careful - calling out an asshole right winger for his record is now considered hyperbole Jake Stern Jun 2017 #63
I am not attacking any victims. rivegauche Jun 2017 #50
We should not be assigning blame here, but showing concern... Kleveland Jun 2017 #52
It's difficult when one poster claims "being shot is not an attack" and whathehell Jun 2017 #59
The NRA thanks Rep. Scalise for his leadership in this important effort, the gun group said . stonecutter357 Jun 2017 #55
This message was self-deleted by its author roamer65 Jun 2017 #56
For the OP, Thank you for thinking you are a moral compass for this despicable act. juxtaposed Jun 2017 #61
I don't think anything of the sort. I posted my opinion. MineralMan Jun 2017 #67
The victims of the shootings are in my prayers Gothmog Jun 2017 #64
Sometimes hard to remember who the victim is Generic Other Jun 2017 #65
I agree with all of that fescuerescue Jun 2017 #69
It does matter, though. MineralMan Jun 2017 #70
It's a matter of degrees I think fescuerescue Jun 2017 #71
I'm not going to attack the victims NobodyHere Jun 2017 #72

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,806 posts)
1. I wish Rep. Scalise a full recovery.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:45 PM
Jun 2017

And I hope that as he recovers he might give a few thoughts to (1) the disturbing frequency of mass shootings these days, and what might be done about it and (2) how much he'd have to pay to have his injuries treated if he didn't have excellent and affordable health insurance, with the realization that he is in a position to take that benefit away for millions of others. Sometimes a close call can make people re-think their priorities and their values, and I hope this happens for Rep. Scalise.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
5. I believe we should remind him of that after he recovers fully.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:51 PM
Jun 2017

Until then, I think we should probably belay such comments. They give the appearance of something I don't think we want to project.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,806 posts)
6. Of course. It was not my intent to bust on him now.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:52 PM
Jun 2017

Just hoping the experience gives him food for thought in the future.

Leith

(7,813 posts)
8. I Agree
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:55 PM
Jun 2017

Does anyone really think any of this will happen? James Brady was the last republican who learned the lesson.

Willie Pep

(841 posts)
9. It is fair to talk about policy.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:55 PM
Jun 2017

Like maybe we should put gun control back on the agenda. But I agree, going after the victims is cruel. I know Scalise was an NRA supporter and all but that doesn't mean he deserved what happened to him.

 

freddyvh

(276 posts)
11. i won't attack them...but
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 04:59 PM
Jun 2017

i won't show them any sympathy since the GOP in congress has never shown any sympathy to other victims of mass shootings

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
12. You need only say nothing regarding that victim.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:04 PM
Jun 2017

The rest of the GOP in Congress, however, are fair game. That's how you do it.

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
14. Well, first reports was of an injury...not a serious injury
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:07 PM
Jun 2017

I am sure folks who, at first, said some unkind things now wish him a speedy recovery...so they can discus gun control once he is recovered?

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
15. Sadly, some people are quick to attack Republicans who are victims of
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:11 PM
Jun 2017

anything, really. Some who consider themselves to be "progressive" even celebrate it, in fact. I find that execrable behavior that casts a bad light on all of us. Everyone should follow the example of Bernie Sanders in such situations. He understands that there is a time and place for everything.

There are several threads on DU that do not show us in a good light. Instead, they provide fodder for our critics. I think that's too damned bad, really. Most of us don't act that way, and we should let those who do know that we disapprove of it.

Hence my post.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
20. Once again, you are correct. And check out Twitter & the nasty comments celebrating it there.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:44 PM
Jun 2017

And they're not "plants" or "fakes" like so many want to believe. You can look thru their posting history and see their leanings.

The one i remember earliest here was when Pence and trump were flying somewhere right after the election and a few here fantasized about the plane crashing

Bettie

(16,118 posts)
23. I don't want them dead
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:48 PM
Jun 2017

but I admit to giggling a little at them being stuck together as an 'Odd Couple/Gilligan's Island" mashup only with two people (Trump/Pence) who are actually evil following a non-fatal plane crash.

The other survivors would be trying to find a way to leave the island without them.

As to the shooting victims. I hope they recover fully and quickly.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
17. First reports here were that he was shot, nothing else. The slime commenced instantly.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:41 PM
Jun 2017

And later we learned he was shot in the hip, which is still not really minor.
So we base our response on the apparent severity of the gunshot wound?

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
24. First reports said he was in good spirits...
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:50 PM
Jun 2017

"Prior to entering surgery, the Whip was in good spirits and spoke to his wife by phone,"

I am so sorry he was shot...I wish this never happened, and wish him a speedy recovery... see also Gabby Giffords who to this day suffers from a gun shot....do you recall all the hoopla about republicans being at fault?

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
29. Yes I do remember. So will you be surprised when the opposite happens in this case?
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:55 PM
Jun 2017

And obviously you are not one of those being referred to by the OP. Go look at the first OP about the incident as it happened this AM & you can see some heartless comments early on

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
33. I agree, let's leave those knee jerk responses to the likes of trump jr et all
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:01 PM
Jun 2017

at the same time I understand the frustration many feel regarding guns and shooters.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
54. I'm sure before the day is out Trump will say something stupid to redirect the attention to HIM.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:18 PM
Jun 2017

Intentionally or not!

pennylane100

(3,425 posts)
30. You can certainly speak for yourself and probably many more on this board.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:57 PM
Jun 2017

However this is a good time to reflect on what kind of fractured society we live in. The man that would deny health care to millions of his fellow citizens is in the hospital, hopefully receiving the needed care to make a full recovery. How ironic that he belongs to a party that is working very hard, and will probably succeed in preventing even a minimum level of care to so many of his fellow citizens.

We have had wall to wall coverage of this terrible event but how can we not consider how much harm he and his party are trying to heap on the most needy members of our country. I wish him all the health and happiness he wants for all his countrymen.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
66. I wish him an awakening of humanity
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 08:43 PM
Jun 2017

I wish him an awakening of his humanity. There's nothing like the truth hitting you square in the face and right where you live for you to understand what it is to be a human being and to be able to extend humanity to everybody else.
Unfortunately too many people are too mean-spirited to understand that we all have feelings and we all care and we are all valuable.
Fortunately though, many of us don't need to be shot to have humanity.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
22. Then you havent been reading the posts in the related OPs
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:48 PM
Jun 2017

Lots of slime being flung around, from "no sympathy....", to even worse

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
27. Well, I would not call not having sympathy attacking anyone.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:53 PM
Jun 2017

You should see some of the things they said about us over the years. Sorry, no crocodile tears here.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
31. its a pretty shitty attitude even if you dont want to call it an "attack"
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:57 PM
Jun 2017

Its not the DU of the Bush years, I know that much.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
53. Sorry, I was referring to the person who made the comment, not you.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:16 PM
Jun 2017

THAT person has a shitty attitude

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
34. Oh well
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:10 PM
Jun 2017

i guess a room full of fascists telling a man who would die from lack of healthcare that it was his problem pretty much took what little sympathy i had for fascist pigs.

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
46. Violence, just like war, never solves anything
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:44 PM
Jun 2017

We live in a violent society, in a country born of violence. Its not going to get better any time soon.

EX500rider

(10,849 posts)
58. "Violence, just like war, never solves anything"
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:44 PM
Jun 2017

War has solved many things from slavery to Nazi Germany.

Saviolo

(3,282 posts)
32. I do not blame the victims of this shooting, only the ones playing the victim
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 05:58 PM
Jun 2017

The ones who were not there, like Paul Ryan, who have teary press conferences while injuring millions directly.

The ones like Donald Trump himself who suggested 2nd Amendment remedies against a Hillary Clinton presidency, but feels "victimized" by this attack and the media in general.

All of the right wing talk radio hosts who will no doubt wring their hands about the violence of the left while they've been stoking stochastic terrorism for decades, only now learning that they don't get to aim something like that.

I have sympathy for Rep. Steve Scalise who is actually a victim of his so-called allies, and I wish him a full and speedy recovery.

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
36. How long have these idiots on the right been preaching their second amendment remedies?
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:18 PM
Jun 2017

it kind of bit them in the ass today. They reap what they sow.

bora13

(860 posts)
38. of course
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:21 PM
Jun 2017

we here have a tendency to walk on the REAL side of life, as opposed to the
life the "opposition" lives in which is clearly through the lookin' glass.

As I said here before and before me by Lewis Carroll, you have to run twice as fast to keep up with their
dirty kind of tricks and accusations. They will move heaven and earth if they discover a scapegoat for the left
such as they might want to make this DEPLORABLE incident.

over and out...

 

Yossarian22

(12 posts)
40. Maybe take accountability for the effect of hate speak in forums
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:29 PM
Jun 2017

I agree with MineralMan. Any "glee" from a DU poster about someone getting shot, simply drives people in the middle further away and gives the right fodder for discussion, all of which leads to Democratic losses in elections. This person could be almost anyone on Facebook or DU these days. It should be scary, not a moment for rejoice.

- "James T. Hodgkinson, ... defined himself publicly by his firm support of Bernie Sanders' progressive politics -- and his hatred of conservatives and President Donald Trump."
- "Republicans are the Taliban of the USA," he posted in February.
- "Hodgkinson's own descriptions on social media portray him as an avid consumer of political shows. His favorite television shows were listed as "Real Time with Bill Maher;" "The Rachel Maddow Show;" "Democracy Now!" and other left-leaning programs."
- "He had also joined several anti-GOP Facebook groups, including "Terminate The Republican Party;" "The Road to Hell Is Paved With Republicans;" and "Join The Resistance Worldwide!!"

NutmegYankee

(16,201 posts)
41. I'm sorry, but I can't.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:39 PM
Jun 2017

A man cannot serve in his role as Whip to piece a minimal amount of people together to take the healthcare from 24 million people and then expect sympathy and good wishes. Most Congressman can say they just voted for the bill, this man actually wheeled and dealed to get the votes to throw people with pre-exisiting conditions under the proverbial bus. He's a monster! It makes me physically ill to think that people advocate just brushing that under the rug.

I don't advocate harming anyone, but I can't be all sympathetic about his recovery either. It's tragic that this gunman did this.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
68. And he now has one of those pre-existing conditions.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 09:10 AM
Jun 2017

Which would deny him coverage were he not a Congressman.

Jake Stern

(3,145 posts)
42. Refusing to hide the fact that I feel absolutely no sympathy for him being shot
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:40 PM
Jun 2017

Last edited Wed Jun 14, 2017, 08:10 PM - Edit history (1)

is not an attack on him.

Compare his "fight for life" to the thousands who will suffer and die because of his votes in congress.

Compare his "fight for life" to the women who will die if he gets his way and Roe is overturned.

And speaking of Scalise being "pro-life" - Compare his "fight for life" to all the babies, elderly and poor who will starve because he voted for devastating cuts to SNAP.

Sorry if it seems mean but there are people so much more deserving of my thoughts and prayers than that asshole.

He certainly has no thoughts and prayers for us.

wysi

(1,512 posts)
57. My personal take on this...
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:37 PM
Jun 2017

I'm savoring the delicious irony of someone who cashes big checks written by the NRA getting shot with an assault rifle.

rainlillie

(1,095 posts)
45. It's not "attacking" to bring up his voting record.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:42 PM
Jun 2017

He along with other republicans voted to let mentally ill people have access to guns.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
48. Thanks for your concern. Scalise would have no problem whatsoever
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:48 PM
Jun 2017

with the forcible ethnic cleansing of 11 million human beings (undocumented Latino workers). I say he got exactly what karma says anyone who supports the NRA should get, i.e., a taste of their own fucking medicine.

Jake Stern

(3,145 posts)
63. Be careful - calling out an asshole right winger for his record is now considered hyperbole
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 08:25 PM
Jun 2017

Agree with you completely

rivegauche

(601 posts)
50. I am not attacking any victims.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 06:51 PM
Jun 2017

I simply don't give a shit if an NRA-owned republican congressman gets shot by some random maniac. Nope don't care, and I don't feel bad about not caring. Chickens, roost, etc.

Kleveland

(1,257 posts)
52. We should not be assigning blame here, but showing concern...
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:03 PM
Jun 2017

for a fellow American, who was injured by another fellow American.

Regardless of party, for the good of all, we need to try to find an understanding of what drives the perpetrators of these hateful acts to the point that they feel that harming another is the correct course of action.

There is something wrong going on in the land of the free, and the home of the brave.

How can we get to a point where we can all respect each other, and create a life of security, happiness, and respect for ourselves and others regardless of belief, race, color, handicaps etc?

We must find out how we can help those who would belittle any other citizen for reasons of hatred, greed, lack of compassion or whatever it is that is contrary to life liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

These events can be refining moments in the survival, or destruction of our society, our country, and the values that we all hold dear. Our needs all have a commonality that binds us to each other.

Those that seek to create division and hatred for their own selfish ends, will themselves reap what they sow.

This is a basic precept of all civilized societies, and religions.

We have more in common, than we have differences.

We need to embrace that beautiful aspect of creation , and the short lives that we have been given on this beautiful planet that greed seems intent on destroying.

Live, and let live. Not every man for himself.

Peace!

whathehell

(29,082 posts)
59. It's difficult when one poster claims "being shot is not an attack" and
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:46 PM
Jun 2017

another accuses Scalise of "having no problem with the forcible ethnic cleansing of 1.1 million people".

The hyperbole is running wild, unfortunately.

stonecutter357

(12,697 posts)
55. The NRA thanks Rep. Scalise for his leadership in this important effort, the gun group said .
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:25 PM
Jun 2017

In the face of former President Obama’s early-2016 executive actions to tighten gun-control laws, Scalise joined fellow Republicans in Louisiana — known for its lax gun laws — in criticizing the then-commander-in-chief. “It is insulting to the American people that President Obama is attempting to take away the constitutionally protected rights of law abiding citizens in an obvious effort to change the subject away from his failure to keep America safe from radical Islamic terrorists,” he said, according to the Times-Picayune. He had a chance and he did nothing . edit for link http://www.nydailynews.com/news/politics/steve-scalise-rep-wounded-va-shooting-article-1.3246692

Response to MineralMan (Original post)

 

juxtaposed

(2,778 posts)
61. For the OP, Thank you for thinking you are a moral compass for this despicable act.
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 07:57 PM
Jun 2017

I don't think you can set what is acceptable or not acceptable. Did you read Gabrielle Giffords post today and read the vile, hateful posts that followed.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
67. I don't think anything of the sort. I posted my opinion.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 09:05 AM
Jun 2017

You might have a different opinion. I can't set your moral compass for you, nor will I try. I will, however, post my opinion freely on DU.

Gothmog

(145,479 posts)
64. The victims of the shootings are in my prayers
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 08:27 PM
Jun 2017

I am praying for full and complete recoveries for each victim. The Houston victim was released this afternoon

Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
65. Sometimes hard to remember who the victim is
Wed Jun 14, 2017, 08:33 PM
Jun 2017

It's all so murky. A House Divided. Everyone a victim, enabler, or abuser. Domestic violence cases are the worst, right?

But a sense of decency suggests we should not point fingers when compassion is the order of the day.

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
69. I agree with all of that
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 09:27 AM
Jun 2017

But I think it over states the importance of essentially a chat room.

In general I see alot of handwringing over what is written here, more so than many other forums and chat rooms, but in the scheme of things, it doesn't really matter. What will happen in the real world will happen. The only time the nation pays attention is when someone gets stupid and makes threats etc.

nonetheless, I agree.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
70. It does matter, though.
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 09:32 AM
Jun 2017

DU has a searchable database of posts. So do many other discussion forums. DU isn't actually a "chat room." It is a forum where people discuss political issues. Those discussions are usually serious ones.

You may not think that what is written on sites like this one matters. You're incorrect, I believe.

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
71. It's a matter of degrees I think
Thu Jun 15, 2017, 09:45 AM
Jun 2017

Everything you wrote (with the possible exception of me being incorrect is accurate.

However political discussions on the internet are about as common as grains of sand on the beach.

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