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A catchy little Ann-Margret / Elvis song about stalking because it's Saturday night and #LaborDayWeekend https://t.co/QyagDhaMxl
Warpy
(111,240 posts)Real stalkers provoke disgust and/or terror as we frantically dial the cops and hope they get there before the piece of shit breaks in and kills us.
It's one reason I can't stand 60s teenybopper movies, they were all like that.
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Context matters. I lived through the experience of a stalker, he never sang to me.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)The saying "man chases woman until she catches him" was a way everyone thought and acted.
It was socially expected for men to be aggressive and for women to be demure. If a woman was too open to being 'caught' she was considered 'easy'. Or to use today's jargon, a slut.
Lotusflower70
(3,077 posts)Context matters. This movie is from 1964. Looking at it through a 2017 lens colors it. I didn't live then but I can see how what was acceptable then is different.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Keep that pelvis far from me!
Lotusflower70
(3,077 posts)I love it. Grease is so awesome.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)tell me more, tell me more, did she put up a fight?
Lotusflower70
(3,077 posts)That is much more blatant. It's definitely not the highlight moment for me. And it shows the change in what is and isn't acceptable. Of course there are still songs with questionable lyrics.
edhopper
(33,561 posts)Baby It's Cold Outside.
I really can't stay (but baby, it's cold outside)
I've got to go away (but baby, it's cold outside)
This evening has been (been hoping that you'd drop in)
So very nice (i'll hold your hands, they're just like ice)
My mother will start to worry (beautiful what's your hurry?)
My father will be pacing the floor (listen to the fireplace roar)
So really I'd better scurry (beautiful please don't hurry)
But maybe just a half a drink more (put some records on while I pour)
The neighbors might think (baby, it's bad out there)
Say what's in this drink? (no cabs to be had out there)
Date rape?
A radio station where I live did a parody of that song, it was creepy as hell.