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mcar

(42,278 posts)
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 10:34 PM Sep 2017

"Do the women get to talk around here?" Pelosi is such a badass!

Trump and Democrats strike DACA deal. Yes? No? Sort of? Trump’s world can be confusing.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/trump-and-democrats-strike-daca-deal-yes-no-sort-of-trumps-world-can-be-confusing/2017/09/14/ab6a40d4-9970-11e7-82e4-f1076f6d6152_story.html?utm_term=.64dbf8086ef8


On Wednesday night, in a Blue Room dinner at the White House with Senate Minority Leader Charles E. Schumer (N.Y.) and House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi (Calif.), the president reached a tentative agreement with the Democratic leaders: The young undocumented immigrants known as “dreamers” would be allowed to stay in the country in exchange for a border security package that does not include funding for Trump’s wall...


At one point, Commerce Secretary Wilbur Ross asked, “What exactly does the president get out of this deal?” As Pelosi, the only woman at the table of 11, tried to make her point — that the president gets the cooperation of the Democrats, which he will likely need on a host of issues — the men in the room began talking over her and one another.

“Do the women get to talk around here?” Pelosi interjected, according to two people familiar with the exchange.

There was, at last, silence, and she was not interrupted again.


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"Do the women get to talk around here?" Pelosi is such a badass! (Original Post) mcar Sep 2017 OP
Good for her and us. erinlough Sep 2017 #1
She is standing for us all! mcar Sep 2017 #2
Same Here Me. Sep 2017 #3
Amen. BadgerMom Sep 2017 #16
Fucking A (as we used to say in Philly)! BigmanPigman Sep 2017 #4
Yep. Fucking A. Nail um, Pelosi. Alice11111 Sep 2017 #6
Yeah!! KT2000 Sep 2017 #5
There isn't a woman who has sat in a meeting of any kind NastyRiffraff Sep 2017 #7
Heard that flibbitygiblets Sep 2017 #10
Or even not a meeting. BadgerMom Sep 2017 #17
Yes..and its time it stopped.. whathehell Sep 2017 #27
Amen!!!!! treestar Sep 2017 #33
She is one tough woman. And to think there's a movement afoot here to get rid of her... Hekate Sep 2017 #8
This! Ninsianna Sep 2017 #26
Exactly! maddiemom Sep 2017 #31
I'm Gonna Have to Find Out How She Does It Leith Sep 2017 #9
A loud "Excuse me" said with just Phoenix61 Sep 2017 #14
Or, put your index finger in the air while saying LuckyLib Sep 2017 #21
Thw exact same way she did. mercuryblues Sep 2017 #29
Lower voice treestar Sep 2017 #34
IKR mercuryblues Sep 2017 #35
There is a disconcerted effort to take her down bc she just KICKS ASS. AgadorSparticus Sep 2017 #11
Brava for BADASS Women! Stinky The Clown Sep 2017 #12
I noticed after the previous meeting, when they agreed on the debt ceiling question everything Sep 2017 #13
School them, Pelosi! brer cat Sep 2017 #15
this is one of the few times we are hearing about it. but it's a common thing that happens JI7 Sep 2017 #18
wasn't wilbur ross the one who loved saudi arabia and thought it was just great there were no JI7 Sep 2017 #19
Yes indeed, and the one who had a leadership role at the Bank of Cyprus. MLAA Sep 2017 #20
Yes. He's the dude at the international dry cleaners. calimary Sep 2017 #24
Boys!! it is NOT your turn to talk. Doreen Sep 2017 #22
She persisted.... Bayard Sep 2017 #23
It's called Male Entitlement.. whathehell Sep 2017 #28
Nancy is a badass and very, very smart. JNelson6563 Sep 2017 #25
I know Pelosi has issues, but I like the way she handles herself. You go, girl! nt Honeycombe8 Sep 2017 #30
What issues does she have? mcar Sep 2017 #32

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
4. Fucking A (as we used to say in Philly)!
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 10:54 PM
Sep 2017

I posted something similar this AM when I read about the ALL BOYS CLUB again. Remember there were 13 white men chosen by McConnell to craft a healthcare bill for the entire country when women make up over 50% of the population. Whoever says that there is equality in this country has their head up their ass. If I ever hear a man anywhere (and yes DU...here too) dismiss or disqualify anyone based on gender, even in the most subtle and naive manner, I will call you out.

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
5. Yeah!!
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 10:58 PM
Sep 2017

How many times has that happened to us women. Too many.
I learned to keep talking - louder.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
7. There isn't a woman who has sat in a meeting of any kind
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 11:04 PM
Sep 2017

who hasn't had that happen to her. I know I have.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
33. Amen!!!!!
Sat Sep 16, 2017, 09:56 AM
Sep 2017

They expect to hold court: we are there to listen.

I remember it specifically in regards to a conversation about sports. I had something to say, but was carefully avoided when I tried. I don't think it was even intentional.

Hekate

(90,560 posts)
8. She is one tough woman. And to think there's a movement afoot here to get rid of her...
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 11:06 PM
Sep 2017

As Michelle Obama says: Don't be fooled.

maddiemom

(5,106 posts)
31. Exactly!
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 10:59 PM
Sep 2017

Get rid of Nancy and "go away," Hillary. Do I detect a pattern? Both women are sharp, effective, and just too successful, I'm afraid. Republican women in Congress such as Murkowski and Collins have already shown some independence in standing up to misogyny. Keep going,ladies!

Leith

(7,808 posts)
9. I'm Gonna Have to Find Out How She Does It
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 11:06 PM
Sep 2017

I get interrupted a lot.

Maybe that's why I like message boards so much. I can get my entire thought out and if someone stops reading in middle of it, I'll never know.

Phoenix61

(16,993 posts)
14. A loud "Excuse me" said with just
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 11:53 PM
Sep 2017

the right amount of irritation works amazingly well. I've heard it called a "teacher voice."

LuckyLib

(6,817 posts)
21. Or, put your index finger in the air while saying
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 12:35 AM
Sep 2017

"It's my turn to talk." They act like kindergarteners, they need to be addressed in that teachable moment in a firm, clear voice.

mercuryblues

(14,522 posts)
29. Thw exact same way she did.
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 09:39 PM
Sep 2017

People know I am serious when I lower my voice an octave and very seriously say something over their prattle. Sometimes standing up as if you are ready to walk out of the room while doing so is also needed. Read the room. This is one way to make sure you get credit for an idea.

AgadorSparticus

(7,963 posts)
11. There is a disconcerted effort to take her down bc she just KICKS ASS.
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 11:41 PM
Sep 2017

No wonder they are scared of her.

Stinky The Clown

(67,761 posts)
12. Brava for BADASS Women!
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 11:45 PM
Sep 2017

And Leader Pelosi is a badass among badasses.

I love how she does it with that grandmotherly demeanor.

question everything

(47,435 posts)
13. I noticed after the previous meeting, when they agreed on the debt ceiling
Thu Sep 14, 2017, 11:49 PM
Sep 2017

that she was the only woman there and was thinking that something was very wrong.

JI7

(89,240 posts)
18. this is one of the few times we are hearing about it. but it's a common thing that happens
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 12:25 AM
Sep 2017

all the fucking time.

JI7

(89,240 posts)
19. wasn't wilbur ross the one who loved saudi arabia and thought it was just great there were no
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 12:27 AM
Sep 2017

protestors there ?

MLAA

(17,250 posts)
20. Yes indeed, and the one who had a leadership role at the Bank of Cyprus.
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 12:34 AM
Sep 2017

I am hoping he won't be going back to Saudi Arabia because his traveling days will be over except the daily 45 min excursions around the 'yard' 😉

calimary

(81,110 posts)
24. Yes. He's the dude at the international dry cleaners.
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 01:24 AM
Sep 2017

Nicely laundering everybody's nice money.

Bayard

(22,008 posts)
23. She persisted....
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 01:22 AM
Sep 2017

Why is it that women who stand their ground are known as bitches, when its just normal for men to be rude? I've had this happen all my life seems like.

So just call me a bitch...

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
28. It's called Male Entitlement..
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 09:07 PM
Sep 2017

and you're not a 'bitch', you're a normal human expecting respect, but not getting it because you were born female.

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
25. Nancy is a badass and very, very smart.
Fri Sep 15, 2017, 08:37 PM
Sep 2017

And those calling for her to be replaced are so obviously, glaringly clueless it's not funny.

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