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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHigh School Boys Make Rape Joke At Breast Cancer Awareness Football Game
Four South Carolina students recently spelled out the word rape with spray painted letters on their chests as an apparent joke during a football game for their districts annual Breast Cancer Awareness Night.
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Before the game started, the students essentially started playing scrabble by spelling out different words from BUMP CANCER and taking pictures. One of those was RAPE, Newton told HuffPost in an email. The principal was informed later that night about what had happened, and worked to identify the students.
The picture of the four boys was shared on Snapchat with the caption What we do to Daniel, referring to the D.W. Daniel team they were playing.
Using the threat of rape, even as analogy, is not behavior that any school or any parent should (or hopefully would) condone, the post read. Rape culture in high school and college is a real threat to many students. The juxtaposition of a violent message with the breast cancer awareness symbology is of particular concern.
The assumption these young men seem to have made is that their position and privilege allows them to make jokes about rape as a viable threat. We trust that the school administration, the district and the parents involved would never condone either that implicit attitude or the behavior itself, the post continued. We are puzzled, however, that no action seems to have been taken at the game, when these young men were standing proudly in front of attendees, the teams, and the coaching staff.
More: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/high-school-boys-make-rape-joke-at-breast-cancer-awareness-football-game_us_59c269fae4b0f22c4a8dfc51?section=us_women
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,345 posts)Welp, time to take a closer look at your school and community, my dude.
DBoon
(22,366 posts)NT
Eko
(7,299 posts)I know, I was one of them and I was dumb as a doorknob. Yet that plumbs the depth of dumb way past anything I or my friends could have ever done. That is straight up mean and needs to be addressed quick.
cyclonefence
(4,483 posts)because my first thought was how fucking dumb high school boys are, how they think things are funny that they and their friends laugh about among themselves without really knowing what they're talking about, and then I thought, "well, but this was a joke about *rape* at a breast cancer awareness event."
Eko
(7,299 posts)We planted winter seeds on the front school lawn that said "high school sucks", did a lot of drugs during school, skipped school and generally hated everything but we never joked about rape. Ever.
sheshe2
(83,762 posts)Enables them as does his wife, she forgave his comment by saying "Boys will be boys". Then goes to the UN and gives a speech about bullying...and her husband is the most offensive bully of them all.
They are both enablers and a huge part of the problem and in no way part of the solution. It was an embarrassment that she spoke on this topic.
Stuart G
(38,427 posts)an hour of movies on male on male rape...and the results of such activity...and how that destroyed lives...
....These jerks have no clue...dumb?
Doorknobs have far more intelligence...........................
.totally insensitive beyond what is plausible...I hope they wake up...somehow, and someday..soon.
lpbk2713
(42,757 posts)...
lunasun
(21,646 posts)sheshe2
(83,762 posts)They were probably yucking it up and saying boys will be boys...like Melania after 45's p***y grabber comment...and the media saying it was just locker room talk. I am appalled!
Doreen
(11,686 posts)and if she has her way she will make rape legal. She is starting with the colleges and will go down to the high schools and then it will be legal. Oh, of course only if you are a white christian male.
sheshe2
(83,762 posts)I am well aware of DeVos.
She like the pRes endorses rape. Are we proud of America today?
Doreen
(11,686 posts)Everything just keeps getting scarier and scarier.
sheshe2
(83,762 posts)We may not see her shine for a very long time, we are in darkness now.
SunSeeker
(51,556 posts)"Boys will be boys." Even when they're 71.
It is fucking infuriating how grown adults let idiots like these boys off the hook. I'm looking at YOU, Melania Trump!
sheshe2
(83,762 posts)She is aiding and abetting rape by her actions and words. She is trying to normalize rape and the men that do this.
Thanks sunseeker.