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Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:32 AM Nov 2017

This Barton story is nonsense.

I’m not even sure what he did wrong here? Had a consensual relationship with someone while separated from his wife?

Even if he wasn’t separated from his wife at the time, whoever leaked these photos should see jail time.


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This Barton story is nonsense. (Original Post) Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 OP
It sounds as if she was blackmailing him jberryhill Nov 2017 #1
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #2
Go pound sand Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #5
If you don't want your genitals plastered all over, don't send the photos of them to people. LisaL Nov 2017 #8
perhaps dont take pics like that in the first place nt msongs Nov 2017 #19
Don't make that statement about women... Glamrock Nov 2017 #46
Yep. Thats what revenge porn publishers say jberryhill Nov 2017 #48
So you're saying he was asking for it? NickB79 Nov 2017 #68
Just astounding True Dough Nov 2017 #90
Shes concerned about Alex Jones potential liability jberryhill Nov 2017 #47
He demonstrated "republican family values" Achilleaze Nov 2017 #76
In congress for 32 yrs and he thinks it's a good idea to get pics of his stuff on the internets womanofthehills Nov 2017 #117
If your sexual partner sent you pics, you'd show them around? NickB79 Nov 2017 #123
I agree madville Nov 2017 #3
he's a republican so fuck him gopiscrap Nov 2017 #132
Must say I was hoping it would result in his resignation and disgrace DeltaLitProf Nov 2017 #4
Oh sure Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #7
who cares if it is dirty pool gopiscrap Nov 2017 #133
You mean we need to be just as despicable as they are Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #134
actually yes gopiscrap Nov 2017 #135
Well it does not work any more treestar Nov 2017 #138
look where we are after "taking the high road" Skittles Nov 2017 #151
Im not into breaking laws Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #141
Bringing the Capitol Police into it was a nice touch though BeyondGeography Nov 2017 #6
Revenge Porn is a crime in many jurisdictions Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #11
It had nothing to do with intimidation BeyondGeography Nov 2017 #17
You think the Capitol Police... jberryhill Nov 2017 #49
That isnt the point; he was strong-arming her BeyondGeography Nov 2017 #56
When someone is threatening to extort you, and you threaten to call the police.. jberryhill Nov 2017 #57
What extortion? He was afraid his whole bullshit life was going to be exposed BeyondGeography Nov 2017 #59
I couldn't give two shits about Joe Barton jberryhill Nov 2017 #61
You gather wrong BeyondGeography Nov 2017 #63
I'm confused by your use of - hold that over the womans head jberryhill Nov 2017 #67
And I'm confused by your inability to recognize the power dynamic here BeyondGeography Nov 2017 #69
The power dynamic in extortion of a public figure? jberryhill Nov 2017 #71
Since you don't understand... tazkcmo Nov 2017 #139
Did you forget a sarcasm tag? jberryhill Nov 2017 #147
Yes, sarcasm tazkcmo Nov 2017 #161
Dang, that was good jberryhill Nov 2017 #162
Well, she was the one recording, not him, so she was apparently collecting evidence. moriah Nov 2017 #155
The woman claimed she did not post the photo. spooky3 Nov 2017 #54
Yeah, it magically left her device and made it onto the internet jberryhill Nov 2017 #58
It probably did - I bet her girlfriends had copies womanofthehills Nov 2017 #118
Yes. The article also said she shared it with other spooky3 Nov 2017 #119
If I was his PR advisor madville Nov 2017 #9
Yea, real good. Instead of conservative values republican, he can now be known for "revenge porn." LisaL Nov 2017 #10
The actual term is nonconsensual pornography madville Nov 2017 #14
That doesn't make sense, considering he took the video of himself and send it to her? LisaL Nov 2017 #16
Her distributing it without his permission is the nonconsensual part madville Nov 2017 #18
She says she didn't distribute it. LisaL Nov 2017 #20
She obviously did if she was the only one he sent it to madville Nov 2017 #21
What in the world makes you think she was the only one he sent it to? LisaL Nov 2017 #22
She said she is the one that shared it with the other women. The investigations will hash it out madville Nov 2017 #26
But that doesn't mean he didn't send photos and videos to other women. LisaL Nov 2017 #28
Possible, then one of them could be guilty under existing revenge porn laws madville Nov 2017 #36
Okay, so... jberryhill Nov 2017 #60
ummm. that is a possibility. The Truth will drip out. riversedge Nov 2017 #31
I agree that it's nonsense. n/t NanceGreggs Nov 2017 #12
of all the people who post reguarly here... chillfactor Nov 2017 #24
OK, I'm stumped. sl8 Nov 2017 #148
Yes, it appears so, but what's great is that it's one more OnDoutside Nov 2017 #13
Thats fine I suppose Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #32
What for ? OnDoutside Nov 2017 #45
Unlawful Disclosure of Intimate Visual Material Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #70
And by the way, he was married. LisaL Nov 2017 #15
Separated apparently Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #29
By his own taped admission, married. LisaL Nov 2017 #33
Yes. Married people can be separated Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #37
Well, he didn't call himself separated in that taped conversation. LisaL Nov 2017 #43
Yes, this poster thinks the my-ex-wife revenge porn sites are fine jberryhill Nov 2017 #50
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #23
My feelings exactly. LisaL Nov 2017 #25
Why would I care that you are sick and tired? Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #27
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #51
That is uncalled for. cwydro Nov 2017 #72
+1 fleabiscuit Nov 2017 #35
Is this post of yours good and thoughtful? tammywammy Nov 2017 #44
A similar incident forced Anthony Weiner to resign from Congress... W_HAMILTON Nov 2017 #30
Exactly. Weiner resigned over sexting with adults. LisaL Nov 2017 #34
Weiner should have fought back harder... Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #40
Underage interactions was years later. LisaL Nov 2017 #41
The only person who could make Weiner resign was Weiner jberryhill Nov 2017 #53
Multiple times after he got caught and apologized and promised not to do it again. n/m RhodeIslandOne Nov 2017 #143
Revenge porn wasn't illegal in NY at the time Weiner got caught onenote Nov 2017 #87
All this "revenge porn" talk is silly. W_HAMILTON Nov 2017 #99
How did the picture/video get from her to the public? onenote Nov 2017 #101
The article states that she previously shared it with spooky3 Nov 2017 #120
Disclosing it to other women would itself be a violation onenote Nov 2017 #125
But its hardly revenge simply to share it with spooky3 Nov 2017 #127
Even sharing it with one person can violate the law NickB79 Nov 2017 #126
I was responding to the assertion that she must spooky3 Nov 2017 #129
He threatened to call the police if she exposed him RandySF Nov 2017 #38
The police confirmed an investigation madville Nov 2017 #42
Im curious about something... jberryhill Nov 2017 #52
This is why Weiner was pushed out. Corvo Bianco Nov 2017 #39
there were many reasons he was pushed out. Lying about his actions was one big one onenote Nov 2017 #88
I had actually forgotten about that mess. Thanks for the reminder. Corvo Bianco Nov 2017 #149
Another republican Religious pig is exposed and the leak is the big story? pwb Nov 2017 #55
Revenge porn? GulfCoast66 Nov 2017 #62
You don't know it was unsolicited. wasupaloopa Nov 2017 #65
Point made. GulfCoast66 Nov 2017 #73
Some people on this board don't care about freedoms when sex is involved. What two consenting adults wasupaloopa Nov 2017 #64
But apparently one of the consenting adults decided to harm the other. Kaleva Nov 2017 #108
Which one was that? wasupaloopa Nov 2017 #114
The one who released the pics and video of Barton. Kaleva Nov 2017 #124
. NCTraveler Nov 2017 #66
Maybe it's nonsense, but it's also Karma. GoCubsGo Nov 2017 #74
Being a dirty old adulterer and hypocrite is not a crime. shanny Nov 2017 #121
I never said it wasn't. GoCubsGo Nov 2017 #122
according to many here Skittles Nov 2017 #154
Yeah, I noticed that. GoCubsGo Nov 2017 #159
If you take a photo of your private parts and send it to someone, I don't think you should have any Vinca Nov 2017 #75
Yep. At the very least, he's guilty of lacking common sense. GoCubsGo Nov 2017 #78
Hurray for more victim blaming Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #84
The amount of hypocrisy can be astounding, sometimes bearsfootball516 Nov 2017 #92
He's only a victim in that he has a fat, flabby, repulsive body and poor judgement. Vinca Nov 2017 #96
Aha! Here you are again True Dough Nov 2017 #93
I had to walk away for awhile yesterday as it as getting pretty disgusting Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #94
The law disagrees Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #79
It's a misdemeanor so anyone convicted would probably get a fine. Vinca Nov 2017 #82
Keeping in mind that most of these laws are designed to protect women Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #83
How did you feel about this: Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #105
I'm not familiar with it, but I think if you send intimate pictures to anyone you shouldn't be Vinca Nov 2017 #106
I dont disagree but... Loki Liesmith Nov 2017 #115
therefore you have no expectation of privacy of anything at all on your phone? onenote Nov 2017 #89
I think that's very true. People are hacked every day. Other people use your phone. Vinca Nov 2017 #95
If there is no expectation of privacy on phones, why is hacking them illegal? onenote Nov 2017 #98
You can expect anything. It doesn't mean it won't happen. Vinca Nov 2017 #100
Yes he's a fool But the law protects fools. onenote Nov 2017 #103
Smartphones. Landlines. Computers connected to the internet in your home. Expect no privacy Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #102
You have heard about all the hacks that have occurred recently . . . right? Vinca Nov 2017 #107
The law creates an expectation of privacy. onenote Nov 2017 #112
Expectation isn't certainty. Vinca Nov 2017 #116
Nope. Kaleva Nov 2017 #111
well, you SHOULD Skittles Nov 2017 #152
Did you make a similar post.... RhodeIslandOne Nov 2017 #144
I'm afraid I don't keep up with the stars and was unaware of it. Vinca Nov 2017 #146
He is in the bible belt, but they usually excuse such behavior which goes against their pretend Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #77
Members of Congress making masterbating videos riverwalker Nov 2017 #80
I spent a good part of yesterday arguing much the same as you Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #81
Spot on. cwydro Nov 2017 #97
This is turning into a perfect view of how tribalism impacts both sides Blue_Adept Nov 2017 #85
It's all relative nolabels Nov 2017 #91
Extremely illuminating thread I must say. Kingofalldems Nov 2017 #86
For me, it gets to an issue of judgement. We hope our leaders have some basic common sense. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #104
To me, it shows a lack of common sense. Kaleva Nov 2017 #109
Exactly, and could be dangerous, making him a blackmail target. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #110
There's the problem MFM008 Nov 2017 #157
Exactly. Also objectionable, it appears these congressmen have a tax payer funded slush fund Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #158
THANK YOU Skittles Nov 2017 #153
Completely agree. Kentonio Nov 2017 #113
actually we should gopiscrap Nov 2017 #137
It was private and now it's personally embarrassing. no_hypocrisy Nov 2017 #128
The real laugh is someone assuming that email or texting is a private means of communication. fleabiscuit Nov 2017 #130
bullshit all is fair in a political war gopiscrap Nov 2017 #131
Agreed. treestar Nov 2017 #136
It's the hypocrisy. Bleacher Creature Nov 2017 #140
Not like it was leaking names of undercover CIA agents Roland99 Nov 2017 #142
Barton is a dirty old man RhodeIslandOne Nov 2017 #145
these sanctimonious repukes are always carrying on about God and FAMILY VALUES Skittles Nov 2017 #150
It could be a national security risk riverwalker Nov 2017 #156
Republicans at the dinner table called him "a filthy pervert" yesterday Deb Nov 2017 #160
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
1. It sounds as if she was blackmailing him
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:35 AM
Nov 2017

I’m having a difficult time understanding how the “victim” repeatedly received cash reimbursements for travel to see him.

One way to avoid having sex with him might have been to not buy airline tickets to DC.

Response to Loki Liesmith (Original post)

True Dough

(17,305 posts)
90. Just astounding
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:26 AM
Nov 2017

and disappointing that people let the veil of politics cloud their vision when it comes to who is the victim in this instance. I have zero respect for Barton's politics, but his privacy has been violated here.

I'm glad you see that too.

womanofthehills

(8,709 posts)
117. In congress for 32 yrs and he thinks it's a good idea to get pics of his stuff on the internets
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:18 PM
Nov 2017

It shows he is BEYOND STUPID. Do we really want men who are this stupid in congress? He obviously is too narcissistic to know anything about women. OMG! If I got a gross pic like that there is no way I would not show my best girlfriends. He should have learned a lesson from Monica/Clinton - women usually talk about this kind of stuff with their besties.


NickB79

(19,243 posts)
123. If your sexual partner sent you pics, you'd show them around?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:38 PM
Nov 2017

If it was, say, your husband or boyfriend? Remember, he is saying he sent the pics AFTER he'd been in a consentual relationship with this woman for a while. He didn't send them to a random stranger.

I had a girlfriend in college who gave me a few nude Polaroids once. Would I have been in the right to spread them around after she cheated on me?

madville

(7,410 posts)
3. I agree
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:36 AM
Nov 2017

I'm looking for the scandal. Besides it being embarrassing, I'm not seeing much else. He's actually a victim of revenge porn, the Capitol Police and Texas authorities have initiated investigations. Sounds like the whole thing was a jilted lover revenge thing, petty.

DeltaLitProf

(769 posts)
4. Must say I was hoping it would result in his resignation and disgrace
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:36 AM
Nov 2017

. . . because the guy is dog manure basically. But this case reads like he's the victim.

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
133. who cares if it is dirty pool
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:56 PM
Nov 2017

this is how the reukes play and if we want to keep up, we need a tougher shell and play the same way

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
135. actually yes
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:59 PM
Nov 2017

we lost because of dirty tricks...we need to be just as shitty as they are to win. It's all about the win because if you don't win...then you can't enact your vision

treestar

(82,383 posts)
138. Well it does not work any more
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:02 PM
Nov 2017

Once the Pussy Grabber won. So it would be suicidal. We'll be living in their world.

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
6. Bringing the Capitol Police into it was a nice touch though
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:38 AM
Nov 2017

I think that, um, angle, could stand some more illumination. Kind of fascist, don't you think?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
49. You think the Capitol Police...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 06:27 AM
Nov 2017

...are at the whimsical and personal beck and call of any of 435 legislators?

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
56. That isnt the point; he was strong-arming her
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:17 AM
Nov 2017

He’s a powerful congressman and she’s a nobody. How would she know what the Capitol Police were ready to do on his behalf?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
57. When someone is threatening to extort you, and you threaten to call the police..
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:27 AM
Nov 2017

...that's not my definition of "strong-arming".

It's pretty obvious that she then proceeded to send the material to other people.

I can't recall ever having a problem with someone saying "I'm going to call the police."

She was threatening to commit a crime, and it looks like she may have done so.

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
59. What extortion? He was afraid his whole bullshit life was going to be exposed
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:29 AM
Nov 2017

The depth of your empathy for Joe Barton is touching.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
61. I couldn't give two shits about Joe Barton
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:34 AM
Nov 2017

Among the less pleasant things I do for a living is to review abuse complaints sent to an online service provider.

While I gather you think the law should have an "unless it happens to people we don't like" exception, the world of revenge porn and extortion is a very, very dark one.

This kind of thing happens to people who are not conservative Republican Texas Congressional representatives, and I really don't see how it matters.

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
63. You gather wrong
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:43 AM
Nov 2017

He has the right to go to the police, we have the right to decide why he would hold that over the woman’s head in this instance. I think it was a blunder at best and heavy-handed at worst.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
67. I'm confused by your use of - hold that over the womans head
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 08:42 AM
Nov 2017

Since subject lines don't allow quotation marks, let me re-state that:

You are saying he was going to "hold that over the woman's head in this instance".

I'm unclear on the meaning of that.

She was threatening to release intimate material obtained in the course of a consensual relationship, for what purpose?

How on earth is it "holding it over her head" to suggest that if she commits a crime against him, then he would call the police?

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
69. And I'm confused by your inability to recognize the power dynamic here
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 08:58 AM
Nov 2017

This wasn't just Joe Blow going to the police. Figure it out already.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
71. The power dynamic in extortion of a public figure?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:09 AM
Nov 2017

I think anyone with embarrassing photographs or information about a public figure is the one with the power in that situation.

I'm sorry I'm dense, so you are going to have to spell this out for me...

One day, an innocent dear sweet lamb is recording a telephone conversation she's having with a representative in Congress because, yeah, sure, that's what you do when you call people in relationships, and he suddenly starts saying that he'll call the police on her, in order to obtain what result?

Or maybe you mean it is somehow disproportionate for someone to state that they will call the police when threatened with a crime, if they happen to be a representative in Congress?

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
139. Since you don't understand...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:09 PM
Nov 2017

I'll help you. Apparently, if you are a person in a position of power and you share intimate feelings/pics/poetry/anything with your consensual partner in a legal activity then you have no recourse through the law when that partner tries to embarrass/extort/bribe or other wise violate the intimacy and implied confidentiality in such an exchange because it's abuse of power.

I hope you get it now because my head is spinning and I have to rest.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
147. Did you forget a sarcasm tag?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 05:01 PM
Nov 2017

On this part:

"then you have no recourse through the law when that partner tries to embarrass/extort/bribe"

Are you saying if someone attempts to bribe or extort a Congressperson, then saying "I'll call the cops if you do that" is an inappropriate response?

If I say to Rand Paul, "Do what I want or I'll break your ribs", then it is an abuse of power for him to say, "If you do, then I will call the police"?

Did you really mean that?

moriah

(8,311 posts)
155. Well, she was the one recording, not him, so she was apparently collecting evidence.
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 01:14 AM
Nov 2017

Blackmail isn't cool.

Had he been recording the phone call, and knowing it was recorded, one could say he was just "talking for the recorder" about what he'd report to the Capital Police when she asked.

And what he said, in his "effort to intimidate" was:


In the 2015 phone call, Barton confronted the woman over her communications with the other women, including her decision to share explicit materials he had sent. In that context, he mentioned the Capitol Police, a comment the woman interpreted as an attempt to intimidate her.

“I want your word that this ends,” he said, according to the recording, adding: “I will be completely straight with you. I am ready if I have to, I don’t want to, but I should take all this crap to the Capitol Hill Police and have them launch an investigation. And if I do that, that hurts me potentially big time.”

“Why would you even say that to me?” the woman responded. “The Capitol Hill police? And what would you tell them, sir?”

Said Barton: “I would tell them that I had a three-year undercover relationship with you over the Internet that was heavily sexual and that I had met you twice while married and had sex with you on two different occasions and that I exchanged inappropriate photographs and videos with you that I wouldn’t like to be seen made public, that you still apparently had all of those and were in position to use them in a way that would negatively affect my career. That’s the truth.”


https://www.washingtonpost.com/powerpost/congressman-told-woman-he-would-report-her-to-capitol-police-if-she-exposed-his-secret-sex-life/2017/11/22/e3345862-cf10-11e7-a1a3-0d1e45a6de3d_story.html?utm_term=.f268d4a56e1b

I think if she was going to consider that "intimidating", that he would tell them all the dirt on himself and that she was threatening to disclose it to ruin his career in violation of Texas law (depending on when in 2015 she recorded the call and distributed the photos to the other women, at least), that she had a reason to feel intimidated that had nothing to do with abuse of power but her own illegal conduct.
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
58. Yeah, it magically left her device and made it onto the internet
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:28 AM
Nov 2017

She was so offended by the video (the "photo" is a screen cap of a video, as is plainly obvious by looking at the time bar at the bottom), that she kept it for a couple of years and held it over his head for leverage.

spooky3

(34,452 posts)
119. Yes. The article also said she shared it with other
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:12 PM
Nov 2017

women she learned had affairs with him. Any of them could have posted it.

madville

(7,410 posts)
9. If I was his PR advisor
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:43 AM
Nov 2017

I would get him affiliated with a revenge porn advocacy group. Record some PSA videos for them explaining the damaging effects revenge porn has on its victims using his experience. Release far and wide, the victim angle is how he gets by this and its not untrue.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
10. Yea, real good. Instead of conservative values republican, he can now be known for "revenge porn."
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:44 AM
Nov 2017

madville

(7,410 posts)
14. The actual term is nonconsensual pornography
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:49 AM
Nov 2017

It's a real thing, usually more of a women's issue in nature but I would run to it, not away from it.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
16. That doesn't make sense, considering he took the video of himself and send it to her?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:51 AM
Nov 2017

So how is it non-consensual?

madville

(7,410 posts)
18. Her distributing it without his permission is the nonconsensual part
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:58 AM
Nov 2017

She can't distribute it without his consent. Against the law in both Texas and Washington DC.

madville

(7,410 posts)
21. She obviously did if she was the only one he sent it to
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:03 AM
Nov 2017

According the Washington Post (who she also gave it to) she shared it with the other women she found out Barton had been seeing. That is distribution, it doesn't matter if she wasn't the anonymous person that posted it to Twitter, she initially shared it with others and has admitted that to the WaPo reporters.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
22. What in the world makes you think she was the only one he sent it to?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:03 AM
Nov 2017

She found out he had relationships with multiple other women, according to Washington Post. If he sent it to her, what makes you think he didn't send anything to these other women?

madville

(7,410 posts)
26. She said she is the one that shared it with the other women. The investigations will hash it out
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:10 AM
Nov 2017

She admittedly is the one that shared it with the other women, according to the Washington Post writer she spoke with.


<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">She didn't threaten to release the pics; she was sharing them with other women he was involved with. And it didn't end.</p>— Mike DeBonis (@mikedebonis) <a href="


?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 23, 2017</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>

madville

(7,410 posts)
36. Possible, then one of them could be guilty under existing revenge porn laws
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:14 AM
Nov 2017

If they then distributed it as well. The authorities may be making multiple arrests in this case now that you bring that up. The woman who went to the Washington Post has already admitted to distributing it.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
60. Okay, so...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:31 AM
Nov 2017

She just happened to record a telephone conversation in which she threatens to release the material, and he says he will call the police, but she's NOT the person who released the material?

Is that what you want to go with?

chillfactor

(7,576 posts)
24. of all the people who post reguarly here...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:07 AM
Nov 2017

you are the LAST person I would suspect of posting your own nonsense.

sl8

(13,769 posts)
148. OK, I'm stumped.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 08:16 PM
Nov 2017

I read your post this morning and didn't understand it, and it's been in the back of my mind all day.

Ignoring the "nonsense" characterization for the moment (you're certainly entitled to your opinion), I'm unable to parse your statement in such a way that it would make sense.

"Of all the people who post reguarly here...
you are the LAST person I would suspect of posting your own nonsense."


It seems that she would, almost by definition, be the FIRST person you would suspect of posting her own material, nonsense or otherwise.

It seems comparable to telling Stephen King that he is last person you would suspect of writing a Stephen King novel.

How have I misunderstood?

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
32. Thats fine I suppose
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:12 AM
Nov 2017

But if they can identify the person who leaked the tape they should be prosecuted.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
15. And by the way, he was married.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:49 AM
Nov 2017

Even in the taped conversation with the woman, he admits he had this relationship with her while married.

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
37. Yes. Married people can be separated
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:24 AM
Nov 2017

Separation is not divorce.

Surely you are aware of these basic facts of vocabulary?

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
43. Well, he didn't call himself separated in that taped conversation.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:31 AM
Nov 2017

He called himself married. Their relationship lasted 3 years. Are you going to claim he was separated all that time?

"Said Barton: "I would tell them that I had a three-year undercover relationship with you over the Internet that was heavily sexual and that I had met you twice while married and had sex with you on two different occasions and that I exchanged inappropriate photographs and videos with you that I wouldn't like to be seen made public, that you still apparently had all of those and were in position to use them in a way that would negatively affect my career. That's the truth.""

https://www.washingtonpost.com/amphtml/powerpost/congressman-told-woman-he-would-report-her-to-capitol-police-if-she-exposed-his-secret-sex-life/2017/11/22/e3345862-cf10-11e7-a1a3-0d1e45a6de3d_story.html

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
50. Yes, this poster thinks the my-ex-wife revenge porn sites are fine
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 06:29 AM
Nov 2017

Because, sure, if someone commits adultery, they are fair game.

Response to Loki Liesmith (Original post)

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
25. My feelings exactly.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:08 AM
Nov 2017

OP like this belongs on Free Republic. Let them defend this conservative married republican having a relationship in which he send this woman videos and photos and had sex with her while married, by his own admission (which she taped).

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
27. Why would I care that you are sick and tired?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:10 AM
Nov 2017

Barton is an enemy to democrats.

He also appears to be a victim of a crime.

If you can’t see this, I don’t see any point in furthering this interaction.

Cheers.

Response to Loki Liesmith (Reply #27)

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
72. That is uncalled for.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:13 AM
Nov 2017

A personal attack against another DUer simply because you want Barton to go down?

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
44. Is this post of yours good and thoughtful?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:34 AM
Nov 2017

I mean really. I fucking live in Barton's district and I've never voted for that awful SOB. But at the same time I can recognize that it appears that he's actually a victim of revenge porn. I also don't think Franken should resign.

I don't think Barton will resign. He may lose in a contested primary, but considering how gerrymandered the district is, that just means I'll end up with some other POS republican as my "representative."

W_HAMILTON

(7,866 posts)
30. A similar incident forced Anthony Weiner to resign from Congress...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:12 AM
Nov 2017

...and I don't believe he ever threatened anyone like Barton has.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
34. Exactly. Weiner resigned over sexting with adults.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:13 AM
Nov 2017

When I pointed that out, some people started to claim, well Weiner was married. But so was Barton.
Some people are on the wrong website, clearly. They should go to free republic.
And by the way, weren't Weiner's photos all over the internet too? Why didn't anyone defend him as a supposed victim of revenge porn?

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
40. Weiner should have fought back harder...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:27 AM
Nov 2017

Although his interactions with underage interlocutors would have complicated that.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
53. The only person who could make Weiner resign was Weiner
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 06:46 AM
Nov 2017

That's what he chose to do. Of course, he also knew the full extent of his activities in a way that no one else did.

onenote

(42,703 posts)
87. Revenge porn wasn't illegal in NY at the time Weiner got caught
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:07 AM
Nov 2017

In addition, in at least one instance, he was the one that publicly disclosed the photo of himself (by posting it on his public twitter feed).

W_HAMILTON

(7,866 posts)
99. All this "revenge porn" talk is silly.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:08 AM
Nov 2017

The person that recorded the conversation and threatened to go public about Barton's sexual indiscretions wasn't even the person that apparently leaked the nude photo.

It's not illegal to go public about sexual indiscretions and sending a nude pic doesn't change that.

onenote

(42,703 posts)
101. How did the picture/video get from her to the public?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:12 AM
Nov 2017

And yes, making public visual depictions of another persons private parts is illegal in around 40 states.

A lot of people use bad judgment and send explicit "selfies" to people expecting them to remain private. Many times it is the woman that does so -- and the law protects them when the person they sent it to gets pissed and decides to go public with those photos.

spooky3

(34,452 posts)
120. The article states that she previously shared it with
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:15 PM
Nov 2017

other women. Any of them, or people they many have shared it with, could have posted it.

onenote

(42,703 posts)
125. Disclosing it to other women would itself be a violation
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:42 PM
Nov 2017

The law doesn't require that the disclosure be to the general public.

spooky3

(34,452 posts)
127. But its hardly revenge simply to share it with
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:46 PM
Nov 2017

Other women. Seems a lot more evidence of an intent to harm someone would be necessary.

NickB79

(19,243 posts)
126. Even sharing it with one person can violate the law
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:45 PM
Nov 2017

If it was done with malice. And she was the one who subsequently called his office to tell him about it, which doesn't look good for her.

spooky3

(34,452 posts)
129. I was responding to the assertion that she must
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:50 PM
Nov 2017

have been the one who released it to the media. If she or he shared it with other people, then it’s not clear that she was the one who shared it with the media.

madville

(7,410 posts)
42. The police confirmed an investigation
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:30 AM
Nov 2017

Because it looks like she possibly broke some laws in both Texas and DC.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
52. Im curious about something...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 06:34 AM
Nov 2017

If you aren’t engaged in committing a crime, such as the apparent extortion going on here, then how is “threatening to call the police” a big deal?

So what?

onenote

(42,703 posts)
88. there were many reasons he was pushed out. Lying about his actions was one big one
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:10 AM
Nov 2017

After he stupidly posted a picture of himself on his public twitter feed he made up all sorts of stories about being hacked or the picture being doctored etc.

When it came out that he had done this himself and done it multiple times, all while claiming to be happily married, he left himself little option but to quit Congress so he could work on "healing" his marriage.

pwb

(11,265 posts)
55. Another republican Religious pig is exposed and the leak is the big story?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:03 AM
Nov 2017

Russian bots at it again defending the worst of us and making it look not so bad. Barton is a two faced scum talking shit out of both sides of his mouth. A man of values would not do that to his family. Phoney fuck republicans and roger Moore evangelicals deserve no defense of any kind, they fake and are evil.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
62. Revenge porn?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:42 AM
Nov 2017

If I make a tape with or with a person knowledge and then release it when pissed off I could see your point.

But this SOB sent her a photo of himself apparently unsolicited. She had absolutely no responsibility to keep it private.

What a fucking family values hypocrite.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
73. Point made.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:16 AM
Nov 2017

But recording someone then releasing it is, in my opinion, totally different than forwarding something you were sent. It’s like he willingly gave up ownership of his image.

Besides being a blatant hypocrite he is a total dumbass.

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
64. Some people on this board don't care about freedoms when sex is involved. What two consenting adults
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 07:52 AM
Nov 2017

of legal age do sexually that does not harm anyone is nobody's business here.

Their arguments very much parallel the basis for some homophobia.

GoCubsGo

(32,083 posts)
74. Maybe it's nonsense, but it's also Karma.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:17 AM
Nov 2017

This asshole voted to impeach Bill Clinton for over a consensual sex act. Now the old coot was caught sending dick pics to his own mistress. Fuck him. At least his constituents now know he's a dirty, old adulterer and hypocrite. (Not that his will phase many on Team Republicans. IOIYAAR.)

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
121. Being a dirty old adulterer and hypocrite is not a crime.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:21 PM
Nov 2017

Revenge porn or possibly extortion is.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
154. according to many here
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 12:57 AM
Nov 2017

we cannot think revenge porn is a crime AND think that this man is is a poster boy for repuke "family values"

GoCubsGo

(32,083 posts)
159. Yeah, I noticed that.
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 09:10 AM
Nov 2017

And, apparently, we're not allowed to call a hypocrite a "hypocrite", or enjoy it when he gets caught, either.

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
75. If you take a photo of your private parts and send it to someone, I don't think you should have any
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:17 AM
Nov 2017

expectation of privacy. Phones get lost and picked up. People accidently hit a response for everyone. If it's gone out through the Internet it's as much fair game as every other bit of information about you. Whoever leaked it should be given a medal. I haven't laughed that hard since election day.

GoCubsGo

(32,083 posts)
78. Yep. At the very least, he's guilty of lacking common sense.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:21 AM
Nov 2017

The dumbass just created his own "blue dress" with his selfies. What a boob.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
84. Hurray for more victim blaming
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:46 AM
Nov 2017

She was just asking for it, right?

But it's ok if they're a republican.

bearsfootball516

(6,377 posts)
92. The amount of hypocrisy can be astounding, sometimes
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:27 AM
Nov 2017

If the sexting was between two, consenting adults, I have no problem with it. And if she leaked the photos, as much as I dislike Republicans, he's the victim here. Doesn't matter which party he belongs to.

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
96. He's only a victim in that he has a fat, flabby, repulsive body and poor judgement.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:57 AM
Nov 2017

You think if any woman was dumb enough to send him risqué photos he didn't show them around? Lots more of this story to come.

True Dough

(17,305 posts)
93. Aha! Here you are again
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:38 AM
Nov 2017

trying to counter the hypocrisy.

We all can, and should, be opposed to Barton's politics. It's fair game to say he's not the poster boy for "Republican family values," but to cheer for a violation of someone's privacy is just low. For shame.



Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
94. I had to walk away for awhile yesterday as it as getting pretty disgusting
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:51 AM
Nov 2017

And seeing much of it continuing here knowing that if it was on the reverse side or if it was a woman that had it happen to her how'd they react to it.

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
82. It's a misdemeanor so anyone convicted would probably get a fine.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:30 AM
Nov 2017

I imagine once the judge stopped laughing he'd let the lady go with a warning.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
83. Keeping in mind that most of these laws are designed to protect women
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:44 AM
Nov 2017

I'm glad that you think that men who do such things as sharing pictures of their former partners should be let off so easily and that the women will be laughed at.

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
106. I'm not familiar with it, but I think if you send intimate pictures to anyone you shouldn't be
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:29 AM
Nov 2017

surprised when this happens. The laws meant to protect people are fine, especially when it comes to children. I'm not disputing that at all. I'm saying Joe Freaking Barton is an old fool with a teenager's mentality who should not be in Congress. My mind is kind of blown at this point over how many people are in support of Joe Barton in this forum. I hope the rest of Joe's lady friends release their photos, too. The people of Texas need to know about the immature Viagra fan they elected.

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
115. I dont disagree but...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:03 PM
Nov 2017

this is still wrong. If its disclosure makes him more likely to lose an election fine, but pretending like this is part of the abuse narrative and that his ex-lover was justified in doing this is not credible imo.

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
95. I think that's very true. People are hacked every day. Other people use your phone.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:55 AM
Nov 2017

What if the lady's grandchild decides to look at Grandma's photos? The bottom line is any individual who thinks it's a wise thing to send photos of his privates to people does not belong in the Congress of the United States. I would hope we can elect leaders who have an emotional age of at least 12. If Joe Barton was smart he'd slink away into the night and hope that 20 years from now people will have gotten that repulsive image out of their heads. Joe should try sending a nice brooch from Tiffany's instead.

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
100. You can expect anything. It doesn't mean it won't happen.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:10 AM
Nov 2017

I expect my house won't be broken into, but it could be even though there are laws against it. Now . . . I am not going to waste the rest of a perfectly good day in a discussion over Joe Barton's dick pic. He's a fool, end of story.

onenote

(42,703 posts)
103. Yes he's a fool But the law protects fools.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:13 AM
Nov 2017

Young women who send explicit selfies of themselves are fools. But the law protects them, too.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
102. Smartphones. Landlines. Computers connected to the internet in your home. Expect no privacy
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:12 AM
Nov 2017

is what you're saying. Are you sure you're a Democrat?

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
107. You have heard about all the hacks that have occurred recently . . . right?
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:34 AM
Nov 2017

There can be a million laws in place "protecting" people and the next thing you know a person on the other side of the country has taken out a mortgage in your name. Why does protecting my privacy make me not a Democrat? You shouldn't expect the guy who finds your lost phone at McDonald's won't share photos of your bare behind.

onenote

(42,703 posts)
112. The law creates an expectation of privacy.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:53 AM
Nov 2017

Yes people violate the law. But that doesn't mean that there is not a legally enforceable expectation of privacy.

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
116. Expectation isn't certainty.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 12:09 PM
Nov 2017

If someone has their private parts broadcast all around the Internet, it can't be taken back no matter how many laws are in place or how many people are convicted. That dick is there until the end of time. "Expectation" is a pretty low bar in my book.

Kaleva

(36,301 posts)
111. Nope.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:51 AM
Nov 2017

Legally, one may expect a measure of privacy but in a practical sense, one should not because not everyone is a nice person.

We all have the expectation of not being assaulted or robbed but most everyone of us takes steps to prevent or reduce the chance of that happening. We shouldn't have to lock our homes but we do. We avoid bad neighborhoods.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
152. well, you SHOULD
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 12:52 AM
Nov 2017

but in the real world? HELL FUCKING NO.....these people are dumber than fence posts

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
144. Did you make a similar post....
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 04:06 PM
Nov 2017

....when Jennifer Lawrence, Scarlett Johansson and Ariana Grande had their nude photos released?

Vinca

(50,271 posts)
146. I'm afraid I don't keep up with the stars and was unaware of it.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 04:36 PM
Nov 2017

That said, if a person puts out compromising photos of themselves they have no guarantee they won't end up spread far and wide across the Internet forever and ever and ever. Whether or not it's prohibited by law is immaterial. The photos will still be there. You have to be pro-active in protecting your privacy and not allow anything you don't care to share with the world out of your control.

Demsrule86

(68,576 posts)
77. He is in the bible belt, but they usually excuse such behavior which goes against their pretend
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:19 AM
Nov 2017

family values. They will probably go after whatever woman posted it...she after all a jezebel who led this poor Christian man astray (sarcasm).

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
80. Members of Congress making masterbating videos
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:23 AM
Nov 2017

Is a national security risk. If he doesn’t know this, he should not be a Congressman.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
81. I spent a good part of yesterday arguing much the same as you
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:24 AM
Nov 2017

Last edited Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:08 AM - Edit history (1)

Suffice to say, there's a lot of people here that have lost their soul as to what it means to be a liberal and a democrat. They've fallen to the same level of those that they hate.

Blue_Adept

(6,399 posts)
85. This is turning into a perfect view of how tribalism impacts both sides
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 09:52 AM
Nov 2017

It may not feel as strong when you see it on the Democratic side but the amount of victim blaming, shaming, and essentially saying that it's okay because he's a republican, even if what happened to him is wrong and likely illegal, and with what he did being perfectly legal, is just astounding.

This is one of those areas where I get hugely disappointed in my side of the aisle. A cheap scoring of points that degrades your own soul for too many around here.

nolabels

(13,133 posts)
91. It's all relative
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:27 AM
Nov 2017

I once tried to belong to a side or two but found it funny every time something didn't work out so well they ended up writing new rules.

We don't live in a perfect world and we also born imperfect in kind of a perfect way. So this being a known, we then we must just live in this one knowing we are perfect for it all along.

I have also heard to said in somewhat similar terms somewhere "We should never try to live up to others expectations because mostly we cannot even live up to our own"

Irish_Dem

(47,058 posts)
104. For me, it gets to an issue of judgement. We hope our leaders have some basic common sense.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:13 AM
Nov 2017

I don't care about his sex life with consenting adults.
I do care about whether he can make reasonable decisions, since our leaders are making decisions
every day on our behalf.

Irish_Dem

(47,058 posts)
110. Exactly, and could be dangerous, making him a blackmail target.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:46 AM
Nov 2017

And we know what blackmailed leadership looks like.

MFM008

(19,808 posts)
157. There's the problem
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 03:44 AM
Nov 2017

I don't care what consenting adults do as long as they don't scare the horses....
Demo or repubo.
I hate set-ups, hit jobs and stupidity........

Irish_Dem

(47,058 posts)
158. Exactly. Also objectionable, it appears these congressmen have a tax payer funded slush fund
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 08:48 AM
Nov 2017

to pay off victims and also use the capitol police as their personal goon squad to harass
victims who speak out.
 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
113. Completely agree.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:54 AM
Nov 2017

Admittedly a little (well ok, not so little ) part of me enjoys watching the GOP get a taste of their own medicine, but morally he doesn't seem to be in the wrong here. We shouldn't play the same dirty games they do.

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
137. actually we should
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:01 PM
Nov 2017

we should do what ever it takes to win...otherwise we don't have the seats to govern

no_hypocrisy

(46,104 posts)
128. It was private and now it's personally embarrassing.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:49 PM
Nov 2017

Big nothingburger.

Yes, he threatened to call the police, but he had to have known that it was a hollow threat. Once the toothpaste is out of the tube . . . . ,

fleabiscuit

(4,542 posts)
130. The real laugh is someone assuming that email or texting is a private means of communication.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:51 PM
Nov 2017

Don't want it out there? Then don't send it anywhere with your phone or device. Walk or snail mail it there. Otherwise assume everyone might see it.

That's what I taught in my computer use classes. Assumption of privacy is just exactly that. When are adults going to start adulting?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
136. Agreed.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:00 PM
Nov 2017

Make it about the issues again please! We are letting the right wing troll us big time. They know full well none of this will keep them out of office and are trying to get us to deny our own representatives. They know what they are doing.

Bleacher Creature

(11,256 posts)
140. It's the hypocrisy.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:20 PM
Nov 2017

He's had no problem taking positions on how others live their lives. This is just his comeuppance.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
145. Barton is a dirty old man
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 04:13 PM
Nov 2017

But it is illegal what this woman is doing. If you are against revenge porn you must be against this. It's hypocrisy otherwise.

And considering I think the Al Franken stuff is dirty pool, I'm not picking this hill to die on.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
150. these sanctimonious repukes are always carrying on about God and FAMILY VALUES
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 12:46 AM
Nov 2017

may I remind you they're also HOMOPHOBIC, MISOGYNIST and ANTI-BIRTH CONTROL

ZERO sympathy here

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