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a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:05 PM Nov 2017

Im afraid im not going to make it.........

I fear my heart is going to explode. My Senator, Al Franken, is going to be railroaded out of office, my well being is being tossed aside for the amusement of the wealthy, and my sanity is being toyed with by the FAWKING assholes running my country!!! I’m not going to make it.

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Im afraid im not going to make it......... (Original Post) a kennedy Nov 2017 OP
You'll make it. We all will. But it will come with lots of anxiety. octoberlib Nov 2017 #1
I know.....just need to relax..... a kennedy Nov 2017 #10
I know the feeling. SamKnause Nov 2017 #2
Now that you write ruining that fits as well..... a kennedy Nov 2017 #11
Considering nobody's actually calling for Franken to resign... brooklynite Nov 2017 #3
I will, its like this pace never stops.....i feel like ive been on a ride that is going a kennedy Nov 2017 #12
I disagree. There are quite a few, even here, that are calling for it Thor_MN Nov 2017 #37
Several are actually. Think it was Kathleen Rice who called for it earlier OliverQ Nov 2017 #43
A congresswoman from Illinois, a Democrat, appeard on Chuck Todd and said he should resign (nt) question everything Nov 2017 #48
One is a statistically insignificant sample... brooklynite Nov 2017 #50
One person disproves your nobody... TCJ70 Dec 2017 #64
We have a problem and I need for you to listen to this. NCTraveler Nov 2017 #4
Thanks......I know Al will be fine, I will too, just wish the everyday headlines a kennedy Nov 2017 #13
Stop reading the headlines. then they will stop. pangaia Nov 2017 #27
Franken is also my senator.......he is not going to resign Angry Dragon Nov 2017 #5
I know........I just need to relax....stay calm, take a break...... a kennedy Nov 2017 #14
I keep biting all my nails..... we can do it Dec 2017 #55
My booze bill is up this year. sarcasmo Dec 2017 #60
Damn, so is mine! murielm99 Dec 2017 #62
Calm down vlyons Nov 2017 #6
Thanks, just looking for my pipe. a kennedy Nov 2017 #15
What are you putting in your pipe? eom Control-Z Nov 2017 #40
Puppy therapy shenmue Nov 2017 #7
Awwwwwwwww now that is exactly what I needed. a kennedy Nov 2017 #17
Damn. MontanaMama Nov 2017 #41
Dogs are the best medicine there is! BigmanPigman Nov 2017 #18
Your post is a saving grace! Much appreciated. 😘 sprinkleeninow Dec 2017 #58
You're welcome shenmue Dec 2017 #61
I'm a Sicilian woman. My talent is smelling bullshit. When it comes to Franken I smell Roger Stone Ninga Nov 2017 #8
My Italian grandmom smelled something foul beginning with Reagun. BigmanPigman Nov 2017 #16
That's because we know a fascist when we see one. Drahthaardogs Nov 2017 #25
Franken is my Senator, too, and I hate it what's being done to him. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2017 #9
YES you will make it. Lifelong Protester Nov 2017 #19
i love him! samnsara Nov 2017 #20
Me too..... a kennedy Nov 2017 #22
Our history has had much worse times and we persist nonetheless lunatica Nov 2017 #21
I don't believe Franken will resign. He'll weather the storm. mnhtnbb Nov 2017 #23
Thank you......and I know my sanity will be restored, just not soon enough. a kennedy Nov 2017 #24
Just because Trump is going insane, doesn't mean we have to go insane with him. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #26
This is truth. sprinkleeninow Dec 2017 #57
People like Trump create as much negative chaos as possible, and everyone starts to feel crazy. nt Irish_Dem Dec 2017 #63
You say Franken will be railroaded out of office. panader0 Nov 2017 #28
Im mad at it all......all the allegations against Al, the horrible tax bill a kennedy Nov 2017 #36
The stress is killing me n/t hibbing Nov 2017 #29
I share your anxiety. If I could afford it, I'd already be gone to somewhere civilized. Glorfindel Nov 2017 #30
Yes you will, because it's no better for any of us. The KGOP has just gone off the rails. ffr Nov 2017 #31
Breath deeply. Worry about things you can change, and then do something. Observe the rest. Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2017 #32
I know.....serenity now..... a kennedy Nov 2017 #34
Excellent advice.. annabanana Nov 2017 #47
I feel badly Mr.Bill Nov 2017 #33
Gotta be so hard for them. a kennedy Nov 2017 #35
Don't give up. Senator Franken needs all of us to stand with him sarge43 Nov 2017 #38
Thank you. a kennedy Nov 2017 #39
You said it!! sprinkleeninow Dec 2017 #59
Channel that fear toward clarity. Fear means you have something to defend. ancianita Nov 2017 #42
That is so wrong. So wrong, if they railroad him out. He's one of the good guys. nt Honeycombe8 Nov 2017 #44
We can make it Lulu KC Nov 2017 #45
This is pathetic! videohead5 Nov 2017 #46
I don't think this country will survive elmac Nov 2017 #49
Got any pot? ghostsinthemachine Nov 2017 #51
You will make it. Cracklin Charlie Nov 2017 #52
For all those people who are saying that "no one wants him to resign" Ferrets are Cool Dec 2017 #53
By far the best thread cilla4progress Dec 2017 #54
Please don't not make it. I'm in the same state lately. sprinkleeninow Dec 2017 #56
Thanks, and I already feel a tad better today....... a kennedy Dec 2017 #67
come talk to us in the Mental Health support group, seriously steve2470 Dec 2017 #65
Wow, looks like a good place...... a kennedy Dec 2017 #68
.......... steve2470 Dec 2017 #69
hang in there bigtree Dec 2017 #66
Thanks, was just overwhelmed yesterday...... a kennedy Dec 2017 #70

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
1. You'll make it. We all will. But it will come with lots of anxiety.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:07 PM
Nov 2017

I know how you feel. It feels like everything's being destroyed.

SamKnause

(13,088 posts)
2. I know the feeling.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:08 PM
Nov 2017

Did you mean running my country, or ruining my country.

They are the greatest threat this country has ever faced.

They won't stop until the U.S. is a Christian Theocracy run by global corporations.

a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
12. I will, its like this pace never stops.....i feel like ive been on a ride that is going
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:27 PM
Nov 2017

at break neck speed and it isn’t going to stop.

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
37. I disagree. There are quite a few, even here, that are calling for it
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 07:07 PM
Nov 2017

And those that are not exactly helpful.

"The time has come for people here to stop disparaging the Franken accusation...
...or trying to explain it away as a RW hoax"
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029850269

"SO Senator Franken apologized for a "made up" incident?"
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029850472#post2

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
4. We have a problem and I need for you to listen to this.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:10 PM
Nov 2017

Franken will be fine, in or out of office. Chances are better than not he will have an amazing rest to his life. Like all of us he will suffer pain along the way. Some unjust. Minnesota will also be fine. Far too often we live in the moment when the game we are playing is long.

Dig deep. Do some extreme self-reflection. Get off the 24 hour bullshit news for just a short time. Stabilize. Stabilize. Stabilize. I, along with millions of others, desperately need a healthy and energetic you. It starts and ends with you.

Please my friend, please.

a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
13. Thanks......I know Al will be fine, I will too, just wish the everyday headlines
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:30 PM
Nov 2017

that are worse day after day would stop. It’s just so overwhelming, but I will try to relax.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
27. Stop reading the headlines. then they will stop.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:46 PM
Nov 2017

If you can fix something, then there is nothing to worry about.
If you can NOT fix something, why worry about it?

I'm pretty good at giving other advice; an expert, in fact.
Not always so good at following my OWN advice, however.



murielm99

(30,717 posts)
62. Damn, so is mine!
Fri Dec 1, 2017, 01:57 AM
Dec 2017

Sober or otherwise, I do not think Franken will resign. I believe he will be vindicated. Something will happen to take the spotlight off Franken.

He is a fighter. And Minnesotans are stubborn and tough. All those Swedes and Germans will not put up with this crap. They will dig in, quietly, but they will dig in.

If he was up for reelection right now, I have little doubt that he would win.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
6. Calm down
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:11 PM
Nov 2017

We need to remain calm, steady, and focused on winning Dem elections. It is heroic and virtuous to remain calm in the midst of chaos and degeneracy. Get a grip. Give yourself a little pep talk.

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
18. Dogs are the best medicine there is!
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:35 PM
Nov 2017

I have been holding and stroking mine to try to calm down for over 2 years...I think I am wearing her fur off. Pink, soft, warm puppy bellies are the best cure for what ails you.

Ninga

(8,272 posts)
8. I'm a Sicilian woman. My talent is smelling bullshit. When it comes to Franken I smell Roger Stone
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:19 PM
Nov 2017

and Project Veritas.

the photos and claims of the women who were Republican admitted Trump voters, smell.

the anonymous "victims," smell real bad

Here's what I say. I stand with Al. Now I will call my senator again and beg him not to vote for the tax bill.

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
16. My Italian grandmom smelled something foul beginning with Reagun.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:32 PM
Nov 2017

The GOP is what stinks to high heaven, at least since 1980.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,587 posts)
9. Franken is my Senator, too, and I hate it what's being done to him.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 05:21 PM
Nov 2017

I am becoming more convinced that, while the USO show had its bawdy moments and he participated in them, most of this is a setup by Roger Stone or his ilk. The timing, especially Al's takedown of Jeff Sessions, the anonymity of the latest accusers and the involvement of the others with the GOP makes the whole thing smell pretty bad. But I don't think Franken will be driven out of office, although Conyers might be.

The rest of it, though - yeah, it sucks - hard enough to bend light. I keep trying to remind myself that the way power is taken from you is by convincing you that you don't have any. But right now I think we are all feeling pretty helpless because the GOP is hell-bent on fucking us over just because they can. Their donors have ordered them to cut taxes on them, or no more rides on the gravy train. The rest of us are just collateral damage. And if the donors open their wallets again, the fact that the bill is resoundingly unpopular won't matter.

In the meantime, the president is obviously barking mad and ready to start a nuclear war - but the GOP doesn't care because they want those tax cuts.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
21. Our history has had much worse times and we persist nonetheless
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:36 PM
Nov 2017

Just think of it as living in one of those hard times. It's interesting times indeed!

mnhtnbb

(31,374 posts)
23. I don't believe Franken will resign. He'll weather the storm.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:39 PM
Nov 2017

He knows what is at stake.

Hang in there.

Irish_Dem

(46,499 posts)
26. Just because Trump is going insane, doesn't mean we have to go insane with him.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:44 PM
Nov 2017

I believe that all of this is going to get sorted out on the side of justice.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
28. You say Franken will be railroaded out of office.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:48 PM
Nov 2017

In an earlier OP you were "mad as hell" about Franken supposedly
"cupping" a woman's breast. With no evidence except her word.
So which is it? Are you "mad as hell" at Franken, or do you think he is
being railroaded?

a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
36. Im mad at it all......all the allegations against Al, the horrible tax bill
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 07:07 PM
Nov 2017

the damn idiot in the White House, Repubs that just flat out lie and no one holds them responsible.....

Glorfindel

(9,719 posts)
30. I share your anxiety. If I could afford it, I'd already be gone to somewhere civilized.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:50 PM
Nov 2017

As it is, I'll just have to ride it out here.

ffr

(22,665 posts)
31. Yes you will, because it's no better for any of us. The KGOP has just gone off the rails.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:53 PM
Nov 2017

They are at war with America.

Bernardo de La Paz

(48,957 posts)
32. Breath deeply. Worry about things you can change, and then do something. Observe the rest.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 06:57 PM
Nov 2017

Maintain calm awareness.

Be poised to shift stance quickly.

Don't fight fears or worries. Whenever fears and worries rush in to overwhelm you, just say to yourself "Oh, hi. You again." Then mentally in your mind open a window and let a breeze waft them away. Direct yourself to something that needs to be done, not as a distraction, but as a way to maintain progress forward.

We will survive. We will persist and persevere.

You, me, DU, Democrats, the USA, this beautiful world. We will persist and triumph together.

a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
34. I know.....serenity now.....
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 07:04 PM
Nov 2017

am just taking deep breaths, not watching any news channels, and reminding myself it’s going to get better.

sarge43

(28,940 posts)
38. Don't give up. Senator Franken needs all of us to stand with him
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 07:13 PM
Nov 2017

You most of all.

All of us are the descendants of men and women who faced wars, depressions, discrimination, homelessness and much more. They endured, survived and overcame. We have it in us to do the same.

Our enemy have nothing to sustain them but greed, fear and hate. We're better than that, much better. We have faith in ourselves, each other and this nation's ideals. We are going to kick their collective ass.

So take a deep breath, a break and step back up when you're ready.

ancianita

(35,933 posts)
42. Channel that fear toward clarity. Fear means you have something to defend.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 07:27 PM
Nov 2017

The next time you're confronted by any Minnesotan with doubts, remind them of what TygerBright said here recently:

Al Franken did not, in any context, seek to

-- sexually assault a 14 year old girl.
-- induce nine women who didn't know each other to come forward with essentially the same story about preying on women FAR too young for the preyer.
-- brag about grabbing women by their pussies.
-- walk into the dressing room of a teenage beauty contest and ogle girls and very young women.
-- speak about his own daughter in the most disgusting ways not just once, but on multiple occasions, in multiple venues, and in highly public settings.
-- ignore the allegations of more than a dozen women who did not know each other yet made very similar allegations of groping, hands up skirts, vagina touching, and more.
-- refute what is increasingly being shown to be spurious charges at best, if not outright lies.
-- even breathe a HINT of a negative statement against his questionable accuser.
-- deflect the focus on him by publicly dissing others accused of similar actions

On the other hand, unlike Republican sexual predators, he did in the present context . . .

-- quickly acknowledge the accusations, even as the accuser has shown herself to have a political and personal agenda well beyond the allegations made.
--offer a public apology.
--deliver a hand written personal apology.
-- call for the Senate to do an ethics probe into the incident.
-- quietly withdraw from the controversy and allow the accuser to speak unrefuted.

Remember the contextual facts behind these women's claims. Stand with the those who admit human mistakes in understandable past contexts, rather than those who deny/deflect their actual factual sexual acts in any past context.

Anger is a genetic gift that helps us defend what's beautiful, good and true. Anger helps the good survive. Don't be afraid. You're going to be okay.

Lulu KC

(2,560 posts)
45. We can make it
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 07:43 PM
Nov 2017

Something hit me today and I felt the same way. The tax bill seems to be my breaking point. It's filled with too many personal effects and dangers to those around me who are poor.

I looked up some recent Colbert segments, then distanced myself from my phone and laptop for about six hours and just lived an ordinary life. Grocery shopping, returning something to a store, ordering a birthday cake, and looking up to see a beautiful moon while an owl hooted--all of these things were restorative. Now I'm checking the headlines to see if any missles have been sent or received, if the tax bill has passed, and who else has been accused of sexual harrassment. After that, it's reading fun fiction tonight. Maybe some Scarlatti piano sonatas. He seems to cheer me up. No more intake of news after now.

I have to up my restorative activities and reduce my news intake or I will truly explode. A couple more indictments from Mr. Mueller would help, I must say!

Hang in there with us, a kennedy. Take care of yourself.

videohead5

(2,165 posts)
46. This is pathetic!
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 07:55 PM
Nov 2017

The photo the latest woman put out does not show any groping his hand is on her side.this is ridiculous.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
52. You will make it.
Thu Nov 30, 2017, 11:59 PM
Nov 2017

You are a DU’er!

Have one of these



Over tonight’s huge story from the NYT, and
Snap out of it!

It’s gonna be okay.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,102 posts)
53. For all those people who are saying that "no one wants him to resign"
Fri Dec 1, 2017, 12:00 AM
Dec 2017

As allegations mounted against Franken, several fellow Democratic members of Congress said Thursday that he should resign. Rep. Joe Crowley of New York, the chairman of the House Democratic Caucus, and Rep. Tim Ryan of Ohio said separately that it’s time for Franken to go.

This is not NO ONE.

Besides there are other things in his post that are making many wring their hands in despair.

cilla4progress

(24,717 posts)
54. By far the best thread
Fri Dec 1, 2017, 12:00 AM
Dec 2017

I’ve ever read here.

I imagined we are another 60 degrees of hell down the road, and these being the comments.

Your true colors came out and they are beautiful.

sprinkleeninow

(20,215 posts)
56. Please don't not make it. I'm in the same state lately.
Fri Dec 1, 2017, 12:56 AM
Dec 2017

We all need one another to face what's next coming down the pike.

a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
67. Thanks, and I already feel a tad better today.......
Fri Dec 1, 2017, 10:34 AM
Dec 2017

it's just non stop with shit from this White House and all who are connected with it.

a kennedy

(29,615 posts)
70. Thanks, was just overwhelmed yesterday......
Fri Dec 1, 2017, 10:39 AM
Dec 2017

Feel better today......and it is a new day. Thank you. We are all in this together.

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